@To Tell The Truth you said it,but the people want to be " trendy" and agree like puppets to Chris...they cant see the man did NOTHING WRONG. he's not an American.he has his own style and way of talking. It doesnt make him " bad" .don't like him..move on, the man's not for you!!!
0:24 Andi: "I wasn't in love with you." Juan: "That's perfect." oh mann this guy trolled everyone you can actually see he's trying to hold back a smile
She wanted him to beg her to stay, you know, just a little. Or to be upset with her leaving him. But he just said "that's perfect" which made her mad. Lmao
im venezuelan and thats how most of venezuelan men are. always when you tried to speak with them about important things they run away or avoid or tell you that its ok hahaha crazy!
TheMariely6 Weak men see strong women as bitchy when really they just can't handle how straight forward and strong they really are.They need to actually man up and be a real man.
really? please don't generalize I mean, I'm venezuelan and I'm not like you say. so everyone are differents and doesn't mean that all of us are like that.
I have never been a fan of JP but after watching this back years later, I’m starting to think it was the language barrier. His automatic response was “it’s ok” bc it’s the easiest response rather than getting verbal with emotional words. My spanish speaking family members respond somewhat similarly lol. Poor guy
Jenna Denjern and do you realize jp has made controversial comments about marriage and sexuality? He's also made the women cry, he refused to say the L word to any of the the women and didn't propose during the live show. Not to mention that he's caused many celebrities to hate him. I don't love Andi but Juan Pablo is way more disgusting.
Amir Miles My number one pet peeve is when people put words in my damn mouth. Please don't put words in my mouth. I never said he was an asshole for not finding love. Read the comments and you'll see why I think he's an asshole. No I don't buy into it but I watch it because it's entertaining.
What did she want??? She says she's not in love and won't be....I think his response is perfect. Does she want him to be devastated or hysterical????!!!
I dont see andy showing emotion telling him she wasn't in love with him either. Is he supposed to cry? It was ok with him. Because he's mature and can handle it...but SHE couldn't deal with him not fawning over her and acting all crazy!!! And that's the truth!!!!
The response from his side was absolutely excellent. She was hoping for something that would make him hysterical and emotional, but instead, he’s super cool and responds completely appropriately to her questions, not even getting upset in any way. He also mentions that he respects her feelings. It’s her who can’t handle the situation because she obviously likes him “A lot” but he doesn’t meet her expectations… that’s what ‘that’s ok’ means
Both of them have big egos. Andi knew she wouldn't be picked and so she was going to strike first to save face. I agree, he didn't seem to have any feelings or empathy for her. Neither of these two were very likable.
Where is she today? Still looking ... look at that tell all book she wrote about the other guy she dated ... said he was abusive blah blah and now she's on book 3 .. what man in their right mind would want her?
Lmao, she tried to get a rise out of him like the little narcissistic psychopath she is, failed and all the women are butthurt that he just doesn't give a shit enough to care about her worthless opinions. I'm glad he frustrated the dozy cow.
hislord1 😂😂 the whole point of coming on the show was to find love. Like all the seasons of the bachelor before this one. So yeah she was upset lol. You’re so dumb, just shut it
this guy is a true alpha, she's soooooo mad he's not reacting to her saying shes not in love, he played his cards perfectly, she thought he would start crying and get mopped like all the other guys she said that to.
Like you have to be an insufferable somebody to break up with someone for the purpose of witnessing his/her heart break over you. And if that doesn't happen it's a problem. Lol people must stop playing games.
psychological manipulation at its finest. He genuinely didn't care, she couldn't make someone like him care or be empathetic towards her feelings because its all about him. He doesn't care about her
psychological manipulation at its worst. She was trying her hardest to make dump come over 'hard' and continued striving to that until she realized he just doesn't care.
I don’t blame the guy. Must be tough handling that many broads who don’t speak Spanish and being from an entirely different culture all together. In the end, it was the producers’ faults for the debacle that played out. Should’ve never casted JP in the first place.
I have mixed feelings about this..She told him “I so badly want to fall in love”. Then she talked about not knowing if their connection was just physical..I mean how should he feel? He didn’t hop from girl to girl kissing them, he only kissed the ones he cared about & went on one on ones. So he didn’t lead them on..(in my opinion) When Andi was the bachelorette, she completely blindsided someone..he ended up being the villain for his honest question! She told Nick she wasn’t in love with him (but yet led him to the proposal day) He said to her, “you’re not in love with me..so why would you tell me all those things & then make love to me.” What sucks is, these people get blindsided or heartbroken as a contestant by the lead..but when they’re the next lead, they do the same thing, if not worse!! Becca (in my opinion) was worse than Arie, Bc she knew how it felt..She would run up to them, wrap her legs around them or say “HIIIIII!!!!” Make out with them, but by the next half of the date- I’m not where you are & I don think I can get there. 🤷🏻♀️ I honestly think Juan Pablo, was really misunderstood..but maybe I’m missing something.
Lol you are missing the fact that Juan lacked compassion. Even if the lead is blind siding someone you try to apologize and reassure them in some way, he didn't care, that was the problem. He also didn't take the experience seriously and like Andi said, these ppl leave jobs and family behind, miss birthdays and weddings for this, so respect their time just like they should respect yours.
@@rays.3242they get to travel all over the world. It is a vacation and experience and an opportunity to a million other doors and you get to be on TV. Its not a sacrifice
david martignetti no it’s just that he doesn’t give her anything all he says is that everything is okay and it just proves her point that she can’t ever love him because there’s nothing to him but the fact that he says everything is OKAY
It’s appears that way on the surface, but watching their whole journey, her problem was that Juan Pablo was so into himself. He very much had this mindset that “I don’t have to put myself out there. If you don’t love me, other women here will.”
david martignetti I think Andi was just upset that he isn’t acknowledging her frustration, he keeps shrugging off everything she is saying and it comes off rude. It’s not just a girl thing, guys can feel this way too. If you’re never bothered by people being ungrateful for your time / effort, then I guess you’ll never understand that feeling.
S J Thank you! I agree. Also she was probably trying hard to make it work from what she describes and so he comes off like he didn’t have any feelings about her. Even if you want to break up, it’s usually hard. It would have been a little kinder if he showed this is hard for him even if he didn’t feel it that deeply. She is an individual even if they couldn’t make it work
It's okay. I'm sorry but I like this dude. He did his thing and he didn't go by Chris Harrison rules like them others do. He didn't say I love to to the women. He didn't propose to any of them. He didn't find love. He told it like it was. He stayed true to himself. Unlike the others like Peter Webber. Ewwww. He makes me sick. I knew he was gonna be a bad one. Juan Pablo is my fave bachelor. Sorry not sorry.
They made him out to be some crazy weirdo because he didn't pick someone...they were ugly and nasty to him...he didnt do anything wrong. On the contrary, he wasn't in love with anyone and didn't fool anyone with lies. Its a two way street, and Andy couldn't handle NOT BEING LOVED and wanted affirmation, when she's telling HIM she doesn't love him. How hypocritical is that? He wasn't crestfallen...so? He said its O.K. what's wrong with that. He expressed his emotion, didn't hurt anyone. Why is he getting all this hate and negativity? So you can be on Chris's side and play along? Claire was disgusting too. You take a chance coming on here. You lost. Suck it up and be civil. There's always a loser in this game, and she couldn't handle it!!! Nobody ever told someone off the way she did. It was HER and not JP that was wrong, but you took a man who did nothing wrong and ruined his reputation. Shame on you ABC producers...this is his style of talking saying its o.k when you wanted and decided what he should say. You pick and choose whom to highlight and who to destroy...we all heard the AFTER stories about production. You couldn't fool everyone, certainly not me. He tried, didn't find love ..not the first one not to, but Chris was disgusting in how he handled him at the ATFR..he just took cover after he threw him under the bus. He aint no fool JP and realized what they were up to. If you go against them, have your own mind, are not a puppet, they destroy you!
Who cares? He isn't that into her and shows it. Move on girl lol. I'm not a fan of his but she's a bit dramatic. He clearly does not care and wants her to go away instead of rant.
Unpopular opinion perhaps years later, but I don't think JP is as bad and terrible as people think. He was good with Desiree and Sharleen and Nikki are still to this day saying good things about him. The thing was the he only liked Sharleen and when she left, he didn't know what to do with the rest.
Anyone defending Juan Pablo is being willingfuly obtuse about his one dimensional behavior. Andi explained perfectly why she was frustrated with the fake "it's okay" reply to any kind of conversation containing depth. I keep reading people claiming Juan is being "real". What are you talking about? He intentionally signed on to come onto a show about love, romance, and marriage and then carried on to contradict everything. How real is that? If he was real and uncomfortable with the concept and not open to finding love and being vulnerable then he never would have signed up in the first place. But, oh waittttttt.....he went along with it anyway because it was him as a lead on a national tv show. Pablo's priorities were clear from day one. He just wanted to fuck, that's it. He had no business as the bachelor. Period.
Dude. No one. I mean, no one, goes on The Bachelor to find love. I’m not jaded enough to think it never happens incidentally during the 8 weeks they are filming. The conditions the producers create are perfect and carefully designed to trick people into thinking they’ll last forever. That’s why you get all these juicy sound bites every season. But absolutely no single 20 something needs to be on The Bachelor to find romance. The anger at him, I think, is because he signed onto a show with no regard at all to act how ABC wanted him to act. I say I think, because producers could have edited this to make him look like a hero. But they didn’t because he didn’t play ball. That’s why a lot of people find him to be “real”. It’s also why he’s vilified to this day.
And you have the inside scoop to his HEART dont ya,? Or know why he came, who is slept with, as if others get a free pass to do the same and not get destroyed by ppl like you!!! Bead womack left 2 woman standing. There is no rule you must pick someone at the end. There was NOTHING wrong with what he did, just because you didn't personally go for his personality type. Its obvious nikki and claire liked him a lot, just Claire couldn't handle that he wasn't her choice or in love with her!!!!!! Claire is a time bomb, good luck to any man who can't see behind her mask..she is bad news, sensitive, emotionally childish and rude.
I mean you just told him you cant be in love with him on national tv, what are you expecting a grown man to do ? Cry & beg you to try ? To feed your ego ?
i feel like this might be a bit of a cultural thing? i’m not for sure but certain people groups respond to bad news with words like ok or fine as a way to not make the other person feel bad about they way they’re feeling. it’s not okay, but it’s okay that she feels that way. that’s i think what he is trying to say here. i don’t fault him for that.
that’s literally not the case, she was mad because he didnt care that she was leaving. all that time and emotion she invested, she decided to leave and he’s just like “its okay”
@@bubblegum-ww6fy yeah he said it’s okay because he can’t force her to stay . He’s very blunt , probably too blunt but I feel like Andi has a large ego and it took a hit here
She left everything behind to meet a man, she didn't like him, so leave...instead she gave him a 1/2 hour lecture why he was so rotten and uninterested, blah blah. I would have just told him it didn't work and nice meeting you and walked out ... who says its going to work? Its a chance they both took!
Yeah, he comes across as uncaring but as I’ve gotten older I find I relate more and more to Juan. Life throws awful, soul crushing things your way. But maybe the worst part about it is that it just goes on. There isn’t time to break down or lose your way every time something bad happens. People die, families drift apart, you lose money and jobs. And life keeps on moving. So yeah, now that I’m approaching 40 I can respect the measured “It’s ok” responses from him.
@@popperpoppler4569 true! Because at the end of the day it really is gonna be “ok” we can’t sit and dwell when things do t work out .. especially dating . We wish eachother the best and move on .
I dont understand why everyone is attacking juan pablo, he probably had the best reaction. he's probably dying on the inside however he's realistic... i mean what its the urge to see someone hurt? him crying will make her change her mind? i doubt it, he is a realist and probably had in his mind this concept "You are not made of gold to be liked by everyone"
It wasn’t HER show for him to be obligated to sit there and listen to her reasonings! It was HIS show! She was out of line based on the concept of the show. She should have just kept it short and answered his questions if he inquired as to why... not force it on him if he obviously wasn’t interested. It wasn’t fair for her to sabotage HIS time in the spotlight.
@vman armand - So she basically felt entitled enough to demand that he listen to why she was leaving? I mean, you have to be highly sociopathic and narcissistic to believe once you've made you disinterest clear, that the other person has to sit there with a straight face and listen to you mouth off. He doesn't have to see anything from anyone else's view, she's not into him and that's that. She's one woman and women come in a variety of personalities. Trying to understand her will not give him an insight into how women work. The reality is that she tried to get a rise out of him and he wasn't having it.
I’m not surprised hostile belligerent catty women hate this guy. He had to field his way through a slew of women with serious issues, who wanted to get reactions out of him and break his calm and centred and polite demeanour. They couldn’t handle not being treated like the centre of the universe. They suffered from the typical “Disney Princess pathology”. Which is kind of a misnomer because Disney Princesses were way more charming and feminine and sweet than the girls on this show. Throughout history men often left their homes and wife and children for years to seek out their wealth and return with fortune and abundance. And the wife stayed the course, tried and true; worthy of admiration and unneeding of constant reassurance and attention. These days if you don’t immediately shower a typical American drama queen with all the affection and emotions of a movie star then she will be tempted to scratch your eyes out. Imagine how she would react if you shit tested her 😳!
he was literally the WORST bachelor, literally two women left him for the same reason. Sharleen left him because she didnt think there was a mental connection and andi left for pretty much the same reason. This man must be empty because women are not connecting with him emotionally, he came off simple this whole season
Honestly just because there is no compatibility or connection between two people, it doesn't make either of them a bad person. Why would that make him the worst bachelor?
Girls from Australia bachelor revealed that half of the girls wanted to leave at half way along the show but producers promised them a spot in Bachelor in paradise au if they stayed until them have been eliminated. It's not all like it seems.
... I agree with him, what was she expecting from him? She is just bothered because he is not trying to keep her, was she expecting him to cry and beg her to say he is in love?
"I want to die if I have to hear it's ok again" "That's fine" lol
Exactly what I was going to say! I cracked up when he came back with "that's fine."
Can you imagine being married to him?! You'd be pissed at him daily hearing "Iz ok."
@@lilacshine9 why does he always say is okay? In every scene I've seen of him and I didn't watch the whole thing. Is he from a different country?
@@lilacshine9 Good not everyone wants to fight.
@To Tell The Truth you said it,but the people want to be " trendy" and agree like puppets to Chris...they cant see the man did NOTHING WRONG. he's not an American.he has his own style and way of talking. It doesnt make him " bad" .don't like him..move on, the man's not for you!!!
"all of us have thoughts"
lol I'm dying
+PiraClue 😭💀😂
He's on to something
Es ok.😆✌
I swear this guy is on something😅😅
0:24 Andi: "I wasn't in love with you."
Juan: "That's perfect."
oh mann this guy trolled everyone you can actually see he's trying to hold back a smile
Yeah I don’t really get why he’d be smiling in that moment
I love this guy 😂
lmao i love it, best bachelor ever
@To Tell The Truth wut r u talking about?
he was such a waste of time. his attitude was awful. how did he qualify for the show? lol
Whenever I feel anxious or unsure about the future I come back to this so I can hear Juan Pablo say:
“IT’S OK.”
dude is the epitome of "is only a game, why u hav to be mad"
Rumor has it, it's still okay
She wanted him to beg her to stay, you know, just a little. Or to be upset with her leaving him. But he just said "that's perfect" which made her mad. Lmao
Haha exactly.
He ain’t no simp
Bingo. Women love validation.
More like show some emotional IQ. This boy had none
@@qtip3998 More like he didn't want to follow the script
im venezuelan and thats how most of venezuelan men are. always when you tried to speak with them about important things they run away or avoid or tell you that its ok hahaha crazy!
TheMariely6 not all Venezuelan men are like that, they just can't handle a girl with bitchy feeling...🙄 oops
TheMariely6 Weak men see strong women as bitchy when really they just can't handle how straight forward and strong they really are.They need to actually man up and be a real man.
Gillian M sure whatever you say sweetheart.😆
really? please don't generalize I mean, I'm venezuelan and I'm not like you say. so everyone are differents and doesn't mean that all of us are like that.
Blackfalk because Europeans settled there.
ITS OK😂😂😂😂😂
I have never been a fan of JP but after watching this back years later, I’m starting to think it was the language barrier. His automatic response was “it’s ok” bc it’s the easiest response rather than getting verbal with emotional words. My spanish speaking family members respond somewhat similarly lol. Poor guy
Yes, I agree. The bachelor franchise threw him under the bus for their own script ratings.
i agree & honestly at first he’s just letting her know just not to feel bad by saying it’s okay, you know?
They edited 10 hour dates into 2 minute dates and made him look bad. All because he didn't follow the script
But then there’s the “everyone has thoughts”. He just doesn’t give a shit about anything lol
Poor guy? It’s not that complicated dude doesn’t give a fuck. He doesn’t care that she’s leaving or not. He got what he wanted.
0:25 she said she isn´t in love with him and he replied ´´it´s perfect.´´ just no
PiraClue that part was awesome.😋😆
That part was great. 😂😂😂
I died lol
He just like okay finally i can breath out
😂😂the best part
"Ok, mhm, okay... it's ok...mhm..... ok. - Juan Pablo 2014
“That’s fine.”
He needs a t-shirt that says 'its ok'😅
He was the worst bachlor ever! Andi did the right thing!
JP was no angel, but Andi is disgusting.
Not nearly as disgusting as jp though
Jenna Denjern and do you realize jp has made controversial comments about marriage and sexuality? He's also made the women cry, he refused to say the L word to any of the the women and didn't propose during the live show. Not to mention that he's caused many celebrities to hate him. I don't love Andi but Juan Pablo is way more disgusting.
Jenna Denjern the whole point of the show is to find love. He should never had agreed to do it. He was simply horrible whether you think so or not.
Amir Miles My number one pet peeve is when people put words in my damn mouth. Please don't put words in my mouth. I never said he was an asshole for not finding love. Read the comments and you'll see why I think he's an asshole. No I don't buy into it but I watch it because it's entertaining.
'''I cannot force you to feel something for me'' lmaooo this guy is my spirit animal
I love Juan publo. Chill af.
Nothing wrong with what he said. Abc destroyed him for no good reason
this guy is a pure narcissistic sociopath. Are you fucking serious. Disgusting.
@@epichighslowsofhighschoolf3074 you seem like a whacko
And and wrote a book "it's not okay" lol
He didn't want this chick & he didn't care. Juan Pablo's giant DBery was the best thing for this trainwreck franchise. Clusterf* perfection..
He looks at her as if she's a joke lol
In your perception. I dont see that
This man just destroyed her with "okay"'s
He switched to "it's fine" later.
What did she want??? She says she's not in love and won't be....I think his response is perfect. Does she want him to be devastated or hysterical????!!!
It was all a set up for her to become the next bachelorette.
Oh well karma got to her when Nick revealed her their little secret 😂
"It's ok" & "mmmhm huh" is all he said, he was literally the worst bachelor yet
But he was a real nigga tho
I enjoyed him speak for yourself
Pilot Peter would like a word...🥴
Or the best
I laugh when she says she gonnablow if he says It’s OK... and his response That’s Fine. Lmao!!!!
I realized that I was wasn't in love with you
Thats perfect
Lol 😂😂😂😂😂😂
This guy went on the show to get laid. They should have stopped production.
She said she left her family, her job, but after the show, she quit her job and moved to NY!
He's so annoying.He doesn't even show any emotion,always says its ok its fine
I dont see andy showing emotion telling him she wasn't in love with him either. Is he supposed to cry? It was ok with him. Because he's mature and can handle it...but SHE couldn't deal with him not fawning over her and acting all crazy!!! And that's the truth!!!!
hes a sociopath abuser. He makes me sick to my stomach just listening and watching him.
@@epichighslowsofhighschoolf3074 getting worked up over reality TV. 😂😂😂
Juan Pablo keeping it simple unlike like andi trying to keep it complicated.
Es ok
This guys is the human embodiment of cardboard.
Real men don't emote like vaginal outlets. DUH
Speak for yourself he's better that you can ever be... When it's complicated n hard it's because the guy just ain't into you.
"Thats perfect " lmfaooooo
He is the king of not giving a fuck.
The response from his side was absolutely excellent. She was hoping for something that would make him hysterical and emotional, but instead, he’s super cool and responds completely appropriately to her questions, not even getting upset in any way. He also mentions that he respects her feelings. It’s her who can’t handle the situation because she obviously likes him “A lot” but he doesn’t meet her expectations… that’s what ‘that’s ok’ means
Both of them have big egos. Andi knew she wouldn't be picked and so she was going to strike first to save face. I agree, he didn't seem to have any feelings or empathy for her. Neither of these two were very likable.
Where is she today? Still looking ... look at that tell all book she wrote about the other guy she dated ... said he was abusive blah blah and now she's on book 3 .. what man in their right mind would want her?
25 of them did!
He didn’t give her satisfaction she was looking for lol...well played haha
She wanted him to get emotional and get into a back and forth, he refused to give in 😂😂😂
I'm glad she stood up to this little jerk and told him off. Ugg. He's such a bore and so self centered.
Lmao, she tried to get a rise out of him like the little narcissistic psychopath she is, failed and all the women are butthurt that he just doesn't give a shit enough to care about her worthless opinions. I'm glad he frustrated the dozy cow.
Why because he didn't want get upset like her lol
hislord1 😂😂 the whole point of coming on the show was to find love. Like all the seasons of the bachelor before this one. So yeah she was upset lol. You’re so dumb, just shut it
The best bachelor ever.
this guy is a true alpha, she's soooooo mad he's not reacting to her saying shes not in love, he played his cards perfectly, she thought he would start crying and get mopped like all the other guys she said that to.
hes a narcissistic sociopath.
Juan Pablo may as well have been David Puddy from “Seinfeld.”
“Yeah that’s right.”
Clearly Ali can’t handle rejection.
She can’t handle that he’s not that bothered
This guy kicked ass.
She wants drama and he couldn't care less. HA HA HA. Good for him for not falling into her trap.
Soraya Esfandiary esacly. Lol
He's like a Venezuelan Tommy Wiseau
"all of us have thoughts" LOL
If someone ever breaks up with me I’m going to react like Juan Pablo just to piss them off. Unfazed😂😂
Lol
Yess😂😂🤣🤣
Like you have to be an insufferable somebody to break up with someone for the purpose of witnessing his/her heart break over you. And if that doesn't happen it's a problem. Lol people must stop playing games.
She wanted him to fight for her and be all dramatic lol 😂
It's perfect 😂😂
psychological manipulation at its finest. He genuinely didn't care, she couldn't make someone like him care or be empathetic towards her feelings because its all about him. He doesn't care about her
Well obviously she wasn’t the one for him, so if he didn’t care, he didn’t care
psychological manipulation at its worst. She was trying her hardest to make dump come over 'hard' and continued striving to that until she realized he just doesn't care.
No all she wanted was him to act heartbroken then when he didn't she got all upset cuz her ego was hurt
This is the first suggested video for my Demo Reel. Thanks Juan Pablo for making my demo reel 80 times better.
This man...I swear.🤣😹💀👏
Its ok.....
It's fine
Juan Basic Answer: "it's ok" Haha He's not a Great Debater like Attorney Andi. lol
Why should he debate her? He let others go. She said she wasn't in love with him. Byee Andi. Weak case.
BYE FELICIA!
"It's okay" *leaves the bachelor and never comes back*
And IT IS OK 😂😂
Andi’s face at the end is priceless. Never watched this season and I’m glad. The dude is a d-bag!
He did nothing wrong lol
Whether you watch it or not... its ok.
@yelissacordero3021 you're missing a whole season of drama lol
I don’t blame the guy. Must be tough handling that many broads who don’t speak Spanish and being from an entirely different culture all together. In the end, it was the producers’ faults for the debacle that played out. Should’ve never casted JP in the first place.
juan Pablo should be the Lawyer. He is So Chill. "He take honest too far"???? Did Andi say that? Bahaha
The Most UNBOTHERED BACHELOR of ALL TIME 👑😂
Juan Pablo is the sleaziest bachelor ever...
I have mixed feelings about this..She told him “I so badly want to fall in love”. Then she talked about not knowing if their connection was just physical..I mean how should he feel?
He didn’t hop from girl to girl kissing them, he only kissed the ones he cared about & went on one on ones. So he didn’t lead them on..(in my opinion) When Andi was the bachelorette, she completely blindsided someone..he ended up being the villain for his honest question! She told Nick she wasn’t in love with him (but yet led him to the proposal day) He said to her,
“you’re not in love with me..so why would you tell me all those things & then make love to me.” What sucks is, these people get blindsided or heartbroken as a contestant by the lead..but when they’re the next lead, they do the same thing, if not worse!!
Becca (in my opinion) was worse than Arie, Bc she knew how it felt..She would run up to them, wrap her legs around them or say “HIIIIII!!!!” Make out with them, but by the next half of the date- I’m not where you are & I don think I can get there. 🤷🏻♀️
I honestly think Juan Pablo, was really misunderstood..but maybe I’m missing something.
Lol you are missing the fact that Juan lacked compassion. Even if the lead is blind siding someone you try to apologize and reassure them in some way, he didn't care, that was the problem. He also didn't take the experience seriously and like Andi said, these ppl leave jobs and family behind, miss birthdays and weddings for this, so respect their time just like they should respect yours.
@@rays.3242 Andi lacked compassion too when she lead Nick to the final rose yet told him she was never in love with him.
He didn't follow the bachelor script so they edited the show to make him look like the bad guy.
@@rays.3242they get to travel all over the world. It is a vacation and experience and an opportunity to a million other doors and you get to be on TV. Its not a sacrifice
He’s just not that arsed 😂 get over it
So she's upset that he didn't get upset?
david martignetti no it’s just that he doesn’t give her anything all he says is that everything is okay and it just proves her point that she can’t ever love him because there’s nothing to him but the fact that he says everything is OKAY
It’s appears that way on the surface, but watching their whole journey, her problem was that Juan Pablo was so into himself. He very much had this mindset that “I don’t have to put myself out there. If you don’t love me, other women here will.”
You want another person to feel something and just give a shit.
david martignetti I think Andi was just upset that he isn’t acknowledging her frustration, he keeps shrugging off everything she is saying and it comes off rude. It’s not just a girl thing, guys can feel this way too. If you’re never bothered by people being ungrateful for your time / effort, then I guess you’ll never understand that feeling.
S J
Thank you! I agree.
Also she was probably trying hard to make it work from what she describes and so he comes off like he didn’t have any feelings about her. Even if you want to break up, it’s usually hard. It would have been a little kinder if he showed this is hard for him even if he didn’t feel it that deeply. She is an individual even if they couldn’t make it work
AND I WANT TO DIE😂😂
#it'sOK😂😂
It's okay. I'm sorry but I like this dude. He did his thing and he didn't go by Chris Harrison rules like them others do. He didn't say I love to to the women. He didn't propose to any of them. He didn't find love. He told it like it was. He stayed true to himself. Unlike the others like Peter Webber. Ewwww. He makes me sick. I knew he was gonna be a bad one. Juan Pablo is my fave bachelor. Sorry not sorry.
Andy wanted him to feel bad that she didnt love his and he wasnt. There was nothing wrong with what he said!!!!
Love him*
They made him out to be some crazy weirdo because he didn't pick someone...they were ugly and nasty to him...he didnt do anything wrong. On the contrary, he wasn't in love with anyone and didn't fool anyone with lies. Its a two way street, and Andy couldn't handle NOT BEING LOVED and wanted affirmation, when she's telling HIM she doesn't love him. How hypocritical is that? He wasn't crestfallen...so? He said its O.K. what's wrong with that. He expressed his emotion, didn't hurt anyone. Why is he getting all this hate and negativity? So you can be on Chris's side and play along? Claire was disgusting too. You take a chance coming on here. You lost. Suck it up and be civil. There's always a loser in this game, and she couldn't handle it!!! Nobody ever told someone off the way she did. It was HER and not JP that was wrong, but you took a man who did nothing wrong and ruined his reputation. Shame on you ABC producers...this is his style of talking saying its o.k when you wanted and decided what he should say. You pick and choose whom to highlight and who to destroy...we all heard the AFTER stories about production. You couldn't fool everyone, certainly not me. He tried, didn't find love ..not the first one not to, but Chris was disgusting in how he handled him at the ATFR..he just took cover after he threw him under the bus. He aint no fool JP and realized what they were up to. If you go against them, have your own mind, are not a puppet, they destroy you!
I have dated Latinos before and they really can be like this
Juan pablo summed up
"That's okay"
"Its fine"
"I'm honest"
Who cares? He isn't that into her and shows it. Move on girl lol. I'm not a fan of his but she's a bit dramatic. He clearly does not care and wants her to go away instead of rant.
Unpopular opinion perhaps years later, but I don't think JP is as bad and terrible as people think. He was good with Desiree and Sharleen and Nikki are still to this day saying good things about him. The thing was the he only liked Sharleen and when she left, he didn't know what to do with the rest.
Anyone defending Juan Pablo is being willingfuly obtuse about his one dimensional behavior. Andi explained perfectly why she was frustrated with the fake "it's okay" reply to any kind of conversation containing depth. I keep reading people claiming Juan is being "real". What are you talking about? He intentionally signed on to come onto a show about love, romance, and marriage and then carried on to contradict everything. How real is that? If he was real and uncomfortable with the concept and not open to finding love and being vulnerable then he never would have signed up in the first place. But, oh waittttttt.....he went along with it anyway because it was him as a lead on a national tv show. Pablo's priorities were clear from day one. He just wanted to fuck, that's it. He had no business as the bachelor. Period.
Flower Skull21 And fuck he did . 😆✌
Dude. No one. I mean, no one, goes on The Bachelor to find love. I’m not jaded enough to think it never happens incidentally during the 8 weeks they are filming. The conditions the producers create are perfect and carefully designed to trick people into thinking they’ll last forever. That’s why you get all these juicy sound bites every season. But absolutely no single 20 something needs to be on The Bachelor to find romance. The anger at him, I think, is because he signed onto a show with no regard at all to act how ABC wanted him to act. I say I think, because producers could have edited this to make him look like a hero. But they didn’t because he didn’t play ball. That’s why a lot of people find him to be “real”. It’s also why he’s vilified to this day.
A P exactly ppl go on the bachelor for clout and to get their name out there
Whatever
And you have the inside scoop to his HEART dont ya,? Or know why he came, who is slept with, as if others get a free pass to do the same and not get destroyed by ppl like you!!! Bead womack left 2 woman standing. There is no rule you must pick someone at the end. There was NOTHING wrong with what he did, just because you didn't personally go for his personality type. Its obvious nikki and claire liked him a lot, just Claire couldn't handle that he wasn't her choice or in love with her!!!!!! Claire is a time bomb, good luck to any man who can't see behind her mask..she is bad news, sensitive, emotionally childish and rude.
"Its ok"
I mean you just told him you cant be in love with him on national tv, what are you expecting a grown man to do ? Cry & beg you to try ? To feed your ego ?
I love Ben!!!
the ceo of mhm
Legend lol
Juan pablo did nothing wrong and andi snapped because he did not care she was leaving
I miss Juan Pablo!!!!
mhhhm...ok...mhmmm...ok.mmmhm wtf Juan Pablo!?
i feel like this might be a bit of a cultural thing? i’m not for sure but certain people groups respond to bad news with words like ok or fine as a way to not make the other person feel bad about they way they’re feeling. it’s not okay, but it’s okay that she feels that way. that’s i think what he is trying to say here. i don’t fault him for that.
Juan Pablo is still better than Peter Webber. Who ever said Juan Pablo was the worst bachelor. Yeah lol. Look at Peter what he did.
She wants him to have feelings. And he wants her to not have feelings
More like she wants drama and he's like fuck that. She ain't worth it
Lol she’s funny haha
This is the only alpha I’ve seen in this show
She was mad he wasn’t into her lmao
that’s literally not the case, she was mad because he didnt care that she was leaving. all that time and emotion she invested, she decided to leave and he’s just like “its okay”
@@bubblegum-ww6fy yeah he said it’s okay because he can’t force her to stay . He’s very blunt , probably too blunt but I feel like Andi has a large ego and it took a hit here
Doctor: Juan your blood results are in and I regret to inform you that you have cancer
Juan: It’s ok, if it happens it happens.
Hes not passive he just doesnt like bitching and who does? Hopefully andi grew up these last few years
She left everything behind to meet a man, she didn't like him, so leave...instead she gave him a 1/2 hour lecture why he was so rotten and uninterested, blah blah. I would have just told him it didn't work and nice meeting you and walked out ... who says its going to work? Its a chance they both took!
Boy he’s deep 🙄
Juan: *tries to pick something off her eyebrow*
Andi : *Don't mess my makeup up*
looooooool QUEEN.
It's ok 😹😹😹😹😹😹😹
Issssssssss okay! 👌🏻
"Its fucking okay"
I mean is he wrong ? If she not feeling it she don’t have to stay .. it’s not his fault . She’s not forced to be there nor fall in love with him .
Yeah, he comes across as uncaring but as I’ve gotten older I find I relate more and more to Juan. Life throws awful, soul crushing things your way. But maybe the worst part about it is that it just goes on. There isn’t time to break down or lose your way every time something bad happens. People die, families drift apart, you lose money and jobs. And life keeps on moving.
So yeah, now that I’m approaching 40 I can respect the measured “It’s ok” responses from him.
@@popperpoppler4569 true! Because at the end of the day it really is gonna be “ok” we can’t sit and dwell when things do t work out .. especially dating . We wish eachother the best and move on .
Is ok... ummm, no is not😂 He was a joke
Doubleshot98 I think they both are. I couldn’t stand her. She’s angry because he didn’t like her enough to change his ways.
I dont understand why everyone is attacking juan pablo, he probably had the best reaction. he's probably dying on the inside however he's realistic... i mean what its the urge to see someone hurt? him crying will make her change her mind? i doubt it, he is a realist and probably had in his mind this concept "You are not made of gold to be liked by everyone"
Did you see what he did in the finale?
It wasn’t HER show for him to be obligated to sit there and listen to her reasonings! It was HIS show! She was out of line based on the concept of the show. She should have just kept it short and answered his questions if he inquired as to why... not force it on him if he obviously wasn’t interested. It wasn’t fair for her to sabotage HIS time in the spotlight.
@vman armand - So she basically felt entitled enough to demand that he listen to why she was leaving? I mean, you have to be highly sociopathic and narcissistic to believe once you've made you disinterest clear, that the other person has to sit there with a straight face and listen to you mouth off. He doesn't have to see anything from anyone else's view, she's not into him and that's that. She's one woman and women come in a variety of personalities. Trying to understand her will not give him an insight into how women work. The reality is that she tried to get a rise out of him and he wasn't having it.
Yeah, she's searching for something, anything in the emotions department.
It's hilarious watching it, but if Is as Andi, I would probably have choked him.🤷💀. I love him. Dude low key does not care.😂😂🤣🤣
He is kinda cold.
I think that is what is the underlying annoyance.
He's an alpha male and she wanted to drag him into some drama. He said fuck that and blew her off.
No he’s not.
Where's the rest of the clip, darns
I’m not surprised hostile belligerent catty women hate this guy. He had to field his way through a slew of women with serious issues, who wanted to get reactions out of him and break his calm and centred and polite demeanour. They couldn’t handle not being treated like the centre of the universe. They suffered from the typical “Disney Princess pathology”. Which is kind of a misnomer because Disney Princesses were way more charming and feminine and sweet than the girls on this show.
Throughout history men often left their homes and wife and children for years to seek out their wealth and return with fortune and abundance. And the wife stayed the course, tried and true; worthy of admiration and unneeding of constant reassurance and attention. These days if you don’t immediately shower a typical American drama queen with all the affection and emotions of a movie star then she will be tempted to scratch your eyes out.
Imagine how she would react if you shit tested her 😳!
he was literally the WORST bachelor, literally two women left him for the same reason. Sharleen left him because she didnt think there was a mental connection and andi left for pretty much the same reason. This man must be empty because women are not connecting with him emotionally, he came off simple this whole season
Honestly just because there is no compatibility or connection between two people, it doesn't make either of them a bad person. Why would that make him the worst bachelor?
Girls from Australia bachelor revealed that half of the girls wanted to leave at half way along the show but producers promised them a spot in Bachelor in paradise au if they stayed until them have been eliminated. It's not all like it seems.
... I agree with him, what was she expecting from him? She is just bothered because he is not trying to keep her, was she expecting him to cry and beg her to say he is in love?