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  • @manaswitadatta
    @manaswitadatta 4 роки тому +261

    When I face toxic people, I say to myself " unse aur umeed hi kya kar sakte hai". And move on.

  • @arpana_1109
    @arpana_1109 3 роки тому +76

    """"Aapki chuppi bade se bade toxic people ko tod kr rakh degi""".....be non-responsive...
    Thank you sir 😊

  • @the_success_hindi_hub
    @the_success_hindi_hub 4 роки тому +145

    Amazing line:- "Let your hardwork and result speak in front of them"😯🙏

  • @mrutyunjaysinhpadhiyar5474
    @mrutyunjaysinhpadhiyar5474 4 роки тому +217

    We need collectors like you..

  • @enthusiast9974
    @enthusiast9974 3 роки тому +51

    I am sorrounded by many toxic people in my life.. I was literally shocked after their masks dropped... Literally this session helped me alot from eliminating them from my life

  • @easyway1340
    @easyway1340 4 роки тому +30

    1)cool mind
    2) patience
    Most imp
    Thank u sir ....

  • @anjalisinha3753
    @anjalisinha3753 4 роки тому +35

    yes u said it right “u hv to mentally defeat that person”..silence is golden

  • @vibhishnagul
    @vibhishnagul 3 роки тому +22

    Thank you sir i was so disturbed with the people around me . I cried every day , searching ways how to deal correctly with these negativity i get everyday right from i wake up in the morning. Now i found way out.😢🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @tekbssync5727
      @tekbssync5727 3 роки тому +2

      Arre bhai , tum accha kaam karoge to wo bolenge aisa kyu kiya , tum bura kaam karoge to phir wo bolenge ye kya kar rha , unka kaam hai bolna. [ ye samaj me madarch** logo ki kami nhi hai , ignore them 😂] And don't cry for such fu*king people. Enjoy your life as you want

    • @sannifunacct.986
      @sannifunacct.986 3 роки тому +1

      Relax..there is nothing to cry and get disturbed. U r not alone in this sister. Many of us go through the same. Don't be so sensitive, vulnerable to hurt 😊 Remember at the end of everything only we will be responsible for our lives so better don't spoil ur mood because of others. Stay happy

  • @Rohitkumar-xx2jr
    @Rohitkumar-xx2jr 3 роки тому +18

    Focus on yourself
    Stop emitt negative energy
    Emitt positive vibes
    Belive in God
    Ignore negative people
    Stay away from negative people
    Stop respond,and never cares what other think
    Do one thing at one time
    Jivan meh therav lekr aao
    Dhahrav lekr aao
    Be calm be humble do hard work with cool mind

  • @letstalk2227
    @letstalk2227 4 роки тому +65

    I don't use platforms like Fb, Twitter, Instagram, except YT , Whatsapp...never use to attend too many celebrations.( Specially family gatherings where not so close relatives come)......have listening attitude instead of speaking....... when ever someone criticize or taunt me for no good reason I use to say in my mind..."wait for that big day baby"😂I cut off from unnecessary socialising... basically I use to avoid such ppl as much as I can..
    Thanks sir...for your guidance .
    Waiting for this session..

    • @AmanVerma-qu7if
      @AmanVerma-qu7if 4 роки тому +9

      Same brother .I am more happier now after quiting social media as I observed these were the only cause of frustrations and depression as well as jealousy...

    • @letstalk2227
      @letstalk2227 4 роки тому +3

      @@AmanVerma-qu7if keep focusing on your life.... Gud luck

    • @letstalk2227
      @letstalk2227 4 роки тому +2

      @@astral7919 yeah...now u can focus n work upon urself.

  • @sohinimukherjee4838
    @sohinimukherjee4838 4 роки тому +90

    Sometimes toxic ppl deliberately continue to taunt you and try hard to portray you as the culprit....in some cases ignorance may not always be the soln

    • @coolstar3783
      @coolstar3783 2 роки тому +8

      Yas True

    • @coolstar3783
      @coolstar3783 2 роки тому +9

      I feel same

    • @srconsultancy9071
      @srconsultancy9071 2 роки тому +9

      Haa yaar.. sahi kaha.. Kuchh log aise hote hai.. worst tab hota hai jab wo aapke family me ho..

    • @viny9171
      @viny9171 2 роки тому +3

      @@srconsultancy9071 aise logo ki bate ko ek kaan se sunkr dusre se nikal do unki importance khtm kr do detachment kr lo

    • @kajalkarn6021
      @kajalkarn6021 2 роки тому +2

      True

  • @shashisharma4813
    @shashisharma4813 7 місяців тому +1

    अमूल्य सलाह देने के लिए आपका ह्रदय से आभार।

  • @ajaykumarpandey5705
    @ajaykumarpandey5705 4 роки тому +35

    I found the answer to my question that was bothering me from last one month , thnq so much sir ❤️

  • @SONIAflotsamdiamond
    @SONIAflotsamdiamond 4 роки тому +26

    Helpful session indeed... People use to compliment my friends while criticising me. But i take their words for granted.

    • @sidharthm35
      @sidharthm35 4 роки тому +3

      Uda de unhe kisi ko supari dena 😂😂😂

  • @MeenalNechaniya
    @MeenalNechaniya 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you sir for saving my life
    Jab bhi andar se tutane wali feeling aati he aapki videos mujhe wapis khade uthane ki himmat deti he
    So a big thanks

  • @darkhorse2584
    @darkhorse2584 4 роки тому +25

    Such a good human being you are. Every session of yours brings a lot of positivity in many lives.

  • @pujabhosale2771
    @pujabhosale2771 4 роки тому +6

    Yes sir ✌️ yeh Maine follow Kiya hua 1year hua ab Mai bhut khush hu aur phle Mai bhut crazy , rhti thi ese logo se but mujhe yehh mere mentors Dr.geetendra sir ji ne btaya aur Maine turant adapt Kiya mere life Mai sach Mai sir mujhe preshan krne wale hi khut preshan ho Jaye hai 🤣🤣
    Aur Mai tohh cool mind se apna scheduled follow krti hi din ka
    Aur mentally Nd physically bhi fit hu ✌️
    Aur mujhe joh sir guide krte hai aur Biology pdhate hai neet ki wohh khud World topmost diabetalogist hai I am very lucky Nd thanx to god to give mi world best teacher Nd awesome parents ❤️❤️
    Aur mere sir ji ki wife bhi ek IAS officer hai joh ab Mumbai Mai hai
    Unki thinking bhi apki trh Best 👍 hai
    ThnQ 🙏 so much respected Nd lovely Er.gaurav sir Ap Hume guide krne ke liye ❤️❤️
    🇮🇳jay hind 🇮🇳

  • @rajatkumar5262
    @rajatkumar5262 4 роки тому +7

    Just keep quiet.. everything fill be alright ❣️
    conclusion of lecture.

  • @tekbssync5727
    @tekbssync5727 3 роки тому +29

    *Toxic people makes me work more harder towards my goal* ......... but they don't understand this 😂

  • @soul.harsh-instagram
    @soul.harsh-instagram 4 роки тому +104

    While studying again i was said " yeh kr hi kya lega". I kept silent. Spirituality helped me in this character of not speaking

    • @TJ-vi2iz
      @TJ-vi2iz 4 роки тому +13

      Aap apnee Mann ko bolo .
      Is ne kyaa krr liaa.
      And get motivated
      🤗😎

    • @Growtogether-ft1kf
      @Growtogether-ft1kf 4 роки тому +3

      @@TJ-vi2iz correct 🙂🙏

    • @itsmemv0072
      @itsmemv0072 4 роки тому +11

      while studying,they used to shout at me , to disturb ..i used to laugh at them seeing their jealousy ..they never used to stop ..even when i was silent ..cozx i felt bad if i dont give response to styupid boys as i am not scared of them ...i lost my seat at good govt engg college ..working hard again..coz i know i can do it , no matter what

    • @ganeshrao7526
      @ganeshrao7526 3 роки тому

      *YOUR Videos Are Toxic*
      _Postivie Thinking Looks Like HOUSE ONE SIDE Mirror_ 🤣🤣🤣

    • @hilarious5047
      @hilarious5047 2 роки тому +1

      You will become successful

  • @shubhisings3333
    @shubhisings3333 4 роки тому +37

    I think I am late to watch this video..already wasted my 4 years of preparation because of such people. Now trying to recoup and trying to focus on myself and hopefully I will become successful one day.

  • @tulsisharma73
    @tulsisharma73 3 роки тому +3

    this men is like sidhi baat no bkwas 😁😁😍i always watch your one video in my morning tea time so that i can start m day by earning some good habits 🤩thank you sir 😍

  • @anilpal3265
    @anilpal3265 4 роки тому +1

    Sir apki bate Bhrma Kumaris ,,peace of mind se milti hai,,,,,,,OM SHANTI 🙏❤️

  • @mahatigawande7124
    @mahatigawande7124 4 роки тому +5

    Thankyou for your suggestion because I'm very unstable now I'll try to be stable and Ignore my padosis

  • @Romanticvibes1432
    @Romanticvibes1432 3 роки тому +7

    A lots of thanks to you sir I was too much needy for this advice. This will help me to regain my mental peace.
    I was completely disturbed but thanks again

  • @viny9171
    @viny9171 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks sir itni achhi tarah se smjhane ke liye👍🙏

  • @anonymous-fw8ib
    @anonymous-fw8ib 3 роки тому +7

    This world is like a mirror to us 👌

  • @ThunderLightStrikes
    @ThunderLightStrikes 4 роки тому +2

    Sir ye self introspection wala point kaafi sahi hai 🌝
    kabhi kabhi hum hi galat hote hain or dusro ke nazriye smjh nahi paate...leads to conflict and tension between ppl
    Thank you bhaiya,u r a life coach.

  • @eternalshine5555
    @eternalshine5555 2 роки тому +2

    Thanku so much Gaurav sir 😊I need this advice Today 👍

  • @yogeshbharadwaj855
    @yogeshbharadwaj855 3 роки тому +6

    Silence Is Better Than Words 👍

  • @ViratSigma
    @ViratSigma 4 роки тому +5

    Gaurav Sir im a fan of yours you are my true inspiration,so i have kept my self appart from Intoxication ,video games and girlfriends and fully focused on studies and Fittnest....

  • @perahshaikh8564
    @perahshaikh8564 4 роки тому +5

    Thank you 😊 it was really helpful I was very sick of certain toxic people and you gave me a very good way out

  • @Ankit-mq6em
    @Ankit-mq6em 4 роки тому +35

    Muje Bolte tu gate pass nhi kar skta Aur Maine first time me Abhi 53 marks leke agaya ,abb aur jyada marks launga next year than IIsc jaunga

  • @akshatvikramsrivastava1786
    @akshatvikramsrivastava1786 4 роки тому +24

    Sir the topic about which you are talking about can tackled in a best way by "Joining a Fitness regime in our life " It works as a magic : personal exprience 🙏🙏.. 😊😊

  • @yASH69969
    @yASH69969 3 роки тому +3

    “Patience” Is Every Thing

  • @rajshekharsingh5862
    @rajshekharsingh5862 Рік тому

    Maine isse jyada relatable video apni life me nhi dekha hai... Thank you sir for such guidance

  • @harshydv001
    @harshydv001 4 роки тому +6

    Sir you are really motivated i am doing upsc and i get distract sometimes but by seeing you viedo i went back to my track Thank you sir...😊

  • @Maram-tz1sd
    @Maram-tz1sd 2 роки тому +1

    I was dealing with this...tnk u Sir for this valuable video.

  • @intuitivepeace6470
    @intuitivepeace6470 4 роки тому +2

    Thank u sir for suggestion , I will try to do it 2nd step

  • @palkii2300
    @palkii2300 4 роки тому +8

    Thank u soo much sir dat u hv addressed d most difficult problem f my life. I wd try my level bst . ☺

  • @letsknowitwithharshita
    @letsknowitwithharshita 2 роки тому

    Best suggestion in all youtube videos on this topic.

  • @nancysaluja3539
    @nancysaluja3539 2 роки тому

    Very nice video thank you for sharing this. I have a very close family member who constantly brags about herself and scoffs at everything I do constantly taunts , I’ve started hating her so much , I’ve developed so much anxiety and stress because of her. I used to be so happy so confident so cheerful always earlier but since these last 4 years I don’t even recall when was the last time i was happy.
    But this video has really helped. Thanks a lot.
    God bless you 🙏🏻

  • @tirthaghartimagar1939
    @tirthaghartimagar1939 3 роки тому

    You said very true sir.
    Log khud jaisa hote h waisa hi sochate h.

  • @satviktripathi7263
    @satviktripathi7263 7 місяців тому +1

    very rghtly said sir.

  • @abhishekchaturvedi3677
    @abhishekchaturvedi3677 4 роки тому +3

    Sir first time apke channel pe aya really u r a great person..if I clear upsc then definitely I want to meet u sir.

  • @prateekl968
    @prateekl968 Рік тому

    If someone are really toxic then other people will also know then you can team up against toxic person . And many times they are the one whose actually insecure and miserable people so forgive them and mind your own business and be the bigger person
    Keeping yourself busy so you don't have time for them . I am going through this situations and I'm getting better at understanding human behaviour , collect all the data, life will teach them lesson

  • @sumitpawankumar585
    @sumitpawankumar585 4 роки тому +5

    Thank you sir.
    Thank for your constant support.
    Jai hind

  • @indianeducationbyk.c3333
    @indianeducationbyk.c3333 Рік тому

    Thankuu so much for this session i really need it.

  • @ahanaroychoudhuri
    @ahanaroychoudhuri 2 роки тому

    Tysm sir 🙏. I was feeling very low for some time because some mean girls in my class used verbal abuse on my friend and I felt really bad and couldn't understand how low some people can stoop. I will be sure to avoid them and focus on my goals because it's not worth wasting my mental peace on them and instead do something positive with my life because it's not even worth thinking about them

  • @incredibleindia1005
    @incredibleindia1005 2 роки тому

    Thank You Sir for your valuable information.

  • @saranshsaini960
    @saranshsaini960 4 роки тому +3

    u r absolutely right sir ....from chandigarh !! just a new aspirant of UPSC CSE !

  • @anupama5109
    @anupama5109 2 роки тому

    Sir aapne bahut badi baat kehediya, mere jindagi mein asli villain mere saas aur mere husband hai, mai chahakar bhi indono ko aviod nahi karpavoongi per mein himmat nahi harnewali tqu so much🙂

  • @rafatali1170
    @rafatali1170 3 роки тому

    I agree with you 101%. Do believe it really works. Those who are suffering with depression can apply this method and increase confidence.

  • @anubhabdas3856
    @anubhabdas3856 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you sir...your words are really helpfull

  • @ariensabuj7484
    @ariensabuj7484 4 роки тому +6

    Super practical advice....... Love it. Helpful for me.

  • @bhoopendrasingh675
    @bhoopendrasingh675 3 роки тому +1

    Sir... you are great for million minds .... I Salute ....

  • @ADVOCATECALCUTTA
    @ADVOCATECALCUTTA 2 роки тому

    You are a true Lerarned Person, Salue to you Sir ji.....

  • @livinglife700
    @livinglife700 4 роки тому +2

    Sir you are all rounder having enriched knowledge of so many subjects, m inspired from you 🙏🙏

  • @prateekshasrivastava7320
    @prateekshasrivastava7320 Рік тому

    Thank you for such great advice.

  • @AbhiSharma-il9nj
    @AbhiSharma-il9nj 4 роки тому +7

    Awesome sir... Am your big fan. I also want to achieve a big success along with passion like you.

  • @sumitpawankumar585
    @sumitpawankumar585 4 роки тому +26

    Sir please make a video on the topic
    How to stay cool and calm like you are.
    How to tackle low phases or when we are mentally disturbed. Jai hind!!

  • @meghabhagat4972
    @meghabhagat4972 4 роки тому +11

    Thank you Master ..really needed session 💕💕❤❤❤

  • @ramsaravana
    @ramsaravana 4 роки тому +4

    Thank you so much sir... Just wanted someone to guide me through this same problem.. I will make best out of your guidance sir.

  • @ajaykumar5775
    @ajaykumar5775 4 роки тому

    Sari baate logical h aapki I respect your sessions with my heart and soul

  • @Mainak_Sarkar
    @Mainak_Sarkar 4 роки тому +16

    Beautiful ❤️

  • @pankajpandey893
    @pankajpandey893 3 роки тому

    Sit thankyou so much. I m suffered. I will use this. Thankyou sir ❤❤

  • @vasudhasinha7902
    @vasudhasinha7902 3 роки тому

    Thank you sir for explaining about this issue.

  • @arbinddeogam1170
    @arbinddeogam1170 2 роки тому

    Very helpful Sir, thank you very much

  • @nishantsinghal6832
    @nishantsinghal6832 4 роки тому +28

    Sir how to tackle these Toxic people when they become bullies? And start influencing through external medium also, because if we stop responding, they resort to other tactics

    • @niyasatali4801
      @niyasatali4801 3 роки тому +6

      Bhai Bully ka sirf ek hi ilaz h tum bhi comments maro agar mental peace disturb hoti h tho phir police complaint kar do ........ya aysa nahi kar saktay tho tum bhi baar baar comments karo khul kar jo muh may aaye wahi daro mat ,tit for tat hi ek tarika h jaida se jaida kya hoga samnay Wala ladai karayga tum bhi maro kucch nahi hoga agar darogay tho wo tumhare sir par chad jayega baki tumhari marji.........

    • @nathanmanju5232
      @nathanmanju5232 3 роки тому +2

      U either fight verbally or physically I suggest physical fight if same gender

    • @OnlyPositiveVibes96
      @OnlyPositiveVibes96 3 роки тому +3

      @@nathanmanju5232 well if u r outnumbered to one and enemies r in thousands u have to take steps patiently. Becoz they have upper hand, u have to wait for right moment to show who's the real gangsta.

    • @shashikantpatel281
      @shashikantpatel281 2 роки тому

      First give them warning and if they don't listen then lodge an FIR with police with evidence

  • @RISHABHKUMAR-us5ez
    @RISHABHKUMAR-us5ez 4 роки тому +1

    sir mere college me ase bhot se toxic collegue he aur batchmates jo irritate karte he mujhe aur mere se jalte he ..sir thank you for this video . i will follow your words..thank you sir.. this video is helpful..

  • @Changeownworldbyfindingoneself
    @Changeownworldbyfindingoneself 2 роки тому

    Wow.. We youth need u sir.. Love u so much. . Today i have found your channel. So sweet. You are Great . Jai hind sir.

  • @BVMore
    @BVMore 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you sir for this lesson. I am also facing this problem. Jay hind

  • @amaanalikhan9450
    @amaanalikhan9450 2 роки тому +1

    thanks a lot sir👏👏

  • @romimall6330
    @romimall6330 4 роки тому

    Very gud tactics..i have tried both n they have always worked

  • @dr.sweetsharma7552
    @dr.sweetsharma7552 3 роки тому +5

    Yes be strong ...psychologically❤️❤️

  • @anjalmahi111
    @anjalmahi111 3 роки тому +1

    Really thanks for this video sir
    After watching this video i feel calm and compose.
    Amazing video sir 👌

  • @sumanpreet4081
    @sumanpreet4081 3 роки тому

    Gaurav sir thank you so much for guide me .I need this today.

  • @beinspire4600
    @beinspire4600 4 роки тому +2

    Awesome sir thanks for always guide us

  • @manjeetkhurana2183
    @manjeetkhurana2183 2 роки тому

    thank you sir for such lovely explanation

  • @ignitingmindzz453
    @ignitingmindzz453 2 роки тому

    I am really impressed. I will do it

  • @aovhal8200
    @aovhal8200 2 роки тому

    Thank you sir...it will really helpful for me. 🙂🙂

  • @sanjaysamuel2293
    @sanjaysamuel2293 3 роки тому

    Cheers Gaurav. Good knowledge which I shall try to emulate. God bless you and your family.

  • @birjukumar1447
    @birjukumar1447 4 роки тому

    But salute h apko. Itna kuchh apne achieve Kiya iss life me

  • @OldSoul90s
    @OldSoul90s 3 роки тому

    Thank you sir,I was recently thinking about this and your video came,i'll try this in my life🙏🙏

  • @ubuntu5776
    @ubuntu5776 3 роки тому +10

    In my case he is my DAD itself...its really tough😞😔

    • @dreamit4278
      @dreamit4278 3 роки тому +2

      i think its very painful sister 🙏🙏dad kese kr skte h yesa yar

    • @KapilYadav-hv3mj
      @KapilYadav-hv3mj 3 роки тому +6

      @@dreamit4278 sahi kah rahi h vo....mera baap bhi bahut sar dard aadmi h....kuch b krna chaho to esa bolta h kya collector lagega tu...ab aap btao kya kare ese logo ka...

    • @satyajitsahoo5851
      @satyajitsahoo5851 3 роки тому +1

      I can feel same 😂

    • @smrutiranjanmohapatra5487
      @smrutiranjanmohapatra5487 3 роки тому

      Mine too

    • @hammadkhan9043
      @hammadkhan9043 3 роки тому

      in my case my hubby

  • @birjukumar1447
    @birjukumar1447 4 роки тому +6

    Sir mujhe to lagta main hi toxic people bn Gaya hu, bhut depressed hu sir, jeene ka bilkul Dill nhi h

  • @stylish469
    @stylish469 4 роки тому +3

    Wow sir I need this very strongly

  • @Ahmedmollasakil72
    @Ahmedmollasakil72 2 роки тому

    so beautiful VIDEO..AND VIDEO TOPIC IS SO GOOD💕💕....BIG FAN ALYWAS 🔥🔥❤️❤️..........…ALL VIDEO ARE SO NICE...

  • @liyagourh1157
    @liyagourh1157 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for the solution 🙏🙏

  • @adarshyadav1858
    @adarshyadav1858 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much sir, by seeing your video I got my ans...

  • @souravkumardutta7559
    @souravkumardutta7559 3 роки тому

    Thank you so Much @Gaurav Da. For such a video.

  • @rimadey321
    @rimadey321 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you sir

  • @studywithvibhu5013
    @studywithvibhu5013 4 роки тому +3

    Sir, Please arrange the new live interactive session in Delhi NCR also. We all are waiting to attend your session.
    Jai Hind

  • @godiseverything6139
    @godiseverything6139 4 роки тому

    Tq God.. aap in brother ke through mere saath baath karne ke liye tq.. sahi raah dhikane ke liye tq..
    Aapko bhi bahoth bahoth dhanvadh brother

  • @mahitalapatra4481
    @mahitalapatra4481 4 роки тому +14

    We all needed this video. Thank you sir.

  • @Kadedior
    @Kadedior 7 днів тому

    Remember if someone is jealous of you , understand you are successful

  • @YogeshKumar-ej6lx
    @YogeshKumar-ej6lx 4 роки тому +2

    Eye opening message

  • @anirbanhazarika3474
    @anirbanhazarika3474 4 роки тому

    Thank God mujhe aise toxic log nahi mile hai abhi tak. Jo log mere surrounding mei hai wo sab supportive hai

  • @jyotikadwivedi12
    @jyotikadwivedi12 2 роки тому

    much needed advice thank you bhaiya

  • @dbarman5286
    @dbarman5286 4 роки тому +4

    What a great session!....God bless you sir💓