There are so many men who love some of these aspects. I am a needy person. Ill be honest. I love putting on makeup too. And my boyfriend loves my neediness cuz he is not needy. And as for the makeup he likes me with or without it. You are grouping together to many people that have to many different opinions. It is basically stereotyping men.
1. Not too much makeup 2. Don't overdo your hair 3. Don't gossip too much 4. Trash talking your ex 5. Don't get too needy 6. Don't play hard to get 7. Don't play victom 8. Don't party too much 9. Have your own opinion Sounds like a lot of work...
@@officersquarehead Actually no, it's not at all bad advice, to both, men and women. I'm a guy and I can confirm that I (and all of my guy friends tbh) don't find any of these things attractive, but showing some of it is harmless, it's the exaggeration of those features that are a turn off. And I'm pretty sure that men over the top doing those things are a huge turn off as well (and a shitload of other stuff), I for sure can't stand a _friend_ badmouthing his ex gf all the time, imagine being his current gf.
It's funny, if I don't wear makeup or dress nicely, guys don't notice me or care. But as soon as I put on extravagant makeup and a cute outfit BAM I exist.
Let me try to explain from a guys point of view OK, sometimes makeup mean I want you to see me, it all depends on the kind of person you are, some girls look more pretty with makeup but i should not be too much, no colors, just looked at your picture, I like you makeup its OK, over doing it is not OK
Why is this so complicated? I'm going to flat iron my hair if I wan to and I'm going to put it up. And every man is different. I don't even know why I clicked on this video.
Lol you used a clip from Miss Congeniality during the "men prefer natural" part... In the movie he literally begins to find her attractive AFTER she goes through vigorous "beautification" regimens. 💁🏽
@@officersquarehead What the actual freak. He may judge your _appearance_ the first time he sees you, but if he judges _you_ for your appearance he is a huge prick.
Lol I get it... everyone has there own different reason for doing things, but I have personally encountered many men who don't like how much makeup I wear, and I know I would probably "attract" more men if went without it, but I choose not to because to me it's self expression. Also of course people wear makeup to look attractive, but the difference is if you're doing it to look attractive for yourself or someone else.
OMG, thank God this arguments over so I can FINALLY resume my self-fulfilling activities of narcissism like slap bat poop on my face and call myself pretty. Oh, and while I'm at it why don't I murder an entire orphanage as a sacrifice to Satan to never age because... you know Millennials am I right?! Lol... so many people make these ABSOLUTELY insane, off the cuff assumptions about my ethics, priorities and intelligence ALL because I wear makeup. Yes, I didn't dignify the rest of your response with an answer because it was essentially an assumption that I prioritize physique ( plus it's spelled physique not physic :) )over my own intelligence, and don't tell me that I mis-interpreted it. Whatever, you can think what you want about me, but you'll never know whether I'm actually a Valedictorian, or an all A student, or that I'm on forefront of a medical breakthrough, all you'll know is that you assumed that I was vapid and dumb because I enjoy makeup.
Just to save you some time: 1) don't over do makeup and hair 2) don't be a gossip 3) don't bad mouth your Ex 4) don't be too needy 5) don't play hard to get 6) don't play the damsel in distress 7) don't be a party girl 8) don't always agree to everything he says ❤️❤️❤️❤️
As a man this is 100% true. We men *hate* needy girls like the one showned in the video saying "Last time I waited 2 hours for your call, CALL ME WHEN YOU GET THERE UNDERSTAND ME???!!!" We men *cannot* support those girls.
In short: be yourself. Don't go out 'manhunting', rather just work on who you are and what you stand for. Finding the right person is a matter of patience and luck after all, it's better to use your time trying to figure out your own life than to waste it on people who may or may not be interested in figuring it out with you.
Marije this whole video is about giving advice for those who need it. If you're not here for that and can't add anything useful, why are you here? Btw not like there's no video about what girls find unattractive. Oh no! Girls don't like this or that? lets never do it again! I hope you get it
Society today Wear lots of makeup But don't wear a lot of makeup Act gentle and nice Act hard to get Wear short or skinny stuff Wear what makes you happy
@@BigBoss-sh2jx than how do you exist?? What do you know about God???Your still living and your still learning. There's so much to believe rather than thinking about God a fake. Keep that in mind, and you''ll soon find out eventually when the "world ends"...Have a great life sir😊("world ends" there's many meanings to it, so don't be panicking, just trying to wake ppl up)😆😂 but serously...I mean it😐
Tupoumoheofo Tuifua Island gal 🙏 Amen and yup I agree I am sorry buttt i don’t care if you disagree, but God IS REAL. Non believing scientists have tons of proof. It historically HAPPENED.
The makeup you see on Instagram, is a lot of the time inspired by what drag artists have been doing for years. It is done to sculpt the face with harsh couture to create a feminine appearance. It looks great in pictures thus spurring it popularization quickly among the peoples. Although in real life the harsh exaggeration of features doesn't look so good. Natural makeup is the best makeup.
You say your opinion as if it’s a fact. Like, I find special effects makeup and drag makeup impressive AF, as someone who has attempted both, THAT STUFF IS HARD TO DO!
Other than the first one and maybe the last one, none of these should be "surprising." That said, women who engage in these behaviors do attract guys--but chances are those guys are gay. Speaking as a gay man, I love it when a woman goes all-out on hair and makeup, is always ready to go out and party, is willing to dish, and trashes her exes. It's fun, cathartic, and soooo important. But yeah, I wouldn't date someone like that, regardless of gender.
i actually know some straight guys that like it too! they said that it's somehow attractive and charming when a girl takes care of herself and dolls herself up nicely..
pink peach, they only say that to get some 🐱. Trust me, when they're ready to REALLY settle down it won't be with one of these catty gossiping Marilyn Monroe wannabes.
"Playing the damsel in distress" "always agreeing with him" "Playing hard to get" LOL smh please men love that shit. They want their women to be helpless little baby chicks that need to be saved. They also want their woman to be submissive and trust their man's instinct and support his decisions. Not that there's anything wrong with any of that but it IS what most men want.
I'm a guy and I don't like any of those things. Damsels in distress = taking precious time out to sort out their shit. Playing hard to get = not interested. Always agreeing = has no opinion or original thought. Who actually has the time or energy for that? Not me, and not any of my friends.
The plebian, lowest common denominator men. Like the club-going, Night at the Roxbury type. "Well I'm a ___, and I do/don't like ___" Well no shit. Every demographic has its outliers.
this video was made for those who wants to know what guys find unattractive. they're not saying that you're doing your makeup for a guy. if you're not doing it for a guy, then so be it. I think the title of the video is very clear about the topic.
Princess Joanna Apparently the title wasn't clear enough... But luckily diamonds like you understood that, unfortunately though, there are far more rocks than diamonds it would seem
Here are some unattractive things IMO 1. Caked face and/or dry skin 2. Getting tanned 3. Kylie jenner looking flappy bird lips and thick eyebrows 4. Listening to trap and some rap music 5. Saying basic girl stuff like "yaaasss" or "slay queen/bitch" 6. "Matte" dry skin instead of dewy, nice hydrated skin 7. Matte lipsticks (they look terrible, why not a nice lip gradient with some lip gloss to make them look hydrated?) 8. Drinking way too much or going out to parties regularly 9. Not looking like Irene from red velvet (don't take this one seriously, but she's the most beautiful woman I've ever seen in my life)
True, less makeup is better. I think one wants to have an inclination of what the woman would look like when she wakes up in the morning. Natural hair color is good Gray hair is good if it is on a and fit woman with a healthy weight. I must admit to have fallen for a woman who colored her hair and hardly ever showed mismatched roots. Independent women are attractive in that they 'want' you but are not 'needy' for you. Also they will communicate and disagree if need be.
Look you can wear your makeup and hair however the hell you want, but the point of this video is to show what studies say men find attractive or not attractive. No ones telling you to change or whatever so calm down.
There's more to this list than meets the eye. (Can't think of other reasons yet after these few.) 9: Having multiple sexual partners is a massive turn off. I keep a rule that females have to have the same amount of sexual partners as me (which is 0) to be even worthy of being with me. 10: Keep your crazy to yourself. Most men don't like drama or crazy. We want a stress free environment. 11: Don't physically hit him. You may never know what kind of man you're getting with. He may be the type of man (like me) who takes any physical contact as abuse and will respond with violence to rectify the situation.
Look pretty, but not too pretty. Be assertive, but not too assertive. Accommodate men, but not too much so as to become annoying. Did I get that right? It's kind of shitty to assume that women base their entire looks and personalities around attracting men.
3:33 "Men want to know they add value to your life, and that they're no superfluous, expendable, or disposable." All modern women treat men as superfluous, expendable, or disposable. They can easily just get on a dating app get a new man.
Sarah Almotawa actually yes you care very much and there's no refuting that both men and women care about how they appear to each other no matter what they say
How dare you use Denitslava as a thumbnail in "Things Guys Find Unattractive". Didnt read the title and got excited about her new video and now... meh.
Wow...lot of angry comments about the makeup thing. Wear the makeup for yourself, and you'll be fine. The point was not to overdo makeup just to attract a guy. Calm down though; it's a UA-cam video. Breathe in, breathe out. Better? I've never worn makeup myself, but I respect the rights of other women to wear makeup if they so choose. And guys, if you want to wear makeup, more power to you too.
* Overdoing the makeup and hair | 0:29 -- I guess (slight yes) * Being a gossip | 2:02 -- I want to know everything (no) * Bad-mouthing your ex | 2:42 -- I mean, I don't want her to leave me for her ex, but if she and I break up, will she bad-mouth me for nothing, too? Does she have a good reason? (neutral to yes) * Being too needy | 3:25 -- nobody could outdo me in neediness; I wish they could, but no (strong no) * Playing hard to get | 4:12 -- ineffective and dishonest (yes) * Playing the damsel in distress | 4:53 -- gender roles, and dishonest (yes) * Being a party girl | 5:42 -- yeah, introverts are less likely to divorce; quality time with your partner is better time than time spent partying with others and being reckless (yes) * Always agreeing with him | 6:28 -- that's a very good thing as long as she's honest/genuine in it. I'm *totally* looking for a clone (no)
Weird... these are the EXACT eight things I find unattractive in a man! Haha! I can't help but love these list clips; they're just so damn entertaining. If ever I think feminism is dead, I simply watch one of these and think "oh, no... it still lives on in the very depths of my soul and brushes my Kat Von D stained lips with every guffaw."
Almost every girl i've tried to date always goes super extremely hard to get, they accused me of being a pervert when i'm not doing anything, and they "friend zone" me just so they can feel good about themselves. Any women reading this, please don't be like this, show respect to almost everyone :3 stay awesome. Another thing is that my friends girlfriend played damsel in distress... Instant breakup.
1. I rarely wear makeup and I really don't do too much styling to my hair besides flat-ironing. But that's only when I'm going somewhere fancy or a special event. 2. I would talk about sports and cool facts. 3. Well I never dated so if I ever get a boyfriend, no need. 4. That's very true. Like show that you like him a lot, but also show he doesn't center your life. 5. It's kinda hard for me to play hard to get cause temptation gives in. 6. It feels weird. Like I don't want to seem like I need to be rescued. I like to show I can figure out my problems without the help of others. Now, like if something's too heavy for me to pick up on my own, if my hands are full, or if something is too much work for one person, then yes I'll ask for help. 7. I don't party. I've had a few sips of alcohol, but I don't drink regularly. 8. I'm never afraid to show my disagreement or to show my opinions. Like ESPECIALLY for food, TV shows, and movies.
I hate that everyone says "makeup is unattractive,man don't like too much makeup,you should wear less makeup,it looks unnatural etc.." Am I the only one that doesn't see it? I love to see a women that takes care of her looks. BOO YOU DO YOU and you better slay that BEAT FACE because momma didn't raise a quitter 💁🏻
My dad always said that playing hard to get is one way to get boys, BUT don't over do it, like if they ask you out every now and then just say 'Let me think about it'
Zey Prestige No, I actually prioritize personality over looks, I would refuse to date even a 10/10 looking women if she didn't have any self respect, thought she was gods gift, or just not very nice, on the other hand, however.. If you have a great personality, there's a good chance I'll be attracted to that alone
If a guy doesn't like me for how I dress, do my makeup or hair, or how I talk, then he doesn't like me and then why would I want to be with a guy who doesn't like me? Everyone should find a partner for themself
I'm a sucker for minimal makeup and natural looking hair. I really love the look of a straight flatiron on asian and white girls and a natural kinky brushing on black girls. Depending on what kind of hair a latina has, I prefer it to be as natural as possible, either straight or kinky. I appreciate the overall effort, and consider it flattering that a woman would spend so much time to make themselves look like their ideal self when going on a date with me, but I generally dislike complicated hair and makeup on dates. I'm a guy that likes the beauty in a haphazard natural world. Seeing the natural grain glow when applying finishing stain in my woodworking projects is my favorite part, and I appreciate the same thing in women. Just a touch of finish on natural beauty brings out the best, and hopefully the personality is strong enough to match. I think the major issue is when a person appears too gaudy and overdone, it shows an overall lack of taste. I understand that stage makeup needs to be over the top, but styling oneself after a music video singer is not an everyday thing. Maybe for a special night of playful romance, but if I saw girl wearing blackout mascara like Avril, she'd look very odd walking down the street for a coffee.
I normally don't get "triggered" but the point is no one should change themselves in order to "attract" a man or woman. If you have to change yourself to attract a significant other - the relationship will eventually fail. End of story. You have to love yourself before you can let someone else love you.
I agree with number 1. Make up should just enhance your natural look. It's ok to over do it if you are at a special event and want to get glammed up, but even then it should not be caked on like a clown. Bad mouthing your ex is also a turn off. It is basically saying that you can't be trusted to make good judgments, and what will you say about me if we break up. As far as neediness goes it depends. We want to feel desired and needed, but we don't want to be the only source of your self-esteem. It's important to walk together and hold each other up when the other falters, and that can't happen when we are only holding you up. Playing hard to get can be fun in small doses, but honest closeness is more important than head games and hidden messages. Playing the damsel in distress is not attractive to us guys. We want to honestly help a woman in need, but it can come off as manipulative and head gamey. We want to be wanted, but not needed for your self-esteem. Just be your honest self, good, bad or otherwise, someone will find you attractive, so why waste your time with a person who doesn't know the real you. :)
Don't know that these are universal. Point-by-point: 1 & 2. My fiancee sometimes goes for the natural look and sometimes overdoes her hair and makeup (by the standards of this video). She's always beautiful, but looks best when she has whichever look makes her feel the most comfortable in her own skin (which varies from situation to situation). 3. I gossip a shade more than she does. 4. She's actually a deal kinder to her ex than I would have been in her shoes. 5. We're about equal on this. We are both disabled, and have fairly complementary physical and mental limitations. Stereotypically, she's my inspiration and I'm her rock, but we role reverse seamlessly when needed. We are both needier than "average" 6. She doesn't do hard to get. 7. She's been an actual victim (not playing) of certain traumas, loving her through the healing process is immensely rewarding to me. 8. Not a party girl. 9. No problem there: she has no problem challenging my opinion, but only seems to do that when I'm wrong. Many times her thoughts lead me to a more well-rounded opinion on a topic. She is also very capable of the drama that "men don't like". Life with her has it's ups and downs, but I'm never bored! My ex calls me a drama king, BTW. I've also never been happier. I feel a depth of love for her that I didn't even believe possible before I knew her. And I'm no dewy-eyed youngster--I'm 63 and she's 58.
I get what she's saying. Instead of trying too hard in any of these areas, just be yourself on good behavior. It's ok to wear makeup, just not too much. Ok to be a little hard to get, but not to where you look like you aren't interested at all. That tip about not trashing exes (or anyone) goes very far in life. Want to ruin a job interview? Rant about how bad your last boss or job was. Basically it's avoid negative or extreme attitudes and actions. A smile goes a long way. Guys like a genuine smile.
if he's worth literally anything, you shouldn't be making drastic changes just to 'attract a mate'. while I do agree that some of these are bad habits (such as gossiping) this is clearly a huge generalisation. just be yourself and he will love you
The make up thing is really really insightful, some girls who are usually very attractive are to be found on date night with ridiculous amounts of make up and silly hairstyles, which make them look less attractive than they truly are
Experience has taught me that men stay hung up on the overly dramatic ex for years. I got so sick of hearing how guys relationship with ex had developed so quickly cause he had to save her from something.
APPEARANCE SHOULDN’T HAVE TO MATTER! As long as you’re being yourself, wear makeup if you want, wear trackies if that’s what you like, wear tight dresses if that is what makes you comfortable! Do what you want, don’t listen to some crap another person tells you. If a boy *or girl* is trying to make you dress or look a particular way, THEN RUN GURL! Just do what you want, that’s what I’m trying to say, ya know, it’s a bit cliche but it’s a valid statement.
If you are looking for someone who is right for you, just be yourself. Be advised that being yourself might repel a crush. So, if you want to pursue a crush, you might have to change, and the relationship will end when the real you comes out.
As a guy, I can say this is 100% true. To the women saying, "Who says make up is to attract guys?" um, no one is saying it is. But it's generally a fact that the more make up women wear, the more high maintenance and shallow they appear, let alone, most of us like women that look like humans.
I attract quite a few guys. I don't do any of these things. I am myself and it works very well. And I don't wear makeup unless it is a special occasion. And even then you don't even notice I have any on. I put minimal makeup on. I don't even use eyeliner. I used to wear a full face of makeup but I realized I am beautiful just the way I am and men find it more attractive when I am confident enough to go all natural. When they find out I don't really like makeup their body language turns to me relaxed and voice changes to a very very interested tone.
I might have used this video to try and learn how to turn off a guy that seems to be getting interested in me. I can't just flat out say I'm not interested until he states that he's actually interested, and the hints don't seem to be enough. Ugh, I hate when coworkers like you.
Did we leave anything out? Did we mention something you disagree with?
when I saw Robert Pattinson within the first 20 seconds I screamed lol
The List I don't think this list was sexist enough, please fix this in the next video. Thanks.
The type of man that you are presenting in this video is irresponsible, cold hearted and this list might have worked during my grandma's era.
The List You shouldn't tell a man that a lot of guys want you, as that can make him feel as if he has too much competition.
There are so many men who love some of these aspects. I am a needy person. Ill be honest. I love putting on makeup too. And my boyfriend loves my neediness cuz he is not needy. And as for the makeup he likes me with or without it. You are grouping together to many people that have to many different opinions. It is basically stereotyping men.
Badmouthing an ex. What ex? Don't worry I'll never badmouth an ex, because I've never had one.
Queen B LOL same
Queen B sAME
you don't need a boyfried with 12 ...
just wait...
Queen B i think they meant the letter 'x'... I dont badmouth them but they can be preetty rude sometimes...
1. Not too much makeup
2. Don't overdo your hair
3. Don't gossip too much
4. Trash talking your ex
5. Don't get too needy
6. Don't play hard to get
7. Don't play victom
8. Don't party too much
9. Have your own opinion
Sounds like a lot of work...
This video sucks
It's all bad advice.
Sounds a lot *like work 😂
Yeah this video is acting like you cant do anything you like trying to change you.
@@officersquarehead Actually no, it's not at all bad advice, to both, men and women. I'm a guy and I can confirm that I (and all of my guy friends tbh) don't find any of these things attractive, but showing some of it is harmless, it's the exaggeration of those features that are a turn off.
And I'm pretty sure that men over the top doing those things are a huge turn off as well (and a shitload of other stuff), I for sure can't stand a _friend_ badmouthing his ex gf all the time, imagine being his current gf.
It's funny, if I don't wear makeup or dress nicely, guys don't notice me or care. But as soon as I put on extravagant makeup and a cute outfit BAM I exist.
Das cuz you butt ugly
William Montomeery wow.
But is all this effort attracting the right kind of guy? Or are you just netting the ones looking for a quick shag?
Then it's the fuck me pumps... they say you're available.
Let me try to explain from a guys point of view OK, sometimes makeup mean I want you to see me, it all depends on the kind of person you are, some girls look more pretty with makeup but i should not be too much, no colors, just looked at your picture, I like you makeup its OK, over doing it is not OK
Why is this so complicated? I'm going to flat iron my hair if I wan to and I'm going to put it up. And every man is different. I don't even know why I clicked on this video.
Pepes Eyelash same bro
Probably to laugh at the pure sexism and uselessness of the video lol
Lol you used a clip from Miss Congeniality during the "men prefer natural" part... In the movie he literally begins to find her attractive AFTER she goes through vigorous "beautification" regimens. 💁🏽
pls dont believe movies, they play to your fantasy
Men judge from the first time they see you. So always look your best!
@@officersquarehead What the actual freak. He may judge your _appearance_ the first time he sees you, but if he judges _you_ for your appearance he is a huge prick.
Why does wearing makeup have to be about attracting men?!
Lol I get it... everyone has there own different reason for doing things, but I have personally encountered many men who don't like how much makeup I wear, and I know I would probably "attract" more men if went without it, but I choose not to because to me it's self expression. Also of course people wear makeup to look attractive, but the difference is if you're doing it to look attractive for yourself or someone else.
It kind of helps because whether you like it or not, not all of us are cool with being dissatisfied with how we look.
And also once again you're tying it all back into being about men lol. I like makeup because I do, how about that?
OMG, thank God this arguments over so I can FINALLY resume my self-fulfilling activities of narcissism like slap bat poop on my face and call myself pretty. Oh, and while I'm at it why don't I murder an entire orphanage as a sacrifice to Satan to never age because... you know Millennials am I right?! Lol... so many people make these ABSOLUTELY insane, off the cuff assumptions about my ethics, priorities and intelligence ALL because I wear makeup. Yes, I didn't dignify the rest of your response with an answer because it was essentially an assumption that I prioritize physique ( plus it's spelled physique not physic :) )over my own intelligence, and don't tell me that I mis-interpreted it. Whatever, you can think what you want about me, but you'll never know whether I'm actually a Valedictorian, or an all A student, or that I'm on forefront of a medical breakthrough, all you'll know is that you assumed that I was vapid and dumb because I enjoy makeup.
Probably because some woman look bad without it, so if you actually are trying to impress your crush, the video gave you advice on what to do.
To find Mr Right be yourself
Correct.
This is bullsh*t. I like to wear baggy clothes and no make-up. I have short hair and don't care about sports. Do you think men will come running?
I believe you, but you had a lot of luck to find a rare man like that. Most women like us have to extremely lower our standards or end up alone.
@@marelicainavokado Men who actually know you and like your personality will :/
The more you try to impress someone, the less they will like you.
"Guys don't like makeup."
Phew, good thing I'm a lesbian. I can wear all the makeup I want!
Amelia Nannette lol why are you watchibg this if your gay
@@clairecallister2290 she can watch whatever the fuck she wants and it's lesbian, not gay. That's a big difference
thats a mood
@@clairecallister2290 heck im pan and im watching this because i have nothing else to do with my life, so mind your business.
Amelia Nannette “ I thought your We’re American”?
Lol good for u I’m not but my dads disappointed that I’m straight because he said boys suck! Lol
Just to save you some time:
1) don't over do makeup and hair
2) don't be a gossip
3) don't bad mouth your Ex
4) don't be too needy
5) don't play hard to get
6) don't play the damsel in distress
7) don't be a party girl
8) don't always agree to everything he says
❤️❤️❤️❤️
Why am I watching this I'm a lesbian
Rachel Brown why are u watching this?
Rachel Brown are you sure you are .
Lol I am starting to think being a lesbian is the best thing right now. there so many videos on what guys hate and what you shouldn't do in public
Rachel Brown haha because we just want to know if we are right and the video is as shitty as it seems like. I think🤔
Rachel Brown 😂😂😂😂
As a man this is 100% true. We men *hate* needy girls like the one showned in the video saying "Last time I waited 2 hours for your call, CALL ME WHEN YOU GET THERE UNDERSTAND ME???!!!" We men *cannot* support those girls.
In short: be yourself. Don't go out 'manhunting', rather just work on who you are and what you stand for. Finding the right person is a matter of patience and luck after all, it's better to use your time trying to figure out your own life than to waste it on people who may or may not be interested in figuring it out with you.
what if your true self is clingy, likes to party, gossip, and is hard to get and loves to wear crazy hair and too much makeup, then what?
I was kidding, relax.
Party girl.
I'm hard to get. I'm so confident and independent.
I guess you won’t get a boring mate, who hates women who like to be themselves XD
Woe is you! * dramatic faint *
Right I feel like I’m all these things at times 😂
Oh no! Guys don't like this or that? Let us never do that again!
that's the spirit bitch! now where's the sammich?
+Mr. Sidorax we need more boys like you
+Mr. Sidorax i've no clue how you look like haha
Marije I love your sacasm
Marije this whole video is about giving advice for those who need it. If you're not here for that and can't add anything useful, why are you here? Btw not like there's no video about what girls find unattractive. Oh no! Girls don't like this or that? lets never do it again! I hope you get it
For women reading this : don't change yourself for someone else
Society today
Wear lots of makeup
But don't wear a lot of makeup
Act gentle and nice
Act hard to get
Wear short or skinny stuff
Wear what makes you happy
or you can just wait for the right one God has made for you 😊
reemal that's what my mom always says! I guess it is better cause then you don't have to do all the work to get a guy
At the time of me seing the comment the world is at an odd amount of people
reemal god is fake
@@BigBoss-sh2jx than how do you exist?? What do you know about God???Your still living and your still learning. There's so much to believe rather than thinking about God a fake. Keep that in mind, and you''ll soon find out eventually when the "world ends"...Have a great life sir😊("world ends" there's many meanings to it, so don't be panicking, just trying to wake ppl up)😆😂 but serously...I mean it😐
Tupoumoheofo Tuifua Island gal 🙏 Amen and yup I agree I am sorry buttt i don’t care if you disagree, but God IS REAL. Non believing scientists have tons of proof. It historically HAPPENED.
The makeup you see on Instagram, is a lot of the time inspired by what drag artists have been doing for years. It is done to sculpt the face with harsh couture to create a feminine appearance. It looks great in pictures thus spurring it popularization quickly among the peoples.
Although in real life the harsh exaggeration of features doesn't look so good.
Natural makeup is the best makeup.
not sure if you realized but, the best makeup is the kind people do because it makes them happy
You say your opinion as if it’s a fact.
Like, I find special effects makeup and drag makeup impressive AF, as someone who has attempted both, THAT STUFF IS HARD TO DO!
What the hell can we be around men? Can we breathe around them? Damn!?!
Better to ask first.
No
Be your true self but here's 7 mins on how to change yourself
It's stupid how people get so offended about other people's opinion smh
Other than the first one and maybe the last one, none of these should be "surprising." That said, women who engage in these behaviors do attract guys--but chances are those guys are gay. Speaking as a gay man, I love it when a woman goes all-out on hair and makeup, is always ready to go out and party, is willing to dish, and trashes her exes. It's fun, cathartic, and soooo important. But yeah, I wouldn't date someone like that, regardless of gender.
Drew Conway right
but I'm not a gay
Ratnadipa Biswas Did somebody say you were? I think you missed my point.
i actually know some straight guys that like it too! they said that it's somehow attractive and charming when a girl takes care of herself and dolls herself up nicely..
let's be friends
pink peach, they only say that to get some 🐱. Trust me, when they're ready to REALLY settle down it won't be with one of these catty gossiping Marilyn Monroe wannabes.
MOST of this stuff on the List should be common sense
I do none of these things and yet I'm single. Explain that.
Fucking same here like fuck nothing works.
Heartbeat & Dippy I feel you 😂😂
Maybe you're just a mean ass bitch that never smiles at men.
You're lucky.
@@mac4727 why would I ever smile at a pathetic man? 😉🤣🤦🏾♀️
"Playing the damsel in distress" "always agreeing with him" "Playing hard to get" LOL smh please men love that shit. They want their women to be helpless little baby chicks that need to be saved. They also want their woman to be submissive and trust their man's instinct and support his decisions. Not that there's anything wrong with any of that but it IS what most men want.
Spooky Mumbles
Well I'm a guy and I agree with everything in the video.
I'm a guy and I don't like any of those things. Damsels in distress = taking precious time out to sort out their shit. Playing hard to get = not interested. Always agreeing = has no opinion or original thought. Who actually has the time or energy for that? Not me, and not any of my friends.
The plebian, lowest common denominator men. Like the club-going, Night at the Roxbury type. "Well I'm a ___, and I do/don't like ___" Well no shit. Every demographic has its outliers.
this video was made for those who wants to know what guys find unattractive. they're not saying that you're doing your makeup for a guy. if you're not doing it for a guy, then so be it. I think the title of the video is very clear about the topic.
Princess Joanna Apparently the title wasn't clear enough...
But luckily diamonds like you understood that, unfortunately though, there are far more rocks than diamonds it would seem
Here are some unattractive things IMO
1. Caked face and/or dry skin
2. Getting tanned
3. Kylie jenner looking flappy bird lips and thick eyebrows
4. Listening to trap and some rap music
5. Saying basic girl stuff like "yaaasss" or "slay queen/bitch"
6. "Matte" dry skin instead of dewy, nice hydrated skin
7. Matte lipsticks (they look terrible, why not a nice lip gradient with some lip gloss to make them look hydrated?)
8. Drinking way too much or going out to parties regularly
9. Not looking like Irene from red velvet (don't take this one seriously, but she's the most beautiful woman I've ever seen in my life)
Most women don't wear enough makeup, not too much makeup. only some teenage girls wear too much makeup. Very few women look good without any makeup.
True, less makeup is better. I think one wants to have an inclination of what the woman would look like when she wakes up in the morning. Natural hair color is good Gray hair is good if it is on a and fit woman with a healthy weight. I must admit to have fallen for a woman who colored her hair and hardly ever showed mismatched roots. Independent women are attractive in that they 'want' you but are not 'needy' for you. Also they will communicate and disagree if need be.
Look you can wear your makeup and hair however the hell you want, but the point of this video is to show what studies say men find attractive or not attractive. No ones telling you to change or whatever so calm down.
my gf's hair is naturally straight. I love it. wavy is fine too, but her straight blond hair grabbed my attention
Just stopping by to read the "omg I'm so triggered I don't exist to be attractive to men and everything I do is for ME!!1!1!@!!!!" comments.
That why you need to be alone on an island forever, maybe even outer space... in a galaxy far far away.
Townes Jones Douche
There's more to this list than meets the eye. (Can't think of other reasons yet after these few.)
9: Having multiple sexual partners is a massive turn off. I keep a rule that females have to have the same amount of sexual partners as me (which is 0) to be even worthy of being with me.
10: Keep your crazy to yourself. Most men don't like drama or crazy. We want a stress free environment.
11: Don't physically hit him. You may never know what kind of man you're getting with. He may be the type of man (like me) who takes any physical contact as abuse and will respond with violence to rectify the situation.
If you "don't care", why the hell are you here? #youarethedramaqueenthevideowasreferencing
Killer Queen thats not how #s work
Killer Queen, they're just mad because the list in this video decribed them to T. #TruthHurts
People are ruining #s
Alessia P. Who
Look pretty, but not too pretty. Be assertive, but not too assertive. Accommodate men, but not too much so as to become annoying. Did I get that right? It's kind of shitty to assume that women base their entire looks and personalities around attracting men.
DID YOU JUST ASUME OUR GENDER 😂😂
Brenna Sullivan
No?
Welp... this one is not a keeper
Yes, yes I did
*assume
Brenna Sullivan No you did...
Me: "Oh, I'm doing the right things by nature? Sweet!"
*Can't get a date to save my life*
I do my hair and makeup for myself thank you very much. I don't do it for no man.
So does the creature from the black lagoon.
Karen Foshaugen but you still clicked on the video
so you do care what men think about women
@@nutmalone5527 For the same reasons that I watch the Perry Johnson movies
I like to make fun of the stupidity
Why should we have to change so much for a man if I want makeup and I like to party then that’s what I want to do
media: love yourself! be you!
also media:
Never trust media without proper discernment.
GOSSIP IS SO CATTY.......WOMEN SHOULD FOCUS ON THIER BEHAVIOR!.
did we ask for men's opinions or it's just women doing their thing and men commenting it? because i think it's mostly the second option.
I use a lot of makeup and overdue my hair for me and how I feel about myself, not to attract men
funny thing that I literally don't care
hermione lam the funny thing is all of the females that care say the same thing
I am a woman, and the majority on this list are true. Even as a woman, I find these things to be unattractive behavior.
And I have pin straight hair so lmao
Same
3:33 "Men want to know they add value to your life, and that they're no superfluous, expendable, or disposable."
All modern women treat men as superfluous, expendable, or disposable. They can easily just get on a dating app get a new man.
who else thaught it was denitslava's video😒😒???
Simran Shrestha meeeeeee!! I see her. I clicked.
"8 Things That Guys Find Unattractive That Everyone Already Knows"
Fixed that for you.
WE DONT CARE WHAT GUYS THINK SMH
Sarah Almotawa actually yes you care very much and there's no refuting that both men and women care about how they appear to each other no matter what they say
Of course you do or you wouldn't state otherwise.
I don't believe you.
I totally agree with many of these, like the party point
How dare you use Denitslava as a thumbnail in "Things Guys Find Unattractive". Didnt read the title and got excited about her new video and now... meh.
Why do they always say "opposite sex" well maybe I'm trying to atract the same sex thank you very much
Wow...lot of angry comments about the makeup thing. Wear the makeup for yourself, and you'll be fine. The point was not to overdo makeup just to attract a guy. Calm down though; it's a UA-cam video. Breathe in, breathe out. Better? I've never worn makeup myself, but I respect the rights of other women to wear makeup if they so choose. And guys, if you want to wear makeup, more power to you too.
* Overdoing the makeup and hair | 0:29 -- I guess (slight yes)
* Being a gossip | 2:02 -- I want to know everything (no)
* Bad-mouthing your ex | 2:42 -- I mean, I don't want her to leave me for her ex, but if she and I break up, will she bad-mouth me for nothing, too? Does she have a good reason? (neutral to yes)
* Being too needy | 3:25 -- nobody could outdo me in neediness; I wish they could, but no (strong no)
* Playing hard to get | 4:12 -- ineffective and dishonest (yes)
* Playing the damsel in distress | 4:53 -- gender roles, and dishonest (yes)
* Being a party girl | 5:42 -- yeah, introverts are less likely to divorce; quality time with your partner is better time than time spent partying with others and being reckless (yes)
* Always agreeing with him | 6:28 -- that's a very good thing as long as she's honest/genuine in it. I'm *totally* looking for a clone (no)
Weird... these are the EXACT eight things I find unattractive in a man! Haha! I can't help but love these list clips; they're just so damn entertaining. If ever I think feminism is dead, I simply watch one of these and think "oh, no... it still lives on in the very depths of my soul and brushes my Kat Von D stained lips with every guffaw."
I have slick straight hair naturally and have to work my ass off to get wavy hair for it to look what you consider "natural"
ok so what about men gossiping and being needy?
Those are the gay men.
Almost every girl i've tried to date always goes super extremely hard to get, they accused me of being a pervert when i'm not doing anything, and they "friend zone" me just so they can feel good about themselves. Any women reading this, please don't be like this, show respect to almost everyone :3 stay awesome.
Another thing is that my friends girlfriend played damsel in distress... Instant breakup.
As a man, that's some solid advice! ;)
1. I rarely wear makeup and I really don't do too much styling to my hair besides flat-ironing. But that's only when I'm going somewhere fancy or a special event.
2. I would talk about sports and cool facts.
3. Well I never dated so if I ever get a boyfriend, no need.
4. That's very true. Like show that you like him a lot, but also show he doesn't center your life.
5. It's kinda hard for me to play hard to get cause temptation gives in.
6. It feels weird. Like I don't want to seem like I need to be rescued. I like to show I can figure out my problems without the help of others. Now, like if something's too heavy for me to pick up on my own, if my hands are full, or if something is too much work for one person, then yes I'll ask for help.
7. I don't party. I've had a few sips of alcohol, but I don't drink regularly.
8. I'm never afraid to show my disagreement or to show my opinions. Like ESPECIALLY for food, TV shows, and movies.
I hate that everyone says "makeup is unattractive,man don't like too much makeup,you should wear less makeup,it looks unnatural etc.." Am I the only one that doesn't see it? I love to see a women that takes care of her looks. BOO YOU DO YOU and you better slay that BEAT FACE because momma didn't raise a quitter 💁🏻
"wavy, curly" hair is considered much more attractive than "straight, flat ironed" hair.
*wow that hit me hard*
Me: * vibes in “my hair is too short to even fit either classification, it just looks like Ponyboy Curtis’s hair” *
Idk why I'm watching this, I'm gay.
My dad always said that playing hard to get is one way to get boys, BUT don't over do it, like if they ask you out every now and then just say 'Let me think about it'
Ummmm so this video literally states dont do this dont do that and then goes like....but b urself....okayyyyy then
One time I sat down near my crush and he literally asked me "What's the goss??" XD
If the girl is pretty,EVERYTHING she does is likeable to the guys eyes,you don't need to make a stupid list,Talko.
Zey Prestige No, I actually prioritize personality over looks, I would refuse to date even a 10/10 looking women if she didn't have any self respect, thought she was gods gift, or just not very nice, on the other hand, however.. If you have a great personality, there's a good chance I'll be attracted to that alone
+Leviathan TS Well that's good to hear.Hope you find that,rare species.
Zey Prestige Yeah, that's the thing... but thanks :3
Most of the pretty women I see have great personalities.
Zey Prestige no there has to be some good personality in there too the guys that go just for looks are just as shallow
1:43 Welp I was born with naturally very straight hair.
men gossip just as much as women!
I don't know if that's true, but I do know some men gossip. But I don't understand why anyone does it. I mean, who the hell cares?
If a guy doesn't like me for how I dress, do my makeup or hair, or how I talk, then he doesn't like me and then why would I want to be with a guy who doesn't like me? Everyone should find a partner for themself
None of these are surprising
I'm a sucker for minimal makeup and natural looking hair. I really love the look of a straight flatiron on asian and white girls and a natural kinky brushing on black girls. Depending on what kind of hair a latina has, I prefer it to be as natural as possible, either straight or kinky. I appreciate the overall effort, and consider it flattering that a woman would spend so much time to make themselves look like their ideal self when going on a date with me, but I generally dislike complicated hair and makeup on dates. I'm a guy that likes the beauty in a haphazard natural world. Seeing the natural grain glow when applying finishing stain in my woodworking projects is my favorite part, and I appreciate the same thing in women. Just a touch of finish on natural beauty brings out the best, and hopefully the personality is strong enough to match. I think the major issue is when a person appears too gaudy and overdone, it shows an overall lack of taste. I understand that stage makeup needs to be over the top, but styling oneself after a music video singer is not an everyday thing. Maybe for a special night of playful romance, but if I saw girl wearing blackout mascara like Avril, she'd look very odd walking down the street for a coffee.
The amount of triggered women in the comments is equally sad and hilarious
. Dont start acting cocky now. We can all go back to the dudes side and call them out for the dumbass sh they say too
just like in the videos about woman body perfections through the years
Most of these things are opinion based things.
I normally don't get "triggered" but the point is no one should change themselves in order to "attract" a man or woman. If you have to change yourself to attract a significant other - the relationship will eventually fail. End of story. You have to love yourself before you can let someone else love you.
I agree with number 1. Make up should just enhance your natural look. It's ok to over do it if you are at a special event and want to get glammed up, but even then it should not be caked on like a clown. Bad mouthing your ex is also a turn off. It is basically saying that you can't be trusted to make good judgments, and what will you say about me if we break up. As far as neediness goes it depends. We want to feel desired and needed, but we don't want to be the only source of your self-esteem. It's important to walk together and hold each other up when the other falters, and that can't happen when we are only holding you up. Playing hard to get can be fun in small doses, but honest closeness is more important than head games and hidden messages. Playing the damsel in distress is not attractive to us guys. We want to honestly help a woman in need, but it can come off as manipulative and head gamey. We want to be wanted, but not needed for your self-esteem. Just be your honest self, good, bad or otherwise, someone will find you attractive, so why waste your time with a person who doesn't know the real you. :)
where r the early squad
Syeda Rafsana here
*wait ! they are late*
Don't know that these are universal. Point-by-point:
1 & 2. My fiancee sometimes goes for the natural look and sometimes overdoes her hair and makeup (by the standards of this video). She's always beautiful, but looks best when she has whichever look makes her feel the most comfortable in her own skin (which varies from situation to situation).
3. I gossip a shade more than she does.
4. She's actually a deal kinder to her ex than I would have been in her shoes.
5. We're about equal on this. We are both disabled, and have fairly complementary physical and mental limitations. Stereotypically, she's my inspiration and I'm her rock, but we role reverse seamlessly when needed. We are both needier than "average"
6. She doesn't do hard to get.
7. She's been an actual victim (not playing) of certain traumas, loving her through the healing process is immensely rewarding to me.
8. Not a party girl.
9. No problem there: she has no problem challenging my opinion, but only seems to do that when I'm wrong. Many times her thoughts lead me to a more well-rounded opinion on a topic.
She is also very capable of the drama that "men don't like". Life with her has it's ups and downs, but I'm never bored! My ex calls me a drama king, BTW. I've also never been happier. I feel a depth of love for her that I didn't even believe possible before I knew her. And I'm no dewy-eyed youngster--I'm 63 and she's 58.
Idgaf im not even straight lmao
haha right . I was like welp -- good thing I like girls too I guess lol.
girls dont like girls with too much make up
WeirdInternetz some girls don't some girls do
Lol same why am I here?
In a nutshell, be yourself, be genuine and don't play games.
So he can party and I can't ??
Party as hard as you want. The video's saying it'll probably push away the serious, long-term dudes.
I get what she's saying. Instead of trying too hard in any of these areas, just be yourself on good behavior. It's ok to wear makeup, just not too much. Ok to be a little hard to get, but not to where you look like you aren't interested at all. That tip about not trashing exes (or anyone) goes very far in life. Want to ruin a job interview? Rant about how bad your last boss or job was. Basically it's avoid negative or extreme attitudes and actions. A smile goes a long way. Guys like a genuine smile.
Really?
No, just kidding.
Next to this was a makeup ad😂
Just came here to say I don't care
Alphae Femme And you did a great job at conveying that message by posting about 500 comments on this video alone
Capricae same boo same
I like how you adjust your subtitles right now! It's more clearly to read! Love it~^_^
Denitslava on the thumbnail 😯
if he's worth literally anything, you shouldn't be making drastic changes just to 'attract a mate'. while I do agree that some of these are bad habits (such as gossiping) this is clearly a huge generalisation. just be yourself and he will love you
Num 1. Believing they're men
The make up thing is really really insightful, some girls who are usually very attractive are to be found on date night with ridiculous amounts of make up and silly hairstyles, which make them look less attractive than they truly are
Experience has taught me that men stay hung up on the overly dramatic ex for years. I got so sick of hearing how guys relationship with ex had developed so quickly cause he had to save her from something.
APPEARANCE SHOULDN’T HAVE TO MATTER! As long as you’re being yourself, wear makeup if you want, wear trackies if that’s what you like, wear tight dresses if that is what makes you comfortable! Do what you want, don’t listen to some crap another person tells you. If a boy *or girl* is trying to make you dress or look a particular way, THEN RUN GURL!
Just do what you want, that’s what I’m trying to say, ya know, it’s a bit cliche but it’s a valid statement.
If you are looking for someone who is right for you, just be yourself. Be advised that being yourself might repel a crush. So, if you want to pursue a crush, you might have to change, and the relationship will end when the real you comes out.
You say hello, you get a bad attitude from someone who assumes you never attended a university. You walk away.
As a guy, I can say this is 100% true. To the women saying, "Who says make up is to attract guys?" um, no one is saying it is. But it's generally a fact that the more make up women wear, the more high maintenance and shallow they appear, let alone, most of us like women that look like humans.
I attract quite a few guys. I don't do any of these things. I am myself and it works very well. And I don't wear makeup unless it is a special occasion. And even then you don't even notice I have any on. I put minimal makeup on. I don't even use eyeliner. I used to wear a full face of makeup but I realized I am beautiful just the way I am and men find it more attractive when I am confident enough to go all natural. When they find out I don't really like makeup their body language turns to me relaxed and voice changes to a very very interested tone.
We don’t buy makeup bc we wanna impress guys... we buy it bc it’s art and it makes us feel good.
I might have used this video to try and learn how to turn off a guy that seems to be getting interested in me. I can't just flat out say I'm not interested until he states that he's actually interested, and the hints don't seem to be enough. Ugh, I hate when coworkers like you.
Ladies - do not speak until you are given permission to speak. Thank you.