It’s immature of her to say he will “cheat on Lauren”, or break up with her. He didn’t even do anything wrong, he only has a short matter of time to pick someone as his wife so if he sees red flags he needs to make a decision. And the girls most upset are the ones he dumped. It’s better he broke it off with Becca if he was meant to be with Lauren rather than staying in an imperfect marriage. And now they have 3 kids and are doing very well.
Love you Bekah! Thank god Becca has a strong minded, intelligent awesome girl such as yourself out there defending her. And yes!! Put Arie's ass on blast. He 100% doesn't deserve to catch a break after the callous and unfeeling way he treated Becca during that break up. You could tell he just wanted Becca to tell him it was alright, so he could waltz off to Lauren. He is officially the WORST Bachelor in history.
Of error and mistakes. For 2- 3 days(engaged) or for a lifetime of deceit. Mr Arie (being truthful) just did a solution to a problem of a heart/love situation that may cause a relationship disaster between them for long term (...of lies, deceit and unhappiness). Who want or need liars, cheaters and unfaithfuls during a relationship (be engaged or married)? Sometimes it is difficult to accept the truth. And it is just plain reality of a situation. Good enough for the involved parties to know their personal needs. Wounds will heal. Men can be judged alright for certain mistakes and maybe women can find their (rightful) chosen one who have the guts to tell the necessary truth (to correct and to have transparent good relationship/goodwill) at earliest possible to avoid worst consequences. Every one can find their own needed comforts and their appropriate love interests. Maybe you as an audience deserve your entertainment and your own best understanding about the TV show how/what/why you enjoyed or displeased. Have a nice coffee.
The bullying of Arie is getting out of hand he is allowed to choose someone else and change his mind! MANY engaged couples break up in real life! I feel like Arie is just a really depressive person and hides his emotions but I'm sure all this bullying has got to get to him! I think he is like me dosn't know what to say to someone in certain situations and what can you say in the situation anyways to make it better? It's an awkward and hard situation and thing to go through! I felt he always liked Lauren the most and it was always Lauren but his family confused him and messed with his head because he really like Becca too but your families opinion is more important than anyones and a lot of people would follow their advice! When he picked her I thought BIG mistake! He should have picked Lauren they are the right fit for each other and I always felt he had more feelings for her then the other girls! This bully of Arie is relentless and it's got to stop! You would think he ki lled someone damn! I don't think he meant't to hurt Becca but Arie does not know how to talk and what to say a lot of times. Some people probably firgure it out in their heads before they go them 'act' it out but Arie is just a flew by the seat of his pants guy not train/rehearse which is more real and what can you really say in that situation anyways? I think he knew soon he made a mistake but his family convenience him and he also really loved Becca I believe but it's not the same as Lauren.
Why does it not seem strange to anyone that her own mother filed a missing persons report ?? Clearly there is something behind the scenes with this chick .. talking like this is very childish also
Funnily enough, I'm vieeing this after seeing an interview from a few months later when she was pregnant, when she acknowledges how ridiculous she was here, saying mean things
First he did tell Becca that he wanted to talk to Lauren, and second he wasn’t engaged to Becca for months, just weeks in which they couldn’t even see each other. There was nothing wrong with those DM’s, he hurt this 22 year old and was making sure she was ok he said “Hope all is well” wow, what a scandal. For the people saying she is very mature, here are the reasons she’s not: she came on the bachelor without letting her mother know where she was, she has absolutely no idea weather or not this couple will actually last (no “he’s absolutely going to cheat on her”), she’s talking shit, she doesn’t even know half the things she said (she lied), she was on a show like the bachelor, and last but not least just because she has good social skills, doesn’t mean she’s mature, gossiping is not mature.
Yeah looking back I never really liked Bekah M and couldn't understand why everyone seemed to love her. Yes she has charisma and is very outspoken, but she just comes off as bitter in this and everyone loved her bc she was bashing Arie. Her saying things like "He'll definitely cheat on her" and her rolling her eyes/making faces during the After The Final Rose shows that she's immature and bitter. Like imagine how Lauren must have felt seeing this. But ofc she doesn't care, she just wanted her 15 minutes.
I think Bekah is beginning to let the fame get to her and she's throwing herself into drama and going along with the pettiness. I truly did like her too, but in various instances I've seem her be unnecessarily catty about others in these interviews.
Honestly, she's acting like your typical 22/23 year old female...still immature and finding themselves. She's loves to act above it all and above everyone else in her age range. Let Arie breath! You're literally pressured into telling someone you JUST met like 2-5 weeks ago "i love you." I can't even imagine how much pressure Arie had. The show is ultimately about finding love at the end of the day and if he didn't feel it with Becca after then oh well. LIke, dang. STFU, Bekah.
True. That's what I'm seeing, she's just a typical 22/23 year old female, millennials I've seen, its common, still finding themselves, and the fame is getting to her! I mean, she dated him as well for a fact, now it's like she's entitled to judge and criticize him.
Yeah and she claims she is so mature lol She is sooooo fame hungry and attention hungry! She has talked bad about some of the other girls too then tries to act friendly one minute the next minute bichty mean comments for attention! She did the same with Arie friendly to him in a text then being catty and blasting him for a friendly hello text to her! When she wants attention smh
The Bachelor wasted episode with Arie. Don’t understand why they put him in there in the first place. There’s a lot of beautiful women in this episode and they deserved better than him
Jack Wilson I actually didn’t know that about nick! Lol. But ok I guess I got a wrong read on Arie, lol. I still think he’s a huge loser! No offense if you like him! :)
Yeah the whole Arie hate train upsets me even till this day. Imagine having to choose between two women who you just met a couple of months ago and have to dump one of them within hours of each other. Any normal person would feel conflicted. Yes it was sad what happened to Becca K, but it wouldn't be fair to her either if she had stayed with Arie if he was still thinking about another woman. People just hate to hate and it's sickening.
It is not fair that people are mudslinging so intensely. Arie has the right to change his mind, because this is his real life. Becca is the bachelorette now, and everyone can simply get over themselves. Becca and I are the same age, and I think her reaction to this whole situation shows her immature catty personality.
Idk I disagree. I think you could definitely see how intensely in love with Lauren he was at the end, but of course made a mistake by choosing Becca to please his family and choose the safe choice. I do think he's just following his heart. We're all human
Maybe Arrie should of picked Krystal lol. She may have been able to handle him and not take his crap! Or at least tell him off and warn other women better!
I feel Arie is a depressive quiet type like Lauren Krystal is psycho so no I don't think they would work he is more like Lauren and I better match to her and I could tell from the beginning he liked her the most. I'm glad he broke up with Becca because I do think they would have broken up eventually anyway and not have gotten married no matter what she says.she probably would have broken up with him eventually if he didn't they were not a good match but him and Lauren are! But I like that she is not bullying him and understands. I knew he made a mistake and that he liked Lauren the most and it should have been Lauren to begin with!
qristinqa very true. Also hope if he’s at all this way with Lauren ( which I’d guess he either is or will be down the road) she gets the hell out and finds herself a better man.
You're stating a lot of opinions lol. Lauren is not a "quiet depressive type" everyone that has met her has described her as a co-dependent type of gal, including his family, and herself multiple times. Arie has already made sure that he loves being able to manipulate the world, and failed tremendously. Stop trying to justify his actions, whether him and lauren are a good match, it does not mean he isn't the one to blame for all the bullying due to his broadcasting the breakup. The bullying is what happens when you try to exploit your ex fiance.
Can we please stop giving her the opportunity to talk? She sounds like a bitter ex gf. And while it wasnt the best situation, stop letting his story be your focus. She could actually learn so much from Becca K. This just proved how immature and young minded she really is, she doesn’t have enough love in her heart for marriage if you really feel this way towards a person. Get over yourself!
Who is this girl to say anything? Seriously step down. You're not a part of this anymore!! He kicked her off for a reason. A big sign of maturity is not delving into peoples personal lives.
I feel, also, as much as I liked her before, my feelings are definitely shifting away from favoring her. She really is speaking on someone else's relationship and someone else's feelings and although her standards in a relationship may be different, it doesn't mean that Lauren and Arie are incapable of making a marriage last with one another.. I just find, "he will definitely cheat on her" to be a small thing to say. Not that I agree with much if what Arie says, but I just find that Bekah is REALLY juicing for attention here.
OK, does anybody else think she is actually handling this very immature? As much as she claims to handle herself like an adult, she reminds me of a petty bitter teenage girl. I do not approve Arie’s actions, but this girl is clearly out to get fame. Not classy at all.
J N its a conflicting situation. What Arie did was completely cut throat and cruel. But she seems to be acting a little overdramatic about the whole thing.
Now she opens up after she finds out she’s not the next bachelorette. She was so well reserved before, cats out of the bag now! If I ever get dumped again I’m going to the pot farm for two weeks too!
This same thing happened to me when I was 20 and he was 24, 45 years ago and I have never forgotten the pain I felt that day and it stays with me still. If I think of that day, I still have the same feelings now. It never goes away. I hope Becca doesn’t have to suffer to long.
Becca, he made a mistake. I think that can happen when you are dating 20 something women at the same time. Lauren and Arie are married, have a beautiful daughter, and are in love. A sign of maturity is not judging others that you really don't know and speak as if you do. I hope you have matured since this video. All people makes mistakes in life, even you. Be kind and let people choose their path. Wouldn't you want others to do that for you?
Why exactly is Arie a womanizer? WTF, b/c he hasn't gotten married at 36 he's a womanizer? Please, These armchair critics are so dumb. Bekah IS way immature and is full of sour grapes. The fact he is willing to endure the public criticism for following his heart should tell you he is taking this seriously, otherwise why do it?
Alright this girl is now just saying stuff for attention. This girl cried the hardest out of every girl who got sent home by Arie and now she's just being a bully and an asshole. We get it he made a mistake, he owned up to it. Now let the guy just live his life.
Ok i get it, she has a strong personality and is intelligent, but I don't like the way she's acting and publicly shaming him. Her choice of words and her insults ironically reflect badly on her and showcases childish behavior. I understand where she's coming from and i respect that she is sticking wholeheartedly by her friend, but there is a wiser and more classy way to comment and to portray your hatred toward someone, especially when its in the public eye. I love her but i'm kinda disappointed on how immaturely she's handling the case.
She's doing it because Arie rejected her and Becca is her friend. We understand that Becca was upset and we sympathize with her. However what we didn't see was Arie's tears and sleepless nights trying to reconcile his heart with his decision. His mind said Becca but his heart was with Lauren and he made the hardest decision to break off the engagement without putting on a show for the sake of his reputation or money. We shall see if Arie and Lauren make it to the altar. I think we all wish Becca the best and hopefully she will find her soul mate on The Bachelorette. Jr
I completely agree. Everyone has to stop spreading the hate. My OTP of this season ended up together and Becca is now in the driver's seat as the new Bachelorette. I want nothing but the best for all 3 of them.
The only people thinking she is acting childish are the people that aren't aware just how outspoken a person is allowed to be. She is outraged, because she has also gotten to know Arie and has come to understand the actions that contradict the character he displays on tv. He thinks because he's The Bachelor, he could just sweep everything under the rug, except the women of the show aren't allowing that because submitting to the shit Arie has done, and not calling him out, gives the women watching the ok to deem his behaviour acceptable. Be as loud and vocal about a problem as much as you mf want! He's problematic, and that's really that. #HappyInternationalWomensDay
Bekah is a hypocrite. She claimed she was the right one for Arie and now after he has rejected both her and her friend Becca she has the nerve to throw cheap shots at him. I do think Becca K is a good woman with a good heart and hope she finds her soul mate on The Bachelorette but Bekah is just smarting from being rejected. Jr
Becca K. knew the cameras were there and that she was wearing a mike. Arie did not film her secretly. Sorry she was embarrassed but that is what she signed up for when she agreed to be filmed.
How can she actually predict that Arie would cheat on Lauren? She sounds kinda immature. Sean Lowe did say that he thought Arie really loved Lauren and it showed.
For everyone that's giving Bekah hate: she's pissed for her friend, Becca, who's been treated poorly by Arie. She's defending her friend and standing up for her. I'm sure many of you who says she's "throwing herself into the drama" will do the same for your friends in a heartbeat.
Seriously!! People are being way too hard on Bekah but I think it’s awesome she is standing up for her friend! She’s the type of friend I’d want for sure
Um even Becca has moved on! That was between her and Arie! That's life break ups happen everyday and yes even engaged couples better to do it now then later! I think that is actually better when he realized to cut it off right away rather then drag this on. They were not right for each other they would have broke up eventually!
Mia CW I agree they wouldn’t have worked out, but the way he embarrassed her on national television by tricking her to the house with a camera crew, broke up with her, and then have the nerve to refuse to leave when she’s asked him so many times is extremely cruel and disrespectful. He went behind Becca’s back and made sure Lauren will take him back before blind-sighting her with the break up. Just cause Becca may not have feelings for him now does not mean what he did was okay. Also she’s now the Bachelorette, it will make her look really bad to call him out on all his BS so I’m glad Bekah is doing it.
Well a break up is hard and you don't ever know what to say or do and no matter what Arie said or did they would criticize him! If he just left right away and too soon then people would criticize and say how dare could he just leave like that! And no matter what he said or didn't say it would have been criticized I guarantee that! I think he told Becca he was going to talk to Lauren she said this from my understanding. He even told her he was unsure and still having strong feelings for Lauren it seems he was upfront with her in that sense. I think the producers and maybe even Chris Harrison keep up with them and ask them about their life and when he told them he was unsure and how things are goig and then finally he was going to break up with Beeca they said they were going to film it. Lauren has said she was ok with the filming of this and feels it was ok and part of the show sooo. If she had a problem with this she could have told them in the first place when she saw the camera crew. I think they knew they were both going to LA so the show said Arie lets get you both in person and do this/film it. Arie seems like that like he would go along with things if he thinks it suppose to be part of the show or they convenience him and I have no doubt they pushed and wanted Arie to film his break up.
For someone who was so madly in love with Ari and stressed how mature she is for her age and was ready to marry him and who did not want to have people not know who she really is she sure is judgemental with quite an attitude of know it all. She sure loves the camera. Hope it is the last of her.
Oh wait...until YOU are in the same situation, you have no idea how you would react from the pressure and confusion of a crazy and extremely unusual situation. So, what? Arie should've stayed with Becca feeling like he made a mistake? People are allowed to make mistakes...and this is why Arie felt like Becca M. would be too young--riveting life? You outgrow what you do at 22. He's already gone through the phases she has yet to enter while growing up.
Bekah M is immature. Throughout the whole show she would make comments that reminded me of my fellow female high schoolers. Like who are you to say he's not capable of a monotonous relationship and that he would cheat on her??? She's just inserting herself into drama where she doesn't belong. She thinks she's entitled to an opinion because off all the attention she's getting. Compare her to someone as mature as Sienne and it's so obvious she needs time to grow up.
I can feel her, she is so Jealous that she is not the one arie look back. She has no filter, she is very negative and she is bringing negativity for herself. She is against anyone arie chooses, she didnt like Becca either, while she was engaged with arie, all sudden she is becca team. Seeing this video is very disturbing.
LOL Bekah's 22 and a jealous TWIT! Arie has every right to follow his heart my dear. How hard to choose between 2 women that you love! When watching, to me, he looked broken hearted when his family told him to choose Becca. Then, his goodbye to Lauren....you could really see how he felt about her. I'm convinced he choose Becca because he thought she would be more of a go-getter and a team player than Lauren. His whole heart really belonged to Lauren.
I did like Becca didn't get so mad at Arie and bullied him but tried to understand. Some of these girls are so classless and bitchy it's getting out of hand the amount of bullying.
So glad he and Lauren proved the haters wrong. The whole point of the Bachelor/Bachelorette is to find love, so him following his heart and being honest with Becca about not being over Lauren was honestly admirable to me (I know there's probably a lot of people who disagree but it's an opinion). Wish Becca K the best on Paradise.
@@amalianurlatifah8703 not really, but they seem very happy and genuine. You cannot deny, that the connection he had with Lauren only grew stronger, if you watch them interact together now. He is very much in love with her, he is a crappy actor and used to be not very expressive emotionally, but he changed. He really matured, and now, when he talks about Lauren his face just lights up. They have been together for a few years, get through very hard times of facing hate from the bachelor community, losing a child, moving to an island, premature delivery of their twins… and these only the once’s we know. So cut him some slack.
Becca is just hurt he didn’t pick her so she constantly has to talk shit on him. Arie made a good choice with Lauren. They’re so happy together and make a great match.
AshTheOne I was originally a big fan of Bekah, but since the show ended I have seen a different side of her that I think is quite immature. I have just come to the realization that, although once a fan, Bekah is pretty immature. Now, me watching the video does not make me equally immature but rather enlightened of Bekahs personality, so don't be so quick to jump to conclusions.
They go through like 95% of the casting process before they find out who the Bachelor is. So I guess ultimately they could say no, but there is a ton that goes into the casting process so I'm sure if the girls do get actually offered to be on the show it's a pretty exciting opportunity regardless of who the Bachelor ends up being.
They probably didn’t even know about the tweet until after the show...or at least until after they signed up for it. I don’t watch The Bachelor, but do they even know who the guy is before meeting him in person?? If so, there’s no way they would’ve known about his exes twitter accounts, like tf??
I did not watch the whole show, but I did watch the last two episodes. Arie was honest with his own feeling and was honest with Becca K. This Bekah M. is not a good person.
i watched the whole thing and agree with you. She's doing too much, it's so annoying how much immaturity she's showing.. It's one thing to talk about how you feel about the whole situation but you can't just be bashing people because you're mad, she sounds hurt lmao although it was wrong he did what he had to do
There is no reason to change my opinion. The goal of bachelor film set is to create parallel multi-relationships between one single man and a lot of women. The whole process is unethical. Audience use their normal life logic to judge that crazy situation. Arie was not able to judge well at limited time because he put his whole heart into the process. He was confused. I do see Arie's honest and sincere side. He took all responsibility. Bekah M is not a good person. She will continue to use this opportunity to become famous and may be go to Hollywood.
People are being so hard on Bekah! Obviously she is being asked these questions and the interviewers are feeding into it and triggering her, but at least she is giving her honest thoughts!! I respect her for being honest in these interviews and on twitter by sticking up for her friend Becca. Mad props to you girl!! Keep staying honest and authentic 💕 it’s not like what she is saying is wrong either like he deserves this back lash, he is a total douche!!
Bekah is obviously very new to the lime light. This is a very classless way to conduct an interview. You don't need to continuously bad mouth someone. Everyone saw what happened, and we all can draw our own conclusions from Arie's behavior. Please just let it go, Bekah!
And who the hell are you to judge him or me?? You are far from perfect, clearly! You don't know me, you don't know what my standards are. And you don't know Arie, all you know about him is the edited scenes you've seen on the Bachelor. I never said his behavior was OKAY! I don't agree with how Arie went about things, but at the end of the day, it's his decision. If your life or my life was broadcasted, unedited, people would probably hate us! Stop acting like you've never made a mistake. Bekah is not wrong to disagree with Arie's behavior, she's wrong in how she's going about it. Bad mouthing other people constantly ends up making the bad mouther look just as bad (if not worse) as the person they're talking about!
Inspiration Station She’s not going to let go of it when everyone keeps asking about it. The news is also still fresh. It hasn’t even been a full week yet. And she’s just being honest. She’s still pissed so of course she’s going to make it come off worse. Some people are more straight forward and don’t give a shit and that’s just Bekah. Then there’s people like other Becca, who probably say the exact same things in her head but just don’t let it out. Some people speak their mind, some people don’t. It doesn’t have anything to do with whether or not she is over it or immature.
She is so right!! He's awful and can't handle a relationship. She has always been my favorite. She's the best and actually, the most mature person on the show. What he did to Becca K was terrible. Bekah deserves so much better. Arie is horrible and a complete idiot. He never got to learn anything about Lauren cause she always had walls up. Lauren and Arie are both so bland. Honestly they deserve each other. They'll have fun for a little while with their boring life, but like Bekah said, he'll probably cheat at some point. I hope Bekah M and Becca K find the love they deserve
Oh come on. What did they expect? It's a reality show where this guy is kissing and dating many women. You really can't find love and marriage on a show, although it worked for but a few. A lot of those girls were looking for fame too. Bekah is immature for gossiping and taking it too far by sticking her nose in where it shouldn't be. Do you see any of the other girls doing what Bekah is doing? And she's only looking for fame at this point.
The bullying of Arie is getting out of hand he is allowed to choose someone else and change his mind! MANY engaged couples break up in real life! I feel like Arie is just a really depressive person and hides his emotions but I'm sure all this bullying has got to get to him! I think he is like me dosn't know what to say to someone in certain situations and what can you say in the situation anyways to make it better? It's an awkward and hard situation and thing to go through! I felt he always liked Lauren the most and it was always Lauren but his family confused him and messed with his head because he really like Becca too but your families opinion is more important than anyones and a lot of people would follow their advice! When he picked her I thought BIG mistake! He should have picked Lauren they are the right fit for each other and I always felt he had more feelings for her then the other girls! This bully of Arie is relentless and it's got to stop! You would think he ki lled someone damn! I don't think he meant't to hurt Becca but Arie does not know how to talk and what to say a lot of times. Some people probably firgure it out in their heads before they go them 'act' it out but Arie is just a flew by the seat of his pants guy not train/rehearse which is more real and what can you really say in that situation anyways? I think he knew soon he made a mistake but his family convenience him and he also really loved Becca I believe but it's not the same as Lauren.
Matt I’m right there with you. She has begun to feed into the drama, she clearly isn’t over it. Which is normal but it doesn’t look good to just go around and make yourself look like an ass because your mad. Let him live his life.
I agree, better with the wrong girl for 6 weeks than with the wrong girl for the rest of his life. Plus how devastated could have Becca been after 6 weeks.? It wasn't 6 months or 6 years. The problem was the embarrassment that the breakup caused because it was watched by millions, more than the pain is was being dumped for another woman plus in front of the whole bachelor nation. Those two reasons were more painful for her than actually losing a 6 week boyfriend.(fiance)
I sincerely loved Bekah but i now think she seems a bit of a show off because of all the attention she has been getting.I think she needs to sit down before she says too much which she already has and comes across as an immature 22yr old. It looks like a serious case of sour grapes.GET OVER IT. Becca's destiny is to be the next bachelorette. Hopefully one day she will say thank God he dumped her.Let Lauren and Arie enjoy their love. Time will tell if he cheats on her or not..But why not wish them well in the meantime .
you can tell that she came on the show to become famous. now she'll be able to quit being a babysitter and endorse crap products on Instagram like all of the other bachelor franchise bimbos
I liked Bekah at first, but now she's just annoying. She spends way too much time gossiping about Arie. It's unnecessary and makes her appear vindictive.
What a joke. What did she expect with going on a reality show. You open yourself up for all kinds of things. She's a bit immature herself, and is using this to gain publicity. Sheesh.
Everyone is bashing Arie without trying to understand why he did what he did. He's a human. These are all just opinions and judgements that are a waist of time and energy. Its over. He did what he had to in his heart. And I feel like Lauren is protective over her heart and wouldn't marry him if she thought indifferently about him. Just leave it aloneee
He’s not that bad jeeez. He wasn’t happy. Would it be better to stay with someone when you’re not happy? In real life this happens too. Chill out!! You’re showing your age using these bad comments. Calm yourself
I thought you were smarter than this Bekah....he did the right thing. Right things can hurt. He wanted to make the right decision...he went with what his parents were pushing on him...and then remembered he was supposed to follow his heart..it is so unfortunate that a wonderful, brave, amazing woman was hurt in the process..and it IS a process that causes so much drama which you are all aware of....He did the right thing by getting this out early...and not dragging her on or deceiving her...he did the best he could.
Suddenly Simple You fucking disgust me. What do you mean his parents pushed him? He is fucking 36 not 20. And then he "forgot" to follow his heart? Thats your excuse? He is a narcissistic psychopath and so are you.
The show did this on tv because Arie was not In a right mind he went along. I didn't like him as bachelor but he was searching for love. This clip here Becca is talking about him messaging her...he just felt bad the show creates these situations.
You are right and also not entirely.Yes it is wrong looking at it in a real life aspect. In real life break ups happen in private. THIS IS A REALITY TV SHOW.This is what Becca signed up for and she knew everyone would be watching the good and the bad so she does not get to decide.Deep down she knows that. Don't forget Arie's season was pretty boring at the start. This televised break up could have been forced by the producers to spike up ratings which is what did happen. Another thing is Arie got another ring free for Lauren? This could have been his payment to do it on tv and for that it is wrong. We are viewers and until we walk in their shoes we do not know what goes on. By the way this response is meant for Zomnda.
I think it's a good thing that he actually did it on national TV just because it would clear up things and not make people wonder what went down. Obviously, he wanted Lauren and he felt like he owed it to both of these women to explain himself on national TV so he can be able to redeem himself because even if he wouldn't have done it on national TV, I'm pretty sure he would of done either way in private, he seemed pretty solid on his decision and with this way people won't be like, "oh he's with Lauren now, how did this happen?!!" and the drama on the media would of been insane and it would of been worst and most likely take toll on both women. Arie did the RIGHT CHOICE.
She is wrong. Arie will marry Lauren and stay with her. They really love each other. He thought Becca was more marriage ready and less of a challenge emotionally opening up so he went with her first but had a longing for lauren because she was the one he had the most special connection with. He messed up like Mesnick did, same thing.
bekah should chill she seems to be letting her minute of fame get the best of her . Adding more fuel to the fire with that loud mouth it's not even about her why is she so involved
This is one annoying child like adult looking girl and I used to like her at first with her short cute hair style. Makes it hard to bash Arie's forced villain behavior for greedy ABC purposely filing raw pain for ratings as well. I get that she is still bitter and angry b/c her age wasn't picked. Arie was a jerk, but had to come true to himself later. Glad that Lauren isn't listening to everything that Bekah and other girls are saying while she figure it out herself. And don't worry about dumped Becca too much as she knew that she was lining up for more publicity as bachelorette.
I mean, she has a point about him making an immature choice and mistake, but to define his character to be a manipulative asshole is a bit too far. That makes her look immature and extremely judgmental. God, I’ve lost so much respect for her after the show.
Why doesn’t she (Bekah ) get a life. I think Arie has a life……he has three children and a wife that is totally in love with him. A beautiful home, a home in Hawaii, she (Lauren) has a new Porsche, and three beautiful kids. Since she, Bekah……has been on the Bachelor, she have been the villain. Bekah, five minutes of fame is over!
I don't understand why people are attacking Becca M.because Arie is sick.How can he do that on camera .He did that to show off.If a sister or a child is treated this way and you will be happy so be it on to those defending him.
I really think Bekah Martinez is just mad because Arie dumped her. She is just using this situation to channel her frustrations about it. For the record I can't stand Arie he is boring!
Michael Thomas She has been honest that she had feelings for him and was disappointed at that time, she is mad, but she's not "just" mad. Everything she's saying about him is true. She's not interested in sugar coating it. She's not my favorite person but the other Becca was so graceful about everything with Arie and wishing him well, it's nice to see someone calling him out and saying what most people are thinking.
I still don't understand how people can watch these interviews with her and still presume she is "mature". He shouldn't be DMing me but I'm still going to reply of course because it's Arie and I was in love with him. He's a manipulative A*** but she also said she would've done the same thing as Lauren and taken him back if he'd come running to her saying he made a mistake. So explain to me are you mad at Arie for what he did to Becca or are you more mad that it wasn't you he broke off his engagement for? About as mature as the whole "WE are never, ever getting back together" like duh he doesn't want you anymore don't pretend you have the control here lmao.
The 22 year old girl is the last one to call anyone immature lol I use the word girl loosely cuz idk what to call her these days she’s calling all these people out it’s just hilarious
Look how fast she turned on him considering how much she was falling for him on the show. This just proves she's only there for fun and NOT marriage material yet. Arie may not be the best bachelor but he was 100% correct getting rid of her.
Arie did the right thing in letting Bekah go. She knew he was struggling and instead of being confident and releasing him she was desperate to wear a ring so she pretended.
She is a totally hater omg , I used to like her but listening the way she talks... nope anymore. If the situation was different I’m pretty sure she’d have done the same thing as Lauren did She is jealous that’s all
These entertainment channels need to stop giving Bekah the platform! All she does is criticized a decision that Arie made for his personal life and future. His decision does not impact Bekah’s or anyone’s life but Lauren’s if anything. Very mature, Bekah.
Ironically, she was the youngest contestant and the only one with any common sense.
O O most think the same, she is just immature enough to think it's cute to dish out about drama
O O -And a vocabulary to match.
@O O yep, that is very ironic.
It’s immature of her to say he will “cheat on Lauren”, or break up with her. He didn’t even do anything wrong, he only has a short matter of time to pick someone as his wife so if he sees red flags he needs to make a decision. And the girls most upset are the ones he dumped. It’s better he broke it off with Becca if he was meant to be with Lauren rather than staying in an imperfect marriage. And now they have 3 kids and are doing very well.
Boy was she and all of you so wrong about Arie!! Ahaha!!!
The way she confidently wishes ill on other people while laughing gives me chills.
WOOOW Bekah got some serious balls
aminaf6 Stfu. If it was rachel lindsay talking like this, you all would call her bitter and jealous.
and kinda looks like a dude too lol
name twins
Ovaries .
Never. Arie dug his own grave. the whole world wants a piece of him.
Love you Bekah! Thank god Becca has a strong minded, intelligent awesome girl such as yourself out there defending her. And yes!! Put Arie's ass on blast. He 100% doesn't deserve to catch a break after the callous and unfeeling way he treated Becca during that break up. You could tell he just wanted Becca to tell him it was alright, so he could waltz off to Lauren. He is officially the WORST Bachelor in history.
Of error and mistakes. For 2- 3 days(engaged) or for a lifetime of deceit. Mr Arie (being truthful) just did a solution to a problem of a heart/love situation that may cause a relationship disaster between them for long term (...of lies, deceit and unhappiness). Who want or need liars, cheaters and unfaithfuls during a relationship (be engaged or married)? Sometimes it is difficult to accept the truth. And it is just plain reality of a situation. Good enough for the involved parties to know their personal needs. Wounds will heal. Men can be judged alright for certain mistakes and maybe women can find their (rightful) chosen one who have the guts to tell the necessary truth (to correct and to have transparent good relationship/goodwill) at earliest possible to avoid worst consequences. Every one can find their own needed comforts and their appropriate love interests. Maybe you as an audience deserve your entertainment and your own best understanding about the TV show how/what/why you enjoyed or displeased. Have a nice coffee.
Damn. You really need to watch the Juan Pablo season if you think he's the worst lol
I have watched Juan Pablo. Arie's worse because he's a snake. Juan Pablo was just stupid.
I'm about tired of her this girl just wants attention!
The bullying of Arie is getting out of hand he is allowed to choose someone else and change his mind! MANY engaged couples break up in real life! I feel like Arie is just a really depressive person and hides his emotions but I'm sure all this bullying has got to get to him! I think he is like me dosn't know what to say to someone in certain situations and what can you say in the situation anyways to make it better? It's an awkward and hard situation and thing to go through! I felt he always liked Lauren the most and it was always Lauren but his family confused
him and messed with his head because he really like Becca too but your families opinion is more important than anyones and a lot of people would follow their advice! When he picked her I thought BIG mistake! He should have picked Lauren they are the right fit for each other and I always felt he had more feelings for her then the other girls! This bully of Arie is relentless and it's got to stop! You would think he ki lled someone damn! I don't think he meant't to hurt Becca but Arie does not know how to talk and what to say a lot of times. Some people probably firgure it out in their heads before they go them 'act' it out but Arie is just a flew by the seat of his pants guy not train/rehearse
which is more real and what can you really say in that situation anyways? I think he knew soon he made a mistake but his family convenience him and he also really loved Becca I believe but it's not the same as Lauren.
Why does it not seem strange to anyone that her own mother filed a missing persons report ?? Clearly there is something behind the scenes with this chick .. talking like this is very childish also
I wonder if she still feels the same today. Arie and Lauren are one the few successful marriages after the show
Exactly. She sounds SOOOOO vindictive. It’s scary how mad she sounds.
Funnily enough, I'm vieeing this after seeing an interview from a few months later when she was pregnant, when she acknowledges how ridiculous she was here, saying mean things
First he did tell Becca that he wanted to talk to Lauren, and second he wasn’t engaged to Becca for months, just weeks in which they couldn’t even see each other. There was nothing wrong with those DM’s, he hurt this 22 year old and was making sure she was ok he said “Hope all is well” wow, what a scandal. For the people saying she is very mature, here are the reasons she’s not: she came on the bachelor without letting her mother know where she was, she has absolutely no idea weather or not this couple will actually last (no “he’s absolutely going to cheat on her”), she’s talking shit, she doesn’t even know half the things she said (she lied), she was on a show like the bachelor, and last but not least just because she has good social skills, doesn’t mean she’s mature, gossiping is not mature.
Yeah looking back I never really liked Bekah M and couldn't understand why everyone seemed to love her. Yes she has charisma and is very outspoken, but she just comes off as bitter in this and everyone loved her bc she was bashing Arie. Her saying things like "He'll definitely cheat on her" and her rolling her eyes/making faces during the After The Final Rose shows that she's immature and bitter. Like imagine how Lauren must have felt seeing this. But ofc she doesn't care, she just wanted her 15 minutes.
I think Bekah is beginning to let the fame get to her and she's throwing herself into drama and going along with the pettiness. I truly did like her too, but in various instances I've seem her be unnecessarily catty about others in these interviews.
Honestly, she's acting like your typical 22/23 year old female...still immature and finding themselves. She's loves to act above it all and above everyone else in her age range. Let Arie breath! You're literally pressured into telling someone you JUST met like 2-5 weeks ago "i love you." I can't even imagine how much pressure Arie had. The show is ultimately about finding love at the end of the day and if he didn't feel it with Becca after then oh well. LIke, dang. STFU, Bekah.
True. That's what I'm seeing, she's just a typical 22/23 year old female, millennials I've seen, its common, still finding themselves, and the fame is getting to her! I mean, she dated him as well for a fact, now it's like she's entitled to judge and criticize him.
Yep! Typical know it all millennial.
I agree. Thought she was mature for her age but the immaturity is really starting to show
Yeah and she claims she is so mature lol She is sooooo fame hungry and attention hungry! She has talked bad about some of the other girls too then tries to act friendly one minute the next minute bichty mean comments for attention! She did the same with Arie friendly to him in a text then being catty and blasting him for a friendly hello text to her! When she wants attention smh
Listen, when the show ended, I couldn’t have agreed more. But look at them now! Happy and expecting twins! 🥰
The Bachelor wasted episode with Arie. Don’t understand why they put him in there in the first place. There’s a lot of beautiful women in this episode and they deserved better than him
cmpl24 coulnt agree more
Bc of views, that's what the show thrives off of. They loved the drama.
Good tv though
Right! He’s a huge dork who could never get women like that if it weren’t a show and s competition
Jack Wilson I actually didn’t know that about nick! Lol. But ok I guess I got a wrong read on Arie, lol. I still think he’s a huge loser! No offense if you like him! :)
The whole situation is overwhelming I don’t blame him for getting confused
Yeah the whole Arie hate train upsets me even till this day. Imagine having to choose between two women who you just met a couple of months ago and have to dump one of them within hours of each other. Any normal person would feel conflicted. Yes it was sad what happened to Becca K, but it wouldn't be fair to her either if she had stayed with Arie if he was still thinking about another woman. People just hate to hate and it's sickening.
It is not fair that people are mudslinging so intensely. Arie has the right to change his mind, because this is his real life. Becca is the bachelorette now, and everyone can simply get over themselves. Becca and I are the same age, and I think her reaction to this whole situation shows her immature catty personality.
This is before the Peter Weber season....so almost makes this guy look like a saint, lol.
Idk I disagree. I think you could definitely see how intensely in love with Lauren he was at the end, but of course made a mistake by choosing Becca to please his family and choose the safe choice. I do think he's just following his heart. We're all human
Maybe Arrie should of picked Krystal lol. She may have been able to handle him and not take his crap! Or at least tell him off and warn other women better!
Ruby Leslie yes lol
and that´s why he send her home - he wants somebody who will take all his crap :D he´s an a*hole
I feel Arie is a depressive quiet type like Lauren Krystal is psycho so no I don't think they would work he is more like Lauren and I better match to her and I could tell from the beginning he liked her the most. I'm glad he broke up with Becca because I do think they would have broken up eventually anyway and not have gotten married no matter what she says.she probably would have broken up with him eventually if he didn't they were not a good match but him and Lauren are! But I like that she is not bullying him and understands. I knew he made a mistake and that he liked Lauren the most and it should have been Lauren to begin with!
qristinqa very true. Also hope if he’s at all this way with Lauren ( which I’d guess he either is or will be down the road) she gets the hell out and finds herself a better man.
You're stating a lot of opinions lol. Lauren is not a "quiet depressive type" everyone that has met her has described her as a co-dependent type of gal, including his family, and herself multiple times. Arie has already made sure that he loves being able to manipulate the world, and failed tremendously. Stop trying to justify his actions, whether him and lauren are a good match, it does not mean he isn't the one to blame for all the bullying due to his broadcasting the breakup. The bullying is what happens when you try to exploit your ex fiance.
Can we please stop giving her the opportunity to talk? She sounds like a bitter ex gf. And while it wasnt the best situation, stop letting his story be your focus. She could actually learn so much from Becca K. This just proved how immature and young minded she really is, she doesn’t have enough love in her heart for marriage if you really feel this way towards a person. Get over yourself!
"What a riveting life?" It's life...they are talking about every day things....it's so normal. Real life is not reality TV.
Who is this girl to say anything? Seriously step down. You're not a part of this anymore!! He kicked her off for a reason. A big sign of maturity is not delving into peoples personal lives.
yes!!!!!
I love Bekah I feel like she’s so genuine in her answers she says what she really thinks.
What do girls going on the Bachelor expect the man to be like? He is dating all 20 women at the same time. That is what you signed up for. A player.
Arie being immature doesn't make you mature.....just saying
I feel, also, as much as I liked her before, my feelings are definitely shifting away from favoring her. She really is speaking on someone else's relationship and someone else's feelings and although her standards in a relationship may be different, it doesn't mean that Lauren and Arie are incapable of making a marriage last with one another.. I just find, "he will definitely cheat on her" to be a small thing to say. Not that I agree with much if what Arie says, but I just find that Bekah is REALLY juicing for attention here.
OK, does anybody else think she is actually handling this very immature? As much as she claims to handle herself like an adult, she reminds me of a petty bitter teenage girl. I do not approve Arie’s actions, but this girl is clearly out to get fame. Not classy at all.
J N its a conflicting situation. What Arie did was completely cut throat and cruel. But she seems to be acting a little overdramatic about the whole thing.
Ok, he wasn't feeling her, he made a mistake. All this name calling is not called for. She's acting like a school girl. Adults don't act like this.
Completely agree with you. She's dramatic and very very teenage like. Not mature at all.
J N She's telling it like it is. Why do people automatically attach the word "bitter" to someone telling the truth if that person has a vagina. 😒
Erin Vandalay I would’ve called the person “bitter” regardless of their sex. Don’t bring in the sex card here.
Now she opens up after she finds out she’s not the next bachelorette. She was so well reserved before, cats out of the bag now! If I ever get dumped again I’m going to the pot farm for two weeks too!
This same thing happened to me when I was 20 and he was 24, 45 years ago and I have never forgotten the pain I felt that day and it stays with me still. If I think of that day, I still have the same feelings now. It never goes away. I hope Becca doesn’t have to suffer to long.
She’s just mad because Arie said no to her
Becca, he made a mistake. I think that can happen when you are dating 20 something women at the same time. Lauren and Arie are married, have a beautiful daughter, and are in love. A sign of maturity is not judging others that you really don't know and speak as if you do. I hope you have matured since this video. All people makes mistakes in life, even you. Be kind and let people choose their path. Wouldn't you want others to do that for you?
The more I watch the more I see why she's immature and a mean girl.
Why exactly is Arie a womanizer? WTF, b/c he hasn't gotten married at 36 he's a womanizer? Please, These armchair critics are so dumb. Bekah IS way immature and is full of sour grapes. The fact he is willing to endure the public criticism for following his heart should tell you he is taking this seriously, otherwise why do it?
This girl can speak. She articulate so well
Alright this girl is now just saying stuff for attention. This girl cried the hardest out of every girl who got sent home by Arie and now she's just being a bully and an asshole. We get it he made a mistake, he owned up to it. Now let the guy just live his life.
I miss having a cast with personality and some depth. Peter's season was just something else.
Ok i get it, she has a strong personality and is intelligent, but I don't like the way she's acting and publicly shaming him. Her choice of words and her insults ironically reflect badly on her and showcases childish behavior. I understand where she's coming from and i respect that she is sticking wholeheartedly by her friend, but there is a wiser and more classy way to comment and to portray your hatred toward someone, especially when its in the public eye. I love her but i'm kinda disappointed on how immaturely she's handling the case.
Deema Alw she's showing her age for sure at this point
She's doing it because Arie rejected her and Becca is her friend. We understand that Becca was upset and we sympathize with her. However what we didn't see was Arie's tears and sleepless nights trying to reconcile his heart with his decision. His mind said Becca but his heart was with Lauren and he made the hardest decision to break off the engagement without putting on a show for the sake of his reputation or money. We shall see if Arie and Lauren make it to the altar. I think we all wish Becca the best and hopefully she will find her soul mate on The Bachelorette.
Jr
I completely agree. Everyone has to stop spreading the hate. My OTP of this season ended up together and Becca is now in the driver's seat as the new Bachelorette. I want nothing but the best for all 3 of them.
The only people thinking she is acting childish are the people that aren't aware just how outspoken a person is allowed to be. She is outraged, because she has also gotten to know Arie and has come to understand the actions that contradict the character he displays on tv. He thinks because he's The Bachelor, he could just sweep everything under the rug, except the women of the show aren't allowing that because submitting to the shit Arie has done, and not calling him out, gives the women watching the ok to deem his behaviour acceptable. Be as loud and vocal about a problem as much as you mf want! He's problematic, and that's really that. #HappyInternationalWomensDay
Bekah is a hypocrite. She claimed she was the right one for Arie and now after he has rejected both her and her friend Becca she has the nerve to throw cheap shots at him. I do think Becca K is a good woman with a good heart and hope she finds her soul mate on The Bachelorette but Bekah is just smarting from being rejected.
Jr
Wow! I had like you on the show, but you need to stop talking bad about Arie and let him live his life. He went to fine love and that's what he did.
Becca K. knew the cameras were there and that she was wearing a mike. Arie did not film her secretly. Sorry she was embarrassed but that is what she signed up for when she agreed to be filmed.
Lmao he’s on a show that makes him pick a girl... what guy can really do this show and be in a positive light
She is taking her frustration out
Complains everyone calls her immature then puts herself in all the drama, ya that’s not immature at all
How can she actually predict that Arie would cheat on Lauren? She sounds kinda immature. Sean Lowe did say that he thought Arie really loved Lauren and it showed.
Is it just me who doesn’t i think he’s the least bit attractive?
He’s gorgeous to me. Those eyes, and the hair 👌🏿
Wow Bekah. Literally milking the situation (that doesn’t even involve her) 🙄
It's her claim to fame. Publicity to get her noticed. I can see right through her. lol
For everyone that's giving Bekah hate: she's pissed for her friend, Becca, who's been treated poorly by Arie. She's defending her friend and standing up for her. I'm sure many of you who says she's "throwing herself into the drama" will do the same for your friends in a heartbeat.
Cat Nap 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Seriously!! People are being way too hard on Bekah but I think it’s awesome she is standing up for her friend! She’s the type of friend I’d want for sure
Um even Becca has moved on! That was between her and Arie! That's life break ups happen everyday and yes even engaged couples better to do it now then later! I think that is actually better when he realized to cut it off right away rather then drag this on. They were not right for each other they would have broke up eventually!
Mia CW I agree they wouldn’t have worked out, but the way he embarrassed her on national television by tricking her to the house with a camera crew, broke up with her, and then have the nerve to refuse to leave when she’s asked him so many times is extremely cruel and disrespectful. He went behind Becca’s back and made sure Lauren will take him back before blind-sighting her with the break up. Just cause Becca may not have feelings for him now does not mean what he did was okay. Also she’s now the Bachelorette, it will make her look really bad to call him out on all his BS so I’m glad Bekah is doing it.
Well a break up is hard and you don't ever know what to say or do and no matter what Arie said or did they would criticize him! If he just left right away and too soon then people would criticize and say how dare could he just leave like that! And no matter what he said or didn't say it would have been criticized I guarantee that! I think he told Becca he was going to talk to Lauren she said this from my understanding. He even told her he was unsure and still having strong feelings for Lauren it seems he was upfront with her in that sense. I think the producers and maybe even Chris Harrison keep up with them and ask them about their life and when he told them he was unsure and how things are goig and then finally he was going to break up with Beeca they said they were going to film it. Lauren has said she was ok with the filming of this and feels it was ok and part of the show sooo. If she had a problem with this she could have told them in the first place when she saw the camera crew. I think they knew they were both going to LA so the show said Arie lets get you both in person and do this/film it. Arie seems like that like he would go along with things if he thinks it suppose to be part of the show or they convenience him and I have no doubt they pushed and wanted Arie to film his break up.
For someone who was so madly in love with Ari and stressed how mature she is for her age and was ready to marry him and who did not want to have people not know who she really is she sure is judgemental with quite an attitude of know it all. She sure loves the camera. Hope it is the last of her.
Oh wait...until YOU are in the same situation, you have no idea how you would react from the pressure and confusion of a crazy and extremely unusual situation. So, what? Arie should've stayed with Becca feeling like he made a mistake? People are allowed to make mistakes...and this is why Arie felt like Becca M. would be too young--riveting life? You outgrow what you do at 22. He's already gone through the phases she has yet to enter while growing up.
Bekah M is immature. Throughout the whole show she would make comments that reminded me of my fellow female high schoolers. Like who are you to say he's not capable of a monotonous relationship and that he would cheat on her??? She's just inserting herself into drama where she doesn't belong. She thinks she's entitled to an opinion because off all the attention she's getting. Compare her to someone as mature as Sienne and it's so obvious she needs time to grow up.
how funny a few weeks ago she was talking about having the time talking to him for 30 mins in his hotel room after the show ends in LA was really good
Becca could have told the camera operators to get out, but she didn't. hmm
I can feel her, she is so Jealous that she is not the one arie look back. She has no filter, she is very negative and she is bringing negativity for herself. She is against anyone arie chooses, she didnt like Becca either, while she was engaged with arie, all sudden she is becca team.
Seeing this video is very disturbing.
LOL Bekah's 22 and a jealous TWIT! Arie has every right to follow his heart my dear. How hard to choose between 2 women that you love! When watching, to me, he looked broken hearted when his family told him to choose Becca. Then, his goodbye to Lauren....you could really see how he felt about her. I'm convinced he choose Becca because he thought she would be more of a go-getter and a team player than Lauren. His whole heart really belonged to Lauren.
Becca she is absolutely beautiful, she needs to be the next bachelorette.
I did like Becca didn't get so mad at Arie and bullied him but tried to understand. Some of these girls are so classless and bitchy it's getting out of hand the amount of bullying.
carol marcos she doesn't even deserve to be on Bachelor in Paradise
She is! :D
Lmfao Good thing it's not really up to you to say if she deserves it, isn't it?
Not!
I love that she is so damn honest. it´s such a change to how contestants were in interviews in past seasons
Honestly, she is just mad because she got sent home. You could tell she really wanted to be with Arie. Just my opinion.
And now Arie lives happily ever after..
So glad he and Lauren proved the haters wrong. The whole point of the Bachelor/Bachelorette is to find love, so him following his heart and being honest with Becca about not being over Lauren was honestly admirable to me (I know there's probably a lot of people who disagree but it's an opinion). Wish Becca K the best on Paradise.
Mmmm.... couple of years equal to ever after???
@@amalianurlatifah8703 not really, but they seem very happy and genuine. You cannot deny, that the connection he had with Lauren only grew stronger, if you watch them interact together now. He is very much in love with her, he is a crappy actor and used to be not very expressive emotionally, but he changed. He really matured, and now, when he talks about Lauren his face just lights up. They have been together for a few years, get through very hard times of facing hate from the bachelor community, losing a child, moving to an island, premature delivery of their twins… and these only the once’s we know. So cut him some slack.
Becca is just hurt he didn’t pick her so she constantly has to talk shit on him. Arie made a good choice with Lauren. They’re so happy together and make a great match.
Is anyone else tired of hearing Bekah? Her immature is showing.
Yes, cannot stand her!! Enough with this idiot.
She looks like the kid from the Love Shriners hospital commercial, and that kid is an inspiration
AshTheOne I was originally a big fan of Bekah, but since the show ended I have seen a different side of her that I think is quite immature. I have just come to the realization that, although once a fan, Bekah is pretty immature. Now, me watching the video does not make me equally immature but rather enlightened of Bekahs personality, so don't be so quick to jump to conclusions.
Why are you watching this then?
So why did Bekah and all these girls go on there to marry someone they heard was a womanizer... Hmm
She's immature and is looking for fame.
They go through like 95% of the casting process before they find out who the Bachelor is. So I guess ultimately they could say no, but there is a ton that goes into the casting process so I'm sure if the girls do get actually offered to be on the show it's a pretty exciting opportunity regardless of who the Bachelor ends up being.
Bekah (and I'm sure most of the women there) thought Peter was going to be the Bachelor
They probably didn’t even know about the tweet until after the show...or at least until after they signed up for it. I don’t watch The Bachelor, but do they even know who the guy is before meeting him in person?? If so, there’s no way they would’ve known about his exes twitter accounts, like tf??
I did not watch the whole show, but I did watch the last two episodes. Arie was honest with his own feeling and was honest with Becca K. This Bekah M. is not a good person.
LOL You should watch the rest of the season if you want the real deal. Your opinion would change.
i watched the whole thing and agree with you. She's doing too much, it's so annoying how much immaturity she's showing.. It's one thing to talk about how you feel about the whole situation but you can't just be bashing people because you're mad, she sounds hurt lmao although it was wrong he did what he had to do
There is no reason to change my opinion. The goal of bachelor film set is to create parallel multi-relationships between one single man and a lot of women. The whole process is unethical. Audience use their normal life logic to judge that crazy situation. Arie was not able to judge well at limited time because he put his whole heart into the process. He was confused. I do see Arie's honest and sincere side. He took all responsibility. Bekah M is not a good person. She will continue to use this opportunity to become famous and may be go to Hollywood.
Jealous Bekah?? Or maybe you just want to trash Arie because you didnt get him?? Grow up...fame is fleeting!!
Becca, you need to move on and quit spreading hate. Not cool at all!
People are being so hard on Bekah! Obviously she is being asked these questions and the interviewers are feeding into it and triggering her, but at least she is giving her honest thoughts!! I respect her for being honest in these interviews and on twitter by sticking up for her friend Becca. Mad props to you girl!! Keep staying honest and authentic 💕 it’s not like what she is saying is wrong either like he deserves this back lash, he is a total douche!!
She “wasn’t planning on putting him on blast” yeah ok girl you had that screenshot locked and loaded
Lol yeah probably but I don’t blame her, also it was wise to wait for a good time to release that to the public. Bekah is a smart chick
Bekah is obviously very new to the lime light. This is a very classless way to conduct an interview. You don't need to continuously bad mouth someone. Everyone saw what happened, and we all can draw our own conclusions from Arie's behavior. Please just let it go, Bekah!
People deserve to get called out on their bullshit. Arie is a manipulator and acting like that is okay just shows how low your standards are
And who the hell are you to judge him or me?? You are far from perfect, clearly! You don't know me, you don't know what my standards are. And you don't know Arie, all you know about him is the edited scenes you've seen on the Bachelor.
I never said his behavior was OKAY! I don't agree with how Arie went about things, but at the end of the day, it's his decision. If your life or my life was broadcasted, unedited, people would probably hate us! Stop acting like you've never made a mistake.
Bekah is not wrong to disagree with Arie's behavior, she's wrong in how she's going about it. Bad mouthing other people constantly ends up making the bad mouther look just as bad (if not worse) as the person they're talking about!
Her continuous trashing of Ariel shows true to her immaturity! Would hate to have her as an ex...lol
Actually, true opinions are much more appreciated than sugarcoated nonsense.
Inspiration Station She’s not going to let go of it when everyone keeps asking about it. The news is also still fresh. It hasn’t even been a full week yet. And she’s just being honest. She’s still pissed so of course she’s going to make it come off worse. Some people are more straight forward and don’t give a shit and that’s just Bekah. Then there’s people like other Becca, who probably say the exact same things in her head but just don’t let it out. Some people speak their mind, some people don’t. It doesn’t have anything to do with whether or not she is over it or immature.
She is so right!! He's awful and can't handle a relationship. She has always been my favorite. She's the best and actually, the most mature person on the show. What he did to Becca K was terrible. Bekah deserves so much better. Arie is horrible and a complete idiot. He never got to learn anything about Lauren cause she always had walls up. Lauren and Arie are both so bland. Honestly they deserve each other. They'll have fun for a little while with their boring life, but like Bekah said, he'll probably cheat at some point. I hope Bekah M and Becca K find the love they deserve
Oh come on. What did they expect? It's a reality show where this guy is kissing and dating many women. You really can't find love and marriage on a show, although it worked for but a few. A lot of those girls were looking for fame too. Bekah is immature for gossiping and taking it too far by sticking her nose in where it shouldn't be. Do you see any of the other girls doing what Bekah is doing? And she's only looking for fame at this point.
I agree
Well, they’re married and have a kid now. It’s been 2 and a half years. I really think his decision was the right one.
Bekah should go play Peter Pan on Broadway!
The bullying of Arie is getting out of hand he is allowed to choose someone else and change his mind! MANY engaged couples break up in real life! I feel like Arie is just a really depressive person and hides his emotions but I'm sure all this bullying has got to get to him! I think he is like me dosn't know what to say to someone in certain situations and what can you say in the situation anyways to make it better? It's an awkward and hard situation and thing to go through! I felt he always liked Lauren the most and it was always Lauren but his family confused him and messed with his head because he really like Becca too but your families opinion is more important than anyones and a lot of people would follow their advice! When he picked her I thought BIG mistake! He should have picked Lauren they are the right fit for each other and I always felt he had more feelings for her then the other girls! This bully of Arie is relentless and it's got to stop! You would think he ki lled someone damn! I don't think he meant't to hurt Becca but Arie does not know how to talk and what to say a lot of times. Some people probably firgure it out in their heads before they go them 'act' it out but Arie is just a flew by the seat of his pants guy not train/rehearse which is more real and what can you really say in that situation anyways? I think he knew soon he made a mistake but his family convenience him and he also really loved Becca I believe but it's not the same as Lauren.
Her age has showed since she left the show. Very immature.
Matt Rapp oh would you prefer we females stay quiet.
sue she No just don’t go around cursing him out and spreading shit
Matt Rapp well if he wasn’t a piece of shit, there would be no shit to spread.
sue she how did you get your comment out of his comment? Stop assuming and putting words in people mouths.
Matt I’m right there with you. She has begun to feed into the drama, she clearly isn’t over it. Which is normal but it doesn’t look good to just go around and make yourself look like an ass because your mad. Let him live his life.
Get a life Becca . The man is happily in love with Lauren. Enough with the hate!
I see marriage as a life long commitment. What he did is unforgivable.
Jack Wilson but they were preparing to get married. Fiancé or marriage, it’s still a commitment that he shouldn’t have broken.
I agree, better with the wrong girl for 6 weeks than with the wrong girl for the rest of his life. Plus how devastated could have Becca been after 6 weeks.? It wasn't 6 months or 6 years. The problem was the embarrassment that the breakup caused because it was watched by millions, more than the pain is was being dumped for another woman plus in front of the whole bachelor nation. Those two reasons were more painful for her than actually losing a 6 week boyfriend.(fiance)
I sincerely loved Bekah but i now think she seems a bit of a show off because of all the attention she has been getting.I think she needs to sit down before she says too much which she already has and comes across as an immature 22yr old. It looks like a serious case of sour grapes.GET OVER IT. Becca's destiny is to be the next bachelorette. Hopefully one day she will say thank God he dumped her.Let Lauren and Arie enjoy their love. Time will tell if he cheats on her or not..But why not wish them well in the meantime .
you can tell that she came on the show to become famous. now she'll be able to quit being a babysitter and endorse crap products on Instagram like all of the other bachelor franchise bimbos
I liked Bekah at first, but now she's just annoying. She spends way too much time gossiping about Arie. It's unnecessary and makes her appear vindictive.
What a joke. What did she expect with going on a reality show. You open yourself up for all kinds of things. She's a bit immature herself, and is using this to gain publicity. Sheesh.
Wow...Bekah's time on the pot farm aged her 20 years. Bags under her eyes, crepey, pale skin, acne...poor doll. She looks rode hard and put away wet.
Everyone is bashing Arie without trying to understand why he did what he did. He's a human. These are all just opinions and judgements that are a waist of time and energy. Its over. He did what he had to in his heart. And I feel like Lauren is protective over her heart and wouldn't marry him if she thought indifferently about him. Just leave it aloneee
He’s not that bad jeeez. He wasn’t happy. Would it be better to stay with someone when you’re not happy? In real life this happens too. Chill out!! You’re showing your age using these bad comments. Calm yourself
Everyone needs to chill, this whole break-up situation was just an act to get more raitings and transition Becca as Bachelorette. GENIUS move!
I thought you were smarter than this Bekah....he did the right thing. Right things can hurt. He wanted to make the right decision...he went with what his parents were pushing on him...and then remembered he was supposed to follow his heart..it is so unfortunate that a wonderful, brave, amazing woman was hurt in the process..and it IS a process that causes so much drama which you are all aware of....He did the right thing by getting this out early...and not dragging her on or deceiving her...he did the best he could.
Suddenly Simple You fucking disgust me. What do you mean his parents pushed him? He is fucking 36 not 20. And then he "forgot" to follow his heart? Thats your excuse? He is a narcissistic psychopath and so are you.
The show did this on tv because Arie was not In a right mind he went along. I didn't like him as bachelor but he was searching for love. This clip here Becca is talking about him messaging her...he just felt bad the show creates these situations.
ITS NOT WHAT HE DID ITS HOW HE DID IT
You are right and also not entirely.Yes it is wrong looking at it in a real life aspect. In real life break ups happen in private. THIS IS A REALITY TV SHOW.This is what Becca signed up for and she knew everyone would be watching the good and the bad so she does not get to decide.Deep down she knows that. Don't forget Arie's season was pretty boring at the start. This televised break up could have been forced by the producers to spike up ratings which is what did happen. Another thing is Arie got another ring free for Lauren? This could have been his payment to do it on tv and for that it is wrong. We are viewers and until we walk in their shoes we do not know what goes on. By the way this response is meant for Zomnda.
I think it's a good thing that he actually did it on national TV just because it would clear up things and not make people wonder what went down. Obviously, he wanted Lauren and he felt like he owed it to both of these women to explain himself on national TV so he can be able to redeem himself because even if he wouldn't have done it on national TV, I'm pretty sure he would of done either way in private, he seemed pretty solid on his decision and with this way people won't be like, "oh he's with Lauren now, how did this happen?!!" and the drama on the media would of been insane and it would of been worst and most likely take toll on both women. Arie did the RIGHT CHOICE.
I wish I could be her friend! I need someone like that in my life! Love you!
Look Bekah, it’s enough ... let them be happy.. STOP talking bad about Arie, you were not in his shoes... and go on with your life.
She looks 10 years older
drugs drinking etc
Yup exactly my thoughts. ..she looks 30
Meaghan Kehoe yea what happened to her??
Looks like an much uglier of the girl in the AT&T commercials.
yeah she cannot be 20 or however old they say she is
She is wrong. Arie will marry Lauren and stay with her. They really love each other. He thought Becca was more marriage ready and less of a challenge emotionally opening up so he went with her first but had a longing for lauren because she was the one he had the most special connection with. He messed up like Mesnick did, same thing.
L Lance ur dumb n naive lolol
I don't like Bekah. She needs to chill.
She's immature and likes to gossip to try to get fame.
I mean she was better than most the girls
bekah should chill she seems to be letting her minute of fame get the best of her . Adding more fuel to the fire with that loud mouth it's not even about her why is she so involved
This is one annoying child like adult looking girl and I used to like her at first with her short cute hair style. Makes it hard to bash Arie's forced villain behavior for greedy ABC purposely filing raw pain for ratings as well. I get that she is still bitter and angry b/c her age wasn't picked. Arie was a jerk, but had to come true to himself later. Glad that Lauren isn't listening to everything that Bekah and other girls are saying while she figure it out herself. And don't worry about dumped Becca too much as she knew that she was lining up for more publicity as bachelorette.
someone is bitter
Ya think?
I mean, she has a point about him making an immature choice and mistake, but to define his character to be a manipulative asshole is a bit too far. That makes her look immature and extremely judgmental. God, I’ve lost so much respect for her after the show.
Why doesn’t she (Bekah ) get a life. I think Arie has a life……he has three children and a wife that is totally in love with him. A beautiful home, a home in Hawaii, she (Lauren) has a new Porsche, and three beautiful kids. Since she, Bekah……has been on the Bachelor, she have been the villain. Bekah, five minutes of fame is over!
I don't understand why people are attacking Becca M.because Arie is sick.How can he do that on camera .He did that to show off.If a sister or a child is treated this way and you will be happy so be it on to those defending him.
I really think Bekah Martinez is just mad because Arie dumped her. She is just using this situation to channel her frustrations about it. For the record I can't stand Arie he is boring!
Michael Thomas She has been honest that she had feelings for him and was disappointed at that time, she is mad, but she's not "just" mad. Everything she's saying about him is true. She's not interested in sugar coating it. She's not my favorite person but the other Becca was so graceful about everything with Arie and wishing him well, it's nice to see someone calling him out and saying what most people are thinking.
I mean this in the nicest most non judgmental way possible but he seems a little gay to me.
I still don't understand how people can watch these interviews with her and still presume she is "mature". He shouldn't be DMing me but I'm still going to reply of course because it's Arie and I was in love with him. He's a manipulative A*** but she also said she would've done the same thing as Lauren and taken him back if he'd come running to her saying he made a mistake. So explain to me are you mad at Arie for what he did to Becca or are you more mad that it wasn't you he broke off his engagement for? About as mature as the whole "WE are never, ever getting back together" like duh he doesn't want you anymore don't pretend you have the control here lmao.
For the first time I realized how immature she really is
Damn girl I can’t imagine going off like this like... in front of a camera 😂
The 22 year old girl is the last one to call anyone immature lol I use the word girl loosely cuz idk what to call her these days she’s calling all these people out it’s just hilarious
she's 22? lmfao giirl you look 45 !
It’s probably been said before, but she looks SO much like Rizzo from Grease. I can’t unsee it.
I love her look.
Look how fast she turned on him considering how much she was falling for him on the show. This just proves she's only there for fun and NOT marriage material yet. Arie may not be the best bachelor but he was 100% correct getting rid of her.
Arie did the right thing in letting Bekah go. She knew he was struggling and instead of being confident and releasing him she was desperate to wear a ring so she pretended.
She probably went on the show to try to get fame, and now she's looking stupid, but people like her will over do it to get it. Pretty shallow.
She is a totally hater omg , I used to like her but listening the way she talks... nope anymore. If the situation was different I’m pretty sure she’d have done the same thing as Lauren did She is jealous that’s all
These entertainment channels need to stop giving Bekah the platform! All she does is criticized a decision that Arie made for his personal life and future. His decision does not impact Bekah’s or anyone’s life but Lauren’s if anything. Very mature, Bekah.
She's just salty she didn't make it to top 4 or 3 and missed out on all the fun vacations.
My life is riveting to me. I look forward to coffee/dogs/husband time 24/7.
I never knew I here was anything better.
“He’ll definitely cheat on her” WELL glad you are so mature to talk about him like that. Glad all you have time to do is trash talk other girls