Feeling Defeated with My Body

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  • @thefreylife
    @thefreylife  3 роки тому +54

    Keep on keeping on, friends!

    • @karendeakin9628
      @karendeakin9628 3 роки тому

      You’ll get there somedays my fibromyalgia defeats me constantly throwing up new symptoms and challenges I’ve an ear infection now just another part of me hurting sending love from across the pond xx

    • @melissa-Ann
      @melissa-Ann 3 роки тому +1

      💃 🙌 You got this 🙌 💃

    • @DuvAngel1
      @DuvAngel1 3 роки тому +1

      You are not alone... pray the healing scriptures over yourself- Jesus is the Living Word!

    • @tamberjune
      @tamberjune 3 роки тому

      I've been diagnosed with COVID-19 and I'm in a hotel quarantined and have had EMS here once already. Praying for you Mary! That was a loud crow! Its not great to feel defeated and that happened to me the day before yesterday. My body went into SVT. I'm taking a few minutes at a time. This morning, I picked up my pain pill bottle with my toes because my back was stuck straight. It was hard so go YOU !

    • @beverlysettle1084
      @beverlysettle1084 3 роки тому

      I just can’t fathom how hard it must be to share every bit of your lives with us, but I feel like I am a friend now, and I just want to say that it brings me to tears to see you not feeling well, Mary. And I pray that those nasty antibiotics do what they need to do and knock out whatever is bringing your body down. I have not even been myself these past three days because I am on a steroid and I feel like I could pull a plow right now! But, it’s only temporary and has its drawbacks. But I am not sharing my life with the world. Don’t get me wrong, I am glad you do so I know how to pray for you. Spring is coming and I pray that each day gets better and better for you Mary!!💕🐥🌸🍄

  • @louisewoodcock2747
    @louisewoodcock2747 3 роки тому +25

    Hi Mary, please don't feel defeated, it is just a little setback. Just listen to your body & rest. Let the army of antibiotic soldiers do their thing & you will start to feel better soon. That's what i try & remember when my brain wants to do a million things but my body is saying "lets just take some time to rest". Take care & stay safe Mary, Peter, Ollie & Harry 😊❤

  • @joselinema
    @joselinema 3 роки тому +28

    Be strong. I also have a terminal illness. I know the struggle. I think about my death everyday, but that makes me appreciate my family every single day.

  • @lsuchik93
    @lsuchik93 3 роки тому +8

    ♥️♥️♥️ one day at a time my dear. You have a beautiful life filled with love. You’re allowed to feel the way you feel and that’s 100% okay

  • @lifeinthegap6944
    @lifeinthegap6944 3 роки тому +12

    Our church got a FM transmitter, so those who don’t feel comfortable going in, can stay in their cars listening to the service. Even though we are outside, it’s still nice to see everyone in the parking lot, even a simple smile and wave of the hand can lift our spirits so. Enjoy your service Sunday! Feel better Mary, hope each day finds you a little bit closer to feeling better....

  • @tamberjune
    @tamberjune 3 роки тому +3

    "Oh Harry Boy, the snugs the snugs are calling...
    Oh Harry Boy you are so wonderful..."
    💚💚💚

  • @connimace258
    @connimace258 3 роки тому +11

    Keep on keeping on. Your not in hospital. You just need the rest. Bed is where you need to be. Outside is good. You got your critter crew to comfort you. So happy for Peter. Peter is such a good care giver.

  • @a_n_n_a5755
    @a_n_n_a5755 3 роки тому +19

    Don’t give up Mary !!!!💖💖💖💖

  • @Sherri5453
    @Sherri5453 3 роки тому +5

    These simple vlogs are some of my favorites. A day in the life.

  • @RedRoadRunner23
    @RedRoadRunner23 3 роки тому +23

    I’m on the struggle bus today too. Lupus is knocking me around. Much love to you both. 💜💜

    • @TraciHilbers
      @TraciHilbers 3 роки тому +2

      I completely understand,my MS is also being a pain as well,we just have to try to keep moving forward as best as we can

    • @kristinwallace6551
      @kristinwallace6551 3 роки тому +3

      I am right there with you. Sending love.

    • @RedRoadRunner23
      @RedRoadRunner23 3 роки тому +1

      @@TraciHilbers ty. Blessings to you.

    • @RedRoadRunner23
      @RedRoadRunner23 3 роки тому +1

      @@kristinwallace6551 ty. Blessings to you.

  • @sianhancock5872
    @sianhancock5872 3 роки тому +8

    Cats definitely rule humans. The things we do when we don't want to disturb the cat lol.
    Hope you are feeling better soon Mary.

  • @dawnlaughlin4873
    @dawnlaughlin4873 3 роки тому +7

    Hugs. I understand your feelings. Chronic illness is beyond rough!

  • @kathyrizzi8754
    @kathyrizzi8754 3 роки тому

    Harry’s not about to let you be feeling bad without him tucked in your shirt...so cute. LoL! Hope you start feeling better soon, Mary! 🥰🌺🌹♥️💙🐾🐾💙🐾🐾💙

  • @thegastroparesisgoofball1030
    @thegastroparesisgoofball1030 3 роки тому +4

    I’m right there with you, Mary! I was in the hospital this past weekend, and still trying to get things sorted out health wise. Praying that you start to feel better soon!

  • @cagedtigersteve
    @cagedtigersteve 3 роки тому +3

    You can forget the defeats but remember victories.

  • @breeannwalker8309
    @breeannwalker8309 3 роки тому +4

    I'm chronically ill too, but also going through it with no family support or friends, grieving multiple loved ones now and trying to heal from trauma at once

    • @lil1andMe
      @lil1andMe 3 роки тому +1

      May God bring healing to your body & peace to your spirit Bre🙏🤍

    • @Lonelygreeneyes
      @Lonelygreeneyes 3 роки тому

      Thinking of you in New Zealand 💛

  • @hollyosgerby1901
    @hollyosgerby1901 3 роки тому +5

    If your body needs lots of rest to heal and recover, then that is ok. You know your body and, thankfully, you listen to your body. I continue to be inspired by your inner strength and your unshakable faith in God. God bless you, Peter, as you preach your sermon. Much love to you all and prayers for Mary to feel better and for Harry’s continued great recovery 🤗❤️❤️🙏🏼😘🐕🐱

  • @amykremer6891
    @amykremer6891 3 роки тому

    We love you, Mary! Hang in there. The rain will stop!

  • @HopeAndSunshine
    @HopeAndSunshine 3 роки тому +4

    I totally know what you mean about preaching via zoom vs in person. My church just recently went to being back in person (again) because we're in a low risk area. It's nice to be together.

  • @catherinekennedy7731
    @catherinekennedy7731 3 роки тому

    You are in my thoughts and prayers for a speedy recovery Mary, and Harry too! You are such an awesome family, Mary, Peter, Ollie and Harry! Thank you for sharing your strength through it all. 🙏🏽🥰🤗

  • @eneal
    @eneal 3 роки тому

    I’m right with you Mary! I have cancer and dealing with new meds constantly but I’m thankfully to see your videos everyday! Hope you feel better soon!

  • @jerryskeepero
    @jerryskeepero 3 роки тому

    You are all in my prayers. Speedy recovery!

  • @AlyssaPalmisano1980
    @AlyssaPalmisano1980 3 роки тому

    I'm usually very quiet on here i've been watching you guys for awhile . I just feel so blessed you both do these videos. Mary you are just a huge inspiration . That has lifted me and kept my faith and spirits up we all have our things we are going through in life. I also love the way Peter loves you so much and your sweet animal babies. My Hubby and i have them to. Feel better Mary you are in my prayers. OH and i love my Tee and my water bottle :) I recieved today.

  • @ufdalea
    @ufdalea 3 роки тому +2

    Feel better soon!

  • @edithjones6361
    @edithjones6361 3 роки тому +1

    You two look so cute snuggled up Harry is such a special cat. I don’t even like cats that much but Harry is actually making me change my mind!💕Feel better soon sweet Mary.

  • @lifeinashell2580
    @lifeinashell2580 3 роки тому +2

    That footwork was impressive haha I was waiting for the basket to fall between the bed and table, but you totally nailed it. You got this Mary, keep plodding on girl

  • @jsomebody2289
    @jsomebody2289 3 роки тому +1

    Saw the title and it is a perfect description of how I'm feeling lately. I'm trying to focus more on health/wellness and I feel so defeated by my body.

  • @jonki1980
    @jonki1980 3 роки тому +4

    I am really feeling this today Mary. Definitely on the same page

  • @vernarosenblum1190
    @vernarosenblum1190 3 роки тому

    Want to know what I am thankful for? for you, Mary. You have been an inspiration and encouragement for my daughter since we were lucky enough to find your. Vlog. and with regard to what you are feeling right now, is the word ‘disheartened’? Which would be certainly logical. since TriKafta came into your life, there have been so many things to feel happy, encouraged and hopeful about. so when you have a setback you feel sad -not to mention dealing with one year of the COVID craziness. you are doing well, you have a little warriors heart and you will pass through this rough patch. In the meantime hopefully knowing how much care and prayers, and positive energy comes your way each and every day. and of course this goes for your dear Peter and the little 4 footers too.

  • @imogenoliver
    @imogenoliver 3 роки тому

    "this is ridiculous" -Mary 2021. Lol I do the same thing getting stuff with my feet and thinking it's ridiculous 😂. So relatable.

  • @kristen6740
    @kristen6740 3 роки тому

    Mary I hope you start feeling better soon stay strong sending prayers and positive thoughts 🙏🏻💜💜🐾🐾✨

  • @samgodkin4736
    @samgodkin4736 3 роки тому +1

    Top tip feeding cat that's toothless. Pile food. If it's too flat it's more difficult for them. A flatish plate and a little bit off the floor makes a difference. We got a selection of side plates from the charity shop and use them

  • @joycechivis6317
    @joycechivis6317 3 роки тому

    You are so lucky Mary that you have a husband who truly loves you and is there to help you. I hope and pray that you start to feel better soon.

  • @shelly0801
    @shelly0801 3 роки тому +1

    Im in the same situation. My body has been feeling blah and I don’t know why. When I feel like this I always think of you Mary of how you would look at things in a positive way despite how yucky you feel. Thanks Mary

  • @TraciHilbers
    @TraciHilbers 3 роки тому +5

    I have been feeling defeated with my MS because my legs don't like to work with my brain all the time and I can't trust that I won't fall,so I am back in PT to make them stronger and hopefully keep me out of a wheelchair,I get real frustrated with my body

  • @dawnquegan9548
    @dawnquegan9548 3 роки тому +4

    Please hang in there Mary! I can relate as I have crohns and hashimoto's amongst other issues. Better days are coming for us mark my words, you will soon see....

  • @jacquicoder7160
    @jacquicoder7160 3 роки тому

    Simple vlog, that's all you can do at times. That's life especially with chronic illness. Thankful that Harry is healing up so nicely, praying for Mary to feel better, and Peter, you are the man.

  • @Its_me--Boo_Radley
    @Its_me--Boo_Radley 3 роки тому

    Hope to feel better soon, Mary.

  • @mmmmlllljohn
    @mmmmlllljohn 3 роки тому

    So sorry that you are still feeling crummy, Mary. It’s probably more than one thing so you just have to get through it any way you can. I used to get migraines and I lost whole weekends when the kids were at home. It felt like such a waste of time/life. I’m glad you have Harry to recover with and that Peter is always there for you. I’m looking forward to hearing his sermon. Praying for good health, peace and comfort for you. ❤️🇨🇦

  • @Joyce-dd3fm
    @Joyce-dd3fm 3 роки тому

    Feel better Mary!

  • @MsBrat1967
    @MsBrat1967 3 роки тому

    Mary I hope you feel better real soon.

  • @lauramoore7337
    @lauramoore7337 3 роки тому

    Hope you feel better soon. And glad Harry is feeling better after surgery!

  • @andreas.23
    @andreas.23 3 роки тому +2

    Mary, you are an inspiration. The joy on your face when you said "you can hear the birds" was great!
    You are not defeated.
    Rest when you need to.

  • @Jaspurrsmum
    @Jaspurrsmum 3 роки тому

    Cat paralysis is real! I really hope you feel better soon Mary! Been praying for you every day

  • @cbush3569
    @cbush3569 3 роки тому

    Oh Mary, prayers for your body to heal & be able to do all the things!🙏 Thank the Lord you have Peter, Ollie & Harry Boy to give you comfort & look over you. So sweet❤️

  • @jenniferhamer167
    @jenniferhamer167 3 роки тому +3

    The tips of those ears just above that blanket made me chuckle. 😅 Sorry yr feeling so rough. 😘 I hope you finish yr antibiotics v soon x

  • @Lyenye
    @Lyenye 3 роки тому +10

    I know my eyesight is going, but there is no like button! MUST. LIKE. THIS. VIDEO. lol I hope tomorrow you feel so much better.

    • @Lyenye
      @Lyenye 3 роки тому +1

      woot! I checked and could give a thumbs up this morning!

  • @crbngrl
    @crbngrl 3 роки тому +1

    I don’t feel well for the past week. Sinus and air pressure. Need to see ENT but had to take a COVID test before I make an appointment. Been working not feeling good. Praying for you Mary 🥰🙏🏻

  • @BNHAalltheway
    @BNHAalltheway 3 роки тому

    Hope You're feeling better soon just take it one day at a time You guys are so special God Bless

  • @dizzycowuk
    @dizzycowuk 3 роки тому

    I know that feeling but your spirit will carry on. And guess what, you got this far and you're still at home. Thank goodness for miracle meds

  • @gabigayko1863
    @gabigayko1863 3 роки тому

    I love how Mary speaks to Peter By way of camera, you all really let us into your life. I thank you for it. I am so happy that chicken’s recovery is going well.
    Nice footwork Mary!

  • @ItsAMbutyoutubechangedmyname
    @ItsAMbutyoutubechangedmyname 3 роки тому +3

    My pts issues is acting up together with chronic pain so fun fun not but I got this . Hope you feel better Mary

  • @shyanwilson4116
    @shyanwilson4116 3 роки тому +2

    Get to feel better both of you

  • @maddieadams75
    @maddieadams75 3 роки тому

    Lots of prayers for speedy feel good ♥️

  • @danielle6999
    @danielle6999 3 роки тому +1

    So sorry you weren't feeling well! Praying today is a better day

  • @patriciahastings2516
    @patriciahastings2516 3 роки тому +1

    Hi Mary! Just a thought, but when outside is blooming the allergies can wreak havoc! Headaches, chest fills up, head fills up, stomach gets upset. I don’t know if people have this problem up north, but in the south it seems to be part of our life. I don’t know if pollen is exacerbating the situation, but no matter what you are going through, you will feel better. Jesus is with you and you are in my prayers. Love you guys. Kiss your babies for me.🌈❤️

  • @beverleypicard2116
    @beverleypicard2116 3 роки тому

    Sure hope your feeling better Mary.

  • @penelopepolinsneemeyer4757
    @penelopepolinsneemeyer4757 3 роки тому +1

    🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿 Happy St David’s Day, guys! It’s the National Day of Wales, where I was born. I’m keeping you in my prayers, Mary and hope that you’re feeling a little better xxxxx

  • @bellasopata9128
    @bellasopata9128 3 роки тому

    Sending you love, hugs and strength ♡♡♡

  • @daisyduke398
    @daisyduke398 3 роки тому

    I feel like somehow most or all conversations end up about you. Sometimes focusing on something other than yourself helps. I pray you feel better soon.

  • @veronicaseabolt2689
    @veronicaseabolt2689 3 роки тому

    Sending lots of healing prayers Mary

  • @505yoyo
    @505yoyo 3 роки тому +1

    Prayers 🙏❤️ for both of you God knows what each of you need. ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🌷

  • @Katie-xn9je
    @Katie-xn9je 3 роки тому

    Praying for you and your family

  • @cherylynn927
    @cherylynn927 3 роки тому +1

    I think you need to keep tract of your temperature. You probably should keep tabs on that. Praying that you get over this infection soon!
    peter, we hope your sermon went well! God Bless you both!

  • @acgvlogs5764
    @acgvlogs5764 2 роки тому

    I am amazed at how you were able to get your meds with your feet! That's some serious skills right there! :)

  • @MrHickman34
    @MrHickman34 3 роки тому

    ❤ "I Feel you" One moment at a time x

  • @kittymervine6115
    @kittymervine6115 3 роки тому

    also you shared LAUGHTER with not trying to disturb Hairy!

  • @masunshine2970
    @masunshine2970 3 роки тому

    Take care all of you. Hope your church service was good on Sunday. Thats awesome. Our churches have been doing outside services here in California but it's cold in the morning here in the San Joaquin Valley. They just went to indoor services but Covid-19 is still rampid here. So we or I'll have to weight.
    Feel better soon Mary.💗🌞🙏
    Oh don't forget St. Patrick's Day is a coming. 🍀🍀🍀 I have to go get my cornbeef, a cabbage and potatoes. I think ill have Yukon Gold potatoes this year. Can't wait for the Cornbeef. I love it every year. Have to celebrate 🍾 my heritage.
    Have a Great Week❣🍀💐🌞

  • @bertiesark
    @bertiesark 3 роки тому

    Prayers you start feeling a bit better soon, stay safe and healthy God Bless

  • @pianofreak91
    @pianofreak91 3 роки тому

    This is the video i needed today. On the struggle bus too.

  • @SuperMissblueeyes
    @SuperMissblueeyes 3 роки тому +1

    Mary, I was on Doxyciline a couple of weeks ago & I was on half what you are. It triggered my migraines & even two days after I finished it, I got really sick from eating dairy. It's definitely the Doxycyline that's making you feel so unwell. I'm so sorry it's making you feel so unwell, but at least if you see this comment, you'll know what's making you feel so unwell.

  • @rmjames83
    @rmjames83 3 роки тому

    Got admitted yesterday for IV’s so I know exactly how ur feeling Mary!! Do what u think u can’t do hey? Hang in there, u got this Mary!!! ❤️🤗🙏

  • @debbiewilliams8727
    @debbiewilliams8727 3 роки тому

    Mary keep up being positive and know that God is with you during the good stuff and the bad. Peter you are a wonderful caring helpful husband. Plus your store and taking care of the animals. Sometimes you look so tired...remember that I’m praying for you too! Love and hugs, Grandma D.

  • @cathyxox3999
    @cathyxox3999 3 роки тому +3

    Your a fighter

  • @carolynlong9148
    @carolynlong9148 3 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing you're day Mary on a not feeling so well day. I have to say though great picking up the meds with Hair man In you're shirt. Peter I'm so glade you're getting to preach at your church. Thanks for sharing your day guys god bless.

  • @lizdowning6134
    @lizdowning6134 3 роки тому

    I’m glad you have your recovery buddy in Harry. Just let yourself rest. I am very impressed with your ability to get those pills without disturbing his slumber by the way 😊

  • @NikkiSchumacherOfficial
    @NikkiSchumacherOfficial 3 роки тому +1

    Prayers for all. ❤️

  • @johnsonfamilyvidsvlogs3745
    @johnsonfamilyvidsvlogs3745 3 роки тому +1

    I finally made it to church Sunday. I haven't been up to going for quite a while.

  • @suexyong1742
    @suexyong1742 3 роки тому

    Mary you have the most sympathetic loving husband who cares so much for you. Never take Peter for granted which I know you don’t. May both of you continue to have many more years with each other. Love watching your guises UA-cam videos daily. Hope you get well and feel better Mary.

  • @juliannacraig4744
    @juliannacraig4744 3 роки тому

    Thanks for making this video. I've commented before I'm on the liver transplant list for autoimmune. Although I don't have cf understand defeated feeling some days lately. You are an inspiration.

  • @TOVANorseWitch
    @TOVANorseWitch 3 роки тому

    Keep strong Mary I have type 1 diabetes retinopathy nerve damage heart disease and just diagnosed kidney disease plus hearing issues really understand where your at chronic illness sucks hugs from london x

  • @hisword1296
    @hisword1296 3 роки тому

    Thank God you have Peter (literally) ... the Doctor said I have IPF, ... so I Can relate to having good days vs bad days-! BLESSINGS-!!
    💜💜💜

  • @ASinger418
    @ASinger418 3 роки тому

    I just received my Have courage tote bag to use for my ivig infusions and I’m so excited to use it :). I recently started tuning back into your daily vlogs and while I don’t want you to struggle Mary, it’s nice feeling like I’m not alone in the fight! Do what ya think ya can’t do 💪!

  • @kristinwallace6551
    @kristinwallace6551 3 роки тому

    Sending my love. My dog and I both are the struggle bus too. My dog had back surgery on Wednesday and recovery has been brutal at home with him on steroids. He peed all over the floor this morning so I think he has an UTI now I am having an awful cEDS, snapping scapula inflammation flare and trying to hold on and take care of us both, till I can get the shot I need. Hope you feel better soon too!

  • @belljr3413
    @belljr3413 3 роки тому

    I hope and 🙏🙏🙏 that u feel better soon Love y’all

  • @lauranorwar
    @lauranorwar 3 роки тому

    I bet you will feel better when you’re through with the antibiotics. You are still stronger and healthier, this is just a bump in the road. Rest and heck! Look up some yummy recipes to make when you’re feeling better. You could plan a whole bunch of really fun meals and treats to create!

  • @maryharte2551
    @maryharte2551 3 роки тому

    So sorry Mary that you are not feeling well please God you will get better soon ❤️

  • @maryreynolds5310
    @maryreynolds5310 3 роки тому

    Feel better soon Mary! I sure hate when you feel icky xo and Harry, I know he must feel so much better! I mean, think about it...if it were our teeth/gums, wouldn’t we feel horrible too!?!
    Love you all xoxo

  • @nathantatosian280
    @nathantatosian280 3 роки тому +1

    Hi Mary and peter I hope you during well Mary

  • @Melissanailzcliques
    @Melissanailzcliques 3 роки тому

    🙏🏽 prayers Mary 🙏🏽

  • @stjernoga
    @stjernoga 3 роки тому

    Lots of love and prayers 💕🙏 from sweden

  • @beverlyromeo6199
    @beverlyromeo6199 3 роки тому +1

    I hope you start feeling better soon I hope the antibiotics do what they're supposed to do we will be praying for you ❤🙏

  • @cagedtigersteve
    @cagedtigersteve 3 роки тому

    I love the little popup to remind me to hit the like button.

  • @donnaevans2005
    @donnaevans2005 3 роки тому +1

    Can totally relate! Praying you can get up more soon...BUt those antibiotics will bring healing that you need. You have your cat, and they always bring great comfort! Praying... and I always think about heaven and how we won't have any more pain or suffering there! AND that we are His!

  • @lisanorton7749
    @lisanorton7749 3 роки тому

    Impermanence! You are the very best at meeting yourself where you are. I hope you begin to feel the positive effects of the antibiotics soon,
    Each day is its own and the blessing is to be in it!

  • @psw1623
    @psw1623 3 роки тому

    The bird you were hearing sounds like a raven. They are bigger than crows, so maybe that's what you saw. :)

  • @pattyfluegel7816
    @pattyfluegel7816 3 роки тому

    Oh Mary, those days are hard.

  • @PinkHawk191
    @PinkHawk191 3 роки тому

    Today has been a tough day. I am dealing with a lot of fatigue due to my congenital heart defects and the nausea from my GI issues. I am going to take the day off from my PT for my joints. I am just going to rest and take it easy today.

  • @traceyricardo1506
    @traceyricardo1506 3 роки тому

    Praying for you 🌈☮️✝️

  • @robinharris0562
    @robinharris0562 3 роки тому +3

    Hey guys where did you get that carpet that Harry was sitting on from. Feel better Mary.

    • @Lyn4817
      @Lyn4817 3 роки тому +1

      Seeing as there is no reply, I am fairly sure the carpet square was a gift from her parents.. I am sure if I am wrong, someone will speak up.