YES! This is EXACTLY the type of content we’ve been missing for months from your channel. Text breakdowns, text analysis, text do’s and don’ts etc. Even if it’s been done before it’s still extremely valuable every time. Keep it up!
This is exactly what you need? Have you ever even hugged a girl? If it’s this hard for you to naturally know how to make conversation you need to work on a lot more than your “text game”.
I like how you actually read out the messages and explain everything because I usually listen to these without the video which makes it way more convenient than like 99% of other creators in the space.
*The idea of mirroring her energy and matching her texting style is so practical and keeps things balanced. It’s all about keeping a fun vibe without looking like you’re trying too hard.*
Your channel is fire. Just straight facts, not that actual PUA, Redpill or Blackpill bullshit. And that's coming from a man that was in these communities for 5 years. Thanks man.
Thank you for these videos. I've realised when dealing with the few crumbs I've managed to get on dating apps that my text game is abysmal, so this advice is invaluable.
I got laid for the first time 10 days after watching your first video. The videoes mostly helped as a means of convincing myself that it's okay for me to look for baddies and not just future wives
Feels good to be back here learning from the very best. (Took a 3 months break from YT pickup as I started a relationship) clearly it didn't workout but it was an exceptional learning experience. I'm watching all this through a very different lense now.
Same, was hoping I didn't need to come back here with this online dating stuff but here we are. But I have to say these videos made the texting part a lot.more fun and effective.
You know you're a Normie when you have to jump through this many hoops to get anywhere. A Chad will get better results just be saying "hi." And a sub5 will never even get into a conversation to begin with.
Another option, CALL HER. Is straightforward and also prevents them to leave you on read, if she answers great if she not move on, less time wasted. Also prevents her screen shooting the conversation to her friends 😉
When I see the amount of “rules” I need to follow when it comes to just getting a chick, I sometimes wonder if being perpetually single is actually worth it lol
You don’t necessarily need to follow all these rules to get a girl. You can run high volume and hope that a girl likes you. These are simply the rules that will optimally get you the best results. It takes effort to be good at something
Do you actually need to have logistics down, like living in city center, having nice place, etc? Because all of these seems too perfect imo, like let's get to my place that is 5 min away, I live in this fancy building with huge balcony and have a cute dog. So now you need a place in city center with view and a dog? Can you make a video how to get girl come over when you live outside the city, like the suburbs, not near the bars, etc.
I work as a line cook at a hotel and i make breakfast for the guests every day. One day a cute girl comes through. I noted her energy. Did nothing. Saw her again 2 days later. Went up to her and told her we should link up. At first ahe objected saying there was no time. Told her not to worry and gave her my number. 2 hours later she wanted to knoq when i got done so we could get drinks. Tye rest is history. One thing though. She said it was hot that i gave her my number.
Basically online dating is like trainning a dog in a nuttshell, got it :D Btw it does work, I got a lot more dates just by having purpose of meeting up, no I don't 'get to know her' over text at all - btw all the girls the same
Honestly the amount of hoops you have to jump through just to have a very slight chance of getting a chick makes it not even worth it. Dating really shouldn't be this complicated, but it is because these apps made dating into a massive competition.
it's not your just not taking care of yourself. I jump on a dating app and have 10 dates lined up in a week.....if you're over weight and don't groom yourself ya...you're not gonna get chicks.....big surprise
@@PEEERRRR lol massive rationalisation to turn “jumping through hoops” into “just groom yourself bro”. Do you guys leave your brain somewhere before commenting?
these skills are needed for girls that are whores and have far too much amount of male attention from apps.. honestly approach women in public and you will stand out way more than the dudes on apps.. dating apps are not my thing and I agree its not worth the time and effort just to have a slight chance with a hot girl
Do you have any advice regarding on situations where I locked in on a girl from text; then from there, as a introverted guy, if we ever meet in person, how would I need to manage that or deal with meeting in person?
Yes… but not if you do it the right way.. which is build enough value before the date so that your confirmation doesn’t devalue you too much. But if she’s only slightly interested, then yes. However you should still do it because it probably won’t be the one make or break thing that stopped her from meeting you.
If you're concerned about it coming off as needy, then try to leave yourself a "text in reserve," which you can send on the day of. For example, don't plan all the details of the date in advance, just set the basics-and then on the day of, text her to ask about the details of exactly where she wants to meet or exactly when she's free, etc, and then you'll have a convo to confirm the details.
If you got your own place, learn to cook a couple of nice meals, and offer to cook a dinner in. Have a picture of something you've made so they know you're good.
Alex can you talk about how you prevent these girls from getting attached? I get a lot of girls attached, how do you make it known they're only for sex? Sounds bad jus being honest
You don't need game if you're an attractive guy. He already proved this by using the Chad tinder experiment and that Chad could barely hold a conversation in text, yet his awkwardness and inexperience just flew over the girls' heads and was not a problem.
@@O67-y3l Not sure about roids and it is a loose correlation. He stopped gaming so much after meeting Natti. He did look significantly better circa 3 years ago tho that much is true
In a guy’s 75-85 age range, it may become genuinely impossible to hookup with women in 25-35. Any younger for the guys age range and you have more of a chance than you’d think, even after reading this comment
@@gnuman1841 appreciate the response. I’m 46 and just about to give up on the dating app scene altogether as I get virtually no results unless I’m willing to import women from easy mode countries. I’d rather have my dignity. Anyway, I wasn’t sure if it’s age or a bad profile or a combination of both. I just don’t want to waste anymore money if it is an age thing as there’s not much that can be done about that and I don’t want to lie about it. Thanks for your insight though.
49 yo guy here, busy dating women in the 25-35 bracket. Got to say IRL is easier than online dating once the age gap gets this big. This is because you can only lie about your age so much on an app- maybe take 5 years off or 10 if you're super young looking. So I say 44 online but I'm 49, which is fine, I look about 44. But a 44 year old guy wanting to meet girls of 25 is a red flag. Meeting women in real life this is a non issue. They get with you because you are fun, funny and hot, they are often intrigued about what an older man would be like in bed etc. and very often don't ask your age (because they actually don't want to talk about theirs either). You can often get balls deep several times before the realisation hits that you're actually older than their dad. Older guys almost always have to be prepared to spend a bit of money on women if they want to date younger though. I was in denial of this fact for some years and refused to throw money around towards women for expensive cocktails, meals and cab rides. When I changed this attitude, recognised a date is only a few hours, so they can only realistically burn through hundreds, not thousands, my 'luck' suddenly started changing. That and learning to (respectfully) cut to the chase and ask them for what I actually want have transformed my success rate.
It frankly AMAZES me as I get older how many young, attractive women are potentially interested in ( a small subset of) much older guys. It's not all young women of course, but it's more of them than most guys my age (49) would ever dream. I got hit on HARD recently by a very attractive 19 year old girl. I had to pick my jaw off the floor. NINETEEN years old! I'm not anything above average looking, although I am 6'3" and work out, but not a gym freak. Smile, dress well, make eye contact, walk and stand tall with shoulders back, stand with open body language, engage people in conversation lots and women, including quite a few young women will notice you and be receptive to you. This is because so many men, indeed the vast majority of men, DO NOT DO THESE SIMPLE, FUNDAMENTAL THINGS. So if the only confident, successful looking guy she saw today ( and this is what all the above subconsciously or consciously denotes), is you then you are more attractive than everyone else, regardless of ages. A hot 25 year old guy who's nervous, can't maintain eye contact, hunches over, is poorly dressed looks like he just came out of his mum's basement, can actually be less 'attractive' overall than an average looking 55 year old guy, if the average 55 year old looks like he just stepped off a superyacht.
@@Perrylayne105 We evolve at a scale of 20-30 generations at a time. The world changed in 6 years somehow that women react differently to basic attraction triggers G?
Didn't he prove in this video that being persistent works? By showing examples of getting dates after 'triple texting' over time, and by explaining WHY you have to do this with women these days?
I get the impression, having seen the dating related traffic volume on a reasonably hot girls phone, that sometimes your first text just got passed over by circumstances, missed out or just not noticed in the melee. This is why wait a day or two, then double text can work. Just by chance, the second one gets through to her just because she's holding her phone that time or whatever. I'd say never go more than triple and always wait a while between. Long enough to give the subconscious feeling that in the interim you might well have fucked three other girls, even if you were actually crying yourself to sleep over the first one and there's no other girls in your phone. It's hard to wait, but wait you must!
YES! This is EXACTLY the type of content we’ve been missing for months from your channel. Text breakdowns, text analysis, text do’s and don’ts etc. Even if it’s been done before it’s still extremely valuable every time. Keep it up!
Agree! Good old PWF gems 💎
If you show that you are hungry you don't eat
This is exactly what you need? Have you ever even hugged a girl? If it’s this hard for you to naturally know how to make conversation you need to work on a lot more than your “text game”.
I like how you actually read out the messages and explain everything because I usually listen to these without the video which makes it way more convenient than like 99% of other creators in the space.
Simple, to the point, yet detailed, complete and well articulated. This is gold.
*The idea of mirroring her energy and matching her texting style is so practical and keeps things balanced. It’s all about keeping a fun vibe without looking like you’re trying too hard.*
As you can see sales really help you professionally and also in dating. Communication is key makes you really interesting
Your channel is fire. Just straight facts, not that actual PUA, Redpill or Blackpill bullshit. And that's coming from a man that was in these communities for 5 years. Thanks man.
You forgot blue pill
Thank you for these videos. I've realised when dealing with the few crumbs I've managed to get on dating apps that my text game is abysmal, so this advice is invaluable.
I got laid for the first time 10 days after watching your first video. The videoes mostly helped as a means of convincing myself that it's okay for me to look for baddies and not just future wives
this is the quality content I love from pwf
Imagine in a beautiful world where 2 people could just say they're interested in each other and bam it's on. This is ridiculous
Every girl would be taken and only ugly ones would be left
Imagine we lived in a beautiful world where just by imagining, things we imagined just happened...
Imagine there was no hunger, poverty, diseases, etc…. It would be nice, but we live in the real world
If you find someone who’s right for you, it’s easy.
Even giving a cat too much of something makes it not interested in it. You either learn the game or get stuck with the lowest hanging fruit.
Feels good to be back here learning from the very best. (Took a 3 months break from YT pickup as I started a relationship) clearly it didn't workout but it was an exceptional learning experience. I'm watching all this through a very different lense now.
Same, was hoping I didn't need to come back here with this online dating stuff but here we are. But I have to say these videos made the texting part a lot.more fun and effective.
Grateful to have this guy on this platform and showing the many mistake and errors we all make
I like how some of this is just common how to be a social human type tips. I get some people need it though. Solid advice. 👍
soo many guys need to see videos like this it's insane how many haha
Why does no one take this into account that he looks better than most of the guys on tinder?
saw this guy 2 years ago, didnt get me anywhere. started watching him again today and i literally got 2 dates planned. gold. lmk if you can relate
You know you're a Normie when you have to jump through this many hoops to get anywhere.
A Chad will get better results just be saying "hi."
And a sub5 will never even get into a conversation to begin with.
Nice bro!! this is what we need. No more debates please! Keep this content up is pure gold. Thanks :-)
Another option, CALL HER. Is straightforward and also prevents them to leave you on read, if she answers great if she not move on, less time wasted. Also prevents her screen shooting the conversation to her friends 😉
That's terrible advise...no one likes to be called..
@@siddhanthravichandran3245loners and anti socials**
That's bs..chicks love when you call them@@siddhanthravichandran3245
Honestly , I needed this… I’m from a time before texting and this helped immensely thank you
This is pure gold bro
Great content Alex, can you please make a Cold approach ultimate guide? It would be really helpfull..
This is a great video. Encompasses all that you teach basically in a step-by-step process.
I’ve seen a lot of dating coaches but sir are the most legit ✔️
When I see the amount of “rules” I need to follow when it comes to just getting a chick, I sometimes wonder if being perpetually single is actually worth it lol
A job application has more rules, yet you go for it still.
You don’t necessarily need to follow all these rules to get a girl. You can run high volume and hope that a girl likes you. These are simply the rules that will optimally get you the best results. It takes effort to be good at something
This is how I feel too. The amount of hoops you have to jump through just to have a very slight chance of getting a chick makes it not even worth it.
If you don't wanna put in the work to get what you want, then you probably don't deserve it :)
it's not, trust me
I’m still out here using Hey, Trouble;)
The terminator pickup line was so funny lmao
Gold man , to the point and hits women hard
Class video 👍🏻
This video is fucking awesome and full of value man, thanks alex
what video were you watching?
@@PEEERRRR your mom’s
This video is going to become the de facto texting aid for dating apps. Awesome job Alex.
If you show that you're hungry you don't eat
How can they drive back home after drinking the wine?
Perfect video know that's the grandmaster of texting 💪
Tbh the texting can be cringy. Just shows the value of substance over style alone
Do you actually need to have logistics down, like living in city center, having nice place, etc? Because all of these seems too perfect imo, like let's get to my place that is 5 min away, I live in this fancy building with huge balcony and have a cute dog. So now you need a place in city center with view and a dog?
Can you make a video how to get girl come over when you live outside the city, like the suburbs, not near the bars, etc.
I work as a line cook at a hotel and i make breakfast for the guests every day.
One day a cute girl comes through. I noted her energy. Did nothing. Saw her again 2 days later. Went up to her and told her we should link up. At first ahe objected saying there was no time. Told her not to worry and gave her my number.
2 hours later she wanted to knoq when i got done so we could get drinks. Tye rest is history. One thing though. She said it was hot that i gave her my number.
Couldn’t you get fired
@dzllz yeah but you gotta be slick
Great vid and your web forum is great also.
Basically online dating is like trainning a dog in a nuttshell, got it :D Btw it does work, I got a lot more dates just by having purpose of meeting up, no I don't 'get to know her' over text at all - btw all the girls the same
Honestly the amount of hoops you have to jump through just to have a very slight chance of getting a chick makes it not even worth it. Dating really shouldn't be this complicated, but it is because these apps made dating into a massive competition.
it's not your just not taking care of yourself. I jump on a dating app and have 10 dates lined up in a week.....if you're over weight and don't groom yourself ya...you're not gonna get chicks.....big surprise
@@PEEERRRR lol massive rationalisation to turn “jumping through hoops” into “just groom yourself bro”. Do you guys leave your brain somewhere before commenting?
these skills are needed for girls that are whores and have far too much amount of male attention from apps.. honestly approach women in public and you will stand out way more than the dudes on apps.. dating apps are not my thing and I agree its not worth the time and effort just to have a slight chance with a hot girl
Do you have any advice regarding on situations where I locked in on a girl from text; then from there, as a introverted guy, if we ever meet in person, how would I need to manage that or deal with meeting in person?
You are generous brother . Thank you
What are the differences when texting for social circle? I want to bring girls on nights out rather than organize one-one-one dates.
Ur getting played
So the 2023 guide is the same as 2022 same as 2021..
My opener will always be, He (Name) :). If shes not answering shes not interested, if she answers conversation can start
I wouldn’t respond to bad grammar openers unless I was really drunk if I was a girl, but good luck mate 😂
Or just (Name) with an exclamation mark
Alex, do you have any no-bullshit skin care guide? Every other YTber is sponsored by some product and I can't trust them.
I'm trying to help my friend who had a high interest girl who never responded to his follow up date question the day before.
Damn near need a masters degree in communications with the female gender🥵
Couldn't constantly confirming dates come off as needy though?
Nope
Yes… but not if you do it the right way.. which is build enough value before the date so that your confirmation doesn’t devalue you too much. But if she’s only slightly interested, then yes. However you should still do it because it probably won’t be the one make or break thing that stopped her from meeting you.
If you're concerned about it coming off as needy, then try to leave yourself a "text in reserve," which you can send on the day of. For example, don't plan all the details of the date in advance, just set the basics-and then on the day of, text her to ask about the details of exactly where she wants to meet or exactly when she's free, etc, and then you'll have a convo to confirm the details.
Reconfirming the day before or on the day of a date is basic social skills.
@@badgasaurus4211 so are about 50 other things that get you pegged as a nice guy loser.
Greg Lurik vs. AshleyTomato.
I see you often say ''do you like wine'' and then set up the date.
But I don't drink alcohol, what would be a good alternative?
Sparkling water
Do you like Molly
@@MrUnfeigned No I'm sober
If you got your own place, learn to cook a couple of nice meals, and offer to cook a dinner in. Have a picture of something you've made so they know you're good.
Orange juice works magically well
Amazing video
Alex can you talk about how you prevent these girls from getting attached? I get a lot of girls attached, how do you make it known they're only for sex? Sounds bad jus being honest
I swear I’ve messed up with multiple girls following ams and not confirming the date lmao.
High value content
what are the best text rules you have leared from john?
Thanks, these are helping
Man it’s rough out here , soldier on gents
What do you think about using emojies?
I like to open with something like "Would you be down to get sushi this week?"
Everything i need to know
3:10 3:56 5:59 6:11
Very good
You don't need game if you're an attractive guy. He already proved this by using the Chad tinder experiment and that Chad could barely hold a conversation in text, yet his awkwardness and inexperience just flew over the girls' heads and was not a problem.
So those short sweet openre toy better have a ton or value in you pictures.
doing God's work.. i have a writers mentality and keeping it short is hard for me. This stuff is a game changer for a lot of guys.
So she doesn’t text pictures to strangers but she comes to a strangers house to hookup? Fake
I hate modern dating
me : Hey trouble
her: Trouble?
whats your response?
Just affirm and say yes, and then give a sexual compliment based on her profile
“You like wine?”
hey trouble is already super weird and cringe
I can fix you
Hopefully a little. What are your plans this week?
Wish I knew that end song from tonys Playlists...
My brain isn't working at all. If it was possible in India, I would meet up with girls daily! I wanna move to the US as quickly as possible!
I thought this would be easier
Iron rules of Text Game >>>>> Iron rules of Tomassi
Alex you’re obsessed with Carne Asada
Got a date. Now what do I say in real life lol?
Be attractive and not ugly 90% of it
Men should only watch these videos once they’ve fully looksmaxxed
@@imhopelesslyaddictedtofent4266 yes
No, even on dating apps it's about vibe. Looks helps, but it's not the most important thing
Ty bro my in person game is pretty good and I get a good amount of matches but I’m struggling with getting dates so thanks
Decent content
I give up on the game - it's a fucking madness...
The texts you're showing are from 2017
@@ScorpionSuerte really?
@@ScorpionSuerte bs
@@O67-y3l Not sure about roids and it is a loose correlation. He stopped gaming so much after meeting Natti. He did look significantly better circa 3 years ago tho that much is true
@@O67-y3l Man's on TRT due to low T levels after Lyme disease. Don't remember which video but he says it somewhere.
@@robkipa Yeah i forgot about that
Gold
At what age should I guy give up on dating apps if he’s looking to hookup with women in the 25-35 age bracket?
In a guy’s 75-85 age range, it may become genuinely impossible to hookup with women in 25-35. Any younger for the guys age range and you have more of a chance than you’d think, even after reading this comment
@@gnuman1841 appreciate the response. I’m 46 and just about to give up on the dating app scene altogether as I get virtually no results unless I’m willing to import women from easy mode countries. I’d rather have my dignity. Anyway, I wasn’t sure if it’s age or a bad profile or a combination of both. I just don’t want to waste anymore money if it is an age thing as there’s not much that can be done about that and I don’t want to lie about it. Thanks for your insight though.
49 yo guy here, busy dating women in the 25-35 bracket. Got to say IRL is easier than online dating once the age gap gets this big. This is because you can only lie about your age so much on an app- maybe take 5 years off or 10 if you're super young looking. So I say 44 online but I'm 49, which is fine, I look about 44. But a 44 year old guy wanting to meet girls of 25 is a red flag. Meeting women in real life this is a non issue. They get with you because you are fun, funny and hot, they are often intrigued about what an older man would be like in bed etc. and very often don't ask your age (because they actually don't want to talk about theirs either). You can often get balls deep several times before the realisation hits that you're actually older than their dad. Older guys almost always have to be prepared to spend a bit of money on women if they want to date younger though. I was in denial of this fact for some years and refused to throw money around towards women for expensive cocktails, meals and cab rides. When I changed this attitude, recognised a date is only a few hours, so they can only realistically burn through hundreds, not thousands, my 'luck' suddenly started changing. That and learning to (respectfully) cut to the chase and ask them for what I actually want have transformed my success rate.
It frankly AMAZES me as I get older how many young, attractive women are potentially interested in ( a small subset of) much older guys. It's not all young women of course, but it's more of them than most guys my age (49) would ever dream. I got hit on HARD recently by a very attractive 19 year old girl. I had to pick my jaw off the floor. NINETEEN years old! I'm not anything above average looking, although I am 6'3" and work out, but not a gym freak.
Smile, dress well, make eye contact, walk and stand tall with shoulders back, stand with open body language, engage people in conversation lots and women, including quite a few young women will notice you and be receptive to you. This is because so many men, indeed the vast majority of men, DO NOT DO THESE SIMPLE, FUNDAMENTAL THINGS. So if the only confident, successful looking guy she saw today ( and this is what all the above subconsciously or consciously denotes), is you then you are more attractive than everyone else, regardless of ages.
A hot 25 year old guy who's nervous, can't maintain eye contact, hunches over, is poorly dressed looks like he just came out of his mum's basement, can actually be less 'attractive' overall than an average looking 55 year old guy, if the average 55 year old looks like he just stepped off a superyacht.
What's the meaning of takeaway ?😪
When the girl stops responding gets her to re-engage in the convo without looking needy.
@@matthewhanson7218 thanks man 🙏✌
“I don’t text pictures to strangers.” *Uploads half naked pictures to Instagram.*
Literally ever guy is going in for the date quickly..
How do you know that
He doesn’t just talking
Have you never checked a girls tinder that you’ve met?
This is some good ass content
I don’t understand what the girl is getting out of these arrangements….?
To many games just say what you mean and mean what you say simple
Why is the chat dated 2017
Probably doesn't matter since the lesson from it can be applied in 2023.
Some older and some newer examples. It doesn’t matter tho cause the conceits are exactly the same
@@PlayingWithFireChannelthe world has changed since 2017 G.
@@Perrylayne105 some things stay the same. Water is still wet, and girls still respond very well to this texting style
@@Perrylayne105 We evolve at a scale of 20-30 generations at a time. The world changed in 6 years somehow that women react differently to basic attraction triggers G?
Why does this seem like boring texting?
it is to guys, but not for girls.
Tinder is not the place to find a wife...1%
Bro don’t be telling guys to double or triple text, if she likes you she won’t play hard to get, take the redpill
Didn't he prove in this video that being persistent works? By showing examples of getting dates after 'triple texting' over time, and by explaining WHY you have to do this with women these days?
I get the impression, having seen the dating related traffic volume on a reasonably hot girls phone, that sometimes your first text just got passed over by circumstances, missed out or just not noticed in the melee. This is why wait a day or two, then double text can work. Just by chance, the second one gets through to her just because she's holding her phone that time or whatever. I'd say never go more than triple and always wait a while between. Long enough to give the subconscious feeling that in the interim you might well have fucked three other girls, even if you were actually crying yourself to sleep over the first one and there's no other girls in your phone.
It's hard to wait, but wait you must!
🙏
No such thing as text game, that’s redpill do it in person
I follow the hot chick on insta from the thumb nail haha
What on earth is a ‘shit test’,
Welp
dude these are great tips but you really need a tongue scraper
DEGEN.
this is a joke, right? :o
This is the shit
These texting examples seem totally fake, TBH.
nah u trippin hah
🤔who is this. might ur alien i think.