Death pt. 2 (Episode #13)

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  • Опубліковано 19 жов 2024
  • Welcome back!! This episode is another two-parter and we're joined by Charles Moody, Ratima Guest-Smith, and Karon Joseph Riley.
    Please support us at www.davidbanner.com
    Part 2 of this transparent topic: Death. How do you cope, deal, and heal from losing those we love. Each person's story and journey is different but we hope we can learn from and grow with one another. We unpack the emotional journey and personal impact experienced due to the loss of a loved one. Thank you so much for being a part of #TheDavidBannerPodcast

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  • @cocoakeke
    @cocoakeke 5 років тому +1

    Ayyeee, Brother Forrest, speaking metaphysical truth. Ase!

  • @gigi.wilkins
    @gigi.wilkins 5 років тому

    This is so needed!! Thank you for keeping it CANDID!!

  • @juliusdenard3458
    @juliusdenard3458 4 роки тому +1

    Mane y'all niggas done made me cry mane mane R.I.P to my mom I love you I miss you

  • @TieeshaEssex
    @TieeshaEssex 5 років тому +2

    Very IMPORTANT topic. Please go to your bank and complete the paperwork for Pay Upon Death for your accounts. This will allow whomever you designate to recieved whatever is in your accounts without a Will or going through an attorney to access whatever is in the account. RIP John Witherspoon.

  • @terrance2305
    @terrance2305 5 років тому +1

    Conversation needed. Thank you Banner!!

  • @lovelynclady
    @lovelynclady 5 років тому +1

    This conversation was soooooooo needed; THANK YOU! Lost my mom in 2018 and this was such a beautiful and transparent conversation.

  • @donniethompson8254
    @donniethompson8254 4 роки тому

    Thank you David Banner. We absorb so much negativity and don't talk enough...and that's a trickle down effect from slavery. I believe this inability to express ourselves freely is another way mental slavery manifests itself and it's killing us from the inside out. We will never be whole or totally free to trust each other until we can communicate truthfully and with love. Thanks for leading with love, truth, light & courage. I hope we all can follow this self love blueprint. This is my favorite episode so far. Thank you again.

  • @infinitejujuonedayatatime5395
    @infinitejujuonedayatatime5395 4 місяці тому

    This podcast is everything

  • @kittyjames8897
    @kittyjames8897 5 років тому

    Thank you David Banner show for this going through grief and this helped me alot. Thank you to the guy who read the poem . Appreciate all the story about grief.

  • @Elegantjewel71
    @Elegantjewel71 3 роки тому

    I needed to see this. Thank You All

  • @dxmanhomie7488
    @dxmanhomie7488 5 років тому +1

    Love this podcast

  • @zakiyyahwady-frye7989
    @zakiyyahwady-frye7989 5 років тому

    Thank you for this episode!!! Asé 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @wells19874
    @wells19874 5 років тому +5

    Just wanted to say thank you to all of you for this episode. You helped me begin to deal with something I've been struggling with for over 7 year's. The passing of my father... Thank you

    • @negusrbg500
      @negusrbg500 5 років тому +1

      Stay strong! I know the feeling

    • @wells19874
      @wells19874 5 років тому

      @@negusrbg500 will do

    • @queenluv5130
      @queenluv5130 5 років тому +1

      Same here I loss my grandmother 8 years ago and still struggling with it.

    • @wells19874
      @wells19874 5 років тому +1

      @@queenluv5130 we got this...

  • @MrD-tu3hp
    @MrD-tu3hp 5 років тому

    Possibly the best segment thus far

  • @jefferythomas001
    @jefferythomas001 5 років тому

    I'm 47, my parents guided me to 18, safely and with some enlightenment. I snatched the training wheels off this piece after that. They did their part and I thank them for that and tell them I love them, often. I feel for people who didn't get to or don't communicate with their ppl.

  • @Blackbeautifullove
    @Blackbeautifullove 5 років тому +14

    ENERGY NEVER DIES.....
    Have peace in knowing, dear ones, that we are all composed of energy. Energy never dies. It is always changing and transforming.
    - Molly Friedenfeld

  • @tiffanyheartoflove846
    @tiffanyheartoflove846 5 років тому +1

    I absolutely loved this! Needed!!!

  • @cinnamonhardie2432
    @cinnamonhardie2432 5 років тому

    This podcast episode was very deep and on point. Thank you David Banner.

  • @shybunnie2259
    @shybunnie2259 4 роки тому

    I was a Daddy's girl. My Dad died of pancreatic cancer in 2014. I have never been the same. I spent time caring 4 him b4 he died but he was so courageous in the face of death. When faced with hospice, he even said, if I lived on my own terms, why can't I die on my own terms? My real life hero!

  • @Bmitchell10
    @Bmitchell10 5 років тому +1

    Great subject and topic needs to be talked about daily 💪🏿💙

  • @majorwilkesjr.5827
    @majorwilkesjr.5827 5 років тому +1

    I was at work listening to this. I cannot believe that it broke me and had me crying like it did when it did. Call it what you want but this is a classic episode that I will always remember.

  • @sharda0416
    @sharda0416 5 років тому +8

    When Scott read that poem. I cried. My God this podcast is heavy

  • @kwezchyn
    @kwezchyn 4 роки тому

    Amazing podcast. ☺️❤️🖤💚

  • @ONEOFAKINDSISTAH
    @ONEOFAKINDSISTAH 4 роки тому

    This conversation! Powerful! Less than 2 years on from my mom’s passing and this resonates. As a community we need to talk about this more.

  • @AnimatedTdot
    @AnimatedTdot 5 років тому

    Im glad you spoke on this. A lot of people need to know there are different ways of dealing with this and there is no standard way.

  • @edycedorris9700
    @edycedorris9700 5 років тому

    Pricelesss show show as always! !!!!!

  • @jusbn_keisharenee
    @jusbn_keisharenee 5 років тому +1

    Powerful episode! I'm so glad David Banner tackles issues that "black America" doesn't want to speak of.

  • @uniquepittman2192
    @uniquepittman2192 5 років тому +3

    Love me some David Banner

  • @alexhiraldo1845
    @alexhiraldo1845 5 років тому +2

    Powerful thank you for sharing family💖

  • @SiddityInDetroitSiSi
    @SiddityInDetroitSiSi 5 років тому

    This was great just what I needed god bless you all!!!!

  • @AliceWonder91
    @AliceWonder91 5 років тому

    Thank you guys for this podcast. I lost my mom on 10/29/19.. she passed away on her birthday which made it even harder for me. I've learned to accept it but I miss her so much. She was my best friend and what hurts me the most is that my dad lost his best friend or what he called her "Mi Reyna." Which means my queen in Spanish. ♡ We were lucky enough to be so close to my mother. She was really well loved and a beautiful soul. I needed this. Thank you guys again.

  • @eugenecalbert9361
    @eugenecalbert9361 5 років тому +1

    I commend all of you on this podcast because this topic is definitely not easy to discuss. I lost both grandparents which raised me and it truly still hurts because the love they gave me was the love i have been in search of my whole life and when that was taken away it feels like im in search all over again.

  • @KingDeeba
    @KingDeeba 2 роки тому +1

    sickle cell doesnt get enough support and we get treated like shit in the hospital. thanks for sharing that story

  • @KaWaKreationsSquad
    @KaWaKreationsSquad 5 років тому +1

    Wow this podcast was awesome, I dealt with grief of my mother passing 13 years ago, and myself and youngest daughter has sickle cell disease, I've transition our family into a healthier lifestyle for preservation, and yes them crisis no joke, I was 29 or 30 when I had my first major crisis and it affects my cardiovascular system and other parts of my body, it was like I was having a bunch of stokes at once, I thought I was going to die with my at the time new baby sleeping, I had to be hospitalized monitored my heart, worst feeling ever and I suffered from anxiety at that time bad, and the doctor told me it was all due to stress, now I've transition completely and I'm 33 and no crisis, I do think of it sometimes but I'm proud of where I came from with this condition, this podcast helped me just by listening, and 👁 appreciate y'all with the honesty and openness, and that's vulnerability and that's growth.

  • @DevBoat1980
    @DevBoat1980 5 років тому

    Deep episode. Much needed dialogue.

  • @caseclosedfanatic22
    @caseclosedfanatic22 5 років тому +1

    This episode has helped me to cherish the relationships with my family and my wife even more and to ask those critical questions to make sure everything is in place for them and even myself if anything happens. Death is something I think about often, especially as a black man in this white systemic world. Thank you all for this wonderful reminder of an episode, so sorry for you all's losses previously and one takeaway is that everybody copes with death differently and if we can, be there for those effected for comfort.

  • @holisticbeauti
    @holisticbeauti 4 роки тому

    I literally cried at Scotties poem. The tears...

  • @65poppadaddy
    @65poppadaddy 5 років тому +2

    I love the show! You need to be on tv

  • @Sunshinesunset1
    @Sunshinesunset1 5 років тому +13

    My condolences to you All. Especially, Salih.
    Peace be upon you ALL.

  • @paulagray6667
    @paulagray6667 4 роки тому

    In our women's bible study at St. Matthew MBC we dealt with the subject of what to say when some one dies. Sometime the best thing to say is NOTHING. What you can do is hold their hand in silence, call and ask if you need something from the grocery store, show up at the house take food with some container to put the food up and clean up. Just don't sit around and wait to see what happens so you can report to others. Be a strong friend. Sometimes just a text or call and say "I am checking on you".

  • @otislockhart9385
    @otislockhart9385 5 років тому

    This was a good show, we have to recognize the humanity in each other as black folks. Really, work out whatever it is before loved ones leave this planet. Give the flowers of life everyday respect.

  • @kellywalker-cdle1998
    @kellywalker-cdle1998 5 років тому +1

    Thank you!!! Death is such a taboo in the black community! There is nothing that can make people turn into their worst selves when they are grieving. Our culture does not provide an appropriate avenue for dealing with death, grieving and survivors.

  • @mouthalmighty8217
    @mouthalmighty8217 5 років тому

    A sensitive subject that needs discussing so much so that it's no longer feared--free of the ignorance passed down through the generations in most Black families (much like mental health)
    Beautiful poem Scott read, and I just love the transparency of u all in sharing ur personal experiences and keeping a healthy balance of serious & humorous in each episode
    Continued blessings to u all 😘

  • @faithm2956
    @faithm2956 5 років тому

    May all your loved ones who have transitioned SIP. Thanks talking about death on this Podcast! I love the energy between everyone on the show💫🔥.. Always constructive and productive topics/conversations. Much success ✨💥😍

  • @phillippeharris6069
    @phillippeharris6069 3 роки тому

    I feel like y'all my extended family. I love all y'all.

  • @myrajohnson8955
    @myrajohnson8955 5 років тому +14

    I needed this episode so badly, I lost my mom in March and I was lost and too busy to mourn properly and it had me messed me up for a long time. Still mourning but it's manageable now.

    • @amp7420
      @amp7420 5 років тому +1

      I'm sorry for your loss Myra!!

    • @myrajohnson8955
      @myrajohnson8955 5 років тому +1

      @@amp7420 thank you so much

    • @amp7420
      @amp7420 5 років тому

      @@myrajohnson8955 You're welcome!

    • @samera96
      @samera96 5 років тому +1

      Sorry for your loss. Sending up a prayer for you. Be blessed. 🙏🏾

    • @myrajohnson8955
      @myrajohnson8955 5 років тому

      @@samera96 I appreciate that 😊

  • @Aaliyah.Ali.786
    @Aaliyah.Ali.786 4 роки тому

    🖤

  • @Keishalynn0925
    @Keishalynn0925 4 роки тому

    Wow, Scott's poem did me in... my God.

  • @hakimburnett4318
    @hakimburnett4318 5 років тому +2

    Great show and the ending brought it all together well 🖤

  • @hiyello1gal223
    @hiyello1gal223 5 років тому +1

    Wow David..your dad seems to have been a man thay I really would have appreciated in my life. You were very lucky. I love those type of moms and dads. Your family was blessed. Your dad raised an amazing man. I learn so.much from.you and this group every podcast. Appreciate you all.

  • @mrparker1972
    @mrparker1972 5 років тому +1

    Powerful episode! I've lost my mom & youngest son within 2 years of each other. I had to get therapy after my mom passed. My son I've just dealt with every day the best I could...always thinking I could have done more....who knows. But thank ABV crew for starting this with your personal stories 💯💯💯💯✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾

  • @PaNaMaHoLLa
    @PaNaMaHoLLa 5 років тому +8

    THIS NEEDS TO BE TALKED ABOUT

  • @furiousstiles
    @furiousstiles 5 років тому +1

    That was a tough episode...but it needed to happen. Much love to everyone there for sharing, and my thoughts are with them. The same goes for anyone who sees this post. My thoughts are with everyone who is going through it. It’s tough...I know first hand...

  • @shannonlstephens86
    @shannonlstephens86 5 років тому +2

    This episode was 🔥 🔥🔥🔥 on so many levels keep up the great work

  • @mboglin
    @mboglin 5 років тому +4

    The reason that as black peoples at large are not preparing the next generation with a will or trust because it’s a realization of them dealing with their own mortality and the fear of death...
    I am a Lupus survivor and when you are diagnosed with what is supposed to be a
    Terminal illness is as
    Much of an eye and brain opener as it needs to be...I am currently studying metaphysical science and the reality is. Lot of generations-have never been taught to develop their own identity or how to communicate effectively they were just taught to work and pay bills and when life’s
    ever present tragedies befall us we are not mentally or emotionally or culturally or socially or financially equipped to handle things is a positive or proactive manner

  • @mekkar3d17
    @mekkar3d17 5 років тому +5

    Blessings KINGS AND QUEENS

  • @heatherlanee134
    @heatherlanee134 5 років тому +1

    I so appreciate this episode! When I'm grieving I need to be left alone and not a lot of people understand that. Hopefully people will take heed to these lessons.

  • @samera96
    @samera96 5 років тому +2

    Wow! That had me all in my feelings. Great show!

  • @VConley
    @VConley 5 років тому +4

    I just appreciate the openness and the truth in the podcast

  • @quintondale7462
    @quintondale7462 4 роки тому

    ✊💯

  • @natures1joy425
    @natures1joy425 5 років тому

    My youngest son lost his father earlier this year and though he was what most considered a deadbeat dad, my son loved him. So he is hurt and I am angry that he died. We had this babymama/daddy routine where we argue and go back and forth on who turn it was to call the other. It was his turn to call me back, I dont answer, etc. In the midst of our routine, he breaks the rules. I say he broke the rules because I feel he should of took better care of himself and not take for granted somethings he was suppose to be doing. The back and forth sounds childish but that was our one consistent normal. I think I am going to mad for a minute. I dont have time to grieve him, my son needs me there . him. Great episode though.

  • @JayLDee
    @JayLDee 5 років тому +2

    Amazing episode with so much authenticity and vulnerability.

  • @amp7420
    @amp7420 5 років тому +4

    I just got word that my best friend's mom passed today! I can't imagine! God rest her soul!!😥🙏🏾

  • @toysrus701
    @toysrus701 5 років тому +2

    Amazing show, I learned how to approach ppl that are grieving. I understand now how to deal with this situation. Thanks guys

  • @tccraig5108
    @tccraig5108 5 років тому +2

    Beautiful episode. BLACK Men who express themselves. Sexy. :) Love to all my people.

  • @myssmccray9436
    @myssmccray9436 5 років тому +4

    Absolutely facts about the Wills.

  • @BOSSINUP4
    @BOSSINUP4 5 років тому +1

    Lost my mom on Halloween 8 years ago to lupus miss her everyday thank you guys for sharing really helps knowing someone else can relate to how your feeling

  • @kingt5245
    @kingt5245 5 років тому +1

    Man thank you so much for this episode it really helped me

  • @samanthiamoore3348
    @samanthiamoore3348 5 років тому +7

    Yes David... love your podcast. This is a good topic especially for men.

  • @TieeshaEssex
    @TieeshaEssex 5 років тому +3

    When I hear others speak so highly of their fathers who are deceased, while mine never did anything for me is still walking around hurts my heart. If I could give the rest of his years so someone could have their wonderful father back I would. 💝

  • @SergioLSmith
    @SergioLSmith 5 років тому

    Respect to those that shared their experiences. In the spirit of keeping balance . (Unhhhhh.... unhhhhh .... mmmmm)

  • @katrinafrench1043
    @katrinafrench1043 5 років тому +5

    I needed to see this.... My mommy transitioned 2 yrs ago... Still fresh all I did was work

  • @matthewhoward6956
    @matthewhoward6956 5 років тому

    Dam scott love you brotha

  • @chantabullock4313
    @chantabullock4313 5 років тому +3

    It's ok Scott....I have mommy moments often, it usually comes in waves...she's been gone since 11/23/2015

  • @ladyofgod7669
    @ladyofgod7669 5 років тому +1

    Thank you for this today!! But you do have me in mixed emotion thinking about my grandparents

  • @sonyayoung263
    @sonyayoung263 5 років тому +8

    Can we talk about the stages of grief, and how these stages manifest in our actions?

    • @veronicacobb3036
      @veronicacobb3036 5 років тому

      Yes. Try not to make major decisions while grieving. Its a process.

  • @lai7034
    @lai7034 5 років тому +3

    I'm so addicted to everything David Banner it's like taking my daily vitamin 💫#somanygems

  • @Sunshinesunset1
    @Sunshinesunset1 5 років тому

    Thank You.
    🙏🌟💯

  • @lionspaw2380
    @lionspaw2380 5 років тому +1

    Great podcast 🌤🌈🙌🏽

  • @ashantiwartley6986
    @ashantiwartley6986 5 років тому +4

    Am so excited for this mad they left us hanging from part one 😂😂😂😍😍😍

  • @Lakieth17
    @Lakieth17 5 років тому

    Best episode

  • @ashantiwartley6986
    @ashantiwartley6986 5 років тому +1

    Lost my sister from lupus I never got to say goodbye she was young full of life ❤️ me and her was my mom only children very hard

  • @deandreadevinehorne1853
    @deandreadevinehorne1853 5 років тому

    Big Freak Banner 💞🔥
    Death serves a purpose it's a beautiful transition that should not be feared.. It's eternal..embrace the ancestors with love. That's how I see it.... No one wants their love ones to suffer bless their journey with love and see ya laters cause we wake up to die daily.
    I'm related to the gentleman that got shot in Dallas Texas by the state trooper. I just found out he died in vain the troopers got off in front of the Grand jury. We are not valued but at the end of the day the family was extremely quiet and a life is lost..
    Fyi:
    I'm donating my body to science

  • @sheanab4445
    @sheanab4445 5 років тому +1

    Super Dope podcast...💥❤💥❤💥

  • @myfathersdaughter357
    @myfathersdaughter357 5 років тому +5

    I’ve had to bury my oldest son. Death never gets easy.

  • @bakarifuller88
    @bakarifuller88 5 років тому

    As the only child and grandchild I feel no need to be conversational with people about my feelings and men have problems with that because they are use to women being very emotional. When I lost my grandmother I didnt cry for 10 months than I got real depressed and I still am not right GOD I cant lose my mother I'll die.

  • @gradybentley6197
    @gradybentley6197 5 років тому +3

    Who is the speaker at the end.want to hear more of that brother.

    • @cocoakeke
      @cocoakeke 5 років тому +1

      Forrest Factory

  • @Mahagonytee
    @Mahagonytee 5 років тому

    My mom did the same thing. She made me leave too and I felt the same way Banner did....

  • @HogOnWelding
    @HogOnWelding 5 років тому

    Say something Deep! Lol DEEP SEA DIVING 😂HogOn Bro 👨🏿‍🏭

  • @elizabethwashington200
    @elizabethwashington200 5 років тому

    My best friend passed away and I still mourn his lost because I feel unfinished. Is like I didn’t get to tell him everything I needed to tell him before he took his life.🙏😇😢

  • @sweetlovegreene8851
    @sweetlovegreene8851 5 років тому

    Hello from DC, I lost my mom October of 2016 and me & my twin brother took it the hardest. I've been in the hospital since June of 2016 so although he says he's ok but we're twins so I know that he's not ok.

  • @smokeafatj561_yt3
    @smokeafatj561_yt3 5 років тому +1

    Let's get it 🤙💨🔥 👈

  • @blssdbyndmsr4316
    @blssdbyndmsr4316 5 років тому

    I was like those damn monekyboys.. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Jonathan_Chillous
    @Jonathan_Chillous 5 років тому

    For the one time

  • @beautyflowerwarth6632
    @beautyflowerwarth6632 4 роки тому

    No outsiders

  • @ladynoelempressreign3840
    @ladynoelempressreign3840 5 років тому

    😂😂😂😛 David issa fool!!

  • @swagsocoolvevo6068
    @swagsocoolvevo6068 5 років тому

    DJ Shawty Swag

  • @newuser8678
    @newuser8678 5 років тому

    Has anyone understood why previously stated he got a girl yet talks like he is SINGLE!!!!!

  • @coreyhoward8911
    @coreyhoward8911 4 роки тому

    2123

  • @jaysmallzz
    @jaysmallzz 5 років тому

    Banner exposed himself ass a doof with well to do edgy church foke as yes men