I got myself a nice lake house & bought a car in cash at 23 using my pretty privilege in 3 months. I lost it all because of a dusty & jealous friends from my past. They copied everything I do & they got in the nice neighborhoods by copying me (stealing my privilege) I’m still healing from the trauma at 31, the crazy thing people do when they see a pretty girl getting things easily is wild.
@@survivingthiss that’s amazing! I hope you make videos sharing your storytimes! I like doing stories on this channel sometimes , I had a cold this week so I don’t feel like researching and recording for my sociology videos, I just want to be done in one take. 🤭
Girl, the jealousy and envy is wicked. Destiny swapping is what she did to you. Even I had an ex who did this to me! I hope she does a video on Destiny swapping.
The point you mentioned, not wanting to walk in the neighborhood because of the cat calling and bystanders resonated so much with me. I currently live in the hood and I would love to walk outside but there’s always people outside smoking and just out lurking. My apartment is gorgeous and spacious but the area is hoood. I even stopped going to the gym in that area because it is always overcrowded no matter the time of day. Now I just use my walking pad, dumbbells, kettlball. And resistance bands at home.
yup thats what i did! i also forgot to mention in the video i eventually joined a gym in a nicer area as well and i would just drive there to take classes. so basically, my apartment was just a place for sleeping. thats it. whenever i was awake i was gone. i also decorated my apartment on the inside to make it look as pretty as possible too.
You are such an icon!! I love hearing your stories, especially this about how you found inspiration around you in the “everyday” aspects of your dream life. Seems so simple but super impactful ❤
This channel is beyond eye opening and so helpful! Thank you. There’s nothing like losing your pretty privilege and then gaining it back. I recently lost the weight I gained over Covid (whew thank goodness). I think it’s like retrieving your privilege after losing it amps up our manifestation power and gratitude! I’m like living in this movie after listening to your channel: Pretty Privilege Back with a Vengeance - This time is personal!
Ive lived in the ghetto before but as a kid moved to an upper class area and there is a big difference. When i stayed in the ghetto it was always chaos going on. Messy diabolical people that loves to create drama and keep it stirring, messy dirty streets filled with trash ans pot holes, hole in the wall stores, tacky apartment buildings thats ran by tacky low class apartment owners and managers, messy neighbors the list goes on and on. If you have to stay in the ghetto just try to stay out the way. Go to work, school, run errands do what you have to do but just try to stay low key. Keep things friendly but short and always keep conversations on a surface level. Keep it on topics like food, weather, colors. Alot of the people in the ghetto especially women and girls can be downright messy and dangerous, alot of them dont have anything to loose.
Yes, this video was everything! I want to be down to 120-130lbs. When I am fit I want to go get pink Lululemon leggings so I can be like the Pink Pilates Princess trend
This video highlights how important it is to be in a different environment to get a different perspective from the one you already have. Thats the catalyst for change. All thats left is to do the work consistently.
One time I walked this neighborhood by this mansion where they were having this huge party. I was with my friend at the time when I said that’s one of those parties where you could find a sugar daddy. Fast-forward a year later, I’m living in the neighborhood and I actuallybecame the sugar baby of the man who lived in that mansion.😂
The places im usually welcomed even with slight intimidation is in a high end area i love big city areas far and near where i live . My freind persuade me to get a Cosco like membership card next to the prices of the items the experience was awesome next is after watching theater plays is the two of us visiting and stroling around designer stores(dior, givenchy etc) the same way my mentor takes me with him as exposure(to be fair he was exposing me there cause we are in the same industry)
@@ExoticalsUnitedyour giving me ideas to go back to also plan my move while focus on my fashion career (being fit makes sewing and designing easier for me) being stylish and fun!❤
This story and the other stories in this comment section are so inspiring 😢 All of you ladies are beautiful and strong I aspire to live my dreams just like you all. And i am living my dreams its gonna happen. I know it damn will 😠😠😠😠
31:40 the blood of Karen came out 😂 Good on you for negotiating cause most people would have just moved on. A lot of people get embarrassed by nos or feel its beneath them to negotiate
Video suggestion, any thoughts on exoticals in the medical field? I am curious on your thoughts on that. I think this would be an interesting video topic. Or maybe even just a general video topic on exoticals going back to college to level up in their career in order to get a bigger bag and get an upgrade in lifestyle. I am personally deciding a career change and going back to college so I can get a bigger bag and achieve the lifestyle dream I personally always wanted.
I started get cat called when I went into high school I grew up in a black low middle class suburb Not the hood but not a rich suburb Due to that I never wanted to live in an all black neighborhood again No matter how affluent
@@MystiqalMelaninI work w all black ppl and know how they move. No trepidation just focus on my safety. I prefer mixed neighborhoods over all black neighborhoods. If you know, you know!
I found this video about Aaron pierre (no idea who he is) but he is a light skin man and the thumbnail shows him with darker skin and the title says still find him attractive? The comments are FILLED with you know what lol ! I think just the video comment section would be a great comment foolery video 😂 ua-cam.com/video/W_Qnn2UQHLs/v-deo.htmlsi=kcHDVPJ_oMwVG2hq
I got myself a nice lake house & bought a car in cash at 23 using my pretty privilege in 3 months. I lost it all because of a dusty & jealous friends from my past. They copied everything I do & they got in the nice neighborhoods by copying me (stealing my privilege) I’m still healing from the trauma at 31, the crazy thing people do when they see a pretty girl getting things easily is wild.
@@survivingthiss that’s amazing! I hope you make videos sharing your storytimes! I like doing stories on this channel sometimes , I had a cold this week so I don’t feel like researching and recording for my sociology videos, I just want to be done in one take. 🤭
Girl, the jealousy and envy is wicked. Destiny swapping is what she did to you. Even I had an ex who did this to me!
I hope she does a video on Destiny swapping.
High end libraries and art museums motivate me to live a better life.
Omg yes same! 😻
I love how the pictures go with the story lol
The point you mentioned, not wanting to walk in the neighborhood because of the cat calling and bystanders resonated so much with me. I currently live in the hood and I would love to walk outside but there’s always people outside smoking and just out lurking. My apartment is gorgeous and spacious but the area is hoood. I even stopped going to the gym in that area because it is always overcrowded no matter the time of day. Now I just use my walking pad, dumbbells, kettlball. And resistance bands at home.
yup thats what i did! i also forgot to mention in the video i eventually joined a gym in a nicer area as well and i would just drive there to take classes. so basically, my apartment was just a place for sleeping. thats it. whenever i was awake i was gone. i also decorated my apartment on the inside to make it look as pretty as possible too.
Gave myself a GOOD TALKING TO to get back on track for 2025 healthwise. I'm listening to this while loading my vitamins in my Amazon cart lol
Period I use these videos when I go on the stairmaster.
@@cesargalvan9808😂😂😂 Same!
Awww that’s amazing ! I just took a hair skin and nails gummy vitamin before reading this comment .
I've noticed since slimkim and your channel embracing being slim so many people especially big backs are now trying to lose weight
Exactly
You are such an icon!! I love hearing your stories, especially this about how you found inspiration around you in the “everyday” aspects of your dream life. Seems so simple but super impactful ❤
This channel is beyond eye opening and so helpful! Thank you. There’s nothing like losing your pretty privilege and then gaining it back. I recently lost the weight I gained over Covid (whew thank goodness). I think it’s like retrieving your privilege after losing it amps up our manifestation power and gratitude! I’m like living in this movie after listening to your channel: Pretty Privilege Back with a Vengeance - This time is personal!
Yes! I feel like you’re more grateful for it after losing and then regaining it .
Ive lived in the ghetto before but as a kid moved to an upper class area and there is a big difference. When i stayed in the ghetto it was always chaos going on. Messy diabolical people that loves to create drama and keep it stirring, messy dirty streets filled with trash ans pot holes, hole in the wall stores, tacky apartment buildings thats ran by tacky low class apartment owners and managers, messy neighbors the list goes on and on. If you have to stay in the ghetto just try to stay out the way. Go to work, school, run errands do what you have to do but just try to stay low key. Keep things friendly but short and always keep conversations on a surface level. Keep it on topics like food, weather, colors. Alot of the people in the ghetto especially women and girls can be downright messy and dangerous, alot of them dont have anything to loose.
Yes, this video was everything! I want to be down to 120-130lbs. When I am fit I want to go get pink Lululemon leggings so I can be like the Pink Pilates Princess trend
Omg I’m obsessed with that trend !
I feel this level of inspiration with my new small business venture. I'm determined to create a better life for myself.
I love how you are financially responsible something I wasnt taught this is so important 💕 this can help me level up!
This video highlights how important it is to be in a different environment to get a different perspective from the one you already have. Thats the catalyst for change. All thats left is to do the work consistently.
One time I walked this neighborhood by this mansion where they were having this huge party. I was with my friend at the time when I said that’s one of those parties where you could find a sugar daddy. Fast-forward a year later, I’m living in the neighborhood and I actuallybecame the sugar baby of the man who lived in that mansion.😂
I work at Trader Joe’s and honestly just seeing the pretty and fit customers encourages me so much!
When I listen to your stories, I feel inspired by how much I have grown on my journey.
Love to see new videos everyday 😚
Sameee, im loving these videos
Yes daily videos hit.❤
Inspirational!~ The visualization and delusion- and with small exemplary cues, reprogramming your mind that you do and will belong- is everything.💎
Love this! ✨💕
I love Trader Joe’s flowers ❤ …. This story was inspiring. Your breakdowns are so helpful and make it seem achievable.
The places im usually welcomed even with slight intimidation is in a high end area i love big city areas far and near where i live . My freind persuade me to get a Cosco like membership card next to the prices of the items the experience was awesome next is after watching theater plays is the two of us visiting and stroling around designer stores(dior, givenchy etc) the same way my mentor takes me with him as exposure(to be fair he was exposing me there cause we are in the same industry)
Omg yes ! It’s like a form of exposure therapy to get rid of inferiority complexes about being in a nice place !
@@ExoticalsUnited exactly!
@@ExoticalsUnitedyour giving me ideas to go back to also plan my move while focus on my fashion career (being fit makes sewing and designing easier for me) being stylish and fun!❤
Awww, I love this! This is a great, video. Thank you!
living for the story times 🤗🩷
you put in that work girl! you are BEYOND intelligent and inspiring!
Love these storytimes!!💖💖
Listening to this as I’m doing my house chores and into my 16 hour fast ♡
Nice ! 😍
Yes please share the next part of your story. I'm hooked!
Good morning. Thank you for another story time
I loved watching day in the life of gorgeous influencers because I think I was visualizing that kind of life for myself. It works. 💕
love these story times 😊
This story and the other stories in this comment section are so inspiring 😢 All of you ladies are beautiful and strong
I aspire to live my dreams just like you all. And i am living my dreams its gonna happen. I know it damn will 😠😠😠😠
I want to move out but my credit is 638. I hate living at home but idk if i should wait 😂
I love this . I do a lot of the same things ❤
31:40 the blood of Karen came out 😂
Good on you for negotiating cause most people would have just moved on. A lot of people get embarrassed by nos or feel its beneath them to negotiate
Video suggestion, any thoughts on exoticals in the medical field? I am curious on your thoughts on that. I think this would be an interesting video topic. Or maybe even just a general video topic on exoticals going back to college to level up in their career in order to get a bigger bag and get an upgrade in lifestyle. I am personally deciding a career change and going back to college so I can get a bigger bag and achieve the lifestyle dream I personally always wanted.
hey, yes I can talk about that in the patreon, thats where i do specific and tailored video requests like that.
@@ExoticalsUnited Awesome! Thanks for letting me know 👍
I started get cat called when I went into high school
I grew up in a black low middle class suburb
Not the hood but not a rich suburb
Due to that I never wanted to live in an all black neighborhood again
No matter how affluent
I hope you can get rid of that trauma and feel less trepidation around black people again
@@MystiqalMelaninI work w all black ppl and know how they move.
No trepidation just focus on my safety.
I prefer mixed neighborhoods over all black neighborhoods.
If you know, you know!
What’s the name of the girl in the thumbnail? She’s gorgeous ❤😍
Do you have to join the patreon to be able to join the discord?
💖💖💖👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
EU you lived in a hetic episode of the chi
what is the chi 💀
@@ExoticalsUnited A ghetto show
@@ExoticalsUniteda tv show
I found this video about Aaron pierre (no idea who he is) but he is a light skin man and the thumbnail shows him with darker skin and the title says still find him attractive?
The comments are FILLED with you know what lol ! I think just the video comment section would be a great comment foolery video 😂
ua-cam.com/video/W_Qnn2UQHLs/v-deo.htmlsi=kcHDVPJ_oMwVG2hq
This was so inspiring!
I just wanna say I love your channel I found you 2 weeks ago and love absorbing your content 🩷💅