Why Everyone’s Opinion Of You Is Bullsh*t - Alex Hormozi

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  • Опубліковано 12 вер 2023
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 93

  • @ChrisWillx
    @ChrisWillx  10 місяців тому +4

    Hello you legends. Watch the full episode with Alex here - ua-cam.com/video/M4PzOjM5BJQ/v-deo.htmlsi=cblgJnZieZClLT7g

    • @_N0_0ne
      @_N0_0ne 10 місяців тому

      Thank you

  • @stvbrsn
    @stvbrsn 10 місяців тому +11

    “Which dog wins the fight?”
    “The one I feed.”

  • @Khan-rz8qi
    @Khan-rz8qi 10 місяців тому +147

    Nahh not everyone’s opinion of you is BS, especially if they truly care about you. Sometimes you’re really on some BS lol. It’s important to be able to separate constructive criticism vs unproductive criticism.💯

    • @idc0459
      @idc0459 10 місяців тому +5

      This is just the modified "screw the haters" kinda thing and I think everyone's seeing it. You do lol

    • @TheQuantumQoach
      @TheQuantumQoach 10 місяців тому +5

      Naaaaaaaw ....Only you know....they might be judging something that will take YOU exactly where YOU need to be.

    • @michaelab1253
      @michaelab1253 10 місяців тому +5

      Yeah but end of day “constructive criticism” is still “criticism” end of day. It gets under your skin after a while.

    • @michaelab1253
      @michaelab1253 10 місяців тому +8

      And on top of that. You should only be taking “constructive criticism” from someone 100% better than you at a certain field. “Constructive criticism” from a shit friend on how to be a good friend should be avoided.

    • @Dhruv_Toppo777
      @Dhruv_Toppo777 10 місяців тому +2

      ​@@GlacierSoundlet it go man, we cant stop people from expressing their views and how they percieve things. Nowadays whenever i feel that a comment is wrong i just close the comments 😂

  • @fitnesslibrarian9013
    @fitnesslibrarian9013 10 місяців тому +28

    I think a lot of people missed the point of this conversation. Of course others opinions do matter, if they are congruent with how you feel about them and how you feel about your life. But so many people never do the things they want only based on others’ opinions. Take the pearl of wisdom from this conversation, you know what it is.

  • @MS-1994
    @MS-1994 10 місяців тому +13

    I've noticed lately how often people use the word "traumas" to describe life's difficulties. No wonder we've become so fragile.

    • @positivefraud3012
      @positivefraud3012 10 місяців тому +3

      Lol trauma has no correlation with fragility

    • @realheckertrustmebro
      @realheckertrustmebro 2 місяці тому +1

      @@positivefraud3012 Yeah but assigning every difficulty as trauma has

    • @revogenmediadotco
      @revogenmediadotco 2 місяці тому

      @@positivefraud3012 even if its true that trauma sets you back (while it is in most cases), the moment you choose to justify your failures with trauma(frequently), you're f*cked.

  • @paraworth
    @paraworth 9 місяців тому +4

    Totally resonated with this. Live you’re own life. It is the only thing you ever truly have.

  • @sherpajones
    @sherpajones 10 місяців тому +8

    I just set the audio to this as my alarm ringer. This is the kick in the pants I need. I'm also going to write invoices to everyone who lives rent free in my head at my billing rate per hour to see what I'm wasting my time on.

    • @Ps3keks15
      @Ps3keks15 10 місяців тому

      lame

    • @loveme77527
      @loveme77527 10 місяців тому +1

      I actually thought this was awesome & hilarious!!😂😂😂😂😂

  • @kayakMike1000
    @kayakMike1000 10 місяців тому +6

    People who say they HAVE TO do something don't really have to do it, they're just stressing out about the consequences.
    You don't even HAVE TO continue breathing, you're just worried about dying.

    • @stvbrsn
      @stvbrsn 10 місяців тому

      That’s not a great example, as breathing straddles the line.
      You can certainly consciously decide to not breath… but you will not die as a result. As soon as you fall unconscious (if you can even achieve that) your involuntary breathing with begin again.
      Breathing straddles the line between voluntary and involuntary. The line between conscious action and unconscious action.

  • @ronmoshe964
    @ronmoshe964 5 місяців тому

    thanks man to two of you its really inspiring me to take action now I just need to be brave and do what I know I need too do

  • @limitlessvictoria
    @limitlessvictoria 6 місяців тому +2

    did ANYONE notice how at 4:00 he talks about doing what u want but then in his other videos they always talk about how women who have chosen to be childless are sad and will regret it....

  • @jameskingston
    @jameskingston 10 місяців тому +10

    Love this one 🙏

  • @ruthanna4713
    @ruthanna4713 10 місяців тому +1

    Beautiful interview

  • @MrRhetorikill
    @MrRhetorikill 10 місяців тому +7

    By this same logic all your goals and dreams are also pointless.

  • @ricasso777
    @ricasso777 10 місяців тому +26

    If others are RESPONSIBLE for how YOU FEEL & THINK you’re giving all your power and energy away & essentially saying their opinion of you is more important then your opinion of you .

    • @bladelazoe
      @bladelazoe Місяць тому

      Fuck, that hit deep!

  • @547doug
    @547doug 10 місяців тому +6

    Humans are herd animals, we outsource our decision-making by looking at what others do.
    This prevents us from making errors (he is eating an Apple and looks happy, maybe I will try an Apple). This behavior occurs in a conscious and subconscious planes (why does having sex with your sister seem so repulsive?)
    When you do something new or unusual, the group will instantly reject it because it interrupts and challenges their group consciousness.
    True heroes go into the unknown and bring back something new and beneficial for the group.
    True heroes are brave enough, and are to be admired.

  • @superbMAO
    @superbMAO 10 місяців тому

    Love the thumbnail, it’s Art ❤

  • @officialnikkiswisher
    @officialnikkiswisher Місяць тому

    The most important thing to me in this video is the more you begin to think a certain way the more it becomes the default mode. If you’re not creative, and you try to be creative and you practice and you just do things that are creative you become better at it. If you’re not a runner and your muscles aren’t used to running, but you run a little every day you become better at it the same thing with your brain. The more you tune out what others are saying the more it becomes the default.

  • @joshs8704
    @joshs8704 10 місяців тому

    Good conversation.

  • @ryenschimerman2127
    @ryenschimerman2127 10 місяців тому +25

    Guy making his living off of internet popularity says "everyone's opinion of you is bullshit."

  • @garyjones2084
    @garyjones2084 9 місяців тому +1

    just crazy man i love this show,

  • @jd-persent7387
    @jd-persent7387 10 місяців тому

    Wow , I love the thumbnail

  • @ryanlee4176
    @ryanlee4176 Місяць тому

    7:37 - The bigger the dragon is that you have to slay, the more evidence you have that you can slay the next dragon. If there's ever been a good point for why getting over the one first hard one is so hard, is that it will then give you the reinforcement that you can do whatever you need to do next.
    8:02 - Whenever I feel anxious or insecure or angry or sad, Im like "What conversation do I need to have that Im not having?" & usually after thinking for not that long, I realize "this is the conversation ive been putting off".
    9:52 - "What were the things I am avoiding, that im using (insert vice/crutch/pleasure chase) to get away from?"

  • @dawnfmEnthusiast
    @dawnfmEnthusiast 10 місяців тому

    LMAOO THE THUMBNAIL

  • @leapingfury
    @leapingfury 10 місяців тому +5

    Alex says he has never crippling insecurity but then he also refuses to address it. It's so weird.

  • @cestlavegan5793
    @cestlavegan5793 10 місяців тому +3

    I love these strategies for dismissing the haters and just doing you, but I’m also that guy who hates his job, only I have a family. As a 38 year old father of two, quitting my job is much more difficult. Not to mention, Idk wtf to do for a living if it isn’t what I’m doing now. I truly feel trapped in work prison, and it’s crushing my soul into increasingly smaller bits every day 😔

    • @akincistrength1963
      @akincistrength1963 10 місяців тому +1

      Go for a holiday! Nap at the beach, get a tan or something.

    • @cestlavegan5793
      @cestlavegan5793 10 місяців тому +1

      @@akincistrength1963 lol thanks

    • @paraworth
      @paraworth 9 місяців тому +1

      Years ago with nothing to loose I took a different path. I’m immensely grateful at 61 years old looking back on the incredible direction my life has taken. When we develop our lives along inspirational lines we believe in and take the road less traveled we can be thoroughly alive. Ups and down are just that Life! But see what else happens on this path and you will become amazed and grateful beyond dreams
      Nature loves courage. You make the commitment and nature will respond to that commitment by removing impossible obstacles. Dream the impossible dream and the world will not grind you under, it will lift you up. This is how magic is done. By hurling yourself into the abyss and discovering its a feather bed.”
      - Terence McKenna

  • @aelfredrex8354
    @aelfredrex8354 10 місяців тому +3

    You do need feedback to determine how well you are interacting with others.

  • @Eyesofmars2040
    @Eyesofmars2040 10 місяців тому +9

    As a Christian, I don’t believe this life is all there is. I don’t live for today.

    • @magicalfrijoles6766
      @magicalfrijoles6766 10 місяців тому

      I'm an atheist, but I love that you nailed the Christian doctrine. So many Christians miss the message.

  • @LEEMIEFTinHD
    @LEEMIEFTinHD 10 місяців тому

    The reason we do things based on other peoples opinions is because we live in an attention society, we based a lot of things now off the attention we try to get from it from other people. It’s all about status

  • @ottz2506
    @ottz2506 10 місяців тому +1

    Guy forgot to add "Unless I agree with it"

  • @artemissthee3
    @artemissthee3 10 місяців тому

    I believe it's a sulky weak way to operate. We SHOULD care. Uncaring never works. You have to separate the good from the bad by first listening and being aware. This just gave a hall pass to every one looking to blame everybody else for their own inability to take on more responsibility.

  • @cathyehenning9647
    @cathyehenning9647 Місяць тому

    While your guys were speaking made me think Roger Bannister, first guy to beat the four min mile and the thousands of ppl did bc he had shown it’s possible. Thanks for the life hack

  • @keenanweind1780
    @keenanweind1780 10 місяців тому +2

    Just came to see why they had Andrew Tate on the thumbnail...

  • @PaigeInTheWild
    @PaigeInTheWild 10 місяців тому

    Who says that at 3:47? Sean who?

  • @Boyhead1973
    @Boyhead1973 10 місяців тому

    Erm.... well, I think not generalizing would be a good thing.

  • @magicalfrijoles6766
    @magicalfrijoles6766 10 місяців тому +1

    "People think of me as this alpha" is the equivalent of a woman telling you she's classy. If you have to say it... It's like people who talk about their IQ.
    Everybody can see you for what you are. If it's a sheep in wolves' clothing, we spotted it.

  • @ajs41
    @ajs41 10 місяців тому +4

    Most people's opinions of other people are based on a gut feeling about 3 seconds after they see them, which is obviously going to be total nonsense 99.9% of the time.

  • @k4n4z03
    @k4n4z03 7 місяців тому

    6:07 10:23 11:26

  • @auzziebridger
    @auzziebridger 10 місяців тому +3

    Is the thumbnail supposed to be a Microsoft Paint police sketch of Andrew Tate?

    • @keenanweind1780
      @keenanweind1780 10 місяців тому +1

      Damn, you beat me to it. I just made a similar remark, prior to reading the comments (it does look dead on him)...

  • @patrickg13
    @patrickg13 4 місяці тому

    Agree with some of this… but other point seem a bit childish.
    Like assuming that “the majority of people” are living lives that are unsuccessful.
    Lulz… you have to have a Low standard of judgement for other people to assume, and then announce this judgement.
    Maybe they’re not what others would want, but maybe most people live a life they can often enjoy.
    Not too mention the fact that never, in history except NOW, have been so needy as to think they are cool because they can push themselves to endeavor into a lifestyle that may be different from their rearing.

  • @Pianoismylife189
    @Pianoismylife189 2 місяці тому

    ❤❤

  • @piratemoviesbd3591
    @piratemoviesbd3591 10 місяців тому

    I dont know, dudes. I think crypto and all these ICOs are just a bubble. Well, crypto is good for transfers and so on, but I dont engage in trading and staking either. Its too risky. My friend recently lost $5000 there. I invest crypto in real business

  • @bigbubba4170
    @bigbubba4170 10 місяців тому +1

    The "ear muscle of personal growth". Interesting.

  • @cricket12ish
    @cricket12ish 10 місяців тому

    buff jesus is back

    • @alelectric2767
      @alelectric2767 10 місяців тому

      How do you know OG Jesus wasn’t buff? All that walking and carpentry work. Lol!

  • @kiely4561
    @kiely4561 10 місяців тому +2

    Although I agree with some of the things he’s saying I can’t help but sense some serious sociopathic and narcissistic vibes from this guy lol

  • @rbfclaboratoryandstudio
    @rbfclaboratoryandstudio 10 місяців тому +8

    The way you guys talk about the most simple things using big, unnecessarily complex words IS the insecurity.

    • @Hyperwav3
      @Hyperwav3 10 місяців тому +2

      You mean speaking English? Why is the default using slang nobody understands outside of the country?

    • @FinenDine
      @FinenDine 10 місяців тому +8

      Disagree. you're imposing your own insecurity about vocabulary on others.
      It's an attempt at accuracy not to impress people.

    • @maddscientist82
      @maddscientist82 10 місяців тому +4

      ​​@@FinenDinefor real. Question: do you find that most people are content with just the bare minimum of understanding about a lot of things that when you try to get even slightly more granular trying to understand it or even find a more accurate word to describe something they look at you like you're the weird one for being specific about the words we use to describe things?

    • @Necksteppa77
      @Necksteppa77 10 місяців тому +5

      What big words did they use? Are you a 1st grader? Lmfao

    • @magicalfrijoles6766
      @magicalfrijoles6766 10 місяців тому +4

      ​@@Necksteppa77I had the exact same thought. "licensing"? "alchemy"? I'm trying to think of a semi-obscure word they used.

  • @artemissthee3
    @artemissthee3 10 місяців тому

    I say that's a bullshit statement and rather dangerous when not fully articulated. Especially when the only compass we've ever had is eachother. At very least another's opinion of you is a guide post. Our sanity hinges on the feedback of others and in finding those we call friends and serving one another. Jesus, please think about who your throwing off the bus

  • @Sarah-nw7xl
    @Sarah-nw7xl 10 місяців тому

    I don't think that "zooming out until you can't see the earth" is a useful image for most scenarios. I get the zooming out part, but i think the important focus is learning discernment in the moment about how much to zoom in our out. And there's no short cut for that. You need to know your own capacities and priorities well, which are constantly in flux, and also see that a lot of stuff in this world is fucked and so things arent going to go how there's "supposed" to go a lot of the time. And it goes on and on like that, relentlessly. Lol. I'm speaking from the perspective of a midlife crisis, obviously.

  • @fai8t
    @fai8t 10 місяців тому

    he is a fake natty that’s enough

  • @andyf7179
    @andyf7179 10 місяців тому

    Unoriginal 😂