I lowkey appreciate those who said nice things about their exes even if they aren't together anymore. Don't get me wrong, some exes are just not it, so they lowkey deserve the "nothing" response.
@@YuhasLol The "you attract who you're" stuff is a myth. I've personally had good relationships, but i've seen people who were decent and very good people be taken advantage of by men.
@@YuhasLolNah fuck that 😂abusers can ROT and they take advantage of GOOD people and it's FUCKED that they get told there's something wrong with complaining 😍 legit just helps justify abuse
No matter how poorly we ended things, I miss his sense of humour and how he would bring me flowers. I wish him nothing but the best and hope he finds someone who can make him happy.
Vice versa i have the same feeling, we don't really talk in a long time and we didn't end up in the best ways but i wish her the best and i would lie if i would just say the bat parts
the girl who was with the musician, I really felt what she said, my GF broke up with me a month ago and im just now understanding why everything feels so empty, she took the music with her, she isnt a musician or anything like that but our days were always filled with music in some way or another and now I get it, she took that with her.
@@meganlemay4808 thank you for that, its not that often you find someone who will stop and spend a minute of their day to write to a complete stranger, but you did. And even though right now my world has no music in it, I know eventually ill find my one tune. ❤️
Being a simp isn't a bad thing. Not everyone has good experience with their ex. I thought this channel was about truth but it seems like the comments shame anyone who says the truth. Kudos to the people who told the truth.
Didn't sound like she said that in a negative way tbh. Maybe that's the only good things he's done for her and the other half was bad so that's what she wants to remember. That's like if a guy broke up with a girl and said "well at least she cooked decently and helped me with school."
I've always wondered why we focus so much on the concept of getting over someone as if love works in such a linear way... don't get me wrong I don't think you should still be holding onto one person while being with another, but I think love is a way more complex thing than something you can just "get over"
I don't miss anything specifically about my ex wife. We ended terribly. She cheated on me. I do, however, miss having the full family experience and living under one roof with her and our children. We're friends, and co-parenting has been cool... but I miss that experience the most.
He is the most mesmerizing man I’ve ever met. I miss his cozy home smell, his sense of humor & his lively personality. I miss his beautiful smile & his warm brown eyes. I miss the comfort I received from his embrace. I miss the feeling of being so comfortable around someone, I could really express who I am. I miss being able to do any activity or absolutely nothing at all with someone I truly enjoyed the company of. I miss his family. Damn I miss him. Wishing him all the happiness in the world
My ex broke up with me in September last year. I was not in a good mental state at the time, too, so I wasn't the easiest to be around. I find comfort and love in spending time together and helping each other out in stressful times. We were so deeply in love for over two years and she was the first girlfriend I ever had. It felt so mesmerising because it felt like we were meant to be from the first day we met. At the time she was really busy with uni and focused HARD on it - pharmacy is a painful field to go through here in Germany. I was okay with her focusing on it all, but she didn't allow me to express my natural support for her anymore. She wanted to be by herself a lot. To this day I sadly haven't got a deep reasoning as to why she wanted it to end. I, to this day, can only assume that her deep love for me and the focus she needed on herself tore her apart as well. She couldn't manage to focus on her studies and on the relationship - at least that is what makes the most sense to me. It sucks that she never really wanted to talk about it again, even months later when I reached out. I only know from a short back and forth via PMs that she cherishes the time we had. It hurt to hear that but it gave me some sense of comfort as well somehow. I miss the deep natural connection we shared, the trust we had in our abilities. I still miss her smell a lot sometimes, especially in the mornings. I miss growing together and becoming a better team with each passing week. I miss the feeling of love. I've been going through therapy since March of this year, something she wished for me to do when we were still together. To know that fact made it so much harder on me... I've learned so so much and have grown so so much in these 13 months - ALL by MYSELF. The feeling of time is still kinda weird to me: at the same time it feels like it has been ages but also at the same time it feels like it was all just yesterday. Right now, I am learning to stand firmly on my own two feet becoming better and better at it. It's a process and it's the hardest thing I have ever done. But you know what? It's the right path. I've also come to understand that some of her behaviours were toxic toward me, which I didn't see nor understand at the time. Ultimately, when I am finally there for myself at every moment in time, I can finally let someone else in again. For now, it's okay how it is. I've started to be grateful for what I learned from it all and especially from her. I hope she's alright. On some days I wished to know how she is at the moment. But then I remind myself, it would only make it harder for me to know.
This is such a mature response, I love the way you respect your past partner and still focus on growing. Only forward from here 🌞🖤 I hope you'll be doing much better soon! You're the only one that can decide what makes you happy, good luck to you ✌️💖
I am kind of going through a similar experience. I am 22 years old and I broke up with my ex a bit more than two weeks ago, and it has been pretty rough. I met her pretty much a year ago and when we first met we hit it off really fast and rushed into this relationship. For a time we met almost every day and pretty much lived together, cooking and so on. I learned a lot through her, and I still think she is a great person, I just think that we don't match in a long term relationship. I had mental problems before going into the relationship and looking back I kind of used her to distract myself from these problems. I learned to love, I learned to enjoy things more in life and I got out to do much more stuff than when I was alone, but it was always because of her. Many times we did what she wanted, or we had to compromise on something that both of us at least kind of wanted to do, since our interests sadly did not cross that much. We always had to do something "new" to have fun, go to a new place, do a new hobby, watch a new movie, but there was not a lot that we liked to do for a longer period of time. So pretty much I just lived my life through her, and not because I wanted to do those things myself, which probably was the reason I could not live that way anymore. I definetily still enjoyed many of our moments, but deep down I had the feeling that I miss things in the relationship, and that the motivation came from her and not me. I currently have a low drive to live, but I have very supportive parents and friends which I am very grateful for. I don't know how I would feel if I got broken up with, if it would hurt more or less than what I experience, since I did not leave her for any toxic traits or anything. Maybe I will realise them later, but most likely it is just character traits which I value highly in a partner for life that I don't see in her, like same humour and probably more of the same interests. Emotionally and physically it was still the deepest connection that I ever experienced. It is hard breaking up with someone that loves you and that you care for that much. Anyways, as you mentioned as well, I am trying to get on my own two feet rn, since I have not been really happy with my bachelor's degree and I will probably change my direction into teaching. Also I am currently on my journey through therapy aswell, which we also talked about a lot in our relationship. I probably could relate to her on a psychological and emotional level the most since we kind of both had depression / depressive episodes in the past, or for me right now. I don't know if I will "get over" her any time soon, if at all. I rather think I have to push myself into a happier direction, without seeking the motivation from other people. All I can tell you is that I am glad you worked through this, and are still working on it to this day. I am still at step one of being happy by myself, and to be honest being motivated and hopeful is very hard at times. But I think knowing that other people also go through stuff like that and that they made it is what keeps me going. I hope you're doing well, and thank you for sharing your story.
im going through a similar situation. we broke up almost two months ago and it's kinda hard for me still, but im trying my best. i thought we could continue talking but i was feeling really bad and decided to stop talking w her, i told her and she seems to be okay w it. but when i reached out again after a while she is cold and distant, so i think she doesn't want to talk anymore. it sucks, but it's life.
I miss my ex every day, even 5 years on. He was the most thoughtful, caring, talented and supportive person. He changed my life in every way for the better, and I treated him badly. I really didn't appreciate him at all until we were apart.
Broken hearted, watching the video and feeling the same… it’s been almost three weeks and we haven’t talked since. It hurts so much loosing a person out of nothing…
I was on and off with my ex for over 15 years. We haven't spoken for 4 years now, or seen each other for, wow, 7 years, that's such a long time to have passed. He was the love of my life, and I haven't been with anyone since he left me for a girl young enough to be his daughter. I don't know that I ever will be, I don't want to get to know someone else so deeply and then lose them again, it's just too painful. He's well and truly moved on and has no interest at all in me, so I guess I wasn't the love of his life like he had me believing, but in hindsight he did make it pretty clear with his actions that his feelings didn't always match his words. That just makes it even harder to know what, if anything, was even true. I'd still take him back, but he would never ask. He never did, it was always me who missed him and he obviously missed the attention and he doesn't need that from me anymore. Sucks when you give your whole life to someone and they just toss you aside like it meant nothing. The thing I miss most is being able to sleep. I never slept better than with him next to me. I haven't had a good night's sleep in forever. I just felt safe with him, which is ironic considering how much damage he did with that trust.
4:38 what the actual hell? That's one of the most toxic things I've heard in a while. Instead of breaking her heart you'd rather be massively disrespectful, possibly making her not pursue any relationships in the future and break her heart. Classy.
Personally I think you can never get over someone if you were truly in love. I mean you can love a new person even more, but there will always be a place for that long gone love.
@@Hardawayfits I said that about my first love, then came a second years after and I fell even harder. Both are now exes, the latter we get in touch occasionally but not like the good old days. Most importantly, I'm now officially in the 30s club and one very noticeable change is that I no longer feel attached to any past relationships and I'm in so much control of my own emotions. Wish you the best!
I can’t say I miss anything about any of my exes. There were good times sprinkled in but the toxicity of each relationship ended up overshadowing all of those times and gave me nothing to miss. I do wish each one well but have no interest in knowing about their lives ever again.
I only have one ex, before my husband. I do not miss him personally. But I liked the falling in love as a teenager, and it still was my first love. So before falling in love with my husband I missed those feelings.
Look at their outfits, many times they're asked numerous questions at each recording and will even do different types of segments. So it's reasonable they wouldn't know EVERY question ahead of time. Besides, it's a whole lot easier to get honest and candid answers.
The mere thought of getting along with someone from your past seems like it'd be worth testing out if it'll go well in the long run. Just because you weren't on good terms then doesn't necessarily mean y'all can't patch things up anymore.
for the first two weeks i would tell myself that “i’m a man, just shrug it off” but damn, i miss the late night calls we had, i miss having a person to vent to, the iMessage games, the dates, basically everything. but it’s life, we just have to move on.
This is kind of refreshing as someone who is now 31. Has had only 2 exs. One in high school and one my first 2 years of uni, its nice a lot of other people are also single. 12 years single now.
My most recent ex was the most abuse person I've ever encountered and I only miss the lie he painted of a family together and his toddler son. I think about his son a lot and worry about him.
i miss him and most of all i miss the feeling of loving him, being sure of his presence, not being afraid of never seeing him again, i miss his touch, our hands together rubbing softly, feeling the world, i miss him, i usually forget about the bad things, still think about where i went wrong, knowing well enough it just wasn’t meant to be, but not wanting to know it. still miss him, not wanting that relationship back, but still thinking about what we could’ve been.
I hated how things ended with one of my exes and don’t ever see myself getting back with them due to how I felt I was treated, but that doesn’t change that I loved being with them then. I loved them for a reason. Saying nothing just kind of feels like retaliation and attacking who they are now
The thing I miss most about my ex is her sense of humor and how we created a world for ourselves (with inside jokes and our on language), when I was around her I felt like the rest of the world was just background noise, until the day I stopped feeling like that.
I don’t necessarily miss my ex, I miss the idea of him. We had a lot of fun and made a lot of good memories. I thought he was the one cause we were together for 3 years but he broke up with me out of nowhere. I don’t wish him any harm or animosity, I wish him the best and I hope everything works out for him.
My second ever boyfriend just broke up with me a week ago. Now I miss him so much but I understand that the relationships with him were nothing like I want to have in future. He was a narcissist who used me to get his own comfort and gave just a little piece back. I was too lonely and insecure on my own cause I studied abroad where he lived. Starting LDR showed that I am not the person he wanted to be with but he stayed with me giving hopes for the future and breaking up with me out of nowhere in 3 months we’ve been apart. He texted me recently checking how I am, but in fact he just wants to see how bad I am without him so he can feel how good he is. Fuck that, I’m done with it :) Therapy will help, friends will help. I know I deserve better, everyone who’s going through the bad breakup deserves better. I hope I’ll reply to myself soon when I can finally say that I don’t care, I moved on and I don’t miss 💪🏼
I miss her. I miss everything about her. I miss being with her every weekend, waking up before her to tend to her animals, having her coffee ready for her when she'd wake up. I miss her just looking at me at me and smiling from ear to ear, telling me how much she loves me and how happy I made her. I miss us exploring new things, her teaching me about her interest. We never argued or fought because she wasn't a fan of loud noises and sounds, so as someone who can be confrontational, really helped me calm that storm. She really feels like the one that got away. It's been 2 months since she broke up with me and I'd love nothing more than to have her come back home to me.
I miss feeling like I had a best friend. My ex also taught me how I did and did not deserve to be treated. They were my first partner and I learned a lot from our time together. I have no regrets and hope they are doing well.
I miss my ex, mostly because she was someone I could for the first time in my life call my best friend and feel that to be true. That friendship was filled with love and eventho it began as a romantic relationship, and that is where we in the end werent compatible, friendship betweeen us was the best thing, just pure and loving human connection and vulnerbility. I miss my best friend
This is extremally hard to admit but I miss my "big" ex on a daily-ish. We ended on weird terms and I know shes back in Seattle and i have this fear of running into her. But ive never met anyone that has been remotely as like me as her. That shit is tough.
I just broke up with my boyfriend due to his lack of communication (I’ve given him multiple chances to try and work for our relationship but it’s always me that has to put in effort). Either way it wasn’t easy and I miss him so much I wish we could have worked out because we were imagining a future together. He is a good person so I don’t have anything bad to say about him all that I hope is that he is happy with or without me. Sadly it is without me, I love Ivan far more then he even knew. 💌
Some people have very strong opinions on the relationship you should have with your ex but why would you have to block them and hate everything they stand for? Of course it's hard to still interact with someone who you previously had an intimate relationship with but there's nothing wrong with staying friendly if you just didn't work out as partners but can still maintain a good relationship!
That only works both parties have a sense of closure. If there are any residual feelings from either party, it's going to end badly. My ex and I had very different life and relationship goals and we would never have worked out. We knew we had to break up and we resolved to stay friends because it wasn't like we didn't get along or had an abusive relationship or anything. But when I actually broke it off, he took it hard as if he had been blindsided. For an entire year, it was this continuous back and forth. He'd text me compulsively, call me in the middle of the night, show up religiously for events I was coordinating or that he knew I'd be at, follow me to the gym after class, check my department on weekends to see if I was there, etc. When I called him out on it, he'd be apologetic for a while and then in the near future he'd ask my permission to attend things he was by no means barred from attending but that he would never attend if I wasn't there (he was basically asking me to tell him I want him there). He kept seeking my approval and validation for everything. Ultimately, it was impossible to stay friends under those conditions. I'd lost whatever trust I had in him, and that's difficult to regain.
I used to think this way but you have to remember yes you shared an intimate time but if someone cheated on you, gaslit you, manipulated, treated you horribly especially in an effort to push a breakup because they didn’t have the balls to do it themselves, yea, quite valid to hate them for that and want to block them out your life for being so disrespectful.
Honestly for me I was deeply in love with my ex but after we broke up after I got over the “oh they aren’t there anymore” I only miss her body it’s so weird I’ve gotten over everything else but her eyes and her body she was gorgeous honestly but that’s all I miss
I miss the things my ex would do. We never would have worked long-term since we were of different religions and no one wanted to convert. I had to end things before they got too serious. But I miss how he considered my interests and we went out to cool places. He was nice and played video games with me. Yeah, I miss him. I wish I was a better communicator but you live and learn. Taking those lessons to become a better partner to someone. I hope he is doing well.
Hell yeah I miss my ex fiancé. I still love him. I cant deny my feelings for him. If you are reading this and you love somebody call them before its to late🎉😊🤞🥰
My ex is awesome. We aren’t in touch and are both happily partnered but I’ll always appreciate the connection we shared and the loving understanding that prompted our decision to separate so we could both grow in the ways we needed ❤
@@joshuaduque8819I wish there was something solid I could say. I think it varies from person to person and from love to love. What I will say is that I found myself waiting for the grief to get smaller, and in time I realized that wasn’t the case - that what I needed to do instead was build the rest of my life up bigger. More travel, more friends, more adventure, more hobbies. The pain becomes more manageable and then eventually it subsides 🫂 wishing you the best in this. I know it’s not easy
I lowkey appreciate those who said nice things about their exes even if they aren't together anymore. Don't get me wrong, some exes are just not it, so they lowkey deserve the "nothing" response.
Facts. It speaks volumes about YOU as a person (ie the type of partners you choose) if you only have negative things to say about your ex.
True that 💯💯💯
@@YuhasLol The "you attract who you're" stuff is a myth. I've personally had good relationships, but i've seen people who were decent and very good people be taken advantage of by men.
I lowkey think that you use the word "lowkey" too often.
@@YuhasLolNah fuck that 😂abusers can ROT and they take advantage of GOOD people and it's FUCKED that they get told there's something wrong with complaining 😍 legit just helps justify abuse
Calling your ex a simp makes me wonder if there was any love
fr it's a bit disrespectful considering the connotation of the word. Something more balanced/appropriate would be "attentive/present/caring/etc."
I like that the producer called her out on it and asked, what did you do for him? 💀
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@@cookiesncream789 It's always the ABG type 💀💀
“Is she the one that got away?” “…yeah” 🙁
Dude at 4:50 was so expressive about it, even wave us some context of what he was going through.
I feel identified with him.
I just realized it's spelled gave instead of wave 👋
he had such a visceral response to the question and I felt that so hard
I want to know the back story. His wave of emotion gave me chills
No matter how poorly we ended things, I miss his sense of humour and how he would bring me flowers. I wish him nothing but the best and hope he finds someone who can make him happy.
Awwww....Your the sweetest! 🥰😁
Man that’s beautiful 🙏🏾
nobody asked you
Vice versa i have the same feeling, we don't really talk in a long time and we didn't end up in the best ways but i wish her the best and i would lie if i would just say the bat parts
the girl who was with the musician, I really felt what she said, my GF broke up with me a month ago and im just now understanding why everything feels so empty, she took the music with her, she isnt a musician or anything like that but our days were always filled with music in some way or another and now I get it, she took that with her.
You’ll find your own, friend. It won’t be her music, but it will be all your own. Let it breathe. 💛
@@meganlemay4808 thank you for that, its not that often you find someone who will stop and spend a minute of their day to write to a complete stranger, but you did. And even though right now my world has no music in it, I know eventually ill find my one tune. ❤️
Glad the simp bf woke up and got out, good for him.
Also kudos to the ones that could actually say respectful things about their ex
Im glad that brother woke up too! 😅😂
Being a simp isn't a bad thing. Not everyone has good experience with their ex. I thought this channel was about truth but it seems like the comments shame anyone who says the truth. Kudos to the people who told the truth.
Didn't sound like she said that in a negative way tbh. Maybe that's the only good things he's done for her and the other half was bad so that's what she wants to remember. That's like if a guy broke up with a girl and said "well at least she cooked decently and helped me with school."
The word "simp" gets thrown around so loosely nowadays. What the hell does that word even mean anymore?
@@ChrisTheAspergerGuy putting a person on a pedastool, or giving a person 1 sided, unreciprocated affection.
I've always wondered why we focus so much on the concept of getting over someone as if love works in such a linear way... don't get me wrong I don't think you should still be holding onto one person while being with another, but I think love is a way more complex thing than something you can just "get over"
You can really tell who cheated and who got cheated on
0:44 had a whole man gossiping behind her back and she still was blindly in love. She's a trooper. No one should endure that.
Oh man i really hope the guy from 4:50 will be okay :(
The girl talking about how theres no music anymore.... awe.
And that one guy about crying. Omg.
Calling someone that's supposed to love you a 'simp' is insane. LOL
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@@argumentumadhominem3977straight up
I don't miss anything specifically about my ex wife. We ended terribly. She cheated on me. I do, however, miss having the full family experience and living under one roof with her and our children. We're friends, and co-parenting has been cool... but I miss that experience the most.
this was so disturbing to read
@@politologja1286How so?
@@politologja1286 How so?
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@@politologja1286 wtf how??
"I am a free agent like the basketball players" LMAO
If you miss nothing about your ex, I hope your next partner or your current one is nothing like them.
So does everyone who says that.
That "what would you do for him" at 2:20 damn... You didn't need to murder that girl
He is the most mesmerizing man I’ve ever met. I miss his cozy home smell, his sense of humor & his lively personality. I miss his beautiful smile & his warm brown eyes. I miss the comfort I received from his embrace. I miss the feeling of being so comfortable around someone, I could really express who I am. I miss being able to do any activity or absolutely nothing at all with someone I truly enjoyed the company of. I miss his family. Damn I miss him. Wishing him all the happiness in the world
This is so sweet omg I hope things got better
My ex broke up with me in September last year. I was not in a good mental state at the time, too, so I wasn't the easiest to be around. I find comfort and love in spending time together and helping each other out in stressful times. We were so deeply in love for over two years and she was the first girlfriend I ever had. It felt so mesmerising because it felt like we were meant to be from the first day we met. At the time she was really busy with uni and focused HARD on it - pharmacy is a painful field to go through here in Germany. I was okay with her focusing on it all, but she didn't allow me to express my natural support for her anymore. She wanted to be by herself a lot. To this day I sadly haven't got a deep reasoning as to why she wanted it to end. I, to this day, can only assume that her deep love for me and the focus she needed on herself tore her apart as well. She couldn't manage to focus on her studies and on the relationship - at least that is what makes the most sense to me. It sucks that she never really wanted to talk about it again, even months later when I reached out. I only know from a short back and forth via PMs that she cherishes the time we had. It hurt to hear that but it gave me some sense of comfort as well somehow.
I miss the deep natural connection we shared, the trust we had in our abilities. I still miss her smell a lot sometimes, especially in the mornings. I miss growing together and becoming a better team with each passing week. I miss the feeling of love.
I've been going through therapy since March of this year, something she wished for me to do when we were still together. To know that fact made it so much harder on me... I've learned so so much and have grown so so much in these 13 months - ALL by MYSELF. The feeling of time is still kinda weird to me: at the same time it feels like it has been ages but also at the same time it feels like it was all just yesterday. Right now, I am learning to stand firmly on my own two feet becoming better and better at it. It's a process and it's the hardest thing I have ever done. But you know what? It's the right path. I've also come to understand that some of her behaviours were toxic toward me, which I didn't see nor understand at the time. Ultimately, when I am finally there for myself at every moment in time, I can finally let someone else in again. For now, it's okay how it is. I've started to be grateful for what I learned from it all and especially from her. I hope she's alright. On some days I wished to know how she is at the moment. But then I remind myself, it would only make it harder for me to know.
This is such a mature response, I love the way you respect your past partner and still focus on growing. Only forward from here 🌞🖤 I hope you'll be doing much better soon! You're the only one that can decide what makes you happy, good luck to you ✌️💖
@@nobirthday Thanks for the kind words.. they mean a lot to me. ♥
Thank you so much for sharing your story, I started crying! I’m glad you’re doing better now!!
I am kind of going through a similar experience. I am 22 years old and I broke up with my ex a bit more than two weeks ago, and it has been pretty rough. I met her pretty much a year ago and when we first met we hit it off really fast and rushed into this relationship. For a time we met almost every day and pretty much lived together, cooking and so on. I learned a lot through her, and I still think she is a great person, I just think that we don't match in a long term relationship. I had mental problems before going into the relationship and looking back I kind of used her to distract myself from these problems. I learned to love, I learned to enjoy things more in life and I got out to do much more stuff than when I was alone, but it was always because of her. Many times we did what she wanted, or we had to compromise on something that both of us at least kind of wanted to do, since our interests sadly did not cross that much. We always had to do something "new" to have fun, go to a new place, do a new hobby, watch a new movie, but there was not a lot that we liked to do for a longer period of time. So pretty much I just lived my life through her, and not because I wanted to do those things myself, which probably was the reason I could not live that way anymore. I definetily still enjoyed many of our moments, but deep down I had the feeling that I miss things in the relationship, and that the motivation came from her and not me.
I currently have a low drive to live, but I have very supportive parents and friends which I am very grateful for. I don't know how I would feel if I got broken up with, if it would hurt more or less than what I experience, since I did not leave her for any toxic traits or anything. Maybe I will realise them later, but most likely it is just character traits which I value highly in a partner for life that I don't see in her, like same humour and probably more of the same interests. Emotionally and physically it was still the deepest connection that I ever experienced. It is hard breaking up with someone that loves you and that you care for that much.
Anyways, as you mentioned as well, I am trying to get on my own two feet rn, since I have not been really happy with my bachelor's degree and I will probably change my direction into teaching. Also I am currently on my journey through therapy aswell, which we also talked about a lot in our relationship. I probably could relate to her on a psychological and emotional level the most since we kind of both had depression / depressive episodes in the past, or for me right now. I don't know if I will "get over" her any time soon, if at all. I rather think I have to push myself into a happier direction, without seeking the motivation from other people.
All I can tell you is that I am glad you worked through this, and are still working on it to this day. I am still at step one of being happy by myself, and to be honest being motivated and hopeful is very hard at times. But I think knowing that other people also go through stuff like that and that they made it is what keeps me going. I hope you're doing well, and thank you for sharing your story.
im going through a similar situation. we broke up almost two months ago and it's kinda hard for me still, but im trying my best. i thought we could continue talking but i was feeling really bad and decided to stop talking w her, i told her and she seems to be okay w it. but when i reached out again after a while she is cold and distant, so i think she doesn't want to talk anymore. it sucks, but it's life.
I miss my ex every day, even 5 years on. He was the most thoughtful, caring, talented and supportive person. He changed my life in every way for the better, and I treated him badly. I really didn't appreciate him at all until we were apart.
Me too, 3 years later, but it took me being out of the relationship to be a better person
4:50 his face is crushing my heart rn
My ex just broke up with me 3 days ago... this video hits HARD😅😭 But i really enjoyed the balance of answers, it helps me progress my own feelings
Me and you both 😊
It's going to be okay ❤
Going through this too. It's gonna get worse before it gets better. But it will get better, little by little
Broken hearted, watching the video and feeling the same… it’s been almost three weeks and we haven’t talked since. It hurts so much loosing a person out of nothing…
Just listen to Adele, cry in the shower a bit and then snap tf out of it. There’s a better person out there for you!
"the sound of someone I love always in the background" 💔
“the sound of someone i love always in the background”
I was on and off with my ex for over 15 years. We haven't spoken for 4 years now, or seen each other for, wow, 7 years, that's such a long time to have passed. He was the love of my life, and I haven't been with anyone since he left me for a girl young enough to be his daughter. I don't know that I ever will be, I don't want to get to know someone else so deeply and then lose them again, it's just too painful. He's well and truly moved on and has no interest at all in me, so I guess I wasn't the love of his life like he had me believing, but in hindsight he did make it pretty clear with his actions that his feelings didn't always match his words. That just makes it even harder to know what, if anything, was even true. I'd still take him back, but he would never ask. He never did, it was always me who missed him and he obviously missed the attention and he doesn't need that from me anymore. Sucks when you give your whole life to someone and they just toss you aside like it meant nothing. The thing I miss most is being able to sleep. I never slept better than with him next to me. I haven't had a good night's sleep in forever. I just felt safe with him, which is ironic considering how much damage he did with that trust.
4:38 what the actual hell?
That's one of the most toxic things I've heard in a while.
Instead of breaking her heart you'd rather be massively disrespectful, possibly making her not pursue any relationships in the future and break her heart.
Classy.
Nobody’s talking about the basketball guy?? That got me BUSTIN out Laughin ☠️☠️☠️
Personally I think you can never get over someone if you were truly in love. I mean you can love a new person even more, but there will always be a place for that long gone love.
I will never love another man like I love my ex fiancé🤞
@@Hardawayfits I said that about my first love, then came a second years after and I fell even harder. Both are now exes, the latter we get in touch occasionally but not like the good old days.
Most importantly, I'm now officially in the 30s club and one very noticeable change is that I no longer feel attached to any past relationships and I'm in so much control of my own emotions.
Wish you the best!
@@MojeZycieWSkrocie Interesting. Thanks.
hope dude at 5:00 can find some inner peace soon ☹️❤
I do , i miss everything … broke up after 8 years.. I really thought I was gonna marry this person😭❤️🩹
Why'd you break up?
You still can 💕
I can’t say I miss anything about any of my exes. There were good times sprinkled in but the toxicity of each relationship ended up overshadowing all of those times and gave me nothing to miss. I do wish each one well but have no interest in knowing about their lives ever again.
5:30 oof yellow girl with the baring her soul
The way he smelt omg my favorite smell & I can’t remember it anymore, I just know I wanted to bottle it up & keep it forever
2:18
Thank you for that question
4:53 is hurtt, hes been through it
I only have one ex, before my husband. I do not miss him personally. But I liked the falling in love as a teenager, and it still was my first love. So before falling in love with my husband I missed those feelings.
I don't miss my ex but I wish her well.
In hell hahahaah. Cardi b would say that lol
2:12 just yikes.
"I didnt expect this" imagine going on a show and you dont even know youre gonna be asked such personal questions
Look at their outfits, many times they're asked numerous questions at each recording and will even do different types of segments.
So it's reasonable they wouldn't know EVERY question ahead of time.
Besides, it's a whole lot easier to get honest and candid answers.
thats exactly the point, they know what theyre signing up for
1:06 "i miss..... everything." that hit
The mere thought of getting along with someone from your past seems like it'd be worth testing out if it'll go well in the long run. Just because you weren't on good terms then doesn't necessarily mean y'all can't patch things up anymore.
love to hear other's perspectives on this! wish i could participate in another episode lol
The music one broke me omg 1:28
honey wake up, the cut channel posted
for the first two weeks i would tell myself that “i’m a man, just shrug it off” but damn, i miss the late night calls we had, i miss having a person to vent to, the iMessage games, the dates, basically everything.
but it’s life, we just have to move on.
I miss that feeling of complete love and trust we had before it was broken.
This is kind of refreshing as someone who is now 31. Has had only 2 exs. One in high school and one my first 2 years of uni, its nice a lot of other people are also single. 12 years single now.
My most recent ex was the most abuse person I've ever encountered and I only miss the lie he painted of a family together and his toddler son. I think about his son a lot and worry about him.
i miss him and most of all i miss the feeling of loving him, being sure of his presence, not being afraid of never seeing him again, i miss his touch, our hands together rubbing softly, feeling the world, i miss him, i usually forget about the bad things, still think about where i went wrong, knowing well enough it just wasn’t meant to be, but not wanting to know it. still miss him, not wanting that relationship back, but still thinking about what we could’ve been.
my ex ghosted me, didn’t break up with me, started dating his ex two days after. never got the closure or break up
0:40 I LOOOOVE THEIR OUTFIT
'I miss that he was a simp girl' is my literal worst nightmare
Stay away from undeveloped and immature humans and you can avoid that. Easy to spot them out if you ask a few important questions
That intro is top tier!!
I hated how things ended with one of my exes and don’t ever see myself getting back with them due to how I felt I was treated, but that doesn’t change that I loved being with them then. I loved them for a reason. Saying nothing just kind of feels like retaliation and attacking who they are now
The thing I miss most about my ex is her sense of humor and how we created a world for ourselves (with inside jokes and our on language), when I was around her I felt like the rest of the world was just background noise, until the day I stopped feeling like that.
Hugs and comfort, everything disappears when im in their hands, I miss it
I need to be on this show!
Great watch 👊🏿!
I miss dying your hair, your smile and my Rage Against The Machine Shirt you never gave back.
I don’t necessarily miss my ex, I miss the idea of him. We had a lot of fun and made a lot of good memories. I thought he was the one cause we were together for 3 years but he broke up with me out of nowhere. I don’t wish him any harm or animosity, I wish him the best and I hope everything works out for him.
0:39 the pink hair and the outfit!??! Its so cute like huh?? 🎀🎀💝
I miss being with my ex in her cabin and watching DVD movies from the 2000s all night. That was fun
" he take care of me. Even put gas in my car" 🥰😅
My second ever boyfriend just broke up with me a week ago. Now I miss him so much but I understand that the relationships with him were nothing like I want to have in future. He was a narcissist who used me to get his own comfort and gave just a little piece back. I was too lonely and insecure on my own cause I studied abroad where he lived.
Starting LDR showed that I am not the person he wanted to be with but he stayed with me giving hopes for the future and breaking up with me out of nowhere in 3 months we’ve been apart. He texted me recently checking how I am, but in fact he just wants to see how bad I am without him so he can feel how good he is. Fuck that, I’m done with it :) Therapy will help, friends will help. I know I deserve better, everyone who’s going through the bad breakup deserves better.
I hope I’ll reply to myself soon when I can finally say that I don’t care, I moved on and I don’t miss 💪🏼
feeling peaceful
I miss her. I miss everything about her. I miss being with her every weekend, waking up before her to tend to her animals, having her coffee ready for her when she'd wake up. I miss her just looking at me at me and smiling from ear to ear, telling me how much she loves me and how happy I made her. I miss us exploring new things, her teaching me about her interest. We never argued or fought because she wasn't a fan of loud noises and sounds, so as someone who can be confrontational, really helped me calm that storm. She really feels like the one that got away. It's been 2 months since she broke up with me and I'd love nothing more than to have her come back home to me.
1:05 anybody know where to get this flower hoodie or something similar? Looks dope
lol i miss when he would play along with my antics
I miss feeling like I had a best friend. My ex also taught me how I did and did not deserve to be treated. They were my first partner and I learned a lot from our time together. I have no regrets and hope they are doing well.
i miss stuff about my ex but in a nostalgic sort of way rather than actually wanting any of that right now
I really expected this to be sad/hateful but some responses were honestly so sweet!
I miss my ex, mostly because she was someone I could for the first time in my life call my best friend and feel that to be true. That friendship was filled with love and eventho it began as a romantic relationship, and that is where we in the end werent compatible, friendship betweeen us was the best thing, just pure and loving human connection and vulnerbility. I miss my best friend
That Canes shirt:🔥🔥🔥
This is extremally hard to admit but I miss my "big" ex on a daily-ish. We ended on weird terms and I know shes back in Seattle and i have this fear of running into her. But ive never met anyone that has been remotely as like me as her. That shit is tough.
You won't run into her unless you're looking to. Even if you go to the same places. It's this weird universe thing.
5:58 so true
Listening to this on my way home, 125 MPH into that tree.
Love the Lakers hat guy
I just broke up with my boyfriend due to his lack of communication (I’ve given him multiple chances to try and work for our relationship but it’s always me that has to put in effort). Either way it wasn’t easy and I miss him so much I wish we could have worked out because we were imagining a future together. He is a good person so I don’t have anything bad to say about him all that I hope is that he is happy with or without me. Sadly it is without me, I love Ivan far more then he even knew. 💌
so glad the simp bf realized his worth
i was looking for this comment
Maybe those are the only good things she wants to remember about the guy.
@@10onit she couldn’t answer when he asked what she did for him
buddy in blue hoodie, sending tight hugs bro
grief is the answer........
Free Ageeeeent😂😂😂😂😂😂
I miss nothing about him
He was controlling and never supported me in anyway and that’s a big part of why I am unable to want to interact with anyone
1:56 is purple shirt one of the virgins from truth or drink? if so, we love to see it
Some people have very strong opinions on the relationship you should have with your ex but why would you have to block them and hate everything they stand for? Of course it's hard to still interact with someone who you previously had an intimate relationship with but there's nothing wrong with staying friendly if you just didn't work out as partners but can still maintain a good relationship!
I block so that I don't relapse
That only works both parties have a sense of closure. If there are any residual feelings from either party, it's going to end badly. My ex and I had very different life and relationship goals and we would never have worked out. We knew we had to break up and we resolved to stay friends because it wasn't like we didn't get along or had an abusive relationship or anything. But when I actually broke it off, he took it hard as if he had been blindsided. For an entire year, it was this continuous back and forth. He'd text me compulsively, call me in the middle of the night, show up religiously for events I was coordinating or that he knew I'd be at, follow me to the gym after class, check my department on weekends to see if I was there, etc. When I called him out on it, he'd be apologetic for a while and then in the near future he'd ask my permission to attend things he was by no means barred from attending but that he would never attend if I wasn't there (he was basically asking me to tell him I want him there). He kept seeking my approval and validation for everything. Ultimately, it was impossible to stay friends under those conditions. I'd lost whatever trust I had in him, and that's difficult to regain.
Let's see how you feel if you girlfriend is still friendly with her ex. Be realistic ☠. Some people just move on fast
@@chrism1918smart man! They can kick rocks 💯
I used to think this way but you have to remember yes you shared an intimate time but if someone cheated on you, gaslit you, manipulated, treated you horribly especially in an effort to push a breakup because they didn’t have the balls to do it themselves, yea, quite valid to hate them for that and want to block them out your life for being so disrespectful.
1:51 that makes perfect sense. 😢
Awww Sean/Shawn is so shy...
The last scene was my favorite 😭
(Keeshon)
that guy who said he missed the basketball😭😂
Honestly for me I was deeply in love with my ex but after we broke up after I got over the “oh they aren’t there anymore” I only miss her body it’s so weird I’ve gotten over everything else but her eyes and her body she was gorgeous honestly but that’s all I miss
Me going through the comments hoping my ex is talking about missing me 😪
It’s me
She had a good basketball. Nice hahah
Why’d you do Keyshawn like that? Lmao
the basketball one 🤣 like what?
I miss the things my ex would do. We never would have worked long-term since we were of different religions and no one wanted to convert. I had to end things before they got too serious. But I miss how he considered my interests and we went out to cool places. He was nice and played video games with me. Yeah, I miss him. I wish I was a better communicator but you live and learn. Taking those lessons to become a better partner to someone. I hope he is doing well.
Hell yeah I miss my ex fiancé. I still love him. I cant deny my feelings for him. If you are reading this and you love somebody call them before its to late🎉😊🤞🥰
77 and still miss my first 💞 after 54 years !!!
My ex is awesome. We aren’t in touch and are both happily partnered but I’ll always appreciate the connection we shared and the loving understanding that prompted our decision to separate so we could both grow in the ways we needed ❤
How long does it take to move on cause it’s been hard for me
So beautiful!
@@joshuaduque8819I wish there was something solid I could say. I think it varies from person to person and from love to love. What I will say is that I found myself waiting for the grief to get smaller, and in time I realized that wasn’t the case - that what I needed to do instead was build the rest of my life up bigger. More travel, more friends, more adventure, more hobbies. The pain becomes more manageable and then eventually it subsides 🫂 wishing you the best in this. I know it’s not easy
To the man in blue, you deserve to feel. I hope you take some time to! 💙
Kinda makes me sad that I have nothing positive to say about my ex. I wish it wasn't the case but it is how it is. At least it's over now.
Her box