ANGRY Karen CONFRONTS Me while Mowing Elderly's Yard..

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  • @OutdoorswithErik
    @OutdoorswithErik  Рік тому +326

    Angry Karen's Husband Showed up here and tried to attack us - ua-cam.com/video/J30skb23wT4/v-deo.html

    • @jaa2472
      @jaa2472 Рік тому +2

      I would do her yard to be kind. Then tell her you know the reason ppl don't help u out is because of ur attitude and potty mouth. Maybe if u were nice to ppl then they would help you

    • @Ratrazor
      @Ratrazor Рік тому +157

      I wouldn't do her yard that's not how you ask for help.

    • @maxinebaker4281
      @maxinebaker4281 Рік тому +5

      DON'T GET INVOLVED WITH THAT LADY. YOU WILL END UP BEING SUED OR IN JAIL. SELFISH NASTY WOMAN.

    • @dink182j4
      @dink182j4 Рік тому +93

      How did that lady even know anything about what you are doing? She works but wants “handouts” and she sure appeared able bodied. She wants you to pick up her trash for her?

    • @jenniferwhite8449
      @jenniferwhite8449 Рік тому +104

      She doesn't get help because of how she behaves. She is so rude and expects people to do nice things when she is full of attitude. I'd never help her for any reason ever!

  • @robertangeli7321
    @robertangeli7321 2 роки тому +16621

    Don’t get involved with a crazy person like that. Next you know she’ll be saying you wrecked something on her property. I would’ve told her to go pound sand.

    • @keithrosser3487
      @keithrosser3487 2 роки тому +473

      I agree

    • @Lawncare_masters
      @Lawncare_masters 2 роки тому +635

      Here here... also she has the time to to complain to him when she could be doing her own yard rn

    • @davidcoats5080
      @davidcoats5080 2 роки тому +622

      Man don’t get involved with that lady she’s crazy

    • @sjar4686
      @sjar4686 2 роки тому +494

      Me too. Don't get mixed up with evil spirit. DON'T.

    • @randomposts5642
      @randomposts5642 2 роки тому +592

      Just shows that no good deed goes unpunished! I’m 66 years old, and my rule has always been, stay away from crazy!

  • @davidjudd951
    @davidjudd951 2 роки тому +2524

    The sense of entitlement in today's society, is off the charts. That chick actually thinks the world owes her.

    • @denisejohnson875
      @denisejohnson875 Рік тому +108

      Go fine your baby daddy he owes you and the baby,👧bye

    • @marymackay9309
      @marymackay9309 Рік тому

      Do nothing to help her. Her attitude stinks. The world owes her but you don't.

    • @matthewsmith3078
      @matthewsmith3078 Рік тому +35

      It’s just the ego acting up.

    • @nicholasbrown306
      @nicholasbrown306 Рік тому +115

      Probably why her husband isn't around 🤣🤣🤣.

    • @reidwright264
      @reidwright264 Рік тому +42

      Thanks for What You do! ❤ 1 parent in wheelchair, Other crippled fm broken vertebrae, no insured hit n run. and People Like You made things possible for families to continue life through the healing! Bless You Dude! 🙏❤️

  • @Julie-xi7no
    @Julie-xi7no 2 роки тому +7068

    DON’T mow that crazy woman’s yard! The fact that she came over ORDERING you not to mow the yard you were currently mowing, as if it’s any of her business, then proceeding to DEMAND that you provide her a free yard cleanup?!? Nope! No way. Pregnant or not, she’s plenty capable of cleaning up her own trash, and her rude/obnoxious demands of you were over the top!
    I suggest a respectful “I understand you’d like a free cleanup, but I’ll have to decline based on how rude you approached me, and the fact that you, first, stuck your nose in my business, and secondly, demanded, rather than simply and politely requested, help. Perhaps, if there’s a next time, you should consider being nicer to folks helping others for free? You’ll get farther being nicer”. She doesn’t deserve your kindness if she can’t even show some herself. We’re all tired of people like this. Give them an inch, they’ll take a mile. Sheesh 🙄

    • @defenestrate4957
      @defenestrate4957 2 роки тому +464

      Yes if she will tear into a complete stranger like this, then she is capable of pretty much anything. Including false blame for damage to her yard and lawsuits. There is a reason her baby's father is not in the picture. Her bizarre actions in this video tell us all we need to know about her.

    • @victoriasmith8814
      @victoriasmith8814 2 роки тому +214

      Excellent Suggestion on how to verbalize to decline her “demands.” Her language was so inappropriate-…

    • @achaney8872
      @achaney8872 2 роки тому +193

      Not to mention she cussed at him. No wonder her man is not around. I'd run to. Pregnancy hormones or not, respect can still be given. Like women mind blown then really thought he would do her lawn. 😂 😂 And if you do mow and pick up her TRASH... Well..... Well everyone knows where that could lead to.....

    • @pennycorley4059
      @pennycorley4059 2 роки тому +153

      I agree and I can't believe her audacity. She is so over the top.

    • @meegan3643
      @meegan3643 2 роки тому +52

      Well said !

  • @jerryfoster9654
    @jerryfoster9654 7 місяців тому +181

    I agree with "DON’T mow that crazy woman’s yard! The fact that she came over ORDERING you not to mow the yard you were currently mowing, as if it’s any of her business, then proceeding to DEMAND that you provide her a free yard cleanup?!? Nope! No way. Pregnant or not, she’s plenty capable of cleaning up her own trash, and her rude/obnoxious demands of you were over the top! " Too many people think just because you do something nice for one of their neighbors that they are ENTITLED to the same from you. Tell her you are committed elsewhere and you can see her in a few years!

    • @vivienneoneill5400
      @vivienneoneill5400 5 місяців тому +7

      Please look after your self,and stay safe.❤❤❤❤❤

    • @darlenegibson57
      @darlenegibson57 5 місяців тому +6

      I will bet you run into all kinds of people doing what you do. Just remember - God is on your side❤❤❤

    • @betsypavitte8979
      @betsypavitte8979 4 місяці тому +4

      A very rude lady. My bet is stay away as she is bold as brass.

    • @denisesaunders5473
      @denisesaunders5473 4 місяці тому +1

      If she married? The husband needs to leave.

  • @detroitnatural9392
    @detroitnatural9392 2 роки тому +1105

    Anybody that walks up with: #1 That attitude and #2 That fowl mouth . . . get's ignored! "Deserving" of your generosity - I think NOT!

    • @d.c.barker
      @d.c.barker 2 роки тому +102

      I agree 100%. I wouldn't even have acknowledged her and kept right on working and left her standing there talking to herself looking like a fool.

    • @sarahroberts3051
      @sarahroberts3051 2 роки тому +23

      Well said 👌🏻

    • @jeffreybosiljevac3408
      @jeffreybosiljevac3408 2 роки тому +73

      Where’s your husband?
      He’s gone.
      I wonder why!?!

    • @OutdoorswithErik
      @OutdoorswithErik  2 роки тому +37

      Everyone has a bad day from time to time, wonder if this was hers?

    • @OutdoorswithErik
      @OutdoorswithErik  2 роки тому +30

      Looking back, shhould have handled it differently

  • @stephenullman4534
    @stephenullman4534 2 роки тому +2631

    With her attitude like that and the way she talked to you, she can clean up her own yard. You handled that better than I would have.

    • @larry3183
      @larry3183 2 роки тому +168

      No he didn't he should have let her know to mind her own business don't reward bad behavior

    • @dawnatkinson3032
      @dawnatkinson3032 2 роки тому +153

      I second that! After the way she spoke to you? I wouldn't do anything for her. She's upset because you're helping some elderly people? SERIOUSLY!! Even if they got 20 mowers out there - what business is if of hers???? She was downright rude & belligerent!!!

    • @kathib9489
      @kathib9489 2 роки тому +101

      @@larry3183 that's exactly what I thought!! Being pregnant is no excuse to feel entitled to anything! She was horrible!

    • @aliciashappyplace
      @aliciashappyplace 2 роки тому +91

      No wonder her husband isn't around! She needs to mind her own business and clean up her own trash. I question her "sense of fairness" If she can't see her neighbor's need. She should be glad that someone is helping them! A sure sign of an overgrown spoiled child.

    • @ScottsFormula350TPI
      @ScottsFormula350TPI 2 роки тому +39

      absolutely....i would have said the almight gfy

  • @jackiemoss7789
    @jackiemoss7789 2 роки тому +901

    I have known plenty of pregnant moms who could mow their own yards and take out their own trash. Took care of their own and didn't flip out if someone else helped others. She's nuts.

    • @theSammyM333
      @theSammyM333 2 роки тому +10

      It could be just hormons messing her up. She is going to have though times ahead as a single mom. Of course there are many hard working women and men, but even more there are ppl like her. Maybe little help changes her a bit.

    • @lisacates4185
      @lisacates4185 2 роки тому +6

      I did 😇

    • @OutdoorswithErik
      @OutdoorswithErik  2 роки тому +34

      It's crazy but maybe she had a bad day? Who knows, I was shocked though and at a loss of words

    • @OutdoorswithErik
      @OutdoorswithErik  2 роки тому +11

      @@theSammyM333 That would be the hope

    • @trishjoyce9882
      @trishjoyce9882 2 роки тому +11

      @@Scooter4986 yes but we don't all have trouble free pregnancies.

  • @404_profile_not_found
    @404_profile_not_found Рік тому +76

    "Why do they get free stuff? Why don't you spend your time doing stuff for free for me?!"
    Jeez lady, you're so persuasive with your charm.

    • @RomanJIsreal
      @RomanJIsreal 4 місяці тому +1

      Awh, she got something for free alright.

  • @chevy8018
    @chevy8018 Рік тому +1811

    She's the kind person who the minute you leave her property something comes up missing and it's your fault. Best to stay away from those types of situations.

    • @purleybelter7344
      @purleybelter7344 Рік тому +20

      100%

    • @MidToneMacky
      @MidToneMacky Рік тому +18

      Was thinking the same thing.. be careful with this Karen tread lightly!!

    • @janew7008
      @janew7008 Рік тому +4

      If she was truly pregnant not just big, cut her a little bit of Slack the bad attitude could be influenced by those pregnancy hormones. He should be careful though and do a thorough walkthrough with her before he starts and after so there's no hands-free issues later.

    • @rodericksutton2983
      @rodericksutton2983 Рік тому

      @@janew7008 Oh shut up trying to make excuses for this entitled Karen.

    • @nathanlittle2707
      @nathanlittle2707 Рік тому +61

      @@janew7008being pregnant is no excuse for being rude and expecting free stuff I’ve never met a pregnant woman who e expected people to give them free stuff pregnancy does not give you the right to speak to people rudely and and expect free services

  • @robatkins
    @robatkins 2 роки тому +1221

    Exactly, I would not do anything with her house. She’s capable to do things. She approached you disrespectfully, cursed at you. You can’t reward that kind of behavior.

    • @drk.i.a.2969
      @drk.i.a.2969 2 роки тому +41

      My thoughts exactly.

    • @renelopez2244
      @renelopez2244 2 роки тому +23

      Agreed

    • @hyrumbliss5811
      @hyrumbliss5811 2 роки тому +40

      She'll try and extort money from you or something...there's a good reason her neighbors didn't call on you to do her yard...
      Plus, I think she's a liar,; "husband isn't around" is pretty cryptic, he's probably at work.

    • @victorious1929
      @victorious1929 2 роки тому +17

      Exactly, because she will make up something to accuse you of, she’s a snollygoster, not trustworthy.

    • @dan5660
      @dan5660 2 роки тому +18

      People like her are epidemic in the country today.

  • @osrs_scrublord2039
    @osrs_scrublord2039 2 роки тому +920

    This is a perfect example of the difference in personalities of people. A person wanting to give you a pair a gloves to keep you warm, and another mad that you are doing something nice for someone else.

    • @OutdoorswithErik
      @OutdoorswithErik  2 роки тому +62

      Everyone is definitely different

    • @michaelblack9253
      @michaelblack9253 2 роки тому +10

      Exactly!

    • @kerrygordon1088
      @kerrygordon1088 2 роки тому +29

      @@OutdoorswithErik, God Bless You and the young man you’re teaching to be an amazing human being, like yourself.

    • @reginajohnson2218
      @reginajohnson2218 2 роки тому +38

      I think her attitude stinks. She should have approached you in a different manner. I would not feel obliged to help anyone with that attitude

    • @lindacomstock5998
      @lindacomstock5998 2 роки тому +15

      YOU ARE SO RIGHT. GLOVES ARE BETTER 😁‼️

  • @TheCheerfulCoconut
    @TheCheerfulCoconut Рік тому +152

    You seem like a nice fella. I bet if she had thanked you for helping her neighbor and then kindly explained her situation and asked for help, you would’ve helped her.
    A little gentleness and humility goes a long way, folks!

    • @darcybrummett7004
      @darcybrummett7004 5 місяців тому +2

      The old saying ‘you catch more flies with honey than with vinegar’ definitely applies.

  • @bignorwegian
    @bignorwegian Рік тому +1917

    "With an attitude like yours, I can't blame 'em." PERFECT response to a blatantly rude individual. I would not give her another minute of your time; you're out helping people in need; she doesn't deserve the help with the way she approached you. Keep up the good work, sir.

    • @joes.4733
      @joes.4733 Рік тому +7

      Sooooooo agreed!!

    • @cynthiahunter519
      @cynthiahunter519 Рік тому +21

      So wrong . She was angry at her situation. Pregnancy hormones are going all over the place. What she needs is some kindness in her life, so she doesn't feel overwhelmed and alone.
      We can never know what someone else's life is or isn't.
      I would hate for someone to judge me because of a crazy rant .

    • @reginachahal..Things
      @reginachahal..Things Рік тому

      her mouth is why the baby daddy is not around.....she is crazy stay away from her....

    • @silverwheelspatriot1764
      @silverwheelspatriot1764 Рік тому +32

      ​@@cynthiahunter519but you have No right to behave that way.

    • @patti1101
      @patti1101 Рік тому +24

      She is blaming him for her situation cause she got preggos and the guy took off.

  • @Teeb2023
    @Teeb2023 Рік тому +1974

    What a charming lady, can't begin to imagine why no-one helps her.

    • @michaelgray1123
      @michaelgray1123 Рік тому +16

      LOL!!!!

    • @davewilson4528
      @davewilson4528 Рік тому +100

      When he asked "where's your husband?" and she says "not around". My instant reaction was "I can't imagine why!". If they go do anything for her (for free), they're just enabling.

    • @Teeb2023
      @Teeb2023 Рік тому +10

      @@davewilson4528 Unfortunate, but true.

    • @ninshu412
      @ninshu412 Рік тому +41

      @@davewilson4528 The victim mentality is crippling the world. People put themselves in these situations then turn around and pretend it's everybody else's fault. That's called narcissism and it's on the rise along with being a victim in everything. We live in a world where people can say whatever they want to you, the second you give them a dose of their own medicine, they're a victim. It's fucking disgusting.

    • @wisdomfox857
      @wisdomfox857 Рік тому +17

      @@davewilson4528 nah I'm pretty sure she was lying about her husband not being around they probably looking for a free hand out

  • @booyahinc
    @booyahinc Рік тому +1637

    She had the time and energy to confront a stranger - she can clean up her own yard.

    • @fatpop2022
      @fatpop2022 Рік тому +6

      Fr

    • @kevinyost5635
      @kevinyost5635 Рік тому +9

      thats true

    • @customer0815
      @customer0815 Рік тому +5

      Even if true, it‘s not your business
      How someone could get the idea to touch someone elses ground without permission?

    • @booyahinc
      @booyahinc Рік тому +1

      @@jessriggio2603 I don’t hate masonry at all.

    • @robertwilson2007
      @robertwilson2007 Рік тому +2

      BINGO! You win a cookie LOL

  • @honeyg3589
    @honeyg3589 6 місяців тому +28

    You are extraordinarily kind. That pregnant neighbor is super rude. She seems incredibly entitled with a heart full of envy and disdain.

  • @mecurian485
    @mecurian485 Рік тому +899

    The sense of entitlement is astonishing. The fact that she demands that they fix up her yard just shows that no good deed goes unpunished.

    • @cncpyro
      @cncpyro Рік тому +30

      imagine this person is pregnant with child...May God help that poor kid.

    • @BlueSaphire70
      @BlueSaphire70 Рік тому +3

      @@cncpyro Amen!

    • @angie4now438
      @angie4now438 Рік тому +4

      I agree!! So messed up. She came over to whine. Such a twisted person. Ew.

    • @AkiraNamejin
      @AkiraNamejin Рік тому +4

      Even so, still do good deeds. People are gonna complain, but it's still putting more good into the world.

    • @CB-xr1eg
      @CB-xr1eg Рік тому +4

      I agree, no way he shoukd do her yard, not with that shitty attitude.

  • @jeanhind8198
    @jeanhind8198 Рік тому +1128

    (Yelling) "Come and do MY lawn. No-one ever comes over and does MY lawn"
    "With an attitude like yours, I'm not surprised!"
    Best response ever, well done my man!!

    • @stevemiller.
      @stevemiller. Рік тому +22

      I'm sure her husband is thrilled to do.... oh wait she's alone lol

    • @charlenewilliams8131
      @charlenewilliams8131 Рік тому +9

      I was thinking that same thing and was so glad when he told her that lol

    • @funwithmyswedishdogs
      @funwithmyswedishdogs Рік тому

      @@stevemiller. Well, somebody got her pregnant :-)

    • @stevemiller.
      @stevemiller. Рік тому +1

      @@funwithmyswedishdogs deleted your comment I see kiddo

    • @stevehuggett2098
      @stevehuggett2098 Рік тому +10

      Probably why her baby daddy skipped out. I wonder if he paid for the ride!

  • @SL1MZ
    @SL1MZ Рік тому +50

    Seeing a man with such patience really makes me think I should do better myself. Props to you for handling that well man, can't say I'd have been as kind. Keep doing what your doing man, love the videos.

  • @scorpio_moon
    @scorpio_moon 2 роки тому +629

    Eric, you are too kind! I absolutely would NOT do her lawn after she talked to me like that! Please don't reward bad behavior...

    • @OutdoorswithErik
      @OutdoorswithErik  2 роки тому +100

      Amen

    • @barbhenley4692
      @barbhenley4692 2 роки тому +15

      I so agree.

    • @That0therGirl
      @That0therGirl 2 роки тому +17

      Her yard was probably full of trash before she got pregnant. Ask her what acts of kindness she’s done for others then preach the gospel to her as a bonus

    • @chistinebinning6768
      @chistinebinning6768 2 роки тому

      @@OutdoorswithErik I completely agree with Linda. Please do not go over and help her. She’s trouble, and will make your life a living h*ll.

    • @trueblue5336
      @trueblue5336 Рік тому +1

      @@OutdoorswithErik God bless you

  • @clean.parker
    @clean.parker Рік тому +1256

    "Where is your husband?", she replies "Not around". Makes perfect sense.

  • @bobnoblesjr.465
    @bobnoblesjr.465 Рік тому +791

    Honestly, the way she talked to you, I'd never do her lawn. She had no respect for what you were doing and why. The dad's not around, and now we all know why. You and your son are awesome for doing what you do.

    • @susangreene9662
      @susangreene9662 Рік тому +20

      He should have said just that to her, that she didn't deserve his services.

    • @ChrisM-bn5vr
      @ChrisM-bn5vr Рік тому

      Yeah if she just asked nicely he would have probably done her yard, but she acted like a bitch. This is a good lesson, if you want someone to help you out, treat them nicely. I worked in retail and if a customer was nice to me I would go above and beyond to help them, but if they acted like a douche I would do the bare minimum to help them.

    • @DrAccula-ct3ro
      @DrAccula-ct3ro Рік тому +26

      also, if she has the energy and audacity to walk that far just to complain, she has the energy to clean her own yard. pregnant or not.

    • @annieo9468
      @annieo9468 Рік тому +9

      I don't think I'd even spit on her lawn. =(

    • @Mscat410
      @Mscat410 Рік тому +11

      I totally agree Bob. If I were her I would have asked with a humble attitude. She’s trouble.

  • @pennylehrer1306
    @pennylehrer1306 11 місяців тому +8

    You're a kind compassionate man. That woman was rude and disrespectful. I'd think twice about doing her yard. If you do, the pre requisite should be she cleans out her own trash. Keep doing your humanitarian work and ignore the haters.

  • @heleninlondon8588
    @heleninlondon8588 2 роки тому +423

    She is very rude and aggressive - there are far better ways of asking for help than putting others down, even if your situation is worse. You handled that very well.

    • @Hopeforus24
      @Hopeforus24 2 роки тому +40

      My thought exactly. Why not come over and ask what’s happening instead of acting all high and mighty??? Besides, I may have asked her why she didn’t call the owners if she was so concerned since they are the ones containing me! Some people!

    • @madison203
      @madison203 2 роки тому +34

      There was no reason for her to that rude and obnoxious!
      Eric, I hope she went in and watched some of your videos!
      Your transformations are not just a benefit for the homeowner, but the whole surrounding neighborhood!
      I’m glad that at least one neighbor offered you and your son some gloves!
      That neighbor deserves a clean up, not the rude one!
      Stay safe and well…

    • @shirleyyeno1950
      @shirleyyeno1950 2 роки тому +12

      I agree

    • @suehop1579
      @suehop1579 2 роки тому +10

      As they say ' don't judge, least you be judged ' and I hope that gal does see the comments! perhaps she will mature & cope better in the future

    • @JediJan
      @JediJan 2 роки тому +13

      Totally out of order. Language. The sense of entitlement from that one is totally OTT. No rights whatsoever to question why you are helping someone else at all; completely your business. When I was pregnant and had just broken up with my ex, I moved out and had a fractured ankle to deal with soon after on crutches (fortunately left and not right so I could still drive) 7 months pregnant. I did not ask for help from anyone and no family in the state. I paid for a taxi once to collect a few items from a store and paid for a gardener when it was required. I never expected help from any sector, let alone interfere with others going about their own business. That woman walked over to see you, without crutches, so she should pick up her own trash at least. Please and thank you and some small apology wouldn’t go astray either. Maybe she will have a think about her behaviour and maybe get an assessment for depression. I was brought up with the idea that just because I was having a bad day you don’t visit that on others. I hope she rectifies her behaviour and real fast.

  • @ks5526
    @ks5526 Рік тому +696

    “There’s nobody around”
    Well, color me shocked.
    How miserable does someone need to be to get angry that you’re volunteering your time to help someone in the community then demands you provide her with a free service? Ridiculous. If that’s how she treats strangers imagine how she treats people that should be closer to her. Seriously it’s no wonder she’s alone.

    • @thomasx58
      @thomasx58 Рік тому +10

      That’s why see is alone living by herself 😢

    • @greywolf9783
      @greywolf9783 Рік тому +2

      @@thomasx58 she*

    • @Goosers
      @Goosers Рік тому +4

      @@greywolf9783 🤡

    • @greywolf9783
      @greywolf9783 Рік тому +1

      @@Goosers XD

    • @standardaussie
      @standardaussie Рік тому +7

      Imagine what she is going to do to that poor child's personality 😔 what kind of person will she build?

  • @triciamills6031
    @triciamills6031 2 роки тому +331

    Me again: Please keep this in mind: She walked to where you were working to tell you were wrong in doing a good deed for someone who needed help. Why should she expect the same?? She deserves some "tough love" with you telling her no and why. This is not just her having a bad day. I imagine she is like this on a daily basis.

    • @nickklapatch2062
      @nickklapatch2062 2 роки тому

      I agree. Bitchy chicks need love to though. Lol

    • @rosielahrman2033
      @rosielahrman2033 2 роки тому +18

      Mind your own business lady. If you were breaking in, she’d have been a good neighbor. But trying to stop you from doing good? She heard the word “free” and then she turned and tried to make you feel guilty for not helping her. What a case

    • @dee-smart
      @dee-smart 2 роки тому +13

      What I got out of that confrontation is she wanted you to feel like you were an intruder, a wrong doer. She started out that conversation with "What the f*** ?" If there was something about her and she was just curious as to why you were there, why that hideous approach? I wouldn't go there myself and help her. If you can't work them out why they have such a negative attitude, then they could be trouble for you in the future.

    • @HighTekRednek2009
      @HighTekRednek2009 2 роки тому +14

      Would explain why her husband is “not around.”

    • @nickklapatch2062
      @nickklapatch2062 2 роки тому +6

      Lol right i feel bad for the dude who is going to have a kid with her. My wife is bitchy and I love her so much but my wife would never talk to a stranger like that. I guess this chick just needs to be hugged or something

  • @rickm5853
    @rickm5853 5 місяців тому +28

    the way you spoke to her is evidence that God has filled you with His Spirit. God bless.

    • @watchcity2068
      @watchcity2068 5 місяців тому +1

      You don't need religion to be a good person. I prefer kind atheists over hateful "Christians"

    • @gikichi9462
      @gikichi9462 5 місяців тому +2

      @@watchcity2068 WHEN YOU USE YOUR BRAIN YOU CAN COMMENT THANK YOU.

    • @rickm5853
      @rickm5853 4 місяці тому

      @@watchcity2068 Christians only hate sin not people because all people are sinners.

  • @crystalroane4062
    @crystalroane4062 2 роки тому +384

    If I were you, I would not mow her yard. Had she approached you in a different way, asking for help, then yes. But, she is basically bullying you into getting help. Thank you for all the kindness you spread.

    • @SherryVirgo74
      @SherryVirgo74 2 роки тому +22

      Yes I was thinking she bullies people to get what she wants because the people probably are scared of her so they do what she wants.

    • @FernandoRodriguez-kl3oc
      @FernandoRodriguez-kl3oc 2 роки тому +11

      Couldn’t agree more. She doesn’t deserve your kindness. In the absence of a heartfelt apology, her inexplicable ugliness towards you while your were helping a neighbor automatically disqualifies her. She’d only be taking advantage of your huge hearts.

  • @triciamills6031
    @triciamills6031 2 роки тому +477

    Do NOT do any work for this woman. She has a sense of entitlement and once you do help her, she will forever be wanting handouts. She was rude and confrontational and, in my opinion, doesn't deserve your time. Stick with those who appreciate you! Edit: I mowed my own yard when I was late in my pregnancy. My husband was in the navy and was deployed.

    • @OutdoorswithErik
      @OutdoorswithErik  2 роки тому +20

      Everyone has a bad day from time to time, wonder if this was hers?

    • @johnbees4443
      @johnbees4443 2 роки тому +54

      @@OutdoorswithErik Bro no. Just no. First off she asked in the worst way possible. She didn't ask, she didn't plead she spouted off like a brat. I would have told her off...but I never work for free so I wouldn't be there

    • @deemiles9484
      @deemiles9484 2 роки тому +23

      😱 OMG you are too nice, she doesn't deserve anything but a attitude adjustment.

    • @deemiles9484
      @deemiles9484 2 роки тому +11

      Wonderful how you're teaching your son work ethic

    • @AussieFIag
      @AussieFIag 2 роки тому +18

      NOPE, NO WAY would I help anyone that spoke to me the way that woman spoke to you.
      You and your son are good people.
      I'm sure there are so many other needy and gratful people out there that would appreciate and NOT "demand" to be helped like this Karen did.

  • @FPD9850
    @FPD9850 Рік тому +788

    Why would a woman complain about you doing a good deed for someone, then have the audacity to request her yard be next on your list? Keep doing what you are doing. The neighbors there appreciate your efforts.

    • @rebeccahopper8947
      @rebeccahopper8947 Рік тому +7

      I was thinking the same thing

    • @patrickpowers5995
      @patrickpowers5995 Рік тому +9

      The lady who was complaining should go back to school and learn.

    • @jugheadjones5458
      @jugheadjones5458 Рік тому +8

      @@patrickpowers5995agreed. But she’s no lady.

    • @katz734
      @katz734 Рік тому +17

      I see why her husband isn’t around. Those poor children don’t have a chance.

    • @michaels.2331
      @michaels.2331 Рік тому +16

      She’s complaining because in her mind nobody is doing anything for her.

  • @justinmiller5280
    @justinmiller5280 11 місяців тому +6

    For someone who “never gets handouts”, she sure is comfortable demanding one.

  • @RealToddBarnes
    @RealToddBarnes Рік тому +254

    What a shock that no one wants to help her and that the husband/boyfriend/baby daddy isn't around. She seems like a real gem.

    • @beest_
      @beest_ 10 місяців тому +3

      Rough....... uncut .... Wait , what am I saying..... PTSD

  • @TxSunMan
    @TxSunMan 2 роки тому +783

    It's good to see you are helping people in need. As far as the Karen goes... she seems to feel entitled. She might be pregnant and all but if she can walk to you only to complain about you helping someone, she can at least pick up her own trash.

    • @letsreallytalk9482
      @letsreallytalk9482 Рік тому +27

      Exactly! Maybe if she did that she wouldn’t have time to be worrying about what other people are doing.

    • @carolstomberg9189
      @carolstomberg9189 Рік тому +31

      Yup, entitlement was my reaction too. Hmmm…wonder why the baby daddy’s “not around”???

    • @AntonioClaudioMichael
      @AntonioClaudioMichael Рік тому +8

      @Hycoperosity I agree

    • @AntonioClaudioMichael
      @AntonioClaudioMichael Рік тому +9

      @@carolstomberg9189 her attitude probably lol that's if she is even pregnant lol

    • @YouTube_can_ESAD
      @YouTube_can_ESAD Рік тому +15

      She deserves NOTHING. 😂

  • @CarleetaJenson
    @CarleetaJenson Рік тому +777

    Being an elderly person myself I think what you are doing for people is such a nice thing to do. To give if yourself and your time is so admirable. That Karen should be ashamed herself talking to you the way she did. I know it’s hard to just ignore someone like that but she did not deserve one minute of your time. Thank you for doing this for needy seniors. We really need more people in this world like you. Thank you for your contribution to the needy. Much love to you sir

    • @bettyh3747
      @bettyh3747 Рік тому +14

      I too am elderly and love seeing this. Young no baby daddy will need to be self sufficient. I mowed yard, yard maintenance, worked outside the home, etc when my babies were new as well as older.

    • @ginnyhoch5226
      @ginnyhoch5226 Рік тому +15

      I wouldn’t do her yard after how she talked to you

    • @bastidface
      @bastidface Рік тому +4

      @@ginnyhoch5226 She's probably someone he knows who is acting the part in his video. The odds of these incidents happening to him while being caught on video so many times has to be astronomical.

    • @nancygodsey8312
      @nancygodsey8312 Рік тому +3

      Tell her the truth. You help the elderly who can't help themselves. She's not elderly and you can't help her. You have other jobs assisting the elderly after this job. She's not on the list.

    • @travismadison6552
      @travismadison6552 Рік тому

      No fucking way. She can go kick rocks.

  • @rbdunn
    @rbdunn Рік тому +9

    Unfortunately, there are so many people just like her in our world. Your willingness to offer her help was a lesson for us all. God bless you

  • @jasonmiller8775
    @jasonmiller8775 Рік тому +832

    I applaud how you talked to her while she was being rude to you.
    I love the irony of her yelling at you saying "I don't get no handouts" while asking you for a handout.

    • @billybilly3777
      @billybilly3777 Рік тому +8

      Out classing somebody is a lot more satisfying in that you show them what real control is by letting them know directly or indirectly that you don't possess a feeling they can hurt.

    • @barrysims9906
      @barrysims9906 Рік тому +13

      Its a business. Thats a proffesional guy rite there. Start a conversation with me and use the F 💣 and boom. Conversation never starts. Stay offh her propertie. Shes setting you up for something

    • @jamesmiksza8432
      @jamesmiksza8432 Рік тому

      00on

    • @wren8298
      @wren8298 Рік тому

      Right?!

    • @guitarplayer1434
      @guitarplayer1434 Рік тому +4

      I can assume where the man is

  • @angeladoll9785
    @angeladoll9785 Рік тому +288

    Absolutely don't reward that woman's bad behavior! What you do is special & there's plenty of kind people who'd actually appreciate you & treat you right, she doesn't deserve your time.

  • @janetalexander122
    @janetalexander122 Рік тому +598

    Can't believe how rude she was! I'm 68 years old with arthritis and I manage to do my mowing and snow clearing myself. Being pregnant doesn't mean you can't do yardwork. It's good exercise!

    • @Frankenberry
      @Frankenberry Рік тому +19

      Notice... When he asked about the husband... "He aint around"... Probably not lol.. because it's probably not her husband, it's probably some low life who's already moved on to her girlfriend now lol.

    • @tenderlymade
      @tenderlymade Рік тому +12

      Pound sand... 🤣💜 you are better than me. I was going to tell her go tell you man to mow since he obviously already bought the cow!

    • @reenwolf6066
      @reenwolf6066 Рік тому +19

      Right I just had my baby 2 months ago and I've shoveled snow twice in the last 3 wks she's just lazy n rude

    • @sharonglazier2552
      @sharonglazier2552 Рік тому +12

      I mowed grass and shoveled snow while I was pregnant. She has no excuse for being so rude.

    • @beatricesalas8461
      @beatricesalas8461 Рік тому +3

      Exactly!!

  • @kamenblackguy
    @kamenblackguy Рік тому +3

    Don’t get involved with a person like that. If she addresses you like that without knowing who you are then she’s a walking red flag.

  • @Bobert3659
    @Bobert3659 Рік тому +799

    That’s the strangest, meanest way of asking someone to help you I’ve seen in along time. Great job staying calm and not matching her rudeness.

    • @MyHome7_Carla
      @MyHome7_Carla Рік тому +2

      I don't think it's real. People do crazy things to get more likes. Sorry, but it's just too suspicious to me.

    • @BigMikey007
      @BigMikey007 Рік тому +21

      ​@@MyHome7_CarlaThere are other channels that cut yards and have people come up to them to start trouble. This isn't faked.

    • @squidvis
      @squidvis Рік тому +11

      ​@@MyHome7_Carla It's definitely real. I've just been standing in my yard before and had people come up to me to try and start fights.
      That's just part of living in society...

    • @winnieshrader6120
      @winnieshrader6120 Рік тому +4

      @@MyHome7_Carla Never heard of Karen’s before? There was a woman who pressed charges on a woman who attacked her while she was blowing leaves for the city.

    • @paullindner4387
      @paullindner4387 Рік тому +1

      😂

  • @SmileyRays
    @SmileyRays Рік тому +716

    Your calm, polite, and kind responses to the rude neighbor were masterful examples of de-escalation.

    • @Pooch747
      @Pooch747 Рік тому +15

      100% agreed! You're a good man for offering to help her after her display of entitlement!

    • @akronpianoman
      @akronpianoman Рік тому +9

      He is a gentleman and a scholar, as they say.

    • @tylercoombs1
      @tylercoombs1 Рік тому +6

      I learned something today

    • @JeffTY77450
      @JeffTY77450 Рік тому +18

      “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” Proverbs 15:1 NKJV

    • @eleanorcramer7986
      @eleanorcramer7986 Рік тому +5

      I will delete my judgement as I prefer the high road he takes.

  • @oscarestevez613
    @oscarestevez613 Рік тому +318

    Initially I thought she was angry for making noise or mowing someone's lawn without their permission. Then I realize she was just angry because nobody's helping her. The epitome of entitlement. But, I do have to say, you took the high road and de escalated the situation. Kudos to you.

    • @vidacastellanos
      @vidacastellanos Рік тому +7

      Who's going to help a rud, rotten child like that, she is behaving like a child. I would not help her a bit. Sorry not showing a bit of humble and demanding ,"Hell NO"

    • @Soaring561
      @Soaring561 Рік тому +2

      Rude! Does not deserve your help!

  • @angelaphipps6463
    @angelaphipps6463 11 місяців тому +10

    This gentleman was So Sweet. Thank you for everything you did. ❤️ ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @alicewilson6873
    @alicewilson6873 2 роки тому +307

    Lemme tell ya, you handled that way better than I would’ve. Ain’t NO way I would even touch that jealous filled person’s property for fear of being sued over violating her rights. 🙄

  • @lurveit
    @lurveit Рік тому +767

    She really walked all the way over there thinking that somebody mowing a lawn had anything to do with her and that “what the f*ck are you doing?” was the way to begin that interaction.

    • @MrKingkz
      @MrKingkz Рік тому +34

      He was way more polite then I would have been

    • @koltred
      @koltred Рік тому +11

      It's because men have never checked her. The dude should have shouted at her and instigated her, and then pepper sprayed her when she gets close and immediately call the police, especially considering the entire interaction is on camera. I'm sorry but this is seriously the only way to deal with feminist triggered women now. They dont check each other so someone has to or they will continue to get worse and more enraged and entitled and raise more gang member children.

    • @iluvmykatt
      @iluvmykatt Рік тому

      @@koltred Gang member children?? You mean hillbilly children.

    • @MrKingkz
      @MrKingkz Рік тому +2

      @@koltredI agree this is the best way to deal with them and the pepper spray is brilliant but remember not all of them become gang members dome become crack eds or live in there mums basement

    • @aryansigrid
      @aryansigrid Рік тому +2

      @@koltred At ease solider!

  • @okjoe5561
    @okjoe5561 2 роки тому +167

    That Karen seems strong and healthy, let her take care of her own yard. Stay as far away as you can from toxic people like that.

    • @OutdoorswithErik
      @OutdoorswithErik  2 роки тому +3

      People are going through a lot I guess these days

    • @achaney8872
      @achaney8872 2 роки тому +15

      That's a poor excuse for you to allow her to run over you and disrespect you. Please have more confidence in yourself. YOU DO NOT EVER DESERVE TO BE SPOKEN TO LIKE THAT.
      MY MIND IS BLOWN THE WAY SHE SPOKE TO YOU, THEN THOUGHT U WERE GOING TO CLEAN HER *TRASH* WOW 💥💥💥💥BOOM BOOM BOOM BOOM MY MIND BLOWING UP

    • @cherryrichardson9567
      @cherryrichardson9567 2 роки тому +2

      @@OutdoorswithErik Being too soft and making excuses for people is part of the problem.

    • @teepeeX
      @teepeeX 2 роки тому +1

      @@OutdoorswithErik no excuse for the approach and being absolutely disgusting towards you , and I think I would have said none of your business .... We see if baby's father is about ? So much trash for one

  • @justinbarton8808
    @justinbarton8808 День тому

    You handled that situation perfectly and then even offering to help her with her yard after cussing at you and whatever else.
    That’s selflessness. Inspiring.

  • @lilybug246
    @lilybug246 Рік тому +173

    The entitlement of this woman is incredible. Being pregnant does not mean you can’t take out the trash, keep your yard clean. I would not help her because she feels that the world owes her. You would be rewarding her behavior and in the words of Dr Phil: “You don’t reward bad behavior!!!”

    • @wolfhaddock8211
      @wolfhaddock8211 Рік тому +5

      I told him I wouldn't give that yard a second look I wouldn't do crap for that crazy lady

    • @taramay8174
      @taramay8174 Рік тому +1

      Maybe she was post natal 🤷‍♀️

  • @bonniehubbard4157
    @bonniehubbard4157 2 роки тому +429

    That's really unfortunate that some people can't just be happy for the people around them. You're doing something wonderful, and setting a great example for your son.

    • @blockhartinabox
      @blockhartinabox 2 роки тому +19

      That's a great point. Instead of coming down and saying,"Oh that's awesome you're helping them out! Do you think you might have time to check out my yard when you're done? I would so appreciate the help!" she came down angry they were helping them and not her. Unfortunate indeed.

    • @MichaelRei99
      @MichaelRei99 2 роки тому

      Cleaning up after lazy freeloading scum is not charity it’s aiding and abetting! Those people that supposedly needed help should have been waiting for this guy and thanking him but guess what? They’ll be expecting more in the future. WTF is wrong with you people??

    • @teridoster5840
      @teridoster5840 2 роки тому +6

      That was my first thought

    • @SimplyJeannie
      @SimplyJeannie 2 роки тому +1

      I have a child I am trying to care for that is this way.. no matter how I try to show him to be happy for others he just can’t handle if the attention n accolades and topic isn’t about him… so yea it’s true some just can’t be happy …

  • @michaeldrummey2754
    @michaeldrummey2754 2 роки тому +167

    My man, your response to that woman was Saint level. I subscribed to your channel because of that one interaction. The lady is scared, pregnant, no partner. She was never taught life skills and doesn't even know how to ask for help in a civil manner. What you just showed 98 percent of us is even when someone "deserves" a harsh response, kindness still wins. Erik For President 2024

    • @Bubbles99718
      @Bubbles99718 2 роки тому +28

      Scared?
      She walked up to a strange man, yelled at him and then made demands.
      No fear there. She's thoroughly obnoxious

    • @anordinarymom
      @anordinarymom 2 роки тому +12

      @@Bubbles99718 scared people lash out in anger all the time.

    • @Bubbles99718
      @Bubbles99718 2 роки тому +8

      @@anordinarymom That was a long walk, er "lash out"

    • @alexanderdukes5351
      @alexanderdukes5351 2 роки тому +8

      @@Bubbles99718 exactly like somebody owed her something, people are to privileged these days. That was literally the thing I’ve never witnessed.

    • @solomoon3083
      @solomoon3083 2 роки тому +2

      Hahaha. You read that all wrong bud. Saint like? Pffttt. That’s nuts. You don’t get to speak to people like that and then get something done for you. She can walk across the street. She can pick up trash. Period. Awful human being.

  • @alvykerans825
    @alvykerans825 6 місяців тому +3

    told the Karen. why people don't help her is her attitude. In what i've seen, you do a good job helping people

  • @DelmarToad
    @DelmarToad Рік тому +157

    Not only is she a nasty Karen, coming over cursing you out, then she starts becoming all entitled & demanding “handouts” because she’s lazy to even clean the trash out of her yard!

    • @sr2291
      @sr2291 Рік тому +2

      She's pregnant.

    • @domahand7636
      @domahand7636 Рік тому +5

      @@sr2291 so what? She's pregnant, not disabled. She can pick up her own trash. Should start with herself

    • @DelmarToad
      @DelmarToad Рік тому +2

      @@sr2291 why didn't she say so? everyone knows there's no lawn care during gestation! I mean, come on Everett, why do you think there’s so many unkempt lawns around? ‘Cuz there’s a woman gestating nearby!

    • @kic.7679
      @kic.7679 Рік тому

      @@sr2291 My grandmother worked in fields while she was nine months pregnant, literally until the baby came out. That woman being a pregnant is no excuse for not at least picking up trash. She doesn’t deserve anything. Maybe a slap across the face. Pregnant and all.

    • @davidbarr2283
      @davidbarr2283 Рік тому

      @@DelmarToadpregnancy is an excuse. Pregnant women used to work in field until delivery.

  • @tedgermann3904
    @tedgermann3904 2 роки тому +287

    No surprise her husband is not anywhere to be found.
    You're a good man Erik! We need more people like you in this world!

    • @OutdoorswithErik
      @OutdoorswithErik  2 роки тому +16

      I make mistakes like everyone else, but, i try to help where I can

    • @andrewclayterman6230
      @andrewclayterman6230 2 роки тому +3

      Most likely a lazy black guy.. we love them big gals..

    • @williameckert306
      @williameckert306 2 роки тому +16

      Don’t mow Karen’s yard. Someone as rude and selfish like that deserves nothing from you.

    • @MNard-sy1kf
      @MNard-sy1kf 2 роки тому +1

      @@andrewclayterman6230
      My Goodness, why you talking about your Sister like that 🫵🏾

    • @andrewclayterman6230
      @andrewclayterman6230 2 роки тому

      @@MNard-sy1kf i WAS REFERRING TO YOUR MOM..

  • @joanczarra-jn8ov
    @joanczarra-jn8ov Рік тому +551

    An angry woman who made bad choices in life and now she’s dealing with consequences. Not sure I’d involve myself. Her foul mouth was enough for me! You are a great human being!!

    • @Kirsty178
      @Kirsty178 Рік тому +1

      How do you know she made bad choices? The Dad could have died or left her! Not everything is within our control!

    • @lyndseyhorn
      @lyndseyhorn Рік тому +14

      @kristy178 that’s why you should spend time finding a good husband/father before making babies. Smh. You really think he was an upstanding guy before he left her alone with a baby? If he passed away, that’s another story and a sad one. But that didn’t sound like the case here

    • @Wifey-mg4ig
      @Wifey-mg4ig Рік тому +5

      @@Kirsty178looks like daddy should have made better choices. Oh wait in later episodes it’s just a dead beat boyfriend and she is trying to get a free service 😮🫢🤭🫣😂🤣

    • @mizzmini45
      @mizzmini45 Рік тому

      That’s exactly what I thought!!

    • @annedon776
      @annedon776 Рік тому

      @@Kirsty178that thing, she is just trash with pants on! So rude.

  • @claudesolomon8645
    @claudesolomon8645 5 місяців тому +1

    Why can't people appreciate what other people are doing and just go about the business great job God has a blessing coming your way

  • @NaughtyShepherd
    @NaughtyShepherd 2 роки тому +1350

    If she can walk across the street to bother you, she can walk into her own yard and pick up trash. Also, what someone else said about not messing with crazy people is damn good advice. You’ll never get rid of her if you do that favor.

    • @junezollo7645
      @junezollo7645 2 роки тому +33

      What you do for those in need is a God send. This woman's approach n demeanor is way off. Steer clear of her and all the other haters. Good Bless you and your family.

    • @shanli2693
      @shanli2693 2 роки тому +20

      Helping crazy is like feeding stray animals.

    • @petersdotter1
      @petersdotter1 Рік тому +7

      I can walk across the street, but I cannot pick up trash. Some people have hidden health issues but look ok on the outside. I'm one of them.

    • @NaughtyShepherd
      @NaughtyShepherd Рік тому +14

      @@petersdotter1 I’m sorry to hear that, and I wish you the best. I would like to point out that I was referring specifically to the lady in this video not the entire population of earth. She isn’t suffering from anything other than a bad attitude with a pinch of entitlement.

    • @sherrienale9974
      @sherrienale9974 Рік тому +1

      @Naughty Shepherd Some people needing certain help and services could actually barter help they can do in exchange...Baked goods,,ironing...etc..

  • @lisabailey2515
    @lisabailey2515 2 роки тому +256

    The fact that you would even consider taking care of her yard says so much about you! 😊

  • @pamlongwhite4747
    @pamlongwhite4747 2 роки тому +96

    I'd give that woman and her yard a pass. Anyone who would swear at me that way and then ask for free yard service is not on my help list.
    You do a wonderful job !!

  • @JohnOBryan
    @JohnOBryan 2 роки тому +404

    If she can walk up the street to yell at you, she can walk around her yard with a push mower. There's 0% chance I would step one foot on her property. Not only does she think she's entitled, but clearly has no boundaries.

    • @lilliansantiago8803
      @lilliansantiago8803 2 роки тому +32

      Unfortunately, that is the state of the world nowadays. Ungrateful people thinking they are entitled to everything they see! You are a good man, maybe sometimes you can turn the other cheek. But not this time!

    • @Cawaki1967
      @Cawaki1967 2 роки тому +18

      She's not a great full person or no humility at all... But some time you kan be much better person after you clean her yard just explain to her NEXTIME just ask politely now she is on the internet net as a ongratefully , jealous neighbour.

    • @annemarieacosta8775
      @annemarieacosta8775 2 роки тому +29

      No wonder she has no man around !!!!°

    • @chennel9450
      @chennel9450 2 роки тому +6

      @@Cawaki1967 oohh No...

    • @OutdoorswithErik
      @OutdoorswithErik  2 роки тому +6

      That is a good point

  • @bettycudworth6626
    @bettycudworth6626 5 місяців тому +1

    Our society is sick....
    Thank you for all you do...God will Bless you greatly. Please take care and b safe...

  • @terrib4690
    @terrib4690 2 роки тому +337

    I’m impressed with your calm, respectful, and kind response when this woman was cursing at you in her first sentence. So bizarre that she had that demeanor immediately without inquiring first. You definitely were an example to all of how to deescalate a person with an unwarranted bad attitude with your humble and Christlike response.

    • @paulahaller
      @paulahaller 2 роки тому +17

      There was even a correction with charity "With an attitude like yours I can't blame them."

    • @kimberlyhampton5332
      @kimberlyhampton5332 2 роки тому +7

      Well stated

    • @cynthiatolman326
      @cynthiatolman326 2 роки тому +2

      I believe she has some mental problems right now, I hope she gets some help

    • @terrib4690
      @terrib4690 2 роки тому +4

      @@cynthiatolman326 agreed. Very sad. I hope she will strive to become a better person to give this child on the way a good upbringing…better than the one she apparently received.🙏🏻

    • @checkfactschecking
      @checkfactschecking 2 роки тому +7

      Christian response??? That's a well nurtured human response and has nothing to do with religion!

  • @drummergirl495
    @drummergirl495 2 роки тому +194

    Wow, I’m saying NO to Karen. You are so kind and helpful and using your time, equipment, fuel to help this family and I’m still shaking my head over this one. You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness….❤

  • @DerbyMom
    @DerbyMom 2 роки тому +362

    If anyone has the wherewithal to come up to a stranger doing a good deed and speak like that, they have the wherewithal to figure out their own issues. She’s needy, not in need.
    Thank you for your service to others. It’s a blessing to see people doing things like this in todays world.

  • @wrenisme
    @wrenisme 11 місяців тому

    Thank you for not blocking her face out. Some people are truly incredible.

  • @duncanyoung5903
    @duncanyoung5903 2 роки тому +404

    That young woman needs to learn that you attract more bees with honey than you do with sour lemons. You did a great job of talking her down off the ledge. I sure hope she at least said ‘thank you’ after you went down and looked at her place. You’re a commendable human being. The world needs more of you!

  • @AudreyTomlinson
    @AudreyTomlinson 2 роки тому +213

    Your response to her shows what a thoughtful person you are. Personally, I would have suggested to her that next time she sees you or someone who is helping someone else, that she ask if you would be kind enough to help her, not cuss and rant. She may need the help, but she needs more to learn how to approach people and appreciate others.

  • @timtonner946
    @timtonner946 Рік тому +539

    Taking care of an elderly person's yard for free, and then taking the high road (rather than going off on her) to evaluate/possibly help this young woman with her yard is really inspiring. You're a truly righteous dude...

    • @fredmercury1314
      @fredmercury1314 Рік тому +6

      Real men don't have their behaviour dictated by the behaviour of others. You don't have to respect everyone or their stupid ideas but treating everyone with courtesy, speaks volumes about who you are, while saying nothing about who they are.

    • @jstewart3517
      @jstewart3517 Рік тому +5

      Only thong this did is condone her rude behavior ( this is how she gets what she wants ) tell her start mowing her own

    • @candieschonauer4083
      @candieschonauer4083 Рік тому +1

      @@jstewart3517 EXACTLY!!!

    • @mandyvahrenkamp4018
      @mandyvahrenkamp4018 Рік тому

      She isn't a woman. I wonder if she knows who the dad is.

  • @grahgrah222
    @grahgrah222 Рік тому +1

    You handled that in such a kind way. I don't think I would have tried to help her. My hats off to you sir.

  • @xDarkTrinityx
    @xDarkTrinityx Рік тому +315

    Perfect response- "with an attitude like yours I can't blame them". I was thinking exactly that.
    The entitlement... she could've come over and kindly asked for help or asked what he charges... but to demand help like this is insane.

    • @treeherder2201
      @treeherder2201 Рік тому +20

      She was never told "no" as a child. That's what produces these people.

    • @RosemarieHomeWorks
      @RosemarieHomeWorks Рік тому +9

      💯%!!! What you do for people is charity, out of the kindness of your heart. What Miss “Karen” wants is ENTITLEMENT. She thinks YOU owe her! Don’t get involved. You might find her suing you for damages to her property. Walk away. ❤

    • @Lifeletnothingholdudown
      @Lifeletnothingholdudown Рік тому +2

      ​@@treeherder2201 She probably was abused and treated badly this is how people act when they are hurting inside she may not know how to ask nicely. We really don't know what this woman has been through. What I am saying does not excuse her attitude though. She needs awareness of self and maybe a little kindness would help her to change.

    • @davidb9114
      @davidb9114 Рік тому

      And he actually went to help her. That's more insane.

    • @treasureyourtime
      @treasureyourtime Рік тому

      @@davidb9114he went over to look so she’d calm down and leave him alone. What we didn’t see or hear was what he told her.

  • @LoriAbner
    @LoriAbner Рік тому +436

    What an awful person. There’s no way I’d do her yard or have any contact with that whatsoever. You’re a good guy helping people that need some help for free. We need more people like you in this world and a lot less of whatever that was across the street.

    • @Eaaaaaattmyasss
      @Eaaaaaattmyasss Рік тому +10

      100% agree

    • @zubileegluckgluck
      @zubileegluckgluck Рік тому +6

      this is most likely the second and third generation without a father in the home. this is what happens.

    • @pamelacicic4755
      @pamelacicic4755 Рік тому +25

      I would not mow that Karen's yard! She complained that the house you're mowing always gets handouts! She was baiting you to give her a handout because she was jealous that you were mowing this yard! You are a good man Eric, don't let Karen's like that one make you feel sorry for her! She is a bully, walking up to you talking like she did. God Bless you Eric!

    • @cherylclifton1198
      @cherylclifton1198 Рік тому +6

      @@pamelacicic4755 you are exactly right. She’s just jealous.

    • @pgee886
      @pgee886 Рік тому

      I would say Karen is Jealous of the elderly neighbour, and also, just looking for a freebie. Karen is young, she can do her own yard (Pregnant or not), just does not want to. Keep up the great work, pay no attention to this attention wh0re.

  • @mrmario11
    @mrmario11 2 роки тому +196

    Sir, I give credit to you for not losing your temper by the way she talked to you. Your reaction was incredible and loving. Most people would have cussed her out but you were a gentleman. Hats off to you.

    • @markdrum2392
      @markdrum2392 2 роки тому +2

      Unfortunately that great attitude of yours will go to naught. You just can't ve nice to some people.

    • @MegaBoricuakid
      @MegaBoricuakid 2 роки тому

      @@markdrum2392 yea who fukn cares a kudos from you didn't avert the anxiety he had and won't correct the issue the issue of the woman's entitlement. You can't be the bigger man every time because if you're the bigger man too often you're around too many little people.

  • @cjfavela2056
    @cjfavela2056 11 місяців тому +1

    “With an attitude like yours I don’t blame them” 😂💀
    You’re a champ dude. Keep up the good work

  • @mimz1173
    @mimz1173 Рік тому +290

    She can pick up her own sticks and trash for all I care. 😂 The aggression, self pity and entitlement is astonishing. Nobody forced her to buy a house with a lawn to care for. Nobody forced her to throw trash in her own yard. She’s not disabled. She’s pregnant. Hopefully from her own free will. How dare she question why an elderly couple needs help with their home. How dare she verbally assault someone who’s helping someone for free. Wow. You’re doing the lord’s work man!!

    • @buckshot6481
      @buckshot6481 Рік тому +5

      I would have told her that the Neighbors took up a collection and Hired me to do that lawn so talk to the Neighbors.

    • @johnlennox-pe2nq
      @johnlennox-pe2nq Рік тому +2

      but....are we not perpetrating bad behaviour --- we need to love our neighbour;
      of course if her hubby is at home, or she has 3 lazy brothers, well...

    • @owendyer787
      @owendyer787 Рік тому

      she has got a disabled brain

    • @Charlie-zj3hw
      @Charlie-zj3hw Рік тому

      RENT

    • @tenderlymade
      @tenderlymade Рік тому +2

      And let's also mention the young man (son?) who also helped!!!! Bravo 👏

  • @danabia7361
    @danabia7361 Рік тому +533

    She acted as if you owed her something? Very rude, you’re doing an excellent job, don’t let that person try and get a freebie out of you.😅

    • @ROBLOVESTHECORE7
      @ROBLOVESTHECORE7 Рік тому +20

      Should've told her to go graze with the rest of the herd.

    • @doomslayerforever2858
      @doomslayerforever2858 Рік тому +16

      Not surprised her baby daddy ain't around

    • @julienewman1761
      @julienewman1761 Рік тому +8

      @@doomslayerforever2858 he was fed up with her nagging. 😂

    • @chouseification
      @chouseification Рік тому

      I would have told her to find the baby daddy to cut her lawn... only because of her attitude.

    • @Hena158
      @Hena158 Рік тому +3

      Agreed

  • @marinabrooks6683
    @marinabrooks6683 Рік тому +45

    She just stood there until you agreed to her demands. This made my blood boil. I wouldn’t give her a minute of my time. Pregnant and alone or not, she is quite capable of tidying her own yard. I hope she learns to be kinder and less entitled when her baby arrives.

  • @P2qt5827T
    @P2qt5827T 2 місяці тому

    You help people free of charge just to be helpful and sometimes they treat you so wrong you've got a big heart

  • @averagejoe415
    @averagejoe415 Рік тому +121

    17:42 “Where’s your husband?”
    “Not around”
    Can’t say I blame him.

  • @michaelshearer3559
    @michaelshearer3559 Рік тому +271

    She is angry, and wants to blame everyone else for her misfortune. She literally is mad at them for getting help, and could have easily asked you kindly if you could help her. Instead she wants to yell at you for helping that house and not hers. Beyond ignorant.

    • @voyagerdrift
      @voyagerdrift Рік тому +1

      ik poor kid :/

    • @mymotherwasright3079
      @mymotherwasright3079 Рік тому +7

      🗣️Don't do Karen's yard. Next thing you know, you'll be sued and on Judge Judy Show!!! For Real!!!😮

    • @TheAAnne123
      @TheAAnne123 Рік тому +3

      She should have said no to the baby daddy

    • @Nunya100
      @Nunya100 Рік тому +1

      This is what entertainment looks like!

  • @MrSpartanicus
    @MrSpartanicus Рік тому +440

    Honestly, I thought I’d watch this just for the Karen encounter but like all landscaping videos, I get drawn in watching the transformation. Don’t let that bitter old busybody deter you from helping others!

  • @nixkolaas
    @nixkolaas Рік тому +9

    You handled that way better than I would have.

  • @ednonkhan3645
    @ednonkhan3645 2 роки тому +208

    You’re a good dude, I love how you said to the Karen “Not with an attitude like that”, she really didn’t need to cuss you out especially if she’s asking help herself. She mentioned the neighbors already have mowers and just asking for handouts, so how does she know that? Sometimes it’s just neighbors that genuinely hate each other and can’t coexist, it’s unfortunate but that’s America . Keep up the good work!!

    • @d.h.4778
      @d.h.4778 2 роки тому +11

      And to then ask for a handout herself? Like.. what?

    • @graphsicimagevinyls5882
      @graphsicimagevinyls5882 2 роки тому +12

      i think its great that he does nice things for folks, but he should NOT do anything for that rude woman, giving in to her behavior actually enables her bad attitude and she will learn nothing from the experience.

  • @janicerhyne9669
    @janicerhyne9669 2 роки тому +143

    The way you handle the situation, making a kind congratulations about her baby, was so honorable and set the tone back to calm, well done!

    • @emiliaescobar7652
      @emiliaescobar7652 2 роки тому +1

      Truly, this man has wisdom/patience & respect, but I hope he just stays away from that neighborhood!

  • @debbiemelillo2011
    @debbiemelillo2011 2 роки тому +178

    This man is such a gentle man. He handled that confrontation so lovingly and with so much care. Thank you Sir, you make me proud to be a human being ❤

    • @darladear1174
      @darladear1174 2 роки тому +6

      I would not help her out she is acting entitled and when she said she never gets help tell her to get ahold of her local church

    • @MrsK976
      @MrsK976 Рік тому +5

      @@darladear1174 meet evil with kindness. Shine light and the darkness must flee. Dark can’t exist in the light. Jesus is Lord.

    • @Partoftheshow
      @Partoftheshow Рік тому

      @@MrsK976 uh...what? Lol

  • @karenjones1897
    @karenjones1897 3 місяці тому +1

    speaking for a whole lotta karens, most of us are just plain nice and friendly.

  • @mrmichaelhallett
    @mrmichaelhallett 2 роки тому +93

    Seeing your son working hard alongside you like that gives me some renewed hope for his generation.

  • @innerpeace1725
    @innerpeace1725 Рік тому +189

    Still cant believe the audacity for someone to walk up to a stranger and speak to them like that. I already feel bad for her child!

    • @fritzhenning1
      @fritzhenning1 Рік тому +2

      There was someone around (6.03). This all looks a bit weird....why set up a camera and operator if you just turned up to do a good turn if you weren't expecting a Karen intervention. Am I missing something?

    • @EmperorOfMan
      @EmperorOfMan Рік тому +3

      @@fritzhenning1 I think u had a stroke

    • @fritzhenning1
      @fritzhenning1 Рік тому

      @@EmperorOfMan But explain the purpose of the filming? Do normal people get filmed mowing/clearing a backyard over several hours and with multi-camera angles? There's probably a simple explanation. And why no contact with the occupant of the house, who was clearly at home? Please speculate.

    • @hartzell7407
      @hartzell7407 Рік тому

      @@fritzhenning1 Perhaps liability issues. Just in case there was a claim of damage or other problems, to document their activity on someone else's property. You know the old, cynical saying: "No good deed goes unpunished."

    • @fritzhenning1
      @fritzhenning1 Рік тому

      @@hartzell7407 Maybe, but you don't really believe that?

  • @ernestoberger7589
    @ernestoberger7589 Рік тому +343

    "With an attitude like yours, I can't blame them!" This was priceless, man! Straightforward, yet polite. Besides, that woman is batshit crazy. I'm definitely subscribing to see your content!

    • @ctt544
      @ctt544 Рік тому +10

      She didn't even process that. "I don't ever get handouts" she said again. What a weird mentality to have while being so rude.

    • @bruce8359
      @bruce8359 Рік тому +1

      well done guy ...england proud of guys like u

  • @davidfisher9026
    @davidfisher9026 6 місяців тому +1

    She grudged the help you were giving to one needy person but wanted the same for herself. Screw her ! If she had come up and praised your effort to help another, I'm sure you would have enjoyed helping her too.

  • @candicebarwell-beck4526
    @candicebarwell-beck4526 2 роки тому +151

    What made Karen think coming over and cussing at you would make you want to lend her a helping hand? People are legit crazy now days. Blessings to you & your family.

  • @danielcarroll4936
    @danielcarroll4936 Рік тому +388

    Wow, you're an absolute gentleman, the way she approached you and yet you still managed to see her humanity and showed her such grace and humility, you're a good person and an inspiration, thank you for your kindness

    • @StandWatie1862
      @StandWatie1862 Рік тому +11

      Better person than me. I would have called her the C word immediately.

    • @thelasthokage4347
      @thelasthokage4347 Рік тому +12

      Being nice to these clowns only encourages their bad behavior

    • @JP-jn2yx
      @JP-jn2yx Рік тому +4

      He's an impressive guy. I wish I still had his temperament, but the world has really jaded me. I'd have told her to F off then gotten a jab in about her running her man off.

    • @cynthiastauffer8012
      @cynthiastauffer8012 Рік тому +4

      Kindness begets kindness ✨️

    • @StandWatie1862
      @StandWatie1862 Рік тому +2

      @cynthia stauffer or future entitlement

  • @ahehe_
    @ahehe_ Рік тому +450

    The way you showed her compassion and kindness when she was treating you like that speaks a lot about your character. Her demeanor changed when you replied to her because she probably wasn’t expecting such a kind response. You are willing to help anyone in need or at least take the time to hear their concern. I commend you for the work you do and the way you carry yourself!

    • @charleneblack2792
      @charleneblack2792 Рік тому +12

      Well, usually, one wouldn't expect kindness when confronting someone with such vitriol and entitlement. She may be in a bad spot, but it's her own choices that led her there.

    • @ErnestPiffel
      @ErnestPiffel Рік тому +1

      Well of course he’s going to respond with kindness……..he knows there’s a camera running….. she doesn’t.

    • @ahehe_
      @ahehe_ Рік тому +1

      @@charleneblack2792 I agree. She needs to reevaluate her mindset & do better. Not everyone is going to react kindly to her entitlement but she luckily came across a good person who was nice enough to give her a chance. The world needs more good people!

    • @WrighteousBrand
      @WrighteousBrand Рік тому +6

      I could learn a few things from this man cause I don’t know if I would have been as nice as he was. I pray God will help me to develop this kind of compassion and live for people. I use to be like that but I allow society to change me.

    • @ronhanson6054
      @ronhanson6054 Рік тому +9

      No wonder the husband's not around!

  • @robinreed1688
    @robinreed1688 6 місяців тому +2

    I don’t think she deserves your help. That is not how you ask for help.

  • @dorisatkinson7259
    @dorisatkinson7259 2 роки тому +214

    For what you are doing out of plain simple human compassion, you deserve so much better than the response you got from that woman who obviously has problems that no lawn mower in the world can fix. Sending you gratitude for just knowing that there are still guys like you in this world. Thanks

    • @robertdillon9989
      @robertdillon9989 2 роки тому +7

      You can’t reward selfish hostility, let her mow her own trash.

    • @texgowing7359
      @texgowing7359 2 роки тому +3

      Well bloody said Doris, spot on👍💙🌹

  • @susanhocking7836
    @susanhocking7836 Рік тому +371

    Heck no! I’ve not seen such a RUDE individual in a long time! She created her own circumstances. She needs to clean up her own yard! Thank you for helping those who are truly in need! Much love!

    • @TheGrapestar23
      @TheGrapestar23 Рік тому +12

      "Is that your yard with the trash? Where is your husband?"

    • @RAimotion
      @RAimotion Рік тому +2

      spot on Susan

    • @realitybytes406
      @realitybytes406 Рік тому +3

      People create their own reality and "reap what they sow". I'll bet everyone you've helped is so grateful. Keep up the great work!

    • @pickrich5827
      @pickrich5827 Рік тому +4

      Entitlement is a real problem. That's what happens when there isn't accountability

  • @haydenhodges34
    @haydenhodges34 Рік тому +338

    I love how you are helping people in need.
    Congratulating her on the baby was a classy touch.

    • @MisAo-zg5yj
      @MisAo-zg5yj Рік тому +17

      that poor baby Gon end up like her SMH

    • @hazepheno925
      @hazepheno925 Рік тому +10

      My condolences for the child though. Raised by a single mother like that :*(

    • @trains3501
      @trains3501 Рік тому +5

      This is why in Australia we all have boundary fencing keep the Nosey Parker’s at bay

    • @ianarmstrong9594
      @ianarmstrong9594 Рік тому +6

      She was totally rude then expects her work to be done for free

    • @55chevytruck
      @55chevytruck Рік тому +1

      I wonder who banded that?

  • @joannefamelio1412
    @joannefamelio1412 Місяць тому +1

    Agree, nothing but Trouble lurking down there!!! Don't do her place!!!

  • @k-dawg3893
    @k-dawg3893 2 роки тому +112

    Just when you feel like your faith in humanity is restored, someone like that waltzs in. Good job taking the high road with her, that must've been tough. Nice job on the cleanup anyway!

  • @januaryrose2989
    @januaryrose2989 2 роки тому +121

    She doesn’t realize how stupid she looks. I don’t know why she couldn’t mind her own, you aren’t hurting anyone. Thanks for handling that the way you did. The definition of killing with kindness 💜

  • @zaxthedestroyer675
    @zaxthedestroyer675 Рік тому +178

    There's ways to approach people if you need help. Walking up to someone and initiating first contact with "What the f*** are you doing?" Isn't a good start. Props to you for even acknowledging her and handling the situation the way you did.