I agree with everything you said about dating… Being comfortable with not in a relationship is so important to personal growth… also, not settling just to say you’re in a relationship…. Furthermore, loving enjoy the company of yourself… when a relationship is meant to be…… it will be….💜💜💜💜💜💜
I feel you on the dating app stuff. I like the common connection dating meeting at a common place, family and/or friend gatherings, etc. When its so intentional like that I feel like its not genuine 🖤
Girl, Simply Beautiful. The Man, that’s for another season! Do you, enjoy your life! You DO NOT NEED A MAN TO VALIDATE ! You are such a secure, confident woman. Keep doing YOU! Love seeing women putting themselves out there!!😍🥰🤗
I soo relate to what you shared about dating. The thought of having a new person to keep up with, and the process of "starting over" in a sense when getting to know someone new is a kind of exhausting to me
I'm not dating and LOVING life organically...I enjoy time to myself and its fun...I feel the same way you do...if I meet someone in the grocery store, at the beach and it just natural that would be perfect for me...more on a vibe and deep conversation then on a website...you are glowing, just do it your way, that's what I am doing...I have two pre-teens and they are my besties...its hard to meet besties around here they are all haters, so far...I'm happy just like this...you look so Beautiful!💕💕💞💞 I already bought myself roses and have a dinner planned for me and the girls! Self-Love is the best!
I agree with the statement with meeting someone naturally …..like the bread aisle. I don’t like the idea of forcing something, it it’ll come randomly I think. I feel that on the social anxiety statement.
I’m the same,!I got off dating apps because I rather an organic connection. I’m in a self love state of mind right now and I think who’s meant for me will find me naturally
It's a Taurus thing! I'm definitely the same way when it comes to dating! I tried the dating apps and it's not for me at all !! So i get everything you're saying!! ❤️❤️❤️
Hey boo! There is nothing wrong with being shy. Not only am I really shy, but I also live in the DMV, so if we ever cross paths I’ll make sure to say hi -even if I’m nervous!!
Girl- first thing I did was go straight to the links to look for the gorge sweater.. it’s beautiful!!! I’m definitely ordering the green and the sky blue❤️❤️❤️❤️
I wonder if that’s the Taurus in us because I am the same way when it comes to relationships. If it happens it happens, if it doesn’t, it doesn’t. I’m in a relationship now, but before that…I was lowkey content with being single for the rest of my life 🤣
You look gorgeous!!!! I hate dating also that's why I'm single and have been for about 3 yrs now. I totally understand what you're sayn!!!! I love being alone.
Amen!... I agree with you 😘. When love 💕 is meant to be it will happen naturally and not forced. Furthermore it nothing wrong with getting to know yourself and pampering yourself. That is the time you refine yourself. It is the best . Live your life to the fullest!... It will happen. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months and it happened naturally and the chemistry was there. We met at my job and 8 months later still together. As always I love your channel.. keep being amazing and you don't owe no one an explanation of who you are
Your so pretty. You remind me of a young Tisha Campbell. ❤️ And yes, I hate dating too! I deleted all my dating apps. I’m at the point in my life if it happens it happens and if don’t it don’t. I’ll leave it in Gods hands.
Girl! 🤣 yes, you tell NO LIES 😏about the grandparents keeping you presentable at all times. my family was big on not leaving unless the head was tackled and now Im the same about my appearance. And the green 💚 sweater ma'am. 👩🏽🍳💋🤌🏽
I'm glad that I'm not the only one who doesn't feel like dating is my thing lmao. I'm not great at it lmaoo. I love a good bestie date! I need to try Urban Roast, it's been on my list for a while. Also, I agree with everything you said about dating apps omg lol.
I feel the same about dating Dating is exhausting and idk how people do it lol especially when they date multiple people at once I’m like how y’all got the time lol
Dating is definitely not fun for me either. Man answering the same questions and telling the same things to different people is a dub now! Especially when it’s not giving or doesn’t work out. Like are you my husband or not? 😂😂😂 I hate dating too and love to be by myself 🎉! Love the look
You look GORGEOUS.. enjoy your ME time.. dating gets worse as you get older.. and its nicer to just let it flow.. the apps just make you feel like you said forced…
Girll same !! I am tired of telling these men my favorite COLOR !! 😭😂😂 I’m done dating , I love spending my time alone , my ex told me why would he buy the cow if he getting the milk for free and baby let me tell you this cow is fine alone 😭
The apps aren’t for me either, it’s definitely not organic. I’m finding that the men be at grocery but it’s weird because everyone is on a mission to get in and get out. Love usually happens when we’re not looking. I hope that your date went well ☺️you look beautiful.
That’s what time it is Kaila as far as looking presentable in public as often as you can…🤩🥳🤩 Since I’m originally from NY & CT I’ve been a lot of places on the eastern seaboard & I’ve noticed the further south you go they are an exception to the rule…😜😂😜 Hahahahaaaa I see my neighbors wearing anything in NC on a daily basis. Then they get jealous when they see you take pride in yours & never say you look nice etc…🤯🤬🤯 I used to blame it on being oppressed due to the job situation & racism, but they always seem to have enough get high everyday & stay in debt for a car they can’t afford…. 😜😂😜 Hhahahaaaaaa…No disrespect to those who have their priorities straight… Fuk it I’ll say it “that blue bomber J Cole had on in that Butcher music video” is the perfect definition of what I’m talking about…. Im not just saying that because I’m the leather bomber plug, but whoever styled that Brotha was dead wrong… I fukz with you lyrically J Cole, but that sh!#* was in the way…🦋🎽🦋 I feel you on your dating views Kaila it’s refreshing to hear someone say they enjoy being alone…I’m the same way, but the only difference is I know once I find that perfect person, I will never get enough of them… #ShoutsToLutherVandross…👑✨👑 #HappyValentine2022Kaila&Friends…💓💝💓
I feel tricked lol I was superrrr geeked like yassss… sis going on a date lol You two looked amazing per usual 💕 Not me in the pic.. so don’t @ me yall lol I don’t know how to update it🥲
It's the Favorite Color & Wat Kinda Wrk U Do.. Please DONT ASK ME Them 2 Questions VERY ANNOYING.. I Dislike My Field Of Wrk.. But I Enjoy Dating... & BTW U SNAPPED ON THIS LOOK GONE GIRL 💋🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I’m dating someone but also told myself even when we make it official, I will continue to date myself. Self love is everything for me right now!
Yes! Heavy on the spending time with yourself and loving yourself before letting anyone else in
@@KailaKake true because no one will love you more than you 🥰
I agree with everything you said about dating… Being comfortable with not in a relationship is so important to personal growth… also, not settling just to say you’re in a relationship…. Furthermore, loving enjoy the company of yourself… when a relationship is meant to be…… it will be….💜💜💜💜💜💜
Worded perfectly!
You described exactly how I feel about dating 😭 I want my mans to fall out of the heavens and just be right for me!
Is that too much to ask for??? 😂😂😂
That emerald green sweater with the black leather pants is such a cute look!! I also love the idea of the low bun, you killed it 👏🏽☺️
Dating is draining at times I feel you on having to do the whole process of getting to know a new person.
I feel you on the dating app stuff. I like the common connection dating meeting at a common place, family and/or friend gatherings, etc. When its so intentional like that I feel like its not genuine 🖤
Girl, Simply Beautiful. The Man, that’s for another season! Do you, enjoy your life! You DO NOT NEED A MAN TO VALIDATE ! You are such a secure, confident woman. Keep doing YOU! Love seeing women putting themselves out there!!😍🥰🤗
I soo relate to what you shared about dating. The thought of having a new person to keep up with, and the process of "starting over" in a sense when getting to know someone new is a kind of exhausting to me
I'm not dating and LOVING life organically...I enjoy time to myself and its fun...I feel the same way you do...if I meet someone in the grocery store, at the beach and it just natural that would be perfect for me...more on a vibe and deep conversation then on a website...you are glowing, just do it your way, that's what I am doing...I have two pre-teens and they are my besties...its hard to meet besties around here they are all haters, so far...I'm happy just like this...you look so Beautiful!💕💕💞💞 I already bought myself roses and have a dinner planned for me and the girls! Self-Love is the best!
I agree with the statement with meeting someone naturally …..like the bread aisle. I don’t like the idea of forcing something, it it’ll come randomly I think. I feel that on the social anxiety statement.
it’s so essential to date your friends as well!! loved this!! my best friend & i choose a diff spot to eat EVERY SINGLE WEEK! it’s so refreshing 🥰
See I love that! I loveeeee loving on my friends.
I’m the same,!I got off dating apps because I rather an organic connection. I’m in a self love state of mind right now and I think who’s meant for me will find me naturally
sis, i came to this video for the advice. yes to focusing on ourselves until the time comes! seriously love your content.
It's a Taurus thing! I'm definitely the same way when it comes to dating! I tried the dating apps and it's not for me at all !! So i get everything you're saying!! ❤️❤️❤️
Yahhh Taurus.. me 2.. i wish you could just meet someone just casually like we use 2..
@@leeguy1183 yes i agree! Pray & have faith it can still happen! ❤️❤️
Hey boo! There is nothing wrong with being shy. Not only am I really shy, but I also live in the DMV, so if we ever cross paths I’ll make sure to say hi -even if I’m nervous!!
I live in the DMV as well so hard to meet people..
Girl- first thing I did was go straight to the links to look for the gorge sweater.. it’s beautiful!!! I’m definitely ordering the green and the sky blue❤️❤️❤️❤️
You look so pretty and your makeup looks flawless🔥 with the outfit to match😍
I wonder if that’s the Taurus in us because I am the same way when it comes to relationships. If it happens it happens, if it doesn’t, it doesn’t.
I’m in a relationship now, but before that…I was lowkey content with being single for the rest of my life 🤣
We just enjoy being alone lol
I love you EVEN MORE ! That was super sweet ! Wishing you the same love you show other ! Have an amazing Valentine’s Day!
You look gorgeous!!!! I hate dating also that's why I'm single and have been for about 3 yrs now. I totally understand what you're sayn!!!! I love being alone.
I enjoy being alone as well. I can't get with those apps! I watch too much ID channel lol I love your outfits❤️
#bingewatching
Amen!... I agree with you 😘. When love 💕 is meant to be it will happen naturally and not forced. Furthermore it nothing wrong with getting to know yourself and pampering yourself. That is the time you refine yourself. It is the best . Live your life to the fullest!... It will happen. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months and it happened naturally and the chemistry was there. We met at my job and 8 months later still together. As always I love your channel.. keep being amazing and you don't owe no one an explanation of who you are
Girl I am so glad I found you! Where you been? You are a breath of fresh air, love your personality.
Aw thank you!
Your so pretty. You remind me of a young Tisha Campbell. ❤️ And yes, I hate dating too! I deleted all my dating apps. I’m at the point in my life if it happens it happens and if don’t it don’t. I’ll leave it in Gods hands.
Girl! 🤣 yes, you tell NO LIES 😏about the grandparents keeping you presentable at all times. my family was big on not leaving unless the head was tackled and now Im the same about my appearance. And the green 💚 sweater ma'am. 👩🏽🍳💋🤌🏽
I agree with you about dating. Your face beat and outfit poppin. 💚 I love Mojave Ghost.
I LOVE the way you think! It’s true though! God bless you girl! 🙏🏻😍 it will definitely come to you
Yes i am in no rush! God bless ❤️
Yes! So important to treat yourself & you look GOOD 😍
Kaila do you have any must go to restaurants in DC?!
If I could go to North Italia every day I would. But I honestly be in the house 24/7. Maybe during the summer I’ll start exploring more
You took the exact words out of my mouth. I’ve tried dating apps and it’s just not for me
that point on being socially anxious? i relate.
I'm glad that I'm not the only one who doesn't feel like dating is my thing lmao. I'm not great at it lmaoo. I love a good bestie date! I need to try Urban Roast, it's been on my list for a while. Also, I agree with everything you said about dating apps omg lol.
Friend dates are some of my favorite! 💚
I feel the same about dating
Dating is exhausting and idk how people do it lol especially when they date multiple people at once I’m like how y’all got the time lol
Omg the multiple people at one time blows my mind. Idk how people do it
Your personality sounds like miine....❤
Lol I love how confident you young ladies are…girl you got dressed for the restaurant..Lol that green on you yes Ma’am…
Love you girl..!! You so real💯
Looking Gorgeous 💖👍💕
I really enjoyed this video and I can resonate with it so much!🙏🏻🙌🏻❤️
Kaila a wholeeeee vibe period!😂
I agree I don't like dating. When I was younger I enjoyed, but as I got older the process has become annoying to me.
Great video,pretty girl!!!!
Dating is definitely not fun for me either. Man answering the same questions and telling the same things to different people is a dub now! Especially when it’s not giving or doesn’t work out. Like are you my husband or not? 😂😂😂 I hate dating too and love to be by myself 🎉! Love the look
Everything looked so nice! And I love how you celebrate the people you 🤍
Ok!! Come on thru with this content boo🥰 I love it here!!
“Bust down bun” sent me! 😂😂😂 I love your personality!
What are the foundation details?
Loved the get ready with me. Sweet of you to take your Besty out. Your fit was 🔥.
Really love that sweater it’s fits you so well 😍😍
The outfit was cute I loooove that green so pretty
Im shy too, been like that all my life, def silly when you get to know me, i think it’s a taurus thing lol
Omg I can relate to you in so many waaays Girl you are my Favorite ❤️
you are so beautiful!!!!!🥺
Omgggg i loved this!!!! I love you 💜 I’m the same way now with dating. Such a inspiration 🤗
Yesss I’m here for the consistency 🤗 and I totally understand what you mean about dating!!
You look beautiful and love the outfit 😍
I’m with you I hate dating so much. I don’t like the getting to know someone
I call them friend dates! I love going out with friends one on one…❤️
Gurll your edits are top notch 😍 how'd you do that? I mean where do you edit your vids?
I feel like I do that bare minimum but I use Final Cut Pro!
You look GORGEOUS.. enjoy your ME time.. dating gets worse as you get older.. and its nicer to just let it flow.. the apps just make you feel like you said forced…
It’s definitely easier in your 20s, 30s your just picky af and the pickings are a little slimmer 😩
chileeeee, i was shook when i saw the cheers.
Girll same !! I am tired of telling these men my favorite COLOR !! 😭😂😂 I’m done dating , I love spending my time alone , my ex told me why would he buy the cow if he getting the milk for free and baby let me tell you this cow is fine alone 😭
it’s the “this cow is fine alone” fa me, purrrrrrr
What is the name of that place?
Love youuuuuu 💕💕
Love you more!!!
What color and brand is your foundation?
The look gaveeeeee but we knew dat!! 😍
I've tried the dating app too Kaila and wasn't feeling it. To me it was a bit awkward. Like how do I proceed if I find him attractive on his pic 🤔
I feel like dating is like having a resume and still gotta fill out the application….. repetition
Worded perfectly! lol I wish it could auto-fill 😂
Love your hair
Kaila where is the green racerneck you had on while getting dressed from?
Its a sports bra from Free People
@@KailaKake thank ya bay bay!
I was so excited for you! You got me 🤣
sis got on the bottega green okaayyyyyy
Boo you are so beautiful!!!
kake said y’all THOUGHT I was going on a date with a man😂😭 period!
lmaooooo
this sweater 😍
Do you know the Mallory Bros they’re from the DMV as well and I believe one of them is single 😉
I love ❤️ myself and plus I like my space too much. I like being by myself because dudes these days….. smh 🤦♀️
They be crazy lmao
I'm trying to get like you Kaila cause these dudes...whack when you just wanna have a good time.
Lmaooo very whack
The apps aren’t for me either, it’s definitely not organic. I’m finding that the men be at grocery but it’s weird because everyone is on a mission to get in and get out. Love usually happens when we’re not looking. I hope that your date went well ☺️you look beautiful.
Girl don’t be playing! At first i was like.. “that’s a girl..she likes girls?! Sense whennnn”
I loved watching this 🥰🥺 feels like a chat with a big sister. And green is your colour omg!!!
hey I just wanted to know what's the meaning of the "RIP" tattoo. like who died for you? just curious
It’s actually a K not an R lol
Her initials, If I’m not mistaken
It doesn't say RIP, its cursive letters and they are my dads initials
Imma need you to invest in a full length mirror 😂😂
I have one
@@KailaKake Okay, Kaila Kake . Please give full view of outfits. We /I would like to see them. Thanks!!
That’s what time it is Kaila as far as looking presentable in public as often as you can…🤩🥳🤩 Since I’m originally from NY & CT I’ve been a lot of places on the eastern seaboard & I’ve noticed the further south you go they are an exception to the rule…😜😂😜 Hahahahaaaa I see my neighbors wearing anything in NC on a daily basis. Then they get jealous when they see you take pride in yours & never say you look nice etc…🤯🤬🤯 I used to blame it on being oppressed due to the job situation & racism, but they always seem to have enough get high everyday & stay in debt for a car they can’t afford…. 😜😂😜 Hhahahaaaaaa…No disrespect to those who have their priorities straight… Fuk it I’ll say it “that blue bomber J Cole had on in that Butcher music video” is the perfect definition of what I’m talking about…. Im not just saying that because I’m the leather bomber plug, but whoever styled that Brotha was dead wrong… I fukz with you lyrically J Cole, but that sh!#* was in the way…🦋🎽🦋 I feel you on your dating views Kaila it’s refreshing to hear someone say they enjoy being alone…I’m the same way, but the only difference is I know once I find that perfect person, I will never get enough of them… #ShoutsToLutherVandross…👑✨👑 #HappyValentine2022Kaila&Friends…💓💝💓
Love ur voice
I feel tricked lol I was superrrr geeked like yassss… sis going on a date lol
You two looked amazing per usual 💕
Not me in the pic.. so don’t @ me yall lol I don’t know how to update it🥲
It's the Favorite Color & Wat Kinda Wrk U Do.. Please DONT ASK ME Them 2 Questions VERY ANNOYING.. I Dislike My Field Of Wrk.. But I Enjoy Dating... & BTW U SNAPPED ON THIS LOOK GONE GIRL 💋🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
a date? oh shit! git it!
I tried to steal ur outfit but a red top
❤️❤️
girl, you play too much. lol! but i loved the video. 😍
Lmaoooo
Yesssss I love urban roast ❤️