I would do her yard to be kind. Then tell her you know the reason ppl don't help u out is because of ur attitude and potty mouth. Maybe if u were nice to ppl then they would help you
How did that lady even know anything about what you are doing? She works but wants “handouts” and she sure appeared able bodied. She wants you to pick up her trash for her?
She doesn't get help because of how she behaves. She is so rude and expects people to do nice things when she is full of attitude. I'd never help her for any reason ever!
Don’t get involved with a crazy person like that. Next you know she’ll be saying you wrecked something on her property. I would’ve told her to go pound sand.
"With an attitude like yours, I can't blame 'em." PERFECT response to a blatantly rude individual. I would not give her another minute of your time; you're out helping people in need; she doesn't deserve the help with the way she approached you. Keep up the good work, sir.
So wrong . She was angry at her situation. Pregnancy hormones are going all over the place. What she needs is some kindness in her life, so she doesn't feel overwhelmed and alone. We can never know what someone else's life is or isn't. I would hate for someone to judge me because of a crazy rant .
I agree with "DON’T mow that crazy woman’s yard! The fact that she came over ORDERING you not to mow the yard you were currently mowing, as if it’s any of her business, then proceeding to DEMAND that you provide her a free yard cleanup?!? Nope! No way. Pregnant or not, she’s plenty capable of cleaning up her own trash, and her rude/obnoxious demands of you were over the top! " Too many people think just because you do something nice for one of their neighbors that they are ENTITLED to the same from you. Tell her you are committed elsewhere and you can see her in a few years!
When he asked "where's your husband?" and she says "not around". My instant reaction was "I can't imagine why!". If they go do anything for her (for free), they're just enabling.
@@davewilson4528 The victim mentality is crippling the world. People put themselves in these situations then turn around and pretend it's everybody else's fault. That's called narcissism and it's on the rise along with being a victim in everything. We live in a world where people can say whatever they want to you, the second you give them a dose of their own medicine, they're a victim. It's fucking disgusting.
I second that! After the way she spoke to you? I wouldn't do anything for her. She's upset because you're helping some elderly people? SERIOUSLY!! Even if they got 20 mowers out there - what business is if of hers???? She was downright rude & belligerent!!!
No wonder her husband isn't around! She needs to mind her own business and clean up her own trash. I question her "sense of fairness" If she can't see her neighbor's need. She should be glad that someone is helping them! A sure sign of an overgrown spoiled child.
She's the kind person who the minute you leave her property something comes up missing and it's your fault. Best to stay away from those types of situations.
If she was truly pregnant not just big, cut her a little bit of Slack the bad attitude could be influenced by those pregnancy hormones. He should be careful though and do a thorough walkthrough with her before he starts and after so there's no hands-free issues later.
@@janew7008being pregnant is no excuse for being rude and expecting free stuff I’ve never met a pregnant woman who e expected people to give them free stuff pregnancy does not give you the right to speak to people rudely and and expect free services
You seem like a nice fella. I bet if she had thanked you for helping her neighbor and then kindly explained her situation and asked for help, you would’ve helped her. A little gentleness and humility goes a long way, folks!
I have known plenty of pregnant moms who could mow their own yards and take out their own trash. Took care of their own and didn't flip out if someone else helped others. She's nuts.
It could be just hormons messing her up. She is going to have though times ahead as a single mom. Of course there are many hard working women and men, but even more there are ppl like her. Maybe little help changes her a bit.
DON’T mow that crazy woman’s yard! The fact that she came over ORDERING you not to mow the yard you were currently mowing, as if it’s any of her business, then proceeding to DEMAND that you provide her a free yard cleanup?!? Nope! No way. Pregnant or not, she’s plenty capable of cleaning up her own trash, and her rude/obnoxious demands of you were over the top! I suggest a respectful “I understand you’d like a free cleanup, but I’ll have to decline based on how rude you approached me, and the fact that you, first, stuck your nose in my business, and secondly, demanded, rather than simply and politely requested, help. Perhaps, if there’s a next time, you should consider being nicer to folks helping others for free? You’ll get farther being nicer”. She doesn’t deserve your kindness if she can’t even show some herself. We’re all tired of people like this. Give them an inch, they’ll take a mile. Sheesh 🙄
Yes if she will tear into a complete stranger like this, then she is capable of pretty much anything. Including false blame for damage to her yard and lawsuits. There is a reason her baby's father is not in the picture. Her bizarre actions in this video tell us all we need to know about her.
Not to mention she cussed at him. No wonder her man is not around. I'd run to. Pregnancy hormones or not, respect can still be given. Like women mind blown then really thought he would do her lawn. 😂 😂 And if you do mow and pick up her TRASH... Well..... Well everyone knows where that could lead to.....
This is a perfect example of the difference in personalities of people. A person wanting to give you a pair a gloves to keep you warm, and another mad that you are doing something nice for someone else.
(Yelling) "Come and do MY lawn. No-one ever comes over and does MY lawn" "With an attitude like yours, I'm not surprised!" Best response ever, well done my man!!
Thanks for What You do! ❤ 1 parent in wheelchair, Other crippled fm broken vertebrae, no insured hit n run. and People Like You made things possible for families to continue life through the healing! Bless You Dude! 🙏❤️
Honestly, the way she talked to you, I'd never do her lawn. She had no respect for what you were doing and why. The dad's not around, and now we all know why. You and your son are awesome for doing what you do.
Yeah if she just asked nicely he would have probably done her yard, but she acted like a bitch. This is a good lesson, if you want someone to help you out, treat them nicely. I worked in retail and if a customer was nice to me I would go above and beyond to help them, but if they acted like a douche I would do the bare minimum to help them.
Exactly, I would not do anything with her house. She’s capable to do things. She approached you disrespectfully, cursed at you. You can’t reward that kind of behavior.
She'll try and extort money from you or something...there's a good reason her neighbors didn't call on you to do her yard... Plus, I think she's a liar,; "husband isn't around" is pretty cryptic, he's probably at work.
Seeing a man with such patience really makes me think I should do better myself. Props to you for handling that well man, can't say I'd have been as kind. Keep doing what your doing man, love the videos.
Her yard was probably full of trash before she got pregnant. Ask her what acts of kindness she’s done for others then preach the gospel to her as a bonus
I applaud how you talked to her while she was being rude to you. I love the irony of her yelling at you saying "I don't get no handouts" while asking you for a handout.
Out classing somebody is a lot more satisfying in that you show them what real control is by letting them know directly or indirectly that you don't possess a feeling they can hurt.
Its a business. Thats a proffesional guy rite there. Start a conversation with me and use the F 💣 and boom. Conversation never starts. Stay offh her propertie. Shes setting you up for something
@@MyHome7_Carla It's definitely real. I've just been standing in my yard before and had people come up to me to try and start fights. That's just part of living in society...
@@MyHome7_Carla Never heard of Karen’s before? There was a woman who pressed charges on a woman who attacked her while she was blowing leaves for the city.
If I were you, I would not mow her yard. Had she approached you in a different way, asking for help, then yes. But, she is basically bullying you into getting help. Thank you for all the kindness you spread.
Couldn’t agree more. She doesn’t deserve your kindness. In the absence of a heartfelt apology, her inexplicable ugliness towards you while your were helping a neighbor automatically disqualifies her. She’d only be taking advantage of your huge hearts.
Being an elderly person myself I think what you are doing for people is such a nice thing to do. To give if yourself and your time is so admirable. That Karen should be ashamed herself talking to you the way she did. I know it’s hard to just ignore someone like that but she did not deserve one minute of your time. Thank you for doing this for needy seniors. We really need more people in this world like you. Thank you for your contribution to the needy. Much love to you sir
I too am elderly and love seeing this. Young no baby daddy will need to be self sufficient. I mowed yard, yard maintenance, worked outside the home, etc when my babies were new as well as older.
@@ginnyhoch5226 She's probably someone he knows who is acting the part in his video. The odds of these incidents happening to him while being caught on video so many times has to be astronomical.
Tell her the truth. You help the elderly who can't help themselves. She's not elderly and you can't help her. You have other jobs assisting the elderly after this job. She's not on the list.
You're a kind compassionate man. That woman was rude and disrespectful. I'd think twice about doing her yard. If you do, the pre requisite should be she cleans out her own trash. Keep doing your humanitarian work and ignore the haters.
She is very rude and aggressive - there are far better ways of asking for help than putting others down, even if your situation is worse. You handled that very well.
My thought exactly. Why not come over and ask what’s happening instead of acting all high and mighty??? Besides, I may have asked her why she didn’t call the owners if she was so concerned since they are the ones containing me! Some people!
There was no reason for her to that rude and obnoxious! Eric, I hope she went in and watched some of your videos! Your transformations are not just a benefit for the homeowner, but the whole surrounding neighborhood! I’m glad that at least one neighbor offered you and your son some gloves! That neighbor deserves a clean up, not the rude one! Stay safe and well…
Totally out of order. Language. The sense of entitlement from that one is totally OTT. No rights whatsoever to question why you are helping someone else at all; completely your business. When I was pregnant and had just broken up with my ex, I moved out and had a fractured ankle to deal with soon after on crutches (fortunately left and not right so I could still drive) 7 months pregnant. I did not ask for help from anyone and no family in the state. I paid for a taxi once to collect a few items from a store and paid for a gardener when it was required. I never expected help from any sector, let alone interfere with others going about their own business. That woman walked over to see you, without crutches, so she should pick up her own trash at least. Please and thank you and some small apology wouldn’t go astray either. Maybe she will have a think about her behaviour and maybe get an assessment for depression. I was brought up with the idea that just because I was having a bad day you don’t visit that on others. I hope she rectifies her behaviour and real fast.
Why would a woman complain about you doing a good deed for someone, then have the audacity to request her yard be next on your list? Keep doing what you are doing. The neighbors there appreciate your efforts.
“There’s nobody around” Well, color me shocked. How miserable does someone need to be to get angry that you’re volunteering your time to help someone in the community then demands you provide her with a free service? Ridiculous. If that’s how she treats strangers imagine how she treats people that should be closer to her. Seriously it’s no wonder she’s alone.
If anyone has the wherewithal to come up to a stranger doing a good deed and speak like that, they have the wherewithal to figure out their own issues. She’s needy, not in need. Thank you for your service to others. It’s a blessing to see people doing things like this in todays world.
Lemme tell ya, you handled that way better than I would’ve. Ain’t NO way I would even touch that jealous filled person’s property for fear of being sued over violating her rights. 🙄
It's good to see you are helping people in need. As far as the Karen goes... she seems to feel entitled. She might be pregnant and all but if she can walk to you only to complain about you helping someone, she can at least pick up her own trash.
You handled that situation perfectly and then even offering to help her with her yard after cussing at you and whatever else. That’s selflessness. Inspiring.
Sir, I give credit to you for not losing your temper by the way she talked to you. Your reaction was incredible and loving. Most people would have cussed her out but you were a gentleman. Hats off to you.
@@markdrum2392 yea who fukn cares a kudos from you didn't avert the anxiety he had and won't correct the issue the issue of the woman's entitlement. You can't be the bigger man every time because if you're the bigger man too often you're around too many little people.
That's really unfortunate that some people can't just be happy for the people around them. You're doing something wonderful, and setting a great example for your son.
That's a great point. Instead of coming down and saying,"Oh that's awesome you're helping them out! Do you think you might have time to check out my yard when you're done? I would so appreciate the help!" she came down angry they were helping them and not her. Unfortunate indeed.
Cleaning up after lazy freeloading scum is not charity it’s aiding and abetting! Those people that supposedly needed help should have been waiting for this guy and thanking him but guess what? They’ll be expecting more in the future. WTF is wrong with you people??
I have a child I am trying to care for that is this way.. no matter how I try to show him to be happy for others he just can’t handle if the attention n accolades and topic isn’t about him… so yea it’s true some just can’t be happy …
Wow, I’m saying NO to Karen. You are so kind and helpful and using your time, equipment, fuel to help this family and I’m still shaking my head over this one. You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness….❤
What an awful person. There’s no way I’d do her yard or have any contact with that whatsoever. You’re a good guy helping people that need some help for free. We need more people like you in this world and a lot less of whatever that was across the street.
I would not mow that Karen's yard! She complained that the house you're mowing always gets handouts! She was baiting you to give her a handout because she was jealous that you were mowing this yard! You are a good man Eric, don't let Karen's like that one make you feel sorry for her! She is a bully, walking up to you talking like she did. God Bless you Eric!
I would say Karen is Jealous of the elderly neighbour, and also, just looking for a freebie. Karen is young, she can do her own yard (Pregnant or not), just does not want to. Keep up the great work, pay no attention to this attention wh0re.
Absolutely don't reward that woman's bad behavior! What you do is special & there's plenty of kind people who'd actually appreciate you & treat you right, she doesn't deserve your time.
Taking care of an elderly person's yard for free, and then taking the high road (rather than going off on her) to evaluate/possibly help this young woman with her yard is really inspiring. You're a truly righteous dude...
Real men don't have their behaviour dictated by the behaviour of others. You don't have to respect everyone or their stupid ideas but treating everyone with courtesy, speaks volumes about who you are, while saying nothing about who they are.
Do NOT do any work for this woman. She has a sense of entitlement and once you do help her, she will forever be wanting handouts. She was rude and confrontational and, in my opinion, doesn't deserve your time. Stick with those who appreciate you! Edit: I mowed my own yard when I was late in my pregnancy. My husband was in the navy and was deployed.
@@OutdoorswithErik Bro no. Just no. First off she asked in the worst way possible. She didn't ask, she didn't plead she spouted off like a brat. I would have told her off...but I never work for free so I wouldn't be there
NOPE, NO WAY would I help anyone that spoke to me the way that woman spoke to you. You and your son are good people. I'm sure there are so many other needy and gratful people out there that would appreciate and NOT "demand" to be helped like this Karen did.
I’m impressed with your calm, respectful, and kind response when this woman was cursing at you in her first sentence. So bizarre that she had that demeanor immediately without inquiring first. You definitely were an example to all of how to deescalate a person with an unwarranted bad attitude with your humble and Christlike response.
@@cynthiatolman326 agreed. Very sad. I hope she will strive to become a better person to give this child on the way a good upbringing…better than the one she apparently received.🙏🏻
Perfect response- "with an attitude like yours I can't blame them". I was thinking exactly that. The entitlement... she could've come over and kindly asked for help or asked what he charges... but to demand help like this is insane.
💯%!!! What you do for people is charity, out of the kindness of your heart. What Miss “Karen” wants is ENTITLEMENT. She thinks YOU owe her! Don’t get involved. You might find her suing you for damages to her property. Walk away. ❤
@@treeherder2201 She probably was abused and treated badly this is how people act when they are hurting inside she may not know how to ask nicely. We really don't know what this woman has been through. What I am saying does not excuse her attitude though. She needs awareness of self and maybe a little kindness would help her to change.
Initially I thought she was angry for making noise or mowing someone's lawn without their permission. Then I realize she was just angry because nobody's helping her. The epitome of entitlement. But, I do have to say, you took the high road and de escalated the situation. Kudos to you.
Who's going to help a rud, rotten child like that, she is behaving like a child. I would not help her a bit. Sorry not showing a bit of humble and demanding ,"Hell NO"
Can't believe how rude she was! I'm 68 years old with arthritis and I manage to do my mowing and snow clearing myself. Being pregnant doesn't mean you can't do yardwork. It's good exercise!
Notice... When he asked about the husband... "He aint around"... Probably not lol.. because it's probably not her husband, it's probably some low life who's already moved on to her girlfriend now lol.
Me again: Please keep this in mind: She walked to where you were working to tell you were wrong in doing a good deed for someone who needed help. Why should she expect the same?? She deserves some "tough love" with you telling her no and why. This is not just her having a bad day. I imagine she is like this on a daily basis.
Mind your own business lady. If you were breaking in, she’d have been a good neighbor. But trying to stop you from doing good? She heard the word “free” and then she turned and tried to make you feel guilty for not helping her. What a case
What I got out of that confrontation is she wanted you to feel like you were an intruder, a wrong doer. She started out that conversation with "What the f*** ?" If there was something about her and she was just curious as to why you were there, why that hideous approach? I wouldn't go there myself and help her. If you can't work them out why they have such a negative attitude, then they could be trouble for you in the future.
Lol right i feel bad for the dude who is going to have a kid with her. My wife is bitchy and I love her so much but my wife would never talk to a stranger like that. I guess this chick just needs to be hugged or something
You’re a good dude, I love how you said to the Karen “Not with an attitude like that”, she really didn’t need to cuss you out especially if she’s asking help herself. She mentioned the neighbors already have mowers and just asking for handouts, so how does she know that? Sometimes it’s just neighbors that genuinely hate each other and can’t coexist, it’s unfortunate but that’s America . Keep up the good work!!
i think its great that he does nice things for folks, but he should NOT do anything for that rude woman, giving in to her behavior actually enables her bad attitude and she will learn nothing from the experience.
Your response to her shows what a thoughtful person you are. Personally, I would have suggested to her that next time she sees you or someone who is helping someone else, that she ask if you would be kind enough to help her, not cuss and rant. She may need the help, but she needs more to learn how to approach people and appreciate others.
"With an attitude like yours, I can't blame them!" This was priceless, man! Straightforward, yet polite. Besides, that woman is batshit crazy. I'm definitely subscribing to see your content!
That young woman needs to learn that you attract more bees with honey than you do with sour lemons. You did a great job of talking her down off the ledge. I sure hope she at least said ‘thank you’ after you went down and looked at her place. You’re a commendable human being. The world needs more of you!
If she can walk across the street to bother you, she can walk into her own yard and pick up trash. Also, what someone else said about not messing with crazy people is damn good advice. You’ll never get rid of her if you do that favor.
What you do for those in need is a God send. This woman's approach n demeanor is way off. Steer clear of her and all the other haters. Good Bless you and your family.
@@petersdotter1 I’m sorry to hear that, and I wish you the best. I would like to point out that I was referring specifically to the lady in this video not the entire population of earth. She isn’t suffering from anything other than a bad attitude with a pinch of entitlement.
The way you showed her compassion and kindness when she was treating you like that speaks a lot about your character. Her demeanor changed when you replied to her because she probably wasn’t expecting such a kind response. You are willing to help anyone in need or at least take the time to hear their concern. I commend you for the work you do and the way you carry yourself!
Well, usually, one wouldn't expect kindness when confronting someone with such vitriol and entitlement. She may be in a bad spot, but it's her own choices that led her there.
@@charleneblack2792 I agree. She needs to reevaluate her mindset & do better. Not everyone is going to react kindly to her entitlement but she luckily came across a good person who was nice enough to give her a chance. The world needs more good people!
I could learn a few things from this man cause I don’t know if I would have been as nice as he was. I pray God will help me to develop this kind of compassion and live for people. I use to be like that but I allow society to change me.
My man, your response to that woman was Saint level. I subscribed to your channel because of that one interaction. The lady is scared, pregnant, no partner. She was never taught life skills and doesn't even know how to ask for help in a civil manner. What you just showed 98 percent of us is even when someone "deserves" a harsh response, kindness still wins. Erik For President 2024
Hahaha. You read that all wrong bud. Saint like? Pffttt. That’s nuts. You don’t get to speak to people like that and then get something done for you. She can walk across the street. She can pick up trash. Period. Awful human being.
I'd give that woman and her yard a pass. Anyone who would swear at me that way and then ask for free yard service is not on my help list. You do a wonderful job !!
For what you are doing out of plain simple human compassion, you deserve so much better than the response you got from that woman who obviously has problems that no lawn mower in the world can fix. Sending you gratitude for just knowing that there are still guys like you in this world. Thanks
An angry woman who made bad choices in life and now she’s dealing with consequences. Not sure I’d involve myself. Her foul mouth was enough for me! You are a great human being!!
@kristy178 that’s why you should spend time finding a good husband/father before making babies. Smh. You really think he was an upstanding guy before he left her alone with a baby? If he passed away, that’s another story and a sad one. But that didn’t sound like the case here
@@Kirsty178looks like daddy should have made better choices. Oh wait in later episodes it’s just a dead beat boyfriend and she is trying to get a free service 😮🫢🤭🫣😂🤣
She really walked all the way over there thinking that somebody mowing a lawn had anything to do with her and that “what the f*ck are you doing?” was the way to begin that interaction.
It's because men have never checked her. The dude should have shouted at her and instigated her, and then pepper sprayed her when she gets close and immediately call the police, especially considering the entire interaction is on camera. I'm sorry but this is seriously the only way to deal with feminist triggered women now. They dont check each other so someone has to or they will continue to get worse and more enraged and entitled and raise more gang member children.
@@koltredI agree this is the best way to deal with them and the pepper spray is brilliant but remember not all of them become gang members dome become crack eds or live in there mums basement
If she can walk up the street to yell at you, she can walk around her yard with a push mower. There's 0% chance I would step one foot on her property. Not only does she think she's entitled, but clearly has no boundaries.
Unfortunately, that is the state of the world nowadays. Ungrateful people thinking they are entitled to everything they see! You are a good man, maybe sometimes you can turn the other cheek. But not this time!
She's not a great full person or no humility at all... But some time you kan be much better person after you clean her yard just explain to her NEXTIME just ask politely now she is on the internet net as a ongratefully , jealous neighbour.
Honestly, I thought I’d watch this just for the Karen encounter but like all landscaping videos, I get drawn in watching the transformation. Don’t let that bitter old busybody deter you from helping others!
Wow, you're an absolute gentleman, the way she approached you and yet you still managed to see her humanity and showed her such grace and humility, you're a good person and an inspiration, thank you for your kindness
He's an impressive guy. I wish I still had his temperament, but the world has really jaded me. I'd have told her to F off then gotten a jab in about her running her man off.
The entitlement of this woman is incredible. Being pregnant does not mean you can’t take out the trash, keep your yard clean. I would not help her because she feels that the world owes her. You would be rewarding her behavior and in the words of Dr Phil: “You don’t reward bad behavior!!!”
Oh what a generous gift the company is doing. You work hard on all the jobs , you do for people in need. That’s a blessing.. but then you get a generous sponsor. How is that for giving.
That's a poor excuse for you to allow her to run over you and disrespect you. Please have more confidence in yourself. YOU DO NOT EVER DESERVE TO BE SPOKEN TO LIKE THAT. MY MIND IS BLOWN THE WAY SHE SPOKE TO YOU, THEN THOUGHT U WERE GOING TO CLEAN HER *TRASH* WOW 💥💥💥💥BOOM BOOM BOOM BOOM MY MIND BLOWING UP
@@OutdoorswithErik no excuse for the approach and being absolutely disgusting towards you , and I think I would have said none of your business .... We see if baby's father is about ? So much trash for one
Heck no! I’ve not seen such a RUDE individual in a long time! She created her own circumstances. She needs to clean up her own yard! Thank you for helping those who are truly in need! Much love!
Not only is she a nasty Karen, coming over cursing you out, then she starts becoming all entitled & demanding “handouts” because she’s lazy to even clean the trash out of her yard!
@@sr2291 why didn't she say so? everyone knows there's no lawn care during gestation! I mean, come on Everett, why do you think there’s so many unkempt lawns around? ‘Cuz there’s a woman gestating nearby!
@@sr2291 My grandmother worked in fields while she was nine months pregnant, literally until the baby came out. That woman being a pregnant is no excuse for not at least picking up trash. She doesn’t deserve anything. Maybe a slap across the face. Pregnant and all.
Erik, another job well done. I appreciate that you are showing your son the benefits of helping those less fortunate. The nerve of someone who believes they are more deserving of your generosity than their neighbors is unbelievable. Keep up the good work and God bless you and your family.
What you for others is such a blessing. You are so amazing. So patient and kind . I want to just hug you . I live in California so big hugs to you all.
What a crazy woman! I wouldn’t mow her lawn for love or money because she was so rude! So much for being a good neighbor! Good for you for helping people out for free! Amazing 🎉!
That fact that instead of getting outraged you are considering doing her yard is a demonstration of your good heart. You are like a real life Ted Lasso of lawns! Good luck whatever you decide.
... and this malcontent is one of those saying: "Where have all of the Good Men Gone?" Hell, they ran as far & as fast as they could, in the opposite direction, once they saw her coming. Can you even imagine what any children that she has raised, would be like? OMG! `
There's ways to approach people if you need help. Walking up to someone and initiating first contact with "What the f*** are you doing?" Isn't a good start. Props to you for even acknowledging her and handling the situation the way you did.
Way to stay focused and have the patience to deal with that lady. Lord only knows whats kind of situation she is living and you were a winner for helping her and the first free yard. Youre blessed and youre passing those blessings onto others even if some folks are lost and not able to understand what you are doing as a free service. Not everyone is positioned in this life to understand how to be successful and being able to bless others. Thank you so very much. Im also a native michangander that moved to Nashville about 12 years ago so I understand and know there are some crazy things going on with some Michiganders and in other states too. Im new to your channel but curious to know more about you cuz youre a blessing and good people.
I Love seeing you help the elderly! I'm 60 and disabled and Ppl like you come once in a lifetime! I practically have to beg or have alot of money to get help! You are a true blessing for all who are elderly and I am so grateful their are ppl like you in the world! Prayers, Love & Hugs from IN. CountryLady!
If she has a man, he can do the work or get his buddies to help. He is just lazy, don’t help young lazy people. The elderly need the help. Not those others. Don’t help her, charge her.
If she had changed her tone and THANKED YOU for your kindness at the end, I would say yes. The fact that she's an angry neurotic who is nasty when you're kind and offering to help her and her community is a big HANDS OFF sign ✋
Angry Karen's Husband Showed up here and tried to attack us - ua-cam.com/video/J30skb23wT4/v-deo.html
I would do her yard to be kind. Then tell her you know the reason ppl don't help u out is because of ur attitude and potty mouth. Maybe if u were nice to ppl then they would help you
I wouldn't do her yard that's not how you ask for help.
DON'T GET INVOLVED WITH THAT LADY. YOU WILL END UP BEING SUED OR IN JAIL. SELFISH NASTY WOMAN.
How did that lady even know anything about what you are doing? She works but wants “handouts” and she sure appeared able bodied. She wants you to pick up her trash for her?
She doesn't get help because of how she behaves. She is so rude and expects people to do nice things when she is full of attitude. I'd never help her for any reason ever!
Don’t get involved with a crazy person like that. Next you know she’ll be saying you wrecked something on her property. I would’ve told her to go pound sand.
I agree
Here here... also she has the time to to complain to him when she could be doing her own yard rn
Man don’t get involved with that lady she’s crazy
Me too. Don't get mixed up with evil spirit. DON'T.
Just shows that no good deed goes unpunished! I’m 66 years old, and my rule has always been, stay away from crazy!
The sense of entitlement is astonishing. The fact that she demands that they fix up her yard just shows that no good deed goes unpunished.
imagine this person is pregnant with child...May God help that poor kid.
@@cncpyro Amen!
I agree!! So messed up. She came over to whine. Such a twisted person. Ew.
Even so, still do good deeds. People are gonna complain, but it's still putting more good into the world.
I agree, no way he shoukd do her yard, not with that shitty attitude.
"With an attitude like yours, I can't blame 'em." PERFECT response to a blatantly rude individual. I would not give her another minute of your time; you're out helping people in need; she doesn't deserve the help with the way she approached you. Keep up the good work, sir.
Sooooooo agreed!!
So wrong . She was angry at her situation. Pregnancy hormones are going all over the place. What she needs is some kindness in her life, so she doesn't feel overwhelmed and alone.
We can never know what someone else's life is or isn't.
I would hate for someone to judge me because of a crazy rant .
her mouth is why the baby daddy is not around.....she is crazy stay away from her....
@@cynthiahunter519but you have No right to behave that way.
She is blaming him for her situation cause she got preggos and the guy took off.
I agree with "DON’T mow that crazy woman’s yard! The fact that she came over ORDERING you not to mow the yard you were currently mowing, as if it’s any of her business, then proceeding to DEMAND that you provide her a free yard cleanup?!? Nope! No way. Pregnant or not, she’s plenty capable of cleaning up her own trash, and her rude/obnoxious demands of you were over the top! " Too many people think just because you do something nice for one of their neighbors that they are ENTITLED to the same from you. Tell her you are committed elsewhere and you can see her in a few years!
Please look after your self,and stay safe.❤❤❤❤❤
I will bet you run into all kinds of people doing what you do. Just remember - God is on your side❤❤❤
A very rude lady. My bet is stay away as she is bold as brass.
If she married? The husband needs to leave.
What a charming lady, can't begin to imagine why no-one helps her.
LOL!!!!
When he asked "where's your husband?" and she says "not around". My instant reaction was "I can't imagine why!". If they go do anything for her (for free), they're just enabling.
@@davewilson4528 Unfortunate, but true.
@@davewilson4528 The victim mentality is crippling the world. People put themselves in these situations then turn around and pretend it's everybody else's fault. That's called narcissism and it's on the rise along with being a victim in everything. We live in a world where people can say whatever they want to you, the second you give them a dose of their own medicine, they're a victim. It's fucking disgusting.
@@davewilson4528 nah I'm pretty sure she was lying about her husband not being around they probably looking for a free hand out
With her attitude like that and the way she talked to you, she can clean up her own yard. You handled that better than I would have.
No he didn't he should have let her know to mind her own business don't reward bad behavior
I second that! After the way she spoke to you? I wouldn't do anything for her. She's upset because you're helping some elderly people? SERIOUSLY!! Even if they got 20 mowers out there - what business is if of hers???? She was downright rude & belligerent!!!
@@larry3183 that's exactly what I thought!! Being pregnant is no excuse to feel entitled to anything! She was horrible!
No wonder her husband isn't around! She needs to mind her own business and clean up her own trash. I question her "sense of fairness" If she can't see her neighbor's need. She should be glad that someone is helping them! A sure sign of an overgrown spoiled child.
absolutely....i would have said the almight gfy
She's the kind person who the minute you leave her property something comes up missing and it's your fault. Best to stay away from those types of situations.
100%
Was thinking the same thing.. be careful with this Karen tread lightly!!
If she was truly pregnant not just big, cut her a little bit of Slack the bad attitude could be influenced by those pregnancy hormones. He should be careful though and do a thorough walkthrough with her before he starts and after so there's no hands-free issues later.
@@janew7008 Oh shut up trying to make excuses for this entitled Karen.
@@janew7008being pregnant is no excuse for being rude and expecting free stuff I’ve never met a pregnant woman who e expected people to give them free stuff pregnancy does not give you the right to speak to people rudely and and expect free services
You seem like a nice fella. I bet if she had thanked you for helping her neighbor and then kindly explained her situation and asked for help, you would’ve helped her.
A little gentleness and humility goes a long way, folks!
The old saying ‘you catch more flies with honey than with vinegar’ definitely applies.
I have known plenty of pregnant moms who could mow their own yards and take out their own trash. Took care of their own and didn't flip out if someone else helped others. She's nuts.
It could be just hormons messing her up. She is going to have though times ahead as a single mom. Of course there are many hard working women and men, but even more there are ppl like her. Maybe little help changes her a bit.
I did 😇
It's crazy but maybe she had a bad day? Who knows, I was shocked though and at a loss of words
@@theSammyM333 That would be the hope
@@Gdajb yes but we don't all have trouble free pregnancies.
DON’T mow that crazy woman’s yard! The fact that she came over ORDERING you not to mow the yard you were currently mowing, as if it’s any of her business, then proceeding to DEMAND that you provide her a free yard cleanup?!? Nope! No way. Pregnant or not, she’s plenty capable of cleaning up her own trash, and her rude/obnoxious demands of you were over the top!
I suggest a respectful “I understand you’d like a free cleanup, but I’ll have to decline based on how rude you approached me, and the fact that you, first, stuck your nose in my business, and secondly, demanded, rather than simply and politely requested, help. Perhaps, if there’s a next time, you should consider being nicer to folks helping others for free? You’ll get farther being nicer”. She doesn’t deserve your kindness if she can’t even show some herself. We’re all tired of people like this. Give them an inch, they’ll take a mile. Sheesh 🙄
Yes if she will tear into a complete stranger like this, then she is capable of pretty much anything. Including false blame for damage to her yard and lawsuits. There is a reason her baby's father is not in the picture. Her bizarre actions in this video tell us all we need to know about her.
Excellent Suggestion on how to verbalize to decline her “demands.” Her language was so inappropriate-…
Not to mention she cussed at him. No wonder her man is not around. I'd run to. Pregnancy hormones or not, respect can still be given. Like women mind blown then really thought he would do her lawn. 😂 😂 And if you do mow and pick up her TRASH... Well..... Well everyone knows where that could lead to.....
I agree and I can't believe her audacity. She is so over the top.
Well said !
This is a perfect example of the difference in personalities of people. A person wanting to give you a pair a gloves to keep you warm, and another mad that you are doing something nice for someone else.
Everyone is definitely different
Exactly!
@@OutdoorswithErik, God Bless You and the young man you’re teaching to be an amazing human being, like yourself.
I think her attitude stinks. She should have approached you in a different manner. I would not feel obliged to help anyone with that attitude
YOU ARE SO RIGHT. GLOVES ARE BETTER 😁‼️
You are extraordinarily kind. That pregnant neighbor is super rude. She seems incredibly entitled with a heart full of envy and disdain.
(Yelling) "Come and do MY lawn. No-one ever comes over and does MY lawn"
"With an attitude like yours, I'm not surprised!"
Best response ever, well done my man!!
I'm sure her husband is thrilled to do.... oh wait she's alone lol
I was thinking that same thing and was so glad when he told her that lol
@@stevemiller. Well, somebody got her pregnant :-)
@@funwithmyswedishdogs deleted your comment I see kiddo
Probably why her baby daddy skipped out. I wonder if he paid for the ride!
The sense of entitlement in today's society, is off the charts. That chick actually thinks the world owes her.
Go fine your baby daddy he owes you and the baby,👧bye
Do nothing to help her. Her attitude stinks. The world owes her but you don't.
It’s just the ego acting up.
Probably why her husband isn't around 🤣🤣🤣.
Thanks for What You do! ❤ 1 parent in wheelchair, Other crippled fm broken vertebrae, no insured hit n run. and People Like You made things possible for families to continue life through the healing! Bless You Dude! 🙏❤️
Anybody that walks up with: #1 That attitude and #2 That fowl mouth . . . get's ignored! "Deserving" of your generosity - I think NOT!
I agree 100%. I wouldn't even have acknowledged her and kept right on working and left her standing there talking to herself looking like a fool.
Well said 👌🏻
Where’s your husband?
He’s gone.
I wonder why!?!
Everyone has a bad day from time to time, wonder if this was hers?
Looking back, shhould have handled it differently
"Why do they get free stuff? Why don't you spend your time doing stuff for free for me?!"
Jeez lady, you're so persuasive with your charm.
Awh, she got something for free alright.
Honestly, the way she talked to you, I'd never do her lawn. She had no respect for what you were doing and why. The dad's not around, and now we all know why. You and your son are awesome for doing what you do.
He should have said just that to her, that she didn't deserve his services.
Yeah if she just asked nicely he would have probably done her yard, but she acted like a bitch. This is a good lesson, if you want someone to help you out, treat them nicely. I worked in retail and if a customer was nice to me I would go above and beyond to help them, but if they acted like a douche I would do the bare minimum to help them.
also, if she has the energy and audacity to walk that far just to complain, she has the energy to clean her own yard. pregnant or not.
I don't think I'd even spit on her lawn. =(
I totally agree Bob. If I were her I would have asked with a humble attitude. She’s trouble.
Exactly, I would not do anything with her house. She’s capable to do things. She approached you disrespectfully, cursed at you. You can’t reward that kind of behavior.
My thoughts exactly.
Agreed
She'll try and extort money from you or something...there's a good reason her neighbors didn't call on you to do her yard...
Plus, I think she's a liar,; "husband isn't around" is pretty cryptic, he's probably at work.
Exactly, because she will make up something to accuse you of, she’s a snollygoster, not trustworthy.
People like her are epidemic in the country today.
Seeing a man with such patience really makes me think I should do better myself. Props to you for handling that well man, can't say I'd have been as kind. Keep doing what your doing man, love the videos.
Eric, you are too kind! I absolutely would NOT do her lawn after she talked to me like that! Please don't reward bad behavior...
Amen
I so agree.
Her yard was probably full of trash before she got pregnant. Ask her what acts of kindness she’s done for others then preach the gospel to her as a bonus
@@OutdoorswithErik I completely agree with Linda. Please do not go over and help her. She’s trouble, and will make your life a living h*ll.
@@OutdoorswithErik God bless you
I applaud how you talked to her while she was being rude to you.
I love the irony of her yelling at you saying "I don't get no handouts" while asking you for a handout.
Out classing somebody is a lot more satisfying in that you show them what real control is by letting them know directly or indirectly that you don't possess a feeling they can hurt.
Its a business. Thats a proffesional guy rite there. Start a conversation with me and use the F 💣 and boom. Conversation never starts. Stay offh her propertie. Shes setting you up for something
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Right?!
I can assume where the man is
That’s the strangest, meanest way of asking someone to help you I’ve seen in along time. Great job staying calm and not matching her rudeness.
I don't think it's real. People do crazy things to get more likes. Sorry, but it's just too suspicious to me.
@@MyHome7_CarlaThere are other channels that cut yards and have people come up to them to start trouble. This isn't faked.
@@MyHome7_Carla It's definitely real. I've just been standing in my yard before and had people come up to me to try and start fights.
That's just part of living in society...
@@MyHome7_Carla Never heard of Karen’s before? There was a woman who pressed charges on a woman who attacked her while she was blowing leaves for the city.
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the way you spoke to her is evidence that God has filled you with His Spirit. God bless.
You don't need religion to be a good person. I prefer kind atheists over hateful "Christians"
@@watchcity2068 WHEN YOU USE YOUR BRAIN YOU CAN COMMENT THANK YOU.
@@watchcity2068 Christians only hate sin not people because all people are sinners.
If I were you, I would not mow her yard. Had she approached you in a different way, asking for help, then yes. But, she is basically bullying you into getting help. Thank you for all the kindness you spread.
Yes I was thinking she bullies people to get what she wants because the people probably are scared of her so they do what she wants.
Couldn’t agree more. She doesn’t deserve your kindness. In the absence of a heartfelt apology, her inexplicable ugliness towards you while your were helping a neighbor automatically disqualifies her. She’d only be taking advantage of your huge hearts.
Being an elderly person myself I think what you are doing for people is such a nice thing to do. To give if yourself and your time is so admirable. That Karen should be ashamed herself talking to you the way she did. I know it’s hard to just ignore someone like that but she did not deserve one minute of your time. Thank you for doing this for needy seniors. We really need more people in this world like you. Thank you for your contribution to the needy. Much love to you sir
I too am elderly and love seeing this. Young no baby daddy will need to be self sufficient. I mowed yard, yard maintenance, worked outside the home, etc when my babies were new as well as older.
I wouldn’t do her yard after how she talked to you
@@ginnyhoch5226 She's probably someone he knows who is acting the part in his video. The odds of these incidents happening to him while being caught on video so many times has to be astronomical.
Tell her the truth. You help the elderly who can't help themselves. She's not elderly and you can't help her. You have other jobs assisting the elderly after this job. She's not on the list.
No fucking way. She can go kick rocks.
She had the time and energy to confront a stranger - she can clean up her own yard.
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thats true
Even if true, it‘s not your business
How someone could get the idea to touch someone elses ground without permission?
@@jessriggio2603 I don’t hate masonry at all.
BINGO! You win a cookie LOL
You're a kind compassionate man. That woman was rude and disrespectful. I'd think twice about doing her yard. If you do, the pre requisite should be she cleans out her own trash. Keep doing your humanitarian work and ignore the haters.
She is very rude and aggressive - there are far better ways of asking for help than putting others down, even if your situation is worse. You handled that very well.
My thought exactly. Why not come over and ask what’s happening instead of acting all high and mighty??? Besides, I may have asked her why she didn’t call the owners if she was so concerned since they are the ones containing me! Some people!
There was no reason for her to that rude and obnoxious!
Eric, I hope she went in and watched some of your videos!
Your transformations are not just a benefit for the homeowner, but the whole surrounding neighborhood!
I’m glad that at least one neighbor offered you and your son some gloves!
That neighbor deserves a clean up, not the rude one!
Stay safe and well…
I agree
As they say ' don't judge, least you be judged ' and I hope that gal does see the comments! perhaps she will mature & cope better in the future
Totally out of order. Language. The sense of entitlement from that one is totally OTT. No rights whatsoever to question why you are helping someone else at all; completely your business. When I was pregnant and had just broken up with my ex, I moved out and had a fractured ankle to deal with soon after on crutches (fortunately left and not right so I could still drive) 7 months pregnant. I did not ask for help from anyone and no family in the state. I paid for a taxi once to collect a few items from a store and paid for a gardener when it was required. I never expected help from any sector, let alone interfere with others going about their own business. That woman walked over to see you, without crutches, so she should pick up her own trash at least. Please and thank you and some small apology wouldn’t go astray either. Maybe she will have a think about her behaviour and maybe get an assessment for depression. I was brought up with the idea that just because I was having a bad day you don’t visit that on others. I hope she rectifies her behaviour and real fast.
"Where is your husband?", she replies "Not around". Makes perfect sense.
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Baby has no chance!
Dear,
No wonder the husband not around, I guess he can't stand her character...looks like she like to yell, shout whatever....
😂😂😂😂
Maybe she meant to say Scattered around.
Why would a woman complain about you doing a good deed for someone, then have the audacity to request her yard be next on your list? Keep doing what you are doing. The neighbors there appreciate your efforts.
I was thinking the same thing
The lady who was complaining should go back to school and learn.
@@patrickpowers5995agreed. But she’s no lady.
I see why her husband isn’t around. Those poor children don’t have a chance.
She’s complaining because in her mind nobody is doing anything for her.
Lmaoo the lady offering the gloves is the best for real, likez threat of kindness " you better come and get these gloves " 😂
No surprise her husband is not anywhere to be found.
You're a good man Erik! We need more people like you in this world!
I make mistakes like everyone else, but, i try to help where I can
Most likely a lazy black guy.. we love them big gals..
Don’t mow Karen’s yard. Someone as rude and selfish like that deserves nothing from you.
@@andrewclayterman6230
My Goodness, why you talking about your Sister like that 🫵🏾
@@MNard-sy1kf i WAS REFERRING TO YOUR MOM..
“There’s nobody around”
Well, color me shocked.
How miserable does someone need to be to get angry that you’re volunteering your time to help someone in the community then demands you provide her with a free service? Ridiculous. If that’s how she treats strangers imagine how she treats people that should be closer to her. Seriously it’s no wonder she’s alone.
That’s why see is alone living by herself 😢
@@thomasx58 she*
@@greywolf9783 🤡
@@Goosers XD
Imagine what she is going to do to that poor child's personality 😔 what kind of person will she build?
If anyone has the wherewithal to come up to a stranger doing a good deed and speak like that, they have the wherewithal to figure out their own issues. She’s needy, not in need.
Thank you for your service to others. It’s a blessing to see people doing things like this in todays world.
Exactly I totally agree
He's very kind and a hero.🤗
@@nicolebrown1927 I would agree
Amen
This gentleman was So Sweet. Thank you for everything you did. ❤️ ❤❤❤❤❤
Your calm, polite, and kind responses to the rude neighbor were masterful examples of de-escalation.
100% agreed! You're a good man for offering to help her after her display of entitlement!
He is a gentleman and a scholar, as they say.
I learned something today
“A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” Proverbs 15:1 NKJV
I will delete my judgement as I prefer the high road he takes.
Lemme tell ya, you handled that way better than I would’ve. Ain’t NO way I would even touch that jealous filled person’s property for fear of being sued over violating her rights. 🙄
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It's good to see you are helping people in need. As far as the Karen goes... she seems to feel entitled. She might be pregnant and all but if she can walk to you only to complain about you helping someone, she can at least pick up her own trash.
Exactly! Maybe if she did that she wouldn’t have time to be worrying about what other people are doing.
Yup, entitlement was my reaction too. Hmmm…wonder why the baby daddy’s “not around”???
@Hycoperosity I agree
@@carolstomberg9189 her attitude probably lol that's if she is even pregnant lol
She deserves NOTHING. 😂
You handled that situation perfectly and then even offering to help her with her yard after cussing at you and whatever else.
That’s selflessness. Inspiring.
What a shock that no one wants to help her and that the husband/boyfriend/baby daddy isn't around. She seems like a real gem.
Rough....... uncut .... Wait , what am I saying..... PTSD
Sir, I give credit to you for not losing your temper by the way she talked to you. Your reaction was incredible and loving. Most people would have cussed her out but you were a gentleman. Hats off to you.
Unfortunately that great attitude of yours will go to naught. You just can't ve nice to some people.
@@markdrum2392 yea who fukn cares a kudos from you didn't avert the anxiety he had and won't correct the issue the issue of the woman's entitlement. You can't be the bigger man every time because if you're the bigger man too often you're around too many little people.
That's really unfortunate that some people can't just be happy for the people around them. You're doing something wonderful, and setting a great example for your son.
That's a great point. Instead of coming down and saying,"Oh that's awesome you're helping them out! Do you think you might have time to check out my yard when you're done? I would so appreciate the help!" she came down angry they were helping them and not her. Unfortunate indeed.
Cleaning up after lazy freeloading scum is not charity it’s aiding and abetting! Those people that supposedly needed help should have been waiting for this guy and thanking him but guess what? They’ll be expecting more in the future. WTF is wrong with you people??
That was my first thought
I have a child I am trying to care for that is this way.. no matter how I try to show him to be happy for others he just can’t handle if the attention n accolades and topic isn’t about him… so yea it’s true some just can’t be happy …
Unfortunately, there are so many people just like her in our world. Your willingness to offer her help was a lesson for us all. God bless you
Wow, I’m saying NO to Karen. You are so kind and helpful and using your time, equipment, fuel to help this family and I’m still shaking my head over this one. You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness….❤
What an awful person. There’s no way I’d do her yard or have any contact with that whatsoever. You’re a good guy helping people that need some help for free. We need more people like you in this world and a lot less of whatever that was across the street.
100% agree
this is most likely the second and third generation without a father in the home. this is what happens.
I would not mow that Karen's yard! She complained that the house you're mowing always gets handouts! She was baiting you to give her a handout because she was jealous that you were mowing this yard! You are a good man Eric, don't let Karen's like that one make you feel sorry for her! She is a bully, walking up to you talking like she did. God Bless you Eric!
@@pamelacicic4755 you are exactly right. She’s just jealous.
I would say Karen is Jealous of the elderly neighbour, and also, just looking for a freebie. Karen is young, she can do her own yard (Pregnant or not), just does not want to. Keep up the great work, pay no attention to this attention wh0re.
Absolutely don't reward that woman's bad behavior! What you do is special & there's plenty of kind people who'd actually appreciate you & treat you right, she doesn't deserve your time.
Our society is sick....
Thank you for all you do...God will Bless you greatly. Please take care and b safe...
Taking care of an elderly person's yard for free, and then taking the high road (rather than going off on her) to evaluate/possibly help this young woman with her yard is really inspiring. You're a truly righteous dude...
Real men don't have their behaviour dictated by the behaviour of others. You don't have to respect everyone or their stupid ideas but treating everyone with courtesy, speaks volumes about who you are, while saying nothing about who they are.
Only thong this did is condone her rude behavior ( this is how she gets what she wants ) tell her start mowing her own
@@jstewart3517 EXACTLY!!!
She isn't a woman. I wonder if she knows who the dad is.
Do NOT do any work for this woman. She has a sense of entitlement and once you do help her, she will forever be wanting handouts. She was rude and confrontational and, in my opinion, doesn't deserve your time. Stick with those who appreciate you! Edit: I mowed my own yard when I was late in my pregnancy. My husband was in the navy and was deployed.
Everyone has a bad day from time to time, wonder if this was hers?
@@OutdoorswithErik Bro no. Just no. First off she asked in the worst way possible. She didn't ask, she didn't plead she spouted off like a brat. I would have told her off...but I never work for free so I wouldn't be there
😱 OMG you are too nice, she doesn't deserve anything but a attitude adjustment.
Wonderful how you're teaching your son work ethic
NOPE, NO WAY would I help anyone that spoke to me the way that woman spoke to you.
You and your son are good people.
I'm sure there are so many other needy and gratful people out there that would appreciate and NOT "demand" to be helped like this Karen did.
I’m impressed with your calm, respectful, and kind response when this woman was cursing at you in her first sentence. So bizarre that she had that demeanor immediately without inquiring first. You definitely were an example to all of how to deescalate a person with an unwarranted bad attitude with your humble and Christlike response.
There was even a correction with charity "With an attitude like yours I can't blame them."
Well stated
I believe she has some mental problems right now, I hope she gets some help
@@cynthiatolman326 agreed. Very sad. I hope she will strive to become a better person to give this child on the way a good upbringing…better than the one she apparently received.🙏🏻
Christian response??? That's a well nurtured human response and has nothing to do with religion!
You handled that in such a kind way. I don't think I would have tried to help her. My hats off to you sir.
Perfect response- "with an attitude like yours I can't blame them". I was thinking exactly that.
The entitlement... she could've come over and kindly asked for help or asked what he charges... but to demand help like this is insane.
She was never told "no" as a child. That's what produces these people.
💯%!!! What you do for people is charity, out of the kindness of your heart. What Miss “Karen” wants is ENTITLEMENT. She thinks YOU owe her! Don’t get involved. You might find her suing you for damages to her property. Walk away. ❤
@@treeherder2201 She probably was abused and treated badly this is how people act when they are hurting inside she may not know how to ask nicely. We really don't know what this woman has been through. What I am saying does not excuse her attitude though. She needs awareness of self and maybe a little kindness would help her to change.
And he actually went to help her. That's more insane.
@@davidb9114he went over to look so she’d calm down and leave him alone. What we didn’t see or hear was what he told her.
Initially I thought she was angry for making noise or mowing someone's lawn without their permission. Then I realize she was just angry because nobody's helping her. The epitome of entitlement. But, I do have to say, you took the high road and de escalated the situation. Kudos to you.
Who's going to help a rud, rotten child like that, she is behaving like a child. I would not help her a bit. Sorry not showing a bit of humble and demanding ,"Hell NO"
Rude! Does not deserve your help!
Can't believe how rude she was! I'm 68 years old with arthritis and I manage to do my mowing and snow clearing myself. Being pregnant doesn't mean you can't do yardwork. It's good exercise!
Notice... When he asked about the husband... "He aint around"... Probably not lol.. because it's probably not her husband, it's probably some low life who's already moved on to her girlfriend now lol.
Pound sand... 🤣💜 you are better than me. I was going to tell her go tell you man to mow since he obviously already bought the cow!
Right I just had my baby 2 months ago and I've shoveled snow twice in the last 3 wks she's just lazy n rude
I mowed grass and shoveled snow while I was pregnant. She has no excuse for being so rude.
Exactly!!
You help people free of charge just to be helpful and sometimes they treat you so wrong you've got a big heart
Me again: Please keep this in mind: She walked to where you were working to tell you were wrong in doing a good deed for someone who needed help. Why should she expect the same?? She deserves some "tough love" with you telling her no and why. This is not just her having a bad day. I imagine she is like this on a daily basis.
I agree. Bitchy chicks need love to though. Lol
Mind your own business lady. If you were breaking in, she’d have been a good neighbor. But trying to stop you from doing good? She heard the word “free” and then she turned and tried to make you feel guilty for not helping her. What a case
What I got out of that confrontation is she wanted you to feel like you were an intruder, a wrong doer. She started out that conversation with "What the f*** ?" If there was something about her and she was just curious as to why you were there, why that hideous approach? I wouldn't go there myself and help her. If you can't work them out why they have such a negative attitude, then they could be trouble for you in the future.
Would explain why her husband is “not around.”
Lol right i feel bad for the dude who is going to have a kid with her. My wife is bitchy and I love her so much but my wife would never talk to a stranger like that. I guess this chick just needs to be hugged or something
You’re a good dude, I love how you said to the Karen “Not with an attitude like that”, she really didn’t need to cuss you out especially if she’s asking help herself. She mentioned the neighbors already have mowers and just asking for handouts, so how does she know that? Sometimes it’s just neighbors that genuinely hate each other and can’t coexist, it’s unfortunate but that’s America . Keep up the good work!!
And to then ask for a handout herself? Like.. what?
i think its great that he does nice things for folks, but he should NOT do anything for that rude woman, giving in to her behavior actually enables her bad attitude and she will learn nothing from the experience.
Your response to her shows what a thoughtful person you are. Personally, I would have suggested to her that next time she sees you or someone who is helping someone else, that she ask if you would be kind enough to help her, not cuss and rant. She may need the help, but she needs more to learn how to approach people and appreciate others.
My thought exactly.
“With an attitude like yours I don’t blame them” 😂💀
You’re a champ dude. Keep up the good work
This man is such a gentle man. He handled that confrontation so lovingly and with so much care. Thank you Sir, you make me proud to be a human being ❤
I would not help her out she is acting entitled and when she said she never gets help tell her to get ahold of her local church
@@darladear1174 meet evil with kindness. Shine light and the darkness must flee. Dark can’t exist in the light. Jesus is Lord.
@@MrsK976 uh...what? Lol
"With an attitude like yours, I can't blame them!" This was priceless, man! Straightforward, yet polite. Besides, that woman is batshit crazy. I'm definitely subscribing to see your content!
She didn't even process that. "I don't ever get handouts" she said again. What a weird mentality to have while being so rude.
well done guy ...england proud of guys like u
That young woman needs to learn that you attract more bees with honey than you do with sour lemons. You did a great job of talking her down off the ledge. I sure hope she at least said ‘thank you’ after you went down and looked at her place. You’re a commendable human being. The world needs more of you!
She was very polite
I'll take a cup of lemonade. No sugar. Extra sour.
That wasn't sour lemons, that was dead fish
She was VERY, VERY, impolite!
She doesn't look young
If she can walk across the street to bother you, she can walk into her own yard and pick up trash. Also, what someone else said about not messing with crazy people is damn good advice. You’ll never get rid of her if you do that favor.
What you do for those in need is a God send. This woman's approach n demeanor is way off. Steer clear of her and all the other haters. Good Bless you and your family.
Helping crazy is like feeding stray animals.
I can walk across the street, but I cannot pick up trash. Some people have hidden health issues but look ok on the outside. I'm one of them.
@@petersdotter1 I’m sorry to hear that, and I wish you the best. I would like to point out that I was referring specifically to the lady in this video not the entire population of earth. She isn’t suffering from anything other than a bad attitude with a pinch of entitlement.
@Naughty Shepherd Some people needing certain help and services could actually barter help they can do in exchange...Baked goods,,ironing...etc..
Why can't people appreciate what other people are doing and just go about the business great job God has a blessing coming your way
The fact that you would even consider taking care of her yard says so much about you! 😊
Exactly... she had a lot of nerve.
Yeah, he's crazy. Lol
The way you showed her compassion and kindness when she was treating you like that speaks a lot about your character. Her demeanor changed when you replied to her because she probably wasn’t expecting such a kind response. You are willing to help anyone in need or at least take the time to hear their concern. I commend you for the work you do and the way you carry yourself!
Well, usually, one wouldn't expect kindness when confronting someone with such vitriol and entitlement. She may be in a bad spot, but it's her own choices that led her there.
Well of course he’s going to respond with kindness……..he knows there’s a camera running….. she doesn’t.
@@charleneblack2792 I agree. She needs to reevaluate her mindset & do better. Not everyone is going to react kindly to her entitlement but she luckily came across a good person who was nice enough to give her a chance. The world needs more good people!
I could learn a few things from this man cause I don’t know if I would have been as nice as he was. I pray God will help me to develop this kind of compassion and live for people. I use to be like that but I allow society to change me.
No wonder the husband's not around!
My man, your response to that woman was Saint level. I subscribed to your channel because of that one interaction. The lady is scared, pregnant, no partner. She was never taught life skills and doesn't even know how to ask for help in a civil manner. What you just showed 98 percent of us is even when someone "deserves" a harsh response, kindness still wins. Erik For President 2024
Scared?
She walked up to a strange man, yelled at him and then made demands.
No fear there. She's thoroughly obnoxious
@@Bubbles99718 scared people lash out in anger all the time.
@@anordinarymom That was a long walk, er "lash out"
@@Bubbles99718 exactly like somebody owed her something, people are to privileged these days. That was literally the thing I’ve never witnessed.
Hahaha. You read that all wrong bud. Saint like? Pffttt. That’s nuts. You don’t get to speak to people like that and then get something done for you. She can walk across the street. She can pick up trash. Period. Awful human being.
told the Karen. why people don't help her is her attitude. In what i've seen, you do a good job helping people
I love how you are helping people in need.
Congratulating her on the baby was a classy touch.
that poor baby Gon end up like her SMH
My condolences for the child though. Raised by a single mother like that :*(
This is why in Australia we all have boundary fencing keep the Nosey Parker’s at bay
She was totally rude then expects her work to be done for free
I wonder who banded that?
The way you handle the situation, making a kind congratulations about her baby, was so honorable and set the tone back to calm, well done!
Truly, this man has wisdom/patience & respect, but I hope he just stays away from that neighborhood!
I'd give that woman and her yard a pass. Anyone who would swear at me that way and then ask for free yard service is not on my help list.
You do a wonderful job !!
Thanks for the support Pam!
For someone who “never gets handouts”, she sure is comfortable demanding one.
For what you are doing out of plain simple human compassion, you deserve so much better than the response you got from that woman who obviously has problems that no lawn mower in the world can fix. Sending you gratitude for just knowing that there are still guys like you in this world. Thanks
You can’t reward selfish hostility, let her mow her own trash.
Well bloody said Doris, spot on👍💙🌹
An angry woman who made bad choices in life and now she’s dealing with consequences. Not sure I’d involve myself. Her foul mouth was enough for me! You are a great human being!!
How do you know she made bad choices? The Dad could have died or left her! Not everything is within our control!
@kristy178 that’s why you should spend time finding a good husband/father before making babies. Smh. You really think he was an upstanding guy before he left her alone with a baby? If he passed away, that’s another story and a sad one. But that didn’t sound like the case here
@@Kirsty178looks like daddy should have made better choices. Oh wait in later episodes it’s just a dead beat boyfriend and she is trying to get a free service 😮🫢🤭🫣😂🤣
That’s exactly what I thought!!
@@Kirsty178that thing, she is just trash with pants on! So rude.
She really walked all the way over there thinking that somebody mowing a lawn had anything to do with her and that “what the f*ck are you doing?” was the way to begin that interaction.
He was way more polite then I would have been
It's because men have never checked her. The dude should have shouted at her and instigated her, and then pepper sprayed her when she gets close and immediately call the police, especially considering the entire interaction is on camera. I'm sorry but this is seriously the only way to deal with feminist triggered women now. They dont check each other so someone has to or they will continue to get worse and more enraged and entitled and raise more gang member children.
@@koltred Gang member children?? You mean hillbilly children.
@@koltredI agree this is the best way to deal with them and the pepper spray is brilliant but remember not all of them become gang members dome become crack eds or live in there mums basement
@@koltred At ease solider!
I love the transformation, your son is brave to be in the cold without his gloves. I saw someone watching you guys from a window inside.
If she can walk up the street to yell at you, she can walk around her yard with a push mower. There's 0% chance I would step one foot on her property. Not only does she think she's entitled, but clearly has no boundaries.
Unfortunately, that is the state of the world nowadays. Ungrateful people thinking they are entitled to everything they see! You are a good man, maybe sometimes you can turn the other cheek. But not this time!
She's not a great full person or no humility at all... But some time you kan be much better person after you clean her yard just explain to her NEXTIME just ask politely now she is on the internet net as a ongratefully , jealous neighbour.
No wonder she has no man around !!!!°
@@Cawaki1967 oohh No...
That is a good point
Seeing your son working hard alongside you like that gives me some renewed hope for his generation.
Honestly, I thought I’d watch this just for the Karen encounter but like all landscaping videos, I get drawn in watching the transformation. Don’t let that bitter old busybody deter you from helping others!
Appreciiate your support
You handled that way better than I would have.
Wow, you're an absolute gentleman, the way she approached you and yet you still managed to see her humanity and showed her such grace and humility, you're a good person and an inspiration, thank you for your kindness
Better person than me. I would have called her the C word immediately.
Being nice to these clowns only encourages their bad behavior
He's an impressive guy. I wish I still had his temperament, but the world has really jaded me. I'd have told her to F off then gotten a jab in about her running her man off.
Kindness begets kindness ✨️
@cynthia stauffer or future entitlement
17:42 “Where’s your husband?”
“Not around”
Can’t say I blame him.
he should leave
The entitlement of this woman is incredible. Being pregnant does not mean you can’t take out the trash, keep your yard clean. I would not help her because she feels that the world owes her. You would be rewarding her behavior and in the words of Dr Phil: “You don’t reward bad behavior!!!”
I told him I wouldn't give that yard a second look I wouldn't do crap for that crazy lady
Maybe she was post natal 🤷♀️
Oh what a generous gift the company is doing. You work hard on all the jobs , you do for people in need. That’s a blessing.. but then you get a generous sponsor. How is that for giving.
That Karen seems strong and healthy, let her take care of her own yard. Stay as far away as you can from toxic people like that.
People are going through a lot I guess these days
That's a poor excuse for you to allow her to run over you and disrespect you. Please have more confidence in yourself. YOU DO NOT EVER DESERVE TO BE SPOKEN TO LIKE THAT.
MY MIND IS BLOWN THE WAY SHE SPOKE TO YOU, THEN THOUGHT U WERE GOING TO CLEAN HER *TRASH* WOW 💥💥💥💥BOOM BOOM BOOM BOOM MY MIND BLOWING UP
@@OutdoorswithErik Being too soft and making excuses for people is part of the problem.
@@OutdoorswithErik no excuse for the approach and being absolutely disgusting towards you , and I think I would have said none of your business .... We see if baby's father is about ? So much trash for one
Heck no! I’ve not seen such a RUDE individual in a long time! She created her own circumstances. She needs to clean up her own yard! Thank you for helping those who are truly in need! Much love!
"Is that your yard with the trash? Where is your husband?"
spot on Susan
People create their own reality and "reap what they sow". I'll bet everyone you've helped is so grateful. Keep up the great work!
Entitlement is a real problem. That's what happens when there isn't accountability
She acted as if you owed her something? Very rude, you’re doing an excellent job, don’t let that person try and get a freebie out of you.😅
Should've told her to go graze with the rest of the herd.
Not surprised her baby daddy ain't around
@@doomslayerforever2858 he was fed up with her nagging. 😂
I would have told her to find the baby daddy to cut her lawn... only because of her attitude.
Agreed
Mowing the side yard at the fourteen minute mark was a thing of beauty, especially mulching the leaves as you went!!!
You’re a good man for what you do. And entertaining that woman for even a SECOND is beyond me.
Not only is she a nasty Karen, coming over cursing you out, then she starts becoming all entitled & demanding “handouts” because she’s lazy to even clean the trash out of her yard!
She's pregnant.
@@sr2291 so what? She's pregnant, not disabled. She can pick up her own trash. Should start with herself
@@sr2291 why didn't she say so? everyone knows there's no lawn care during gestation! I mean, come on Everett, why do you think there’s so many unkempt lawns around? ‘Cuz there’s a woman gestating nearby!
@@sr2291 My grandmother worked in fields while she was nine months pregnant, literally until the baby came out. That woman being a pregnant is no excuse for not at least picking up trash. She doesn’t deserve anything. Maybe a slap across the face. Pregnant and all.
@@DelmarToadpregnancy is an excuse. Pregnant women used to work in field until delivery.
Erik, another job well done. I appreciate that you are showing your son the benefits of helping those less fortunate. The nerve of someone who believes they are more deserving of your generosity than their neighbors is unbelievable. Keep up the good work and God bless you and your family.
Appreciate your support my friend
What you for others is such a blessing. You are so amazing. So patient and kind . I want to just hug you . I live in California so big hugs to you all.
What a crazy woman! I wouldn’t mow her lawn for love or money because she was so rude! So much for being a good neighbor! Good for you for helping people out for free! Amazing 🎉!
That fact that instead of getting outraged you are considering doing her yard is a demonstration of your good heart. You are like a real life Ted Lasso of lawns! Good luck whatever you decide.
... and this malcontent is one of those saying: "Where have all of the Good Men Gone?" Hell, they ran as far & as fast as they could, in the opposite direction, once they saw her coming. Can you even imagine what any children that she has raised, would be like? OMG!
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No good deed goes unpunished
There's ways to approach people if you need help. Walking up to someone and initiating first contact with "What the f*** are you doing?" Isn't a good start. Props to you for even acknowledging her and handling the situation the way you did.
Way to stay focused and have the patience to deal with that lady. Lord only knows whats kind of situation she is living and you were a winner for helping her and the first free yard. Youre blessed and youre passing those blessings onto others even if some folks are lost and not able to understand what you are doing as a free service. Not everyone is positioned in this life to understand how to be successful and being able to bless others. Thank you so very much. Im also a native michangander that moved to Nashville about 12 years ago so I understand and know there are some crazy things going on with some Michiganders and in other states too. Im new to your channel but curious to know more about you cuz youre a blessing and good people.
I Love seeing you help the elderly! I'm 60 and disabled and Ppl like you come once in a lifetime! I practically have to beg or have alot of money to get help! You are a true blessing for all who are elderly and I am so grateful their are ppl like you in the world! Prayers, Love & Hugs from IN. CountryLady!
It’s powerful how far kindness can get you. I’m sure if she asked you nicely you wouldn’t have hesitated to help her. Be kind, everyone, always.
Amen!!
This exactly what I was thinking too. Have some manners and ASK, without being rude and a blatant jerk.
I hope 4chan found her address and trashed her place lol
If she has a man, he can do the work or get his buddies to help. He is just lazy, don’t help young lazy people. The elderly need the help. Not those others. Don’t help her, charge her.
@@timesaver6085
Poor guy probably divorced or commited sudoku a long time ago after being married to her.
Being with her seems like literal hell
If she had changed her tone and THANKED YOU for your kindness at the end, I would say yes. The fact that she's an angry neurotic who is nasty when you're kind and offering to help her and her community is a big HANDS OFF sign ✋
She's got issue's! Maybe if he mowes her Lawn she might learn something? Might?
@@chrisyates8115 naw
With that attitude how she get pregnant