@@Littlemizzanna It's both. People are attracted to drama because it gives them something to complain about to validate their victim mentality. Preach on, sister.
I felt the same way. He's doing more then some dudes would do and she's taking advantage of it. Ppl need to appreciate wat they have cause some don't have that and doing it alone.
not at all.she comes across lazy not wanting to work and kinda immature . hes home and working meanwhile she hanging out and thinks cause its family that its ok. shes def not wife material at all
She's immature as hell.. I get what she was saying, but it takes two and you played your part in being a baby mama instead of a wife... Women need to stop laying with men expecting wife positions, but wanna be baby mamas first like somehow that guarantees them a position as a wife.. That is a super flawed way of thinking..
What's flawed in expecting someone you have kids with to marry you? There's literally no flawed thinking in that especially since they're in a relationship. They just don't need to be together. Period
We cant blame her the man shoulda used protection or not have sex with her period a woman cant have a baby by herself the man helps the woman to create the baby
ALL my best friends work full time. We can't hang out 8-10 hours a day. I love my friends, but I wouldn't wanna hang on the regular for that long. She need to ask them to watch the baby and gotuh work 😐
@@jpat989 Exactly! Allowed is the proper term. Believe you me, if i had one child, unless I wanted another prior to marriage; I would not have another! I am nearly 50 and haven't had one yet. Refused to open my legs for and hard thang skinny and grinning in my face! Love me some men but selective as to who slids in between my legs!!!
If I'm reading correctly, she had a 1 year old when they met . I don't see how these women feel comfortable with bringing men around their kids like that ......
I understand what you're saying but for some of us it's the best thing our mother could have done. My dad's been in my life since I was a baby I dont remember any different and he's the best of the best yo me.
Back in the day, the judge would always be quick to correct people but since Websters decided to add it to the dictionary, I'm assuming she gave up the battle.
Giggling and cheesing while the judge is addressing her about talking to other dudes and cheating smh! She’s guilty. Marriage won’t help this relationship
I’m glad that real women in this conversation see the great possibility of her cheating on this man! I believe she doing it & trying to deflect it off on him!
Yikes...this is what happens when you aren't on the same page as your partner, and some may even say when you dont do things in the "right order." Hopefully they can work it out and end up getting married.
If you can't be honest, loyal don't be in a relationship. You couldn't get me to stoop so low creeping through somebody's phone. Clearly isn't the person you should be with if you can't trust each other. Just ridiculous.
How many times do you expect to go out with a 3 month old? Who even feels like going out because the baby is exhausting and you are looking it? Who do you leave your 3 month old with? Why would you quit your job because you’re pregnant? 🙄.And he didn’t just give you a baby. You decided to get pregnant. Why?
so it took her to get in front of a judge & millions of people to figure that out that she should've gotten MARRIED b4 havin' his baby? talk about slow.. smh
I never would have put a baby in her. no way Jose... little young Thundercat think she know everything. She's too immature to be in a serious relationship Lessing on marriage.
Be a wife won't work if Ms. Peoples go floating around the neighborhood for hours and he's not getting it, and expected her man to feel safe with her. If he does the same thing, won't she'll be thinking of him cheating?
Well, i don't understand one thing about kicking someone out. If a woman kicked me out, i won't return. I can't handle the humiliation of being kicked out instead of sitting to talk about whatever is eating us up.... I think kicking out is just to exercise power and that is a step on my ego. If you kick me out, I am done.
Ehi Ekhator DON’T be humiliated bro, that just means she can’t communicate. If she can’t communicate, you leave on your own. Unless hers is the only name on the lease, she can’t kick you out. You can’t work on a problem from a distance, so if anybody leaves it’s over.
@@charlesanderson1963 well, I hear it too often of someone being kicked out, particularly a woman kicking a man out. If it gets to that point in my life I won't look back. You kick me out whether its my house, your house or our house I am done. I do agree with you that it means she can't communicate but I doubt if that is why the women are doing it. To me, it is all about exercising power, who is the boss in the relationship and the last time I checked, there is no boss and that gives me one exit door as an option.
at 3:06 I'm just waiting for JLT to tell them THE WORD IS CONVERSE... but then I gathered she chucked it up to geographical slang and dialect *shrugs* lol
What happen to the good old days where people OBSERVE, QUESTION their partners before getting married and then had kids?????Too much fucking without thinking and a commitment!!!!
Am I in the twilight zone? Why is it that these women have to quit working when they have a baby!? No one does maternity leave? They just quit and then go find another job when they want to work again!?
Quita Kee-ta in they defense maternity leave in this country is terrible. There’s been cases of women giving birth and having to go to work the next day
I saw this one on the DVR yesterday. All I will say is whatever the judge was trying to tell the lady went over her head. There is hope though According to the after show comments they are working on their relationship by going to counseling. That's great. I wish them the best
I hate when men or women say their significant other is not ready for marriage but how are they ready to be a mother or father to another human being 🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤔. I don’t get how that work.
Sssssssoooooo im still flabbergasted at the fact that they're both 24years old and i swear i thought they was in their 30s. Don't get me wrong they don't look bad at all they just both look wayyyyy older. 🤷🏾♀️
She was dumb enough to get another baby, to be a baby momma instead of becoming a wife. That's not his fault. If she can visit everyday, all day, she can get a little job to help out. She doesn't want to work. She wants to be a "stay at home"..😒
@ 24 I was in graduate school studying for my Masters, I was a home lesson teacher for kids as part time job, selling cloths & human hair to graduate students in my hostel as side hustle.
If he wants her to work that's great but that 300 dollars you asking for a car note is gonna go to day care for that baby y'all just had. Cuz for a newborn you paying for like 250 or 275 a week just on day care
A woman cannot conceived a baby without a participating man (or medically assistant). It takes two people sexually active to reproduce. However, the sole responsibility of the child rest with the mother. Her body is the vehicle in which the baby is supported, nurtured and housed. Its her responsibility and for nines months (however long) it is evident; its her baby. The man on the other hand...nobody knows he is the father until he step forward (voluntary on involuntary)! Having said all of that; it should be a woman's priority to not have a child prior to marriage! A decent guy will want to uphold that standard as well. People need to be more responsible about their lives and especially their future. I'm nearly 50 years and by the grace of God, I am childless and love the attention and the affection of the right man (not the perfect man)!
I just had a baby and I couldn't imagine having to go back to work 3 months in just to make a dude happy. Who's going to watch the baby better than mommy?
He will never trust you because you are constantly talking to men and lying. He is out working and struggling to to mind you and your son and you are at home or at family members houses chilling and shit. Grow your big ass up, work, invest and build your family.
Hello beautiful pple. Let’s gather and enjoy this session and remember to learn something . If you are reading this, have a blessed day
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THANK YOU, BLESSINGS, TO YA'! PEACE!
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⚠They always say that he's a cheater but they always stay committed,it's almost as if some people are committed to chaos.🤔
Unfortunately, some people either subconsciously enjoy the drama or they don’t believe they can do better
@@Littlemizzanna It's both. People are attracted to drama because it gives them something to complain about to validate their victim mentality.
Preach on, sister.
Exactly....committed to chaos and in love with misery
Right!?
That’s exactly what I said preach on 🙌🏾
She thought having a baby would secure a ring. How are y’all still believing that!? 🤦🏿♀️
beatqueen1 I actually don’t believe she thought that I think she using that as an excuse or a smoke screen. Draw the attention away from herself
Oldest non-working trick in the book!
She's stupid for believing in fake marriage its Fake,Whitewashed and brainwashed they pushed Marriage and Jesus on our people
I guess she doesn't know how many single mothers out there😏
yep, that how they think
Sis was so anxious to dive into wifedom and motherhood that she couldn't acknowledge that she wasn't even remotely ready for it!
Most people are, they crave the TITLE and that's all they don't want the responsibility and accountability that comes with that title.
You spend more energy on having fun than taking care of business. That's why he thinks you're immature.
Preach
No need to think... she is immature
I felt the same way. He's doing more then some dudes would do and she's taking advantage of it. Ppl need to appreciate wat they have cause some don't have that and doing it alone.
She is immature.
I still dont believe she gets it. He is right not to marry her yet. Baby or not, she's not ready.
not at all.she comes across lazy not wanting to work and kinda immature . hes home and working meanwhile she hanging out and thinks cause its family that its ok. shes def not wife material at all
I don't get it... If she not ready why give her your seed 🤦🏾♂️
I think she’s sneaky!
She's immature as hell.. I get what she was saying, but it takes two and you played your part in being a baby mama instead of a wife... Women need to stop laying with men expecting wife positions, but wanna be baby mamas first like somehow that guarantees them a position as a wife.. That is a super flawed way of thinking..
Amen, amen. Say it again please!!!! yaaaaaas!
What's flawed in expecting someone you have kids with to marry you? There's literally no flawed thinking in that especially since they're in a relationship. They just don't need to be together. Period
Message 🙌🏾
@@neeneeboo17 more weddings. Less baby showers. She's not wife material, PERIOD. Listen to what the judge schooled her about.
We cant blame her the man shoulda used protection or not have sex with her period a woman cant have a baby by herself the man helps the woman to create the baby
“Not conversate or even converse!” Judge came with the subtle shade 😂😂😭
Takira Thompson 😂🤣😂😂
Converse is grammatically correct.
That's funny 🤣 uneducated.
Damn...I guess 24 is the new 40, lol.
U know damn well they Lying bout age
😂😂😂😂😂
Open your eyes, he looks 24 just got an old swag lol
You petty petty...😂😂😂
😂😂😂
The word is conveeeeèrrrrrrsssseeee! Gadt damn!
brit reid they always say conversate thinking they sound like Einstein, like sir
Lol...
Thank you !!
Get over it. It wont change
Lol
when he said, "conversate" and Judge Lyn is trying to not lose her cool on the word!!! I died XD
🤣
Lol.
That's exactly how I felt.
Judge Judy has a problem with the word "conversate", but it is a legit word.....
ALL my best friends work full time. We can't hang out 8-10 hours a day. I love my friends, but I wouldn't wanna hang on the regular for that long. She need to ask them to watch the baby and gotuh work 😐
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 This! They clearly have time on their hands, ideal scenario for childcare.
The fact that they have both been stepping out and giggling about it shows they are not really ready until all these matters are handled
He said, “Jennifer have a lot of people...”. Well she’s Jennifer Peoples 🤣🤣
Ctfuuuuuu
Hehehe
😂😂😂😂
juantubey Funny!
Now that's funty😹
“I’m good enough to be your baby’s mom, but I’m not good enough to be your wife” speaks volume!!
She allowed him to impregnate her before marriage.
@@jpat989 Exactly! Backwards ah.
@@jpat989 Exactly! Allowed is the proper term. Believe you me, if i had one child, unless I wanted another prior to marriage; I would not have another!
I am nearly 50 and haven't had one yet. Refused to open my legs for and hard thang skinny and grinning in my face! Love me some men but selective as to who slids in between my legs!!!
So true and Yes it does but she sets that standard!! As to being a baby mama or a wife.A man can't get what a woman isn't willing to give.
Whenever they mentioned guy's she was talking to on the phone she was smiling and laughing🤔
She guilty as hell. She home all day with nothing to do, she definitely talking to some men while her man out working to provide for her.
@@kimberlyneptune1248 She is a dirty bitch
A giveaway, and she don't really respect him
Girl on something with all that giggling going on
@@jasminsantiago1390 She is a dirty, fat slob
He is a good dude. He just sounds like a 45 year old man
He sounds like a real man. Not a little boy playing games.
If it's not right before you get married a marriage want fix it.....😕
This should be engraved in stone in 500 ft tall letters
Webster’s is going to just throw their hands up and add Conversate to the dictionary- CONVERSE, CONVERSE, CONVERSE!
Angela Marshall it’s like irregardless 🙁 Makes me cringe every time.
conversate means to engage in conversation
Lol they did it with perogative and prerogative
It is in Webster's
🤣🤣🤣
If I'm reading correctly, she had a 1 year old when they met . I don't see how these women feel comfortable with bringing men around their kids like that ......
They put thier kids at risk in order to say they got a man.
Foolishness
They are crazy!
@@brishaberries0101 yup
I understand what you're saying but for some of us it's the best thing our mother could have done. My dad's been in my life since I was a baby I dont remember any different and he's the best of the best yo me.
The hashtags at the top of the screen are killing me 😂😂
Me too🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I wanted to scream every time he said conversate, it’s CONVERSE! 😂
Conversate. Scream.
He is a MAN and he’s growing and maturing. He’s good.
Judge Toler please inform this man there is no such word as conversate geez !!!!
Dwahn Denson lmaooo right?? It’s definitely converse...or he could just say talk...
It's in the dictionary now. 🙄
Back in the day, the judge would always be quick to correct people but since Websters decided to add it to the dictionary, I'm assuming she gave up the battle.
@@Tiramysuu Everybody says conversate, conversation, etc. Barely do people say converse.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
When she said twice a week, the“oooooooohhhs” from the audience had me 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂😂
At that tender age sex can't be too much 99.9%young people r fully sexual active .😀😀😀😂😀😀😀come on other woman will be lining up.😀😀😂😀😀😂😀😀
If you think he not getting sex now...wait till he marries her. lol
She probably too busy with the am booty call while he’s at work!!!
Young hardworking black man stuck with ungrateful spoiled Eve. Save one for me Jesus!!
You all have to communicate . Relationships don't work otherwise.
Hey fam🙋🏾♀️ Ooo title definitely got my attention, let’s see what this episode finna be about 👀
😋 we are together here...
same lol
....so let a brother from Belgium holla at you
Giggling and cheesing while the judge is addressing her about talking to other dudes and cheating smh! She’s guilty. Marriage won’t help this relationship
I’m glad that real women in this conversation see the great possibility of her cheating on this man! I believe she doing it & trying to deflect it off on him!
Yes. She is immature. And not even good looking.
Yikes...this is what happens when you aren't on the same page as your partner, and some may even say when you dont do things in the "right order." Hopefully they can work it out and end up getting married.
Ma'am you need to get a job
there is no way these two are 24 year old, especially Jeffery.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
He is. He’s just raised properly
Im 25 . this man looks 38 wth
brieanna spears I was thinking the same
This woman looks 38 too
Stress, bad diet, wasting his youth with her.
@@sallysallah08 it's more so her weight not her face. Weight can age women.
I'm 38. They look older than me.
If you can't be honest, loyal don't be in a relationship. You couldn't get me to stoop so low creeping through somebody's phone. Clearly isn't the person you should be with if you can't trust each other. Just ridiculous.
If a man told me to get a job just to pay a car note.....man listen twice a week my ___.
What do you mean?
@@chrisbelger6721 I was confused also🤔
Cheating right
monetchic 🤸🏾♂️🤸🏾♂️🤸🏾♂️🤸🏾♂️
Apparently she does not realize that after having kids, you can’t do the same things you used to. 2 kids under 3? She had control of that.
Get a job girl and then get married
right. shoot she could braid hair at home and im sure he would be happy with that
When she said "level up" my mind began counting down😂😂
How many times do you expect to go out with a 3 month old? Who even feels like going out because the baby is exhausting and you are looking it? Who do you leave your 3 month old with? Why would you quit your job because you’re pregnant? 🙄.And he didn’t just give you a baby. You decided to get pregnant. Why?
Family probably watching the baby while she’s “hanging out “!
They had my attention by the title of the episode alone
so it took her to get in front of a judge & millions of people to figure that out that she should've gotten MARRIED b4 havin' his baby? talk about slow.. smh
I love how she corrected "conversate to converse" He didn't catch it
She clearly doesn't get it even at the end
HE needs to leave her if she don’t get it together soon
Essence Haney facts
Only twice a week cause she's giving it up somewhere else. IJS
🤗 smell wisdom here @Christine Owens... eis, I surrender 🙌🏾
Christine Owens how can anyone have sex 7days a week anyhow? Some of y'all doing it more than once a day??
@@Rooted_Locs yes and?
LovelyBluu and nothing. Just asking a question sheesh
She just had a baby 3 months ago. This turns down your sex drive significantly.
OMG the guy in the white sweater behind Me Peoples in the audience need to cover his mouth when yawning 😂😂😂
She is not ready for a husband...hell, not even a boyfriend
I never would have put a baby in her. no way Jose... little young Thundercat think she know everything. She's too immature to be in a serious relationship Lessing on marriage.
Be a wife won't work if Ms. Peoples go floating around the neighborhood for hours and he's not getting it, and expected her man to feel safe with her. If he does the same thing, won't she'll be thinking of him cheating?
💯 % correct! She threw him out over a text- that wasn’t as revealing as her’s! If he did half of what she did- it would probably be a wrap!
She is not ready for marriage.
"Conversate" IS NOT A WORD!!! IT'S "CONVERSE"!! ........... I love how Judge Toler tactfully slid that correction in there!
Actually it's a word now dumbass
"Not conversate or even converse" LOL, Judge Lynn cracking me up.
I wouldn’t dare say conversate in the presence of this Judge, EVER!!
I wish people would stop saying that, I correct them when they do.
October3074 And then we wonder why other races don’t take us seriously and laugh at us when we use horrible language and improper grammar.🤦♂️
She just dont get it 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Mrs. Baldwin hahahahhahahhahahah.
Leave her "She looking for a free ride".
She acted like she didn't have anything to do with allowing herself to get pregnant by this man
Umm..isn't she also implicated in the making of a baby? Didn't she know she was not married when they decided to have a kid.. 😂
Well, i don't understand one thing about kicking someone out. If a woman kicked me out, i won't return. I can't handle the humiliation of being kicked out instead of sitting to talk about whatever is eating us up.... I think kicking out is just to exercise power and that is a step on my ego. If you kick me out, I am done.
Ehi Ekhator DON’T be humiliated bro, that just means she can’t communicate. If she can’t communicate, you leave on your own. Unless hers is the only name on the lease, she can’t kick you out. You can’t work on a problem from a distance, so if anybody leaves it’s over.
@@charlesanderson1963 well, I hear it too often of someone being kicked out, particularly a woman kicking a man out. If it gets to that point in my life I won't look back. You kick me out whether its my house, your house or our house I am done.
I do agree with you that it means she can't communicate but I doubt if that is why the women are doing it. To me, it is all about exercising power, who is the boss in the relationship and the last time I checked, there is no boss and that gives me one exit door as an option.
at 3:06 I'm just waiting for JLT to tell them THE WORD IS CONVERSE... but then I gathered she chucked it up to geographical slang and dialect *shrugs* lol
Yesssss judge I could hear Ciara beat in my head when u said level up then I started mumbling level up level up level up level up level up level up 😂
Who else caught the hashtag #thewordisconverse!!!!!!! I can’t scream it loud enough. It’s converse not conversate . Anyways back to the video.
Ebunoluwa Animashaun conversate been a word since 2005, you can thank countesses Vaughn aka Kim Parker from The Parker’s for that
How on earth can he afford to give her $85 dollars for the Hair Salon knowing they have a newborn and financial problems AIN'T NO DAMN WAY????
Vee Darko - What’s “the den”?
Vee Darko - I will. Thanks.
Conversate isn't a word pple converse is. 😡😡
What happen to the good old days where people OBSERVE, QUESTION their partners before getting married and then had kids?????Too much fucking without thinking and a commitment!!!!
girl what is so funny! All that giggling
Am I in the twilight zone? Why is it that these women have to quit working when they have a baby!? No one does maternity leave? They just quit and then go find another job when they want to work again!?
Quita Kee-ta in they defense maternity leave in this country is terrible. There’s been cases of women giving birth and having to go to work the next day
I saw this one on the DVR yesterday. All I will say is whatever the judge was trying to tell the lady went over her head. There is hope though
According to the after show comments they are working on their relationship by going to counseling. That's great. I wish them the best
How you kicking him out and he paying all the bills
I hate when men or women say their significant other is not ready for marriage but how are they ready to be a mother or father to another human being 🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤔. I don’t get how that work.
She's asking that question after the fact.
Marriage is a big responsibility and so is having a baby. I don't think the guy will marry her.
I don't understand why people seek help but don't wanna accept it
Sssssssoooooo im still flabbergasted at the fact that they're both 24years old and i swear i thought they was in their 30s. Don't get me wrong they don't look bad at all they just both look wayyyyy older. 🤷🏾♀️
I was waiting for the Judge to correct him on that "conversate"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂it's CONVERSE!
I Cringe When People Say Conversate The Word Is Converse.
Here for the age comments
That's what happens when you play wife and have babies before marriage and all you respect for yourself Is gone.
Great advice hopefully they take it and do better. I wish them the best.
Judge: " You're a lil tight with that aren't ya!" 1💀 I love me some Judge Toler!!!
They look old for 24 years old
Converse *** conversate isn't a word loool u hear it constantly aswell 😂
U is also not a word.
@Khalid Olatunji shut your ugly ass up
@@hendrix-giovannijohnson9701 no you
I so much love judge Lynn Toler because she encourage couples to do better.
She was dumb enough to get another baby, to be a baby momma instead of becoming a wife. That's not his fault. If she can visit everyday, all day, she can get a little job to help out. She doesn't want to work. She wants to be a "stay at home"..😒
@ 24 I was in graduate school studying for my Masters, I was a home lesson teacher for kids as part time job, selling cloths & human hair to graduate students in my hostel as side hustle.
Selling weave to black females as a side hustle huh? Lol 😁
My favorite Judge.
Love you.
If he wants her to work that's great but that 300 dollars you asking for a car note is gonna go to day care for that baby y'all just had. Cuz for a newborn you paying for like 250 or 275 a week just on day care
I do not really think it is just about the money. I think he wants her to have a job so he knows where she is.
Lol damn don't blame it on the toys 😅😂😂
They are young and have lot of time to get it right both need to work on Loving each other .
A woman cannot conceived a baby without a participating man (or medically assistant). It takes two people sexually active to reproduce. However, the sole responsibility of the child rest with the mother. Her body is the vehicle in which the baby is supported, nurtured and housed. Its her responsibility and for nines months (however long) it is evident; its her baby. The man on the other hand...nobody knows he is the father until he step forward (voluntary on involuntary)! Having said all of that; it should be a woman's priority to not have a child prior to marriage! A decent guy will want to uphold that standard as well. People need to be more responsible about their lives and especially their future. I'm nearly 50 years and by the grace of God, I am childless and love the attention and the affection of the right man (not the perfect man)!
She threw him out.
He's very mature I think she's childish and definitely not ready for marriage.
Ebonics is hella strong in this episode bahaha It's all good tho haha
I just had a baby and I couldn't imagine having to go back to work 3 months in just to make a dude happy. Who's going to watch the baby better than mommy?
Exactly!! These days you can’t really trust anything
She’s so irritating
Exactly couples would rather go talk to others than to talk to each other to fix the problem.
Exactly! There’s no logic in that!
If all I had to pay was a car note😒
Same age, usually women are more mature...but she a mom of two, she better get it together!
She is immature. The woman is usually the mature one. She is silly.
She has too many male friends so I had to get female friends... How insecure can you be?? Just leave!
That's not insecurity that's pettyness, more like if you do this going to do it too. If he was insecure he would be telling her to cut them off..
He will never trust you because you are constantly talking to men and lying. He is out working and struggling to to mind you and your son and you are at home or at family members houses chilling and shit. Grow your big ass up, work, invest and build your family.
She's one of those "if it makes sense to me, it doesn't have to make sense to anyone else"
It's "converse" people!!!