I was in a horrible marriage! Abusive both physical and emotional. She literally tortured me for years! She was a narcissistic monster! Even after we had three children together she’d beat me and abuse me whenever she felt threatened with me showing any kind of independence. Her family saw it and she show tears and they’d support her. They made me the monster and I so wasn’t. It took the police and our 6 year old daughter calling the police when she had sat on me until I was unconscious that they realized I was telling the truth. I was put into a shelter and found help. I got my children as well. Men being abused is a real thing 😢
I'm so sorry that happened to you. I've seen women be abusive to men and it's not right. Just because you're a man doesn't mean you shouldn't be believed. I'm glad you have your kids ( I think that's what your comment said). I hope you're safe now.
Bro its a female and your a man physically they cant overpower or even hit hard enough to hurt you ...dont get me wrong i believe men can be a victim of physical abuse but you can overpower that
The only thing worse than a Female Narcissist spouse, is a Male Narcissist spouse who has a position of authority. He has the physical strength And the backing of the system.
@@SoundsBogus yeah that does sound bogus. Females have the power of persuasion. I spent a year in a dangerous county jail fighting a case because a woman said I attacked her after she attacked me. They didn't give me a second to explain just back of the cop car i went followed by the most angry and biased interrogation I've ever seen. I can't even sue her because despite being released because of dropped charges, the protective order still stands
It shouldn't happen either way,but I had a co worker that abused her husband. I knew her for a couple of years,and then kinda found out. Tough one, they divorced.
@@theresaslusher4305Right? I mean, yes she was crazy & OUT OF CONTROL for sure! But u could TELL she was in the midst of some episode & was REALLY not well! & For sure her yelling & SCREAMING was annoying, but she wasn't FIGHTING back aggressively or attacking. She was definitely resisting but that 1 officer, I felt like he was REALLY unnecessarily rough w\her AT LEAST 2X, maybe more! But when he 1st went to the car & pinned her down immediately w\his forearm across her neck, I 🤔 ummm 🧐 that's a tad excessive no? But THEN when he had finished cuffing her ankles together & went to put her seatbelt on & she leaned fwd to yell & he used his elbow on her neck & SLAMMED her head back REALLY FREAKING HARD had me😲😳🤯😤! I came to the cmts to see if anyone was saying anything Abt that & I must say, it's distressing that your cmt is the 1st I've seen!
Those cops were AMAZING by making sure her kids didnt see her arrested. Im sure how calm and cooperating she was helped the situation and made it easier for the police to be so respectful to her regarding her children and not traumatizing them. Best exapmle ever of an actual good cop
Right ! But I'd seen a video about a Karen princess messed with cops, who called daddy, daddy went to the scene and told her she would be in good place in jail and it's time to grow up... 😂
I'm really concerned about how ignorant she is to the law when she's in a position to be wearing an ankle monitor. She should be a pro at that s*** now. Anomaly is that how hilarious is it that she's worried about the ankle monitor detecting she's away from the house
I had a GF that used to hit me regularly she broke my finger. She hit me with a 2 x 4 and knocked me out. She pushed me out of a window as I was trying to escape out of the house from her and I fell and broke my ankle three years after the relationship she found out I was having a baby had me charged with assault I had to sit there listening to her lie on the stand and even the judge taking sides with her saying that she was a brave woman. All of this made me sick to my stomach. In the end I received 18 months in jail, my child’s birth, and there was nothing that I could do about it. I’ve never hit pushed kicked abused a woman in my entire life, but it is what it is and I have moved on.
As a woman, im glad the cops take these men serious. It takes a lot for a man to admit he was beat on by a woman and used to be he still went to jail as the aggressor bc "hes bigger/stronger/ect." Men can be victims too of DV and SA. Love that they were listened to and the cops werent manipulated by the women in these cases.
The police are definitely getting better with that but the courts sadly are not. My ex wife used to hit me all of the time. The cops even showed up but I couldn’t get myself to tell the police that she was constantly hitting me, scratching me, throwing things at me, etc. but I just couldn’t do it especially when my daughter cried and said she didn’t want Mama to go to jail. She was also a makeup artist for broadway plays, turns out one night she made a fake black eye and took pics, sent it to some girl who was in love with her who posted it all over social media. She even crashed our car on purpose screaming she was going to kill us, we flipped 3 times. Even after all of that I didn’t want to divorce and thought we could work it out for my daughter. Then one day I’m sitting in my living room and the cops show up and serve me a restraining order, made me leave my house. I produced videos and pics of her attacking me and threatening to burn our house down but the judge still put the restraining order on me & kept it going for like a year. After that I lost what little faith I had in the justice system. The judge was some angry woman who to me seemed like she just loves screwing men over. If I could sue I would. But that was years ago now so I’m just happy it’s over with. I went through hell for a whole year because of it. Her one redeeming quality was that she did tell the court that I’m a great father which is true but I also think it was just because she wanted her weekends free. Total narcissist. I haven’t been able to get into any meaningful relationships since out of fear I’ll have to go through that hell again. I date women but don’t allow myself to get close. So I guess you could call that ptsd. Even my lawyer was disgusted with the judge who didn’t even allow her to do her job. It was one of the worst experiences of my life.
@@pinnacleproductions6275 I've been divorced for ten years now. I had my own issues in marriage as well. I actually did try to date for the first few years until I realized that my life is so much easier single. And now that I've made that decision I feel freer and happier than I ever have. For me once I took the time to work on myself and learn to love myself then I found that not only did I no longer get lonely but I realized single was sooooo much easier with no drama. Being in a relationship no longer made sense to me. So I hope that you learn to love yourself and learn to NEVER settle. Figure out what YOU want and what YOU need and you won't ever allow yourself to be in that again. I think often these people prey on those who aren't so confident and sure of what they deserve. Good luck to you both!
Thanks for acknowledging that. It seems like we are just expected to accept any abuse. I had a psychologically and sometimes physically abusive girlfriend way back in the day. That was my first serious relationship and definitely left some lasting scars.
@@dustman96I’m sorry you went through that as I am for any man who keeps quiet or isn’t believed. Women can be scary narcs and just as bad as men. I’m glad more people are becoming aware but it’s still not enough. Just know not all women are like them as I’ve been in the situation but the other way round but I walked away from a friend for doing this, no way could I stay friends or not call her out on her abusive behaviour. Never give up hope 🥰
Until you're in a relationship with your boyfriend lies tells the cops you aren't together and says that I stabbed him or you stabbed him and you kicked him in the head when you didn't because he choked you out and you try to defend yourself you won't even understand what these girls are going through you are a woman including to fucking feel problems with them these men sound like they're tweaked the fuck out and they were part of the fight it was a mutual come back if anything if not fucking made up
Time stamp 41.09 that officer who was talking to the lady who tried to attack the new girlfriend is very professional.. his explanation is perfect and he tried to make the lady feel more at ease considering the situation she is in. And how he said he will arrest her discretely away from her daughter is from the heart. It’s the first time I’ve seen an officer so professional 😊
@SoniaAchieng do you watch other videos like this? That woman got treated that way because she cooperated and didn't resist. That is rarely the case with these type of people. Fact is... you act like an asshole... you get treated like one.
I grew up in Henry county and I’ve been a guardian ad Litem for children in the care of DCFS for nearly 8 years now. All you need to know is, our politicians/leaders are corrupt and our foster system is more broken than most people can even begin to fathom. The stories I could tell. I’m actually resigning from my 8 year volunteer advocacy position once my current case reaches some sort of end. I’ve known all along that things are broken, I mean heck, that’s why I wanted to try and make a difference by being a child advocate but the frustration I’ve felt across the board regarding my current case has really opened my eyes to just how bad things are. There is no fixing our current system. Same with the way our government and judicial system…it all needs to be torn to the ground and restructure from scratch.
YES! I have been saying this. All of our “systems” are broken…broken beyond fixing……..the medical, justice, CPS, and the federal goverment , state and local,goverment all broken. And we need a re boot.
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And got illegal choked by a cop multiple times and almost killed it is illegal and prohibited for a cop in any state to use force on the neck so explain
I thought the way the police officer spoke and explained things to her was really good. That's because she was willing to listen to what he said.@@HelenRoseOfLOI
*She only realised after she saw the by standers explaining what happened, otherwise she be throwing tantrums n blaming all on her husband saying he assaulted her, punched her, choked her and even body slammed her*
@@dvsnow210That's all it was filmed, I have no sympathy, she locked the cars, she chased him and lied, other than that she kicked out her husband, he takes the 3 children, when he finds a new girlfriend the ex comes back wanting her children and beats up the current one...For me, she only cooperated because she knew that the accusation of assault would be bad enough.
The first lady really honestly needed a doctor not jail. It's so sad to see when a person with a real illness is treated like a criminal when in fact she just needed someone to care enough to try and help her. This is a real issue for many men and women who have psychological problems that may be undiagnosed or not treated. I know it's a very difficult thing to deal with from the outside and it's just easier to write them off but imagine if it was someone who you loved that was found in a situation where they are not in control of their own minds. You would want someone to show them kindness and get them whatever help they needed instead of sent into a broken system that will only send them deeper into an abyss where they can't even recognize themselves. I know I would want someone to help me.
What’s bothersome is that nobody noticed that the officer put an elbow up to her throat, choking her on multiple occasions, especially towards the end, where he elbowed her right in the throat, and one particular time before then when she was leaning back, the last time was when she was sitting up you saw that right with the seatbelt on he had her held up by her throat with his elbow the time before, then she was leaning back, laying down on the seat, and he had her by the throat with his forearm, crushing her windpipe you could hear her sound of your voice changed when she did that
Miranda rights are really only there to be a protective barrier to self-incrimination. You don't have to be read rights for detainment or arrest. But they ALWAYS know their rights, right?
Absolutely! That brute with his elbow in her throat TWICE should be brought up on charges. She wasn't hurting him at all. She was just yelling. He's just a hot head who lacks the correct mentality for that job.
To the officer that arrested the mother without her kids seeing it. You sir should instruct classes on kindness. I know not all situations are the same but the level of kindness that you showed the mother and the whole situation was just amazing. Im not a supporter of LEO, but i am of that gentleman. Very kind.
He made this bad situation good for everyone involved. He respected them all. What a great guy!! Definitely need more cops like him!! You rookies take notes!!😊
Why would anyone not be a supporter of LEO? I'm not a supporter of corrupt people no matter what they do for a living. But to generalize leo's into one category isn't any more fair than it is to generalize white people, black people or blue people. There are both good people and bad people everywhere! Besides, what alternative would you propose? Should we do away with leo's completely and allow the citizens to police themselves? What do we do when people make their job so horrible by they way they are treated (even the good ones) that you can't pay anyone enough to be a leo? We're not far away, I know I wouldn't do that job in these times.
Yeah, her ex-husband's girlfriend was telling the cop that she must be on drugs because she's lost 50 lbs in a few months. As if not being able to see your kids, your husband leaving you, not having a job, and being broke couldn't possibly be a reason for losing weight.
@@michaelharrington75She was saying that they were wanting the eldest daughter to live in the big house with the dad because the eldest daughter is loosing weight and they aren't sure if it is drugs or something else. I'm guessing they are also concerned about the daughter having an eating disorder. But they never stated eating disorder.
@@Ryns.16688 Could be that she was talking about the daughter, but it sounded to me like she said they've been trying to get her because her mother has lost a lot of weight in a short period of time, needs testing for drugs, and a mental evaluation. But, she very well could have been talking about the daughter? It wouldn't be surprising for a teen to turn to drugs, or lose weight because of the stress of her parents divorce, and all the fighting between them.
Cops overeached immensely when boyfriend said he was fine and nothing happened, why did they arrest her? He wasn't pressing charges, it just makes yout think twice when calling the cops for help, they should train to diffuse not escalate
In some states they have to arrest whoever has the least damage to their body, it’s the law to keep the peace because it may turn into something more dangerous or even deadly.
That girlfriend saying that her boyfriend's wife has lost 30 to 40lbs the past cpl months doesn't necessarily mean she's on drugs. It could be because her husband of many years and father of her 4 children and 1 on the way, left her for another woman and took everything because he's the one with the job so he has the kids. So, it could be her nerves...I could be wrong...just saying🤔
Agreed. When I found out my husband was cheating on me, I lost 50lbs in 3 months just from anxiety, depression and utter devastation. I barely ate or slept, and when I did eat, I would get sick from the ulcers that had formed, so I could barely keep anything down. Exercise was a way for me to try to manage stress, so I dropped it fast.
@@justme240Stress doesn’t actually cause ulcers, but it can exasperate ulcers caused by other medical issues. The weight loss is so common during divorces. My neighbor and best friend went from 175lbs to 98lbs in six months due to not eating and paranoia of what he would do. He’s a diagnosed malignant narcissist and as bad as they come. I’m sorry this happened to you. Hope you’re doing well now.
I was married to an abuser and when I escaped from him, my friends didn't recognize me because I had lost so much weight. He had isolated me from my family and it was 2 years b4 they saw me. Stress and anxiety can turn you into a skeleton!
@villain-de-cat first of all lawyers aren't involved. The police press charges for the victims. 2nd if a victim is dumb enough to post bond for an abuser instead of getting a restraining order and getting gone then they are enabling the abuse. Not very smart.
Cops let drugs on your American streets ffs, if there was no people on drink & drugs the corrupt cops would have very little trouble & therefore wouldn't really have many arrests to make (think 🤔 about it)
I think by that stage the cops should've been aware that she had some serious mental health issues. Not an open and shut case. You can see that she is seeing something else
That first lady is absolutely crazy but how does she get charged with assault against a police officer when she was handcuffed and he hit her with his elbow in the neck and choked her?!! That's still unacceptable behavior from a police officer, he let his anger get to him!
How sad she clings to a garbage man,she crazy and he abused her vulnerability to benifit his peen. He doesn’t seem like a victim to me. And she didn’t assault him. Her being that mentally disabled MEAN SHE CANT LEGALLY CONSENT! I bet he’s a narcissist targeted a woman he could easily mentally hurt her with acting like he likes her , use her vagina then discard her then blame her for not being able to handle the hurt and letting it drive her to act out! He did that to her multiple times cuz he finds her reaction to discard entertaining!!!!
Nice to see cops who know how to deescalate even when the person being arrested is drunk and hard to deal with. They deserve an A+ for a job well done.
If your meaning the 2nd woman , why didn't that massive black cop not have his body cam on!? (who she "apparently" punched in the face & kicked him on his bulletproofed vest & sent him "FLYING" btw ACROSS the room, bs he was making that up as he went along, what probably happened is ' yes she did try to go out to her boyfriend & when she said "no" the cops knocked her flying more like & that tasering was well out of order considering there was the 2 white cops & the black one all on her at this point cuffs on & still tasering her.. & im only refering to colour so there's no confusion as to who she apparently must have had the strength of bigger guy than him in order to send him flying over the room 🤣 & I pity him if an actual bullet hits his steel vest or whatever the fk it's made of if a small 22yr old sent him across a room!! Fking police , honestly, ' especially American ones , power tripping lying bullying assholes. (Not all of them right enough)
Blondes and alcohol 🙄🫣 yeah an absolute nightmare blackout and no1 is there and then it gets crazy.. I'm sure there's nice Blondes out there but the 5 I've ended up with.. look attractive innocent then a few years go bye 🙈 this is not normal your younger there attractive use end up living together then the drinking starts and 😳 yeah this isn't the same women I met thought she was .. so yeah now I avoid Blondes 👱♀️ but unfortunately I have two sons to one and her mother was an alcoholic used to hit her .. found out her grandfather had abused her and as the years went past she went from this innocent attractive 20yr old woman to drinking until she was blackout drunk and 🙄 yeah wasn't fun my youngest son lives with me and my gf of 4yr she's petit ginger haired women privately educated comes from a nice family.. and our first year together she noticed thing's she would give me compliments and id automatically 🤨 why you trying to be sarcastic 🙄😦 I'm not your looking really nice .. and when she would open a bottle of wine I'd leave 🤚 no I no what happens next .. took over a year to relise yeah she was different wouldn't blackout get aggressive but yeah it took time. Then my ex would phone at 4am send love songs 🎵 old videos of us together.. say I miss you sorry it just comes in waves then two nights later she would be phoning saying she was going to beat up that little ginger bitch 🙈 ffs I'd have to say you come near this house it's recored I will tell the police and I'll tell them everything I no where you keep your cocaine ect .. then she would hang up and then my gf 😮 now I understand that's not normal.. Well that was my life and yeah according to my ex I'd been seeing my new gf for years behind her back .. yeah it was crazy so I used to find Blondes attractive but now it's a red flag 🙈
Finally I see (hear) a cop that is using the right words and talk calmly and trying to defuse a situation with use of the correct words and demeaner. The cop in the 3rd video is a great one!
The first lady was suffering psychosis. She didn't abuse her boyfriend. She needed a psychiatrist not jail. I heard Dayton does this all the time to ppl.
Most deadly abuse happens when someone tries to leave. My husband tried to kill me three times. I broke free 30 years ago but I still have nightmares. Woman can be just as abusive as men.
I'm proud of you for having such courage to leave 💝 for the nightmares - UA-cam " 8hrs psalms , Psalm 23 & 91 " they are protection prayers, the vid plays quietly the whole night. Whenever I have a couple nights in a row I automatically know to play that. And it works EVERY time 🙏
I commend you for maintaining perspective even after going through that. Took me a while to realize not all women were like my first abusive girlfriend.
When I was younger, I was engaged to a woman who was about 5' tall and weighed 100 lbs at 21. There were arguments where I was punched in the face, she punched me while in her sleep once, and I would always walk away. Time would go on, and I remember talking to my parents a few times about it. Everytime they just laughed it off snd called her, "fiesty". I can assure discrimination is real because if the shoe was on the other foot, I'd be in for a bit more than being called, "fiesty". Alot of guys stay in these relationships because as men we are taught to take abuse and "grow stronger" from it. Alot of these women go on for years abusing, cheating, and then will try to point the finger at their victimized husband. I'm not saying men are angels. Hell, I'll even tell ya we're the start of 90% of all problems. But some of my exs, the women in my life, and my mother in that regard, are proud of the men they have beaten the shit out of. There's alot of this shit going on out there for both sides that ain't right, man
I applaud that male victims are being taken seriously by authorities now, and while none of this behaviour can ever be condoned or excused, it is worth considering how tame much of the violence in this video is, when compared to levels of common male against female DV. How far we have come in recognising that all DV is wrong, and it’s great to see a crack down on all perpetrators.
That is one understanding professional officer. If more cops conducted themselves like that man, the police would have a much better public image. You sir are a credit to your profession 👏👍👍💯🙏
Good grief. What I’d do for a boyfriend and these “women” abuse theirs. They were lucky to have had a boyfriend but $¢rewed it the f*** up. 🤦🏻♀️🙎🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Cherish your freedom. When people in relationships speak of envy over people free of such bondage, they do so for good reason. The grass always seems greener on the other side until you get there & realize it's a wasteland. Please try hard to be happy to be free of such shackles.
I've been married for almost 40 years, relationships are hard and it doesn't stop after the wedding. The trick is to find someone that is honest and under stands the word loyalty. You must also have other things physically, emotionally, and morally. Also watch out for the drinking habits, to drink to ease emotional turmoil, or for fun is a super big red flag. If that's all you're seeing find a different circle of friends and potentials.
@@anndennis7163 That's also really fair advice especially about the drinking. I allowed drinking to take a lot of opportunities from me. These days I can't even believe it's a legal thing. I think I'm done trying to ever trust anybody else though lol. That's all on you people Good luck
I dont believe that second cop who tazed the girl in the bed. His story had alot that happened in to short of a time and just when the other cops were not around. Why did the cops have to go around the corner to talk. Ive never seen that before. I showed my dad whose a retired cop this video and he agrees. He said that all 3 were in on this and they are all dirty cops. Unbelievable
That's what I thought, too. As soon as they left, he took over and they didn't bother to show us his cam footage. He didn't have a good answer for where she kicked him, either. "My chest, I guess." Hmmm
How the hell does that woman think she’s a Kid??? I was a married mother of a child at her age😂 sick of these goofy Adults acting like they should be considered kids. Cringy as H.
lmao the way they said yes and no at the same time about asking if they were married....shes the craziest ive seen in a long time "bombbbbbb" it was funny but i felt so bad when she screamed daddy she really has issues.....on a lighter note the cop at 39:53 was great and tbh the lady wasnt unreasonable at all neither and super mature about it all i hope she gets on the right track soon
95% of the time I am commenting on how immature or crazy these people are acting and how a lot of these police officers do a great job but that first video was just disturbing
I believe the Depp/Heard case has a lot to do with men being believed with regard to domestic v cases. Are rightly so. All the years that men were immediately thought to be the perportrators without question is sad. No one deserves to be abused. In my humble opinion.
Absolutely agree! I truly believe it set a new precedent for male victims everywhere. I’m so happy JD got some justice for what he endured. Props to all guys finally being “heard” …. 💙
4yrs of hell for me. She will never be held accountable. I'm lucky I'm alive today after being stabbed and had guns pulled on me, being attacked in my sleep ect.
Jesus that girl not wanting him to leave is insane. She needs to just shut up and calm down. No wonder that guy wanted to leave. Edit: As i watch more of this i have decided drunk chicks are literally the worst thing ever. Like dealing with emotional toddlers. Makes me lose my mind. Some of these cops have the patience of a saint.
10:43. That was a hard elbow to the face/throat as a result of the officers frustration, It’s very easy to see that the first woman is in some sort of psychosis and needs help instead of being brutalized.
That cop in the first case REALLY loved choking tf out of that woman who was cuffed😑 First choked her w his forearm w her hands cuffed behind her back, then choked her w his elbow hard w her hands and legs cuffed......... Ik she was acting really weird but she was clearly having a psychotic break or drugs or both.. I heard the boyfriend saying her dad took her to the mental hospital. I think that was excessive force and he needs to keep his hands/arms/elbows off of peoples necks, especially if they are already cuffed.
I agree 100% Officers need to be taught empathy. That woman was either mentally ill or affected by drugs and needed help. If the officers had taken their time to talk to her, and allowed her to feel heard, they probably could have gotten her to agree to go in an ambulance to get checked out at the hospital. These police officers need to learn how to Protect and Serve.
Florida is significantly different from the rest of the country. The people here are still mentally living in the 1900s. They need a Democrat to come in and get this state into shape- starting with their woefully inept education which exacerbates every issue they have. It’s utter chaos here and people are too dense to realize the political party they love and support are directly responsible for their problems. Ignorance is bliss should be their state motto 😂
😂 that first girl was throwing out everything in the book on that guy. Anything in hopes the cops would believe her. "Hes got a bomb, ah hes a terrorist, um ah.. hes got drugs in there, ah illegal stuff... um ah hes an alien!! Did you hear me! HES A GODAMN ALIEN GOD DAMMIT!! 😂😂😂 she even had pink cuffs on suiting
No, she was calling out for her own dad. "Daddy" is pretty common throughout the southern US. I'm 25 and I still say Daddy. It's a title for my father, not a kink.
1:53 that sounds like some random ass conversation you hear in red dead redemption 2 😂 Also, the female cop in the last case had a heavy accent, what accent is it?
@42:22 damn thats the most level headed cop ive ever seen, and i havent seen very many in my life. she's lucky as hell to have encountered him (then again, so many people act a fool when getting cuffed eh? he still started the whole thing..... id say couragously )
The van lady… she knew she got herself in a mess. Her daughter might not like being w dad and his rules but if she goes w mom she probably won’t go far in life. Also that cop was very respectful. He treated her with respect. It’s been a very long time since I seen cuffs in front.
So wack that all women think they have the option of "Pressing Charges" immediately. Like everyone plus the cops just assume the guy is the piece of trash.
I’m glad these videos are coming out. U rarely hear cases where the female is the aggressor. People need to stop thinking it’s ok to put hands on someone else. It’s not luv & it’s not ok. Men need to stop accepting it. ABUSE IS NOT OK BY ANYONE.
I dunno, the third case seems poorly managed by the cops. The husband/boyfriend was obviously not pressing charges and didnt want her arrested, next day was her birthday and they both were a bit too drunk on holiday. Yeah she probably tried to hold him back from leaving in a way she shouldnt, but you do not always need to blow things bigger than they are. Why not just make sure the guy can leave and write down what happened and let her sleep out her drunkness. To me she seemed more worried and sad, instead of aggresiv or crazy.
The 3rd one shouldnt had been arrested. IT was her birthday, they have a child, the boyfriend never intended for that to happen, he just wanted to leave. That was ridiculous
I feel bad for Angela. Yes, she tried to hurt the new girlfriend out of frustration with her ex-husband and the child custody situation, but she obviously wasn’t thinking clearly cause she just got a call from her kid and she was worried something happened to her. Mother Bear post-hibernation kicking in full gear. I only hope that she now understands that this course of action is not the way to go about it, and to use the court system to try to make the situation better.
See I was upset with that one too. The new gf and dad are weaponizing the children, isolating them by taking points of contact from them, at least the eldest wants to be with mom, I wish the whole picture was taken into consideration in these things. They should have asked the kids because I bet the gf did/ said something first. And in my personal opinion, a person who has a new so before the divorce is finalized was dating before the last relationship ended. 🤷♀️
Yes, And how many Single Mothers try to poison their children against their fathers. A man has just as much right to see or have custody of his children as the mother. Sorry but you can't hit on a guy & use being a woman to get out of it. That wouldn't happen if the guy was doing the hitting. Equality goes both ways - Equal in all things. There are some pretty nasty, violent & abusive women out their. If you do this stuff, don't think you can get away with it just because your a woman
I was in a horrible marriage! Abusive both physical and emotional. She literally tortured me for years! She was a narcissistic monster! Even after we had three children together she’d beat me and abuse me whenever she felt threatened with me showing any kind of independence. Her family saw it and she show tears and they’d support her. They made me the monster and I so wasn’t. It took the police and our 6 year old daughter calling the police when she had sat on me until I was unconscious that they realized I was telling the truth. I was put into a shelter and found help. I got my children as well. Men being abused is a real thing 😢
I'm so sorry that happened to you. I've seen women be abusive to men and it's not right. Just because you're a man doesn't mean you shouldn't be believed. I'm glad you have your kids ( I think that's what your comment said). I hope you're safe now.
Evil DOES not discriminate! Peace and BLESSINGS to You and Yours
From an OLE BIRDIE HERE IN MI
Bro its a female and your a man physically they cant overpower or even hit hard enough to hurt you ...dont get me wrong i believe men can be a victim of physical abuse but you can overpower that
The only thing worse than a Female Narcissist spouse, is a Male Narcissist spouse who has a position of authority. He has the physical strength And the backing of the system.
@@SoundsBogus yeah that does sound bogus. Females have the power of persuasion. I spent a year in a dangerous county jail fighting a case because a woman said I attacked her after she attacked me. They didn't give me a second to explain just back of the cop car i went followed by the most angry and biased interrogation I've ever seen. I can't even sue her because despite being released because of dropped charges, the protective order still stands
There's a big black battery, a bike, no a bomb!!! There's a bomb in there 😂😅
Thought she was going for a big black 🐓lol
Some sort of mental problem I guess maybe a mix of drugs on the side.
And she was cool wit it up till now😂😂😂😂😂😂
She wants to take the dog to jail
This really makes me wonder how many mentally ill people cops have no choice but to detain. It's sad for all involved 😞
I think it's great that male victims of DV are getting more attention.
500 years too late but oh well.
That's wrong ! ❤ women Can be equally as violent
Be nice if women got some justice too. O they talk a good story,but victim blaming exists and the courts don’t believe us.
Pussies
It shouldn't happen either way,but I had a co worker that abused her husband. I knew her for a couple of years,and then kinda found out. Tough one, they divorced.
The First Lady was really crazy. That was so sad. She needs a mental home.
They treated her poorly as well.
She was complaining about the monitor, but she walked away from porch then sat down in front of police car. Does that make her legit crazy or a karen?
Mental Illness is often traumatic .
@@carolynmotley3112mental illness
@@theresaslusher4305Right? I mean, yes she was crazy & OUT OF CONTROL for sure! But u could TELL she was in the midst of some episode & was REALLY not well! & For sure her yelling & SCREAMING was annoying, but she wasn't FIGHTING back aggressively or attacking. She was definitely resisting but that 1 officer, I felt like he was REALLY unnecessarily rough w\her AT LEAST 2X, maybe more! But when he 1st went to the car & pinned her down immediately w\his forearm across her neck, I 🤔 ummm 🧐 that's a tad excessive no? But THEN when he had finished cuffing her ankles together & went to put her seatbelt on & she leaned fwd to yell & he used his elbow on her neck & SLAMMED her head back REALLY FREAKING HARD had me😲😳🤯😤! I came to the cmts to see if anyone was saying anything Abt that & I must say, it's distressing that your cmt is the 1st I've seen!
Those cops were AMAZING by making sure her kids didnt see her arrested. Im sure how calm and cooperating she was helped the situation and made it easier for the police to be so respectful to her regarding her children and not traumatizing them. Best exapmle ever of an actual good cop
Parents. Stop treating your girls like they're princesses and can do no wrong. Because, then society has to deal with it.
Right ! But I'd seen a video about a Karen princess messed with cops, who called daddy, daddy went to the scene and told her she would be in good place in jail and it's time to grow up... 😂
@@MrsSandycat I saw that too.
True 😢
Truth though.
Very true
If you're wearing an ankle monitor honey you are state property
She was legit concerned about being sent to jail for the ankle monitor due to being transported to jail for something else.
I'm really concerned about how ignorant she is to the law when she's in a position to be wearing an ankle monitor. She should be a pro at that s*** now. Anomaly is that how hilarious is it that she's worried about the ankle monitor detecting she's away from the house
What do you think is wrong with her? Drugs? I’ve never seen anyone this batshit crazy before 😱
Humans can't be anybody's property no matter what they did wrong.
Did I miss why she has the ankle monitor, why he allowed her to be there with it?
12:50 "This is a studio apartment, so the wine fell off the fridge." The hazards of living in a studio apartment 😅.
😂😂😂😂...
Female logic
I had a GF that used to hit me regularly she broke my finger. She hit me with a 2 x 4 and knocked me out. She pushed me out of a window as I was trying to escape out of the house from her and I fell and broke my ankle three years after the relationship she found out I was having a baby had me charged with assault I had to sit there listening to her lie on the stand and even the judge taking sides with her saying that she was a brave woman. All of this made me sick to my stomach. In the end I received 18 months in jail, my child’s birth, and there was nothing that I could do about it. I’ve never hit pushed kicked abused a woman in my entire life, but it is what it is and I have moved on.
Im srry but you are a man right??? Women are not physical stronger then us
Holy crap dude I am so sorry
Sounds like you aren’t the brightest and didn’t make a case. All you can do now is learn from your mistakes.
Do not worry. What goes around comes around. She will have her comeuppance.
Thanks God you moved on and another man will prove it trust me.
As a woman, im glad the cops take these men serious. It takes a lot for a man to admit he was beat on by a woman and used to be he still went to jail as the aggressor bc "hes bigger/stronger/ect." Men can be victims too of DV and SA. Love that they were listened to and the cops werent manipulated by the women in these cases.
The police are definitely getting better with that but the courts sadly are not. My ex wife used to hit me all of the time. The cops even showed up but I couldn’t get myself to tell the police that she was constantly hitting me, scratching me, throwing things at me, etc. but I just couldn’t do it especially when my daughter cried and said she didn’t want Mama to go to jail.
She was also a makeup artist for broadway plays, turns out one night she made a fake black eye and took pics, sent it to some girl who was in love with her who posted it all over social media.
She even crashed our car on purpose screaming she was going to kill us, we flipped 3 times. Even after all of that I didn’t want to divorce and thought we could work it out for my daughter.
Then one day I’m sitting in my living room and the cops show up and serve me a restraining order, made me leave my house.
I produced videos and pics of her attacking me and threatening to burn our house down but the judge still put the restraining order on me & kept it going for like a year.
After that I lost what little faith I had in the justice system. The judge was some angry woman who to me seemed like she just loves screwing men over.
If I could sue I would. But that was years ago now so I’m just happy it’s over with. I went through hell for a whole year because of it.
Her one redeeming quality was that she did tell the court that I’m a great father which is true but I also think it was just because she wanted her weekends free. Total narcissist.
I haven’t been able to get into any meaningful relationships since out of fear I’ll have to go through that hell again. I date women but don’t allow myself to get close. So I guess you could call that ptsd.
Even my lawyer was disgusted with the judge who didn’t even allow her to do her job. It was one of the worst experiences of my life.
@@pinnacleproductions6275 I've been divorced for ten years now. I had my own issues in marriage as well. I actually did try to date for the first few years until I realized that my life is so much easier single. And now that I've made that decision I feel freer and happier than I ever have. For me once I took the time to work on myself and learn to love myself then I found that not only did I no longer get lonely but I realized single was sooooo much easier with no drama. Being in a relationship no longer made sense to me. So I hope that you learn to love yourself and learn to NEVER settle. Figure out what YOU want and what YOU need and you won't ever allow yourself to be in that again. I think often these people prey on those who aren't so confident and sure of what they deserve. Good luck to you both!
Thanks for acknowledging that. It seems like we are just expected to accept any abuse. I had a psychologically and sometimes physically abusive girlfriend way back in the day. That was my first serious relationship and definitely left some lasting scars.
@@dustman96I’m sorry you went through that as I am for any man who keeps quiet or isn’t believed. Women can be scary narcs and just as bad as men. I’m glad more people are becoming aware but it’s still not enough. Just know not all women are like them as I’ve been in the situation but the other way round but I walked away from a friend for doing this, no way could I stay friends or not call her out on her abusive behaviour. Never give up hope 🥰
Until you're in a relationship with your boyfriend lies tells the cops you aren't together and says that I stabbed him or you stabbed him and you kicked him in the head when you didn't because he choked you out and you try to defend yourself you won't even understand what these girls are going through you are a woman including to fucking feel problems with them these men sound like they're tweaked the fuck out and they were part of the fight it was a mutual come back if anything if not fucking made up
Did you ever notice alot of domestics involve alcohol?
And it's.legal.
Yes .drugs also.
Yes! It's uncanny 😅
Nah it's all pothead fighting over the last snack
And even more domestics involve Florida
Time stamp 41.09 that officer who was talking to the lady who tried to attack the new girlfriend is very professional.. his explanation is perfect and he tried to make the lady feel more at ease considering the situation she is in. And how he said he will arrest her discretely away from her daughter is from the heart. It’s the first time I’ve seen an officer so professional 😊
Literally came to the comments for this exact thing! It’s not hard to be professional and empathetic
I bet he wouldn't have been as patient had the woman been black or brown
@@SoniaAchiengI bet he would have !
@SoniaAchieng do you watch other videos like this? That woman got treated that way because she cooperated and didn't resist. That is rarely the case with these type of people. Fact is... you act like an asshole... you get treated like one.
Same here I was amazing cop @@wheresmyparade
I grew up in Henry county and I’ve been a guardian ad Litem for children in the care of DCFS for nearly 8 years now. All you need to know is, our politicians/leaders are corrupt and our foster system is more broken than most people can even begin to fathom. The stories I could tell. I’m actually resigning from my 8 year volunteer advocacy position once my current case reaches some sort of end. I’ve known all along that things are broken, I mean heck, that’s why I wanted to try and make a difference by being a child advocate but the frustration I’ve felt across the board regarding my current case has really opened my eyes to just how bad things are. There is no fixing our current system. Same with the way our government and judicial system…it all needs to be torn to the ground and restructure from scratch.
YES! I have been saying this. All of our “systems” are broken…broken beyond fixing……..the medical, justice, CPS, and the federal goverment , state and local,goverment all broken. And we need a re boot.
PSA: Please be advised: while vacationing in Florida whatever you do DO NOT call the police if you get into an argument with your partner.
You may now continue with your UA-cam binge watching. Your welcome!
Well, the 1st woman is obviously insane.
The first case is always a hoot. You can see her actually trying to think up excuses in real time to try and avoid the situation.
I have a suspicion that she might be more schizophrenic than a hoot xD
"HE'S GOT A...A...A BLACK BAG"...."IT'S A... A BOX..A BLACK BATTERY...IT'S A ... A BOMB....HE'S GOT A BOMB" ...."HE'S YOUR SON" ..."DADDY HELP!!!!"😏
That whole Houshold was just lying.
she got the tat on the one arm/side started, not finished, that's expensive.
@@sandralee8855 I REALLY hope everyone in her home town sees this so they can whisper, sneer, and point and laugh at what a freak she is! Lol. 😂😂
"My ankle monitor, I'm gunna be in trouble" you're in the back of a cop car dear. You're already in trouble
And she was the one who walked away from the porch.
and refused to go back to the porch when the officer ordered her to, leading to her detainment.
Typical reaction from a woman who isn't getting her way and thinks she's always the victim.
And got illegal choked by a cop multiple times and almost killed it is illegal and prohibited for a cop in any state to use force on the neck so explain
@deadpool3093 i understand where ur coming from , but she was literally given the opportunity to go back to the porch 😭
That mother handled her arrest so well. We all make mistakes at times. She even knew she made a mistake.
I actually loved how she realized her mistake and co-operated. I felt sorry for her at that point.
I thought the way the police officer spoke and explained things to her was really good. That's because she was willing to listen to what he said.@@HelenRoseOfLOI
That poor lady snapped 4 kids one on the way and sperm donor rocking on.Id have done a proper job .🛑
*She only realised after she saw the by standers explaining what happened, otherwise she be throwing tantrums n blaming all on her husband saying he assaulted her, punched her, choked her and even body slammed her*
@@dvsnow210That's all it was filmed, I have no sympathy, she locked the cars, she chased him and lied, other than that she kicked out her husband, he takes the 3 children, when he finds a new girlfriend the ex comes back wanting her children and beats up the current one...For me, she only cooperated because she knew that the accusation of assault would be bad enough.
The first lady really honestly needed a doctor not jail. It's so sad to see when a person with a real illness is treated like a criminal when in fact she just needed someone to care enough to try and help her. This is a real issue for many men and women who have psychological problems that may be undiagnosed or not treated. I know it's a very difficult thing to deal with from the outside and it's just easier to write them off but imagine if it was someone who you loved that was found in a situation where they are not in control of their own minds. You would want someone to show them kindness and get them whatever help they needed instead of sent into a broken system that will only send them deeper into an abyss where they can't even recognize themselves. I know I would want someone to help me.
What’s bothersome is that nobody noticed that the officer put an elbow up to her throat, choking her on multiple occasions, especially towards the end, where he elbowed her right in the throat, and one particular time before then when she was leaning back, the last time was when she was sitting up you saw that right with the seatbelt on he had her held up by her throat with his elbow the time before, then she was leaning back, laying down on the seat, and he had her by the throat with his forearm, crushing her windpipe you could hear her sound of your voice changed when she did that
Interesting I only saw him getting kicked by her
@@christopherallenpeer753 convenient isn't it... You a cop?
@@AuroraTheGoddess You mean in retaliation to her kicking? Yes he did.
@@4wdreamer243 you get your degree at the prison library? Poor little baby
The first woman might be nuts but ive seen no evidence that she abused her boyfriend/husband...she's just mental
Worse, the officer IMO used excessive force by slamming his arm into her throat twice. Totally uncalled for.
@@darothycrosby5084 she was kicking him..
Abuse can go beyond the physical
@@darothycrosby5084 No it wasn't. would not have happened at all if she was complying with them, instead of making an exhibition of herself.
@@maxthecat14 That's your opinion. My opinion differs.
“Are not gonna read me my rights first?!”
Savage Cop: “NOOPE” 💀
Right?! It's hilarious that people think that they have to be read their rights to be arrested etc. Lmao 🤣 #IgnoranceIsBliss?
Miranda rights are really only there to be a protective barrier to self-incrimination. You don't have to be read rights for detainment or arrest. But they ALWAYS know their rights, right?
They only have to read Miranda rights BEFORE THEY QUESTION YOU. they don’t have to at arrest or before 😊
That I always thought had to be done.
@@davinahorton4999nope. They only have to read them to you before asking you questions about the crime you are suspected of committing. That's all
"there's uh uh, A BOMB" 😂😂😂😂😂
lmao bro i cracked tf up that chick is like a cartoon character
The First Lady was not well. That was so sad. She needed a kind calm helping hand, Not a pair of thugs disguised as policemen .
Absolutely! That brute with his elbow in her throat TWICE should be brought up on charges. She wasn't hurting him at all. She was just yelling. He's just a hot head who lacks the correct mentality for that job.
The first woman should get an additional charge for wearing a black strapped bra with a tube top dress.
😂 fr
can I also add her voice is annoying
She needs a trip to that gravel pit like Cricket got lol
Dumb
But she's got some pretty pink handcuffs, so it all worked out.
To the officer that arrested the mother without her kids seeing it. You sir should instruct classes on kindness. I know not all situations are the same but the level of kindness that you showed the mother and the whole situation was just amazing. Im not a supporter of LEO, but i am of that gentleman. Very kind.
Most Definitely, he did everything with HUGE respect and kindness!!🐾🐾
She didnt fight, scream, and holler like an idiot. Thats the difference
Yeah the kids are innocent. They don't need to see that.
He made this bad situation good for everyone involved. He respected them all. What a great guy!! Definitely need more cops like him!! You rookies take notes!!😊
Why would anyone not be a supporter of LEO? I'm not a supporter of corrupt people no matter what they do for a living. But to generalize leo's into one
category isn't any more fair than it is to generalize white people, black people or blue people. There are both good people and bad people everywhere!
Besides, what alternative would you propose? Should we do away with leo's completely and allow the citizens to police themselves? What do we do when
people make their job so horrible by they way they are treated (even the good ones) that you can't pay anyone enough to be a leo? We're not far away,
I know I wouldn't do that job in these times.
I pity the lady who cooperated & admitted that she messed up ..
Yeah, her ex-husband's girlfriend was telling the cop that she must be on drugs because she's lost 50 lbs in a few months. As if not being able to see your kids, your husband leaving you, not having a job, and being broke couldn't possibly be a reason for losing weight.
I pity women, actually saw one girl the other day who could be a cross-country national champ. She was pretty cool.
@@michaelharrington75She was saying that they were wanting the eldest daughter to live in the big house with the dad because the eldest daughter is loosing weight and they aren't sure if it is drugs or something else. I'm guessing they are also concerned about the daughter having an eating disorder. But they never stated eating disorder.
@@michaelharrington75 I think you misunderstood. She was talking about the daughter.
@@Ryns.16688 Could be that she was talking about the daughter, but it sounded to me like she said they've been trying to get her because her mother has lost a lot of weight in a short period of time, needs testing for drugs, and a mental evaluation. But, she very well could have been talking about the daughter? It wouldn't be surprising for a teen to turn to drugs, or lose weight because of the stress of her parents divorce, and all the fighting between them.
Love That Cop! " In the grand scheme of things, this is a blip on the radar". 😂
The first girl was so sad to see. She’s not evil she just needs some care
Cops overeached immensely when boyfriend said he was fine and nothing happened, why did they arrest her? He wasn't pressing charges, it just makes yout think twice when calling the cops for help, they should train to diffuse not escalate
In some states they have to arrest whoever has the least damage to their body, it’s the law to keep the peace because it may turn into something more dangerous or even deadly.
I have mixed feelings on that one because I do believe cops overreached, but she kept acting so stupid and saying stupid things. Annoying AF.
It's cause he told the cops that she strangled him while attempting to keep him from leaving. That was enough said for the cops to take her.
They arrested her to prevent future DV from her.
@@D1722eieioThanks for explaining that because I also thought it unprecedented to make an arrest when no charges are to be pressed.
That girlfriend saying that her boyfriend's wife has lost 30 to 40lbs the past cpl months doesn't necessarily mean she's on drugs. It could be because her husband of many years and father of her 4 children and 1 on the way, left her for another woman and took everything because he's the one with the job so he has the kids. So, it could be her nerves...I could be wrong...just saying🤔
I agree. Weight loss during divorce is very common.
Agreed. When I found out my husband was cheating on me, I lost 50lbs in 3 months just from anxiety, depression and utter devastation. I barely ate or slept, and when I did eat, I would get sick from the ulcers that had formed, so I could barely keep anything down. Exercise was a way for me to try to manage stress, so I dropped it fast.
Absolutely I know from experience.
@@justme240Stress doesn’t actually cause ulcers, but it can exasperate ulcers caused by other medical issues. The weight loss is so common during divorces. My neighbor and best friend went from 175lbs to 98lbs in six months due to not eating and paranoia of what he would do. He’s a diagnosed malignant narcissist and as bad as they come. I’m sorry this happened to you. Hope you’re doing well now.
I was married to an abuser and when I escaped from him, my friends didn't recognize me because I had lost so much weight. He had isolated me from my family and it was 2 years b4 they saw me. Stress and anxiety can turn you into a skeleton!
"I'm literally 22" EXACTLY act like it. You're not a child. You're an adult.
So far at least one of the cops showed understanding and compassion. Props to that officer
Poor fragile human beings, all of them, all of us.
Guys have to press charges. It's not doing the abusers any favors if they aren't held accountable.
Yea so I can then pay lawyer court cost an bond money to get my spouse out cause we had a argument
@villain-de-cat first of all lawyers aren't involved. The police press charges for the victims. 2nd if a victim is dumb enough to post bond for an abuser instead of getting a restraining order and getting gone then they are enabling the abuse. Not very smart.
Exactly I would make sure they get the max possible charges for it
Exactly I would make sure they get the max possible charges for it
Aren’t drugs and alcohol great?🙄
I honestly don’t know how these cops deal with these people. Much respect to them.
Cops let drugs on your American streets ffs, if there was no people on drink & drugs the corrupt cops would have very little trouble & therefore wouldn't really have many arrests to make (think 🤔 about it)
8:36 man she really let her inner demon out
🤣🤣🤣
He had his forearm in her throat this girl saw something in the bald headed cop. Poor lady was TERRIFIED.
I think by that stage the cops should've been aware that she had some serious mental health issues. Not an open and shut case. You can see that she is seeing something else
And;6 mm
I like to know what she was saying when it was muted... suspicious, she was hysterical her.
That first lady is absolutely crazy but how does she get charged with assault against a police officer when she was handcuffed and he hit her with his elbow in the neck and choked her?!! That's still unacceptable behavior from a police officer, he let his anger get to him!
1:38 "We have sex occasionally and that's as far as our relationship goes" like dang it 🤣
How sad she clings to a garbage man,she crazy and he abused her vulnerability to benifit his peen. He doesn’t seem like a victim to me. And she didn’t assault him. Her being that mentally disabled MEAN SHE CANT LEGALLY CONSENT! I bet he’s a narcissist targeted a woman he could easily mentally hurt her with acting like he likes her , use her vagina then discard her then blame her for not being able to handle the hurt and letting it drive her to act out! He did that to her multiple times cuz he finds her reaction to discard entertaining!!!!
Nice to see cops who know how to deescalate even when the person being arrested is drunk and hard to deal with. They deserve an A+ for a job well done.
If your meaning the 2nd woman , why didn't that massive black cop not have his body cam on!? (who she "apparently" punched in the face & kicked him on his bulletproofed vest & sent him "FLYING" btw ACROSS the room, bs he was making that up as he went along, what probably happened is ' yes she did try to go out to her boyfriend & when she said "no" the cops knocked her flying more like & that tasering was well out of order considering there was the 2 white cops & the black one all on her at this point cuffs on & still tasering her.. & im only refering to colour so there's no confusion as to who she apparently must have had the strength of bigger guy than him in order to send him flying over the room 🤣 & I pity him if an actual bullet hits his steel vest or whatever the fk it's made of if a small 22yr old sent him across a room!! Fking police , honestly, ' especially American ones , power tripping lying bullying assholes. (Not all of them right enough)
There comes a time,in a woman’s life,when tiny shorts,and a crop top,are just not enough.
True LOL
True, but its Florida
Facts
Blondes and alcohol 🙄🫣 yeah an absolute nightmare blackout and no1 is there and then it gets crazy.. I'm sure there's nice Blondes out there but the 5 I've ended up with.. look attractive innocent then a few years go bye 🙈 this is not normal your younger there attractive use end up living together then the drinking starts and 😳 yeah this isn't the same women I met thought she was .. so yeah now I avoid Blondes 👱♀️ but unfortunately I have two sons to one and her mother was an alcoholic used to hit her .. found out her grandfather had abused her and as the years went past she went from this innocent attractive 20yr old woman to drinking until she was blackout drunk and 🙄 yeah wasn't fun my youngest son lives with me and my gf of 4yr she's petit ginger haired women privately educated comes from a nice family.. and our first year together she noticed thing's she would give me compliments and id automatically 🤨 why you trying to be sarcastic 🙄😦 I'm not your looking really nice .. and when she would open a bottle of wine I'd leave 🤚 no I no what happens next .. took over a year to relise yeah she was different wouldn't blackout get aggressive but yeah it took time. Then my ex would phone at 4am send love songs 🎵 old videos of us together.. say I miss you sorry it just comes in waves then two nights later she would be phoning saying she was going to beat up that little ginger bitch 🙈 ffs I'd have to say you come near this house it's recored I will tell the police and I'll tell them everything I no where you keep your cocaine ect .. then she would hang up and then my gf 😮 now I understand that's not normal.. Well that was my life and yeah according to my ex I'd been seeing my new gf for years behind her back .. yeah it was crazy so I used to find Blondes attractive but now it's a red flag 🙈
@Carson-pv4hr I'm a brunette and I'll stick to sesh lol
Case #1 .... Pink handcuffs..? LOL Love it.
To match her clothes and bag. Thank you
@@suchbolo5742 She has to be matching even on the way to jail.
Finally I see (hear) a cop that is using the right words and talk calmly and trying to defuse a situation with use of the correct words and demeaner. The cop in the 3rd video is a great one!
The first lady was suffering psychosis. She didn't abuse her boyfriend. She needed a psychiatrist not jail. I heard Dayton does this all the time to ppl.
She was on probation and she violated probation.
Most deadly abuse happens when someone tries to leave. My husband tried to kill me three times. I broke free 30 years ago but I still have nightmares. Woman can be just as abusive as men.
I'm proud of you for having such courage to leave 💝 for the nightmares - UA-cam " 8hrs psalms , Psalm 23 & 91 " they are protection prayers, the vid plays quietly the whole night. Whenever I have a couple nights in a row I automatically know to play that. And it works EVERY time 🙏
I commend you for maintaining perspective even after going through that. Took me a while to realize not all women were like my first abusive girlfriend.
I left in 2002 and the ex husband is STILL trying to kill me.
Dude that First Lady has some serious issues 😮
Those the ones that have the craziest sex though!!! but can str8 ruin your lives!!!
@@frankrizzo5155 to be honest i don’t think that would be worth it 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
And meth or opioids is one of them
@@nikkiwarbucks3410add that and a mental disorder. And you got her
That whole thing appeared to be totally illegal pc?
Do police not have yearly physical fitness tests? Some of these officers are old and others are really outta shape
🤔 Of course the police 🚨 do. WTF, are you talking about exactly ?. Hard to believe we watched the same video !..
@@alancrisp1582 There were several morbidly obese officers in the video, thats what he's talking about.
When I was younger, I was engaged to a woman who was about 5' tall and weighed 100 lbs at 21. There were arguments where I was punched in the face, she punched me while in her sleep once, and I would always walk away. Time would go on, and I remember talking to my parents a few times about it. Everytime they just laughed it off snd called her, "fiesty". I can assure discrimination is real because if the shoe was on the other foot, I'd be in for a bit more than being called, "fiesty". Alot of guys stay in these relationships because as men we are taught to take abuse and "grow stronger" from it. Alot of these women go on for years abusing, cheating, and then will try to point the finger at their victimized husband. I'm not saying men are angels. Hell, I'll even tell ya we're the start of 90% of all problems. But some of my exs, the women in my life, and my mother in that regard, are proud of the men they have beaten the shit out of. There's alot of this shit going on out there for both sides that ain't right, man
That loud bomb threat chic would get me fired. Good job to these cops 👮♀️ keeping their cool 😎
I applaud that male victims are being taken seriously by authorities now, and while none of this behaviour can ever be condoned or excused, it is worth considering how tame much of the violence in this video is, when compared to levels of common male against female DV. How far we have come in recognising that all DV is wrong, and it’s great to see a crack down on all perpetrators.
Why is it almost ALWAYS Florida? LMAO
Something in the water?!? 😂😂
I live in FL. I thought the same thing. I’m 51. How much longer do I have before a serial k1ller gets me!?!
That is one understanding professional officer. If more cops conducted themselves like that man, the police would have a much better public image. You sir are a credit to your profession 👏👍👍💯🙏
Yes, he was courteous and professional but sensitive about the situation as well.
The second to last cop, hats off to him. He handled it so respectfully.
Good grief. What I’d do for a boyfriend and these “women” abuse theirs. They were lucky to have had a boyfriend but $¢rewed it the f*** up. 🤦🏻♀️🙎🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Cherish your freedom. When people in relationships speak of envy over people free of such bondage, they do so for good reason. The grass always seems greener on the other side until you get there & realize it's a wasteland. Please try hard to be happy to be free of such shackles.
@@RickMakely _ True talk !!!!
I've been married for almost 40 years, relationships are hard and it doesn't stop after the wedding. The trick is to find someone that is honest and under stands the word loyalty. You must also have other things physically, emotionally, and morally. Also watch out for the drinking habits, to drink to ease emotional turmoil, or for fun is a super big red flag. If that's all you're seeing find a different circle of friends and potentials.
@@anndennis7163 That's also really fair advice especially about the drinking. I allowed drinking to take a lot of opportunities from me. These days I can't even believe it's a legal thing. I think I'm done trying to ever trust anybody else though lol. That's all on you people Good luck
@@anndennis7163 Thanks. I'm single at 33 and I'll take your advice.
14:15 'I'm literally 22, you didn't have to do that bro' 'I am a ****** kid bro'. When did the definition of adult start evolving?! Grrr 🥴
Yes I'm with you there..I was a mum to a 3 year old .working and paying bills at 22...at 22 your a grown ass woman 😅...in most cases😅
Rephrase that
The first girl was hilarious ! Did she say the cops were kidnapping her? LMAOO
I dont believe that second cop who tazed the girl in the bed. His story had alot that happened in to short of a time and just when the other cops were not around. Why did the cops have to go around the corner to talk. Ive never seen that before. I showed my dad whose a retired cop this video and he agrees. He said that all 3 were in on this and they are all dirty cops. Unbelievable
Exactly.
That's what I thought, too. As soon as they left, he took over and they didn't bother to show us his cam footage. He didn't have a good answer for where she kicked him, either. "My chest, I guess." Hmmm
How the hell does that woman think she’s a Kid??? I was a married mother of a child at her age😂 sick of these goofy Adults acting like they should be considered kids. Cringy as H.
People are so immature these days, they consider themselves children because they act like children and can’t handle responsibility of any kind.
Drunk Lady : "What about...what about..?! " COP: " WALK WALK"
Don’t understand why women think they’re excluded from domestic violence arrest…
Because they get away with their bs so often
Women abuse men but some men are too proud to talk.So sad.They have the same rights as women.Hope they start reporting them more often.
The couple at the pool,uneccesary t arrest her.
lmao the way they said yes and no at the same time about asking if they were married....shes the craziest ive seen in a long time "bombbbbbb" it was funny but i felt so bad when she screamed daddy she really has issues.....on a lighter note the cop at 39:53 was great and tbh the lady wasnt unreasonable at all neither and super mature about it all i hope she gets on the right track soon
95% of the time I am commenting on how immature or crazy these people are acting and how a lot of these police officers do a great job but that first video was just disturbing
I believe the Depp/Heard case has a lot to do with men being believed with regard to domestic v cases. Are rightly so. All the years that men were immediately thought to be the perportrators without question is sad. No one deserves to be abused. In my humble opinion.
Absolutely agree! I truly believe it set a new precedent for male victims everywhere. I’m so happy JD got some justice for what he endured. Props to all guys finally being “heard” …. 💙
@@patriciadonoho2199 pardon the pun. 🤣
There was a movie about a man being abused in the 90s. It had high ratings and enlightened a lot of people.
4yrs of hell for me. She will never be held accountable. I'm lucky I'm alive today after being stabbed and had guns pulled on me, being attacked in my sleep ect.
@@Okunniger_Volker I'm sorry you suffered. I hope you're doing OK now.
Jesus that girl not wanting him to leave is insane. She needs to just shut up and calm down. No wonder that guy wanted to leave.
Edit: As i watch more of this i have decided drunk chicks are literally the worst thing ever. Like dealing with emotional toddlers. Makes me lose my mind. Some of these cops have the patience of a saint.
Was thinking the same thing.
Plenty of drunk man babies too
Angela was very respectful. Nice lady. I hope out of all these crazy's, she got treated well. She deserved respect.
10:43. That was a hard elbow to the face/throat as a result of the officers frustration, It’s very easy to see that the first woman is in some sort of psychosis and needs help instead of being brutalized.
Exactly, they arrest her for assault then do some of their own 🙄
That cop in the first case REALLY loved choking tf out of that woman who was cuffed😑 First choked her w his forearm w her hands cuffed behind her back, then choked her w his elbow hard w her hands and legs cuffed......... Ik she was acting really weird but she was clearly having a psychotic break or drugs or both.. I heard the boyfriend saying her dad took her to the mental hospital. I think that was excessive force and he needs to keep his hands/arms/elbows off of peoples necks, especially if they are already cuffed.
She was kicking him.
I agree 100% Officers need to be taught empathy. That woman was either mentally ill or affected by drugs and needed help. If the officers had taken their time to talk to her, and allowed her to feel heard, they probably could have gotten her to agree to go in an ambulance to get checked out at the hospital. These police officers need to learn how to Protect and Serve.
@@katelinclaudson6196 so? I work in mental healthcare and I am able to restrain people who are kicking me without choking them. Poor policing.
When you don't comply that's what happens. Where I'm from that's normal.
He should have been brought up on charges.
There must be something in the water in Florida making people 🦇 💩 crazy..
Yeah I think it's meth instead of Floride
@@OpinionsAreNotFacts true
You think this happens only in florida!? 20 million people live there.
Florida is significantly different from the rest of the country. The people here are still mentally living in the 1900s. They need a Democrat to come in and get this state into shape- starting with their woefully inept education which exacerbates every issue they have. It’s utter chaos here and people are too dense to realize the political party they love and support are directly responsible for their problems. Ignorance is bliss should be their state motto 😂
Omg ...yes!!!😂
Ha ha , that straight arm was FKN funny as hell!!
😂 that first girl was throwing out everything in the book on that guy. Anything in hopes the cops would believe her. "Hes got a bomb, ah hes a terrorist, um ah.. hes got drugs in there, ah illegal stuff... um ah hes an alien!! Did you hear me! HES A GODAMN ALIEN GOD DAMMIT!! 😂😂😂 she even had pink cuffs on suiting
WOW😮😮😮😮😮😮😮
WHAT IS SHE ON ???
I DONT THINK IVE EVER SEEN ANYONE
BEHAVE THE WAY SHE IS .
WOW……
LOCK HER UP….SHES DANGEROUS.
That first one has very weird daddy issues.
So do most women !!..
Women who were raised with a stable, loving, attentive father do not have daddy issues.
@@alancrisp1582 just say you hate women alan
No, she was calling out for her own dad. "Daddy" is pretty common throughout the southern US. I'm 25 and I still say Daddy. It's a title for my father, not a kink.
I’m a 22 year old kid. That ship sailed 4 years ago. 😂
That 1st chick 😂😂😂 How can the officers keep a straight face 🤣
1:53 that sounds like some random ass conversation you hear in red dead redemption 2 😂
Also, the female cop in the last case had a heavy accent, what accent is it?
Kaitlyn, a "recovering alcoholic?" 😂
@42:22 damn thats the most level headed cop ive ever seen, and i havent seen very many in my life. she's lucky as hell to have encountered him (then again, so many people act a fool when getting cuffed eh? he still started the whole thing..... id say couragously )
“He’s got your daughters and your wife’s stuff he’s got a big…black…uh battery ITS A BOMB HES GOT A BOMB!” 😂😂😂
4:13 that officer have taste, pink handcuff? hell yeah!
😂😂😂
First Story: "My Dad married us" "Oh hell, your Dad's in a mental hospital" "Well, what......"
I didn't hear the part about her dad in a mental hospital, good catch.
No, he said, "We are not married, your dad took you to the mental hospital."
😂😂😂
You misread the conversation,
dad took her to mental hospital he perfectly said it I heard it fine when drunk rn
@@shawnmendrek3544you didn’t hear it because that’s not what he said lol
What a hideous name for a dog. "Venom".
...Spiderman/Venom.
My dogs name is venom from spiderman
First case, she “on it”… lord have mercy. Oh boy needs to get a protection order.
The first lady should be happy they put pink handcuff at least.😂
best part of all this is the fact the firstvideo the officer has pink handcuffs lol
It's hard to believe someone that's drunk is a recovering alcoholic.
The van lady… she knew she got herself in a mess. Her daughter might not like being w dad and his rules but if she goes w mom she probably won’t go far in life. Also that cop was very respectful. He treated her with respect. It’s been a very long time since I seen cuffs in front.
The fifth woman doesn’t belong here on this video.. Imo. She’s not evil, just lost her temper.
That cop elbowed that womans neck twice!!!! Heck no!
Mental health is definitely real
6:26 - 6:36 did anyone else say "can i pat dat dawg" after that? lol
Omg where did that damn sound come from??? Because I am soooooo tired of hearing my daughter say it 😂😂😂😂😂😂
That first girl was totally crazy. She did really need a mental examination.
I love the cop in the wife that went to girlfriends house he us so soft spoken and really nice
So wack that all women think they have the option of "Pressing Charges" immediately. Like everyone plus the cops just assume the guy is the piece of trash.
I’m glad these videos are coming out. U rarely hear cases where the female is the aggressor. People need to stop thinking it’s ok to put hands on someone else. It’s not luv & it’s not ok. Men need to stop accepting it. ABUSE IS NOT OK BY ANYONE.
Does the 1st woman think it's cool to wear a dress inside out?
I thought I was seeing things her dress 👗 😭 😩 was inside out
Only one cops showed compassion and understanding not just out for a arrest like the others
I dunno, the third case seems poorly managed by the cops. The husband/boyfriend was obviously not pressing charges and didnt want her arrested, next day was her birthday and they both were a bit too drunk on holiday. Yeah she probably tried to hold him back from leaving in a way she shouldnt, but you do not always need to blow things bigger than they are. Why not just make sure the guy can leave and write down what happened and let her sleep out her drunkness. To me she seemed more worried and sad, instead of aggresiv or crazy.
The 3rd one shouldnt had been arrested. IT was her birthday, they have a child, the boyfriend never intended for that to happen, he just wanted to leave. That was ridiculous
It was her daughters birthday ! the next day.
He should have lied about the marks on his neck, then.
I feel bad for Angela. Yes, she tried to hurt the new girlfriend out of frustration with her ex-husband and the child custody situation, but she obviously wasn’t thinking clearly cause she just got a call from her kid and she was worried something happened to her. Mother Bear post-hibernation kicking in full gear. I only hope that she now understands that this course of action is not the way to go about it, and to use the court system to try to make the situation better.
See I was upset with that one too. The new gf and dad are weaponizing the children, isolating them by taking points of contact from them, at least the eldest wants to be with mom, I wish the whole picture was taken into consideration in these things. They should have asked the kids because I bet the gf did/ said something first. And in my personal opinion, a person who has a new so before the divorce is finalized was dating before the last relationship ended. 🤷♀️
@@Shadowbard379 Come on this is UA-cam not the real world. Rather the Disney version of it !.🤯
Yes, And how many Single Mothers try to poison their children against their fathers. A man has just as much right to see or have custody of his children as the mother. Sorry but you can't hit on a guy & use being a woman to get out of it. That wouldn't happen if the guy was doing the hitting. Equality goes both ways - Equal in all things. There are some pretty nasty, violent & abusive women out their. If you do this stuff, don't think you can get away with it just because your a woman