Mature females can spot game a mile away. Game as in over complimenting a woman when you don't know her and she hasn't done anything to deserve it. Or game as in 'ignore her, pretend she doesn't exist etc'. Neither of those approaches work long term. Being kind, respectful, funny and living your own life will get you noticed. 😉👍
but if you don't show interest in a girl she isn't going to think you don't like her and is going to move on. most girls nowadays don't chase. that's what I think
+Jonathan Arriola What you have to do is make it be known that you find her attractive and that you are interested then back off. For example, if you see a girl that you like in your circle; introduce yourself to her and make it be known that you like her. After that, act as if you don't have any feelings for her whatsoever and wait until she takes the bait, then you reel her in. If she doesn't take the bait then move on to the next one. What you don't want to do is fall into the friend-zone category by hanging out and talking to her more than any of her girl-friends do. It also helps if you carry yourself as if you are worth something kind of in a pompous attitude without actually being pompous.
Converse Percussion Once you are in the friend-zone, there is no coming back to the other side. Women have this very uncompromising system in their minds about men. If you were once a mating candidate for her at one time, and it has been revealed that you really aren't, she doesn't go back.
Maybe some girls. If a guy starts ignoring me I will assume he is no longer interested and has started looking at someone else. Basically I'll just move on. Someone being there is what is different and exciting.
A Resilient He doesn't say ignore at no point in this video, he says treat her like any other girl. That is not ignoring her, that is just keeping her at the same level and as a regular human being even if you are head over heels for her.
A Resilient well there is a difference in acting then actually doing, if he is down right ignoring you that is completely different than acting like you don't exist. At least that's what I think. But what do I know.
I don't trust men who always have someone in their face. I said if they are actively Ignoring me. I.E. I say hello and then they act as if the cannot hear me, but was acting all friendly the day before.
I do this naturally anyway. In class in college or when I’m out in public, random women just talk to me without me paying attention to them. My confidence comes from my actions in life with a positive mindset. I focus on what I do with my own life and then I let the women line up. My purpose comes first.
its crazy when u dont care..and i mean u dont even notice u care..is when girls give u there number or chase u..this girl literally gave me her number without me saying a word!.. i acted smooth, charming, and funny naturally. and girls always fall in my lap.. word of advice..dont fake it..u have to be genuinely not interested in her and they will come.
Girls chase, women replace. I'm sorry, but if a guy shows no interest or he doesn't care...I believe it and move on. The guy that treats me well gets my attention.
what do you mean by treating you well? is not initiating conversation every single time means treating you bad? why does he have to make all the effort, while it should be 50% 50 %, it is not the fact that ge ignores you that will attract you, but it s more like the fact that he is actually showing you that your presence in his life is not that mandatory, that you are just an option that can be replaced anytime. and even if you move on then for him it will.be your loss.
U do realize women dont have much option right? They usually want an alphamale, but most of them dont want them cause most girls dont do shit to improve since they dont have that kind of evolutionary pressure. Heres an advice, get rid of that false abundance mentality that you have unless u actually approach men lol
And what makes you worthy of being treated well? Standing there covered in fake tan,plastered in make-up and hoping to God the cellulite doesn't show. Hate to break it to you but we often have to make allowances for the shortcomings which you are completely unaware you have. You have to do a bit more than just stand there trying to look bored.
Johnny Calderon you hit the needle on the head. There you have it. Yes, every girl, women is different. I'm sorry I'm the type I am to old to be playing Tom & Jerry. If you want me, let it be known, otherwise I'm ghosting you.
@@hindenaizi2254It's not a matter of ignoring you. But it is the concept that it needs to be a two way street with the relationship. Guys typically do a bit more in regards to the chase.
This would only work on girls with low self esteem. If any guy tried this on me I would say GOODBYE and give my attention to the man that treats me like a princess, cause I know that’s what I deserve.
@@thebotfather9508I like this girl at work and made lots of eye contact and smile with her only and she shyly reciprocated but the thing is she never initiated a conversation with me or but talks to other colleagues and guys laughingly. I don’t like a girl with guy friends and having no problem talking to others and laughing but when it comes a guy like me, you wouldn’t even dare initiate a conversation. I know I should talk to her first and shit but come on man, if she for sure has guts to talk to others and laugh so why won’t she talk to me first?
@j. k I bet quite well !she needs REAL MEN!! The ones that are confident to KNOW what they want without silly games!! Make way for the real men and leave the boys behind!
This may work on some young girls. If a grown women see you acting like you don't like her, she's going to think your not really interested then she's going to ghost you. You better show some type of interest, so she'll know you're interested, but playing hard to get. Otherwise, she may start dating another guy, then you'll know why.
Everything depends. I wouldn’t say it doesn’t work but every circumstances is different. Also you have to know when to stop and don’t get drunk on success. It has worked for me in the past.
women always say the opposite of what they actually do. for example: women always say they want kind-hearted men who are romantic & treat them like a queen... then they go out & get knocked up by a buff, tattooed former felon. this is why men don't listen to what women say, we watch what they do. because actions speak louder than words.
The thing is, if a guy acts like he doesn't give a shit. Most girls will assume he doesn't give a shit and move on. This may work if she really, REALLY likes you, but 9 times out of 10, She'll just move on.
Act like she's nothing special don't chase like the rest of the pack give her a reason to chase you, need intrigue, mystery, excitement about you, slightly dangerous.
Not true tho... as a girl, if the guy shows no interest and acts like a mystery, unless he is already very outstanding by himself, otherwise Pretty sure high quality girls just look past them. If you want the girl to chase, they have to alr be attract to you in someway, then tease them, show interest but also be confident and be self assured. Charisma is what lure us in.
This only works if a girl is attracted to you in the first place. If not, why the fuck will she even take notice of you? And if you approach her you've already established that you like her and thus no chase, as you and others call it.
get her to chase you so you can sleep with her, and then lose interest because it ws too easy and it made you feel weak and not like a real man going after what he wants. The easy ones are not worth it.
what he said is true, just focus on what your doing, and don't pay too much attention to girls, i had two of my co workers has a crush on me because of that, and im 39 years old and they were two beautiful 19 year old.
This worked perfectly for me, she even had a boyfriend and ditched him like a pair of old socks with holes, but I ignored her for too long and the guy actually wanted to marry her and things got complicated, and instead we just ended up fighting and hating each other, eh . Bad timing but this works perfectly, and most of the things this guy says are on point, this is the only dating coach I would follow .
Yeah but if most of the guys are ignoring I feel more likely to respond to the guy who shows interest. Most often he's a cad and the ignoring guys get mad that I passed them over.
Actually, the ignoring guys are pissing themselves laughing at the sad case who lost all dignity kissing your arse in the hope that you are going to give him a reward.
YoungBrayden maybe you were going to be the plan a and then she got asked out by that one guy who she low key liked. Girls like attention and maybe the kid she's dating was one of the kids who she bugged for attention and he responded back.
sorry but this is bull. If a man acts like i don't exist or as if I am nothing special then I will be moving on in silence. No time for that bull crap of a game.
As a sagittarius i tend to hate boys that ignore me like it makes me feel uncomfortable talking to them because i feel like they probably got bored of me or something the first thought that comes to mine is not to talk to them because my brain thinks if someone ignores you it’s because think you’re boring or just completely lost interest and it makes me very nervous about people as will.
I don't think " treating her like she's nothing" is wise counsel. Because a woman that knows her worth knows she is something. And it could be that one man that recognize her worth and treats her accordingly that steals her heart. Too many jerks and douchebags out in the dating world. Why not be that " one" man that recognize a good thing when you see it!
NO ONE NEEDS TO BE PUT ON A PEDESTAL I don't think neither should chase the other one. If a person has a God-led interest then the male should approach her and they should talk, explore interests, like art, dance, God and so on. Games lead to games. The man is no more different from, better or less than the woman because what's on the outside can collapse if the inside (heart) is not well kept or valued enough to see or seek for a valuable relationship. Both need to be maturing... Life REALly 'IS NOT' a game.
Antoinita Violette thats the main reason why the whole dating scene is so screwed up. People are being out on a pedestal. Guys are acting like they should be lucky if a woman gives them the time of day. Im not sucking up to no one. Im a man if i offer a woman my time, she should feel lucky since I'm spending time that i won't get back. If she chooses to waste it by playing dumb games, then I'm gone. We will all die one day so why waste time on dumb shit like that?
I feel like this is counterproductive for successful relationships. Most respectable relationship counselors say that women should NEVER have to chase a man which devalues her own worth. It also puts men in a position to not be challenged and from what I’ve always known, easy is not necessary appealing to “high-quality” men. I personally never had to chase a man and I’m not going to start now
I did this to a girl I though was absolutely gorgeous and straight up ignored her while her and a mutual friend walked by me. I said hi to the mutual friend and didn’t bat an eye to the girl I like and later that night she followed me on Instagram. I now have a class with her so I’ll update if we start dating.
Holy shit, before I came to this video I was doing exactly everything you said. This girl is literally hungry for me. I ignore her but whenever I walk past her she stares at me deeply in the eyes and flicks her hair. I'm in the same class as her and she sits to my peripheral left and whenever I'm zoning out I can see her in the corner of my eye with that dreamy look.
Suspicious White Man she may still like you, but trust and best believe if another guy that she lives treats her the way she wants to be treated, you'd be left in the cold with your pride
i'm a girl and i disagree with this advice. if you ignore me and act like i am nothing special, i will not be interested in you. in fact, i might even be turned off that i am being nice to you and you are acting like a jerk. there is a happy middle ground. here it is- be kind, be respectful, be direct, but dont be over-the-top. i literally had a guy text me 'hey' today. so i wrote a one word text back. then he wrote another version of 'hey'----- this is already annoying me and we are only 2 texts into the conversation. just ask me out. if i say no, so be it. dont try to act too cool, also dont try to beg for my affection when we dont even know each other. just be direct and kind. if i say no to anything, then accept that and dont try to convince me otherwise. THAT is the biggest turn-off. guys trying to talk me into going out with them, or having sex with them---- if i already said no, there is nothing u can say that i will make me want you. in fact, in that case, the more you say, the worse you will seem in my eyes.
NO I'm not chasing a guy who's playing games!!! Women are wise to this shit!! At least I am!!! Need a man who's real! Leave the games at the Wendy house door! Not interested in low budget Hue Heffners!!! Period!
@@tandrinebray8194 nobody wants old, used up "grown" women in their 30's that rode the CC in their 20's, gave Chad & Brad their best years & now they want to settle down & use you for financial stability in their latter, less attractive years... yeah no thanks. women like this don't play games because their biological clock says they're out of time & they literally don't have time to play games.
That's a risky little game though. More than likely she'll think it was all in her head and feel silly about the entire situation before finally moving on.
I did this today: I sat at a bus stop and made a point of looking in the other direction, and sure enough after about ten minutes of this she was gazing intently at me, and then she asked me some banal question to draw my attention and ended up asking for my number.
I have been watching some of your videos recently. They are short, to the point and are very good advice. How do you know so much about all this? I am curious.
good point!!i tried that,but the problem is when you are treating the girl that you like with no worship.meanwhile you wanna get that girl who doesn't know you like her or have feeling to her.problem is how to make her to chase you if she doesn't know!>?
All I know is I am never chasing a man. Hes the one who is supposed to chase and pursue me. If a guy doesn't chase me well that means he ain3 interested and I cut it off and I move on
@@xmorowe where does it say women should be beaten kindly tell me the verse. And yes it might be a million years but it's the truth. It's even in nature itself, a sperm chases an egg, even wild animals do that,. You cant go against nature, even women who have chased a man at some point they stop because it's going against how women have been made.
@@centykaia4450 the bible says nothing about chasing a woman. you just interpreted it how you wanted to. this attitude is old-fashioned, outdated & going to land you in your mid 30's, single & unmarried with cats.
you are right about everything you said..we have to stop falttering and fawning them in order to be chased by them lol love you bro..you are really sent by Allah to listen the real words thank you
It depends if I like the guy if I like the guy and he does this then yes it makes me chase him because I don’t usually chase people so yes this can work if I like the guy 😆😂
Told a lady "I'm a strange and unusual cat " because a). it came up and b). it's actually true......felt ok saying it as it would cause "intrigue" ....she said "Do you WISH to remain strange and unusual ??" with her most diss-ful voice....HA-HAAAA !
Woman like to chase men, its a fact of life. If a cat likes you they will come! They can't help them self. The only job for the men is to start the courship. Ask her out.
I dont like this advice at all. Firstly, who are ALL these women who have ALL these guys chasing them and falling at their feet? second of all, if you act like shes no one she will drop you if she has any self respect (and if she chases you shes probably co-dependent, and thirdly, if she has ALL these guys falling at her feet she will just go off with one of those. And fourthly. If it starts with you playing games and blowing hot and cold to manipulate her into chasing you, because you arent man enough just to be mature, you are probably not really going to be worth it in the long run.
you said it ALL ! a guy did it to me and i was just not chasing him i believed he wanted to manipulate me only to use me for sex so i felt awful and i was ready to cry when he tried finally to approach me! We want someone to treat us like we are something special and we cannot find them!
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Steal her wallet and she'll chase you, works 100% of the time
yea of course she'll chase u alright with cops holding a gun at u i think u will really like that
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Give this guy a oscar. it actually fucking worked. Thank you sir
+Ngan Nguyen so right
Can you tell me what happened?
What about now
Its working for me too. She talks w her friends about me. I hear her lmfao
It works but only if she's attracted to you.
Mature females can spot game a mile away. Game as in over complimenting a woman when you don't know her and she hasn't done anything to deserve it. Or game as in 'ignore her, pretend she doesn't exist etc'. Neither of those approaches work long term. Being kind, respectful, funny and living your own life will get you noticed. 😉👍
thank you! too old for this buffoonery. I don't chase men. I respond to genuine connection.
Being kind, respectful, funny not worked as well.. They just use your nice behavior.
but if you don't show interest in a girl she isn't going to think you don't like her and is going to move on. most girls nowadays don't chase. that's what I think
+Jonathan Arriola What you have to do is make it be known that you find her attractive and that you are interested then back off. For example, if you see a girl that you like in your circle; introduce yourself to her and make it be known that you like her. After that, act as if you don't have any feelings for her whatsoever and wait until she takes the bait, then you reel her in. If she doesn't take the bait then move on to the next one. What you don't want to do is fall into the friend-zone category by hanging out and talking to her more than any of her girl-friends do. It also helps if you carry yourself as if you are worth something kind of in a pompous attitude without actually being pompous.
+Jonathan Arriola You are right
how do I get out of the friend zone?
Converse Percussion
Once you are in the friend-zone, there is no coming back to the other side. Women have this very uncompromising system in their minds about men. If you were once a mating candidate for her at one time, and it has been revealed that you really aren't, she doesn't go back.
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I agree this does work with some women. However most of them will think you don’t like them and will eventually give up on you.
Truth, it doesn’t apply to all personalities.
Maybe some girls. If a guy starts ignoring me I will assume he is no longer interested and has started looking at someone else. Basically I'll just move on. Someone being there is what is different and exciting.
A Resilient He doesn't say ignore at no point in this video, he says treat her like any other girl. That is not ignoring her, that is just keeping her at the same level and as a regular human being even if you are head over heels for her.
He said in the first few seconds, act like she doesn't exist. Act like she is nothing special. That is what he said.
A Resilient well there is a difference in acting then actually doing, if he is down right ignoring you that is completely different than acting like you don't exist. At least that's what I think. But what do I know.
If someone is acting like you don't exist, that is ignoring. Basically if you like someone, be up front and real with them instead of playing games.
I don't trust men who always have someone in their face. I said if they are actively Ignoring me. I.E. I say hello and then they act as if the cannot hear me, but was acting all friendly the day before.
I do this naturally anyway. In class in college or when I’m out in public, random women just talk to me without me paying attention to them. My confidence comes from my actions in life with a positive mindset. I focus on what I do with my own life and then I let the women line up. My purpose comes first.
Come on man, spill the beans. Where did you get all this knowledge from? It's like your the modern day dating oracle.
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right. dude is always on point
This guy is sooo positive and boosts your confidence. Real G.
its crazy when u dont care..and i mean u dont even notice u care..is when girls give u there number or chase u..this girl literally gave me her number without me saying a word!.. i acted smooth, charming, and funny naturally. and girls always fall in my lap..
word of advice..dont fake it..u have to be genuinely not interested in her and they will come.
Modern day HITCH,will smith
Girls chase, women replace. I'm sorry, but if a guy shows no interest or he doesn't care...I believe it and move on. The guy that treats me well gets my attention.
+Leo R nshung Well played sir!
what do you mean by treating you well? is not initiating conversation every single time means treating you bad? why does he have to make all the effort, while it should be 50% 50 %, it is not the fact that ge ignores you that will attract you, but it s more like the fact that he is actually showing you that your presence in his life is not that mandatory, that you are just an option that can be replaced anytime. and even if you move on then for him it will.be your loss.
U do realize women dont have much option right? They usually want an alphamale, but most of them dont want them cause most girls dont do shit to improve since they dont have that kind of evolutionary pressure. Heres an advice, get rid of that false abundance mentality that you have unless u actually approach men lol
@Private Sender Agreed!
And what makes you worthy of being treated well? Standing there covered in fake tan,plastered in make-up and hoping to God the cellulite doesn't show.
Hate to break it to you but we often have to make allowances for the shortcomings which you are completely unaware you have.
You have to do a bit more than just stand there trying to look bored.
Every girl is different its up to you figure out what type of girl she is. Some like the chase while others dont.
Johnny Calderon soo true 💯
Johnny Calderon you hit the needle on the head. There you have it. Yes, every girl, women is different. I'm sorry I'm the type I am to old to be playing Tom & Jerry. If you want me, let it be known, otherwise I'm ghosting you.
Yeah for me i will never ever do this
Wisdom, this guys is the man
If the man keeps ignoring me then I will lose interested and move on.
Me too
It‘s not about ignoring though, it‘s treating her like anybody else. Showing her that she‘s as far from having you as everyone else
@@hindenaizi2254It's not a matter of ignoring you. But it is the concept that it needs to be a two way street with the relationship. Guys typically do a bit more in regards to the chase.
This would only work on girls with low self esteem. If any guy tried this on me I would say GOODBYE and give my attention to the man that treats me like a princess, cause I know that’s what I deserve.
show too much attention they leave show less they try best for approval. other words be masculine
before all that u have to be handsome
@@destinyshittiny1168 or she has to be into you
Only works on girls and not experienced women.
but nobody wants "experienced" women who are old & have been ran thru. so they dont count anyway.
@@thebotfather9508I like this girl at work and made lots of eye contact and smile with her only and she shyly reciprocated but the thing is she never initiated a conversation with me or but talks to other colleagues and guys laughingly. I don’t like a girl with guy friends and having no problem talking to others and laughing but when it comes a guy like me, you wouldn’t even dare initiate a conversation. I know I should talk to her first and shit but come on man, if she for sure has guts to talk to others and laugh so why won’t she talk to me first?
I'm sorry, but if a man is ignoring me and treats me just like any other female, I'm gonna let him GO. lol
@j. k I bet quite well !she needs REAL MEN!! The ones that are confident to KNOW what they want without silly games!! Make way for the real men and leave the boys behind!
Lol but if he pays attention to u he gets friend zoned
Not if u like the guy and want to know more about him lol
That's about as convincing as Trumps combover.
ain't like your anything special anyways worth holding on to bye Felicia!
This may work on some young girls. If a grown women see you acting like you don't like her, she's going to think your not really interested then she's going to ghost you. You better show some type of interest, so she'll know you're interested, but playing hard to get. Otherwise, she may start dating another guy, then you'll know why.
Exactly. It seems like his audience tends to be younger. This definitely doesn't apply to most adult women!
Everything depends. I wouldn’t say it doesn’t work but every circumstances is different. Also you have to know when to stop and don’t get drunk on success. It has worked for me in the past.
women always say the opposite of what they actually do. for example: women always say they want kind-hearted men who are romantic & treat them like a queen... then they go out & get knocked up by a buff, tattooed former felon. this is why men don't listen to what women say, we watch what they do. because actions speak louder than words.
@@thebotfather9508 That’s because a lot of them are liars and cheaters and are not to be trusted. Their angel act doesn’t fool me.
you have to be on the girl's radar first.if you're just wondering through life, ignoring women you're gonna be out of luck
Hahaha, if you don't chase me, I loose interest! 😂
if he treats me like nothing special I would back off!
you're not special.
The thing is, if a guy acts like he doesn't give a shit. Most girls will assume he doesn't give a shit and move on.
This may work if she really, REALLY likes you, but 9 times out of 10, She'll just move on.
Act like she's nothing special
don't chase like the rest of the pack
give her a reason to chase you, need intrigue, mystery, excitement about you, slightly dangerous.
And watch how shes gonn lose interest lmao.
You studying this?😂😂😂
Not true tho... as a girl, if the guy shows no interest and acts like a mystery, unless he is already very outstanding by himself, otherwise Pretty sure high quality girls just look past them. If you want the girl to chase, they have to alr be attract to you in someway, then tease them, show interest but also be confident and be self assured. Charisma is what lure us in.
That gets boring real quick.
If the guy ain't giving attention for awhile, I will get frustrated, bored and move on.
Very valid fundamental concept. This psychological strategy is highly effective
This only works if a girl is attracted to you in the first place. If not, why the fuck will she even take notice of you? And if you approach her you've already established that you like her and thus no chase, as you and others call it.
get her to chase you so you can sleep with her, and then lose interest because it ws too easy and it made you feel weak and not like a real man going after what he wants. The easy ones are not worth it.
what he said is true, just focus on what your doing, and don't pay too much attention to girls, i had two of my co workers has a crush on me because of that, and im 39 years old and they were two beautiful 19 year old.
This worked perfectly for me, she even had a boyfriend and ditched him like a pair of old socks with holes, but I ignored her for too long and the guy actually wanted to marry her and things got complicated, and instead we just ended up fighting and hating each other, eh . Bad timing but this works perfectly, and most of the things this guy says are on point, this is the only dating coach I would follow .
I got chased by 4 girls in 2grade
Yeah but if most of the guys are ignoring I feel more likely to respond to the guy who shows interest. Most often he's a cad and the ignoring guys get mad that I passed them over.
Actually, the ignoring guys are pissing themselves laughing at the sad case who lost all dignity kissing your arse in the hope that you are going to give him a reward.
This Guy deserves a Oscar
She acted like she likes me so much she snapchatted me “heyy❤️” the other day and now she just started dating another guy. Wtf
YoungBrayden maybe you were going to be the plan a and then she got asked out by that one guy who she low key liked. Girls like attention and maybe the kid she's dating was one of the kids who she bugged for attention and he responded back.
YoungBrayden you were temporary holmes
I've had that similar situation too. Girls are strange creatures
Tell her f*** you b****
Abisag Hernandez yooo lmao
sorry but this is bull. If a man acts like i don't exist or as if I am nothing special then I will be moving on in silence. No time for that bull crap of a game.
you are nothing special.
it depends I will just lose interest
then its your loss.
tropical girl this is why women are confusing.
That would be fine, only when you see your target has also lost interest and moved onto another woman you will realize you lied and cheated yourself.
You ugly anyways😂😂
jamesy dakidd bruh not cool 😂😂
As a sagittarius i tend to hate boys that ignore me like it makes me feel uncomfortable talking to them because i feel like they probably got bored of me or something the first thought that comes to mine is not to talk to them because my brain thinks if someone ignores you it’s because think you’re boring or just completely lost interest and it makes me very nervous about people as will.
I don't think " treating her like she's nothing" is wise counsel. Because a woman that knows her worth knows she is something. And it could be that one man that recognize her worth and treats her accordingly that steals her heart. Too many jerks and douchebags out in the dating world. Why not be that " one" man that recognize a good thing when you see it!
there are several of those good men in your friendzone. nobody is listening to women's dating advice to men. its always bad advice.
this guy is a genius it works not gonna lie lol
Brother knows what he's talking about,, dead on point!
NO ONE NEEDS TO BE PUT ON A PEDESTAL
I don't think neither should chase the other one. If a person has a God-led interest then the male should approach her and they should talk, explore interests, like art, dance, God and so on.
Games lead to games.
The man is no more different from, better or less than the woman because what's on the outside can collapse if the inside (heart) is not well kept or valued enough to see or seek for a valuable relationship. Both need to be maturing...
Life REALly 'IS NOT' a game.
Antoinita Violette thats the main reason why the whole dating scene is so screwed up. People are being out on a pedestal. Guys are acting like they should be lucky if a woman gives them the time of day. Im not sucking up to no one. Im a man if i offer a woman my time, she should feel lucky since I'm spending time that i won't get back. If she chooses to waste it by playing dumb games, then I'm gone. We will all die one day so why waste time on dumb shit like that?
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He's basically saying don't simp
I feel like this is counterproductive for successful relationships. Most respectable relationship counselors say that women should NEVER have to chase a man which devalues her own worth.
It also puts men in a position to not be challenged and from what I’ve always known, easy is not necessary appealing to “high-quality” men.
I personally never had to chase a man and I’m not going to start now
so its ok for a man to devalue himself & chase, but not a woman? where's that equality women always say they want? 🤔
@@thebotfather9508 alot of women are hypocrites
"go out there and kill everybody" "you are so beautiful" that was hillarious🤣🤣🤣🤣
I did this to a girl I though was absolutely gorgeous and straight up ignored her while her and a mutual friend walked by me. I said hi to the mutual friend and didn’t bat an eye to the girl I like and later that night she followed me on Instagram. I now have a class with her so I’ll update if we start dating.
Updates??
He fumbled it obviously
I don’t chase anyone lol...We meet halfway..
straight to the point man you are amazing
straight to the point
Well and good. But it could backfire to.
Holy shit, before I came to this video I was doing exactly everything you said. This girl is literally hungry for me. I ignore her but whenever I walk past her she stares at me deeply in the eyes and flicks her hair. I'm in the same class as her and she sits to my peripheral left and whenever I'm zoning out I can see her in the corner of my eye with that dreamy look.
Suspicious White Man she may still like you, but trust and best believe if another guy that she lives treats her the way she wants to be treated, you'd be left in the cold with your pride
It can’t go for too long tho, if you like her, its perfect time to take things forward
that just happend to me today .. thanks for making me understand more
i'm a girl and i disagree with this advice. if you ignore me and act like i am nothing special, i will not be interested in you. in fact, i might even be turned off that i am being nice to you and you are acting like a jerk. there is a happy middle ground. here it is- be kind, be respectful, be direct, but dont be over-the-top.
i literally had a guy text me 'hey' today. so i wrote a one word text back. then he wrote another version of 'hey'----- this is already annoying me and we are only 2 texts into the conversation. just ask me out. if i say no, so be it. dont try to act too cool, also dont try to beg for my affection when we dont even know each other. just be direct and kind. if i say no to anything, then accept that and dont try to convince me otherwise. THAT is the biggest turn-off. guys trying to talk me into going out with them, or having sex with them---- if i already said no, there is nothing u can say that i will make me want you. in fact, in that case, the more you say, the worse you will seem in my eyes.
You know what you right about ..... You're an exceptional .... That's what I did it works very hard
NO I'm not chasing a guy who's playing games!!! Women are wise to this shit!! At least I am!!! Need a man who's real! Leave the games at the Wendy house door! Not interested in low budget Hue Heffners!!! Period!
you're just gonna friendzone the guy that gives you attention. nobody believes you.
Nah you chase me you do as I say I’m the man and we as men go after what we want
I get this and i use it often.. But what if she just does the same and doesn't chase you, waiting for you to chase her.. Its Like a stalemate
Maximum Ven she’s a grown women and don’t play cat and mouse games and most likely will be turned off.
@@tandrinebray8194 nobody wants old, used up "grown" women in their 30's that rode the CC in their 20's, gave Chad & Brad their best years & now they want to settle down & use you for financial stability in their latter, less attractive years... yeah no thanks. women like this don't play games because their biological clock says they're out of time & they literally don't have time to play games.
Then you loose her..or each other..
That's a risky little game though. More than likely she'll think it was all in her head and feel silly about the entire situation before finally moving on.
Exactly thank u
this guy on topic like this video helped me a whole lot
Is being a firefighter dangerous enough?
Yes,I'm a girl and I want to be a cop.Props to you!That is a respectable field,You should be very much respected !!!
Its definitely sexy enough
@@hailstormk9417 fuckoff leave youtube fucking fed
This is shit! A girl like me just walks away from a guy who treats me like nothing!
Also it's obvious when guys act like dicks for this reason
you prolly been around the block whats the mileage on your car hun?
BRO IM DED !!!!!
Reggie Reg then that means you're easy to talk to but not all girls are like you, some just try and make guys chase so we gotta do it back
Amen bro
thats a way to get out of the friend zone, I've done this and it works all the time, bcuz they want attention
So you have been friendzone and then you stop chasing her what happened next ? Im curious
I don't chase I replace nobody ain't got time for that
Latoya Nance that's why you don't have nobody
Moe P lol ikr
E'Jayy Dread Head
100
lol
its a lot of 5 women talking like they're 10's out here. u at least 40 u not replacing nobody lol smh
Focus on yourself kings always remember that
I love this dude ,lol " Boom she's chasing you" ( I'm a girl by the way ) ....
ikr!he so funny
This bros got it right. hes not a sucker!
Completely disagree. This turns women off not attract them. Find the right balance.
nah. the men that give you attention are in your friend zone.
I’f you’re a guy reading this. Rewatch a million times. He’s so right.
Now thats some quality, true advice.
This is sooo true!
Thank you for sharing video.
I want guys to chase me it shows his interested I don't play hard to get thats foolish!
This man is freaking awesome....
I tried that, they don't care they just go find someone else to chase them
you really are a wizard
Don’t do that she’ll hate you she’ll lose interest and won’t like you.
I did this today: I sat at a bus stop and made a point of looking in the other direction, and sure enough after about ten minutes of this she was gazing intently at me, and then she asked me some banal question to draw my attention and ended up asking for my number.
I have been watching some of your videos recently. They are short, to the point and are very good advice. How do you know so much about all this? I am curious.
good point!!i tried that,but the problem is when you are treating the girl that you like with no worship.meanwhile you wanna get that girl who doesn't know you like her or have feeling to her.problem is how to make her to chase you if she doesn't know!>?
I laughed when he he said he knows it's hard to not go like "Oh my God you're so beautiful"
I love to listen to this guy
All I know is I am never chasing a man. Hes the one who is supposed to chase and pursue me. If a guy doesn't chase me well that means he ain3 interested and I cut it off and I move on
Why is the man supposed to chase ?
@@xmorowe because he's the man. And the Bible says a wife is to be found meaning the man has to find her and pursue her.
@@centykaia4450 bible is 1 million years old fairy tale. Bible also say to beat the wife no ?
@@xmorowe where does it say women should be beaten kindly tell me the verse.
And yes it might be a million years but it's the truth. It's even in nature itself, a sperm chases an egg, even wild animals do that,. You cant go against nature, even women who have chased a man at some point they stop because it's going against how women have been made.
@@centykaia4450 the bible says nothing about chasing a woman. you just interpreted it how you wanted to. this attitude is old-fashioned, outdated & going to land you in your mid 30's, single & unmarried with cats.
this man is a fucking genius
That makes it a game.
Well said!!!!
nonono!! Thats just not right! Give them attention, they need it! If you love them. Show it!
Emilie Pressel why? So that you can just end up in the friend zone ?
the men that give you attention are in your friend-zone. no thank you.
you are right about everything you said..we have to stop falttering and fawning them in order to be chased by them lol love you bro..you are really sent by Allah to listen the real words thank you
Thanks brother for tha info
Nothing works with me. I'm self sufficient
It depends if I like the guy if I like the guy and he does this then yes it makes me chase him because I don’t usually chase people so yes this can work if I like the guy 😆😂
Good tip bro
Thanks u helpful.
Two attractive girls I ignored couldn't stand it and both accused me of having a problem with them, then they both ignored me ,so it didn't work.
Be different and yourself, act like she isn’t that important
I am a girl… I don’t chase anyone in my life. Life is peaceful
Told a lady "I'm a strange and unusual cat " because a). it came up and b). it's actually true......felt ok saying it as it would cause "intrigue" ....she said "Do you WISH to remain strange and unusual ??" with her most diss-ful voice....HA-HAAAA !
Woman like to chase men, its a fact of life. If a cat likes you they will come! They can't help them self. The only job for the men is to start the courship. Ask her out.
thank you
Same goes both ways
I dont like this advice at all. Firstly, who are ALL these women who have ALL these guys chasing them and falling at their feet? second of all, if you act like shes no one she will drop you if she has any self respect (and if she chases you shes probably co-dependent, and thirdly, if she has ALL these guys falling at her feet she will just go off with one of those. And fourthly. If it starts with you playing games and blowing hot and cold to manipulate her into chasing you, because you arent man enough just to be mature, you are probably not really going to be worth it in the long run.
you said it ALL ! a guy did it to me and i was just not chasing him i believed he wanted to manipulate me only to use me for sex so i felt awful and i was ready to cry when he tried finally to approach me! We want someone to treat us like we are something special and we cannot find them!
@@skasmow online dating advice can be crap, and everyone just contradicts themselves and eachother anyway
It happened to me at the sunshine house she FOLLOWED me every were