David Schnarch describes a proccess he calls “self soothing”, in his Crucible book. It’s a reminder on how to go to things that make you feel better, like humor, music, self care things that make you feel better. Things that are resources in your life. And remember to work with the breath, it disrupts the cicuitry when one goes into “fight flight or freeze” mode. Which, to me, sounds like what you are going through. Sometimes, the people that are close to us in life have contagious emotions, we catch them, like a cold, never knowing where they came from. Hold on tight, my love. Just breathe. I adore you. ❤❤❤❤❤ It’s a conditioned response to trauma which might have started when you were very young.
Babe 🥰 I want you and at the same time scared from marriage and being mother ❤ I had a bad experience which make me restless for repeating the same thing again ❤ I don't deny my love and my attractions to you but I can't ignore my fears of marriage and being mother ❤ hope you can feel and understand me babe 😘💋
Babe 🥰 honestly you scare me now ❤ why do you sometimes like to make me feel uncomfortable ❤ Douglas babe 😘💋 please know that I am so sensitive woman and lonely ❤ I need to feel trust between us ❤
David Schnarch describes a proccess he calls “self soothing”, in his Crucible book.
It’s a reminder on how to go to things that make you feel better, like humor, music, self care things that make you feel better. Things that are resources in your life.
And remember to work with the breath, it disrupts the cicuitry when one goes into “fight flight or freeze” mode.
Which, to me, sounds like what you are going through.
Sometimes, the people that are close to us in life have contagious emotions, we catch them, like a cold, never knowing where they came from.
Hold on tight, my love. Just breathe.
I adore you.
❤❤❤❤❤
It’s a conditioned response to trauma which might have started when you were very young.
I'm sorry 😔
I find clarity after a long sleep
Take a rest love
I will be heading to bed
❤❤❤
I feel the exact same way. Diddo.
🫂❤️🙏
You've always run/ hid. But if you have kids, you have to look after them.
Hi dm
Hide again!!!!
Come to me nowwwwwww b
Calllllllll meeeeeeeee
Babe 🥰 I want you and at the same time scared from marriage and being mother ❤ I had a bad experience which make me restless for repeating the same thing again ❤ I don't deny my love and my attractions to you but I can't ignore my fears of marriage and being mother ❤ hope you can feel and understand me babe 😘💋
Babe 🥰 honestly you scare me now ❤ why do you sometimes like to make me feel uncomfortable ❤ Douglas babe 😘💋 please know that I am so sensitive woman and lonely ❤ I need to feel trust between us ❤