@@Congolesegirl_243 Camila herself wasn't racist it was an ignorant 'fan' of hers that attacked her ex band member in which she apologized for but go off sis 🤨 Edited; Actually Camila never has been or ever was racists 😭😭 Turns out there was someone who made a whole fake Tumblr to protray her as a racists so she would fail. Imagine that? Labeling a immargrated Cuban-Mexican as a racists just because you were mad that she left a group that was put together randomly 😭 The hate on her seriously needs to stop and the fact that people use this fake Tumblr to be even more racists?! TF is wrong with y'all
@@Congolesegirl_243 that's not an opinion, you can't judge an adult for mistakes from when you were a child, that doesn't make any sense! how is your opinion that she is racist when today she fights racism?
i saw this doctors TEDtalk, and it changed the way i teach, the way i learn, the way i parent,… i love that camila is using her celebrity platform to bring attention to such an important subject, especially since her music was the only thing to comfort my baby through me leaving his ab***** father.. i’m grateful to her.. 🌹
omg, I was bullied by my mom since i was 3, she used to call me stupid everyday since i was 3 or 4 (i was really slow, and i have low EQ, emotional issues, I cried everyday - I have AS by the way, and she also compared me to my cousin all the time), and i have very low self esteem, i have problems with socializing with people, i am a loner, always have been. ** now, i have all type of minor health problems. Really, if you have a stressful or sad childhood, it really affect everything.
What are ACEs? Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) can be highly stressful experiences that can happen to any of us before we turn 18. ACEs are not our fault, and we didn’t have control over when or why they happened. They can be a single event. Or they can be an ongoing struggle where our safety, security, trust, or even our very sense of self is threatened or violated. The original 10 ACEs The term Adverse Childhood Experiences - or “ACEs” - comes from an important study published by the CDC and Kaiser Permanente in 1997. It looked at ten types of stressful or traumatic events that fall into three categories:
Wow what a gem to have stumbled across. Understanding of the implications of trauma is crucial for making the world a better place. Anyone reading this, look up a book (or audio version) of The Body Keeps The Score. It's an incredible resource.
Thank you to both these amazing women for bringing awareness to these important issue and resources avail. Loved this conversation and will definitely be using the tools provided.
I just took your "number" test and some things happened to me that were not on your list. Granted, they're not common, but they helped to wreak havoc on my life. (racism, trafficking)
“It’s not Stupid, it’s not Drama, it’s just Trauma turned to Armor….” (Boys don’t dry, cc). I think we know someone else who could use this doctor’s advice…..
Adverse childhood experiences are correlated with poor physical and mental health outcomes and most, if not all, of the ten original aces are associated with unsupportive and harmful parenting. This suggests that the most important takeaway from the ACE Study and the one that is not being addressed is that many aces can be prevented with public health approach parenting education. Perhaps national parenting education campaigns akin to the smoking and seatbelts campaigns of the past. Perhaps national multi-media messaging that teaches parenting behaviors and practices generally recognized as supporting the healthy development of children. Agree? Disagree?
"If not in presence, then in thought and care. And in having struggled, I share." "When struggling be undaunted. With perseverance comes all manners of all possibilities." "No mind is all-knowing, all-seeing. Every negative thought or perspective is short-sighted. They only exist in the mind, & not in the reality of change & beyond." "Persist upon your pain, that it not be in vain. In uncovering meaning & value, comes comfort and elevation." "My God is a faith & understanding that strength, guidance & appreciation, can be found from within oneself, & from outside oneself." "No individual is all-knowing, all-capable. Accept your humanness (our reality); and garner assistance & new strength. Without fail, you will heal. And invariably, you'll share your renewal." "What do I need now, is a self-care mantra, that answers your needs." "I have a physical body, a mental body, an emotional body, and an external body. Attend to that which needs strengthening. Adding strength to one, adds strength to all." "The quality and balance of our connections to all (food, environment, family, community, work, faith, etc.) determines our health (/spirit). Reflect on, and adjust to, what's diminished, or out of balance." "Love's fulfillment.. it is gut & grace, coming into place." ~ Paul Jung "Don't be afraid of your despair. Be gentle with yourself. Take your time with this journey. Let despair guide you to the self you need to birth, the meaning you need to make, the world you need to serve. Let it reward you with a resilient faith in life." ~ Miriam Greenspan "Your sadness doesn’t make you less of a human being. In fact, it makes you more. More expansive. More connected. Painfully beautiful. Raw. Open. Completely alive." ~ Panache Desai "The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen." ~ Elisabeth Kübler-Ross "As long as we feel safely held in the hearts and minds of the people who love us, we will climb mountains and cross deserts and stay up all night to finish projects." ~ Bessel van der Kolk "Repeatedly in the testimony of survivors there comes a moment when a sense of connection is restored by another person’s unaffected display of generosity. Something in herself that the victim believes to be irretrievably destroyed -- faith, decency, courage -- is reawakened by an example of common altruism. Mirrored in the actions of others, the survivor recognizes and reclaims a lost part of herself. At that moment, the survivor begins to rejoin the human commonality..." ~ Judith Lewis Herman "When love awakens in your life, in the night of your heart, it is like the dawn breaking within you. Where before there was anonymity, now there is intimacy; where before there was fear, now there is courage; where before in your life there was awkwardness, now there is a rhythm of grace and gracefulness; where before you used to be jagged, now you are elegant and in rhythm with your self. When love awakens in your life, it is like a rebirth, a new beginning." ~ John O'Donohue "Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage." ~ Lao Tzu "The strongest love is the love that can demonstrate its fragility." ~ Paulo Coelho "So, I love you because the entire universe conspired to help me find you." ~ Paulo Coelho
shes a goddess but last i checked gods don't listen. neither are gods controllable which is why i surpass all humanity. ill never submit. every breathe i take without anybodies permission proves im zero uchiha
love that she’s using her platform to bring important issues like this to light🙌🏾
A Legend 💖
Thank u Camila and Dr. Nadine Burke Harris for this wonderful conversation 🙌💕
i love the way she use her voice and her platform, my girl is doing always well , so proud of you mila 💕
Thanks for always bringing attention to issues that are not often spoken about .love you Camila ❤️
camila amazing, love her so much ❤️❤️
Camila very proud of you 🥰🥰👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻😘🤗🤗
I LOVE HER SO MUCH
camila cabello is a legend. i love you!!!!!! ❤❤❤❤😻😻😻😻🥺
Super great conversation! I agree, I think this is such an important issue that doesn’t get enough attention.
Camila Cabello, you are a queen! I admire you so much! I’m excited for Cinderella and CC3! Please release the lead single in August Leo month!
The more I listen to this conversation the more insights I pick up. Inspired by Camila and Dr. Nadine, incredible women and very helpful information.
Camila 😭❤️
Love Camila Cabello. Hopefully she'll come back to Ireland next year as I was supposed to go to her concert but it got cancelled due to Covid 19
i love you camila, thank u for this!!👏🏼
CAMILA CABELLO 💙😻🇧🇷
Amazing conversation! Two amazing women 😭👏
camila cabello is a fucking legend. i love you my princess, is so energy, magical 😭😭😭😭💘💘💘
And she is racist 😭😭😭 and nobody cares about it 🤷🏾♀️😭
@@Congolesegirl_243 Camila herself wasn't racist it was an ignorant 'fan' of hers that attacked her ex band member in which she apologized for but go off sis 🤨
Edited; Actually Camila never has been or ever was racists 😭😭 Turns out there was someone who made a whole fake Tumblr to protray her as a racists so she would fail. Imagine that? Labeling a immargrated Cuban-Mexican as a racists just because you were mad that she left a group that was put together randomly 😭 The hate on her seriously needs to stop and the fact that people use this fake Tumblr to be even more racists?! TF is wrong with y'all
@@Congolesegirl_243 she's not racist!! Get over it
@@ronaldy_ why? that’s my opinion 🤷🏾♀️
@@Congolesegirl_243 that's not an opinion, you can't judge an adult for mistakes from when you were a child, that doesn't make any sense! how is your opinion that she is racist when today she fights racism?
Love you and miss you so much 💞🖤🖤🖤🖤
this conversation is so necessary! thanks both for that ♥️
Hermosa Camila, me encanta ver como sigues cultivando en nosotros tanto amor😍😍😍
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH CAMILA! ❤️🇧🇷
love Cami ❤
Incredible conversation. Love U.
i saw this doctors TEDtalk, and it changed the way i teach, the way i learn, the way i parent,… i love that camila is using her celebrity platform to bring attention to such an important subject, especially since her music was the only thing to comfort my baby through me leaving his ab***** father.. i’m grateful to her.. 🌹
camilaaaa! 🌷
I love you camila!!!😻😻👑💙
te amo camila
What an awesome wonderful great conversation thank u camila and dr nadine for this
Queen Camila ❤
love u both beautiful people
i love this so much! Thanks Camila for using your platform. Sending love ❤️
QUEENS!
Omg Camila 😍
omg, I was bullied by my mom since i was 3, she used to call me stupid everyday since i was 3 or 4 (i was really slow, and i have low EQ, emotional issues, I cried everyday - I have AS by the way, and she also compared me to my cousin all the time), and i have very low self esteem, i have problems with socializing with people, i am a loner, always have been. ** now, i have all type of minor health problems. Really, if you have a stressful or sad childhood, it really affect everything.
this is so important,love it❤️❤️
YESS CAMILA! 🙌🏻😭 thank you for speaking out about this.
Camila ❤️❤️❤️
SO PROUD OF YOU 🖤💞
What are ACEs?
Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) can be highly stressful experiences that can happen to any of us before we turn 18.
ACEs are not our fault, and we didn’t have control over when or why they happened. They can be a single event. Or they can be an ongoing struggle where our safety, security, trust, or even our very sense of self is threatened or violated.
The original 10 ACEs
The term Adverse Childhood Experiences - or “ACEs” - comes from an important study published by the CDC and Kaiser Permanente in 1997. It looked at ten types of stressful or traumatic events that fall into three categories:
camila amor 🧡
Thank you for posting❤❤❤
Wow what a gem to have stumbled across. Understanding of the implications of trauma is crucial for making the world a better place. Anyone reading this, look up a book (or audio version) of The Body Keeps The Score. It's an incredible resource.
Camila is so beautiful 😍
Love her
Thank you to both these amazing women for bringing awareness to these important issue and resources avail. Loved this conversation and will definitely be using the tools provided.
gracias por ser esa voz que necesitamos, Camila.
Thank you
loved this so much
My love
love it
Love U Camila so much. Thanks doctor nadine
Camila cabello ❤️😭
❤️❤️❤️
Camila😭😭😭
Thank you 🙏 so helpful! Especially seeing we all have a number story! So he kind! 🙏🙏🙏💝💝💝🤗
Camila te amo ❤️❤️❤️
👏👏👏👏
Team Camila
i love camila
MY BABY 😭😭😭
Stay Blessed Ya'll.
Camila ❤️🇧🇷
What camera is Camila using? Holy crap!!!
❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏
Queen
I just took your "number" test and some things happened to me that were not on your list. Granted, they're not common, but they helped to wreak havoc on my life. (racism, trafficking)
😍😍❤❤🤩👑
“It’s not Stupid, it’s not Drama, it’s just Trauma turned to Armor….” (Boys don’t dry, cc). I think we know someone else who could use this doctor’s advice…..
Adverse childhood experiences are correlated with poor physical and mental health outcomes and most, if not all, of the ten original aces are associated with unsupportive and harmful parenting. This suggests that the most important takeaway from the ACE Study and the one that is not being addressed is that many aces can be prevented with public health approach parenting education.
Perhaps national parenting education campaigns akin to the smoking and seatbelts campaigns of the past. Perhaps national multi-media messaging that teaches parenting behaviors and practices generally recognized as supporting the healthy development of children. Agree? Disagree?
"If not in presence, then in thought and care. And in having struggled, I share."
"When struggling be undaunted. With perseverance comes all manners of all possibilities."
"No mind is all-knowing, all-seeing. Every negative thought or perspective is short-sighted. They only exist in the mind, & not in the reality of change & beyond."
"Persist upon your pain, that it not be in vain. In uncovering meaning & value, comes comfort and elevation."
"My God is a faith & understanding that strength, guidance & appreciation, can be found from within oneself, & from outside oneself."
"No individual is all-knowing, all-capable. Accept your humanness (our reality); and garner assistance & new strength. Without fail, you will heal. And invariably, you'll share your renewal."
"What do I need now, is a self-care mantra, that answers your needs."
"I have a physical body, a mental body, an emotional body, and an external body. Attend to that which needs strengthening. Adding strength to one, adds strength to all."
"The quality and balance of our connections to all (food, environment, family, community, work, faith, etc.) determines our health (/spirit). Reflect on, and adjust to, what's diminished, or out of balance."
"Love's fulfillment.. it is gut & grace, coming into place."
~ Paul Jung
"Don't be afraid of your despair. Be gentle with yourself. Take your time with this journey. Let despair guide you to the self you need to birth, the meaning you need to make, the world you need to serve. Let it reward you with a resilient faith in life." ~ Miriam Greenspan
"Your sadness doesn’t make you less of a human being. In fact, it makes you more. More expansive. More connected. Painfully beautiful. Raw. Open. Completely alive." ~ Panache Desai
"The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen." ~ Elisabeth Kübler-Ross
"As long as we feel safely held in the hearts and minds of the people who love us, we will climb mountains and cross deserts and stay up all night to finish projects." ~ Bessel van der Kolk
"Repeatedly in the testimony of survivors there comes a moment when a sense of connection is restored by another person’s unaffected display of generosity. Something in herself that the victim believes to be irretrievably destroyed -- faith, decency, courage -- is reawakened by an example of common altruism. Mirrored in the actions of others, the survivor recognizes and reclaims a lost part of herself. At that moment, the survivor begins to rejoin the human commonality..." ~ Judith Lewis Herman
"When love awakens in your life, in the night of your heart, it is like the dawn breaking within you. Where before there was anonymity, now there is intimacy; where before there was fear, now there is courage; where before in your life there was awkwardness, now there is a rhythm of grace and gracefulness; where before you used to be jagged, now you are elegant and in rhythm with your self. When love awakens in your life, it is like a rebirth, a new beginning." ~ John O'Donohue
"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage." ~ Lao Tzu
"The strongest love is the love that can demonstrate its fragility." ~ Paulo Coelho
"So, I love you because the entire universe conspired to help me find you." ~ Paulo Coelho
This is old news, it is just new to you.
I'm the first one to comment
So, did you say anything meaningful?
Hey Camila if you pass by, could you talk about the Palestine issue ? Children are dying, can you at least tweet donation links ? Thank you so much
shes a goddess but last i checked gods don't listen. neither are gods controllable which is why i surpass all humanity. ill never submit. every breathe i take without anybodies permission proves im zero uchiha
Camila ❤️❤️
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camila ❤
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