When You Cheat On Your Military Spouse And Instantly Regret It
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My wife was bathing our 2 children when her phone rang. Like a good husband I grabbed it to bring to her. Walking to her not sure how but I opened her photos to see photo of her giving head to a coworker as I walked up the stairs... I handed her the phone with the photo open with my 2 kids in the bath then left the house. I got my gun and went looking.... Thank goodness I did not find him. Its been 10 years since we separated over this and still today I recall the feeling of seeing that photo every time some talks about someone cheating and I relive the heart break like it was today....
Here we are, still talking about women fcking rights in my d*mbass country man. I think mens rights are the priority because when men are fcked, everybody fcked. We shouldnt have depressed men in our country so we should avoid it. Really bro, fck womens rights.
First i want to say... i really felt your hurt there....
Secondly, i always question.. why is it the first thing dudes want to do is go out and hunt the dude your girlfriend / wife cheated on you with...
It was her who caused this so why is thise dude have to suffer alongside you while your spouse just sits in the background unpunished..
Dont direct your anger to the wrong person, the act of "i grabbed my gun and went looking" just makes you come across a little douchey, like you're trying to prove your masculinity.
Screw her dude, you deserve so much better than that shit... finding out that way as well must have really stung
I was with a girl once who i was supposed to marry.
We were invited to a friends party they were hosting and i mentioned to her i wanted to go but not looking forward to some of the people attending because they'd be getting high. She then used that as the perfect excuse to lash out at me.
She broke up with me on the basis that i wasnt taking the relationship seriously because of some other people that were going to show up to get high.
This destroyed my mental health, i was in therapy for a year and a half trying to figure myself out because i was so confused, what had i done wrong?
I later learend that she cheated on me with her coworker and got pregnant during the time we were wedding planning.
She found any excuse to leave me to hide her own guilt
Man I am sorry for what happened to you that must be soul crushing 💔
I feel you, my ex-wife was talking to my best friend about the two of them divorcing their spouses and being together... Many a night my pastor had to talk me down, I actually surrendered my weapons to him for a year.
My legs would have buckled from under me walking up those stairs if that happened to me. I am so sorry, my dear friend. ❤️
My younger brother served a year in Afghanistan, came back home, married to a woman who was also in the army, and got her pregnant. He had the opportunity to leave the army but his wife convinced him to re-up and take the opportunity to get a position in Germany. She said she would be there with him. My brother went to Germany, his wife's boyfriend (who happened to be my brother's best friend) moved in. Then she spent the next few years bashing my brother on Twitter (she forgot I was followed her on there) and kept telling everyone that my brother abandoned her and that he was a dead beat father being never bothered to go see his kid even though he wasn't even in the same country. Thankfully, he didn't kill himself, and thankfully, we've been able to take her to court (I will finally get to meet my nephew for the first time in a few weeks) So yeah, thank God for our military men and women. And shame on those who cheat on them.
Cheating on ur spouse is fucked up. Cheating on ur spouse who's in the military is worse. 😢😢😢
What is *far* more fucked up than that is a cheating wife expecting her husband to bear the cost of raising a child he thinks is his -- but whom she knows is *not* his. I'm with Roma on this: all such women should be denied government benefits. That's the only thing that will ever get their attention.
That's what I'm reading abt in the comments. Guys saying that, but ironically, I've been cheated on as a girl, n seen other girls experience that too. even tho I was loyal as f always.😂
I totally understand and agree 💯 percent 👍.
@@ilovethenightskys No doubt that happens also, but it just seems so prevalent today that women cheat so much more, or at least they're being more open about it with as accepted as it seems to have become. It wasn't a married woman, but I had a woman friend admit to me she cheated on boyfriends in her past, she just stated it matter-of-fact, like she was ordering a coffee at Starbucks.
And to be fair, I've known my share of men in the military who also cheated on their wives, they face real punishment though, not like the cheating spouse who isn't under the military's UCMJ. I saw an NCO that I really despised in tears one day because his wife called the company commander about her cheating husband, he came running back from the battalion commander's office with no stripes. The Colonel tore his rank off and sent him back to the company, terrifying him and leaving him with a lot of uncertainty about his rank status for a few days. He lost a stripe and wasn't an NCO anymore. Another NCO, a senior NCO lost two stripes and went from an E7 to an E5 for his running around on his wife with a married woman private under him, in a training environment, a double-whammy. That's a career ender there.
There was a time when being divorced was shunned, today it's just the norm. The same for cheating on a spouse, it's just one of those things that happens it seems today.
Cheating should disqualify you for child support and alimony, and immediately place custody in the other parents favor.
And have to pay her spousal support
Have all three Permanently Banned
Any Cheating Girlfriend or Wife
Deserves ABSOLUTELY NOTHING from any Man.
I'm a military wife. And when the platoon would deploy , we would know who the cheaters were. They would change their porch lights to a different color to let new know they were alone. SMH
lol really bs
20 years with my amazing veteran husband... Three deployments under his belt and not once did I ever consider cheating. It's incredibly vile. We've been a civilian family since 2011 and am so glad we're done with the military.
I'm glad you never thought about cheating, but it sounds like you're a bit ungrateful for the military your husband served in.
You probably have a house, a car, and food in the pantry. You also likely have military car insurance like USAA and or bank accounts from that same company.
Likely you also received housing assistance from the military so you can even get a house. Something a lot of people cannot get or cannot afford.
@@kingzach74 no, not at all. I absolutely appreciate everything we had. My husband served 3 12 to 15 month deployments in under 6 years. And he has PTSD that affects every day of his life. I'm not ungrateful. But I AM glad he's out now, able to heal and function through much assistance.
@@GenXfrom75You are a Goddess then. Know that men everywhere very much appreciate the wonderful example you've set
@@GenXfrom75 3+ years in a warzone out of 6. damn. i respect the military as much as the next man but those rotations back then? too much.
@@whiteknight5100 he's my everything 💞... And thank you.
My ex-wife was Air Guard and she cheated on me while at school for her position with a married Air Force sergeant. They destroyed 2 marriages and eventually destroyed their own too. Karma I guess.
As a military veteran with four combat deployments, It took me to find out on my 3rd deployment which was in 2007 and for 15 months for that matter ( everyone in country was extended for 3 additional months) that my wife of 7 years was cheating on me. it was her friend who she confided with that sent me an email with pictures and me having an actual verbal conversation to find out everything. I literally yelled at the top of my lungs inside the MWR tent and then told her that I am divorcing her. She told me I didnt have a hair on my ass to do so. the next day she was served while I was deployed. I spent all afternoon (we were 8hrs ahead of east coast) looking for a lawyer to do so. by the time I returned stateside, the divorce was final and I moved away. I feel for my brothers who find out that their wives are carrying kids that done belong to them....
Sad story Brother, but I have to ask...were you with the Eighty Deuce in the Ghan in '07? If so, we shared a dust storm or two...
Regardless, I hope you are thriving now and keep moving forward!
It's sad that men serve our country and come back home to their wives and finding out that their wives cheated on them and became pregnant with someone else's kids!
As a female active duty vet....TY ROMA.. this is real💯❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
U having fun in military? 🍑🍆
I'll vote to keep you safe...thank you! ❤
I agree these woman should ve held accountable in the courts for cheating
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That's pointless, that's like yelling at a wild animal, it's not going to understand, most young postmodern women have all the self restraint and self awareness of wild animals.
If a marriage can survive the military it can survive anything. I was stationed overseas for 1 year & it was the beginning of the end of my first marriage. The guys who spent most of their 20 year careers in Iraq hardly knew their wives & kids when they finally got to stay home. Their babies were in college when their dads came home. And people wonder why some veterans have mental problems & end up on the street.
I love my husband. Deployments are hard and stressful, but it only grew my love for him and respect him for the brave, loving, caring man he is. His last deployment was when tensions with North Korea were rising, and I thought he wouldn't make it as he would have been one of the first ones in. He ex wife cheated on him and I will never understand the point of cheating. Also, thank you for bringing awareness to how the government doesn't care about our vets. I lost one of my dear friends to suicide after he got home from Afghanistan. He went to the VA for help. They sent him home after an evaluation and he ended up taking his life that day. Bryce Stevens was a medic in the army. Was awarded numerous medals and awards for his bravery. We need better care and funding for our vets.
Used to run a bar and had a female customer who was a military spouse. She’d always talk negatively about women who cheated on spouse when they were deployed and 6 months later she was doing the same.
No, you know what the wives get .... Tricare, a separation pension... AND, she can walk in to the commanding officers room and accuse him of sodomy or rape...and he's STILL done.... They get rewarded
Or the officer wives are at worst because they think they wear the rank of their husband
Actually no they cant....They got to prove beyond the shadow of a doubt of the allegations of sodomy or rape. If she didnt go to the hospital and get checked out, shes fucked and can get herself in alot of trouble. As far as tri-care, shes given a 90 window. after that she loses it all. Separation pension/retirement, etc? There is something called the 10/10 rule. You must be married to the SM for 10 years while he serves 10 consecutive years on AD before youre even entitled to 50% of his pension. My first wife thought she can get my pension. she lost that fight.
@@samuelpancake4084 Saw a Private E-2 get screamed at by a Colonels wife because he parked somewhere she wanted to park, and she demanded he move his car (spot was unmarked). I'm guessing he (politely) told her to kick rocks, and she shreiked "Do you know who I am? My husband is Colonel ! I am a Colonel! Move your car. PRIVATE!"
He just ignored her and went inside. No idea what came of it, I only extrapolated the information on the situation based on what I heard her scream. I wasn't party to any events before or after the screaming.
Many officers wives are Divas.
Infidelity in general is shameful, but Infidelity against a military veteran is worse. These people are risking their lives serving our country and they come home and find out their wives are cheating on them - SHAMEFUL
You are spot on again, Miss Roma. Well done, young lady. Well done.
for any guys going into the armed services, do not get engaged or married. wait until you are discharged because while you are deployed, your girl will jump as many guys as she can leading up to the day you come home. and if she gets pregnant within a few days before you come home, she can claim it's yours and you will be stuck paying for it since the military takes that very seriously
Im from Costa Rica the country where MAN DOESNT HAVE ANY KIND OF RIGHTS, I seriously need some help sister!!!!! Blessings and hope you answer!!! 🙏🙏🙏
I’m surprised the military doesn’t make paternity tests mandatory. Seems like it could be considered a security threat.
What do you mean security threat?
@@clarkkent2005....loss of a soldier is a military loss and enough could be a security risk???, that's my guess
@@clarkkent2005 Disloyal wives reduce a soldier's effectiveness or could be talking to spys.
@@Albemarle7 who could be taking to spies? The soldier?
@@shane-bl4jk how is there a loss of a soldier?
Just want to remind people, memorial day is not about active or retired service members. It's about remembering those we lost, our brothers and sisters, that gave everything for us.
You may not believe this but you're the only woman I still trust. Glad that your here
Note: Memorial Day is dedicated to the Service Members who have gave their all; made the ultimate sacrifice to their country. Veteran's Day is dedicated to all the Veterans (actively serving, retired, some who gave all and all who gave some). Armed Forces day is dedicated to the men and women who are actively serving (putting their lives on the line to protect our country). In either circumstances, a spouse who decides cheat while their husband is deployed is an ultimate betrayal that can get the service member (or their unit) possibly killed upon discovery of the cheating skank's activities.
Thank you. Many seem to need that clarification.
@@CinimodNorton many confuse the 3 holidays.
@@CCM1199 Right , that needs to be fixed. Just saying, bro.
Nether which are today.
Chloe, as much as I hate to say it, it happens all the time. As a sergeant, the number of soldiers that I knew that found out their spouse cheated, is enough to boggle the mind.
I have always honored all veterans. I truly appreciate everything they sacrificed. When I was younger I was caroling at our local VA with a youth group. We were allowed in the Locked ward. I met 2 gentleman who firmly believed they were in a German POW camp. Then were planning an escape. I was so moved. These men gave up their sanity 40 years before this. We as a free world owe them and all vets and active service members a debt we can never repay.
@@DivineWindSerpent what are you trying to say?
I shouldn't have laughed at them planning an escape from a perceived German POW camp... But I did because it's sad they had to give up their sanity.
@@a_d3mon that's exactly what I was thinking they gave up their sanity for me and everybody else in this country
The sad truth of the matter is that the divorce rate in the US armed forces today is 97/98%.
I was lucky enough to have been married to a grown ass woman when I deployed that none of those shenanigans took place. However, 5 years later, I was broken and she was done. 10 years after the divorce, she's my best friend all over. Strange how life works sometimes.
Thats how me and my ex are now. remarried before my 4th deployment, came back broken and she was done. I med retired in 2014 and we been friends ever since.
Well said. Nobody deserves this, let alone people sacrificing for their country!
My father was in the military for I think four years. He never saw combat, but he was married at the time. His (now ex) wife cheated on him. They have two kids together (I'm not one of them, thank god. I cant imagine having that crazy woman as a mother). So they got divorced and it was a messy one. There's a period of time that you have before you can get remarried, at the time it was two months... Yeah, she got remarried before those two months were up. I assume it was to the man she cheated with. (My dad never told me that she cheated, but it's pretty easy to assume she did). The man she married was also in the military. He was stationed in Germany and she took the kids with her, so my Dad barely got to be in his children's lives. I found out that after their divorce, I think it was at a family reunion or something, but that crazy woman threw a frying pan full of food at my dad the moment he walked in the door. Size may not matter, but four inches and I'd never have existed. It's worthy to note that they got married before they were adults because she got pregnant with my sister. So... Yeah. It's really awkward to be around her during family reunions, because it's not like I can entirely avoid the mother of my siblings. Knowing what I know now, it's even more awkward. Also, none of her relationships lasted. Gee, I wonder why
Actually, there is no waiting period unless youre specifically talking about benefits. even then she's not entitled to any of it unless she actually fufilled the 10/10 rule requirements: Be married for 10 straight years WHILE he serves 10 Consecutive years in the military. shes entitled to benefits once shes divorced and will continue to do so until she remarries. Once that happens, she loses ALL benefits.
@@CCM1199 I should have clarified, this all went down in the '80s and '90s
Dam those poor falling soldiers hope they can rest in peace.
I've never met a guy who didn't have a cheating wife and that included me I was cheated on by my wife will I was on active duty in the navy thank God we didn't have children made divorce much easier
Every vet has stories on this stuff. While we were in Iraq one guys wife told him his kid wasnt his, moved her bf into their house, he was driving my buddies truck and even wearing his clothes.
I don't want people to stop thanking me for my service. I do want them to do better with the freedom that I defended.
Thank you, Roma. I served 12 years in the Royal Navy, we were on deployment months from home and still had quite a long time before we got back. I had been ashore and just bought my girlfriend an engagement ring, intending to ask her to marry me as soon as I saw her, when out of nowhere I got a "dear john" letter, it was like a kick in the stomach, if it wasn't for my friends I don't know how I would have coped. It took me years before I could trust women again. At least I found out before I got married.
Any woman that's trying to make there man believe another man's kid is his own, That's the lowest thing anyone can do. To just try and convince someone like they're that dumb 🙄 😒 yeah where's there jail time
Even if the baby is your spitting image, get that paternity test, you will sleep better.
No jail time lol
@@thefracturedbutwhole5475i dont understand why ANY man would ever not make paternity test, i cant process or understand this bro.
@zombine7103 Finding out you're not the father is a painful truth, you're inclination is to trust the person you are in a relationship with, and if you really are the father nobody has to worry about anything, it's the cheaters who will try to talk you out of a paternity test.
Fun fact, infidelity while in the military is not only an arrestable offense, but it can include jail time, even if you're just the spouse of the military member if you live on base. Most generally in these cases of infidelity the interloper is also a military member who isn't deployed. I hate when people say idiotic things like "Happy memorial day", "Thank you for your service". No, if you want to thank me say a prayer for those who gave their life for you to virtue signal with your fake gratitude. If you really want to thank a military member, live like their sacrifice of anything up to and including their lives means something to you. Don't virtue signal at me or that age old basic training, loud enough for another country to hear me, attitude bubbles up to the surface.
Why oh why can't you keep your legs crossed during your man's deployment. He's protecting you and the rest of us against horrors of war
Women are incapable of caring about anything or anyone but themselves more often than not. Hell I've known far far to many women that really didn't even care about their kids. They were just accessories.
When I served, there was a “red light” illuminated when the service member was gone and the spouse was available.
I knew a few guys in my unit who committed suicide after returning home from Iraq to find their wives with a Jodie. I personally received a Dear John letter in Iraq from my now ex-wife.
Memorial Day is one of my favorite holidays to celebrate. To give thanks and honor those who never came home. I have a tradition of taking my daughter over the past 10 years to place Flags on Veterans Graves at Fort Logan National Cemetery.
Now I gotta give Chloe credit, she killed it on this video. Totally on point.
Chloe, My wife cheated on me multiple times while I was in Basic Training and AIT. When I got deployed to Germany I arranged for her and my daughter to join me. After the birth of our son she started cheating again telling me we should "see"" other people. It ended in divorce. I survived but still bear the scares. Thank you for your support of men.
Good for her!!! Wish I had the courage to cheat
I lived next to a US Military base for 9 years, through my GF at the time I knew many Military wives. I'll tell you right now, cheating is 100% normal, and anyone marrying into the Military needs to be prepared to accept it. I am not saying that ALL people in Military marriages cheat, but it is far far more common than not and is completely normal, and it goes BOTH ways.
I’m 18 and recently became a marine I don’t know if I would’ve struggled this much transitioning to adulthood if I were to have gone to college instead but nonetheless this might be one of the hardest things I do in my life and sometimes it feels like I’ll never reach the light at the end of the tunnel but there’s always a way I’ve had to persevere in the past, and those obstacles have led to my path and career as a marine
Coming from a veteran... Do yourself a favor and do not get into a marriage on any level and especially not in a hurry. It will cost you a heart and money and also stay away from buying the new car you think you can afford because you really can't . Oooo strippers is a no go either . Looking out for you and spreading the knowledge of bad ideas that pretty much happen to every new guy
@@samuelpancake4084 I’m going to infantry and msg school assuming I make it to msg I won’t need a car because how much I’ll be traveling I heard I’d be having a personal driver for anything, and I set up savings accounts as soon as I left parris island for a car when I finish my contract
I had a Gunny that told us we shouldn’t get married until we are 27, and as someone who went through a shit divorce after I got married at like 23, let me say he is CORRECT! In fact I’d say just don’t get married in the Marines. Go out have your fun, deploy, get on at least one west pack boat ride if you can going to ports. There is a a lot to see out there boot! Make the best of it! Good Luck! OORRAAHH BROTHER!
@@samuelpancake4084Anything that is selling stuff right outside of base in a NO GO! In fact nothing within 10-20 miles of base 😂
Don't marry anyone young fulla. Don't buy any sweet car/truck. Save your money... drink very little and workout..be the best Marine you can be. Cars and Wife etc come after you have managed to set yourself up financially stable and get some rank, if you do decide to marry...do up a business plan that includes an exit strategy; YES, a *business plan*. If the business plan financials don't add up, don't marry. If they do? Then pay a little extra to get a good lawyer to draft a good pre-nup based upon your business plan (it should be a part of the exit strategy) and if she won't sign it, don't marry her!
Good luck with your career young Brother-in-Arms.
Sincerely, an old Aussie Grunt-turned-Medic.
A couple years ago I got fed up with people telling me "thank you for your service". Finally I snapped and replied to one saying "the best way to thank any of us, is to be a person worth dying for ". Utter silence was their response as I quietly walked away
I’m a woman. I say THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO!!!
I’m in the army, I’m 20 and been in 2.5 years. I’m a reservist, but I was thinking about going active. But seeing stuff like this just frightens me, because I don’t understand why there’s so much cheating in the military.
It's the long separation times, you can't really maintain an intimate, romantic relationship when you're hardly ever together.
I'm not defending cheating, getting cheated on really fucking sucks, but you can't leave for 3,6,9 months at a time and expect to have a loving, loyal partner when you get back, it doesn't work like that.
Because cheaters never cared in the first place. They feel it’s easy because their spouse is thousands of miles away in another country and that they would never find out about it. It’s disgusting.
@@thefracturedbutwhole5475it takes a strong spouse to wait for your return. It takes a very strong relationship to maintain that relationship, the relationships that fail are the ones that are built on non concrete foundations.
@@thefracturedbutwhole5475 that’s what I hear about just regular long distance relationships as well. I seen a video of a guy saying there’s no point being in a ldr because people have needs and you’re mad far away. But everyone in the comments was disagreeing and saying if people can get cheated on and they live in the same house or live close to each, then a ldr could work. Because it’s not about the distance, or the occupation, but about their character; what’s your take on that?
I knew a female Lieutenant, she was married, and she got pregnant on her deployment.
I knew a female Sergeant who was deployed with and shared a room with her husband. He caught her in there with his Platoon Sergeant. All kinds of wild shit goes on in the Army.
I appreciate you for the ^Thank you" comment to vets. I despise hearing that said to me.
I like that you said, "Thank you for your sacrifice," not service. It is a sacrifice.
As someone who has a uncle in the military his wife had cheat on him
I remember when I first went aboard my first ship in the Navy after my two weeks leave, after the completion of Basic Training and AT in 1986, my Sea Daddy (Senior Chief whom I report to and will assign duties for me to do) once asked me: "Are you married? I said no. Are you engaged? I said no. Do you have a girlfriend? And I said no." He said "good. Keep it that way. Being a sailor is a single man's life with no attachments." He also told me the divorce rate and break up rate in the Navy was at best 90%. And paying child support and alimony was well beyond 50% of the pay grade, monthly. At the time I learned this I was 18yrs old and just 3 days before my 19th birthday. And I still remember that lesson. Thank God for good Sea Daddies.
Lol, I had an old Senior Chief tell me the same thing.
Wish I would have listened. During my first deployment to Iraq my fiancee ended up cheating on me and I came home not to a warm loving welcome but a cold hard crotch kick and gut check.
Jody is always on the prowl
1:00 simping (or whatever that behaviour is called at the moment) genuinely makes sick come up my throat whenever I see it or hear about it! 🤢
Nothing but love for you Chloe,
Keep on being you ❤
As a vet, I can confirm: "Thank you for your service" is the number 1 most annoying thing I can hear.
When she said Chastity belts, i just thought about Robin Hood men in tights 😆😆😆😆
Sad thing is, when she cheats, she still gets the kids and child support.
This is my favorite video so far. Not that I like the topic, but bringing it to light and saying out loud just how bad it is and how horrible these wives are.
It is so sad that just coming home to “loved ones” has the potential of upstaging wartime PTSD, or even being what causes it if they lucky enough not to get it initially.
This topic is why I can’t watch “Jarhead” or “Man Down”. Those were so heartbreaking. I come from a military family and a long line of family in the service. So this is amongst the many things that scared the crap out of me for all of them. I can’t thank them enough for what they voluntarily (with exception) did in the idea of protecting all of us.
I think most politicians, on both sides, don't care about our retired, and active service members.
I like watching your content, but you actually choked me up with this one.
Thank YOU for standing up for what's right.
Men and women of the military sacrifice so much for so little respect. Respect is earned and they deserve a tleast a little.
I served with a guy between '02 and '06. On one of our deployments, he received word that his father passed away.. they flew him home. When he got to base housing, he went into his home and he felt that no one had been in the house in weeks... his wife was out and about, so he started gathering clothes for heading over to his family's place. When he got into his closet for clothes he found another sailor's uniform in his closet! 😢😢😢 a double whammy for this poor guy... thankfully, 20 years later, he's still doing well. I still feel bad to know a story like that till this day.. 😕 i feel bad for all those affected by these situations.. the betrayal is real.. the pain is temporary, but the lesson is life long..
You're a very kind hearted person, it's a precious gift that you should be proud of.
I have never cheated on my career military husband. He’s had a few emotional affairs. They were still hurtful.
Thank you for fighting for mens rights. You are one of the unsung heroes. Again thanku
Did I say that you are a cutie queen?!
God bless Brother Man Swth, OORAH SEMPER FI!
My ex’s anxiety worked against her when I was active duty. She was worried that she was pregnant, but forgot that I got a vasectomy a couple years earlier. Whoops
And you’re mixing Veterans Day and Memorial Day up. Memorial Day is in May, and is to those who went before us in the name of freedom. Veterans Day is in November, and is to celebrate those who served who are still here.
When you are single, no one can break your heart. Trust no longer exists.
I just want to put this in the air... I am terrified of any of this younger generation getting drafted. That's going to be a war we won't win.
No, we won't win. In fact, I believe we will be horribly defeated and it will end badly for us.
❤Love you Roma, I myself served in the Navy in the past..So I appreciate this one!🎉
FACTS, served Navy 10 years
SO! I just medically retired at 36 two months ago. I lost a marriage from a wife I brought from Brazil. Shit happens.
You are freakin awesome Roma.
Thank you for this video🙏🏼
Cheating was rampant when I was in the military in the 80’s every month you heard of a couple breaking up or getting a divorce.
Memorial day is when you honor and remember the brave men and women who sacrificed their lives and died protecting our country. Veterans day is when you tell Veterans thank you for your service.
Cheaters love military guys. They get so much time to indulge in their sins.
Thank you for your help Roma respect 💯
I had a guy on our ship, but On live himself Because his wife is in Fidelity right after we came back from Westpac she was also pregnant three months along when we’ve been gone for six
I refused to get married while I was enlisted. Even in my youth, I knew the average woman could not be trusted out of sight.
Why would anybody go to war and think their girl is not going to cheat? Its absurd. Fellas, do yourself a favor and just except it or dont put yourself in that situation.
A new spouse for Vets will not receive any part of Vet's benefits until they prove loyalty, integrity & respect for one year before the Vet's benefits will include her! While serving, a spouse will only get a small amount of money that they must have access to directly & can be sent to their account!
I greatly appreciate your time and effort you put into this. I've been cheated on and broken up with twice while overseas and the way that hits you especially when you send the good morning beautiful texts when you get the chance, call when you can and show genuine love and care and your devotion gets rewarded with a dear john letter or getting Jodie'd. It makes you question everything about yourself and your life. Bare minimum you lose all motivation and can't focus on the task at hand when in itself can be deadly.
Come on bro she was just a trash b*tch, these things happen. Please thank to god that you got rid of her or even learned how she cheated.
Cheating is way too easy with cellphones and social media... It's like living at a buffet when you're on a diet.
*Roma,* This is your *Best* video yet... Thank you for taking the time to make and post this most important message...
I was in the military for 20 years and never once heard of anyone getting charged with adultery unless it was part of a broader investigation. That being said I’ve seen countless guys cheat on their wives while on deployment, so this goes both ways.
I used to have difficulty responding to "Thank you for your service" because we didn't serve for recognition so it can be a little embarrassing. Now I just reply "You are so worth it" because you are and it's important to respond kindly to people who have or feel a need to show appreciation. The truth is that we did what we believed in, we served our country and our people and we tried our best to protect those who were unable to protect themselves for whatever reason. I only signed on for three years and was involuntarily extended for an additional six months "for the good of the corps" but I knew I was going to be a Marine from a very young age, somewhere between only six and ten years of age, from the first time I heard the Marine Corps Hymn. It was my secret calling, I never told anyone but at seventeen, there I went, something about fighting for right and freedom struck a chord with me. To this day, at 68, our hymn still sends shivers down my spine the same as our national anthem does. I still salute our beautiful flag any time I pass her (Thank you President Bush for one of the few things you did right in office with the National Defense Authorization Act of 2008/2009). To me, our flag is the most beautiful sight in the world because of what it symbolizes, or used to. The way trump uses our country and our flag and our people disgusts me; I thoroughly despise that cowardly draft dodging, rapist blob of flesh who uses a false patriotism to enrich himself --> I will always wonder who went to Nam in his place and how they fared, bless their soul. I sure hope that America, the United States, wakes up soon; too much honorable blood has been spilled to willingly fall into the hands of authoritarianism or fascism.
Yes, 22 a day and I understand why, it's a high price young people pay in service of their country; nothing prepares you for it and no-one exits the same as who they entered as, innocence was lost forevermore. I personally have been in and out of psych wards for much of my adult life after serving because I refuse to give up or give in but I understand why it happens and how it happens. I too have made several attempts at taking my life until I promised to never try and attempt to do my Lord and Savior's job ever again, hence the psych wards. Thank you for attempting to understand us. Semper Fi Marines, Oohrah and I love you. Oh yeah, and guess what? We cry and it's all right, unless you've been there you will never understand the many reasons we have to shed tears; seldom are those tears for ourselves.
PAIN
Is Acceptable
PUKING
Is Acceptable
FALLING
Is Acceptable
CRYING
Is Acceptable
CRAWLING
Is Acceptable
QUITTING
IS NOT
Thank you for allowing me to post to your channel.
I struggle with Memorial Day, as I have performed numerous CNO duties and one CAO duty. I am retired now and my heart aches for the family’s I have either notified or assisted. Memorial Day, we thank those that we lost on duty.
You forgot to say to also charge them for treason because logically an active duty service member cannot be expected to function at their best when they have something like that on their mind. Equally, when all of the good men are gone, women will be drafted. Can you imagine? When other nations hear we're sending our women, they will give up and beg us not to send our women.
Thank you... I know to many men who are currently in this situation (or are dead) because of this fad of using men for a easy ticket or quick fortune. Men's lives aren't disposable for brand names and a friggen check each much.
Thanks for making these videos. I needed to hear you existed.
Paternity fraud should be a felony
Ex 82nd here--can confirm the amount of spouses being unfaithful is migraine inducing
I don't normally comment on these videos but man.....my dad is a veteran and when i was younger i planned on enrolling into the marine corps as soon as i turned 18. i also believe in a traditional lifestyle, one that involves a wife and children. growing up over the years dealing with the ptsd and alcoholism, i decided that it wasn't worth it to come home and put my family through the same thing (a decision that I'm still torn on as i watch this great country decline today). i knew going into that situation i would have to go single and it would be very, very difficult afterwards. i still wanted to though as i would have taken great honor in serving my country and doing my part to keep all the families back home safe. It didn't change for me until i experienced homelessness, financial insecurity, the ptsd outburst of still being at war, all of the sacrifices that my father and the men and women and all of the things that veterans/active service members make only to be discarded by the people they sacrificed everything for. So to all of the veterans and active service members who did what i couldn't do i have nothing but the utmost respect and thanks you for all of the sacrifices you have made.
I apologize for the long comment but that "daddy" when he walked through that door absolutely broke me.
Cheating is low but I personally think that falsely accusing an ex of rape to keep them from their kids is far lower
When i served i knew too many guys who were not only cheated on but abused even by their spouses and of course no male servicemember wants to admit their wife is abusing them but then the wife hurts herself while abusing him and then calls the MPs and they get to explain how heroic they were fighting off their abusive husband who doesnt even get half a chance to actually defend themselves legally. The military will run men over at the slightest inclination of them abusing their spouse but wont follow the facts to the truth if he was the one actually being abused. And lets not get into the fact that spouses have to have access to all of your assets at all times or they can claim financial abuse yet they can go spend all your money on frivolous things and when you cant pay the bills its your fault not theirs. Loves seeing all these things happen during my time in the service... Sarcasm for those that cant tell.
Any male serviceman that comes home from deployment and finds his wife pregnant should immediately get a paternity test. Upon confirmation that it isn't his, he gets an uncontested divorce. She gets nothing but a bus ticket to wherever he wants to dump her.
No alimony of any kind.
thank you for youre words and thoughts, its appreciated
You’re a true gift!
When someone "thanks" me for my service, I say I didn't do it for you. Thanks for speaking out on that. Also, I appreciate your understanding of Memorial Day, it's the one day I spend thinking about my buddies, especially the ones who didn't make it back.
There isn't a single reason to get Married being a man in USA.
The worst is when they leave you during a deployment. Even if you want to do something, you can't. I knew a Navy corpsman that un-alived himself with his M9 when he found out his wife left him, left his 2 kids with his parents, and she went back to her ex-boyfriend...
I watched this weekly, if not daily, on deployment. This is why I did not get married till 30. "He's just coming over to help with stuff around the house". This causes guys to break cover and do something stupid.
My ex cheated dozens of times while I was deployed. She finally got the “fucked around and found out…” she got pregnant! Then divorced me and the GOVERNMENT gives her HALF of MY retirement pay!!
We came back from deployment and our medic came back to find his wife had kicked him out and moved in another man. He lost everything and ended up taking his own life. He was the first of many of my brothers who are no longer with us. Thirty years later and I still miss him. Miss all of them.