How to Sell Without Selling Your Soul | Steve Harrison | TEDxWilmingtonSalon

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  • Опубліковано 11 січ 2025

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  • @andre.saint01
    @andre.saint01 11 місяців тому +17

    I look at this person, and I tell myself “I love you I love you I love you”. This is more than advice on selling. This is advice on how to direct your brain to have a certain inclination that would make an anxious job like selling easier and more genuine, every single time.

  • @susansloan7048
    @susansloan7048 4 роки тому +16

    S.E.L.L. = Sincerely, Encourage, Listen & Love. Great talk...

  • @jeannemale2438
    @jeannemale2438 6 років тому +29

    Great message and storytelling and of course, a sales call to action! As a former sales trainer and sales performance consultant I applaud your message and think it bears repeating. Everyone gives lip-service to serving customers, but you get it; "When you love, you serve better." Customer service is about listening but love is the secret sauce because when you add love to the equation, you are selling with a servant's heart. My head was nodding as you made another great point by saying, "Love gives you the courage to..." and I personally and professionally know the truth and power of your message. Bravo for your courage to add the "L" word to the world of selling!

  • @szifrabirke7640
    @szifrabirke7640 7 років тому +48

    For anyone who is reluctant about selling, or just interested in a unique approach, watching Steve Harrison’s TEDx could be a game-changer. I learned so much from Steve when I took his year-long Quantum Leap marketing program in 2007. Later, I was incredibly lucky to become Steve’s coach-so I have the opportunity to really know how sincere and dedicated Steve is. I’ve rarely met anyone who gets as much joy and satisfaction from helping people work through their worries and myths about offering their services, their books...

  • @chrains
    @chrains 6 років тому +15

    S. E. L. L. ...this is why you are an amazing influencer. Thank you for sharing your stories and expertise.

  • @dianegardner1234
    @dianegardner1234 Рік тому +7

    This was great storytelling. I have met Steve in person and he truly is a loving person. He cared about every one of us who were at his event. He made the novice (me) and the experienced feel we were on equal footage. I hung on to every word of this talk. Thank you, Steve Harrison

  • @Lindyschn
    @Lindyschn 7 років тому +12

    Outstanding talk! Steve's talk not only taught me a lot about selling but taught me how to be a better person and change the world. His four tips for selling by loving people and serving them gave me courage and resolve; I know now that I can do this too! He spoke my language.

  • @quangthanghoang6134
    @quangthanghoang6134 6 років тому +5

    Im just a little boy living in Vietnam country. 1 month ago, I've gotten the internship in a real estate company as a salephone man. Thank to Steve Harrion presentation which help me recall super powerful stories talking about how greatest job in this world. Thank you so much, wish yours best!
    SELL - SINCERELY ENCOURAGE BY LISTENING AND LOVING

  • @TheBenBenitaShow
    @TheBenBenitaShow 6 років тому +1

    Steve Harrison is one of the ABSOLUTE BEST in the business!!! He genuinely cares about seeing you succeed!!! If you truly want to make an impact and make a difference with your story, STEVE IS THE GUY!!! You're the best...changed my life!!!

  • @ilze524
    @ilze524 3 роки тому +11

    Just the title already resonated so well. I loved this conversation. It was clean, funny, and so relatable. Here's to knocking on more doors. Thank you.

  • @lescutting8530
    @lescutting8530 3 місяці тому

    “Focus on getting the person right, and the world would be right”. That’s a bar

  • @aclark1197
    @aclark1197 Рік тому

    The best sales people lean in to listen. I appreciate these words. Knowing where you are as an individual trying to go is imoortant. Great Video.

  • @ataramalach1216
    @ataramalach1216 6 років тому +2

    Steve, hearing your personal experiences and learning from your focus and insights about SELLing, empowered me to change my perspective and challenge my limiting beliefs about the integrity and service inherent in selling...thanks so much for opening the door when I knocked!

  • @romantchick
    @romantchick 6 років тому +3

    Steve Harrison is an inspiration, and he walks his talk!

  • @avivagoldfarb7301
    @avivagoldfarb7301 6 років тому +7

    What an important message for all of us trying to achieve a goal or help others achieve theirs! Thank you, Steve, you've always been a wonderful mentor and teacher to me and many thousands of others.

  • @lupitasamuels5262
    @lupitasamuels5262 7 років тому +11

    You aced it, Steve! Love the acronym S-E-L-L!

  • @kimsorrelle
    @kimsorrelle 3 роки тому +1

    Excellent! A couple of things that were said I will never forget. If you get the person right then the world will be right. I love that. So true. This is a TEDx talk that will stay with me for a long long time.

  • @JoseGuerrero-xn5kv
    @JoseGuerrero-xn5kv 3 роки тому +1

    To Sell: Sincerelly Encourage by Listening and Loving.
    The key to persuasion is to tneter the conversation already going on in the person´s mind.
    Focus on being the right person and the world will so much easier to reach.

  • @rodgerdeanduncan7738
    @rodgerdeanduncan7738 6 років тому +2

    Nice job, Steve. I've been with you on numerous occasions (Quantum Leap, Jack Canfield's mastermind group, etc.), but have never seen you in action in a TED Talk format. You aced it! You come across as just a guy who really cares about his subject and--most importantly--about his audience. As you point out, connecting with people in an authentic and persuasive way is really pretty simple. Your SELL acronym sums it up beautifully. Rodger Dean Duncan

  • @BarbaraHalesMD
    @BarbaraHalesMD 6 років тому +5

    Wow, this was a heartfelt talk that I could listen to repeatedly. I learned a lot and connected with the speech. It changed my perspective in relating to people and what selling should be.

  • @LornaBlakeEmpower
    @LornaBlakeEmpower 7 років тому +6

    Wow, amazing Ted Talk, Steve Harrison! You reached me right in the heart with your powerful stories and four steps. I loved your questions! I agree completely that when we put love energy out into the world it changes us & thus changes our world...

  • @sandybadillo1344
    @sandybadillo1344 4 роки тому +5

    Honestly this is very inspiring! This Mr has envolving story telling and also incredible developed communication skills.
    Every door has something to give you, he remarks you basically should listen to all the people and make them feel important, how to always understand your costumers and encourage them by just listening.
    The key is always listening and finally sell them (let them find out) your product or service.
    Sincerily encourage by loving

  • @piapenny
    @piapenny 6 років тому +2

    This is one to come back to over and over again!

  • @sandraaberg
    @sandraaberg 3 місяці тому

    This is by far the best advice I’ve ever heard! ❤

  • @garogaryvoskorian2619
    @garogaryvoskorian2619 4 роки тому +2

    amazing how each word will get into our subconscious mind and we learn it, and we'll use it later on in our life! thanks Steve

  • @freedom2outshine670
    @freedom2outshine670 4 роки тому +1

    “Focus on being the right person and the world will be so much easier to reach....begin a conversation with them that’s what love what do... knock on that door today and you will begin on the greatest journeys of your life.”

  • @lisaevers3052
    @lisaevers3052 4 роки тому

    I am REALLY happy that we have connected and look forward to working with you to help others heal deeply... My soul resonates with being able to "Sincerely Encourage people by Listening and Loving". What a beautiful, new vision for success! GOD Bless you and yours! "If I got the person right, the world would be right"... beautiful.

  • @Storesdavidal
    @Storesdavidal 3 роки тому +1

    Thank You Steve Harrison and TedxTalks For This Inspiring Video.

  • @idonorpeace2026
    @idonorpeace2026 11 місяців тому

    i love you simplicity n easy way of transmitting your information

  • @mywealthforlife
    @mywealthforlife 6 років тому +1

    Thanks, Steve, for sharing your story from the heart. I too, started out my "Selling Career" with door-door sales with Watkins, at 15 years old. The suitcase was SO heavy I could barely get it up the steps to the front door. LOL It was the best "training" I could have gotten.
    I love the new way to look at S.E.L.L....excellent, I'll share that with other's.
    Focus on Loving and Serving Them......best concept ever.
    I've been on your Email list for years.....and feel as if I know you now, more than ever.
    I'll share this on FB.......Blessings in all you do. Dazzling Dolly.

  • @stephaneokmen4457
    @stephaneokmen4457 2 роки тому +1

    WHAT a stud you are! Thanks for sharing this

  • @FundraisingMadeEasyblr
    @FundraisingMadeEasyblr Рік тому

    Beautifully explained. I am happy that I watched this video. Many thanks to you Steve!

  • @orlandosilverwolf4449
    @orlandosilverwolf4449 4 роки тому +3

    I want to thank you so much for this. It has come at a time when it was most needed. 🙏

  • @ShatteredTogetherShow
    @ShatteredTogetherShow 5 років тому

    Sincerely & encourage & listen & love= sell. Love this and couldn’t agree more. Authenticity sells and that is exactly what you are saying in this talk.
    This is a fantastic TEDx talk. Thank you Steve!

  • @DavidAlanArnold
    @DavidAlanArnold 6 років тому +1

    Steve Harrison is awesome.

  • @naylarocioruiz2725
    @naylarocioruiz2725 4 роки тому +4

    I love you, I love you, I love you!

  • @anthonyrudd9041
    @anthonyrudd9041 5 років тому

    You are the man Steve.Ican really relate to your message.Sincerly,Encouraging by listening and Loving.

  • @goldenheartoflove
    @goldenheartoflove Рік тому

    Revolution of Love ♥️

  • @EMPATHiCGANGSTER
    @EMPATHiCGANGSTER 2 роки тому

    Steve! This was fantastic! Thank you so much for sending it to me. 💋.🦋💕✨

  • @bluechakraascension126
    @bluechakraascension126 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing this. Such a great story and wonderful positive advice.

  • @manuelbaeza9396
    @manuelbaeza9396 8 місяців тому +1

    6:00 redefine what it is to sell

  • @xyclos
    @xyclos 8 місяців тому

    Beautiful speech. Thanks a lot!

  • @ArsenSMarsoobian
    @ArsenSMarsoobian 7 років тому

    Excellent delivery and stories. Like the Sincere Encourage Listen, Loving. Been in sales over 40 years best explanation of the profession of selling. Papa Soob

  • @virtualtourmaps
    @virtualtourmaps 4 місяці тому

    Wonderful message 💕

  • @liftingconsciousnessacademy
    @liftingconsciousnessacademy 5 місяців тому

    Great one, wonderful message

  • @maryreed149
    @maryreed149 3 роки тому

    You have a good sense for this. Thanks, Steve

  • @entrepreneurssalesacademy
    @entrepreneurssalesacademy Рік тому

    This is a great Ted - Thanks enjoyed this so much 🙂

  • @Christian-fx2sp
    @Christian-fx2sp Місяць тому

    I loved this talk 😉

  • @geoffreykwale4492
    @geoffreykwale4492 2 роки тому

    Brilliant! Good impactful story telling.

  • @judysecor
    @judysecor 6 років тому +3

    Thanks for this and your offer to encourage us to replace fear of knocking on doors to instead focus on encouraging others by listening and loving. It will help us both, and open doors to sales. Pardon pun.

  • @volunteernebraska6025
    @volunteernebraska6025 2 роки тому

    Steve, This is exactly what I needed to hear!

  • @Christian-fx2sp
    @Christian-fx2sp 6 місяців тому

    I think love really means you rather somebody stay alive and live freely and independantly and peacefully and abundantly
    And you are willing to do things and create things in the world to actually help who you love keep living a long healthy free independant peaceful life
    Not just talking about it and saying that you love someone
    Show it do something that will help the people you love

  • @sameerrawjee
    @sameerrawjee 3 роки тому +1

    A disguised lesson in Buddhism - nice!

  • @jasonmateus924
    @jasonmateus924 3 роки тому

    Fantastic presentation, thank you!

  • @ramanandkowtakowta1431
    @ramanandkowtakowta1431 Рік тому

    Very well explained !

  • @vickiesmith5682
    @vickiesmith5682 7 років тому +1

    Nice presentation....love the stories!

  • @AlejandroZapeta
    @AlejandroZapeta 4 роки тому

    Thank you!! Your honesty it's very kind!!

  • @arkrish1
    @arkrish1 Рік тому

    Very very very good message ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ thanks 👍👍👍👍👍

  • @pawekrasuski2551
    @pawekrasuski2551 5 років тому

    Thank you for that speech. High five!

  • @WeirdScienceTime
    @WeirdScienceTime 7 місяців тому

    Amazing. I love you.

  • @gloriahuffman6612
    @gloriahuffman6612 6 років тому +1

    Thank you, Steve Harrison. Simply spectacular. [Tu9-4-18-2020E]

  • @varundx98
    @varundx98 6 років тому

    The framework of the video was too good and it was quite fictional in nature. After all, the moral always comes from a story.
    Well done, sir!

  • @TheValkyrieprofile
    @TheValkyrieprofile 9 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for this great talk Steve! ❤ S.E.L.L.

  • @PeterLarsenJr
    @PeterLarsenJr 11 місяців тому

    He is a fellow Southwestern Company alumni!

  • @mohammadifrahim
    @mohammadifrahim 6 років тому +1

    very nicely delivered, sir!

  • @Storesdavidal
    @Storesdavidal 3 роки тому +1

    I Really Want Steve Harrison To Help Me Writing, and To Publish My First Book.

  • @PsicoReligión
    @PsicoReligión 8 місяців тому

    Thank you friend.

  • @sid_upadhyay
    @sid_upadhyay 3 роки тому

    This is Insane ❣️😳.. ( tnku so much ❣️✈️)

  • @GunnarAndriThorisson
    @GunnarAndriThorisson 7 років тому +1

    Big like and Love from Iceland :)

  • @margarethenry02
    @margarethenry02 7 років тому

    IMPRESSED JUS NEEDED THIS

  • @mikemcfarthing3499
    @mikemcfarthing3499 2 роки тому

    As a career sales professional I am assumed how many guys that wrestled enter into the trade. Something in self management of pre-bout stress.

  • @Isedkingme
    @Isedkingme 9 місяців тому

    Great video

  • @airmett8939
    @airmett8939 2 роки тому

    Lincoln, Nebraska. GBR!

  • @chriskelley1989
    @chriskelley1989 3 місяці тому

    I’m new to sales and I’m struggling finding the right balance of how pushy to be. I’m a natural people pleaser and I’m having trouble with objections.

  • @shellybreeden7424
    @shellybreeden7424 4 роки тому

    Great presentation

  • @Seeking-o7o
    @Seeking-o7o 4 роки тому

    I just amazed watching this precious one S--E--L--L

  • @josecatherinedemcl
    @josecatherinedemcl 2 роки тому

    Like the love part

  • @youdontknowme11420
    @youdontknowme11420 7 місяців тому

    Had me in tears lol

  • @janelleanderson1747
    @janelleanderson1747 Рік тому

    I can't see the video. Only a white screen

  • @lordenglish7454
    @lordenglish7454 4 роки тому +1

    No wonder I hate selling.

  • @garogaryvoskorian2619
    @garogaryvoskorian2619 4 роки тому +1

    I want to know who are the 44 people who disliked the video and why ?

  • @junaidahmed2421
    @junaidahmed2421 9 місяців тому

    What about HDR10+

  • @Christian-fx2sp
    @Christian-fx2sp 6 місяців тому

    Knock on that persons door
    They will open and buy what you are selling and together you will do good things to help others in your country
    You will be able to help protect and uplift your family and also yourself
    And God your Creator will be happy with your actions

  • @nameisreal11
    @nameisreal11 6 місяців тому

    Wow.

  • @Reality_Dystopia
    @Reality_Dystopia 3 роки тому

    you read extracts with animal voices... wow, you managed to work a door to door sales job on acid, fair play.. i once took acid and tried to work. did go well.

  • @bookaaa2474
    @bookaaa2474 4 роки тому

    just believe in god guys worship god 🖤

  • @ViralCarz
    @ViralCarz 4 роки тому

    Nobody else like the video!!!! It has 777 likes 🙏

  • @annavidal1902
    @annavidal1902 6 років тому +2

    Bulshit

  • @jameskim6853
    @jameskim6853 3 роки тому

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  • @jaidenbenzlive7988
    @jaidenbenzlive7988 3 роки тому

    I REBUKE GOD

  • @dannielebitski3093
    @dannielebitski3093 4 роки тому

    The woozy sand puzzlingly like because accelerator metrically ruin mid a soggy croissant. precious, crooked north america

  • @kellyr7196
    @kellyr7196 5 років тому

    I can't listen to anyone who starts out saying "many moons ago" and apparently doesn't recognize the racism in it.

    • @Toryquinton
      @Toryquinton Рік тому

      Smart people dont pay attention to idiots who see racism in everything. Especially when they have to invent reasons to be offended.

  • @jeroenpool502
    @jeroenpool502 2 роки тому

    deciver