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  • if i had a younger brother this is the advice i would give him
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  • @EJ-qz1rj
    @EJ-qz1rj 2 роки тому +2624

    This quote is def gonna stick with me for a while:
    “If you can be the man you want your son to be”
    That’s just puts everything in perspective

  • @imharrisonn
    @imharrisonn 2 роки тому +2181

    Lucid woke up and chose nothing but to speak facts

  • @attest9110
    @attest9110 2 роки тому +2113

    i feel as if in society right now males are getting excluded more and more from things that are very important to talk about. we need more videos like these from everyone. good stuff lucid

    • @JordanWheeler1999
      @JordanWheeler1999 2 роки тому +72

      Yea. I find it hard to believe as to how bias everyone gets when it comes to "gender equality" or even "equality" itself.
      Mainly people only cares and respects you if you are black, a woman, gay, feminist, and ect.
      It just feels worst and worst every day

    • @darviousking88
      @darviousking88 2 роки тому +26

      Me too like society has changed a lot back then women would cover their private body parts but now they don't also some girls do surgeries on their face only to look beautiful that's why I say beauty is sickness.
      Most men now marry girls for their body parts that's why we need to go by the guidance of God that has sended to us so we can live our life in the best way

    • @JordanWheeler1999
      @JordanWheeler1999 2 роки тому +9

      @@darviousking88 in the end of the day it's just human nature, we nor nobody should take that away when it's how everyone is

    • @darviousking88
      @darviousking88 2 роки тому +9

      @@JordanWheeler1999 yeah that's sad

    • @lucid523
      @lucid523 2 роки тому

      Unfortunately I feel as if the roles of "equality" have switched around. And it should be equal like it says "equality" but men get treated like trash when we wanna vent because we're not ourselves we get told "don't be such a 😺" "men shouldn't cry" we also get treated horribly by the law, the court system and just anything like that. A female can easily accuse us of something we never did and we'd go to jail.. for what? Nothing. It's so horrible what us men go through and tbh not all men are nice dudes same with females. It really truly sucks and maybe hopefully us men can make men's mental health awareness month a official month.

  • @bheds
    @bheds 2 роки тому +838

    ‘Only when you detach, you will find yourself.’ -IamLucid

    • @DefeaterMann
      @DefeaterMann 2 роки тому +1

      READ MY NAME!!!
      !!

    • @mya6506
      @mya6506 2 роки тому +4

      So true, honestly goes for everyone

    • @MNightbirb
      @MNightbirb 2 роки тому +7

      Dude has insane wisdom in there ngl

    • @sss171
      @sss171 Рік тому

      Sadly I disagree with that. Engage in life. But I do agree you can never just drift though life.

  • @CapsCtrl
    @CapsCtrl 2 роки тому +1397

    most chad virgin in the history of humans

    • @Bigavelli
      @Bigavelli 2 роки тому +61

      W chad virgin

    • @BM8C7
      @BM8C7 2 роки тому

      W chad virgin

    • @b_f_d_d
      @b_f_d_d 2 роки тому +35

      W chad virgin

    • @ImaPullThru
      @ImaPullThru 2 роки тому +30

      W chad virgin

    • @LazY_NerD
      @LazY_NerD 2 роки тому +22

      W chad virgin

  • @noize8703
    @noize8703 2 роки тому +1012

    I'm dead ass getting sick of being shamed for being a Virgin. It’s getting really old to hear people getting shamed for trying to live a modest life. I'm a virgin because it doesn't feel right to me to just have a one night stand with someone that I don't care about. It doesn't make me feel good, knowing that I showed the most venerable version of myself that I don't care about. I'm getting mad fed up with everyone around me bitching at me for not having "bitches". I don't want bitches dawg. I want a partner who I have so much love and respect for. I don't feel good being around girls that I can’t trust because I’ve been in that position where I can’t trust this girl. It doesn’t feel good, and it doesn’t feel right. Serving yourself could be your biggest downfall in life. Thanks for this video Lucid.

    • @Cr4z3d
      @Cr4z3d 2 роки тому +11

      👍

    • @mysteretsym
      @mysteretsym 2 роки тому +70

      "Serving yourself could be your biggest downfall in life." That needs to be a quote

    • @BobozaNDJ
      @BobozaNDJ 2 роки тому +7

      We in the same boat

    • @yung_Latios
      @yung_Latios 2 роки тому +20

      Couldn't agree more. I'm so self conscious about it that I just keep it a secret and change the subject. It sucks being shamed for being different.

    • @OfficialDenzy
      @OfficialDenzy 2 роки тому

      Just get a girlfriend and have sex with her?

  • @BobbieInShanghai
    @BobbieInShanghai 2 роки тому +1229

    We need someone like lucid he isn’t afraid to speak out and that’s the good part he could be risking something he just doesn’t care that’s why I like lucid you can really relate to him

    • @DefeaterMann
      @DefeaterMann 2 роки тому +2

      READ MY NAME!!!
      !!

    • @toxicchlorine1729
      @toxicchlorine1729 2 роки тому +3

      Agreed. He's the kind of people we need to improve society. One who stands up agianst the bad social norms and gives essential advice for living a more positive life.

    • @gihan1
      @gihan1 2 роки тому +9

      we don't need someone like him, we should try to be him

    • @mohammedjafer9265
      @mohammedjafer9265 2 роки тому

      I actually liked the meme about strong men cause it brings awareness and clear truth were our society is heading

    • @BobbieInShanghai
      @BobbieInShanghai 2 роки тому +2

      Holy I didn’t expect this much likes and comments

  • @taxtheyoshimain6780
    @taxtheyoshimain6780 2 роки тому +818

    This is why i like lucid, he speaks what he feels is right. Instead of being right in others eyes hes right in his own.

    • @animecraze556
      @animecraze556 2 роки тому +15

      Man speaks his mind and is also open to learn more from us. Man is self confident but also knows when to humble himself

    • @juliangarza2128
      @juliangarza2128 2 роки тому

      @@animecraze556 true

    • @spicyshizz2850
      @spicyshizz2850 2 роки тому

      The video isn’t even out yet wdym

    • @JordanWheeler1999
      @JordanWheeler1999 2 роки тому

      @@spicyshizz2850 people can see it early

    • @spicyshizz2850
      @spicyshizz2850 2 роки тому +1

      @@JordanWheeler1999 ohh it’s a benefit from Patreon?

  • @andreadomo-ibea7078
    @andreadomo-ibea7078 2 роки тому +428

    It comforts me to hear a man say this and be a good example to men everywhere. I know at around 3:17 you talked about high school boys talking about how much action they are getting and comparing the action amongst themselves ...The scary part is, it doesn't stop at high school. Grown men can seriously learn a thing or two from you... I wish every man had a brother or friend like you.

    • @raylonlmao6450
      @raylonlmao6450 2 роки тому +11

      fr, im in highschool. Im in a gym class with mainly freshmen and that’s all I overhear the boys talking about. “I got wit her” “I’ll definitely hit” “ima do her like this *motions* ” etc. It’s crazy, it’s like it’s a goal or something😭they hang around the same folks that encourage it

    • @andreadomo-ibea7078
      @andreadomo-ibea7078 2 роки тому +9

      @@raylonlmao6450 It's terrible!! And the scary part is, you think this behavior ends at 17, 18 years old...No this can be any man at any age acting like that and encouraging the guys around them to be like that. It's disgusting and you don't even need to come from a place of religion to fight against it. Like think about your mother or your sister if you have one. Would you like someone to treat your mother or your sister like trash? What if someone's a Rape or Sexual Assault Victim? Oh you don't care about other's feeling's and state of sanity, you only care about action.
      Be the father figure you wish you had
      Be the older brother you wish you had
      Be the friend you wish you had
      Be a better man, no a better human in general
      I'm telling you man, it's scary .I'm already 24 years old and I innocently believed this nonsense would stop in late high school, early college. It doesn't stop. That's where we get True Crime Documentaries from.
      I know marriage doesn't = consent
      it doesn't guarantee a perfect wholesome marriage.... But if all fails, I'd rather take my shot with one person who ruined me and I know the main source of hurt, rather than 100 body counts that would be more emotional, mental, and spiritual damage.
      The jerks have called me named like Prude and Virgin Mary all my young adult life this far. Joke's on them . I don't have their kind emotional and mental damage .

    • @raylonlmao6450
      @raylonlmao6450 2 роки тому +3

      @@andreadomo-ibea7078 right!!

    • @aarrynz9721
      @aarrynz9721 2 роки тому +1

      Girls do it too and it's worse lol. They brag about their promiscuity

    • @captainripley
      @captainripley 2 роки тому +3

      @@andreadomo-ibea7078 Yea it’s sad. From my experience I can tell you as young boys when we’re in middle school it kinda gets ingrained in our heads that getting with a girl means we’re cool.
      At all ages as guys we get laughed at for still being v’s so in turn we start seeing girls as just trophies to put in our collection in a sense and not real people.
      It’s sucks that nobody is teach young boys about this.
      The older kids in school teach us that getting with girls means we’re cool and they got that from the kids older than them etc.

  • @The404Studios
    @The404Studios 2 роки тому +325

    Man just does not miss.

  • @katokarii
    @katokarii 2 роки тому +62

    "Be the man you want your son to be."
    That quote hit me harder than it should. I just realized that I wouldn't want my son to be straying away from the right path, so I shouldn't either. Thank you for this video and God bless. ❤

  • @NobuTalent
    @NobuTalent 2 роки тому +510

    “If you could be the man you want your son to be, then you could truly be a man” I’ll never forget this quote bro

    • @cwadh2143
      @cwadh2143 2 роки тому +2

      This. Only that I don't want kids. You are your legacy first.

    • @koperkowypies
      @koperkowypies 2 роки тому

      very well said

  • @wGScopez
    @wGScopez 2 роки тому +176

    stay determined stay focused stay dreaming stay lucid

  • @MaxThrills
    @MaxThrills 2 роки тому +670

    I’m 14, haven’t vaped yet, haven’t had alcohol yet, and still got my V card, and most importantly, I still have my dreams and motivation! Lucid has inspired me to never let go! Amen to this!!

    • @phantomjosh2148
      @phantomjosh2148 2 роки тому +46

      BRO IM 16 AND SAME 😭😭😭

    • @viktorboserup6676
      @viktorboserup6676 2 роки тому

      Don't listen to this idiot bro. Do what you want, as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else.

    • @fade1473
      @fade1473 2 роки тому +43

      Same age but I have vaped. I warn you, do not try that shit cause you will be hooked by the moment you try it. I had to isolate myself from places with people offering to give me a vape for a sec (skateparks) cause I would have probably accepted. Normally I would never accept.

    • @giannhs3187
      @giannhs3187 2 роки тому +17

      @@fade1473 14 aswell and also have vaped.. luckily for me i didnt enjoy it in the slightest

    • @giannhs3187
      @giannhs3187 2 роки тому +2

      @@kayekeo i dont vape, some of my friends do and i tried vaping with my friends vape

  • @Sweeneytv
    @Sweeneytv 2 роки тому +124

    Attention seeking behavior or the desire to be loved are huge problems that don't have simple fixes. They are often the cause of lust or bragging about getting action. But this is a good start. Thanks bro.

  • @notdayday
    @notdayday 2 роки тому +432

    Honestly a number of my friends, and recruiters all sort of tease me in a way for being single and a virgin. I always tell them I'm just looking for someone mature and real, not just a hookup. But they always "remind" me that there is "enough for everybody", and remind me that I'll "get my piece".
    One of the biggest reasons I don't view women like this is because of my family, I wouldn't want anyone thinking that type of way of my sisters or cousins. I'm confident in my standards and where I stand on the topic, so I don't see myself changing my view point any time soon. I just prefer to stay quiet when people talk about loosing their virginity and hooking up with girls all the time. Most guys have it set and stone that it's something you do to a woman (consensually) , rather than who and why.

    • @businessisboomin7252
      @businessisboomin7252 2 роки тому +33

      Love your mindset

    • @lucid523
      @lucid523 2 роки тому +26

      Same my friend. I don't view my girl that at all. It sucks that some of us men tend to sexually materialize females. Like it's not all about sexual stuff you want a stable relationship more then anything to be happy then later you can have something like that

    • @leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259
      @leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259 2 роки тому +23

      DayDay you're a normal guy and the people around you just have made bad life choices so they want to corrupt others. That's how it works. They aren't conscious of this but yeah it's how it works. It's perfectly normal that they do that, happens to me. Not every man is like that. There are friends that aren't and I hope you find them.

    • @DefeaterMann
      @DefeaterMann 2 роки тому

      READ MY NAME!!!
      !!

    • @mohammedjafer9265
      @mohammedjafer9265 2 роки тому

      Our society has seriously been corrupted non other then the devil himself

  • @DemetriusJay
    @DemetriusJay 2 роки тому +243

    You can never become a man until you learn what a man is. Mashallah, Lucid.
    Thank you for sharing this with us💚

    • @DefeaterMann
      @DefeaterMann 2 роки тому

      READ MY NAME!!!
      !!

    • @blackcobra7055
      @blackcobra7055 2 роки тому +3

      Can u translate what his shirt says ..

    • @GhoneimVFX
      @GhoneimVFX 2 роки тому +12

      @@blackcobra7055 thinking of god
      edit: Real meaning is god always being on ur mind u always think of what he thinks of u through every action u do. Thats how i think about it in my way.

    • @oke497
      @oke497 2 роки тому

      💣💣💣

    • @blackcobra7055
      @blackcobra7055 2 роки тому

      @@oke497 Pathetic waste of sperm … really feel bad for you type of edgy people

  • @Indie_Jayyy
    @Indie_Jayyy 2 роки тому +182

    I have no idea how or why I'm subscribed to your channel, I'm a 30 year old black woman but honestly you're speaking the truth to the generation Z that has been drifting so far away from the truth. Thanks for helping humanity.

    • @catswork
      @catswork 2 роки тому +15

      lol

    • @i6lakk
      @i6lakk 2 роки тому +22

      It's an old issue that comes before even Gen Z

    • @ajmma499
      @ajmma499 2 роки тому +4

      I'm an old head karen mentality vibe

    • @phantomjosh2148
      @phantomjosh2148 2 роки тому +2

      I have no idea why I am either,I’m a mixed race 16 year old.

    • @princearthz
      @princearthz 2 роки тому

      @@i6lakk old issues, new platforms. The access to these degrading things are more common than ever.

  • @MyMMTop10Music
    @MyMMTop10Music 2 роки тому +33

    The fact he removed ads just straight means that he is fucking dedicated and props to you for that lucid! You are like a mentor by making these videos so ye

  • @dedroundzzk
    @dedroundzzk 2 роки тому +156

    Never thought I will be saying this, But I was exposed to pornography at 7 years old I’m 14 now and still fighting this addiction. thank you lucid for this honest and truthful message it did hurt me but I’ll still accept this message.

    • @ConceptVis
      @ConceptVis 2 роки тому +8

      What have helped me beat it is, fasting and working out so it keeps me busy n most of all teaches me discipline

    • @noagerestrictions3337
      @noagerestrictions3337 2 роки тому +6

      When i see people who share a problem with me it gives myself hope because you know you are not the only one going through the same thing which helps us to keep determined and to move forward

    • @wokk9543
      @wokk9543 2 роки тому +6

      it was 10 for me but I am 13 now am I will not do it again

    • @dedroundzzk
      @dedroundzzk 2 роки тому

      @@ConceptVis same

    • @dedroundzzk
      @dedroundzzk 2 роки тому

      @@ConceptVis I do the same it works really good

  • @drako3307
    @drako3307 2 роки тому +190

    We really need more people to educate young men about how they carry themselves or we WILL fall

    • @JordanWheeler1999
      @JordanWheeler1999 2 роки тому +4

      What?

    • @drako3307
      @drako3307 2 роки тому +1

      @@JordanWheeler1999 wym?

    • @JordanWheeler1999
      @JordanWheeler1999 2 роки тому +6

      @@drako3307 no, wdym?

    • @drako3307
      @drako3307 2 роки тому +2

      @@JordanWheeler1999 I hope you grow up soon brother

    • @JordanWheeler1999
      @JordanWheeler1999 2 роки тому +6

      @@drako3307 are you seriously mad over someone that doesn't know what you are talking about? i think you should take your own advice, brother

  • @Ghost____Rider
    @Ghost____Rider 2 роки тому +66

    Hey Lucid, I would just like to express my gratitude towards you. I'm currently infected with covid and fighting a terrible fever, the worst I've ever experienced. But watching videos like this really helps me. A man to man convo like this is needed more than ever in this society. Alhamdulillah.

    • @ebtisamali359
      @ebtisamali359 2 роки тому +7

      Make sure you take vitamins c,d and zinc and lots of fluid. Also rest even if you dont feel like it to bounce up quickly may Allah heal you !

    • @hamza8895
      @hamza8895 2 роки тому +3

      get well soon inshaalllah

    • @joeibiden8816
      @joeibiden8816 2 роки тому +2

      make sure to stay hydrated inshallah u will be fine

    • @Ghost____Rider
      @Ghost____Rider 2 роки тому +1

      @@ebtisamali359 thanks bro I'll be sure to do this

    • @Ghost____Rider
      @Ghost____Rider 2 роки тому +1

      @@hamza8895 thanks inshallah

  • @moussamalki1544
    @moussamalki1544 2 роки тому +168

    As a guy who lives in morocco, I had many chances when people offered me drugs, i had so many chances to have sex, party, get drunk all of those stuff, but i stayed true to myself deep down i felt it wasn't right despite being just 12 - 17 at that time, despite the boys making fun of me CUS i wasn't manly enough to flirt and harass girls or take drugs, that's why i couldn't be more proud of myself, i have never thought that i was different or better than any other guy, i felt that a normal guy should be like that, respectful, true to them selves, have control over their actions, they have pride that makes them the opposite of simps, and the best of all they're not afraid to admit their feelings or mistakes.

  • @Xelafi
    @Xelafi 2 роки тому +88

    It's honestly crazy how mainstream society has made porn. It's kinda like how sugar is more addictive than cocaine, yet we still constantly bait ourselves with it. Nothing about that shit is normal.

    • @zekiz774
      @zekiz774 Рік тому

      And the sugar high is worse than a cocain high.

    • @zolantus
      @zolantus Рік тому

      sugar is not more addictive than cocaine. i don't know why you'd think that

    • @zekiz774
      @zekiz774 Рік тому +3

      @@zolantus it almost is as addictive as cocain. They actually are pretty comparable

  • @janicestevenson6496
    @janicestevenson6496 2 роки тому +58

    Thank you Lucid for this straight talk to young men. Although I am certainly not in this category, your honest words are so needed, especially in a culture where everyone is viewed as a commodity to be bought or sold. I am reading a book on relationships by Marshall Vian Summers entitled Relationships and Higher Purpose. Here is a quote about the first stage of relationship development: "This is a time when romance takes precedence over relationship. Romance is attempting to use a person to fulfill an idea about oneself... The difficulty with romance is that you do not want to recognize another. You only want the other person to validate your ideas about them.... But you are still not at a place where intimacy can be truly established... As the relationship progresses, and the person proves to be a real person and not merely a good idea, it can lead to great confusion and disappointment. This relationship does not yet have a sufficient foundation upon which it can last... When this relationship fails, you are thrown back on yourself... Here you must face yourself... If you can learn from these disappointments without bitterness or condemnation, you can gain a very practical wisdom that will be of tremendous value to you in the future." (MVS, Relationships and Higher Purpose)

  • @Angela-vm3kc
    @Angela-vm3kc 2 роки тому +104

    Then : a message to all females
    Now : a message to all males
    Well done lucid thanks for caring to us all

  • @noah.2628
    @noah.2628 2 роки тому +50

    we're so stuck up trying to copy everyone else in society because its "cool" or its "normal". think for yourself.

  • @kr1tzyop
    @kr1tzyop 2 роки тому +79

    Lucid I was finally able to realize why I subscribed to you again it's because you aren't too afraid to speak the truth everyone needs to hear both genders included. Which is one of the things that matter honestly, not just trying to make the other person feel the good cause of their feelings but a straight response that will positively affect them instead of lying to their face. Although before I go off and start a whole essay lol I just want to say I'm thankful for you homie:) Stay Lucid!

  • @dandanyellow
    @dandanyellow 8 місяців тому +2

    came back to this when i needed the most

  • @istra2496
    @istra2496 2 роки тому +8

    Really appreciate the work and message that Lucid is sending fr, I'm the older brother of two little newborn boys and after a state of being down bad throughout ages 12-14, i can't wait to spread your message amongst my bros when they get older after I helped raised them to be responsible, sensible, and motivated boys that aren't down bad by the time they're my age 😈

    • @Roman-Monahan_06.
      @Roman-Monahan_06. Рік тому

      Hi. I made a mistake and I got carried away. I thought it was fun to hang around people who use tik tok. I downloaded tik tok. I regret it

  • @HadiSOA
    @HadiSOA 2 роки тому +36

    "Stay Determined, Stay Focused, Stay Dreaming, Stay Lucid, I'm out... Peace" (I might have to lose my streak bro...)

    • @CARENTHUSIAST1144
      @CARENTHUSIAST1144 2 роки тому +3

      no bro hold on

    • @Mor-tis
      @Mor-tis 2 роки тому +3

      Like a sailer traveling through rough gales, keep on pushing through brother

  • @owxffles450
    @owxffles450 2 роки тому +37

    I needed to hear this more than ever. Thank you so much Lucid ❤️

    • @visheshsux
      @visheshsux 2 роки тому +1

      video isn't even out yet brother

    • @stormstudios1
      @stormstudios1 2 роки тому

      bruh you listen to it and you still use a anime profile picture, grow up bud

    • @apecsi4971
      @apecsi4971 2 роки тому +1

      @@stormstudios1 what does a profile picture have to do with anything with what the video said

  • @bladeisbad5751
    @bladeisbad5751 2 роки тому +21

    This video is so relatable to many men in this world

  • @pjsuttles4896
    @pjsuttles4896 2 роки тому +16

    I’ve never connected to someone and their beliefs before watching this video. I’ve been thinking about change for the past week and I truly believe this encouraged me to take my first step. Thank you Lucid ❤❤❤

    • @its_timber
      @its_timber 2 роки тому +1

      fr, he has changed my whole perspective on everything and feels like i broke the chains of being a slave to the internet

  • @roth2023
    @roth2023 2 роки тому +12

    "That's how the truth works. It will always hurt somebody somewhere, and as long as it doesn't hurt you and you can learn from it, that's how you will grow as a person"
    -iamLucid

  • @Jnwora13
    @Jnwora13 2 роки тому +20

    I can’t wait for this. I love hearing lucid speak his opinions and mind. I’m sure I’ll enjoy it.

  • @rinx2710
    @rinx2710 2 роки тому +103

    im almost 14 and im glad i haven't feel into a pron addiction like most people around me

    • @notlag7384
      @notlag7384 2 роки тому +74

      You're lucky. Don't ever touch that shit

    • @dismahusername8309
      @dismahusername8309 2 роки тому +42

      I’m 15 and when I was your age I struggled badly with the addiction, please never watch the stuff it’s so damaging

    • @Notyouraveragesunsetlover
      @Notyouraveragesunsetlover 2 роки тому +14

      You are blessed, i tell you. No amount of happiness comes from that shit

    • @lulucaslyfe9028
      @lulucaslyfe9028 2 роки тому +10

      Congrats my guy, I'm 18 and i had some phases when I was heavily on that shit. Haven't watched it in over a year now and I can promise you I feel a lot better mentally and physically.

    • @oldfeet7880
      @oldfeet7880 2 роки тому +1

      Nice bro

  • @Revzz
    @Revzz 2 роки тому +14

    thank you bro for using your platform to speak on these issues

  • @ChicaneMedia
    @ChicaneMedia 2 роки тому +109

    Things I took from this video:
    - Don't be ashamed for being a virgin
    - Avoid doing activities that harm your own body just to act cool
    - Focus on yourself and not others and what they show on social media
    - Don't let others pave the path for you and make you into who they want you to be.
    - Honestly just being yourself and not sticking with the crowd, be unique, different, not a copy & paste.
    Love you Lucid, don't stop with these eye opening videos, they bring motivation and determination to lots of people.

    • @Yurik-the-marksman
      @Yurik-the-marksman Рік тому

      yup dont give in to echochambers or the far left degeneracy, im pretty right leaning, very pro firearms

    • @sk3ll121
      @sk3ll121 Рік тому

      @@Yurik-the-marksman I have been looking at the right and left and really found out a lot of the time: I identify with both. I think the key is really to not let other tell you what to think. if you see say a story about a riot, look into both sides and what you would do and what might have caused it and come to your own conclusion. Do not let other tell you what to think and find your own ideas.
      I do love a lot of what he said, the problem is to me at least replacing what is gone. I think that is the true thing to do once you realise addiction or other stuff in life

    • @Yurik-the-marksman
      @Yurik-the-marksman Рік тому

      @@sk3ll121 exactly, you have to think for your self, sure most of my beliefs even a good 90% right wing beliefs but at the same time I don’t care about what political affiliation you are as long as you have basic respect regardless of beliefs

    • @sk3ll121
      @sk3ll121 Рік тому

      @@Yurik-the-marksman Yeah, I am more on the left a lot of the time I find but it does not mean I diagree with what the right has to say sometimes. I think we should all respect that everyone has different opinions on different subjects and thus find ways which fit both sides (though tbh everyone will likely never agree with one solution)
      Like I saw you love guns, but I am against guns and find a lot of the time they are used for bad and do not like say the policies in place in America atm for guns (think guns should have a proper license system like cars). but that does not mean I hate you for you owning guns or think you do said action, just feel a lot of the time they are in the wrong hands and feel they need more stuff to prevent that.
      I think online, we do need people to argue because if we all agree, no issues would really get solves. I just also think said arguments can get really petty which is a shame for both side or they argue over stupid shit which stupid (look at all the people who get angry at companies for being poltical and ignoring said companies using the anger to push themselves further). Hell, I disagree with some points in this video yet watched the whole thing and those disagreements did not make me hate the person I was watching. I think arguing for someone or blindly following is the worst online and to become more you must critically think for yourself and find what you yourself believe.

    • @Yurik-the-marksman
      @Yurik-the-marksman Рік тому

      @@sk3ll121 while i do disagree with the whole gun control idea, I respect that your honest about it. It’s fine if I disagree aslong as people are honest. Anyways the gangsters with firearms are obtaining them illegally anyway, doesn’t make sense to punish the citizens who are innocent and then just let the criminals be

  • @c0smo70
    @c0smo70 2 роки тому +17

    I hate that having a new girlfriend every week has been normalized and even idolized. A relationship is supposed to long-term and filled with love, trust and respect. Being a true man means being strong and protecting those important to you: your family and especially your partner who you will have kids with and share your life and experiences with.

  • @scott471
    @scott471 2 роки тому +351

    Toxic masculinity has nothing to do with your physical appearance. It's all about how society has this pressure of what men should be and act like. This stigma that men shouldn't cry because it's a sign of "weaknesses" when it's actually healthy to let yourself feel what you're feeling. That's why men have such a hard time understanding and not having any control of their emotions because they run from them instead of facing them. Masculinity is within you not what's on the outside.

    • @onfire2905
      @onfire2905 2 роки тому +43

      That's another topic, he's talking about how bad the state of some males these days and how thinking that there is a toxic side to masculinity is making it worse as masculinity has nothing to do with abuse or mental health but should boost your mood and should make you a better person.

    • @Nyayato
      @Nyayato 2 роки тому +16

      fr. Toxic masculinity is really NOT it dawg

    • @fryhyh
      @fryhyh 2 роки тому +20

      Another example is "smoking because it makes you seem masculine". I actually agree with that. Smoking does not make you more masculine

    • @Thezombiekiller06
      @Thezombiekiller06 2 роки тому

      Toxic masculinity doesn't exist, that's something sexist people push to put down masculine men. Toxicity has nothing to do with masculinity.

    • @tvbuu
      @tvbuu 2 роки тому

      @@onfire2905 i mean men should have masculinity and the thing is that even good masculinity is called toxic because they want all of us to be b*tches. you can have feminine and masculine energy but have it balanced but the problem is there's no balance. Dudes are repressed asf and these young chicks are obliterating the mental of the men their age tbh

  • @mendo5459
    @mendo5459 2 роки тому +4

    I've detached from Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and Tiktok for the past 4 days now and it's a struggle because that is what addiction does to you. However, my mind feels clearer, calmer, less anxious and more balanced already. Instagram especially messed me up because of the models and fitness influencers that lead to certain moods which leads to other things if you catch my drift. There are so many temptations and distractions in the world now, you really have to be careful. We need more videos like this because these are the truths people need to hear. Respect to you Lucid

    • @rushilg5679
      @rushilg5679 2 роки тому +2

      I feel u bro when ever I try to take a break i just get pulled back like a fuckin magnet to the point I feel like breaking my phone

  • @ReX_THE_CONQUEROR
    @ReX_THE_CONQUEROR 2 роки тому +21

    I am literally going to turn 18 and haven't kissed a girl, not smoked once in my life. Not a drop of single alcohol. And ya trying to free myself from porn. It almost 3months i hadnt seen a single porn video.

    • @caders
      @caders 2 роки тому +7

      I’m 20 and am in the same place as you. Went a whole year and then have fallen back to it for the last few months. I’m disappointed in myself but have lacked the motivation to stop apparently. Here we go again, wish my luck boys

    • @namename8207
      @namename8207 2 роки тому

      @@caders does the addiction not go away even after a year?

    • @caders
      @caders 2 роки тому +2

      @@namename8207 oh it totally did. I think the root cause is what changed though, I stopped talking to a girl that I thought could be the one around thanksgiving and lost motivation I guess. She was great but it just wasn’t mutual. Maybe you could say my motivation was biased and it shouldn’t have changed when that ended but it did

    • @caders
      @caders 2 роки тому +1

      If that makes sense. My mind was so clear for that year it was amazing. Idk what happened, I think I forced myself back into it

    • @caders
      @caders 2 роки тому +2

      I think it was just a result of losing someone I felt so connected to and became lonely…

  • @spookypichu8045
    @spookypichu8045 2 роки тому +7

    Honestly, this video really helped me look at life in a different perspective. It made me notice how messed up society is and how messed up I was without even knowing. Thank you lucid

  • @MGNate
    @MGNate 2 роки тому +3

    You have inspired me to let go of all my troubles. Today I am a new man thanks to you. I hope you know what you are doing is going to shape thousands of people. Keeps it up man we need more people like you.

  • @samuel-mx3oq
    @samuel-mx3oq 2 роки тому +5

    you have no idea how much i needed this. i’ve been fighting my own battles recently, many involving the exact things you mentioned, and this definitely helped. thank you for being the brother i never had lucid 💜

  • @Kayy._47
    @Kayy._47 2 роки тому +4

    What he said changed my whole perception of life, I don’t wanna e unproductive or lay around doing nothing but scrolling my life away, I wanna change and to do that, I gotta make change, thanks lucid 💯 glad I found out about you years back

  • @carrot4981
    @carrot4981 2 роки тому +16

    Thank you Lucid, my "old-friend" is literally smoking cigarettes, drinking alcohol - And he even smoked weed a few days ago. And he's 12. He's tagging all over his school, and hanging out with the wrong people. I really feel bad for him.

    • @Paper-Z
      @Paper-Z 2 роки тому

      I guess you should expose him to content like this then
      Even if you don't want to face him or you are shy, you can just send him a link to this video without saying anything
      God will help him insha'Allah

    • @carrot4981
      @carrot4981 2 роки тому

      @@Paper-Z me and some other friends from my school face to face, so there's not a problem with saying to him. problem is he won't stop

    • @neofox2526
      @neofox2526 2 роки тому +1

      wtf damn

    • @carrot4981
      @carrot4981 2 роки тому +1

      @@neofox2526 yup :/

    • @The-Devils-Advocate
      @The-Devils-Advocate 2 роки тому

      Please help your friend in whatever way you can. Turn your emotions into actions.

  • @iijogem4281
    @iijogem4281 2 роки тому +3

    This is the video I wish that I could have seen while I was in Sophomore year. The amount of things that were thrown at me going into high school were crazy, and I wasn't even given this level of a talk through the whole year. I just came to find your channel about 4 mins ago and this is my 2nd video I've seen by you. I'd be do happy to be like you thru the rest of my high school years.

  • @sajjadkargar9147
    @sajjadkargar9147 2 роки тому +3

    We still have UA-camrs like u in this world! Appreciate it man.

  • @dyinglewd7964
    @dyinglewd7964 2 роки тому +16

    Dude, I can't believe I just saw a p*rn mobile game ad in the middle of a Lucid video.
    what is wrong with this world...

    • @randomguy48114
      @randomguy48114 2 роки тому +4

      plot twist : lucid did that intentionally to test us

    • @brushot
      @brushot 7 місяців тому

      I think it’s the p industry fighting back XD

  • @omgsoeli
    @omgsoeli 2 роки тому +14

    Your the best lucid, keep up the good work

  • @TheKoalaMafla
    @TheKoalaMafla 2 роки тому +116

    I will add to this: you men need to immerse yourselves in books. Get knowledge about everything from every source you can find. Reading is a much healthier alternative to TV and social media.

    • @VitalXeno
      @VitalXeno 2 роки тому +3

      Na u lame

    • @AIvin.
      @AIvin. 2 роки тому +22

      @Vital Xeno well obviously if you play video games and use social media 24/7 get on a dopamine detox

    • @VitalXeno
      @VitalXeno 2 роки тому +2

      @@AIvin. 🤓

    • @Steezealways
      @Steezealways 2 роки тому +3

      @@VitalXeno yup what he said

    • @estatic6258
      @estatic6258 2 роки тому

      nah

  • @sivasubramanian956
    @sivasubramanian956 2 роки тому +3

    Dude dude dudeeeeeeeee, this is the best advice I have ever heard in my entire life, I was undergoing an emotionally breakdown and things were not going well but this is what I want to hear... I am very thankful for this advice man. I love you bro. I will be back stronger and you saved me man. ily man. Thanks and take care

  • @z1d612
    @z1d612 2 роки тому +8

    Lucid is talking about stuff that needs to be taught by our parents. Who knew that the only person thats keeping me accountable is a stranger online. Thank you Lucid.

  • @syrnin
    @syrnin 2 роки тому +10

    lucid you have really changed my outlook on everything the last few months and i couldn’t thank you enough. i recently cut off contact with all of my “hoes” and i have never been happier with just being on my own

  • @DrewskiMashups
    @DrewskiMashups 2 роки тому +10

    "A man without a purpose distracts himself with pleasure"

  • @AlvinDema
    @AlvinDema 2 роки тому +4

    U just put words on everything I’ve been working on these last months. Been at the lowest point in my life mentally and physically, even gonna so far that I was almost not here to type this message.
    I have a long way to go, I’m not there, I’m just a young guy with a vision of a healthy future. And even if I never get so see that future it will always be the thing that I strive for.
    My body is giving up, my mind is giving up and yet I still am here somehow.

  • @Pavl0s
    @Pavl0s 2 роки тому +1

    You’re like the definition of a person who can change lives just by wanting to help & just by being themselves

  • @trickzclipz5910
    @trickzclipz5910 2 роки тому +2

    This man spoke truth.
    جزاك الله خير

  • @crisprcas09
    @crisprcas09 2 роки тому +9

    My dad taught me early how to do exercises (like push-ups for example) and made me practice them every other day. I am really thankful for that because now I have a good habit of exercising everyday.

  • @jacobkn4812
    @jacobkn4812 2 роки тому +10

    This video is such a relief to watch. In particular I'd been getting teased pretty hard these past few months because of my attitudes towards women. Im not interested in hookups or running toxic game for the sake of it. I want a meaningful, respectful relationship.
    If you wouldn't want your daughter dating a man who acts like you, you might need to check yourself.

  • @humayunbaloch1189
    @humayunbaloch1189 2 роки тому +10

    I stopped pornography years ago and was falling back but not completely so this and ramadan came at the right time you inspire me lucid!

    • @benecrim1724
      @benecrim1724 2 роки тому +2

      Ramadan is so great dude. It allways feels amazing when it begins

    • @humayunbaloch1189
      @humayunbaloch1189 2 роки тому +1

      @@benecrim1724 agreed best month of the year

  • @Jeremixhs
    @Jeremixhs 2 роки тому +1

    I’m glad you posted this video because I’m 16 and this really made me think...

  • @shredder72
    @shredder72 2 роки тому +3

    Bro halfway through the video these are all the things I started thinking when I reached the age of 17 (still virgin by choice) and I am SO GRATEFUL to be a virgin even while being one of the "hot" guys in my school and college (not self proclaimed, I still am sometimes insecure cuz ofc I'm a human). Got into my one and only relationship with the person with the same mindset and I still haven't lost it yet. planning to get engaged soon. I can't believe how mature Lucid is at this age and the choice of words that he makes to construct every sentence is amazing. Keep up bro thanks for everything you've been doing.
    The only thing I need now is that stainless steel V-card and will try to if I get my online debit card soon. Much love to the community as well hope you all find a way out of struggles and reach your goals!

  • @toughdawg
    @toughdawg 2 роки тому +25

    Even as a female, I do learn a lot from your videos. I can help further more my male friends with the information that you give

  • @ashtonstaples2996
    @ashtonstaples2996 2 роки тому +10

    Every male needs to hear this.

  • @wajjihmuhammad1392
    @wajjihmuhammad1392 2 роки тому +17

    4:43 I like how you mention doing the opposite of the crowd, because it truly shows how much more you stand out and how "strange" you look for living your own way of life. Without no purpose in life, you would have no reason to stand out, no reason to find your inner self.

    • @mrrocket8467
      @mrrocket8467 2 роки тому

      Can u Tell me what the video is about pleas since its on Premiere

  • @mefor3
    @mefor3 Рік тому +2

    Damn, I needed this.

  • @Zapatozi
    @Zapatozi 2 роки тому +2

    It's so rare to hear someone speak out about this. Thank you Lucid! Totally agree with you here.

  • @naainz
    @naainz 2 роки тому +14

    Keep up the great work

  • @Daily_Knee_Views
    @Daily_Knee_Views 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you for speaking the truth my guy, means alot

  • @FlamingNava
    @FlamingNava 2 роки тому +39

    As a male I have been fighting my pxrn addiction slowly and surely. I have successfully gone from fxpping once a day to fxpping once a week. This has been the most difficult journey of my life, though I feel it is for a better cause. I just want to say lucid, thank you so much for making videos like this and speaking out against society. If you had never done this id still be heavily addicted.

  • @adjahnithermot2275
    @adjahnithermot2275 2 роки тому +1

    Not the video I was searching for, but the one I definitely needed. Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @AcatGaming
    @AcatGaming 2 роки тому +2

    Two words: Thank you
    All facts considered, you are one of many of my motivators in life to move forward. It keeps me rolling without looking back on what I did, but to look ahead on what I will do tomorrow.

  • @sniperzayn
    @sniperzayn 2 роки тому +8

    Can we all appreciate that lucid recorded this all in one take, just like most of his other videos. Imagine the effort done to not stumble or lose his flow foe 14 minutes straight. Thats honestly really good speaking skills

  • @uzair9637
    @uzair9637 2 роки тому +6

    Lucid my bro you always give great advice and always keep it real, much love 💙

  • @72bpm
    @72bpm 2 роки тому +9

    i love lucid. bless bro. to everything you said, i thought i was the only one finding something wrong with this culture. thank you for making this and bringing knowledge to more people with your platform, in a very well said way. much love

  • @sage9139
    @sage9139 2 роки тому +1

    I needed this. The world needed this. Thank you. The world needs more people like you that have no fear to speak out, and it's not gonna happen if everyone is just sitting around. I am truly inspired to become a better person. Thank you.

  • @assemassem3452
    @assemassem3452 2 роки тому +1

    Nothing but facts... realest video I've seen in ages

  • @PurpleLightningYT
    @PurpleLightningYT 2 роки тому +6

    I'm honestly tired of the sexism towards males of when "Males can't be sexually harassed" Or when someone reacts when something happens to a woman but no one cares about when it happens to a man.Abuse applies to any gender no matter.

    • @lucid523
      @lucid523 2 роки тому

      Exactly. Being Sexually harassed can happen to both genders and abuse, or something happens to him. It's so sad man it really is then some females say "well you liked it so its not being Sexually harassed at that point" like ever though "it" stands up doesn't mean we like it that's like us saying you like it because you become a water fall. Yknow? It's sad man so sad

    • @Angela-vm3kc
      @Angela-vm3kc 2 роки тому

      i have little brother and i also know abuse on men as an older sister i agree that men are applause when something really make them uncomfortable no one stand for them.. i know the struggle even i was a girl.. its just many people woman and men doesnt really understand it

  • @dgmclips2905
    @dgmclips2905 2 роки тому +35

    True message akhi, may Allah SWT honor you my brother and grant you the highest ranks of jannah ❤❤

  • @Ash_Knash
    @Ash_Knash 2 роки тому +10

    This guy is so wise .He is always trying to make us be better humans
    Edit: this guy is a chad virgin

  • @study-corner
    @study-corner 2 роки тому +1

    Dawg, this video is soooooo relatable!🥲

  • @saswitchcraft7881
    @saswitchcraft7881 2 роки тому +5

    I am at rock bottom. But thank you for this video and for your honesty. I can tell that everything you say comes from a place of wanting us all to be better, not malice. First video I've seen of yours but I hope you keep on this path bro.

  • @kingemperorofeastica
    @kingemperorofeastica 2 роки тому +6

    Lucid is one of the only ppl on this platform that is speaking truth and we need to help more people to go back on the right path of life
    🇬🇧 Love from the United Kingdom🇬🇧

    • @JW0121
      @JW0121 2 роки тому +2

      Hamza is the new wave from uk too best ytuber on the planet

  • @Skyphide
    @Skyphide 2 роки тому +5

    that was so inspiring i feel like giving this guy a tight hug and saying thank you (no sus)

  • @foxcannon
    @foxcannon 2 роки тому +3

    Honestly a powerful video for anyone, not just men. "If you can be the man you want your son to be" might have just changed my life. Amen brother 🤝

  • @theprojectsguy
    @theprojectsguy 2 роки тому +1

    TRUE💯 That's courage there... This message would have done a great deal most people's life if they heard it sooner!

  • @fall.visuals
    @fall.visuals 2 роки тому +1

    Ramadan Mubarak! 🤲🙏

  • @Petalon_
    @Petalon_ 2 роки тому +4

    This video is actually so true my boy Lucid just speaking FACTS!!!

  • @ericdiaz1719
    @ericdiaz1719 2 роки тому +4

    phenomenal video brother what a great message.

  • @PsdSplxsh
    @PsdSplxsh 2 роки тому +4

    Lucid, your the realist person on youtube. I think a lot of people needed this video, Thank You

  • @manuelv056
    @manuelv056 2 роки тому +1

    I've been putting responsibilities aside so long, That now I'm making excuses to hide the fact I don't wanna move on, It's been really hard because now I have to figure things out and I have no one to lead me only myself. Thank you for being alive, and doing what you do.

  • @Fanos_eye
    @Fanos_eye 2 роки тому +1

    Im very thankful that I found you lucid you have opened my eyes more than anyone else on this planet. You made me realize that all the stuff that society says is "acceptable" isnt it just harms you. Thanks to you im now bettering myself and am a lot happier than ive been in years. Have a great day

  • @NutterTesting
    @NutterTesting 2 роки тому +4

    Damn I really thought I was a loser thanks bro.

  • @trayambakrai
    @trayambakrai 2 роки тому +10

    Lucid, you are saying facts. I have tons of friends who've hit rock bottom due to them simping for girls that use them for different things.

    • @trayambakrai
      @trayambakrai 2 роки тому +1

      ​@@Iujjdjcbjrujgsm Like you?

    • @trvxo
      @trvxo 2 роки тому

      @@trayambakrai thats heavy 💀

    • @munis002
      @munis002 2 роки тому +2

      He is not talking about only beautiful women or ugly women . You are missing the point of the video . His entire point is men should not be running 24/7 behind women whether they be ugly or beautiful doesn't matter in high school noone is mature enough to understand love they are only having lust by treating women like a game your done with one you move on to the next . And even if some stick with a women do you think they are really going to get married or will their be any meaning to that relationship . 14 to 25 is crucial years in man's life and if he is being trained only to lust for women and go after them like a dog would go after a piece of meat than he is not going to be able to be successful

    • @trayambakrai
      @trayambakrai 2 роки тому

      @@munis002 It seems Mr. keyboard warrior didn't read my comment and his keyboard warrior instincts kicked in. I said that THEY ARE RUNNING BEHIND WOMEN 24/7.

    • @munis002
      @munis002 2 роки тому

      @@trayambakrai looks like MR triggered got triggered by my comment here is your comment "Lucid, you are saying facts. I have tons of friends who've hit rock bottom due to them simping for girls that use them for different things." this no where includes "THEY ARE RUNNING BEHIND WOMEN 24/7." secondly my comment was not even directed towards you it was directed towards the women in the comment section

  • @TripleIProductions
    @TripleIProductions 2 роки тому +3

    Ramadan mubarak brother, hope your fast is going well!

  • @EyesTorti
    @EyesTorti 2 роки тому +2

    Ramadan mubarak bro

  • @dontdisruptafk
    @dontdisruptafk 2 роки тому

    I am happy to find these kind of videos, i am proud to say i haven't gotten into temptation or have become slave to any addiction yet. Believe me in the past i have had friends, that tried to convince me, and they have even bragged of doing stuff that didn't bring any benefit to them except ("Rep). But i stayed away. Currently my motivation is God, and i was raised a believer, I will admit (since lucid came out with the truth), that i have considered being apart of this group to gain "Rep", but never went through with it, because in my head i knew it wouldn't benefit me and only thing i would gain is regret, and repent. Thank you for reminding what path i am on, and the destination i need to take. I won't become a weak man, and instead i will do things i don't want to that will benefit me in the long run. Stay safe, thank you for your advice, We all needed this!