Generally speaking I think its more true that women find you rather than the other way around. Specifically if a girl is not giving you opportunity to speak with her etc. she is not interested so dont bother and if you're going to make an opportunity to speak to a girl remember the two important rules 1. Be attractive, 2. Don't be unattractive. So in light of that just try be your best version of yourself go to church and worship God, spend time with family (assuming its worth it for you), make friends (both men and women, whoever respects you), try figure out your health, develop yourself (spiritually, physically and mentally/skills/career) and just enjoy yourself or follow whatever calling God impresses on you. If you do all that maybe (sadly only maybe) there will be a woman who takes notice and tries see if you got what it takes. If women are too picky or want a bad boy etc. or just are walking red flags there isn't really an actionable solution. Pray obviously but I cant give you a plan or realistic expectation. Especially when in all likelihood not succeeding with girls is a negative feedback loop as people judge you more and more for various things because you're not already a winner. And to be clear I don't think for a majority of men especially young that its their fault for being on their own in today's world. On women's side it seems to me that Christian women are liable to expect too much from men as secular women do by virtue of seeing them on social media etc. (if God gives that 304 online 'chad' I get one too right?) and maybe not being so virgin. For everything else like trying to build friendship groups, the world is especially bad for everyone. Bad money etc. is making everyone perpetually poorer so they have less to give to church, less time for friends and charity etc. For young men especially this impoverishment bites you in less economic development (especially of a meritocratic variety...) to give upward mobility and that just pushes men's lives far too back to do well in dating and everything else.
@@stephengray1344 I know a couple where they're from different churches and they attend both, so that's also a possibility (if they're not at the same time. Some churches have afternoon services. Or another possibility can be to attend one of them one week and the other one the next week). Some churches even allow dual membership.
I'm an older married woman. I heavily recommend talking in depth about the theology that is important to you and going to church together before you get married. You can be from the same denomination but one might not be interested in actually practicing the faith. Also, date to marry. Be upfront about your intentions. This time in our history is not the time to be silent about this. If any of you have questions I will do my best to answer if you have no one else to talk to.
Every now and then I’ll come across theology nerd guys on the internet who say they really like a girl, but she’s non-denominational, acting like it’s a dealbreaker. I know some guys who are these traditional magisterial Protestant types and when they met their wife she was going to a non-denominational church. You would think this would be a problem but if the woman really cares about her faith, she will want to learn about the nerdy theology the guy knows. My grandmother doesn’t know that much nerdy theology but she is the best Christian I know. I’m 99% sure she wasn’t Presbyterian when she met my grandfather. Seeing her faith made me want to study nerdy Theology and grow in my faith, even though she isn’t a nerd like me. It’s always been the case that women are less interested in Theology than men, but it’s only a problem if they roll their eyes at it or never want to talk about it, which usually means their faith is lukewarm.
@@chiukid It's true. Most relationship issues would be solved if people were just upfront with what they are looking for in a relationship. Sometimes it's not easy talking about difficult topics on a first date. But it's important to find out if the other person is looking for the same thing. Even talking about whether they want children is important
As a Christian girl, it's definitely really hard finding a guy who doesnt idolize relationships, and it's the same with finding female friends. I want people who are willing to chase God with me and a man who will lead that. I think a lot of people now though believe that having a relationship will fulfill them, heal them and make them happy. While a relationship does partly do that it doesnt fully since we are made whole by God. Relationships are hard and if you cant even maintain and stay faithful to your relationship with Jesus how will you manage one with a person who isnt perfect?
Exactly! :) another girl here. I’m hoping God will bless me with a husband but also not my will but His be done. I have to pursue God first…even though it’s hard sometimes to not idolize marriage and family, that’s not THE goal in life
Thank you for your comment, I'll make sure to keep that in mind going forwards. Hadn't thought about that much, but I can see how that will be a dangerous trap that could be easy to fall into.
"let's be honest: if you give a guy a compliment, he'll fall in love with you immediately, because guys are starved for some sort of positive attention." Bro ain't got to call me out like that
6. Wait more until you feel the most unattractive man in this world and lose all hope just to understand that God is enough 🙏✝️☦️ And find her after this
6. Wait more until you feel the most unattractive man in this world and lose all hope just to understand that God is enough 🙏✝️☦️ And find her after this
As a girl, I’m just gonna say this: Christian girls want a guy who will initiate a relationship, they want someone to pursue them, someone they can respect. So if you mean waiting until you find the right girl, that’s good, but if you think you found her don’t wait! (I know it’s not that easy, but don’t expect her to take the first step)
@@noxplay4906 I have no idea what a 304 is, the women in my personal life are diverse and amazing and I don’t want a partner that can’t express themselves.
This is true, i literally missed my girls' curfew the other day because we got distracted talking about sacramentology, and I've never been so in love with her before.....
As a Catholic guy, it's also important that she doesn't create drama and impedes simple communication by assuming accusations. For example, I recently left a relationship because the girl kept accusing me of monitoring her simply because I wanted to know more about her workday. I don't monitor, and a good Christian man won't ask to see your phone or anything like that
@@koalaplays8855 really, get out sir of the secta where you at. Jesus didn't come to America, neither golden tables were found with the scriptures. Mormonism is not a christian denomination recognized by catholics, orthodox and protestants. It is, whether you like it or not, an invention of Joseph Smith, a trap and an opression to anyone trying to leave the mormonism. Change my mind!
@@koalaplays8855 “probability on craziness”? There are obvious ways to debunk Mormonism even from a secular standpoint, ways that have absolutely nothing to do with waving your religion around as the ‘correct one’ and anything else and wrong. For example, the Book of Mormon preaches that the true Israelites were the Native Americans, which is just scientifically false. Mormonism is a cancer and a cult.
Faith is obviously a non-negotiable, but my biggest wish is to marry a woman who desires me as much as I desire her. I intend never to divorce, I’d hope my wife feels the same.
You're gonna find her, God will put her in your life, just keep your eyes on him. I don't think a women can stay faithful or fully love a man if she doesn't love God fully. God is love and it takes a lot of work to stay faithful to him and to have faith in him. All of which are things we want in marriage.
@@ICantThinkOfAFunnyHandle I didn’t say divorce, I said annulled and if one spouse is abusing the other and I don’t mean verbal, I mean beatings, then it’s clear the relationship isn’t working and they shouldn’t be living together.
I know there's an age divide now between me and the younger people because the broccoli hair popped up. I also am not loving the curly mullet with the septum piercing and mustache on young men nowadays. Looks odd
I’m probably gonna get some serious flak for saying this, but here goes (for both genders): If you’re overweight, *lose that weight if you absolutely can.* Nobody needs extra problems in the dating world right now. I’ve seen too many people who would be pretty attractive if they weren’t 300 pounds. If you haven’t already, start trying to eat right and work out. You don’t gotta be a fricking model, but we can all at least try to look our best.
As a woman, I agree. I went from 234 to 180 since January 2024. My weight goal is 160 as I’m also 5’9. My boyfriend (who is very muscular) also comes with me to the gym every Tuesday and Thursday morning, and we go on short walks on Sunday evenings. We both prioritize our health so we can live longer and have a healthy chance of starting a family within marriage. Also, junk food doesn’t do it anymore for me personally 😭😭😭😭
@@MossW268Nice. I got a good laugh out of that one. Especially after hearing about the recent "all religions are valid roads to God" crap that I learned about from Mike Winger.
For all the boys wondering, here's how I found my wife: Pray for the right woman but don't date until God makes it clear that you should, improve yourself as a Christian and a man, follow God's plan for your life, go to a church with youth and young adult programs.
But it is important to know the difference between the holy spirit's voice and you body's. My mom was absolutely convinced that the holy Spirit told her to marry my father. Nearly twenty years later they're divorced and can't stand each other.
Speaking objectively, I check off all these boxes (the nerdy theology bit could always use improvement). But the main issue is GETTING the guy 😂. They're all either Baptist, across the country (my parents don't like that) or lukewarm "Christians". Or they're already taken. I'm willing to wait though, gives me more time to prepare 🙃
I mean, how I met my boyfriend is that I asked God how should I be a wife to my future husband? I started going to the gym, cooking more at home, being more extroverted, loving the Lord more vocally, and standing my ground as a virgin waiting for marriage and not settling for any wordly guys. Sooner or later, my boyfriend showed up and approached me! He said the first thing he noticed was my love for the Lord and how I prayed for others….and my big afro 😭😭😭 But other than that, for my men of God watching this, God has already chosen your future wife. The thing He wants you to do in the meaning-time is to rely on Him and ask Him to shape you for whatever plan Jesus has in store. Continue to spread the gospel, practice forgiveness and steadfastness, and accept for God to let His will be done. I hope this helps! :-) - 1 out of the 10 Christian girls who watch RZ
Initial attraction: will she accept the things about me that I want to keep (my christian values, my good friends, my family, my passions). Marriage material: Is she someone who will inspire me to become better. My girlfriend is both, and we are already talking about marriage.
Here’s the main things I look for in a Christian man: 1. Passionate about the faith- not just “Christian” but actively growing in the faith. 2. Hard-working- Is passionate about something, puts effort into his life and work, doesn’t sit around waiting for others to clean up his messes. 3. Gentleman- This is HUGE. So many Gen Z men and boys don’t have any respect for women. No talking about women or anyone in a disparaging way, putting self first, getting drawn in by worldly charlatans…
I'm still too young to have a girlfriend because I'm not 18, but here's what I look for. -A Christian -loves the Roman empire -Presents the same good morals to me, her friends, her parents, random people she meets. Consistent. - being genuinely interested in interesting things. (Hopefully, God is the main one of those.) and showing that same interest in you. -You are genuinely attracted to her. But not just for gross reasons. -She respects herself and her body, her parents, assuming they are good, and she shows that same respect to all that God deems good. -lastly, she is a supralapsearian, postmillennial, Calvinist Baptist, who wants to have ten kids, a farm, and rule the world! That last one might be a bit unrealistic. But I just want her not to be a dispansational rapture believer. We can work on the rest.
You want a mannequin that agrees with all of your opinions and produces babies for you. Might as well skip the whole dating thing and just buy women like cattle, the way it used to go down.
Been with my girl 35 years now, every guy is different, but if she has these qualities, she is worth pursuing: Godly, Cute, Feminine, Loving, Faithful, and Supportive.
Women looks are important! Keep good care of yourself. Stay in shape, and you’re good. There’s nothing superficial about wanting your spouse to be healthy. Yes, people take it too far, but don’t discount your natural and healthy beauty.
I'm not a Lutheran, but if a girl asked me what my opinion on the infralapsarian supralapsarian debate and said that she was supralapsarian herself, I would buy a ring that day.
I’ll add a point on the theology nerd thing: if you don’t know it, he doesn’t care. Just be interested and ask questions. If you need to learn it learn it from him. If he cares about theology he wants others to know it, and will love explaining it. If he isn’t interested in you, at least you’ll learn theology.
@@natejennings4097 as a female I can confirm this works. Was talking with a guy and we were interested in each other, I got introduced by him to Reformed theology. Even though we aren't in touch now, I'm now a radical anti-feminist, historical Protestant, but not yet entirely decided between Lutheranism and Presbyterianism. It took less than a year.
There’s a girl I have my eyes on at church, super awesome and loves the Lord. I told her how I felt about her and she said she didn’t feel the same way. I’m just gonna wait and see if she changes her mind because she’s always acted more than friendly to me😂. Ladies you’re not alone in this tough time.
@@reformedholycannoli one thing, though, is if you can get a single girl to like you and she's a true Christian, she could be an arminian Baptist but introduce her to Reformed theology and you may end up having assisted in the creation of a historical Protestant/Reformed Catholic within a year. Women are generally more malleable than men
Where I live in Brazil, it is hard to find young Christian girls in traditional Protestant churches (Lutheranism and Presbyterianism for example). The majority of young people are mostly in Pentecostal and non-denominational churches.
For the Christian girls who already meet these criteria and don't know what to do, just chase after God until he brings someone into your life who's running as fast as you or faster
Secular dating was so easy bro, finding a Christian girl has been TOUGH. They’re either CRAZY or Married already. It was easier to date when I was an Atheist lol, but there was no intention behind it, Gods putting me in a season of waiting now, I’m not used to it.
Ngl, weight is a factor even if it’s superficial, guys don’t want to be with a person that can’t take care of themself, the immediate thought becomes that they couldn’t take care of children either.
Redeemed Zoomer: We both agree Andrew Tate isn't Christian, but you have to admit he's right about certain things. For example, attraction works differently for men and women. We know from how God created men and women that they're attracted to different things (being a devout Christian being a given): Men: -Looks -Good Personality -Chaste Women: -Wealth -Looks -Status -Humor -6ft tall -Owns a home -Has "game" -Has an advanced degree -600HP car If you notice, women have more requirements
When it comes to female beauty, I think it's actually just the same as male beauty (though I won't pretend to understand makeup) groom yourself, take care of your body, be fit and healthy - wear modest and decent looking clothing. That's all that's needed for a Christian guy to find a young woman physically attractive.
@@wafflesauceyI think it’s more so men like more “natural makeup”. Not the caked up, drag queen makeup with bold colors. Just a simplistic way to look presentable and takes under 10 mintues to do. I use only concealer, eyebrow pencil, and lipgloss. That’s it. Although, make sure to have a good skincare routine before and after.
@@afrofaeries Maybe. But for me personally, I do really prefer no makeup over "natural" makeup. Men don't have to paint our faces to look presentable; I really don't see why we expect women to do so.
@@wafflesaucey I have yet to meet a guy who has seen a woman wear natural makeup and told her to stop and be more authentic instead. Overdone makeup reeks of body image insecurity and I think that's what turns away us guys the most, rather than the idea of makeup being something artificial. But if you know any guys who told their girlfriends to stop wearing makeup entirely, I am willing to accept it may be true
@@goddepersonno3782 My point was only that I personally haven't heard any man state makeup as a criterion for a woman, but I haven't heard anyone really discredit it as a whole, either. I just don't think most guys really care.
3:45 is that Canadian/American facts or middle eastern/asia/africa. I mention this because in the Middle East Africa and Asia its actually the Children that typically lead the parents and family to faith due to the school system. A lot of schools in these areas are run by Christians esp in areas of refugee camps.
From experience if you have troubles with a western relationship i just tell guys to date a Christian Coptic girl from Egypt or a Armenian girl. Girls from the middle East are very religious Christians and rare as most are Muslim but i speak from experience that such relationship is better. There's about 75 million Christians in the middle East and they're generally the best.
@@proatnothing4263 not really interested in blonde girls. I prefer Croatians. Catholic but without the Blondism. They're both Catholic majority Slavic countries. Don't get mad it's just a preference 🥺🥺
Day 13 of asking Redeemed Zoomer to livestream himself listening to the 2006 album Go by the Newsboys because it's good contemporary Christian music (Also where can I find one of these mysterious beings called women?)
Most advice to men: Its ok to be single Lower your standards Just pray about it Work on your confidence Advice to women: I he has a pulse, hes interested in you already But really though. Its really tough out here because were expected to do it ourselves. Talk to the married men and women in your church. They should be happy to set you up with someone if they can. The biggest thing for me is learning from my mistakes. 'This happened in this relationship. I never want that again.' If a man or woman says to you 'Im not making this mistake again' youve found someone good. Theyre taking responsibility for their mistakes.
From a young, married Christian woman, a couple more tips: be involved in your church, and make friends with the other young people at your church. Even if, like at my church, the majority of the people in their 20s/early 30s are already married, make friends with them anyway! Get some devout Christian friends whose judgement you trust, and let them introduce you to a couple of guys. Young married people love introducing their devout, single friends and setting them up with each other. And like RZ said, don't settle. Have the important conversations early in the relationship (like second or third date). Talk about your life goals, whether you want children and how you might want to raise them, important religious topics (like baptism), etc. and if you don't match well, do not proceed with the relationship. Even if he's a great guy, he may not be the right guy for you specifically.
actually George Sr. in young sheldon wasn't sleeping around like you said. But you're right in that he was a lukewarm "Christian" who didn't care all that much about the faith.
It’s been hard to find a good Christian girl. I just got into my 30’s and I’ve had a rough go of it. I go rock climbing regularly, I work at Church (part time now that I found a full time job), joined a life group, and am not unattractive. But I feel like I’m too old for the college crew and most girls past that seem to already be in a relationship, so I feel like I’m stuck.
@@nerychristian Yeah, I’m trying. But it’s just rough. I’m fairly introverted, so I may talk to a few people every week and that’s about it. I’m trying to hang out with people outside of groups to get connections, but that’s been hard as well to schedule. My best bet is probably to get some connections to play matchmaker with me, but I haven’t had much luck so far.
@@crss6846 Well, considering the state of marriage and modern relationships, maybe it’s better that way. But I’m sure we’re just one more secular law away from everything turning around and for utopia to be established, or whatever.
Genuine question, how do I (as a Christian girl) get a better relationship with my father? For context, my dad is not a Christian (and he consistently mocks God) and my parents are divorced. I only see him on some weekends and once a week for dinner. I love him, but it’s difficult to agree on anything. I also pray for him to one day accept Jesus into his heart. I try to show him the love that God has for him through me, but I’m a 16 year old girl, and it feels like an impossible task to “parent my own parent”. I have a great relationship with my mom though! (She’s a Christian)
Happy Birthday Jesus !! 29th of September is His actual birthday. Jesus was conceived at Christmas, born nine months later. This according to the "course of abia". Even the stones give glory to God in spite of their hard hearted observance of Christmas. Our Father is in control. Immanuel, God with us, is celebtrated at the conception of our Savior. ..
I spent so long just settling, and it never worked out. Some ended horribly bad. I then made the conscious decision that I would only date a devout Catholic and found the one that makes me realize why none of the others ever worked.
Hey Zoomer I'm a trans girl who wants to be a Christian and I feel lost, the denominations that welcome me are full of garbage theology, they aren't even sure if Christianity is real, and the denominations with "sound" theology , are hostile towards me and don't understand that I can't repent from being trans, my brain is wired this way, I live with abusive parents and I'm gonna move out and transition as soon as I can but I can't ignore Christianity now that I discovered Dr Gary Habermas and his case for the resurrection of Jesus
Hey, I’m sorry that has been your experience so far :( there is this organisation called revoice that is for lgbtq identifying Christians who hold orthodox biblical views and also a UA-camr named Preston Sprinkle who makes a lot of compassionate yet theologically sound videos concerning this topic. Keep on pursuing Christ and I pray you find community that welcomed you and edifies you xx
Your brain being wired differently doesn’t excuse you from repenting. Some people’s brains are wired to be pedos, to be violent, to do all sorts of things we all agree are sin. I’m NOT saying you’re at the same level as a pedo or violent person. But you do need to repent according to the Bible. You want a church that has good theology, so you are not going to be able to pick and choose which theology you want to follow. You will either get good theology or bad theology. Not good theology with a little bad. I’m not saying I know what you’re going through, but I had gender dysphoria as a kid, same sex attraction as a teen, and my brain’s always been wired in a way that makes me lash out at myself. That doesn’t make my behavior ok. God knows you better than you know yourself. Follow Him and it will be alright.
Another good way to tell of (man or woman) partner is a truly Christian is to compare them to the bible unfortunately I know family that has had this happen in some ways and it causes alot of havoc. Sometimes they’re willing to wait so even if you make them wait it doesn’t always guarantee. Be careful yalls. Ps. Get a pet so if they betray you can send your pet fish after them, thats my plan
Hey. I’m a guy and i have a wonderful girlfriend and we have been dating for many years. She is an atheist and doesn’t not like religion but rather can’t get her head around it. She is severely autistic and I am trying quite hard to convert her (i bring up religion often and talk to about it. I’m not over here forcing her). I genuinely love this girl and she wants nothing more than to have a family and be a mother. She (somewhat unknowingly) has adopted my Christian values. I want her to come to Jesus so desperately because he would change her life. I can see her need. What should i do? Does anyone have any advice. I love this girl. How can i help her?
You should never go into a relationship thinking you will change the person. It will always end up badly. We can't change people. If you can't fathom the idea of marrying her and having her remain the same person, then you shouldn't be with her. You are wasting not only your own time, but her's as well. Do not marry her or continue with her. You've already been dating her for several years? And she still hasn't become a Christian? That's a red flag. Time to move on. There are other women in the world. Unfortunately your emotions clouded your judgement. You will have to break up with her, and it will be messy, and you will feel terrible. But it's the right thing to do. You should have known better. Remember, a good woman will allow her man to lead, in all aspects of life, including the religious aspects.
@@nerychristian yeah i get that. And just for reference, i was no where near as strong in my faith when we got together which is how we got this far. Thank you for your advice man it is much appreciated.
@@jayfenny7461 If you really love her that much then you can like, get her to agree to raise your kids Christian. That's at least a small victory you can aim for.
I’m so tired of hearing people say that guys will fall in love with any girl that compliments him/gives him attention. That only works if the girl is slightly pretty. Below average girls like me have no chance and we have it just as hard as guys when it comes to dating.
If you’re a below-average girl in the looks department, go after below-average guys (obviously I’m talking about looks here. Definitely don’t settle for a bad personality). I don’t understand why people feel they have to be supermodels to date. Most people are average (duh) and many are below average.
@@TuGrupoFavoritoMami Man that sucks for you, my standards are she has to be average or above idc about if she's pretty it's just they can't be off-putting because well baby making would be difficult, to me most girls I see are marriable visually just not personality-wise. Are the guys you're going after Christian guys?
How patient? I think that if your dating for 10 years or engaged for a long time that’s a bad sign. If you’re serious you’d just get married. I would say patient in the context of getting married after 2-4 years.
My advice is to wait until you're both atlest early 20's to start looking for a girlfriend, dateing is expensive and so is college but college also allows you to afford a better house with a better job and so on, as a man you provide so find a way to get a stable income that allows you to afford a family
Hi Redeemed Zoomer, can you please reach out to TheLaymansSeminary? He wants to debate you on the importance of Sola Fide vs the importance of the Trinity
My advice to women. Talk to the married men in the church. They will be able to tell you the good from the bad. They can usually tell you who to stay away from at a glance. The most attractive features we see in a woman are Godliness, sincerity, service, and gratitude. Once youve found a man, you NEED him to know how much he means to you. The last thing you want is for him to feel that doing things for you is a chore that goes unappreciated. Even little things like pulling out chairs and holding doors. Big sacrifices like taking care of you when youre sick and standing up to protect you.
@redeemedzoomer Will you please make a video explaining how to tell the difference between a spirit-filled believer battling the flesh and an unsaved person wrestling with their conscience? Thank you!
0:01 Good thing you made the distinction "most". There are quite a few guys I know that look for a girlfriend who doesn't even exist... fictional 2d anime girls Now I love my fair share of anime, but treating/viewing an anime girl to that degree is simply beyond me 💀
Ok so where to find "women"?
for the people actually replying thanks for the advice wasn't supposed to be so serious but ty.
Church, if you’re young maybe a youth group, and you can also do volunteer work
My uncle had a business where you can buy a wife
They don't exist
@@ringneck7500My wife had a business where you can buy a uncle.
Generally speaking I think its more true that women find you rather than the other way around. Specifically if a girl is not giving you opportunity to speak with her etc. she is not interested so dont bother and if you're going to make an opportunity to speak to a girl remember the two important rules 1. Be attractive, 2. Don't be unattractive.
So in light of that just try be your best version of yourself go to church and worship God, spend time with family (assuming its worth it for you), make friends (both men and women, whoever respects you), try figure out your health, develop yourself (spiritually, physically and mentally/skills/career) and just enjoy yourself or follow whatever calling God impresses on you. If you do all that maybe (sadly only maybe) there will be a woman who takes notice and tries see if you got what it takes.
If women are too picky or want a bad boy etc. or just are walking red flags there isn't really an actionable solution. Pray obviously but I cant give you a plan or realistic expectation. Especially when in all likelihood not succeeding with girls is a negative feedback loop as people judge you more and more for various things because you're not already a winner.
And to be clear I don't think for a majority of men especially young that its their fault for being on their own in today's world. On women's side it seems to me that Christian women are liable to expect too much from men as secular women do by virtue of seeing them on social media etc. (if God gives that 304 online 'chad' I get one too right?) and maybe not being so virgin. For everything else like trying to build friendship groups, the world is especially bad for everyone. Bad money etc. is making everyone perpetually poorer so they have less to give to church, less time for friends and charity etc. For young men especially this impoverishment bites you in less economic development (especially of a meritocratic variety...) to give upward mobility and that just pushes men's lives far too back to do well in dating and everything else.
Why not have Mrs. Redeemed Zoomer help giving women advise? Like a one shot video
She might not want to be a public figure like that, which is totally understandable and I think it’s not necessary for her to be involved with UA-cam
Requests:
-Christian(obligatory)
-Girl(obligatory)
*End the video
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Even if she is obese, bald, smells bad, is full of tattoos, piercings and have STDs ?
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- Not married (obligatory)
- Similar enough theology that you can belong to the same local church (not obligatory, but highly desired)
@@stephengray1344 I know a couple where they're from different churches and they attend both, so that's also a possibility (if they're not at the same time. Some churches have afternoon services. Or another possibility can be to attend one of them one week and the other one the next week). Some churches even allow dual membership.
As a Christian girl watching redeemed zoomer,
another video that didn’t disappoint 😌👌🏼
@@alisatoniian9718 real, nice to see another Christian girl here for once
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Me, a girl, watching this: Wait I'm not a girl
Lol as a girl, we struggle with feeling lonely and isolated from relationships too! This video makes some good points I didn’t consider
So, including me, there's at least three girls watching this
Planning for the future
@@WilderWraith ja…….nein
I'm an older married woman. I heavily recommend talking in depth about the theology that is important to you and going to church together before you get married. You can be from the same denomination but one might not be interested in actually practicing the faith.
Also, date to marry. Be upfront about your intentions. This time in our history is not the time to be silent about this.
If any of you have questions I will do my best to answer if you have no one else to talk to.
Every now and then I’ll come across theology nerd guys on the internet who say they really like a girl, but she’s non-denominational, acting like it’s a dealbreaker. I know some guys who are these traditional magisterial Protestant types and when they met their wife she was going to a non-denominational church. You would think this would be a problem but if the woman really cares about her faith, she will want to learn about the nerdy theology the guy knows. My grandmother doesn’t know that much nerdy theology but she is the best Christian I know. I’m 99% sure she wasn’t Presbyterian when she met my grandfather. Seeing her faith made me want to study nerdy Theology and grow in my faith, even though she isn’t a nerd like me. It’s always been the case that women are less interested in Theology than men, but it’s only a problem if they roll their eyes at it or never want to talk about it, which usually means their faith is lukewarm.
@@chiukid It's true. Most relationship issues would be solved if people were just upfront with what they are looking for in a relationship. Sometimes it's not easy talking about difficult topics on a first date. But it's important to find out if the other person is looking for the same thing. Even talking about whether they want children is important
@@nerychristian Are you married, or in a relationship? If so, how long?
@@ChrisP3000x I'm single
As a Christian girl, it's definitely really hard finding a guy who doesnt idolize relationships, and it's the same with finding female friends. I want people who are willing to chase God with me and a man who will lead that. I think a lot of people now though believe that having a relationship will fulfill them, heal them and make them happy. While a relationship does partly do that it doesnt fully since we are made whole by God. Relationships are hard and if you cant even maintain and stay faithful to your relationship with Jesus how will you manage one with a person who isnt perfect?
Wow i didnt know any girls watch RZ😂
Exactly! :) another girl here. I’m hoping God will bless me with a husband but also not my will but His be done. I have to pursue God first…even though it’s hard sometimes to not idolize marriage and family, that’s not THE goal in life
I just listen while I do chores, I don’t care at all about the Minecraft lol
Thank you for your comment, I'll make sure to keep that in mind going forwards. Hadn't thought about that much, but I can see how that will be a dangerous trap that could be easy to fall into.
I find it so funny girls need to explicitly state that they’re women on the internet
Great video, me and the 5 other Christian girls who like your channel really appreciate the advice /gen
😂
Hello fellow Christian of the opposite sex
@@peanutpablo9596 hello
@@purpleguy-bu5feI didn't think I'd make it this far
@@peanutpablo9596😂😂
"let's be honest: if you give a guy a compliment, he'll fall in love with you immediately, because guys are starved for some sort of positive attention." Bro ain't got to call me out like that
real
I know, right?😅
@@peanutpablo9596 I like your profile picture
@@purpleguy-bu5feMarry me
@@purpleguy-bu5feI can't wait to tell our children that we met in a redeemed zoomer UA-cam comment section
So when are you setting up the Redeemed Zoomer Dating App?
He has no young ladies watching hin
@@Grabthattass this is a lie! we exist! and we love theology ^_^
God bless all in finding their missing rib :D
@@Grabthattass Christianity online is solely defended by neurodivergent terminally online young men or extremely blunt Midwestern soccer moms
@@tft6182 say on dead homies that you are a girl
jk but are there really girls that are interested in theology? wow
@@tft6182 mhm yeah you government spy.
“all the guys around them are idiot goons with broccoli hair”
Gen Z took that personally
What does this even mean huh
@@deutschermichel5807 broccoli hair is a common stereotype for gen z
@@deutschermichel5807shaved sides and permed on top or something approximating that.
1. Get baptized.
2. Attend church as much as you can (minimum every Sunday).
3. be involved in said church.
4. wait.
5. Wait more
6. Find ways to serve your church
6. Wait more until you feel the most unattractive man in this world and lose all hope just to understand that God is enough 🙏✝️☦️
And find her after this
6. Wait more until you feel the most unattractive man in this world and lose all hope just to understand that God is enough 🙏✝️☦️
And find her after this
As a girl, I’m just gonna say this: Christian girls want a guy who will initiate a relationship, they want someone to pursue them, someone they can respect. So if you mean waiting until you find the right girl, that’s good, but if you think you found her don’t wait! (I know it’s not that easy, but don’t expect her to take the first step)
Literally, I fell in love for the first time as a man because I found out she doesn't support abortion (I haven't recovered from that after 5 years)
😂😂
And I fell in love as a first when I found out she wasn't christian
@@Tijaxtolanpfp checks out
I am gonna be assembling Warhammer minis while listening to this, so that's probably my first obstacle.
What army?
If it ain’t Skaven it isn’t worth the time.
A man of culture lol
@@KalebOfAxum12 disagree but I do love shaven, right now I’m doing Bretonnians. Although tau aren’t looking too bad right now.
A man of culture. 40k or Fantasy?
As a married man with a child who just converted (and the only believer in my house), I pray the Lords grace works in his will through my family.
Good luck and God bless
Congratulations on the conversion and may God bless you and your family.
would someone please explain the concepts "girl" and "ladies", i think i missed those complicated theological terms ?
Guy here: If I see a woman lacking modesty, either online or in real life, I am heading away from her at maximum warp.
It’s not like you had a shot
True, most women dress for the streets. And they wonder why men don't respect them
Based fr
@@koalaplays8855 Your taste in women is literal 304s? My goodness modern society ran a train through your mind dude.
@@noxplay4906 I have no idea what a 304 is, the women in my personal life are diverse and amazing and I don’t want a partner that can’t express themselves.
This is true, i literally missed my girls' curfew the other day because we got distracted talking about sacramentology, and I've never been so in love with her before.....
I hate to use this goofy slang but..
Goals
@@TheIncredibleRooster ikr 😅😅, I really have no clue how I stumbled upon such an amazing girl
As a Catholic guy, it's also important that she doesn't create drama and impedes simple communication by assuming accusations. For example, I recently left a relationship because the girl kept accusing me of monitoring her simply because I wanted to know more about her workday. I don't monitor, and a good Christian man won't ask to see your phone or anything like that
Catholic women shouldn’t have “workdays”
Can you make a video about debunking Mormonism? I think it’d be hilarious
@@percyhealtherson2000 I will pray for that🗿
How would someone in a religion debunk another religion? “Um mine is more true” like what? We can’t put probability on craziness
@@koalaplays8855 really, get out sir of the secta where you at. Jesus didn't come to America, neither golden tables were found with the scriptures. Mormonism is not a christian denomination recognized by catholics, orthodox and protestants. It is, whether you like it or not, an invention of Joseph Smith, a trap and an opression to anyone trying to leave the mormonism. Change my mind!
@@koalaplays8855 Mormons claim to be Christians and believe the Bible, but their teachings are contrary to the Bible and Jesus
@@koalaplays8855 “probability on craziness”? There are obvious ways to debunk Mormonism even from a secular standpoint, ways that have absolutely nothing to do with waving your religion around as the ‘correct one’ and anything else and wrong. For example, the Book of Mormon preaches that the true Israelites were the Native Americans, which is just scientifically false. Mormonism is a cancer and a cult.
Faith is obviously a non-negotiable, but my biggest wish is to marry a woman who desires me as much as I desire her. I intend never to divorce, I’d hope my wife feels the same.
Hope? No that’s just a standard. Any divorce EVER is sinful and wrong
You're gonna find her, God will put her in your life, just keep your eyes on him.
I don't think a women can stay faithful or fully love a man if she doesn't love God fully.
God is love and it takes a lot of work to stay faithful to him and to have faith in him. All of which are things we want in marriage.
@@panzerjäger_1 I agree divorce is sinful, but if either spouse is abusive to the other or is cheating the marriage is annulled.
@@crusader2112cheating has a biblical precedent, but where does it say that abuse is grounds for divorce?
@@ICantThinkOfAFunnyHandle I didn’t say divorce, I said annulled and if one spouse is abusing the other and I don’t mean verbal, I mean beatings, then it’s clear the relationship isn’t working and they shouldn’t be living together.
What’s a girl?
@@windbuster Legends say they used to have healthy relationships... Legends...
Another matt walsh documentary?
I see
It's similar to a woman I'd say
@@Joshua12w2oyes another Matt Walsh documentary...so what?
Female human
Chaste, Domestic, Faithful with first love as Christ, and respectful
I‘m one of your little lady subscribers 😙🥰🥳
As a Christian woman I concur
My sisters and I call it “alpaca hair” instead of “broccoli hair” 😂
That refers to the gen Z haircut right? The curly hair thing.
Like the meme 😂
I know there's an age divide now between me and the younger people because the broccoli hair popped up. I also am not loving the curly mullet with the septum piercing and mustache on young men nowadays. Looks odd
I’m probably gonna get some serious flak for saying this, but here goes (for both genders):
If you’re overweight, *lose that weight if you absolutely can.*
Nobody needs extra problems in the dating world right now. I’ve seen too many people who would be pretty attractive if they weren’t 300 pounds. If you haven’t already, start trying to eat right and work out. You don’t gotta be a fricking model, but we can all at least try to look our best.
True. And practice good hygiene, and don't come to church looking like a slob.
As a woman, I agree. I went from 234 to 180 since January 2024. My weight goal is 160 as I’m also 5’9. My boyfriend (who is very muscular) also comes with me to the gym every Tuesday and Thursday morning, and we go on short walks on Sunday evenings. We both prioritize our health so we can live longer and have a healthy chance of starting a family within marriage. Also, junk food doesn’t do it anymore for me personally 😭😭😭😭
Exactly.
That doesn't fit for this video but very much necessary on most videos
@@proatnothing4263 How so? It’s about finding a partner, and I’ve given sound advice on something closely related to that.
If she loves the Assyrian empire and will allow me to rant about them, then she's the one boys.
As a gen Z girl subscriber, I appreciate the shout out 😀
As a Methodist I am in fact smiling and sitting back 👍 good videos man
Come on Zoomer. A lot of your viewer's are going to be single for the Kingdom.
3 videos in 3 days by the best protestant apologist 🥶🥶🥵🥵
you are poorly informed, it's well-known that RZ is best Catholic/Orthodox apologosit who is Presbyterian 😁
Wrong, Pope Francis is the best Protestant/Sedevacantist apologist
@@MossW268Nice. I got a good laugh out of that one. Especially after hearing about the recent "all religions are valid roads to God" crap that I learned about from Mike Winger.
For all the boys wondering, here's how I found my wife:
Pray for the right woman but don't date until God makes it clear that you should, improve yourself as a Christian and a man, follow God's plan for your life, go to a church with youth and young adult programs.
But it is important to know the difference between the holy spirit's voice and you body's. My mom was absolutely convinced that the holy Spirit told her to marry my father. Nearly twenty years later they're divorced and can't stand each other.
@@priestofronaldaltYeah sometimes (most of the time) it’s better to think with your head, not your heart.
Only at the start of the vid and RZ is spitting some facts 💯🔥
Speaking objectively, I check off all these boxes (the nerdy theology bit could always use improvement). But the main issue is GETTING the guy 😂. They're all either Baptist, across the country (my parents don't like that) or lukewarm "Christians". Or they're already taken. I'm willing to wait though, gives me more time to prepare 🙃
If you meet a Baptist guy try to convince him to become a trad Protestant >>:)
Send the Baptist men my way. If they aren’t Calvinistic Baptists yet I’ll convince them.
I mean, how I met my boyfriend is that I asked God how should I be a wife to my future husband?
I started going to the gym, cooking more at home, being more extroverted, loving the Lord more vocally, and standing my ground as a virgin waiting for marriage and not settling for any wordly guys. Sooner or later, my boyfriend showed up and approached me! He said the first thing he noticed was my love for the Lord and how I prayed for others….and my big afro 😭😭😭
But other than that, for my men of God watching this, God has already chosen your future wife. The thing He wants you to do in the meaning-time is to rely on Him and ask Him to shape you for whatever plan Jesus has in store. Continue to spread the gospel, practice forgiveness and steadfastness, and accept for God to let His will be done.
I hope this helps! :-)
- 1 out of the 10 Christian girls who watch RZ
Initial attraction: will she accept the things about me that I want to keep (my christian values, my good friends, my family, my passions).
Marriage material: Is she someone who will inspire me to become better.
My girlfriend is both, and we are already talking about marriage.
Could you have Mrs. Zoomer help with a video about what Christian women look for in men?
Here’s the main things I look for in a Christian man:
1. Passionate about the faith- not just “Christian” but actively growing in the faith.
2. Hard-working- Is passionate about something, puts effort into his life and work, doesn’t sit around waiting for others to clean up his messes.
3. Gentleman- This is HUGE. So many Gen Z men and boys don’t have any respect for women. No talking about women or anyone in a disparaging way, putting self first, getting drawn in by worldly charlatans…
I'm still too young to have a girlfriend because I'm not 18, but here's what I look for.
-A Christian
-loves the Roman empire
-Presents the same good morals to me, her friends, her parents, random people she meets. Consistent.
- being genuinely interested in interesting things. (Hopefully, God is the main one of those.) and showing that same interest in you.
-You are genuinely attracted to her. But not just for gross reasons.
-She respects herself and her body, her parents, assuming they are good, and she shows that same respect to all that God deems good.
-lastly, she is a supralapsearian, postmillennial, Calvinist Baptist, who wants to have ten kids, a farm, and rule the world!
That last one might be a bit unrealistic. But I just want her not to be a dispansational rapture believer. We can work on the rest.
You want a mannequin that agrees with all of your opinions and produces babies for you. Might as well skip the whole dating thing and just buy women like cattle, the way it used to go down.
What christian guys want in a girl: be alive (optional)
Be able to speak (optional)
I’m working on that one
Been with my girl 35 years now, every guy is different, but if she has these qualities, she is worth pursuing:
Godly, Cute, Feminine, Loving, Faithful, and Supportive.
Women looks are important! Keep good care of yourself. Stay in shape, and you’re good. There’s nothing superficial about wanting your spouse to be healthy. Yes, people take it too far, but don’t discount your natural and healthy beauty.
And most importantly don’t make your head look like it’s been infected by black alien worms
@@koalaplays8855 Hahaha. Good thing I’m already married lol
It would be my dream as a young man who seeks to become a Lutheran pastor down the road to meet a girl who is as passionate about Lutheranism as me.
I'm not a Lutheran, but if a girl asked me what my opinion on the infralapsarian supralapsarian debate and said that she was supralapsarian herself, I would buy a ring that day.
Lutheran here: He was absolutely right.
I’ll add a point on the theology nerd thing: if you don’t know it, he doesn’t care. Just be interested and ask questions. If you need to learn it learn it from him. If he cares about theology he wants others to know it, and will love explaining it. If he isn’t interested in you, at least you’ll learn theology.
Explaining nerdy theology to a curious, Christian girl sounds amazing, but as a proselyte, I need to learn more nerdy theology.
@@natejennings4097 as a female I can confirm this works. Was talking with a guy and we were interested in each other, I got introduced by him to Reformed theology. Even though we aren't in touch now, I'm now a radical anti-feminist, historical Protestant, but not yet entirely decided between Lutheranism and Presbyterianism. It took less than a year.
There’s a girl I have my eyes on at church, super awesome and loves the Lord. I told her how I felt about her and she said she didn’t feel the same way. I’m just gonna wait and see if she changes her mind because she’s always acted more than friendly to me😂. Ladies you’re not alone in this tough time.
Bro actually nailed it. But here is the thing......only like 3 exist, and they're all taken. Actually, there are more. We just gotta find them.
@@reformedholycannoli one thing, though, is if you can get a single girl to like you and she's a true Christian, she could be an arminian Baptist but introduce her to Reformed theology and you may end up having assisted in the creation of a historical Protestant/Reformed Catholic within a year. Women are generally more malleable than men
Finding is the tough part. I’m 24 and I’ve never found anyone yet. I rarely see men around my age in churches.
@@sw3783 already there
Where I live in Brazil, it is hard to find young Christian girls in traditional Protestant churches (Lutheranism and Presbyterianism for example). The majority of young people are mostly in Pentecostal and non-denominational churches.
For the Christian girls who already meet these criteria and don't know what to do, just chase after God until he brings someone into your life who's running as fast as you or faster
“Chernobyl refugees” 😂😂😂😂
It is a crime that your fiancé did not help write this. If she did help, give her credit
@@coltonmiller6136 the future Mrs. Zoomer has already become Mrs. Zoomer, they married a little while ago
@@problemonade Thank you, good to know.
Secular dating was so easy bro, finding a Christian girl has been TOUGH. They’re either CRAZY or Married already. It was easier to date when I was an Atheist lol, but there was no intention behind it, Gods putting me in a season of waiting now, I’m not used to it.
Ngl, weight is a factor even if it’s superficial, guys don’t want to be with a person that can’t take care of themself, the immediate thought becomes that they couldn’t take care of children either.
Redeemed Zoomer: We both agree Andrew Tate isn't Christian, but you have to admit he's right about certain things. For example, attraction works differently for men and women. We know from how God created men and women that they're attracted to different things (being a devout Christian being a given):
Men:
-Looks
-Good Personality
-Chaste
Women:
-Wealth
-Looks
-Status
-Humor
-6ft tall
-Owns a home
-Has "game"
-Has an advanced degree
-600HP car
If you notice, women have more requirements
When it comes to female beauty, I think it's actually just the same as male beauty (though I won't pretend to understand makeup)
groom yourself, take care of your body, be fit and healthy - wear modest and decent looking clothing. That's all that's needed for a Christian guy to find a young woman physically attractive.
I genuinely have never met one (1) good guy who wants a woman to wear makeup.
@@wafflesauceyI think it’s more so men like more “natural makeup”. Not the caked up, drag queen makeup with bold colors. Just a simplistic way to look presentable and takes under 10 mintues to do. I use only concealer, eyebrow pencil, and lipgloss. That’s it.
Although, make sure to have a good skincare routine before and after.
@@afrofaeries Maybe. But for me personally, I do really prefer no makeup over "natural" makeup. Men don't have to paint our faces to look presentable; I really don't see why we expect women to do so.
@@wafflesaucey I have yet to meet a guy who has seen a woman wear natural makeup and told her to stop and be more authentic instead.
Overdone makeup reeks of body image insecurity and I think that's what turns away us guys the most, rather than the idea of makeup being something artificial. But if you know any guys who told their girlfriends to stop wearing makeup entirely, I am willing to accept it may be true
@@goddepersonno3782 My point was only that I personally haven't heard any man state makeup as a criterion for a woman, but I haven't heard anyone really discredit it as a whole, either. I just don't think most guys really care.
3:45 is that Canadian/American facts or middle eastern/asia/africa. I mention this because in the Middle East Africa and Asia its actually the Children that typically lead the parents and family to faith due to the school system. A lot of schools in these areas are run by Christians esp in areas of refugee camps.
From experience if you have troubles with a western relationship i just tell guys to date a Christian Coptic girl from Egypt or a Armenian girl. Girls from the middle East are very religious Christians and rare as most are Muslim but i speak from experience that such relationship is better.
There's about 75 million Christians in the middle East and they're generally the best.
Bro literally just dropped a cheatcode 🗣️
@@jonaszswietomierz8017 not a cheat code
Yeah, it seems like the middle east or India is like the last place that still has traditional women
Or you can go to poland for Catholics
@@proatnothing4263 not really interested in blonde girls.
I prefer Croatians. Catholic but without the Blondism.
They're both Catholic majority Slavic countries.
Don't get mad it's just a preference 🥺🥺
When you said “wait for a Jacob…” I didn’t think of the patriarch, thought of Twilight and I was so confused.
Day 13 of asking Redeemed Zoomer to livestream himself listening to the 2006 album Go by the Newsboys because it's good contemporary Christian music
(Also where can I find one of these mysterious beings called women?)
Its so hard to find religious Christian girls in Berlin (Germany) 😢😢😢😢
But the women there are tall and have angular faces and are perfect for having tall, handsome children, right?
@@AlekseyMaksimovichPeshkov Lol I would say so, I am from Croatia and there I regularly meet woman taller than me, I am 6’2”
@@AlekseyMaksimovichPeshkovmost women in Berlin are black or Turkish 💀
You can pull from anywhere in Europe really. Use the internet. Don’t give up.
@@hismajesty6272 nice profile pic
I hope u make a video about predestination soon. Can't wrap my head around how someone will believe it
Most advice to men:
Its ok to be single
Lower your standards
Just pray about it
Work on your confidence
Advice to women:
I he has a pulse, hes interested in you already
But really though. Its really tough out here because were expected to do it ourselves. Talk to the married men and women in your church. They should be happy to set you up with someone if they can.
The biggest thing for me is learning from my mistakes. 'This happened in this relationship. I never want that again.' If a man or woman says to you 'Im not making this mistake again' youve found someone good. Theyre taking responsibility for their mistakes.
From a young, married Christian woman, a couple more tips: be involved in your church, and make friends with the other young people at your church. Even if, like at my church, the majority of the people in their 20s/early 30s are already married, make friends with them anyway! Get some devout Christian friends whose judgement you trust, and let them introduce you to a couple of guys. Young married people love introducing their devout, single friends and setting them up with each other.
And like RZ said, don't settle. Have the important conversations early in the relationship (like second or third date). Talk about your life goals, whether you want children and how you might want to raise them, important religious topics (like baptism), etc. and if you don't match well, do not proceed with the relationship. Even if he's a great guy, he may not be the right guy for you specifically.
1:20 Zoomer really called himself a gateway drug I'm done.
My main requirements for a girlfriend are:
- 1. She's a female.
- 2. She's not a boy.
- 3. She's a girl.
He’s making one for the huzz this time 🔥🔥🔥
GOD BLESS YOU ALL AMEN ✝️♥️✝️♥️✝️♥️✝️
we are never gonna get a 1080p video from redeemed zoomer lol
If she has no skibidi Ohio rizz, I don't want her.
Based
@@poppy63765 What exactly?
On skibidi
If she has brainrot, I don’t want her.
@@galaxyswrld9414based on the word of GOD
Love God ( crucial )
Knows the bible ( crucial )
Plays Minecraft ( crucial )
Women ( Maybe )
Maybe the real trad wife was the friends we made along the way
@@spiderking8011 Perhaps
actually George Sr. in young sheldon wasn't sleeping around like you said. But you're right in that he was a lukewarm "Christian" who didn't care all that much about the faith.
We want Mrs Zoomer on Kingdomcraft!!!
I gotta get Minecraft on my Conputer again. I’m gonna change jurisdictions
Don't lose hope guys, just pray for her. EVERYTHING is on God's timing.
It’s been hard to find a good Christian girl. I just got into my 30’s and I’ve had a rough go of it. I go rock climbing regularly, I work at Church (part time now that I found a full time job), joined a life group, and am not unattractive. But I feel like I’m too old for the college crew and most girls past that seem to already be in a relationship, so I feel like I’m stuck.
Will keep you in my prayers bro
Just said a prayer for you
You will have to look outside the church. I don't mean unbeliever. But look for a Christian at work or school, or where you work out
@@nerychristian Yeah, I’m trying. But it’s just rough. I’m fairly introverted, so I may talk to a few people every week and that’s about it. I’m trying to hang out with people outside of groups to get connections, but that’s been hard as well to schedule. My best bet is probably to get some connections to play matchmaker with me, but I haven’t had much luck so far.
@@crss6846 Well, considering the state of marriage and modern relationships, maybe it’s better that way. But I’m sure we’re just one more secular law away from everything turning around and for utopia to be established, or whatever.
Genuine question, how do I (as a Christian girl) get a better relationship with my father?
For context, my dad is not a Christian (and he consistently mocks God) and my parents are divorced. I only see him on some weekends and once a week for dinner. I love him, but it’s difficult to agree on anything. I also pray for him to one day accept Jesus into his heart. I try to show him the love that God has for him through me, but I’m a 16 year old girl, and it feels like an impossible task to “parent my own parent”.
I have a great relationship with my mom though! (She’s a Christian)
@@sw3783 thank you
Ok first off if she loves Roman Empire and loves Texas she’s the one
She must love Rome, God, and Texas. A good list.
Happy Birthday Jesus !!
29th of September is His actual birthday. Jesus was conceived at Christmas, born nine months later. This according to the "course of abia".
Even the stones give glory to God in spite of their hard hearted observance of Christmas. Our Father is in control. Immanuel, God with us, is celebtrated at the conception of our Savior.
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“And that’s why only Presbyterian Christians can pull.”
These catholic Mexicans and Central Americans have like 7 kids
@@elmochomo8218 Catholics even historically have had a BUNCH of kids.
I spent so long just settling, and it never worked out. Some ended horribly bad. I then made the conscious decision that I would only date a devout Catholic and found the one that makes me realize why none of the others ever worked.
Any late-teen Catholic girls reply to this comment
That church is 🔥
Hey Zoomer I'm a trans girl who wants to be a Christian and I feel lost, the denominations that welcome me are full of garbage theology, they aren't even sure if Christianity is real, and the denominations with "sound" theology , are hostile towards me and don't understand that I can't repent from being trans, my brain is wired this way, I live with abusive parents and I'm gonna move out and transition as soon as I can but I can't ignore Christianity now that I discovered Dr Gary Habermas and his case for the resurrection of Jesus
I am praying that you get the help you need 🙏 please don't stop pursuing Jesus!
Hey, I’m sorry that has been your experience so far :( there is this organisation called revoice that is for lgbtq identifying Christians who hold orthodox biblical views and also a UA-camr named Preston Sprinkle who makes a lot of compassionate yet theologically sound videos concerning this topic. Keep on pursuing Christ and I pray you find community that welcomed you and edifies you xx
Your brain being wired differently doesn’t excuse you from repenting. Some people’s brains are wired to be pedos, to be violent, to do all sorts of things we all agree are sin. I’m NOT saying you’re at the same level as a pedo or violent person. But you do need to repent according to the Bible. You want a church that has good theology, so you are not going to be able to pick and choose which theology you want to follow. You will either get good theology or bad theology. Not good theology with a little bad.
I’m not saying I know what you’re going through, but I had gender dysphoria as a kid, same sex attraction as a teen, and my brain’s always been wired in a way that makes me lash out at myself. That doesn’t make my behavior ok.
God knows you better than you know yourself. Follow Him and it will be alright.
Is it possible you are gender-nonconforming? It doesn’t mean you were born in the wrong body.
@@gigahorse1475 I can't repent from being trans anymore than I can repent from being autistic (which I am) your advice is flawed my friend
what is the way to get into the minecraft server? I laughed out loud when you mentioned that each denomination has its own province lol
At 10:30 and 16:00 he activates his nephilim powers
Another good way to tell of (man or woman) partner is a truly Christian is to compare them to the bible unfortunately I know family that has had this happen in some ways and it causes alot of havoc.
Sometimes they’re willing to wait so even if you make them wait it doesn’t always guarantee. Be careful yalls.
Ps. Get a pet so if they betray you can send your pet fish after them, thats my plan
Bro RZ when are you gonna do more denomination videos? Still need to do Methodists and Anglican
Hey. I’m a guy and i have a wonderful girlfriend and we have been dating for many years. She is an atheist and doesn’t not like religion but rather can’t get her head around it. She is severely autistic and I am trying quite hard to convert her (i bring up religion often and talk to about it. I’m not over here forcing her). I genuinely love this girl and she wants nothing more than to have a family and be a mother. She (somewhat unknowingly) has adopted my Christian values. I want her to come to Jesus so desperately because he would change her life. I can see her need. What should i do? Does anyone have any advice. I love this girl. How can i help her?
My advice is don't stay with her if she doesn't convert really soon. God before girls
@@redeemedzoomer6053 yeah that makes sense. Not an easy choice though. Something i must talk to with my pastor and father (he works in the church)
You should never go into a relationship thinking you will change the person. It will always end up badly. We can't change people. If you can't fathom the idea of marrying her and having her remain the same person, then you shouldn't be with her. You are wasting not only your own time, but her's as well. Do not marry her or continue with her. You've already been dating her for several years? And she still hasn't become a Christian? That's a red flag. Time to move on. There are other women in the world. Unfortunately your emotions clouded your judgement. You will have to break up with her, and it will be messy, and you will feel terrible. But it's the right thing to do. You should have known better. Remember, a good woman will allow her man to lead, in all aspects of life, including the religious aspects.
@@nerychristian yeah i get that. And just for reference, i was no where near as strong in my faith when we got together which is how we got this far. Thank you for your advice man it is much appreciated.
@@jayfenny7461 If you really love her that much then you can like, get her to agree to raise your kids Christian. That's at least a small victory you can aim for.
9:30 Can confirm; I would consider buying a ring if a woman came up and started to talk about theology.
"I'm a gateway drug" - Redeemed Zoomer 2024
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We got Skibidi Toilet movie before gta 6 :(
I’m so tired of hearing people say that guys will fall in love with any girl that compliments him/gives him attention. That only works if the girl is slightly pretty. Below average girls like me have no chance and we have it just as hard as guys when it comes to dating.
If you’re a below-average girl in the looks department, go after below-average guys (obviously I’m talking about looks here. Definitely don’t settle for a bad personality). I don’t understand why people feel they have to be supermodels to date. Most people are average (duh) and many are below average.
@@gigahorse1475 trust me, I go for the guys that are pretty below average (in society’s standards) and still get rejected like crazy
@@TuGrupoFavoritoMamiEs facil, solo tienes que buscarlo y encontrarlo.
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@@TuGrupoFavoritoMami Man that sucks for you, my standards are she has to be average or above idc about if she's pretty it's just they can't be off-putting because well baby making would be difficult, to me most girls I see are marriable visually just not personality-wise. Are the guys you're going after Christian guys?
@@RaffieFaffie yeah but most of them are lukewarm “Christians.” Very hard to find guys around my age that are devout.
How patient? I think that if your dating for 10 years or engaged for a long time that’s a bad sign. If you’re serious you’d just get married. I would say patient in the context of getting married after 2-4 years.
My advice is to wait until you're both atlest early 20's to start looking for a girlfriend, dateing is expensive and so is college but college also allows you to afford a better house with a better job and so on, as a man you provide so find a way to get a stable income that allows you to afford a family
Hi Redeemed Zoomer, can you please reach out to TheLaymansSeminary? He wants to debate you on the importance of Sola Fide vs the importance of the Trinity
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My advice to women. Talk to the married men in the church. They will be able to tell you the good from the bad. They can usually tell you who to stay away from at a glance.
The most attractive features we see in a woman are Godliness, sincerity, service, and gratitude.
Once youve found a man, you NEED him to know how much he means to you. The last thing you want is for him to feel that doing things for you is a chore that goes unappreciated. Even little things like pulling out chairs and holding doors. Big sacrifices like taking care of you when youre sick and standing up to protect you.
made me think of my crush so I sent her some memes
If you’re on a meme-sending basis with her… I encourage you to ask her out. 😊 (I’m a girl btw in case it’s not clear by my profile pic)
@@gigahorse1475 Liar you're clearly a stallion typing this with hooves
@redeemedzoomer Will you please make a video explaining how to tell the difference between a spirit-filled believer battling the flesh and an unsaved person wrestling with their conscience? Thank you!
I just want a gf yk
Find a wife
0:01 Good thing you made the distinction "most". There are quite a few guys I know that look for a girlfriend who doesn't even exist... fictional 2d anime girls
Now I love my fair share of anime, but treating/viewing an anime girl to that degree is simply beyond me 💀