When I met coach 8 years ago was to get an ex back. After I got her back I realized that I didn’t want her. I end up leaving her and found someone way better and now we have a 4year old son and I’m engaged!
The hardest part is letting go someone you really loved after 10 years. I’m now 33 years and 2 years single. Sometimes you need to accept that there is no chemistry anymore. Just move on and don’t make it to complicated. You will find a new life, I’m living the best live now doing exactly what I want to do. It took me 1,5 years to let my ex go, exactly like Corey says in the book. Just work on yourself, focus on your health and wealth, don’t be Chad Thundercock, explore the world and life will give you what you ask of it. Finding sex is not hard, finding love is way more difficult but everything is a lesson. Follow the principles in the book and just be on the fun bus ✌🏼
I'm happy for you. I also got over my ex finaly, after almost a year, and now I feel great. No cope or pretending, I can truly say that I don't want her back because my life is better without her.
I've got back with long term exes but it never works out. Spend your effort on new women and learn what you want. It's a lot better to find someone you click with and can be authentic with rather than someone that you only only have mild interest in.
@BEATS-BY-SKRILL I gave them another chance and oddly enough the same issues kept popping up so I ended it. People are who they are. We can't project our fantasy onto another person.
@@modernman7576 This is true and I’m learning this myself. However, my biggest relationship partner and I split because of distance because I was away at college. It didn’t work for the time, and it makes sense. I think there are some situations where it should be okay, but you have to let the dumper make the work, and you shouldn’t pedistalize her.
@@beats-by-skrill8925 ever think some people just aren’t compatible? And you miss the good things and how they made you feel. You look past all the bad things just to come back to the same situation of why you left them in the first place. Do you even listen to coach and the things he says? Or are you just trolling
Something that movies, tv shows, and cartoons get right. Woman breaks up with man, man tries to win her back and make amends, he finds her immediately with another man.
My ex kept leaving, I’d let her roam while I dated and forgot about her. She always came back without me ever trying. 5 times total over 5 years. In fact, she’s gone now and will surely be back. It was an experiment at first, to see if this stuff really works. It does, but do you want it to? Huge waste of time taking her back. They don’t change, ESPECIALLY if they’re avoidants, and I’m now at a point where I deserve better because I was busy working on myself. Problem is, she’s just going to try even harder when I tell her “no more”. Want her back? Forget about her and move on. Works every time.
@@ciscohour5884Not BPD I believe she’s more a narcissist. Thats why he said “She’s an avoidant”. Women like that tend to not stick around when you start showing high interest.
💯 my ex wife got dumped just after leaving me breaking our little family up, she spent the next couple of years hinting flirting hoping for new leveled up husband back, no thanks I completely turned it round and enjoyed rejecting her and she hated it even more as I had othe females who wanted to take her place ,never go back gentlemen no matter how hard it is my son and I are closer than ever even though it broke his heart
To all men as much as you like a woman. If she not even putting in no effort to even remember you exist unless you hit her up. Please give up. They accepted the roll of being a 304 and sleeping with multiple men while having the good nice guy be her servant that get no reward.
Found your channel back in 2018 after my first break up,I walked away,moved abroad,got my dream job,after 2 years she begged me to take her back,I was like no thanks my life is amazing now and I have too many options,best feeling ever.
A windshield is larger than a rear view mirror for a reason…both have value, but you should be paying more attention to what’s in front of you, not behind.
I got hit with a double whammy. Got laid off unexpectedly with no warning from a job I was very passionate about. I had a mission and purpose and excitement then this job loss was so sudden and devastating. I was also dating a woman from that job, and then a week after I got laid off, she dumped me. It was no surprise there. I was a needy insecure little boy. It was very bad timing. We weren't that serious, and it was my very first lay off ever. I've never been let go before. Especially not suddenly. I tried so hard to hold it together with her and be the man but I couldn't do it because I was so devastated. She of course dumped me because of my non-masculine behaviours. But it opened my eyes and now that I look back at it, it had to happen. I need to find a new purpose, drive and mission. My plan is to leave the city where I live, find a very nice career, and build a new life. Meet someone new. This was a very painful yet necessary experience
@@Tobinounet I’m now in a better place thanks! I got a new job offer, I found a temporary job and it was pretty boring and lame but I now found an even better job that aligns with my career goals. I am leaving my current small city next month to start this new job where I’ll be making twice as much, learning new things, and enjoying my life to the fullest. I just submitted my two weeks notice and I am on to a new and brighter future
The book works. I bought the audio book maybe 5 years ago, listened to it more than 10 times, and just wanted to come back here to let the others know. I'm now married to the most beautiful woman I have ever met whom I would never would've thought I'd have a chance to be with BEFORE I bought the book and started listening to Coach Wayne. Many thanks Coach! Greetings from Germany.
Ok so I have a hook up date with my ex for this Saturday night (she agreed to come to my place this past Thursday) I told her then that I would be busy that Saturday so we moved it to this week. Now I want to txt her on Friday “you getting all pretty for me tonight?” Just to follow up and not waste my time if she flakes. Should I send it? And if she does flake out how can I dismiss it without looking like a push over simp, while also keeping her accountable without acting but hurt
Been following since 2017. Finally read the book ten times (I know, nowhere near soon enough!) and now I'm currently in a healthy, wholesome relationship with a wonderful woman. Donating today to support the absolutely superb and outstanding work Corey does. Thank you!
Ok so I have a hook up date with my ex for this Saturday night (she agreed to come to my place this past Thursday) I told her then that I would be busy that Saturday so we moved it to this week. Now I want to txt her on Friday “you getting all pretty for me tonight?” Just to follow up and not waste my time if she flakes. Should I send it? And if she does flake out how can I dismiss it without looking like a push over simp, while also keeping her accountable without acting but hurt
@@breathlessdynasty9928 Personally, I wouldn't text. You've agreed to meet, you've set the date. You don't need to chase or verify - you can let her wonder and think about you and assume she WILL show up (because you're an awesome catch!). If she does flake then it doesn't matter as you're hanging at your place. Be the mountain, be unperturbed. Just say OK, let me know when you're free to come over and let her reach out to you. I take it you've watched "7 Principles To Get An Ex Back?" Review that several times and hit the book again! Best of luck to you
I want to emphasize: THERE IS NOTHING MORE IMPORTANT IN LIFE THAN YOUR PURPOSE. No superhero goes chasing after the girl as the main story. He’s off fighting bad guys, fucking shit up, and protecting humanity. And then all the women want him. Doing what you love is how you create abundance. If you sacrifice doing what you love, for her, she will lose respect for you and leave you for a guy who pursues his purpose. Follow. Your. Purpose.
Perfect timing ! We both blocked each other and it’s been a month of no contact but at one point I got a No Caller ID call , obviously know who that was and a part of me wants to confirm it but best to just let it go and move on. I tried to fix what I didn’t break too many times .
Same here. This happened to me with two of my exes. One was calling me with No Caller ID for over 2 months. My most recent ex called me two weeks ago using a fake number then blocked me on WhatsApp a few days later lol. It’s been almost 3 months of no contact and she keeps blocking and unblocking me on WhatsApp. I agree it’s best to move on and focus on the future.
I fucked it up so many times, trying to talk and chase my ex wife after 20 years, now realizing that she’s not mentally healthy at all… she always blocks me when she doesn’t like something… so I finally blocked her as well just last night… I’m done with dumb pointless drama attitude !
Your only mistake was not acknowledging her mental health issues. We all make mistakes, just learn from them and move on. It's only life experiences that make us better. Best regards to you.
Excellent video - Being an older guy & looking back the best sex I ever had was from women I never pursued for sex. My ex-wife's wanted me more than ever 3 years after they left me & saw how happy I was without them. The more I enjoyed chasing my dreams the more beautiful the women I attracted. When I was just 20 years young & 100% focused on pursuit of my goals I even had dad's offering their daughter(s) to me.
Brilliant to hear mate and same here, there is something empowering about rejecting an ex wife who dropped you like your life together meant nothing, my ex wife is now a struggling single mum of 47, good luck with that you go girl
@@tanicwhisper0647 she was dating a total dick she still flirts and if we are somewhere like last week at my son's birthday party she will still be over interrupting me talking to other females so no never went back too much slef respect for that
I’m starting to realize after all the hurt the last 6 months that I’ve had after me being dumped that grass isn’t always greener for the dumper. Not sure if I’m ready yet. I’ve been thriving in 2023 w my career. Had I been still w my ex I would’ve been shopping for a wedding ring. She did me a favor lol
Recently got dumped at the drop of a hat by a BPD woman after 6 months. Broke my heart, but I have really been focused on me, and have moved on. Now dating a 35 year old(Im coming up65) We recently went to the city for a weekend and had a ball! She thinks the world of me. She paid her way and was very kind, considerate, and affectionate. Have not thought much about the toxic ex, and I wont go back either. I have found my confidence and charasmatic self, doin' great now!😅
The only reason a man should ever want to get back with an ex is if she’s hot and wants to f**k and you don’t have any concrete plans for the evening. Other than that getting emotionally reattached to an ex is rarely if ever a good thing…
My wife left me for the woman we opened our marriage for. I was too insecure at times and started chasing and losing my masculinity. Now she’s living with the other woman and they are moving on from me. I fcked up and didn’t pay attention to the book and how I was slipping off my center as a man.
At the end of the day, it’s all about achieving the unattached mindset. The mindset where you can be in love with a girl, but also be objective and know if the situation isn’t right. This can only be achieving with PRACTICING along with 15+ reads of the book. Just knowing the information isn’t enough.
Took my ex back 3 weeks ago after two weeks of a break up and she got worse this past Tuesday. Full on disrespect with cursing and tantrums. She also played the break up game where she said she was done and this was the same cycle we did before. I blocked her forever as of Tuesday.
Got broken up with Sunday. She was pretty emotionless until i told her to call me if she wants romantic hangs, not otherwise, and that she wouldn't hear from me again. That made her cry.
We should do this not because of honor or pride. But because It does not work. When a girl doesn't want you and doens't respect you, she won do this tomorrow, next month or next year. Let her go, learn.
How do you square this with Caleb Jones' 94% return rate and rotation based model? The "Long Soft Next for Temporary Exclusivity?" A pod with you two would be challenging and interesting. Thanks for all you do Corey. We sincerely love you and you have contributed priceless value to my life.
Divorce is never the way out, My husband and I was having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser, I can never just let my marriage of 18years just crash.
her name is Eliana Zaituna Hernandez,and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster you can look her name up online and you will find all you need instantly.
even though i make great money and can afford many $100 dates, doesnt mean i wanan waste my money on a woman whos using me for free drinks or food which happens all the time
Hard disconnect once its done then its done. Once you take the trash to the kerb, it gets to rot there until garbage collection and never stink up your house.
Guys it works. She dumped me 2 days ago cause she was stressed etc. I said okay, played it cool, thanked her for the good times, even made a couple jokes, told her I’d wait a couple weeks incase she changed her mind but after that I was moving on. On day 3 she FaceTimed me, tearing up, asking if I hated her. Her behavior is 10x better right now, we stayed til 2 am talking and she wants to spend today together too. Just walk away with respect, show her u can, and mean it.
@@mgtowlucki You have no idea the type of relationship we have Lmfao. And I’m not oblivious to this. I made her realize that I wasn’t coming back, and I told her all this stuff
Update: My ex wants to meet for the first time after she broke up with me. She says there's a lot to talk about so I doubt it’s a “get back together situation which I wish it was” And I'm nervous as to what I should do or act. Back story it's been 2 weeks since the break up and she's reached out a couple of times since, some days she says she will always love me but we aren't good for each other (I feel like we could have worked through anything if she allowed it) and she's also messaged me stating that she loves me but goes and blocks me and unblocks me and watching my stories etc. I can tell she is still upset if I'm not giving her full attention now. What should I do? I'm nervous and don't know what to expect being that it seems like it’s going to be a serious conversation. I do want to be with her but some things will need to be fixed on both sides if we did workout. Her planned exit showed me a person I wouldn't want to be with. I just don’t know what to do or if I should even meet up especially being that it seems to be a serious convo and not a get back together convo. Looking for some advice.
This is weird behaviour, she is dwelling with herself if she should come back to you. On the other side you should keep it light and follow the classic steps if you REALLY want her back, invite her for dinner and talk, connect and hookup eventually. Instead of just texting invite her....if she wants to come back to you she will show it and come for dinner . Remember you don't have time for women who are unsure for you. You want women who want you.
Whenever a girl contacts you, you should always assume she wants to see you and be in your presence. Now, it’s up to you if you want her in your life or not. You seem to lean on her being back with you so ask her to come over and chill. Remember, coach Wayne said if you want her back, do the 3 Hs(hangout, have fun, hookup). Let her do most of the talking and actively listen. When it does get into serious talk, actively listen and ask questions like “tell me more, don’t leave anything out.” And make it light hearted at the end so that she feels a comfortable feeling that is associated with opening up to you hope this help some. I would suggest reading coach Wayne’s book at least 10-15 times no cap I’ve been reading it on my second go and I am still making mistakes so reread my guy and you’ll be in a must better position
She should be one nervous, not you man! C’mon she broke it off and now SHE needs to do everything in her power to get you back. Pay close attention to the mindset change Corey keeps talking about. ALWAYS approach things from the position of strength with women (doesn’t matter how long the relationship lasted)!
@tia_lenay and?! Bring another chick home. At this point yall roommates.. I don't know the rooming situation but if she doesn't want to get back together. Let's go! Put your time and effort on someone else.
@@nicesmack9309 you’re right! I guess it’s hard because I feel like I caused the breakup & I am the one who initially broke up with her. too much guilt I feel. but learning Corey’s material I am working on myself & implementing a whole new mindset with his material.
Need advice here guys. Wha if I was the reason why the relationship fell apart, and now im trying to become a much better version of myself… not with the immediate intent of Getting her back, but just to never make the same mistakes again and improve myself in every way. She is also the mother of my children… im 6’2 good looking guy and towards the end (it was a long 1 year end) she had basically no sexual attraction towards me due to the damage i caused
Can’t agree if u know u was dead wrong u should try because u know u was wrong and plaid a big role in it but if she just dip off on u and I know u didn’t do much to cause the break up then no u shouldn’t try
Yes! But by “fixing” means going to work and going to the gym. Focus only on improving yourself. When you become confident she will notice or other, hotter women will find you attractive. NO Contact with her! If she reaches out lay low, make a date but play it cool. She’s creeped out and afraid you’re a stalker. Blowing up her phone and “apologizing” only confirms this.
Can anyone answer this: How much sex is must atleast in a week in a relationship? How to get out of sexless relationship? How many women should men date before getting married or getting old?
I've listened to the audiobook nine times but I haven't begun to put it in action because I currently live with my parents. Should I wait to start asking out girls until I move out in a few months or am I just holding myself back?
‘Come on man’ would Corey say. You can always go out there and ask girls out, just do what you want to do. Practice what you learned is really important
what if she was never my ex because we were never officially in a relationship and we were only seeing each other going on dates while she is busy in nursing school
What if your ex was doing 100% of the persuing and things are going well. Then you see her close with another guy just before dinner date with you the next day. You've already let her know you arent interested in someone that explores sexual or emotional connections with other people
Got to respect yourself and move on. But if you genuinely want this women, (Which I believe you should go find someone else who wants a committed relationship with you) then you need to allow for her to come around. Eventually one day she’ll ask for exclusivity, and that is when you can make demands.
Coach has a video talking about this exact situation with one of his ex gf. He kept dating, while she kept dating, then eventually one day she asked for his commitment.
@@tanicwhisper0647 yeah I am dating but the thing is, dating around and she’s dating the same guy so the feelings are building with him I gather. It makes me feel like her mind was somewhere else and it made me not want to be there. We still hooked up but yeah it was weird
I did no contact with a ex and it worked. After 60 days of no contact I met someone new who has become the love of my life....
When I met coach 8 years ago was to get an ex back. After I got her back I realized that I didn’t want her. I end up leaving her and found someone way better and now we have a 4year old son and I’m engaged!
You fornicated which is a sin that leads to hell, and had a baby out of wedlock
Congratulations, happy for you.
Hope it will happen to me to.
That's the ultimate happiness.
The hardest part is letting go someone you really loved after 10 years. I’m now 33 years and 2 years single. Sometimes you need to accept that there is no chemistry anymore. Just move on and don’t make it to complicated. You will find a new life, I’m living the best live now doing exactly what I want to do. It took me 1,5 years to let my ex go, exactly like Corey says in the book.
Just work on yourself, focus on your health and wealth, don’t be Chad Thundercock, explore the world and life will give you what you ask of it. Finding sex is not hard, finding love is way more difficult but everything is a lesson. Follow the principles in the book and just be on the fun bus ✌🏼
I'm happy for you. I also got over my ex finaly, after almost a year, and now I feel great. No cope or pretending, I can truly say that I don't want her back because my life is better without her.
It sucks im trying to move on
It almost took me 2 years to get over it. I started to think that i have some kind of mental problem. But apparently it just took that long.
What's that book you are talking about?
@@yomismo1888 3% man
If it happens it happens.
"Trying" to make it happen usually forces something that is likely to fall apart again
believe me when i say that they always come back.
I've got back with long term exes but it never works out. Spend your effort on new women and learn what you want. It's a lot better to find someone you click with and can be authentic with rather than someone that you only only have mild interest in.
@BEATS-BY-SKRILL I gave them another chance and oddly enough the same issues kept popping up so I ended it. People are who they are. We can't project our fantasy onto another person.
@@modernman7576 This is true and I’m learning this myself. However, my biggest relationship partner and I split because of distance because I was away at college. It didn’t work for the time, and it makes sense. I think there are some situations where it should be okay, but you have to let the dumper make the work, and you shouldn’t pedistalize her.
@Tigers9596 absolutely. Everyone's situation is different. Stay on your purpose and put yourself first and it will work out.
@@beats-by-skrill8925 ever think some people just aren’t compatible? And you miss the good things and how they made you feel. You look past all the bad things just to come back to the same situation of why you left them in the first place. Do you even listen to coach and the things he says? Or are you just trolling
Never go back to a woman who leaves because you already know how it’s going to end.
Coach understands how women communicate non-verbally. Took me a long time to get that but he speaks truth!
Something that movies, tv shows, and cartoons get right. Woman breaks up with man, man tries to win her back and make amends, he finds her immediately with another man.
My ex kept leaving, I’d let her roam while I dated and forgot about her. She always came back without me ever trying. 5 times total over 5 years. In fact, she’s gone now and will surely be back. It was an experiment at first, to see if this stuff really works. It does, but do you want it to? Huge waste of time taking her back. They don’t change, ESPECIALLY if they’re avoidants, and I’m now at a point where I deserve better because I was busy working on myself. Problem is, she’s just going to try even harder when I tell her “no more”. Want her back? Forget about her and move on. Works every time.
Great mindset and place to be in 💪
This is a narcissist and these women should be ghosted permanently
BPD
@@ciscohour5884Not BPD I believe she’s more a narcissist. Thats why he said “She’s an avoidant”. Women like that tend to not stick around when you start showing high interest.
Walking away is one of the most empowering and freeing things you can do. I learned that from the coach!
💯 my ex wife got dumped just after leaving me breaking our little family up, she spent the next couple of years hinting flirting hoping for new leveled up husband back, no thanks I completely turned it round and enjoyed rejecting her and she hated it even more as I had othe females who wanted to take her place ,never go back gentlemen no matter how hard it is my son and I are closer than ever even though it broke his heart
To all men as much as you like a woman. If she not even putting in no effort to even remember you exist unless you hit her up. Please give up. They accepted the roll of being a 304 and sleeping with multiple men while having the good nice guy be her servant that get no reward.
Okay but what if I am getting sex out of it most of the time
I wouldn’t want my fiancé back after she’s been pounded for 12 months
She's for the STREETS
Exactly. Let her go have fun with other guys and come back when she feels like it? No thanks.
What if the reason she left was cause i cheated but i doubt she’s slept with any guys she’s probably been texting them 😂
@@StuntManRueThat would make you a cunt and she deserves better
Just imagine all the naughty things we do, imagine all the things she’s done even more with someone else hell no.
Found your channel back in 2018 after my first break up,I walked away,moved abroad,got my dream job,after 2 years she begged me to take her back,I was like no thanks my life is amazing now and I have too many options,best feeling ever.
Hell yeah dude.
A windshield is larger than a rear view mirror for a reason…both have value, but you should be paying more attention to what’s in front of you, not behind.
I got hit with a double whammy. Got laid off unexpectedly with no warning from a job I was very passionate about. I had a mission and purpose and excitement then this job loss was so sudden and devastating. I was also dating a woman from that job, and then a week after I got laid off, she dumped me. It was no surprise there. I was a needy insecure little boy. It was very bad timing. We weren't that serious, and it was my very first lay off ever. I've never been let go before. Especially not suddenly. I tried so hard to hold it together with her and be the man but I couldn't do it because I was so devastated. She of course dumped me because of my non-masculine behaviours. But it opened my eyes and now that I look back at it, it had to happen. I need to find a new purpose, drive and mission. My plan is to leave the city where I live, find a very nice career, and build a new life. Meet someone new. This was a very painful yet necessary experience
Lets go brother. You Will Come out stronger
So how did it go?
@@Tobinounet I’m now in a better place thanks! I got a new job offer, I found a temporary job and it was pretty boring and lame but I now found an even better job that aligns with my career goals. I am leaving my current small city next month to start this new job where I’ll be making twice as much, learning new things, and enjoying my life to the fullest. I just submitted my two weeks notice and I am on to a new and brighter future
The book works. I bought the audio book maybe 5 years ago, listened to it more than 10 times, and just wanted to come back here to let the others know. I'm now married to the most beautiful woman I have ever met whom I would never would've thought I'd have a chance to be with BEFORE I bought the book and started listening to Coach Wayne.
Many thanks Coach! Greetings from Germany.
Ok so I have a hook up date with my ex for this Saturday night (she agreed to come to my place this past Thursday) I told her then that I would be busy that Saturday so we moved it to this week. Now I want to txt her on Friday “you getting all pretty for me tonight?” Just to follow up and not waste my time if she flakes. Should I send it? And if she does flake out how can I dismiss it without looking like a push over simp, while also keeping her accountable without acting but hurt
If she wanted to, she would! Let her come to you. If it's meant to be, the universe will do its magic!
Why would i let her come to me, after she broke up and had fun with other guys. I'm not a plan B which you can leave and come back to.
@lanikinlywalker4596bro that doesn’t happen lol
Been following since 2017. Finally read the book ten times (I know, nowhere near soon enough!) and now I'm currently in a healthy, wholesome relationship with a wonderful woman. Donating today to support the absolutely superb and outstanding work Corey does. Thank you!
Ok so I have a hook up date with my ex for this Saturday night (she agreed to come to my place this past Thursday) I told her then that I would be busy that Saturday so we moved it to this week. Now I want to txt her on Friday “you getting all pretty for me tonight?” Just to follow up and not waste my time if she flakes. Should I send it? And if she does flake out how can I dismiss it without looking like a push over simp, while also keeping her accountable without acting but hurt
@@breathlessdynasty9928 Personally, I wouldn't text. You've agreed to meet, you've set the date. You don't need to chase or verify - you can let her wonder and think about you and assume she WILL show up (because you're an awesome catch!). If she does flake then it doesn't matter as you're hanging at your place. Be the mountain, be unperturbed. Just say OK, let me know when you're free to come over and let her reach out to you. I take it you've watched "7 Principles To Get An Ex Back?" Review that several times and hit the book again! Best of luck to you
I did no contact for over a year and guess what happened she never came back and I got over it.
I want to emphasize: THERE IS NOTHING MORE IMPORTANT IN LIFE THAN YOUR PURPOSE.
No superhero goes chasing after the girl as the main story. He’s off fighting bad guys, fucking shit up, and protecting humanity. And then all the women want him.
Doing what you love is how you create abundance. If you sacrifice doing what you love, for her, she will lose respect for you and leave you for a guy who pursues his purpose.
Follow. Your. Purpose.
Especially if she’s avoidant
Perfect timing ! We both blocked each other and it’s been a month of no contact but at one point I got a No Caller ID call , obviously know who that was and a part of me wants to confirm it but best to just let it go and move on. I tried to fix what I didn’t break too many times .
Same here. This happened to me with two of my exes. One was calling me with No Caller ID for over 2 months. My most recent ex called me two weeks ago using a fake number then blocked me on WhatsApp a few days later lol. It’s been almost 3 months of no contact and she keeps blocking and unblocking me on WhatsApp. I agree it’s best to move on and focus on the future.
I fucked it up so many times, trying to talk and chase my ex wife after 20 years, now realizing that she’s not mentally healthy at all… she always blocks me when she doesn’t like something… so I finally blocked her as well just last night… I’m done with dumb pointless drama attitude !
Your only mistake was not acknowledging her mental health issues. We all make mistakes, just learn from them and move on. It's only life experiences that make us better. Best regards to you.
Excellent video - Being an older guy & looking back the best sex I ever had was from women I never pursued for sex. My ex-wife's wanted me more than ever 3 years after they left me & saw how happy I was without them. The more I enjoyed chasing my dreams the more beautiful the women I attracted. When I was just 20 years young & 100% focused on pursuit of my goals I even had dad's offering their daughter(s) to me.
Brilliant to hear mate and same here, there is something empowering about rejecting an ex wife who dropped you like your life together meant nothing, my ex wife is now a struggling single mum of 47, good luck with that you go girl
@@carlmarch9591Hows y’alls relationship now? In truth is she still single and living miserably or did y’all work something out?
@@tanicwhisper0647 she was dating a total dick she still flirts and if we are somewhere like last week at my son's birthday party she will still be over interrupting me talking to other females so no never went back too much slef respect for that
I’m starting to realize after all the hurt the last 6 months that I’ve had after me being dumped that grass isn’t always greener for the dumper. Not sure if I’m ready yet. I’ve been thriving in 2023 w my career. Had I been still w my ex I would’ve been shopping for a wedding ring. She did me a favor lol
Good for you bro!
Recently got dumped at the drop of a hat by a BPD woman after 6 months. Broke my heart, but I have really been focused on me, and have moved on. Now dating a 35 year old(Im coming up65) We recently went to the city for a weekend and had a ball! She thinks the world of me. She paid her way and was very kind, considerate, and affectionate. Have not thought much about the toxic ex, and I wont go back either. I have found my confidence and charasmatic self, doin' great now!😅
Let them be for you alone, not strangers- Proverbs 5:17
The only reason a man should ever want to get back with an ex is if she’s hot and wants to f**k and you don’t have any concrete plans for the evening. Other than that getting emotionally reattached to an ex is rarely if ever a good thing…
Your videos are always in tune with my life ,I don't know how you do it and it is weird, but a pleasant surprise nonetheless.
If a woman I am with wants to leave, I always show them the door.
Solid mindset advice. Pay attention folks!
Thanks for the video. I’ve been toying around with calling an ex back. I won’t now thanks coach.
My wife left me for the woman we opened our marriage for. I was too insecure at times and started chasing and losing my masculinity. Now she’s living with the other woman and they are moving on from me. I fcked up and didn’t pay attention to the book and how I was slipping off my center as a man.
Learn from it by taking action: hit the gym, eat healthy, buy yourself a new outfit and go out there and meet new people. Let the force be with you!
Why give them another chance: if they’ve dumped you before, they’ll do it again?
At the end of the day, it’s all about achieving the unattached mindset.
The mindset where you can be in love with a girl, but also be objective and know if the situation isn’t right.
This can only be achieving with PRACTICING along with 15+ reads of the book. Just knowing the information isn’t enough.
Took my ex back 3 weeks ago after two weeks of a break up and she got worse this past Tuesday. Full on disrespect with cursing and tantrums. She also played the break up game where she said she was done and this was the same cycle we did before. I blocked her forever as of Tuesday.
Good morning coach!
Start fresh with someine new is always best
@Gabriel Rod Not to mention, that someone new might be even better!
Vital information, Coach. 💪🏾
Got broken up with Sunday. She was pretty emotionless until i told her to call me if she wants romantic hangs, not otherwise, and that she wouldn't hear from me again. That made her cry.
We should do this not because of honor or pride. But because It does not work. When a girl doesn't want you and doens't respect you, she won do this tomorrow, next month or next year.
Let her go, learn.
Everything a women does is purely based on emotion!
Title says it all
How do you square this with Caleb Jones' 94% return rate and rotation based model? The "Long Soft Next for Temporary Exclusivity?" A pod with you two would be challenging and interesting. Thanks for all you do Corey. We sincerely love you and you have contributed priceless value to my life.
Divorce is never the way out, My husband and I was having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser, I can never just let my marriage of 18years just crash.
Beautiful,I am kinda in a similar situation, how did you handle it
well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer who help me out.
please how can i reach out to her i really need her help
her name is Eliana Zaituna Hernandez,and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster you can look her name up online and you will find all you need instantly.
I just reached out thank you very much
Let’s gooooooo coach Corey Wayne!! 😬
I dropped the ball in my last long term relationship. Knew the material but had become complacent.
Coach Corey, i totally love your books and advice, a like from you would be much admired.
@@dwaynecunningham2164Brooo, by following Coach let's rock together with girls.
approval seeking behavior XD
even though i make great money and can afford many $100 dates, doesnt mean i wanan waste my money on a woman whos using me for free drinks or food which happens all the time
First time viewer here but you seem like a comfortable character, no homo.
Good night coach... from India
Hard disconnect once its done then its done. Once you take the trash to the kerb, it gets to rot there until garbage collection and never stink up your house.
Guys it works. She dumped me 2 days ago cause she was stressed etc. I said okay, played it cool, thanked her for the good times, even made a couple jokes, told her I’d wait a couple weeks incase she changed her mind but after that I was moving on. On day 3 she FaceTimed me, tearing up, asking if I hated her. Her behavior is 10x better right now, we stayed til 2 am talking and she wants to spend today together too. Just walk away with respect, show her u can, and mean it.
@@mgtowlucki You have no idea the type of relationship we have Lmfao. And I’m not oblivious to this. I made her realize that I wasn’t coming back, and I told her all this stuff
@@mgtowlucki that was a big oooof on his part
Update LOl?
So each time she's stressed she's going to dump you and you'll take her back. Nice.
Update:
My ex wants to meet for the first time after she broke up with me. She says there's a lot to talk about so I doubt it’s a “get back together situation which I wish it was” And I'm nervous as to what I should do or act.
Back story it's been 2 weeks since the break up and she's reached out a couple of times since, some days she says she will always love me but we aren't good for each other (I feel like we could have worked through anything if she allowed it) and she's also messaged me stating that she loves me but goes and blocks me and unblocks me and watching my stories etc. I can tell she is still upset if I'm not giving her full attention now.
What should I do? I'm nervous and don't know what to expect being that it seems like it’s going to be a serious conversation. I do want to be with her but some things will need to be fixed on both sides if we did workout. Her planned exit showed me a person I wouldn't want to be with. I just don’t know what to do or if I should even meet up especially being that it seems to be a serious convo and not a get back together convo. Looking for some advice.
This is weird behaviour, she is dwelling with herself if she should come back to you. On the other side you should keep it light and follow the classic steps if you REALLY want her back, invite her for dinner and talk, connect and hookup eventually. Instead of just texting invite her....if she wants to come back to you she will show it and come for dinner . Remember you don't have time for women who are unsure for you. You want women who want you.
Whenever a girl contacts you, you should always assume she wants to see you and be in your presence. Now, it’s up to you if you want her in your life or not. You seem to lean on her being back with you so ask her to come over and chill. Remember, coach Wayne said if you want her back, do the 3 Hs(hangout, have fun, hookup). Let her do most of the talking and actively listen. When it does get into serious talk, actively listen and ask questions like “tell me more, don’t leave anything out.” And make it light hearted at the end so that she feels a comfortable feeling that is associated with opening up to you hope this help some. I would suggest reading coach Wayne’s book at least 10-15 times no cap I’ve been reading it on my second go and I am still making mistakes so reread my guy and you’ll be in a must better position
She should be one nervous, not you man! C’mon she broke it off and now SHE needs to do everything in her power to get you back. Pay close attention to the mindset change Corey keeps talking about. ALWAYS approach things from the position of strength with women (doesn’t matter how long the relationship lasted)!
@@jacobstheory thank you! I appreciate this!
@@imboutit thank you so much for the insight and taking the time to write this!
Exactly! 4:30 coffee shop is just the start
Honestly,why would you bother?,youre better off on your own.
Thia video came out right after i had texted a girl i used to talk to 😣
what if you broke up with her and then regretted it? and she's like nooo I dont want to get back together.
Then you move on
@@nicesmack9309 word. we still live together though lol
@tia_lenay and?! Bring another chick home. At this point yall roommates.. I don't know the rooming situation but if she doesn't want to get back together. Let's go! Put your time and effort on someone else.
@@nicesmack9309 you’re right! I guess it’s hard because I feel like I caused the breakup & I am the one who initially broke up with her. too much guilt I feel. but learning Corey’s material I am working on myself & implementing a whole new mindset with his material.
You are the best!
Need advice here guys. Wha if I was the reason why the relationship fell apart, and now im trying to become a much better version of myself… not with the immediate intent of Getting her back, but just to never make the same mistakes again and improve myself in every way. She is also the mother of my children… im 6’2 good looking guy and towards the end (it was a long 1 year end) she had basically no sexual attraction towards me due to the damage i caused
Can’t agree if u know u was dead wrong u should try because u know u was wrong and plaid a big role in it but if she just dip off on u and I know u didn’t do much to cause the break up then no u shouldn’t try
But if I messed up being needy and she left me, shoudnt I be the one to fix this?
Yes! But by “fixing” means going to work and going to the gym. Focus only on improving yourself. When you become confident she will notice or other, hotter women will find you attractive. NO Contact with her! If she reaches out lay low, make a date but play it cool. She’s creeped out and afraid you’re a stalker. Blowing up her phone and “apologizing” only confirms this.
simple men are fixers…women are breakers….you can’t fix something that wants to continually break….
@H3AVYHAUL3R You mean you shouldn't even TRY (fixing something that wants to stay broken)!
They are an X for a reason!!!
It ain’t that simple all the time.
Can anyone answer this:
How much sex is must atleast in a week in a relationship? How to get out of sexless relationship?
How many women should men date before getting married or getting old?
Never again. Already got two in the bag with a third on hold. FOH
What about if it’s a woman who wanted to be with you but you rejected her to play the field?
Do you think she has has a higher or lower body count since you saw her last?
Hint: it can't be lower.
I've listened to the audiobook nine times but I haven't begun to put it in action because I currently live with my parents. Should I wait to start asking out girls until I move out in a few months or am I just holding myself back?
‘Come on man’ would Corey say.
You can always go out there and ask girls out, just do what you want to do. Practice what you learned is really important
Are you afraid of bringing them back to your parents? OR afraid she won't go to your parents house?
My man you have a mustache. Why you still live with your parents?
Corey is a real G
Don’t give AF if she comes back making 1000 % effort. No 2nd chances.
i left her because she truly a narc .
have some self respect
I ended it and she wants me back. What happens then?
what if she was never my ex because we were never officially in a relationship and we were only seeing each other going on dates while she is busy in nursing school
Fwb at that point if she ain't brought up the relationship talk
Hi coach Corey I have a crush on someone at my school but I have a girlfriend so what should I do
Dump the gf obviously.
@@jmccallum34 nope
@@jmccallum34 what do you mean by dump my girlfriend
@@joshsaundh4851 Do you even have a girlfriend?
@@jblasutavario9549 yes
What if your ex was doing 100% of the persuing and things are going well. Then you see her close with another guy just before dinner date with you the next day.
You've already let her know you arent interested in someone that explores sexual or emotional connections with other people
Got to respect yourself and move on.
But if you genuinely want this women, (Which I believe you should go find someone else who wants a committed relationship with you) then you need to allow for her to come around. Eventually one day she’ll ask for exclusivity, and that is when you can make demands.
Coach has a video talking about this exact situation with one of his ex gf.
He kept dating, while she kept dating, then eventually one day she asked for his commitment.
@@tanicwhisper0647 yeah I am dating but the thing is, dating around and she’s dating the same guy so the feelings are building with him I gather.
It makes me feel like her mind was somewhere else and it made me not want to be there. We still hooked up but yeah it was weird
@@tanicwhisper0647 also it’s hard to compete with someone new for her cause the chemicals the brain releases from someone new are different
@@tanicwhisper0647cute but no I just can’t stand lying and deceit. Also why would I have to complete for someone I already had. It doesn’t make sense
All seems Very shallow
#GURU
Never ever ever go back to an ex girlfriend, move on to someone else better please God😊😊😊
Broke up?
I haven't even watched the video and can tell you there's a reason she's your ex!
damn when i bought his book years ago its was the 4% men. now its 3%...
Going back to an ex is like drinking expired milk.
Don't be a trash panda
Never go back !!!!
If she wants out.....let her go. Move on.
i left her because she truly a narc .
have some self respect