Yep, I’m a starter and not good at finishing. Just like you with the cleaning. Feel weak and tired but can only push through if one of these “accountants” comes along, and then I push through somehow. Tired afterwards too, but I get it done. The pressure of someone else seeing, yes, and I tend to forget about God, you’re right! And I’m task orientated. So I’ll come into a room to fetch something and I’ll leave the drawer open and walk away without shutting it. I was overcome with a wave of nausea this morning, but now it’s time to work cos I feel better. And I’m watching UA-cam. Sorry Lord
Yes! Procrastination is my issue. There’s always “later” to do something. Years ago when my boys were younger I was cleaning the house and one of them asked, “Are we having company?” Not that time but it was telling me that my habits were showing. I don’t have ADHD but consistency is a struggle.
I have been saying for years I have adhd. I am all over the place and I joined ww again because I lost some and just got off track. I am on a 40 day bible study. Also I feel like God has been pushing me to do a bible study with our church with the kids or with the ladies. I definitely work best under pressure. Also I am praying so hard for my girls and their salvation. I feel like you were just speaking straight to me.
Working best under pressure is a big red flag for adhd, because under pressure (or in chaos) we get a dopamine surge and we become unstoppable (aka hyper focused). It’s about the only super power we have. The rest of adhd kinda just stinks.
Nicki, it was like you were talking about me! I have the same problem with getting bored and trying to do too many things. Although, I've never been diagnosed with anything. Sometimes I just don't have the energy to do anything. I also have two teenagers on the Autism spectrum and understand what you are going through. My daughter is 18 and nonverbal, she requires more than my 14 year old son, who's higher functioning. They both are totally different and require a lot of my time daily. Usually, by the end of the day I am totally spent. Still, I do manage to wake up at 5 am and spend that time with God (quiet time or Bible study). Even with all that, I still tend to procrastinate and I do need more accountability, so you are not alone.
I too have ADHD and a creative mind and need to be held accountable to accomplish stuff. I'm working on starting a business and it feels like an uphill battle! I've started Bible journaling (how great is that for creative people? 😊) which has lit a fire in me for God's Word that I've never had before 🙌 but I'm struggling with how to do a good Bible study and then this pops up in my feed. This definitely spoke to me.
My husband has ADHD and struggles a lot like this. If he wasn't in the groups we have at our church, he wouldn't be able to stay on task. Having the weekly groups keeps him reading. I like how open and honest you are with your struggles with ADHD. Thanks you.
I relate to this and have a daughter diagnosed with ADHD, your insights are helpful. Procrastination and proliferation of projects I understand and accountability is absolutely crucial. Thank you. I'm pleased to find your channel again. I'm a writer and teacher and redeeming the time, discipline, accountability, space for creativity all come into it💐
I love this , I am just like this . I struggle with too. I would love to join your group but I’m nervous to get side tracked and add another a Bible study . I came across your proverbs book and I’m currently going through that . I don’t want to start another one I need to stay focused 😊. I really want to do the revelation Bible class too but I need to finish this one first . I’m just so happy I came across your books . I honestly don’t believe in coincidence God put you and your community in my path❣️
I haven’t been diagnosed with it because I haven’t discussed it with a dr. But I know I have it I do the same and I’m creative and I do the same thing. I say ok I want to start this buy all the stuff then never ever even get it started I have money tied up in all this stuff and don’t even start. Then I have buyers remorse and sit and cry because of the waiste then I see another crafter or UA-camr doing something and run out and buy all the stuff for that. It’s a never ending cycle and it’s depressing and a horrible thing for anyone to have.
It definitely makes life harder. Satan wants you to feel remorse and shame, so don’t let him. Ask God to help you stop impulsive shopping, every day. And just keep working on it. You will have times you fail. And it’s okay. Keep praying, keep asking.
What Christian accountability looks like is a struggle for me… being involved in BS all the time, I see many groups start with 20 and end 6 weeks later with 7. What we say is…” it’s ok, just do what you can” . Not very good for accountability as shown by shotty attendance at best. Not good for those who have issues with commitment, but also for the rest that are there to be with fellow Christians for their accountability. Funny thing is, when you question this, people become indignant and throw out the “ we shouldn’t judge”. So I am asking this with a sincere heart…What is Christian accountability? As you mentioned one day we will all stand before God….how many will be shocked at what he says? Iron is supposed to sharpen iron….how can we help each other in the Laocedia church age of lukewarm noncommittal? Thank you so much, Nikki!
Such a great question!! I think we can’t hold people accountable that don’t want to be accountable. So we do all we can as a believer and come beside and encourage those who want to stick with it but need some help and we pray for those who leave. Hugs!!!
How do you know what goes on in my brain?? 😉😉. Although never "formally" diagnosed with ADD - I can see the signs. And looking back through my life the signs were there. I don't think I have so my the hyper part of it but definitely the attention deficit part. So many unfinished projects. So many attempts at doing one thing or another. So many thoughts of "I'll just create something that works for me!". Sounds like I need to check out your Bible Study book and your daughter's prayer book. Thanks for sharing with us!
Oh my Goodness... Based on your description of your ADHD that sounds almost exactly the same issues I have. I've always thought that ADHD was just hyper children. But the description of how you lose the dopamine which makes you lose the ability to do things, I've suffered with that for years. Thank you so much for sharing your life with us. You are my favorite UA-cam channel and I wish I could get started with the online Bible Study. I'm already a member I just have so many other things that I'm trying to get done that I don't make the time to do the Study that you're doing. I'm doing small snippets of different Books in the Bible but I'm not sure I'm accomplishing anything! Thanks again for all that you do.
Oooooh! This hit home! This is me! Maybe I have ADHD?! My sister and niece have been diagnosed, so maybe it's something I have too?! I've always been quite organised (in the past!) so didn't think I was, but now I'm wondering! Thank you for sharing! I need accountability!!
It is genetic so it’d make sense if your sister has it there is a good chance you maybe do as well. My poor didn’t stand a chance as both my husband and I have ADHD. Needless to say our house is a circus!
I have ADHD and Bipolar disorder. I am a Christian saved by the Grace of God. I have started many Bible studies and have finished very few. I am thinking about joining your Bible studies.
How I have missed you! ❤😊 Welcome back! So, here I am, contemplating my failed Bible markup system. Should I give it up? Is there a better markup/highlight method? 😂 It is my first Bible, and although it is cost less than two watered down Starbucks coffees... It is God's Word and I want to keep it for as long as I live (and beyond!). Any ideas on how to move forward? I feel like I have used symbols on ALMOST EVERY BIBLE VERSE.😂😅
It’s so easy to feel that way and want to start over but yes, stick it out because you will cherish it someday looking back. I would just color code God with one color and then use other random colors to highlight whatever stands out to you personally!! Hope that helps!!!
Lately my sister just got rid of all of her favorite movies and anime, because she thinks that’s the right way to truly give up something and they’re “idols” that’s hindering her walk with the Lord and when I told my mother about it, she said that someone’s misleading my sister the wrong way. Is that the right way or not. And when I mention an anime known as sailor moon, she just won’t talk about it and now she’s not telling me where she’s moving
We all feel different convictions from the Holy Spirit so it must be that your sister feels convicted that those things have become more important to her than God in her life. So she is getting rid of them. So she cAn focus more on God. It’s all about WHO sits on the throne of your heart. Where do you spend your time? What do you get most excited about? If it’s not God, and things that further His kingdom, then it may be an idol. Hope that makes sense. ❤️❤️❤️
Yep, I’m a starter and not good at finishing. Just like you with the cleaning.
Feel weak and tired but can only push through if one of these “accountants” comes along, and then I push through somehow. Tired afterwards too, but I get it done.
The pressure of someone else seeing, yes, and I tend to forget about God, you’re right!
And I’m task orientated. So I’ll come into a room to fetch something and I’ll leave the drawer open and walk away without shutting it.
I was overcome with a wave of nausea this morning, but now it’s time to work cos I feel better. And I’m watching UA-cam. Sorry Lord
Yes! Procrastination is my issue. There’s always “later” to do something. Years ago when my boys were younger I was cleaning the house and one of them asked, “Are we having company?” Not that time but it was telling me that my habits were showing. I don’t have ADHD but consistency is a struggle.
I have been saying for years I have adhd. I am all over the place and I joined ww again because I lost some and just got off track. I am on a 40 day bible study. Also I feel like God has been pushing me to do a bible study with our church with the kids or with the ladies. I definitely work best under pressure. Also I am praying so hard for my girls and their salvation. I feel like you were just speaking straight to me.
Working best under pressure is a big red flag for adhd, because under pressure (or in chaos) we get a dopamine surge and we become unstoppable (aka hyper focused). It’s about the only super power we have. The rest of adhd kinda just stinks.
Nicki, it was like you were talking about me! I have the same problem with getting bored and trying to do too many things. Although, I've never been diagnosed with anything. Sometimes I just don't have the energy to do anything. I also have two teenagers on the Autism spectrum and understand what you are going through. My daughter is 18 and nonverbal, she requires more than my 14 year old son, who's higher functioning. They both are totally different and require a lot of my time daily. Usually, by the end of the day I am totally spent. Still, I do manage to wake up at 5 am and spend that time with God (quiet time or Bible study). Even with all that, I still tend to procrastinate and I do need more accountability, so you are not alone.
I too have ADHD and a creative mind and need to be held accountable to accomplish stuff. I'm working on starting a business and it feels like an uphill battle! I've started Bible journaling (how great is that for creative people? 😊) which has lit a fire in me for God's Word that I've never had before 🙌 but I'm struggling with how to do a good Bible study and then this pops up in my feed. This definitely spoke to me.
Love this!!! Us Adhd-ers gotta stick together!!
I have not been told that i have ADHD but i totally get everything you are saying..I am just like you...its crazy..
My husband has ADHD and struggles a lot like this. If he wasn't in the groups we have at our church, he wouldn't be able to stay on task. Having the weekly groups keeps him reading. I like how open and honest you are with your struggles with ADHD. Thanks you.
I relate to this and have a daughter diagnosed with ADHD, your insights are helpful. Procrastination and proliferation of projects I understand and accountability is absolutely crucial. Thank you. I'm pleased to find your channel again. I'm a writer and teacher and redeeming the time, discipline, accountability, space for creativity all come into it💐
I love this , I am just like this . I struggle with too. I would love to join your group but I’m nervous to get side tracked and add another a Bible study . I came across your proverbs book and I’m currently going through that . I don’t want to start another one I need to stay focused 😊. I really want to do the revelation Bible class too but I need to finish this one first . I’m just so happy I came across your books . I honestly don’t believe in coincidence God put you and your community in my path❣️
I definitely work better under pressure. I need accountability with my eating for sure.
I haven’t been diagnosed with it because I haven’t discussed it with a dr. But I know I have it I do the same and I’m creative and I do the same thing. I say ok I want to start this buy all the stuff then never ever even get it started I have money tied up in all this stuff and don’t even start. Then I have buyers remorse and sit and cry because of the waiste then I see another crafter or UA-camr doing something and run out and buy all the stuff for that. It’s a never ending cycle and it’s depressing and a horrible thing for anyone to have.
It definitely makes life harder. Satan wants you to feel remorse and shame, so don’t let him. Ask God to help you stop impulsive shopping, every day. And just keep working on it. You will have times you fail. And it’s okay. Keep praying, keep asking.
Thank you
Oh, my this is me. I am seveny one years old in 6 weeks. I never knew that is what it is called. I was always making others upset with me. Thanks
Yes. Me too. I interrupt people. I say impulsive things without thinking. I have a hard time keeping friends. It’s hard.
@@nickidrake Same 😢 It’s rough!
I am a procrastinator and I work so much better under pressure.
What Christian accountability looks like is a struggle for me… being involved in BS all the time, I see many groups start with 20 and end 6 weeks later with 7. What we say is…” it’s ok, just do what you can” . Not very good for accountability as shown by shotty attendance at best. Not good for those who have issues with commitment, but also for the rest that are there to be with fellow Christians for their accountability. Funny thing is, when you question this, people become indignant and throw out the “ we shouldn’t judge”. So I am asking this with a sincere heart…What is Christian accountability? As you mentioned one day we will all stand before God….how many will be shocked at what he says? Iron is supposed to sharpen iron….how can we help each other in the Laocedia church age of lukewarm noncommittal? Thank you so much, Nikki!
Such a great question!! I think we can’t hold people accountable that don’t want to be accountable. So we do all we can as a believer and come beside and encourage those who want to stick with it but need some help and we pray for those who leave.
Hugs!!!
I have ADHD and I struggle with accountability all the time!
How do you know what goes on in my brain?? 😉😉. Although never "formally" diagnosed with ADD - I can see the signs. And looking back through my life the signs were there. I don't think I have so my the hyper part of it but definitely the attention deficit part.
So many unfinished projects. So many attempts at doing one thing or another. So many thoughts of "I'll just create something that works for me!". Sounds like I need to check out your Bible Study book and your daughter's prayer book.
Thanks for sharing with us!
Oh my Goodness... Based on your description of your ADHD that sounds almost exactly the same issues I have. I've always thought that ADHD was just hyper children. But the description of how you lose the dopamine which makes you lose the ability to do things, I've suffered with that for years.
Thank you so much for sharing your life with us. You are my favorite UA-cam channel and I wish I could get started with the online Bible Study. I'm already a member I just have so many other things that I'm trying to get done that I don't make the time to do the Study that you're doing. I'm doing small snippets of different Books in the Bible but I'm not sure I'm accomplishing anything!
Thanks again for all that you do.
Love this!! Yes, everyone tends to think it’s just hyper children. But it’s so much more!!! Hugs!!
GIRL I need accountability in bible study or simply finishing 1 thing.. HELP😢❤❤
Oooooh! This hit home! This is me! Maybe I have ADHD?! My sister and niece have been diagnosed, so maybe it's something I have too?! I've always been quite organised (in the past!) so didn't think I was, but now I'm wondering! Thank you for sharing! I need accountability!!
It is genetic so it’d make sense if your sister has it there is a good chance you maybe do as well. My poor didn’t stand a chance as both my husband and I have ADHD. Needless to say our house is a circus!
@@sarahsunshine78 Oh is it? Ah right - I shall make enquiries! Thank you! I'd love to be a fly on the wall in your house/circus! :-)
I also have ADHD. I totally understand.
I have ADHD and Bipolar disorder. I am a Christian saved by the Grace of God. I have started many Bible studies and have finished very few. I am thinking about joining your Bible studies.
We’d love to have you join us!!
ADHD is Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. Hope this helps!
I have ADD .. i definitely am not hyper
I run a Facebook group with almost 500 people and still procrastinate 😢
How I have missed you! ❤😊 Welcome back! So, here I am, contemplating my failed Bible markup system. Should I give it up? Is there a better markup/highlight method? 😂 It is my first Bible, and although it is cost less than two watered down Starbucks coffees... It is God's Word and I want to keep it for as long as I live (and beyond!). Any ideas on how to move forward? I feel like I have used symbols on ALMOST EVERY BIBLE VERSE.😂😅
It’s so easy to feel that way and want to start over but yes, stick it out because you will cherish it someday looking back. I would just color code God with one color and then use other random colors to highlight whatever stands out to you personally!! Hope that helps!!!
Lately my sister just got rid of all of her favorite movies and anime, because she thinks that’s the right way to truly give up something and they’re “idols” that’s hindering her walk with the Lord and when I told my mother about it, she said that someone’s misleading my sister the wrong way. Is that the right way or not. And when I mention an anime known as sailor moon, she just won’t talk about it and now she’s not telling me where she’s moving
We all feel different convictions from the Holy Spirit so it must be that your sister feels convicted that those things have become more important to her than God in her life. So she is getting rid of them. So she cAn focus more on God. It’s all about WHO sits on the throne of your heart. Where do you spend your time? What do you get most excited about? If it’s not God, and things that further His kingdom, then it may be an idol. Hope that makes sense. ❤️❤️❤️
What Bible study on you all on right now. Would love to join. I checked out website but didn’t know which one you are on?
We are doing a prayer and praise devotional through the entire Book of Psalms for the summer!! We’d love to have you join us!!
That's me! :(
Pardon Sister. Just want to be sure. What is the Bible Study Tip? Thank you.
Get accountability - that’s the tip.
We need accountability to be sure we are committed and don’t give up!!
@@nickidrake Thanks very much.