yesss!! we live in an information based society. information can literally change your social status, mood, quality of life, etc. i think being mysterious is my personal strength, because it always means I can change my circumstances whenever i want (and nobody is paying attention so it allows me to be free in whatever i want/choose for my life). Im not tied to a friend group, person, or place. I lowkey wanna go off the grid ngl, so maybe one day. ✨💞
I was in a pub last night, and i really don’t like being around a lot of drunk people. Drinking is so ingrained in British society. I do have a business so I appreciate when people give me their email. Takes allot now adays.
✨ Absolutely beautifully said, Wan Lin! ♥Access to your insights is truly a privilege! 💖💫 I love the idea of curating one's life with intention, like an art gallery filled only with what resonates deeply 🎨🌟 Inspiring reminder to prioritize what truly matters! 💯🌸🌈💫💖
I’m going to be honest….I thought that this was common sense…it’s crazy to me that this is not common sense to most people. I love your videos btw. Edit: I will say that I learned this lesson the hard way when I was 24 but it was in the context of work and entrepreneurship stuff though. I gave out my phone number during networking for potential clients and you’d be surprised at the amount of people that truly did waste my time 😕
thank you for sharing. I took the L a couple years ago reached out to say ‘happy birthday’ this barber I cut off that used to cut my hair bc I didn’t feel comfortable in the environment (lots of microagreessions and I thought he was already in another relationship). I went out of my way to dm him that message and follow him (he never followed back). I reached out bc I felt bad for cutting him off and not going back to the shop. it felt so out of character for me to do that and I realized how much energy I was siphoning from myself from stalking his page.
I haven't been exposed to weed/smokers enough to give a full read, but I feel it's definitely different than alcohol, overall not as "bad" but when you become dependent it makes you ungrounded
Wan Lin, thank you for your insights and wisdom! Love your honesty. This video hit home. "Being near him made my energy feel off" - YES! It is SUCH a good indicator. I think sometimes it takes me a second to realize that my energy feels off because the old habit of people-pleasing gets in the way, and I have to first remind myself to not feel guilty about not wanting to talk to the person out of people-pleasing, and once I do that, it becomes clear that this person makes my energy feel off and that we need to go separate ways. "The people that want access to you, they can learn it"'; "Let them match your energy"; "Never discount your value to meet other people where they are" -- YES, thank you for wording it so beautifully. Also, you look so good (always) but especially in this video.
Trust how your body feels and intuit whether its an appropriate question to answer. If it makes you uncomfortable you can deflect with humor or changing the subject, or not answer.
Yeah when you give your number out to anyone, you become a public hotline for random weirdness.
AHAHAHA couldn't have said it better
yesss!! we live in an information based society. information can literally change your social status, mood, quality of life, etc. i think being mysterious is my personal strength, because it always means I can change my circumstances whenever i want (and nobody is paying attention so it allows me to be free in whatever i want/choose for my life). Im not tied to a friend group, person, or place. I lowkey wanna go off the grid ngl, so maybe one day. ✨💞
The hair thing is real! Never let random people touch your hair cause they transfer entities to you
I was in a pub last night, and i really don’t like being around a lot of drunk people. Drinking is so ingrained in British society. I do have a business so I appreciate when people give me their email. Takes allot now adays.
✨ Absolutely beautifully said, Wan Lin! ♥Access to your insights is truly a privilege! 💖💫 I love the idea of curating one's life with intention, like an art gallery filled only with what resonates deeply 🎨🌟 Inspiring reminder to prioritize what truly matters! 💯🌸🌈💫💖
I’m going to be honest….I thought that this was common sense…it’s crazy to me that this is not common sense to most people. I love your videos btw.
Edit: I will say that I learned this lesson the hard way when I was 24 but it was in the context of work and entrepreneurship stuff though. I gave out my phone number during networking for potential clients and you’d be surprised at the amount of people that truly did waste my time 😕
Things I wished I learned in school instead of Calculus !!
thank you for sharing. I took the L a couple years ago reached out to say ‘happy birthday’ this barber I cut off that used to cut my hair bc I didn’t feel comfortable in the environment (lots of microagreessions and I thought he was already in another relationship).
I went out of my way to dm him that message and follow him (he never followed back). I reached out bc I felt bad for cutting him off and not going back to the shop. it felt so out of character for me to do that and I realized how much energy I was siphoning from myself from stalking his page.
TBH i think gatekeeping myself would be the more selfish thing i could do the world needs me
Of course the world needs your magic and talents! I just want people to be selective with their energy so it goes to the right people and places.
Just wondering what does Marijuana do to your aura? Really wanting to quit smoking.
I haven't been exposed to weed/smokers enough to give a full read, but I feel it's definitely different than alcohol, overall not as "bad" but when you become dependent it makes you ungrounded
interesting as always sending you all the love
🌸 thanks! 🌸
Wan Lin, thank you for your insights and wisdom! Love your honesty. This video hit home.
"Being near him made my energy feel off" - YES! It is SUCH a good indicator. I think sometimes it takes me a second to realize that my energy feels off because the old habit of people-pleasing gets in the way, and I have to first remind myself to not feel guilty about not wanting to talk to the person out of people-pleasing, and once I do that, it becomes clear that this person makes my energy feel off and that we need to go separate ways.
"The people that want access to you, they can learn it"'; "Let them match your energy"; "Never discount your value to meet other people where they are" -- YES, thank you for wording it so beautifully.
Also, you look so good (always) but especially in this video.
Thank you dear! I started using a new face oil. I'm glad this was useful for you 💖
What if people actually ask a direct question?? :(
Trust how your body feels and intuit whether its an appropriate question to answer. If it makes you uncomfortable you can deflect with humor or changing the subject, or not answer.
Instagram and Facebook are owned by the same company. Mine has always been private.
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