I love how men cheat and then magically use their children to try to stay in the marriage. “I can’t allow the child to grow up in a single parent household”. “We can’t divorce it’s bad for the child”. Well you should have thought about that when you were out doing your dirty, despicable deeds. Sign the damn papers!
Also love how he whined about being treated like a child, with her taking care of everything instead of being a responsible adult and doing it himself, THEN flings everything she did for HIM in her face and cries that shes controlling 🙄 and that cheating is his way of getting his CoNtRoL back smh 🤦♀️
@cortezconquistador it’s one thing to be controlled and it’s one thing to not take initiative and then become resentful at the person who does. After all this time of being married and having a child he only now decides to air out this grievance with her after getting caught cheating. Like as a whole grown adult man if you felt that way why didn’t you step up. I can bet if she didn’t step up for those thing she did for the family and company, he wouldn’t have. And then what? Was she just supposed to let those things fall to the wayside. If it wasn’t this “you don’t see me as a man” bs he would’ve been looking for another excuse to try to blame his wife for HIS actions and HIS cheating.
I wasn't drunk when I brought her to the city, put her in an apartment, made out with her while lying about being at work and I even made a fire works display referencing her name and lied to you about it. But please help me fix this because I love this family and she won't break up with me🥴Well here's your stuff you can go anywhere you want to and be with whoever you want to now 🤣 I am totally confused on these dramas where the man always cheats, drinking is an excuse and the woman should forgive him for the sake of the family because even though he cheated he loves her so much?? Any time you cheat you know exactly what you are doing and you do it because you want to. These men deserve a proper response....... I CAN DO BAD ALL BY MYSELF!! 🙋♀
@@caeliregina1202 I would never trust a man who thinks that drinking is an excuse for whatever. Like if he did such a stupid thing while drunk, he could do worse. I don't want to be with someone I need to supervise like a babysitter.
@@Лисийворотник Exactly!! He said she treated him as if he was her older child. Apparently he needed to policed like a parent would do a child since he was unable to make good decisions and control himself. He actually tried to put the blame on her. Unbelievable!! 😕
👏👏👏los hombres como el merece un aplauso pero por vergonzoso q se comportan cuando cometen el error y tratan de justificar lo injutificable y culpar a otros y su arrepentimiento llega tarde y mujeres q se meten con hombres casados le faltan el respeto a nuestro género
I love how the wife handled everything. She didn't yell back; she knew exactly what needed to be done. She even let him vent, allowing her to understand why he did it-- even when it wasn't a good excuse to cheat. Bro really could have told her how he really felt before he went and did what he did. Communication is one of the keys to a good relationship. And I love how the father didn't take his bull either. Edit: And bro really just blamed his inability to be self-sufficient all on her. So he can't pick out his own socks? He can't learn to cook some meals? I didn't see any other clips of this drama, but it just seems like she's a better person at handling the business and caring for the family than he is.
He was perfectly fine with his wife being in charge of everything, since he was incapable. But his mistress filled his head with this nonsense, and his ego got bruised so now he's using the excuse of his wife being overbearing, to ease his own conscience. He's truly pathetic.
@@sharifrancis9826 And what the mistress done if not thinking for him, she don't give him freedom she make him believe it but she is a control freak but she had a reality check when he tell her " i will NVER choose you" claiming for one his own voice ! She reveal their affait bc he wasn't and she believe once she reveal she could leave her little fantasy of being a rich woman of a CEO but this time he open her eyes telling her " it will never happen" They deserve each other he is a lache she is a goldendigger
Agora você entendeu como as mulheres chinesas vivem. Ou elas ficam solteironas para o resto da vida, ou elas inevitável estão em algum momento nesta situação, além dos homens chineses terem altas espectativas sobre sua mulher ideal, uma lista internacional do tipo ideal que eles se casam, mas no fim, os homens chineses não conseguem achar seu tipo ideal e pagam um tipo falso na internet. Sinto que a sociedade chinesa está constantemente se auto sabotando.
This kinda reminds me of that scene from Crazy Rich Asians Movie when Astrid is leaving her husband because he cheated on her and he give her the same lame excuse… and she finishes it off with “ It's not my job to make you feel like a man. I can't make you something you're not”
Coming back to this scene, they did an amazing job filming this. The wife the husband the mistress and the father’s acting is phenomenal. Typical husband pinning the blame on the wife, how he felt emasculated in the relationship instead of communicating with her. The wife with her resilience in the face of an ultimate betrayal. When I first viewed this I was also choked with emotion with the memories it brought up. But having taken a step back I can now applaud the mistresses acting. Her shaking voice is amazing. And if only more parents reacted in such a manner when their adult children fucked up like this.
Bom, neste caso é um traidor clássico, o homem que se sente ofuscado pela esposa, então ele a trair por ela ser melhor que ele, ele a trai para se sentir mais homem, porque ele é inseguro. Homens que traem por insegurança geralmente traem porque se sentem feridos e trair fere mulher, neste caso há chances de ele ser perdoado e não voltar a trair novamente. Porém há homens que traem por serem polígamos, para este tipo a maior tragédia que aconteceu na China foi a criminalização da poligamia. Cada um deve decidir como viver, mas eu teria traído ele só para empatar o jogo. Um homem inseguro, indeciso, precisa de uma esposa mandona e controladora, para eles ficarem na linha e não dar ouvidos aos outros e acabar cometendo até um crime.
"I'm not getting a divorce." Buddy, I don't think you have a choice. You got caught cheating, and apparently it wasn't the first time. All your wife has to do is call in your mistress to confirm your affair, and since you've treated the mistress so badly she'll probably show up to the lawyers' office with pictures, texts, and videos in hand.
The mistress was so convinced that the wife was the only reason that she and her were not married until she would have willingly told it all to the judge, family, and anyone who would listen. The evidence was overwhelming since he not only paid for the mistress’s apartment, but got her a job in his company and moved her to be close to him. Even after he told her in front of his wife that it was over she wouldn’t accept it.
Every decision was made by her but the one decision - to cheat was made by him! Awesome contribution! Cheaters always have an excuse and they are never at fault!
He accuses her of being overbearing, he claims that she is too controlling that he feels like a child, he basically says what he can to hurt her... But refuses to divorce? You hate this woman and purposefully hurt her, but oh no divorce is too much🙄
It all goes back to control. He felt like she was controlling him, so he cheated to feel like he was in control of something (the other woman). He doesn’t want to divorce his wife because now he’s in control of the marriage. She can’t move forward with her life if he doesn’t sign the papers. He’s trying to control her.
He doesn’t hate her. She tricked him into loving her so that she could get a divorce and a payday. Look how ready she was and words she uses. She uses legal terminology because she probably called a lawyer and planned all of this before they ever got married.
Her calm demeanor and soft voice, along with her telling him what she's keeping, what he's keeping, what they're going to do with the rest by splitting up means this time she's finished: there is no forgiveness, no more chances, and that she has no fond feelings for him left: he emptied her soul with his cheating. His pathetic "forgive me *one* *more* time" floored me. He's in a panic, not because he's truly sorry for crushing her but because he's losing this time and she's making him explain it to his parents. I haven't watched the drama (yet) nor finished watching this brief video, but I have a feeling the conversation is about to take a turn where, out of desperation, he tries to put the blame on her for his cheating - these dramas usually go that way. He's being all dramatic but he's missing something very important in this conversation: he should be noticing how calm she is, how unemotional she is, how direct she is and how much thought she's put into the splitting of their investments and property. If he stopped yakking at her and just observed and listened, he'd know without a doubt she's done and he can have all the mistresses he wants. She no longer cares about him or anything he does that isn't related to their son and he being the son's father. That is a woman who has forgiven one too many times and a man who never respected his marriage, the family unit or the woman he chose as his wife and mother of his child. He should be thankful he's got the son because if there wasn't a child, she'd be erasing him from her life completely without a second glance backward.
Do watch it. The ending was very realistic and what happened after this scene basically showed how strong she was and how weak her husband was. I was very happy with this series as I have also seen a few where the women's "friends" tell her that she is overreacting over a slap or over 1 time cheating and those "friends" are shown as well wishers. Here, they dealt with every relationship more realistically.
to be honest, this scene was more amazing to me since she knew that barking or calling for it wont work since she is completely broken but the way they maturely talked it out and the way you explained it here made it more understandable and worthy of knowing what you do when you face such people.
haha she got me, i thought she packed her belongings, at the end it's her husband belongings, no wonder the husband doesnt want to divorce, he wants the house😂
Thats what penniless cheater do afterall. In the end he realize penniless mistress vs super rich future ex-wife which one will secured his damn future.
What really hurt me and i can't imagine how hurt gu jia must've been was the fact that he didn't even do it once, he kept doing it. Rented an apartment for the girl, took her to see the fireworks that were supposed to be for her, touched her and supposedly slept with her occasionally etc. how could he have an entire relationship, an entire girlfriend while he was married to one of the most loving, lind hearted, sttongest woman ever. She did everything for him and their child, commited, never gave anyone the opportunity to use her to trample on her or her family. I was so disgusted by him and when gu jia eventually found out, my heart broke more for her. Overall, this drama is so good and i love the stories of the three ladies but most especially gu jia, i wish i could be a woman like her. I highly recommend
🌸 Fancy putting all the blame for his cheating on his wife? She didn’t ask him to have sex with that young woman. If he had grievances about his marriage he should have talked things over with his wife not pulled his zipper down for the first woman walking past. He deserves the outcome. I feel no sympathy for him but am very proud of her. 👏🏿
When a guy wants to cheat, normally they blamed the wife that causes him to cheat. Like my ex-husband, he blamed me many things that caused for his cheating. Shameful guy. In the end, after all these 13 years, he can’t even get a decent girlfriend
@@serfeliztheng1053 well in my case, my father 1st wife cheated him for a man with money, She decided to divorced my father because my father ordinary man. After years my father finally meet my mother(his former classmate/rival? lol). My father ex wife got cheated 7 times and 2 of her ex husband scammed all her fortune and put her into huge debt. Her only daughter married some criminal and her husband got lockup 5 times. Even her grand daughter got cheated become pregnant at 16. My father only smile, while his brother thought shes deserved all of it and pretty much already taste hell. My father said he glad a decent woman comes to his life namely my mother. You also can have your happy ending like my father. Theres a decent man out there, God will help you find it.
Women actually have no right to call for divorce. Why do you think there is such a thing as dowry? Bring yourself back 3000 years, to how nature was. Do you think the man will just have you as a wife? While you are pregnant with a bloated tummy, and he is aroused, what does he do? As a provider for his family, he is not your property, you are his property. How dare then do you call for a cessation of his right to his possessions?
My father is a habitual cheater. He cheated on my mom cause apparently he didn't like how my mom isn't caring and affectionate enough for him and doesn't serve him properly as a wife. He cheated on his 2nd wife, the woman he cheated my mom on cause apparently, his family doesn't like her and cannot give honor to the family like the ones they picked for my dad 3rd wife - innocent since they were kind of fixed to be married by families and didn't know he was already married to someone else. What she knew before marriage is that he's a widow with children. However, because they consummated and she got pregnant fast after marriage, she couldn't back out anymore. However, dad still cheated on her because she was too fierce and he didn't like a woman who contradicts him and not obey him, the way he wants his women to act. So he cheated again and married a woman who was so close to my age 😂 4th wife - knew exactly what she was going into and didn't care cause my dad was somewhat "wealthy" by her standards. Still didn't work out cause my third step mom put down her foot and left home, with her daughter and promised to divorce him even though her entire family is against it. My dad is a muslim so he uses that as an excuse and rationalizing his actions of cheating as "allowed" cause men are allowed to have 4 wives not caring about the feelings of his wife. In the end, I feel traumatized and thinks all men are cheaters and misogynist so I can't marry so my relatives laugh at my dad and he feels embarrassed about me cause I act like an embarrassment and a "black sheep" of the fam 😂, just the way I like it 😅
It's me, my ex had affaire at 1e time , I choose forgive, second time,I ignored it, but I stop trusted him anymore, when there are no faith in relationships, it means love is fade out, the third time, I just pack and leave, moreover I changed country! End story 😅✌️
Oh this takes me back. My mum was very wise, VERY wise and usually nobody's fool....except when it came to my father. It was only after she passed away that I realised that, despite all her reasons she gave me for staying with him every time he cheated, I realised that it was just simply because she still loved him. But I remember brutally clearly how he would start out denying it, then begging for forgiveness.....then blaming my mum for his straying, always about how she was the one that was capable of stopping us falling into debt by making every penny he brought home stretch like elastic. Especially when he took bill money for his mistresses. So this clip really resonated with me and I am so glad that the wife here refused to stay with him and booted him out. I just really hope she doesn't take him back .
My grandma my mom's mom stayed with us and wanting then I asked her what happened in her first marriage. She said that my grandfather cheated but she loved him so much she stayed with him. But my grandfather cheated again and that's when she said "Hell no!" She was eight months pregnant with my mom. She told me she never look back never look for him. she found out laters he died in prison.
If your parents would have gotten a divorce, would you blame or hate your mom for that? I’m in a similar situation while my son is still very young. I’m hesitating because I don’t want him to hate me for it someday.
@@irennedewi7728 - no i would never have blamed my mum.. i WANTED her to divorce him when I was in my teens. My late mum died at 66 and i still firmly believe that if she'd divorced, or at least left, my late father, she would've lived a lot longer because her health wouldn't have collapsed due to the stress & emotional damage she endured. I will say this, I knew a lot of kids, some of them my friends, growing up who's warring parents only stayed together 'because of the children'. Trust me, it's NOT a good idea. The kids have a ton of guilt to deal with as they get older and, no matter how much such parents think they might be shielding them by not rowing in front of them, the kids KNOW. Better to part and be happy than to stay together and be miserable. Just explain to your son why its happening, that he's got NO blame in what's happening, that you love him. Tell him the TRUTH as to why you're divorcing., DON'T lie. Kids are amazing BS detectors & lying WILL hurt. If he's a toddler. Then be a little more gentle until he's older. But ALWAYS keep ahead of the narrative if your husband is the one at fault. Parents who cheat on or abuse their partners are VERY good at manipulating the truth to make themselves seem the victim to their kids. DO NOT let that happen. Just remember your son doesn't deserve to become a pawn or weapon at the hands of your partner just to get back at you. ALWAYS do what you have to, to protect your son. Obviously, if you can part amicably and co-parent on friendly terms, great. But for most couples, by the time they split for good, that ship has long sailed. Oh, there's also an app that allowsdivorcing parents to co-parent and discuss their children without talking if one parent is causing issues. Also keep EVERY text, email and voicemail to give to your lawyer. The app is available in the UK and in the US. I wish you and your little boy nothing but peace, happiness and love for the future. I'm ALWAYS around if you need to vent. Good luck to both you and your boy.👍💜
I liked how he blames her for everything. Ok, if you were so miserable, why didn’t you raise this to her earlier, before you started sleeping around? Face it, that’s just a sad pathetic excuse for you wanting to step out. Then this sad excuse of a man begs everyone to help him. Screw you dude
💯 agree my daddy told me " Once a cheater always a cheater" it happened to my grandmother my grandfather cheated on her and she forgave him but the second time he cheated on her she left his sorry ass. She never looked back and moved forward 😊
Good scene! As Gu Jia said, even without the cheating, the dynamic of their relationship would be harder and harder to live with until it was impossible. The husband’s honesty of his experience came too late after a heavy breach of trust. This situation would have less probability to happen if one or both people or even the mistress had better awareness, emotional regulation and processing, communication skills - alas that is not the world we live in.
So true. He will hopefully eventually realize that he only came to resent all the things about her that attracted him to her in the first place. And he ended up cheating on her probably with a more subdued individual that he didn't choose to marry in the first place. He's still learning about who he really is and what he wants in life if he is blaming her for his own issues instead of taking ownership.
Agree! In today’s world, many get lost in blame before they can get to ownership. May more take awareness, ownership, and responsibility and as we individually and collectively change the landscape of this world!
I feel somehow different, i dont think he is that honest here. He says all of that because yes he feels that way, but also, because he wants to hurt her. He attacks her and basically blames her for the state of their marriage, but he doesn't comment that allowed this all to go down, that he enjoyed the benefits of letting her lead, that the life that he has is thanks to her. This reasoning also explains why he doesn't want the divorce. At the end of the day he wants the benefits this woman brings to his life, while being superior and treated with admiration for his mediocre effort. Honestly going to therapy the moment you feel inferior to your partner would have been great.
@@mariapaz6379 that's exactly how I see it. He was very comfortable letting her put in all the work and is now blaming her. Perhaps he did start to resent the things he enjoyed. But it is still him that chose it that way and it is still him that didn't communicate it if he ever did resent it.
Yessss. 'y didnt think of our son when u cheat?' EXACTLY. I really hate when the husband cheated, & try to guilt trip the wife by saying she shld think of the kids if u wanna divorce.
i LOVEE that the dad isnt a push over for the son that cheated like i have seen in SOO many asian dramas and even asked "are you even a man?" Showing how he corrilates loyalty love respect and communication in the fondation of being a man and even said "how dare you hurt my daughter" showing he already sees her as part of the family taking no pity of the dirtbag son LOVE the wife also sricking up for herself unlike many dramas as well
Such an amazing drama. If you haven't watched it then please go and watch the entire thing. It follows three female friends and their interpersonal relationships. Such great writing and development of characters. Drama Name "Nothing but Thirty"
I look up to how she handled it. Calm and collected. There's no point in fighting, it's clearly over. He needs to apologize to the side chick because she's all he's got now. 😂😂😂
So inside his heart, he blames his wife for the decisions he made to get involved with another woman. He will never mature if he does not take responsibility for his own choices, even the bad ones, even the ones he regrets. I'm going stop watching this so that I can go think of how he could have brought his troubles to his wife in an honest way. If it is just a matter that she's smarter and more talented, couldn't he find a way to live with that? But every person has strengths and weaknesses. I like to imagine that if he told her he felt inferior and disrespected, unappreciated, less of a person, frustrated that she was the decision-maker, that she would at least have a chance to respond by showing him why she married him, why she loved him, that she respected him, liked being with him. It could have been as easy as realizing that all he wanted to be was a designer, then the two of them give all they have to help him become that designer...Spouses, LISTEN to each other and support each other! I agree with the comments that the children suffer the most in divorce situations.
These kind of men are really immature. Doing everything for them but they think we treat them like our son. If they can be responsible and proactive, we wouldn’t need to be doing everything for them. In fact doing it ourselves is to have less fiction in the relationship. Anyway, 一次不忠百次不容。
When it's the woman who cheats, the man will hold unto it and never forgive her. When it's the man who cheats, the woman must stay and make ammends even if she did nothing, yet the husband will blame her for his cheating. This world will never have accountability.
I don't understand some people. How can you say someone is the love of your life and then you go commit the one betrayal that will end your marriage, for most people. Just sad.
These men always want to bring up the kid after theyve done their dirty deed. He wasnt thinking about his family when he cheated.... dont bring up family now.
My mother always told me that if you really love someone then you should tell them how you feel and see how they react to it. If he really felt like he was her submissive husband, then he should have said something way sooner. They could have fixed this, but he chose to resent her instead.
I believe that this is the one thing that's unforgivable. Marriage is a sacred thing. If you don't want to be married to the wife, divorce. Then move on.
What a joke for Xu Huan Shan to say Gu Jia was the love of his life and to realise after cheating his son needed a father. He should have thought of those things before cheating on his wife and son.
So the man is knowingly and willingly putting all the mental load on the wife and acting like a second child she has to raise( which many men do but I didn't think they realized, just that they couldn't care enough to see), goes on and disrespects her even further by betraying the vows and then blames it all on her. "He's innocent. You can't do that to him." He blamed it all on the wife. And then when that doesn't work he finally thinks about the kid and uses the kid as an excuse to not loose all his priviledges. The fact that he let her do all the work all this time shows thay he's selfish and never thinks about anyone but himself. Ofc he doesn't choose the mistress. The benefits she gave him were always temporary. He never cared about her either. This sketch is really good as it's a great depiction of real life. Many people act like that, man and women. Be very careful when you pick a partner. Don't marry the selfish types. Sometimes that's hard to see before, but you can still heal.
When you stepped over the line you lost your right for forgivenes men women you all need to realize this, playing with your partners emotions is not funny
Every time a men cheat, they blame on the wife for this and that😂😂😂😂😂. If you are a real men, talk about it what you like, how you feel... Talk about it... Good and bad. Be mature... Don't blame people for cheating.
劇名《三十而已》 英語：Nothing But Thirty，是2020年由張曉波導演、張英姬編劇的中國大陸電視劇，江疏影、童瑤、毛曉彤等人主演。 本劇是上海文化發展基金會重大文藝創作資助項目。以三位三十歲女性視角展開，講述了都市女性在三十歲這一重要年齡節點時，遭遇到多重壓力的故事，是一部以女性為出發點的故事。
Она думала, что займёт место жены. Просчиталась. Он не любил её, просто имел так, чтоб время от времени вести себя, как дома не может. Дома, конечно требования большие. Жена, ребёнок. Надо им внимание уделять. По хозяйству помогать, с ребёнком заниматься, вопросы какие то решать. В общем надо напрягаться. А у любовницы, пришёл, и сразу бонус, что пришёл. Ведь не замужняя женщина всегда ждёт приходящего мужчину, потому что думает, что она ему нужна, что он тратит на неё деньги, и т д. А если они были женаты, то он снова постарался бы найти ещё какую то другую. Чтоб от этой отдохнуть. Точно также. Ведь он говорил что не доволен как бы. Что он ощущал себя на втором плане. В общем не хватало ему внимания. Если завёл семью, то должен чем-то пожертвовать. Это ясно как дважды два. Но некоторые мужчины, почему-то сразу меняются. Становятся ленивыми, перекладывают все обязанности семьи на жену. А сами продолжают жить как раньше. Когда были свободны. Если не хочешь взять ответственность за свою семью, то и не надо жениться. Ведь большинство женщин так же работают. И берут на себя много обязанностей больше, чем мужчины. Да ещё должны выглядеть красиво, и развлекать мужа. Пока такие мужчины не поймут, как вести себя дома в семье, будут конфликты. И будут бегать на сторону. Этот мужчина жалуется на жену. В том что он притащил эту девицу с другого города, поселил рядом, тратил много денег на неё , почему-то обвинил жену. Тем не менее, не хочет и на другой жениться. Потому что понимает, что он не сможет жить как семейный человек. Просто не умеет он этого делать. В браке есть ребёнок, и ему уже не надо заводить другого , с другой женщиной. Ему это не надо. Другое дело, у него в браке есть уже подросший сын. Ему нечего поднимать с пелёнок ещё одного. Вот и вся мораль. Он всегда может видеться с сыном. И жить одному, если жена не вернёт его обратно, тоже хорошо.
Damn!! I thought she was packing HER STUFF up and the whole time she was calmly kicking him to the curb 😂😂 cold as ice and I LIVE FOR IT
哈哈哈😂她真的超级冷静
Why would she pack HER stuff? HE cheated 😅
@@IzzyOnTheMoveMaybe you haven't seen enough shows. They pack up to leave and live with either her parents or friends?
I thought the same thing! 😂
Same!! 😅😅😅
I love how men cheat and then magically use their children to try to stay in the marriage. “I can’t allow the child to grow up in a single parent household”. “We can’t divorce it’s bad for the child”. Well you should have thought about that when you were out doing your dirty, despicable deeds. Sign the damn papers!
Also love how he whined about being treated like a child, with her taking care of everything instead of being a responsible adult and doing it himself, THEN flings everything she did for HIM in her face and cries that shes controlling 🙄 and that cheating is his way of getting his CoNtRoL back smh 🤦♀️
@@Zethyzingerroooand then asks her to clean up the side Ho mess and the fireworks mess.
i cant let our son live without a father. * proceeds to cheat *
What episode is this
@cortezconquistador it’s one thing to be controlled and it’s one thing to not take initiative and then become resentful at the person who does. After all this time of being married and having a child he only now decides to air out this grievance with her after getting caught cheating. Like as a whole grown adult man if you felt that way why didn’t you step up. I can bet if she didn’t step up for those thing she did for the family and company, he wouldn’t have. And then what? Was she just supposed to let those things fall to the wayside. If it wasn’t this “you don’t see me as a man” bs he would’ve been looking for another excuse to try to blame his wife for HIS actions and HIS cheating.
- I cheated on you because you didn't give me freedom. I didn't feel like a true man.
- Man, we divorce. You're free now.
- You cannot do this!
I wasn't drunk when I brought her to the city, put her in an apartment, made out with her while lying about being at work and I even made a fire works display referencing her name and lied to you about it. But please help me fix this because I love this family and she won't break up with me🥴Well here's your stuff you can go anywhere you want to and be with whoever you want to now 🤣 I am totally confused on these dramas where the man always cheats, drinking is an excuse and the woman should forgive him for the sake of the family because even though he cheated he loves her so much?? Any time you cheat you know exactly what you are doing and you do it because you want to. These men deserve a proper response....... I CAN DO BAD ALL BY MYSELF!! 🙋♀
@@caeliregina1202 I would never trust a man who thinks that drinking is an excuse for whatever. Like if he did such a stupid thing while drunk, he could do worse. I don't want to be with someone I need to supervise like a babysitter.
@@Лисийворотник Exactly!! He said she treated him as if he was her older child. Apparently he needed to policed like a parent would do a child since he was unable to make good decisions and control himself. He actually tried to put the blame on her. Unbelievable!! 😕
👏👏👏los hombres como el merece un aplauso pero por vergonzoso q se comportan cuando cometen el error y tratan de justificar lo injutificable y culpar a otros y su arrepentimiento llega tarde y mujeres q se meten con hombres casados le faltan el respeto a nuestro género
gaslighting pro max
I love how the wife handled everything. She didn't yell back; she knew exactly what needed to be done. She even let him vent, allowing her to understand why he did it-- even when it wasn't a good excuse to cheat. Bro really could have told her how he really felt before he went and did what he did. Communication is one of the keys to a good relationship. And I love how the father didn't take his bull either.
Edit: And bro really just blamed his inability to be self-sufficient all on her. So he can't pick out his own socks? He can't learn to cook some meals? I didn't see any other clips of this drama, but it just seems like she's a better person at handling the business and caring for the family than he is.
He was perfectly fine with his wife being in charge of everything, since he was incapable. But his mistress filled his head with this nonsense, and his ego got bruised so now he's using the excuse of his wife being overbearing, to ease his own conscience. He's truly pathetic.
@@sharifrancis9826 And what the mistress done if not thinking for him, she don't give him freedom she make him believe it but she is a control freak but she had a reality check when he tell her " i will NVER choose you" claiming for one his own voice !
She reveal their affait bc he wasn't and she believe once she reveal she could leave her little fantasy of being a rich woman of a CEO but this time he open her eyes telling her " it will never happen"
They deserve each other he is a lache she is a goldendigger
@@sharifrancis9826what happen in the end??? Did they get divorce???
Agora você entendeu como as mulheres chinesas vivem. Ou elas ficam solteironas para o resto da vida, ou elas inevitável estão em algum momento nesta situação, além dos homens chineses terem altas espectativas sobre sua mulher ideal, uma lista internacional do tipo ideal que eles se casam, mas no fim, os homens chineses não conseguem achar seu tipo ideal e pagam um tipo falso na internet.
Sinto que a sociedade chinesa está constantemente se auto sabotando.
@@liliththefallenone8972 he went to prison lol😂
自己沒主見又懦弱還怪妻子
好多人出軌之後都喜歡替自己辯解，然後說著說著就甩鍋到對方身上，裝作自己才是受害者一樣…還真厚顏無恥啊～😂
出軌就出軌
恩 我就看過一堆靠老婆翻身的男人, 在外面搞三輾四還敢在外人面前抱怨老婆的不是.
人很多都是先說服了自己, 剩下說出來的只是為了說服別人
想到以前台劇，我忘記名字，因為我沒追劇，但看到很多片段。也是男方明明自己沒主見，又拿來當離婚、外遇的藉口⋯⋯什麼我「不喜歡吃拌過的咖喱，而妳每次都幫我拌好了！」這種無聊小事也拿來抱怨，真是笑死我了。
@@麥可-o4e犀利人妻
@@you-jia6222 對對😂
This kinda reminds me of that scene from Crazy Rich Asians Movie when Astrid is leaving her husband because he cheated on her and he give her the same lame excuse… and she finishes it off with “ It's not my job to make you feel like a man. I can't make you something you're not”
👍👍
Coming back to this scene, they did an amazing job filming this. The wife the husband the mistress and the father’s acting is phenomenal. Typical husband pinning the blame on the wife, how he felt emasculated in the relationship instead of communicating with her. The wife with her resilience in the face of an ultimate betrayal. When I first viewed this I was also choked with emotion with the memories it brought up. But having taken a step back I can now applaud the mistresses acting. Her shaking voice is amazing. And if only more parents reacted in such a manner when their adult children fucked up like this.
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exactly
do you know what ep is this?
Buena serie !!👍
What’s the name of this?
"I hate being married to you"
"Okay lets stop being married"
"NO!!!"
出軌人總愛用孩子當復合的理由，出軌的時候怎麼沒想到孩子😑
對啊！亂搞時候怎麼就沒想孩子，被抓到要被離婚了才來說孩子不能家庭不健全。我是覺得家庭不健全不一定不好，但是有一位不健全的父或母一定不好，這種人還是滾蛋吧！
咦！我也跟前渣夫說了同一句話， 你上其他的女人的時候可有想到我們結婚的誓書？
（當然不會！用下體思考的時候怎會想甚麼！）
Bom, neste caso é um traidor clássico, o homem que se sente ofuscado pela esposa, então ele a trair por ela ser melhor que ele, ele a trai para se sentir mais homem, porque ele é inseguro. Homens que traem por insegurança geralmente traem porque se sentem feridos e trair fere mulher, neste caso há chances de ele ser perdoado e não voltar a trair novamente. Porém há homens que traem por serem polígamos, para este tipo a maior tragédia que aconteceu na China foi a criminalização da poligamia.
Cada um deve decidir como viver, mas eu teria traído ele só para empatar o jogo.
Um homem inseguro, indeciso, precisa de uma esposa mandona e controladora, para eles ficarem na linha e não dar ouvidos aos outros e acabar cometendo até um crime.
最讓我驚喜的事原來行李箱是給男的收🤣🤣🤣🤣
笑死😂
最後也是你來幫我做決定，靠😤
我都係😂笑左
我也是後來才知道原來是給男的收的
我還在想怎麼都拿男裝😂
"I'm not getting a divorce." Buddy, I don't think you have a choice. You got caught cheating, and apparently it wasn't the first time. All your wife has to do is call in your mistress to confirm your affair, and since you've treated the mistress so badly she'll probably show up to the lawyers' office with pictures, texts, and videos in hand.
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The mistress was so convinced that the wife was the only reason that she and her were not married until she would have willingly told it all to the judge, family, and anyone who would listen. The evidence was overwhelming since he not only paid for the mistress’s apartment, but got her a job in his company and moved her to be close to him. Even after he told her in front of his wife that it was over she wouldn’t accept it.
Every decision was made by her but the one decision - to cheat was made by him! Awesome contribution! Cheaters always have an excuse and they are never at fault!
O que prova que ele não presta para tomar decisões
He accuses her of being overbearing, he claims that she is too controlling that he feels like a child, he basically says what he can to hurt her... But refuses to divorce? You hate this woman and purposefully hurt her, but oh no divorce is too much🙄
只有愛勝過對方時才能把對方照顧的像女兒或兒子。
Lol
It all goes back to control. He felt like she was controlling him, so he cheated to feel like he was in control of something (the other woman). He doesn’t want to divorce his wife because now he’s in control of the marriage. She can’t move forward with her life if he doesn’t sign the papers. He’s trying to control her.
He doesn’t hate her. She tricked him into loving her so that she could get a divorce and a payday. Look how ready she was and words she uses. She uses legal terminology because she probably called a lawyer and planned all of this before they ever got married.
Her calm demeanor and soft voice, along with her telling him what she's keeping, what he's keeping, what they're going to do with the rest by splitting up means this time she's finished: there is no forgiveness, no more chances, and that she has no fond feelings for him left: he emptied her soul with his cheating. His pathetic "forgive me *one* *more* time" floored me. He's in a panic, not because he's truly sorry for crushing her but because he's losing this time and she's making him explain it to his parents. I haven't watched the drama (yet) nor finished watching this brief video, but I have a feeling the conversation is about to take a turn where, out of desperation, he tries to put the blame on her for his cheating - these dramas usually go that way. He's being all dramatic but he's missing something very important in this conversation: he should be noticing how calm she is, how unemotional she is, how direct she is and how much thought she's put into the splitting of their investments and property. If he stopped yakking at her and just observed and listened, he'd know without a doubt she's done and he can have all the mistresses he wants. She no longer cares about him or anything he does that isn't related to their son and he being the son's father. That is a woman who has forgiven one too many times and a man who never respected his marriage, the family unit or the woman he chose as his wife and mother of his child. He should be thankful he's got the son because if there wasn't a child, she'd be erasing him from her life completely without a second glance backward.
Your description is very detailed and reasonable.
Exacto,la culpa a ella de estar muy preocupada por el trabajo ,de su éxito,de no dedicarle tiempo a él, etc.
Vamos encima se hace la víctima
Do watch it. The ending was very realistic and what happened after this scene basically showed how strong she was and how weak her husband was. I was very happy with this series as I have also seen a few where the women's "friends" tell her that she is overreacting over a slap or over 1 time cheating and those "friends" are shown as well wishers. Here, they dealt with every relationship more realistically.
There's simply no good reason to cheat on your husband,wife,girlfriend or boyfriend!! Get out and divorce but leave your partner his/her dignity!
to be honest, this scene was more amazing to me since she knew that barking or calling for it wont work since she is completely broken but the way they maturely talked it out and the way you explained it here made it more understandable and worthy of knowing what you do when you face such people.
haha she got me, i thought she packed her belongings, at the end it's her husband belongings, no wonder the husband doesnt want to divorce, he wants the house😂
haha
she told him that they will split the house
Thats what penniless cheater do afterall. In the end he realize penniless mistress vs super rich future ex-wife which one will secured his damn future.
Title please
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看在兒子份上原諒我，要不要做那麼絕？
光是這兩句就讓人噁心死
@@aurorawu6739 这句话是自古束缚女人就范的有效致命药方
What really hurt me and i can't imagine how hurt gu jia must've been was the fact that he didn't even do it once, he kept doing it. Rented an apartment for the girl, took her to see the fireworks that were supposed to be for her, touched her and supposedly slept with her occasionally etc. how could he have an entire relationship, an entire girlfriend while he was married to one of the most loving, lind hearted, sttongest woman ever. She did everything for him and their child, commited, never gave anyone the opportunity to use her to trample on her or her family. I was so disgusted by him and when gu jia eventually found out, my heart broke more for her.
Overall, this drama is so good and i love the stories of the three ladies but most especially gu jia, i wish i could be a woman like her. I highly recommend
So, they get divorced in end or not?
@@anujagovil767yes
@anujagovil767
They got a divorce. The factory blew up and he went to prison, signing the papers there
無論在婚姻、事業伙伴處於甚麼樣的窘況，都不該是成為出軌/被原諒的理由。錯了就是錯了。
這男的夠渣，出軌到最後還在找理由怪老婆，自己不解決問題選擇逃避才會出軌
He tells her you have to go this far he already jumped off the CLIFF
沒錯❤
說得太好了，出軌求原諒還好意思用情勒....簡直了~
最離譜是他今時今日所享受的一切都是老婆犧牲才有
如果順序調換就不一樣了，男的對婚姻不滿其實應該自己提離婚，然後再去找別人，他認為的在兩人關係中的不被尊重就可以是他的委屈。但只要先出軌了，再大的委屈都成為理由了。
🌸 Fancy putting all the blame for his cheating on his wife? She didn’t ask him to have sex with that young woman. If he had grievances about his marriage he should have talked things over with his wife not pulled his zipper down for the first woman walking past. He deserves the outcome. I feel no sympathy for him but am very proud of her. 👏🏿
When a guy wants to cheat, normally they blamed the wife that causes him to cheat. Like my ex-husband, he blamed me many things that caused for his cheating. Shameful guy. In the end, after all these 13 years, he can’t even get a decent girlfriend
@@serfeliztheng1053- You can only hope each chick takes his money. Every time…….
@@serfeliztheng1053 well in my case, my father 1st wife cheated him for a man with money, She decided to divorced my father because my father ordinary man. After years my father finally meet my mother(his former classmate/rival? lol). My father ex wife got cheated 7 times and 2 of her ex husband scammed all her fortune and put her into huge debt. Her only daughter married some criminal and her husband got lockup 5 times. Even her grand daughter got cheated become pregnant at 16. My father only smile, while his brother thought shes deserved all of it and pretty much already taste hell. My father said he glad a decent woman comes to his life namely my mother.
You also can have your happy ending like my father. Theres a decent man out there, God will help you find it.
Women actually have no right to call for divorce. Why do you think there is such a thing as dowry? Bring yourself back 3000 years, to how nature was. Do you think the man will just have you as a wife? While you are pregnant with a bloated tummy, and he is aroused, what does he do? As a provider for his family, he is not your property, you are his property. How dare then do you call for a cessation of his right to his possessions?
My father is a habitual cheater.
He cheated on my mom cause apparently he didn't like how my mom isn't caring and affectionate enough for him and doesn't serve him properly as a wife.
He cheated on his 2nd wife, the woman he cheated my mom on cause apparently, his family doesn't like her and cannot give honor to the family like the ones they picked for my dad
3rd wife - innocent since they were kind of fixed to be married by families and didn't know he was already married to someone else. What she knew before marriage is that he's a widow with children. However, because they consummated and she got pregnant fast after marriage, she couldn't back out anymore. However, dad still cheated on her because she was too fierce and he didn't like a woman who contradicts him and not obey him, the way he wants his women to act. So he cheated again and married a woman who was so close to my age 😂
4th wife - knew exactly what she was going into and didn't care cause my dad was somewhat "wealthy" by her standards. Still didn't work out cause my third step mom put down her foot and left home, with her daughter and promised to divorce him even though her entire family is against it.
My dad is a muslim so he uses that as an excuse and rationalizing his actions of cheating as "allowed" cause men are allowed to have 4 wives not caring about the feelings of his wife.
In the end, I feel traumatized and thinks all men are cheaters and misogynist so I can't marry so my relatives laugh at my dad and he feels embarrassed about me cause I act like an embarrassment and a "black sheep" of the fam 😂, just the way I like it 😅
She was calm as all hell. Scary asf. She was checked out completely and ready to move on.
Most women are 😂
It's me, my ex had affaire at 1e time , I choose forgive, second time,I ignored it, but I stop trusted him anymore, when there are no faith in relationships, it means love is fade out, the third time, I just pack and leave, moreover I changed country! End story 😅✌️
出軌時沒有諗孩子，離婚前用孩子挽回婚姻。太無恥。
Oh this takes me back. My mum was very wise, VERY wise and usually nobody's fool....except when it came to my father. It was only after she passed away that I realised that, despite all her reasons she gave me for staying with him every time he cheated, I realised that it was just simply because she still loved him. But I remember brutally clearly how he would start out denying it, then begging for forgiveness.....then blaming my mum for his straying, always about how she was the one that was capable of stopping us falling into debt by making every penny he brought home stretch like elastic. Especially when he took bill money for his mistresses. So this clip really resonated with me and I am so glad that the wife here refused to stay with him and booted him out. I just really hope she doesn't take him back .
🌸 I’m sorry for your mum and you being in that situation.
@@Vovo-zx4ql - Thank you, they're both passed away now, so I hope she's at peace and he's full of guilt.
My grandma my mom's mom stayed with us and wanting then I asked her what happened in her first marriage. She said that my grandfather cheated but she loved him so much she stayed with him. But my grandfather cheated again and that's when she said "Hell no!" She was eight months pregnant with my mom. She told me she never look back never look for him. she found out laters he died in prison.
If your parents would have gotten a divorce, would you blame or hate your mom for that? I’m in a similar situation while my son is still very young. I’m hesitating because I don’t want him to hate me for it someday.
@@irennedewi7728 - no i would never have blamed my mum.. i WANTED her to divorce him when I was in my teens. My late mum died at 66 and i still firmly believe that if she'd divorced, or at least left, my late father, she would've lived a lot longer because her health wouldn't have collapsed due to the stress & emotional damage she endured.
I will say this, I knew a lot of kids, some of them my friends, growing up who's warring parents only stayed together 'because of the children'. Trust me, it's NOT a good idea. The kids have a ton of guilt to deal with as they get older and, no matter how much such parents think they might be shielding them by not rowing in front of them, the kids KNOW.
Better to part and be happy than to stay together and be miserable. Just explain to your son why its happening, that he's got NO blame in what's happening, that you love him. Tell him the TRUTH as to why you're divorcing., DON'T lie. Kids are amazing BS detectors & lying WILL hurt.
If he's a toddler. Then be a little more gentle until he's older. But ALWAYS keep ahead of the narrative if your husband is the one at fault. Parents who cheat on or abuse their partners are VERY good at manipulating the truth to make themselves seem the victim to their kids. DO NOT let that happen. Just remember your son doesn't deserve to become a pawn or weapon at the hands of your partner just to get back at you. ALWAYS do what you have to, to protect your son.
Obviously, if you can part amicably and co-parent on friendly terms, great. But for most couples, by the time they split for good, that ship has long sailed. Oh, there's also an app that allowsdivorcing parents to co-parent and discuss their children without talking if one parent is causing issues. Also keep EVERY text, email and voicemail to give to your lawyer. The app is available in the UK and in the US.
I wish you and your little boy nothing but peace, happiness and love for the future. I'm ALWAYS around if you need to vent. Good luck to both you and your boy.👍💜
I really thought she was packing for herself. Didn't thought it was for the guy! Hahahaha 😂
I liked how he blames her for everything. Ok, if you were so miserable, why didn’t you raise this to her earlier, before you started sleeping around? Face it, that’s just a sad pathetic excuse for you wanting to step out. Then this sad excuse of a man begs everyone to help him. Screw you dude
我不懂，男主出軌在先，卻一直拿小孩不能沒有一個完整的家庭為藉口，男主在出軌時就沒考慮到老婆孩子了，現在卻一直說孩子不能沒有爸爸…
但男主有沒有想過，當孩子長大知道自己老爸出軌過，會有多憤怒…會覺得自己的家庭就是個笑話…
我家就是這樣，在我才五歲左右、我弟剛出生的時候，我媽就發現我爸出軌（他長年在大陸工作），卻沒有讓我們小孩知道，也一直沒有離婚，從小到大我都覺得即使我爸一年回來台灣幾次而已，我們家還是很幸福快樂的家庭。直到我現在二十歲、我弟高一，我媽又發現我爸在大陸還跟同一個女人在一起甚至還生了一個小孩正在唸小學，才讓我跟我弟知道。當下真的五味雜陳，以前一直覺得爸爸在大陸一個人為了我們打拼很辛苦，結果現在所有的一切都像個笑話一樣，現在看到他就覺得噁心
@@jesskuo2208 換作是我也會有相同的感受，畢竟婚姻的基礎就是彼此忠心相待，尤其父母其中一方出軌讓孩子知道了，那出軌的一方在孩子心中的形象就會徹底崩塌
He "can't live without" her or their son. Guess he should have thought about that rather then his ego. Cut cheater loose, they are rubbish.
💯 agree my daddy told me " Once a cheater always a cheater" it happened to my grandmother my grandfather cheated on her and she forgave him but the second time he cheated on her she left his sorry ass. She never looked back and moved forward 😊
跟我前夫一個樣，什麼事都說是我的錯，離婚後2個小孩都跟我，我們3個很好，沒有父親也沒影響
好男人不多见
沒有奧爛爸的影響，孩子會更好，他們還自以為孩子多需要他們才完整呢😂
加油
很棒的女人跟媽媽
擊掌✋我前夫搞外遇就算了，搞冷暴力然後說是我對他太兇什麼的，害我很自責加上覺得是他創業做不起來心情低落，大半夜出門我害怕他是想不開，等他回來不敢逼他，還帶他去看心理醫生，結果在診間哭最慘的是我😂
後來終於發現他是外遇才逼我離婚，得知後我二話不說同意離婚，孩子歸我，但我覺得我心態也算很好，是孩子的爸我也不希望他真的落魄，畢竟孩子不會開心
Good scene! As Gu Jia said, even without the cheating, the dynamic of their relationship would be harder and harder to live with until it was impossible. The husband’s honesty of his experience came too late after a heavy breach of trust. This situation would have less probability to happen if one or both people or even the mistress had better awareness, emotional regulation and processing, communication skills - alas that is not the world we live in.
GREAT
So true. He will hopefully eventually realize that he only came to resent all the things about her that attracted him to her in the first place. And he ended up cheating on her probably with a more subdued individual that he didn't choose to marry in the first place. He's still learning about who he really is and what he wants in life if he is blaming her for his own issues instead of taking ownership.
Agree! In today’s world, many get lost in blame before they can get to ownership. May more take awareness, ownership, and responsibility and as we individually and collectively change the landscape of this world!
I feel somehow different, i dont think he is that honest here. He says all of that because yes he feels that way, but also, because he wants to hurt her. He attacks her and basically blames her for the state of their marriage, but he doesn't comment that allowed this all to go down, that he enjoyed the benefits of letting her lead, that the life that he has is thanks to her.
This reasoning also explains why he doesn't want the divorce. At the end of the day he wants the benefits this woman brings to his life, while being superior and treated with admiration for his mediocre effort.
Honestly going to therapy the moment you feel inferior to your partner would have been great.
@@mariapaz6379 that's exactly how I see it. He was very comfortable letting her put in all the work and is now blaming her. Perhaps he did start to resent the things he enjoyed. But it is still him that chose it that way and it is still him that didn't communicate it if he ever did resent it.
Yessss. 'y didnt think of our son when u cheat?' EXACTLY. I really hate when the husband cheated, & try to guilt trip the wife by saying she shld think of the kids if u wanna divorce.
什麼原因都不該成為犯錯的理由，成人要為自己的行為負完全責任，所有的原諒也都必須付出代價⋯⋯
One of the few dramas where the cheater got his just dues! Very satisfying!
What's the name of the drama?
真的很可恥，出軌的時候怎麼沒想到兒子跟老婆，要失去才在打感情牌。自己在其他事情上之前沒試著溝通爭取，要離婚了才在怪東怪西。
有啲老婆真為孩子不離婚。但是老公會繼續出去找小三或更多女人。
@@kwaifankwok7278 難怪有人說出軌只有零次跟無數次。雖然我相信真的有人會改過或絕不會出軌，但人能得此良緣真的難能可貴，願各夫妻們白頭偕老和氣生財。
做不了自己的人 所有的錯都是別人造成 永遠沒有自我 不知道自己是什麼。
i LOVEE that the dad isnt a push over for the son that cheated like i have seen in SOO many asian dramas and even asked "are you even a man?" Showing how he corrilates loyalty love respect and communication in the fondation of being a man and even said "how dare you hurt my daughter" showing he already sees her as part of the family taking no pity of the dirtbag son LOVE the wife also sricking up for herself unlike many dramas as well
Just to be clear that was his father in law. The woman’s father.
@@hollybrooke322 still happy some male figure is holding him responsible :3
Such an amazing drama. If you haven't watched it then please go and watch the entire thing. It follows three female friends and their interpersonal relationships. Such great writing and development of characters.
Drama Name "Nothing but Thirty"
What app to watch this ?
@nanaischaq80 It is on youtube not on an app
Saw it-was so good
One of my fav dramas ever ❤
It's on Amazon prime also
夫妻之間相處的任何矛盾，都不能成為出軌的理由，做錯就是做錯，傷害就是傷害，有矛盾可以協調可以吵架可以原諒，出軌不行，滾吧，就算沒有第三者，也滿肚怨言，為什麼還要強求這段婚姻？因為你會一無所有嗎？因為你會被看笑話吧？裝什麼可憐人？
Titulo del drama, por favor. Gracias.
I look up to how she handled it. Calm and collected. There's no point in fighting, it's clearly over. He needs to apologize to the side chick because she's all he's got now. 😂😂😂
"Are you done convincing yourself that's why you cheated?" BARS! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
When a woman is that angry & that calm..boy..don’t close your eyes or turn your back on her.
My thoughts exactly!
Ain't that tge truth!
the same with men!
So inside his heart, he blames his wife for the decisions he made to get involved with another woman. He will never mature if he does not take responsibility for his own choices, even the bad ones, even the ones he regrets. I'm going stop watching this so that I can go think of how he could have brought his troubles to his wife in an honest way. If it is just a matter that she's smarter and more talented, couldn't he find a way to live with that? But every person has strengths and weaknesses. I like to imagine that if he told her he felt inferior and disrespected, unappreciated, less of a person, frustrated that she was the decision-maker, that she would at least have a chance to respond by showing him why she married him, why she loved him, that she respected him, liked being with him. It could have been as easy as realizing that all he wanted to be was a designer, then the two of them give all they have to help him become that designer...Spouses, LISTEN to each other and support each other! I agree with the comments that the children suffer the most in divorce situations.
agree
These kind of men are really immature. Doing everything for them but they think we treat them like our son. If they can be responsible and proactive, we wouldn’t need to be doing everything for them. In fact doing it ourselves is to have less fiction in the relationship. Anyway, 一次不忠百次不容。
This is what a reality of cheating. Superb acting and delivery of lines. There is always no happy ending. This is not Disney, but REALITY!
The mistress gassed him so much that he thought the wife was the villain. He deserved his ending
选择出轨，冲动那一刻都不用屁股想一下今天的后果…发生了才讲一大堆的人生大道理以为自己很伟大，为家庭牺牲？ 孩子不能没有爸爸…我不能没有您们…干！这世界没有谁失去谁就活不成了… 妈妈也可以给我孩子足够的爱…长大了孩子知道爸爸犯的错，不但不怪妈妈还可能厌恨你这个爸爸辜负了妈妈，还让他失去了一个完整的家…
When it's the woman who cheats, the man will hold unto it and never forgive her. When it's the man who cheats, the woman must stay and make ammends even if she did nothing, yet the husband will blame her for his cheating. This world will never have accountability.
Most women who respects themselves will always divorce you 😅 he should have never cheated
局外人的看法，他的男人尊嚴比什么都重要，別拿孩子當藉口，
能夠做小女人，誰願意做女漢子，就是老公懦弱無能，老婆才需出頭撐起一片天，男人需要女人仰視崇拜就必須要有做人的品格和做事的擔當。
個性也有關，女強人都容易找到這種軟爛的，因為弱女子遇到這種的應該會逃得飛快，但也可能反過來遇到霸道男控制狂，所以最好還是兩個都夠成熟獨立，誰也別比誰強，要成為對等互相支持的夥伴關係才是最好的
不見得
現在的女性不一定想要待在家裡相夫教子
有自己的事業往往也代表著成就感
@@36987ee 她說的應該是傳統女人自己扛一整個家，男人不是媽寶就是蹺腳當少爺，跟在工作表現上受肯定是兩回事啊～
被逼著出去工作所得全部負擔家用和自己快樂工作跟負責任的老公一起承擔家庭開銷完全是不同的感覺
一個鍋子配鍋蓋，女生太自以為是，惟一做對就是離婚。
但又做不到不幫他擦屁股，再找怕也是把男人養廢
He would’ve got mad at me because when he said thier son was the youngest son and he was the oldest son , I would’ve started laughing 😂😂😂
有本事的男人其实会很喜欢被老婆“管着”，因为这样才有精力去做自己想做的事业。懂事一点的呢还会感激自己老婆。没本事的男人才会讨论被爱人管，因为他们需要通过在老婆面前耀武扬威来实现自己的存在感。
選你正解😂
I don't understand some people. How can you say someone is the love of your life and then you go commit the one betrayal that will end your marriage, for most people. Just sad.
出軌可以原諒，卻還是要離婚。
對我來說，未來要一起經營生活的共同夥伴，並不全心全意的經營，他會把資源給別人，即使他說他會回頭，他說的可能是真的，但我已經不信任這個人了，所以必須離婚
These men always want to bring up the kid after theyve done their dirty deed. He wasnt thinking about his family when he cheated.... dont bring up family now.
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She handled that entire situation like a goddamn champion.
She was a lot calmer than I would have been. He doesn't deserve that type of respect that she gave him just now.
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So he has a wife that will do anything for him, and is basically blaming her for cheating. Why would he want to stay if he felt that way?
自己沒本事還想要對方仰望你⋯⋯🤷🏼♀️
最後那幾句話跟我前男友的態度一模一樣欸，最愛的是我但不知怎麼的就出軌了，其實我也相信他愛我比較多，第一次下跪第一次哭都是因為我提分手，後來還忍不住抱怨那個小三，但我是個很乾脆的人，也不是任人拿捏的軟柿子，我不像一堆被愛情衝昏腦的女生幾句話又被騙回來，反正我是不能接受毅然決然提分手，那男的居然還說最後一次了，可以視訊意淫我嗎？？？？？？？？？
第一任，兩年，就是這種結果，啊反正我現在跟第二任也在一起五年了，大概在明天要準備結婚，希望消息可以好好的帶進這個渣噁男耳裡👍
祝幸福❤
恭喜🎉
My mother always told me that if you really love someone then you should tell them how you feel and see how they react to it. If he really felt like he was her submissive husband, then he should have said something way sooner. They could have fixed this, but he chose to resent her instead.
This guy should be a stand-up comedian.
A woman after my own heart!!!❣️
Cheaters are their excuses trying to blame others , i love that suitcase scene 😂😂😂😂
the son would be better of being raised by a single parent than a dad that has no morals and cant control himself lol
這個男人,小頭控自己,又自私,又甩鍋😅,又沒責任心😮💨
Noble Consort Hui is such a good actress... so nice to see her in a different light.
What a classy woman this is the best response
I thought she was packing the bag for herself. She packed a bag for him! Strong woman. ❤
He blames her for his own incompetence.
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I'm glad her friends called him out of that. So you cheated because your wife is perfect and competent??
I believe that this is the one thing that's unforgivable. Marriage is a sacred thing. If you don't want to be married to the wife, divorce. Then move on.
有很多老婆，結婚多年早就對婚姻無興趣了，此時如果男人出軌，就是最好的下台階。
做小三本性貪錢、貪男人有屋、貪男人是老板。但是小三不知道老板是妻子。
哈哈 小三失算！
勾引錯人了🤣🤣應該找老婆的
她不是貪他錢吧，就是愛上了個爛種，腦子壞了😂
@@user-jn45jduc93jn 逼他離婚已正明。小三有念錢。
Classic Cheater gaslighting. He commits the infidelity then blames her.
Not him gaslighting his wife lol 😆
haha
What a joke for Xu Huan Shan to say Gu Jia was the love of his life and to realise after cheating his son needed a father. He should have thought of those things before cheating on his wife and son.
So the man is knowingly and willingly putting all the mental load on the wife and acting like a second child she has to raise( which many men do but I didn't think they realized, just that they couldn't care enough to see), goes on and disrespects her even further by betraying the vows and then blames it all on her. "He's innocent. You can't do that to him." He blamed it all on the wife. And then when that doesn't work he finally thinks about the kid and uses the kid as an excuse to not loose all his priviledges.
The fact that he let her do all the work all this time shows thay he's selfish and never thinks about anyone but himself. Ofc he doesn't choose the mistress. The benefits she gave him were always temporary. He never cared about her either.
This sketch is really good as it's a great depiction of real life. Many people act like that, man and women.
Be very careful when you pick a partner. Don't marry the selfish types. Sometimes that's hard to see before, but you can still heal.
I want to see the whole of this, great drama ❤
What is the name of this drama, it's so good to see a cheater get what he deserves
Nothing But Thirty【Full Episodes】tinyurl.com/yt6p9xts
女主的情绪管理一流，果然是打高端局的
Please post the drama name under the video
One of the best series ever! Hope there will be a follow up!
Name of the series?
@@maybe427三十而已
@@maybe427nothing but thirty
Ms. Tong Yao acted splendidly here!!! From Imperial Noble Consort Huixian to Gu Jia, she showed the two faces of regret.
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Thank you!!! I knew i knew her from somewhere but couldn't place her!
What is the name of this show I want to watch it.
原來是幫男生收行李
出軌很討厭，出軌被抓包還要求饒那種更該死
他們每一個演技都好好👍
When you stepped over the line you lost your right for forgivenes men women you all need to realize this, playing with your partners emotions is not funny
原來女人太能幹也是個錯😢
If anyone complains about someone being too capable, they need to look to their own incompetence.
Every time a men cheat, they blame on the wife for this and that😂😂😂😂😂. If you are a real men, talk about it what you like, how you feel... Talk about it... Good and bad. Be mature... Don't blame people for cheating.
A wise lady said .... ones is forever ...... If he can cheat on you once.... then it's a forever thing
Husband blame his wife for not keeping it in the pant, classic.
既然這麼委屈為何不說，為何離婚不開心
The cheaters always make themselves out as the victim.
劇名《三十而已》
英語：Nothing But Thirty，是2020年由張曉波導演、張英姬編劇的中國大陸電視劇，江疏影、童瑤、毛曉彤等人主演。
本劇是上海文化發展基金會重大文藝創作資助項目。以三位三十歲女性視角展開，講述了都市女性在三十歲這一重要年齡節點時，遭遇到多重壓力的故事，是一部以女性為出發點的故事。
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Thank you for posting the name. It should be under the video title so people don’t have to look for it
@@valann3718 I totally agree with you！
Any party when they don’t feel loved they will feel strayed away and seek love elsewhere. It is no surprise
Quem trai uma vez vai trair de novo a mulher que perdoa vai se arrepender depois
when you cheat, you dishonor everyone involved - especially yourself.
Why do these narcissistic men cheat and then act like the wife is the villain for leaving?
Finally a drama that shows the wife leaving.
Она думала, что займёт место жены. Просчиталась. Он не любил её, просто имел так, чтоб время от времени вести себя, как дома не может. Дома, конечно требования большие. Жена, ребёнок. Надо им внимание уделять. По хозяйству помогать, с ребёнком заниматься, вопросы какие то решать. В общем надо напрягаться. А у любовницы, пришёл, и сразу бонус, что пришёл. Ведь не замужняя женщина всегда ждёт приходящего мужчину, потому что думает, что она ему нужна, что он тратит на неё деньги, и т д. А если они были женаты, то он снова постарался бы найти ещё какую то другую. Чтоб от этой отдохнуть. Точно также. Ведь он говорил что не доволен как бы. Что он ощущал себя на втором плане. В общем не хватало ему внимания. Если завёл семью, то должен чем-то пожертвовать. Это ясно как дважды два. Но некоторые мужчины, почему-то сразу меняются. Становятся ленивыми, перекладывают все обязанности семьи на жену. А сами продолжают жить как раньше. Когда были свободны. Если не хочешь взять ответственность за свою семью, то и не надо жениться. Ведь большинство женщин так же работают. И берут на себя много обязанностей больше, чем мужчины. Да ещё должны выглядеть красиво, и развлекать мужа. Пока такие мужчины не поймут, как вести себя дома в семье, будут конфликты. И будут бегать на сторону. Этот мужчина жалуется на жену. В том что он притащил эту девицу с другого города, поселил рядом, тратил много денег на неё , почему-то обвинил жену. Тем не менее, не хочет и на другой жениться. Потому что понимает, что он не сможет жить как семейный человек. Просто не умеет он этого делать. В браке есть ребёнок, и ему уже не надо заводить другого , с другой женщиной. Ему это не надо. Другое дело, у него в браке есть уже подросший сын. Ему нечего поднимать с пелёнок ещё одного. Вот и вся мораль. Он всегда может видеться с сыном. И жить одному, если жена не вернёт его обратно, тоже хорошо.
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怎不想想後果 笑死 給機會 下個女人才會給機會😂