Unfortunately not available in India Hope it comes soon it's better to remain single till then or even better Single for Life. Just keep in mind jobs are shaky and cost are soaring for everything hence making life difficult to live and don't be fooled by people saying after marriage she will work and earn money...this is FALSE and she will il treat you and may slam the IPC s against men.
@anujkumarrai8450 you are absolutely right we all need this false security to please our selves. Marriage in my opinion and just my opinion should die out for the Middle class coz all we do, is get educated and work to serve the big tech. Corporate puppeteers.
@@madhurshinde4988parents ko sab pata hota h unke bacche kaise h fir bhi dusro ki zindagi barbad karwate h apne nalayak or nikamme baccho ki shaadi karake dusro se
Just my anatomy professor said me one time.."apperance can be deceiving."..aur yeh bhi kaha dikhawa pe mat jao aur apni akal Lagao..",,..now i get the link 🎉👍
I rejected one guy because he didn't interact with me , talked very less when we met then agreed to marry . People nowadays cover it by saying - I'm introvert and for the pressure from family agree to get married .
@@kumawatvirendra darr ka mahol ho gaya hai . Par mera bhai toh phas gaya . Humare case mein ladki baat karna chahti thi but mere bhai ne mana kiya . Ab shadi ke baad kya ho sakta hai 😂😂😂
This applies to both. Guys also pretend to be simple and caring, but reality is something different. A boy's mother plays a pivotal role if the parents are living with the boys.
You are very accurate in this video. Back in 2011, I was smart enough to think on all these points. Got engaged with three girls and found that in their first meeting and third fourth meeting, girls were quite different. I broke all engagements. Thank god saved me.
@@kumawatvirendra बच गए भाई, वर्ना जिंदगी एक नाटक बन के रह जाती। आज भी मैं सोचता हूँ कि कितनी बार बाल बाल बचा मना करके। तब मेरे रिश्तेदार मुझे कोसते थे कि ऐसा रिश्ता कैसे ठुकरा दिया। कभी मौका मिला तो अपनी लाइफ पे एक किताब लिखूंगा। कुंवारा मर जाओ परन्तु कभी किसी गधी से न करना शादी। कोई भी लड़की अगर "तेरा पैसा मेरा, और मेरा पैसा मेरा" पे विश्वास करे तो तुरंत 9 2 11 हो जाइए।
Getting a very understanding girl is pure luck. She can be simple and look simple. She can look posh and well educated. It's all random. It's definitely destiny to get a partner who supports you your whole life and who has same point of view like you in many matters.
submission of medical reports should be compulsory if she was pregnant or did an abortion previously...or even let you know if she is pregnant at the present moment
@@annedas2726 boys dont ask for alimony only women ask for that, we don't really care if women had sex or not, but with sex you get pregnant, men don't get pregnant, also if women had sex without taking alimony from someone else why should she take it from only 1 guya rest of the 10 men should also pay alimony
Same applies for men also bhaiya....ladke bhi baat nahi karte.... actually both are shy in first meeting. As u said baar baar milna zaruri hai.... without parents supervision also.....i feel they open up and sah if thry really want to marry or their parents r forcing them.
@@PGhostelgirl91 Yes Ma'am, you are Right but here we are highlighting the heated crisis that's happening Globally with particular Gender , and Helplessly they have no laws to be protected, on the Other side You , Females have numerous laws and females also use these laws for the sake of Revenge just to satisfy their Ego , taking Innocent lives Of Men their families. Whereas Good Men and women are at loss , also Woman like you at loss." Will the Nice man dare to marry you, if he had fear of this ongoing condition ; fake cases against Men ? "
@NoOne-kx7zs Agar Husband Narcissist nahi hua to Marriage me bhi fayda ho sakta hai , aur kahin kahin pe Ladki ke Apne hi maa-baap ya bhai bhi narcissists mil jaate hain, Sab kismat ka khel he Baabu-bhaiya. Kisi ko Shaadi karni hai to Unko Ladke nahi mil rahe apni Choice ke , aur Ladko ko Shaadi karni hai to Paisa jaane ka tension 😂
I don't know why you tube removes this comment but I need to inform men to save them. Please don't remove this video this is not clickbate or waste of time but life saving.🙏 Warning for Indian bachelors - Precautions to be taken care by Indian Men before marriage. Vitesh Aggarwal. Hindi Language
Very true, everything is true . I had prepared 10 questions which had subjunctive answers , as they should not have yes/no type answers. Second I also took time to decide. Acting girls please avoid, and yes full family. A dumb girl is also life threatening. If a man is good, it's his responsibility to value his life and choose wisely his life partner.
@DifferentBalbola nothing unique, just current affairs questions. I had inspiration from my neighbouring aunty, she was so perfect and uncle and aunty are so match that aunty used know what is in uncles mind before he used to speak. You can ask like what she thinks about current middle east crisis, Russia Ukrain war , who is right and why, what her blood group , what are her thoughts on our conditions of Roads. Narrate any best 5 qualities of her best friends, 5 negatives of her mother and father. Very important question is , why she wants to marry. One girl answers that she will get freedom financially, so I checked my wallet that time 😂😂.
@DifferentBalbola just remember, avoid girls who has formula " your money is mine and mine money is mine". So try to spend her money first and see if she is a sharing and caring type human.
Arrre ye kisko nhi pta hoga bhai? Obviously pehli meeting me , vo bhiii arrange set up me . .ldki vivah movie jaisi Poonam hi dikhegi ... ye normal intellect hai ..aajkl internet hai ...do gather all the info about ur partner...1st expression isn't last ..1st expressions are deceiving ....
No brother.. Ladke ab aware ho chuke hai chahe Paisa dekar private jasoos hire karna pade to karoonga. Alimony se jasoos saste padenge sochta hu.🤔@@divorcedindianguy
Wanting simple people is stupid to start with . Confident people are better .Atleast jo hai aur jaisa hai muh pe bol dete .Warna arranged marriage me dono ladka ladki simple hone ka dhong karte hi rehte hai. Jo khud ke liye na bol sake , aese insaan se shadi karoge to fasoge hi na.😂😂😂
Mene ek ladka dekha govt engineer tha tho uske father bol rhe ki ye krna hi nhi chahta pr hum chate ki iska ghr bas jaye, mere parent ne turant mna kr diya usko Ladka interested nhi marriage tho ladki ko kya khush rakhega
But the fact is, ladki seedhi simple ho isse zada toh ye dekhke attract hote hain log ki ladki sundar ho. Nikita looked slim and young in her marriage photo.
This video is about my life story. I got into a trap by my inlaws and wife. meri wali bhi shuru me aisi thi. kaash mujhe 18 saal pehle kisi ne aise samjhaya hota meri life destroy hone se baach jaati 😢
Law system should change. It should deliver justice to both. If woman is suffering or man is suffering.Should not biased. There are a lot of real dowery case and domestic violence cases. Women are also suffering. Justice should be delivered to both. Our is patriarchal society support men if it happened everyone spitting negativity for women. But not for men ,a lots of housewives suicide because of emotionally and physically abuse no movement for them. Because its normal in society.if it happened with man then not normal.
All the financial Transactions should be banned in a marriage. No Dowry , No Alimony, No Maintenance, No money for children Most marriages are failing because failing because women have upper edge over finances . If she wants to leave the marriage let her do it if she can sustain, after all they are all strong and Independent Women. Right ?
Bhai your insights are really good. Simplicity is a myth to be honest. Please do the background checks. Nothing remains hidden these days. Watch the actions friend circle and music taste.
@moviesworthwatching3717 housewives will treat you like ATM. Divorced working woman who first did arranged marriage because of her parents will always give first preference to you because she understands the importance of a partner. But a first marriage housewife will always give first preference to her parents and sister and brother over you , no matter what you do for her. Personal experience se bol raha huun. You will hate to be someone's second choice. Basically I am saying is don't be someone's exit point because for a housewife you are that only - lifelong free Paisa with beauty massage, parlour, free vacation while you toil outside.
Yeh podcaster ne meri puri zindagi batayi. Ap kaun ho Guruji? Ek cheez.ki guarantee hai Shaadi na karo Akelepan ko accept karo aur khud hi khush rehna sikho
Learn to ask probing questions, ask her friends as well without her around. Usually ppl aren't good liars for long so there will be signs if you really ask her
Sir i am 23 year old and after listening to you and seeing today situation i personally feel that red flag guy in my age are the most intelligent one they are excellent in manipulation try everything in young age and gained experience and other green flag people stuck in morality, family values and respect which no one care at all
As a Male, Bhai jo log itne cases dekhne ke baad bhi agar shaadi ka soch rahe hain to yaar aapko bhagwan hi theek kare, Bhai Baar baar doosre ko thokar lagte hue dekho to khud us raste se hat jaao na , kyun apne paav pe kulhadi maarni hai???
Bhai , hazaar shadiyaan toot rahi hain toh hazaar shadiyaan chal bhi toh rahi hai . Mera bhai bhi apne kuch doston ke divorced cases dekh kar dar gaya tha . Bahot late mein shadi kiya . Par usne dusron ke galtiyon se seekha . Society ke chakkar mein na aakar , aisi ladki chuna jo ushke liye sahi hai aur hum gharwale bhi kabhi ushke married life mein interfere nahi kar rahe hain . Abhi tak achi chal rahi hai aur umeed hai aage bhi chalegi . I hope India mein divorce laws jald change ho . Bahot ladkiyan unn laws ka galat istemal kar rahe hain apne fayde ke liye .
@@Mira-pm3ni Bhai Wo unki choice hogi , Mai aapki baat nahi kar raha hoon . At the end Shaadi karne wale bhi marenge aur Na karne wale bhi, isliye meri choice to Nahi karne ki hai , Kyunki Talwar ke upar Chaloge to Apne hi Paav katenge. Kyun kisi doosre ka burden apne Sir lena
@@Mira-pm3ni Khaali Talwar ki dhaar pe kyun chalna. Aisa mahol hai ki kiska Man kab palat jaaye pata nahi, Isliye Mai to door hi rehta hoon in jhamelon se. Baaki sabki apni ixxha
Meri approach : ladki se apna life goal share karunga. Puchhunga ki kitna interesting hai aur kaise contribute kar sakti hai. Nahi boli ya boli... Dono case main I will know if she is wife material for me or not 😅 Shadi to karni hin hai, but with a woman having substance 😊
Aisa kyu nahi kar sakte ki sab ek sath mil ke ek doosre ke liye adjust kare. Seedhi saadi ladki kafi easy hoti hai sath rehne ke liye lekin kya ye sahi hai ki usko for granted le liya jaye?
Ha sahi baat hai.unko ye hota hai ki wo hamare marji se jiye,na kahi bahar Jaye,na kam kare,na padhay kare,na parents se mile,na unse baat kare,bas Ghar ka kam kare aur unke tane sunti rahe chahe ladki ke maa baap tak gali Dede to unko chalega.😢
Sahi kah re ho sir .ladki ko milne hi ni dete.yadi ladki milti hai or khul ke baat krti hai to use clever and characterless samja jaata hai खासकर rural area me . Maine bahut face kiya hai .
I don't a lady that talks less with her partner relationship is going to work out in long run because What makes relationship alive is effective communication No matter how bad either partner feels it a necessity to say to other one then things can be sorted out I mean just say it loud Dont buried under the skin Idk just my thought
Avoid marriage but if you are doing it do it in a proper way using private detective can be a option.and one more point pre nup is good for nothing in America they just through prenup like tissue paper. So i don't why in india these guys asking for prenup see Japan and America, don't repeat silly mistakes
Sirf shadi ke pehle milker kuch samajh nhi ata... Jivan shadi ke baad alag hota hai kathin ho jata hai isliye pareshaniyan zyada lagti hai.. Sara jhagda dusre se ummeede rakhne se hota hai.. Ladki se out of the world expectations rakhna galat hai chahe shadi se pehle ho ya baad mein... Ladko ki bhi poori jimmedaari hoti hai equally ghar banane mein..
Agr ladko ki equal jimmedari hai ghar kam mein hat batane ki to ladki ki bhi equal jimmedari bnti hai equal financial burden uthane ki. Don't talk about equality where it only benefits you. Equality should be for responsibility also
Sahi kah rahi hai ap.bache or career dono ko sath le kr chalna bahut difficult hai without partner support.india me 95 aadmi bilkul help ni krte bache ko palne me .akele jagna padta hai.or wife se full expectation hoti hai ki wo sab karke de .iske sath uski bhi utni hi care kre jitni bache ki.
@ relative does not have to be first cousin or blood relative. If your fathers sister is married , her husbands family is not your blood relative. But you can get their full inside scoop from your aunt.
Har ladki ki koi na koi khwahish hoti hi hai.koi simpl hai to iska matlab ye nahi ki koi dream nahi hote ya apne parents ts ko bhul jaye.ye apexa kyu rakhte hai ladke ki uske parents ko bhul jaye.
Yeh arrange marriage mein ek baar ladki dekh ke baat pakki karna bahut hi dangerous tarika hai.. Jab tak 3-4 baar ladka ladki milke baat na kar le tab tak kuch pata nhi lag sakta..
Totally depends on luck.love marriage me bhi Saadi ke baad hi bahut si chize pata lagti hai jab ek roof ke niche rahte hai.Saadi se pahle sab show off krte hai apna best dikhate hai
Very valuable tips, thankyou so much for sharing, my family searching for girl right now, i m working as a senior software Engineer in a reputed MNC o india, i m very stressed after seeing all current things happening Please advise m Sir, can we connect on phone or gmail
known family se hi ladki select krna ager court case se bchna hai tho Kbhi bhi ladki ki education n job ya salary ya even looks k basis pr ladki Mt select krna Always remember ladki ka known hona ya family ka known hona hi sabse important chiz hai Mere ghr wale bhi ladka dekh rhe tho wo yhi dekhte hai ki known me hi krni hai
Sahi kah re ho sir .ladki ko milne hi ni dete.yadi ladki milti hai or khul ke baat krti hai to use clever and characterless samja jaata hai खासकर rural area me . Maine bahut face kiya hai .
वो गाना याद आ गया ।
पंछी अकेला देख मुझे ये जाल बिछाया है
इसलिए मम्मी ने तेरी मुझे चाय पे बुलाया है।
😜🤣🤣🤣
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Prenuptial agreement should be mandatory for every marriage
Unfortunately not available in India
Hope it comes soon it's better to remain single till then or even better Single for Life.
Just keep in mind jobs are shaky and cost are soaring for everything hence making life difficult to live and don't be fooled by people saying after marriage she will work and earn money...this is FALSE and she will il treat you and may slam the IPC s against men.
@@daym8 Prenup agreements dont work in western countries either.
@anujkumarrai8450 you are absolutely right we all need this false security to please our selves.
Marriage in my opinion and just my opinion should die out for the Middle class coz all we do, is get educated and work to serve the big tech. Corporate puppeteers.
@@daym8 That is what they want you to do.
@anujkumarrai8450 👍 for sure, thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Atul : Kam bolti thi toh , mujhe laga Ye "wisdom ka Mark hai". hai na .
Right bro 😢
also, the reason her mom was telling her to be quiet was because she had a boyfriend, technically she still does
Yes
@@madhurshinde4988 When Such Mom is involved, it's definitely Big Danger.
@@madhurshinde4988parents ko sab pata hota h unke bacche kaise h fir bhi dusro ki zindagi barbad karwate h apne nalayak or nikamme baccho ki shaadi karake dusro se
Housefull movie..
Akshay kumar- शर्म लाज और गहना।।
Chunki pandey- इन तीनों में से इसने कुछ नही पहना।।😂
I remember that dialogue.
Just my anatomy professor said me one time.."apperance can be deceiving."..aur yeh bhi kaha dikhawa pe mat jao aur apni akal Lagao..",,..now i get the link 🎉👍
Indeed - looks can be deceiving
"Dikhawe pe mat jaao......" 90s ke Sprite ads ka tagline tha. Bahut famous hua tha.
@@divorcedindianguy Where can I contact with u Personally sir??
This is golden advice. Practical and necessary lessons for every man.
I rejected one guy because he didn't interact with me , talked very less when we met then agreed to marry .
People nowadays cover it by saying - I'm introvert and for the pressure from family agree to get married .
Ladke par raham kiya aapne. Bhai bach gya hamara. 🙏
@@kumawatvirendra bhai kya keh raha hai. Ab sab ladkiya kya Atul ke case jaise ho gayin. Ye chashma utaro sab log galat nahi hote aur sab sahi nahi.
@@kumawatvirendra darr ka mahol ho gaya hai . Par mera bhai toh phas gaya . Humare case mein ladki baat karna chahti thi but mere bhai ne mana kiya . Ab shadi ke baad kya ho sakta hai 😂😂😂
Bengali witch
@@Mira-pm3niWo ladki Extrovert thi kya??
This applies to both. Guys also pretend to be simple and caring, but reality is something different. A boy's mother plays a pivotal role if the parents are living with the boys.
Not for u aunty
Aunty first go and check the data of NCRB your every misunderstanding will be cleared. Hypocrite
@@piyushdas079cooked😂😂😂
@@piyushdas079 kyu Bhai wo b to sahi keh rahi. It is must for both the people involved in a relationship to stand for eachother
happened to my sister, currently fighting case and struggling somehow due to lack of money, facing so much harassment 😢
You are very accurate in this video.
Back in 2011, I was smart enough to think on all these points. Got engaged with three girls and found that in their first meeting and third fourth meeting, girls were quite different. I broke all engagements. Thank god saved me.
@@kumawatvirendra बच गए भाई, वर्ना जिंदगी एक नाटक बन के रह जाती। आज भी मैं सोचता हूँ कि कितनी बार बाल बाल बचा मना करके। तब मेरे रिश्तेदार मुझे कोसते थे कि ऐसा रिश्ता कैसे ठुकरा दिया। कभी मौका मिला तो अपनी लाइफ पे एक किताब लिखूंगा। कुंवारा मर जाओ परन्तु कभी किसी गधी से न करना शादी। कोई भी लड़की अगर "तेरा पैसा मेरा, और मेरा पैसा मेरा" पे विश्वास करे तो तुरंत 9 2 11 हो जाइए।
To ab kya single ho ?
Ur Married now??
@@Ranjan_Mohanty married on my own terms and living happily.
@@biratbhowmick7291 married and happily living
Getting a very understanding girl is pure luck. She can be simple and look simple. She can look posh and well educated. It's all random.
It's definitely destiny to get a partner who supports you your whole life and who has same point of view like you in many matters.
True
Sahi kaha bhai. And also it depends on the individual how she values the relationship and the people involved in it
Very true. This is how my bro got stuck in an inescapable marriage - scam of a simply homely girl.
Simplicity ko acche se define kiya hai apne.
Ladke bhi simple ,shy dikhate hai khud ko. Maine bahut dekhe hai during marriage proposals.
Bhagwan sabko dekh raha hai. Agar koi kisi achchhi ladki ko fasata hai to use saja jarur milegi
@@boldgirl1981 lekin alimony lene ke liye jhoothe case to ladkiyan hi karti hain na???
Not applicable to all girls. But now a days it's applicable to almost girls. Thanks for the information
You are doing great work for men!!! More power to you
submission of medical reports should be compulsory if she was pregnant or did an abortion previously...or even let you know if she is pregnant at the present moment
Aur agar ladki ho to usko kya check karna chahiye fir?😂....bhai sare ladke sati ki aulade ho gaye kya ek Atul ke marne se?
And how will you test if boy had sex before or had a child from another woman somewhere else??
Bhai, better to get genetic compatibility test, best for kids health and also get cord blood stored.
@@annedas2726 boys dont ask for alimony only women ask for that, we don't really care if women had sex or not, but with sex you get pregnant, men don't get pregnant, also if women had sex without taking alimony from someone else why should she take it from only 1 guya rest of the 10 men should also pay alimony
@@annedas2726even though nobody can know it, still it is prohibited in our religion. Ie in Hinduism. Celibacy till marriage is must.
Brofessor k saath aap collab kre sir✌🏻
Yes.vo thoda zyada ruthless hai. Zaruri hai aaj ke samay mein. Par👍😊
Same applies for men also bhaiya....ladke bhi baat nahi karte.... actually both are shy in first meeting. As u said baar baar milna zaruri hai.... without parents supervision also.....i feel they open up and sah if thry really want to marry or their parents r forcing them.
@@PGhostelgirl91 Yes Ma'am, you are Right but here we are highlighting the heated crisis that's happening Globally with particular Gender , and Helplessly they have no laws to be protected, on the Other side You , Females have numerous laws and females also use these laws for the sake of Revenge just to satisfy their Ego , taking Innocent lives Of Men their families. Whereas Good Men and women are at loss , also Woman like you at loss." Will the Nice man dare to marry you, if he had fear of this ongoing condition ; fake cases against Men ? "
marriage aur Divorce mein sirf ldki ka fayda hota hai.
@NoOne-kx7zs Agar Husband Narcissist nahi hua to Marriage me bhi fayda ho sakta hai , aur kahin kahin pe Ladki ke Apne hi maa-baap ya bhai bhi narcissists mil jaate hain, Sab kismat ka khel he Baabu-bhaiya.
Kisi ko Shaadi karni hai to Unko Ladke nahi mil rahe apni Choice ke , aur Ladko ko Shaadi karni hai to Paisa jaane ka tension 😂
Agree
@Kusa-j8i ldka narcissist ho chahe kuch bhi ho..ldki ek baar divorce file kregi to lut jaega....laws yahi hain.
I don't know why you tube removes this comment but I need to inform men to save them.
Please don't remove this video this is not clickbate or waste of time but life saving.🙏
Warning for Indian bachelors - Precautions to be taken care by Indian Men before marriage.
Vitesh Aggarwal. Hindi Language
Did he deleted any Videos Previously??
It's you tube I would not like to blame this great content creator afterall he is men's Saviour.
Attraction is matter 😂
Money can buy body but cannot buy love 😉
Very good advices from you. Pls make a video for women also what to look in a guy.
Very true, everything is true . I had prepared 10 questions which had subjunctive answers , as they should not have yes/no type answers. Second I also took time to decide. Acting girls please avoid, and yes full family. A dumb girl is also life threatening.
If a man is good, it's his responsibility to value his life and choose wisely his life partner.
Please tell me that 10 questions
@DifferentBalbola nothing unique, just current affairs questions. I had inspiration from my neighbouring aunty, she was so perfect and uncle and aunty are so match that aunty used know what is in uncles mind before he used to speak.
You can ask like what she thinks about current middle east crisis, Russia Ukrain war , who is right and why, what her blood group , what are her thoughts on our conditions of Roads. Narrate any best 5 qualities of her best friends, 5 negatives of her mother and father. Very important question is , why she wants to marry. One girl answers that she will get freedom financially, so I checked my wallet that time 😂😂.
@DifferentBalbola just remember, avoid girls who has formula " your money is mine and mine money is mine". So try to spend her money first and see if she is a sharing and caring type human.
@@deepcool5497how to spend her money 1st? When she’s neither GF nor Wife.
@@deepcool5497 it is very difficult to get a proper bride, good luck with your question and answer session. She will reject you.
The last point is very very significant. Very important thing to notice. If one is simple out of choice or by chance.
Arrre ye kisko nhi pta hoga bhai? Obviously pehli meeting me , vo bhiii arrange set up me . .ldki vivah movie jaisi Poonam hi dikhegi ... ye normal intellect hai ..aajkl internet hai ...do gather all the info about ur partner...1st expression isn't last ..1st expressions are deceiving ....
marriage is always a losing prospect for indian men.
That's bitter reality.
Agree - par shaadi k liye ladki dekhne k time pe aur waise bhi ladki k mamle main aksar ladko ka dimag kaam karna band kar deta hai
No brother..
Ladke ab aware ho chuke hai chahe Paisa dekar private jasoos hire karna pade to karoonga.
Alimony se jasoos saste padenge sochta hu.🤔@@divorcedindianguy
@@divorcedindianguy so they should be intellectual enough to judge instead of focusing just on the outer appearance.
True. First impression should not be taken at face value.
Wanting simple people is stupid to start with . Confident people are better .Atleast jo hai aur jaisa hai muh pe bol dete .Warna arranged marriage me dono ladka ladki simple hone ka dhong karte hi rehte hai. Jo khud ke liye na bol sake , aese insaan se shadi karoge to fasoge hi na.😂😂😂
People who dont speak thier mind, can deceive the person. Always speak all relevant things before marriage and not take anything for granted.
only one solution
Stay Single.. Stay Happy
Mene ek ladka dekha govt engineer tha tho uske father bol rhe ki ye krna hi nhi chahta pr hum chate ki iska ghr bas jaye, mere parent ne turant mna kr diya usko
Ladka interested nhi marriage tho ladki ko kya khush rakhega
Yeh boomers parents hi aadhe se jyada fasaad ki jadd h ajkal
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But the fact is, ladki seedhi simple ho isse zada toh ye dekhke attract hote hain log ki ladki sundar ho. Nikita looked slim and young in her marriage photo.
Don't marry. Stay Single, Stay Happy.
what about s*x?
This video is about my life story. I got into a trap by my inlaws and wife. meri wali bhi shuru me aisi thi. kaash mujhe 18 saal pehle kisi ne aise samjhaya hota meri life destroy hone se baach jaati 😢
The Revolution against the System...
Man is not slave of any holybook...
Arrange marriage ❌ love marriage ❌ no marriage 💯✅
Law system should change. It should deliver justice to both. If woman is suffering or man is suffering.Should not biased.
There are a lot of real dowery case and domestic violence cases. Women are also suffering. Justice should be delivered to both. Our is patriarchal society support men if it happened everyone spitting negativity for women. But not for men ,a lots of housewives suicide because of emotionally and physically abuse no movement for them. Because its normal in society.if it happened with man then not normal.
All the financial Transactions should be banned in a marriage.
No Dowry ,
No Alimony,
No Maintenance,
No money for children
Most marriages are failing because failing because women have upper edge over finances .
If she wants to leave the marriage let her do it if she can sustain, after all they are all strong and Independent Women. Right ?
These education must be given to girls & Boys in teenage between 15 to 20
Bhai your insights are really good. Simplicity is a myth to be honest. Please do the background checks. Nothing remains hidden these days. Watch the actions friend circle and music taste.
Friend Circle & Music Taste ko thora elaborate karenge?
Yeah, never married homely girl are the biggest red flag in a marriage. I think its better to marry a genuine divorced woman.
😂
Apni baat mat karo yaha
@moviesworthwatching3717 housewives will treat you like ATM. Divorced working woman who first did arranged marriage because of her parents will always give first preference to you because she understands the importance of a partner. But a first marriage housewife will always give first preference to her parents and sister and brother over you , no matter what you do for her. Personal experience se bol raha huun. You will hate to be someone's second choice. Basically I am saying is don't be someone's exit point because for a housewife you are that only - lifelong free Paisa with beauty massage, parlour, free vacation while you toil outside.
Azab murkh ho
Aur vo dusre ko satakar,chuna lagake divorce leke aayi ho to?😂 Tere ko katne ke liye experienced hogi vo bhai
Yeh podcaster ne meri puri zindagi batayi.
Ap kaun ho Guruji?
Ek cheez.ki guarantee hai
Shaadi na karo
Akelepan ko accept karo aur khud hi khush rehna sikho
Learn to ask probing questions, ask her friends as well without her around. Usually ppl aren't good liars for long so there will be signs if you really ask her
In Arranged Marriage scenario how'll u know her Friend?
& if you talk to them behind her Back wouldn’t her Friend inform her about u??
Sir i am 23 year old and after listening to you and seeing today situation i personally feel that red flag guy in my age are the most intelligent one they are excellent in manipulation try everything in young age and gained experience and other green flag people stuck in morality, family values and respect which no one care at all
Bhai ye baat mai already sochta tha ur ye sach bhi h- ladki se zyada uski maa kaisi h vo observe krna vala factor zyada important h
I do not want to marry Pls make video why marriage trap from ur experience pls bro
Sure
As a Male, Bhai jo log itne cases dekhne ke baad bhi agar shaadi ka soch rahe hain to yaar aapko bhagwan hi theek kare, Bhai Baar baar doosre ko thokar lagte hue dekho to khud us raste se hat jaao na , kyun apne paav pe kulhadi maarni hai???
Bhai , hazaar shadiyaan toot rahi hain toh hazaar shadiyaan chal bhi toh rahi hai . Mera bhai bhi apne kuch doston ke divorced cases dekh kar dar gaya tha . Bahot late mein shadi kiya . Par usne dusron ke galtiyon se seekha . Society ke chakkar mein na aakar , aisi ladki chuna jo ushke liye sahi hai aur hum gharwale bhi kabhi ushke married life mein interfere nahi kar rahe hain . Abhi tak achi chal rahi hai aur umeed hai aage bhi chalegi .
I hope India mein divorce laws jald change ho . Bahot ladkiyan unn laws ka galat istemal kar rahe hain apne fayde ke liye .
@@Mira-pm3ni Bhai Wo unki choice hogi , Mai aapki baat nahi kar raha hoon . At the end Shaadi karne wale bhi marenge aur Na karne wale bhi, isliye meri choice to Nahi karne ki hai , Kyunki Talwar ke upar Chaloge to Apne hi Paav katenge. Kyun kisi doosre ka burden apne Sir lena
@@Mira-pm3ni Khaali Talwar ki dhaar pe kyun chalna. Aisa mahol hai ki kiska Man kab palat jaaye pata nahi, Isliye Mai to door hi rehta hoon in jhamelon se. Baaki sabki apni ixxha
Marriage = Honeytrap to Enjoy Whole life on Men's Income 🤑
Meri approach : ladki se apna life goal share karunga. Puchhunga ki kitna interesting hai aur kaise contribute kar sakti hai. Nahi boli ya boli... Dono case main I will know if she is wife material for me or not 😅
Shadi to karni hin hai, but with a woman having substance 😊
Aisa kyu nahi kar sakte ki sab ek sath mil ke ek doosre ke liye adjust kare. Seedhi saadi ladki kafi easy hoti hai sath rehne ke liye lekin kya ye sahi hai ki usko for granted le liya jaye?
Ha sahi baat hai.unko ye hota hai ki wo hamare marji se jiye,na kahi bahar Jaye,na kam kare,na padhay kare,na parents se mile,na unse baat kare,bas Ghar ka kam kare aur unke tane sunti rahe chahe ladki ke maa baap tak gali Dede to unko chalega.😢
Bolo to bolo kya
karun to Karun kya
He Prabhu path pradarshit Karen😅😅
Sahi kah re ho sir .ladki ko milne hi ni dete.yadi ladki milti hai or khul ke baat krti hai to use clever and characterless samja jaata hai खासकर rural area me . Maine bahut face kiya hai .
you are saving us from future perils.
I don't a lady that talks less with her partner relationship is going to work out in long run because What makes relationship alive is effective communication No matter how bad either partner feels it a necessity to say to other one then things can be sorted out I mean just say it loud Dont buried under the skin
Idk just my thought
Sahi hai but one should be aware about each other's rights as well. A good marriage is a combination of everything
Sir aapke hissab se genuine ladkiyan bhi fake hain. Spreading awareness is fine but being misogynistic is not.
so we are cooked ☠💀☠
कोई व्यक्ति अंदर से क्या है यह पता लगाना नामुमकिन है।
Well said🎉🎉
Avoid marriage but if you are doing it do it in a proper way using private detective can be a option.and one more point pre nup is good for nothing in America they just through prenup like tissue paper. So i don't why in india these guys asking for prenup see Japan and America, don't repeat silly mistakes
Very good video
Sirf shadi ke pehle milker kuch samajh nhi ata... Jivan shadi ke baad alag hota hai kathin ho jata hai isliye pareshaniyan zyada lagti hai.. Sara jhagda dusre se ummeede rakhne se hota hai.. Ladki se out of the world expectations rakhna galat hai chahe shadi se pehle ho ya baad mein... Ladko ki bhi poori jimmedaari hoti hai equally ghar banane mein..
Agr ladko ki equal jimmedari hai ghar kam mein hat batane ki to ladki ki bhi equal jimmedari bnti hai equal financial burden uthane ki.
Don't talk about equality where it only benefits you.
Equality should be for responsibility also
If man is responsible for everything outside home then women should be responsible for everything inside home
Or vice versa.
Sahi kah rahi hai ap.bache or career dono ko sath le kr chalna bahut difficult hai without partner support.india me 95 aadmi bilkul help ni krte bache ko palne me .akele jagna padta hai.or wife se full expectation hoti hai ki wo sab karke de .iske sath uski bhi utni hi care kre jitni bache ki.
@@boldgirl198190% Of Indian Women are jobless, Living whole life shamelessly on Men's Income 🤑
Tu jo bhi bataya . Sab faltu bat h. Agar eo shatir h to kuchh nai kar sakte
Kar sakte ho, shaadi mat karo. Stay Single, Stay Happy.
Marry among relatives. Atleast you know the family if they are the litigious types.
Sweet home Alabama … sorry Pakistan
@ relative does not have to be first cousin or blood relative. If your fathers sister is married , her husbands family is not your blood relative. But you can get their full inside scoop from your aunt.
Stay single... Stay happy
2 words private detective
Har ladki ki koi na koi khwahish hoti hi hai.koi simpl hai to iska matlab ye nahi ki koi dream nahi hote ya apne parents ts ko bhul jaye.ye apexa kyu rakhte hai ladke ki uske parents ko bhul jaye.
Bro How to check her past?
Ask her friends separately. Or observe her in other situations.
Research karo about her clg life
Question is
How to know the past of the girl
Any general guidelines
Consultation is not Phree 😂
pvt investigator or asking male friends of her
Private detective hire kro
Deleted Instagram posts se lekr...deleted past tk sb nikaalke dega!!!
Sidha puchlo
By manipulating her emotions
Then why you are divorced??.. u were not aware about those things before marrying your ex-wife?.. Tell us the exact reason why u are divorced
@@Findsanz aadmi galtiyo se seekhta he.
Aur kuch dusro ki galti dekh kar seekh te hai
most of the wisdom comes after much suffering
😵💫 Crazy Karen spotted
@@Findsanz he's divorced because the feminist has power of Chameleon, they know how to change colour and the Spell of Witch , Manipulation tactics.
Stay Single
Kuch bhi kar lo phir bhi phasaye jate ho
Ladki ki mummy se shaadi fixed then
Yeh arrange marriage mein ek baar ladki dekh ke baat pakki karna bahut hi dangerous tarika hai..
Jab tak 3-4 baar ladka ladki milke baat na kar le tab tak kuch pata nhi lag sakta..
Totally depends on luck.love marriage me bhi Saadi ke baad hi bahut si chize pata lagti hai jab ek roof ke niche rahte hai.Saadi se pahle sab show off krte hai apna best dikhate hai
Dont marry live happily
Very valuable tips, thankyou so much for sharing, my family searching for girl right now, i m working as a senior software Engineer in a reputed MNC o india, i m very stressed after seeing all current things happening
Please advise m Sir, can we connect on phone or gmail
known family se hi ladki select krna ager court case se bchna hai tho
Kbhi bhi ladki ki education n job ya salary ya even looks k basis pr ladki Mt select krna
Always remember ladki ka known hona ya family ka known hona hi sabse important chiz hai
Mere ghr wale bhi ladka dekh rhe tho wo yhi dekhte hai ki known me hi krni hai
@Neetukumari-qz2ke mere ghar wale bi ladki dekh rhe hai ab hume online matrimonial site se bohot dar lg rha hai, looking from known
@Neetukumari-qz2ke
Ab to sabhi family kafi dur dur rehte hain
Due to job
So yeh known family main kaise dhundhe
@rishikeshaishwarya4099 village OR relatives
@@Neetukumari-qz2ke Jinke known me koi na ho wo kya kare??
Sahi kah re ho sir .ladki ko milne hi ni dete.yadi ladki milti hai or khul ke baat krti hai to use clever and characterless samja jaata hai खासकर rural area me . Maine bahut face kiya hai .
Ladke bhi simple ,shy dikhate hai khud ko. Maine bahut dekhe hai during marriage proposals.