Thank you a lot for making this video! You are the realest dude ever! I have experience with meditation. But most of my non dual experiences come from psychadelics. It helped me a lot with my depression. In that space I already realized we are all equal and there is no such thing as superiority or inferiority, but once I came back I still felt a lot of resistance towards this. Honestly it will probably come back again, but I feel like it will be easier. When I'm back to my daily life self, I still understand non duality a bit, but analyzing makes me feel like my brain is cooking, because of all of those paradoxes😂 During few last days I did some digging in my self and realized this has a lot to do with my trauma. I used to be surrounded by very judgmental and cruel people in my childhood. But when I think about it from today's perspective, all people in my life now are actually quite great. But I still project those insecurities. A lot of this was coused because I was unskilled, when it comes to setting boundries and some people took advantage of it. I was more afraid of this happening again then I was afraid of death so I started isolating.
Btw, when it comes to what I find superficial isn't really vanity or liking your self image. It's more like the status game and how it changes people. In school we had an autistic classmate and othes were making fun of him. He had a few meltdowns because of it. I kinda hated them for it, they only care about how their interactions affected their status in a group and making fun of him was considered ok. But I just couldn't comprihend how they can't see how much suffring he is in. If they were in different world where everyone is like him, maybe they would be alienated like him, they are just lucky, but they don't get it. Ignoring or cuasing because of this game we play, that's what I consider superficial. I know it's not their fault, I was only emphatic towards him because I went throgh something similar and others didn't. You are right it's technically not good or bad, it is just what is.
Most people have this deeply ingrained behavior of constantly believing in "survival of the fittest" and that life is about eating or being eaten. It takes a certain level of maturity - one that you can't expect from everyone - to overcome these primal instincts. I've always said that humans are half animal, half god, and we all have the potential to transcend our animalistic side or at least bring it into balance. But it is entirely enough to bring this side into balance within yourself. And if life wills it, your own balance will have a positive impact on your surroundings. However, if you haven’t found that balance within yourself, you cannot expect anything to change externally.
Please make a video on how to face the fear of death of the loved ones... Plz I need it urgently. My mom's in critical condition and my mind is going crazy...
On Death ..... Everyone has to die; so die as your true nature. Why die as a body? Never forget your true nature. It may not be acceptable to many, but it is a fact... this body has nothing to do with you. If you must have an ambition have the highest, so that at least while dying, you will be the Absolute. Decide that now firmly, with certainty and conviction. Giving up the body is a great festival. Death is generally considered to be a traumatic experience, but understand what happens. That which has been born, the knowledge 'I am' which is the same everywhere, but which has gotten itself limited by the body, again becomes unlimited. A speck of consciousness is given up. Why the fear? How has this fear of death crept in? That which cannot die somehow became convinced that it was going to die. It is based on the concept that one is an individual who is born... all the fear arises from mere words told to you by someone. This is the bondage. It is like someone gives you a drink and then tells you, "I have put poison in that drink, and in six months you will die.? Immediately you become very frightened because you think that you will die. But then you meet a friend and he tells you not to worry. He says, "Here, drink this and there will be no death for you. First there is one concept which fills you full of fright, and then there is another concept which negates the first concept. Like this you get involved with the flow of maya and there are concepts, ideas, creations... pain alternates with pleasure... but all of it is just ignorance and misery. It is only when you search for your Self that you become aware that it is all a fraud. Be still in your beingness. Then even it will disappear and you will merge in Truth. All that needs to be done is to find out your real source and take up headquarters there. From the Absolute standpoint, your beingness is only ignorance. Nothing comes and nothing goes; it is a mirage. All there is is the Absolute, all there is is the Truth. The witness of the consciousness never comes into the realm of the consciousness. When you pursue this spiritual path of understanding the Self, all your desires just drop off... even the primary desire... to be. When you stay put in the beingness for some time, that drops off. Then you are in the Absolute... there is no movement for you. You are minding the show. Consciousness extinguishes itself, knowingness disappears, and you, the Absolute remains. That is the moment of death. When this life force leaves the body, it will not seek permission from anything. It came spontaneously and will leave spontaneously. That is all that happens in what is called death. Death is the culmination of the experience 'I am'. After the termination of the 'I amness' there is no experience of knowingness or not knowingness. What did you know prior to your birth? Similarly, after death this instrument is missing; without the body there is no experience. Eternity has no birth and no death, but a temporary state has a beginning and an end. Even when the consciousness goes, you prevail - you always are - as the Absolute. As the consciousness you are everything that comes into manifestation. Whatever is, is you. But, when you fully understand the knowledge 'I am' and all its manifestations, then you will understand that, in truth, you are not that. You are the unlimited, which is not susceptible to the senses. By limiting yourself to the body you have closed yourself to the unlimited potential which you really are. Treat the body like a visitor or a guest, which has come and which will go. You must know your position as a host very clearly while it is still here, and while it is here you must also know what your position will be after it leaves. In spirituality there is no question of doing... only observing and understanding. But, if you try to understand spirituality through various concepts, like birth and rebirth, you will get caught up in them in a vicious cycle. And once you are caught up in them you are bound to have them. Out of concepts the forms are created. Right now, think of that last moment when the body will go - at that time with what identity are you going to quit? When you become aware of your true nature, then at the end of your life you will not be prepared to give even one paisa to extend your life. You will have lost all love for this manifested world and you will not want even this consciousness for five minutes more. The vital breath leaves the body, the 'I amness' recedes and goes to the Absolute. That is the greatest moment, the moment of immortality. The 'I amness' was there, the movement was there, and now it is extinguished. Being alive is never as an individual, but simply being part of the spontaneous manifestation. Now that has subsided in death. The ignorant one will struggle and get frightened at the moment of death; most reluctantly he will give up the consciousness to a concept he has come to call time. But the jnani gives up the beingness to his own true nature; for him it is the happiest of moments. 🌸Sri Nisargadatta maharaj.🌸
Dear One. Peace to You. May I suggest that you consider allowing what is. There Is No Death, your mother is leaving her body and moving on to the next chapter. Returning from which we come. A return to Love- Spirit❤ peace be with you
You poor thing…stay close to her. My husband died recently and you don’t get to go back and do it over. I was so concerned with his medication and vital signs and I should have just stayed close and held him. Take it from one that did it. 💕🕊️
Truely, the comparisant is what hurts us… if you walk in a “rich man’s” shoe (in your mind the things he got compare to you), after seeing his sufferings, you are glad you’re not him.. I just go with ascendor notion thàt it’s already complete….. the chasing for enlightenment is insanity in itself… truely…
Can u plss explain me whether or not manifestation is a hurdle in the spiritual awakening, i mean many gurus claim that ,can u please explain relation of manifestation and spirituality
I believe that when there’s a will to manifest something, it often stems from a deep, subconscious belief that things as they are right now are not enough. This puts you in a state of lack, and by operating from this feeling of lack, you inevitably attract more lack into your life because you’re constantly living in the energy of 'not enough.' On the other hand, if you can recognize here and now that what you already have is enough, you shift into a state of abundance. And it’s from this feeling of abundance that even more abundance will naturally flow into your life. That’s how I see manifestation.
@mattusstiller37 I have this issue and what I noticed is that you are still acting out of narcissistic pride by comparing yourself to others even if you come out as inferior, not only superior. Comparison comes from conceit and selfishness, from comparison come ideas of inferiority and superiority or of being equal
Excellent, thank you, this is so important.
❤rest in your being , be comfortable with who you!! ... will solve everything 😊 thank you . Thank you. God bless 🙏🙏🙏❤
Legit, no one is better than anyone else. It's all the same consciousness
Thank you as always 🙏❤️
Thanks Ascendor, you are amazing ❤
Thank you a lot for making this video! You are the realest dude ever!
I have experience with meditation. But most of my non dual experiences come from psychadelics. It helped me a lot with my depression. In that space I already realized we are all equal and there is no such thing as superiority or inferiority, but once I came back I still felt a lot of resistance towards this. Honestly it will probably come back again, but I feel like it will be easier. When I'm back to my daily life self, I still understand non duality a bit, but analyzing makes me feel like my brain is cooking, because of all of those paradoxes😂
During few last days I did some digging in my self and realized this has a lot to do with my trauma. I used to be surrounded by very judgmental and cruel people in my childhood. But when I think about it from today's perspective, all people in my life now are actually quite great. But I still project those insecurities. A lot of this was coused because I was unskilled, when it comes to setting boundries and some people took advantage of it. I was more afraid of this happening again then I was afraid of death so I started isolating.
Btw, when it comes to what I find superficial isn't really vanity or liking your self image. It's more like the status game and how it changes people. In school we had an autistic classmate and othes were making fun of him. He had a few meltdowns because of it. I kinda hated them for it, they only care about how their interactions affected their status in a group and making fun of him was considered ok. But I just couldn't comprihend how they can't see how much suffring he is in. If they were in different world where everyone is like him, maybe they would be alienated like him, they are just lucky, but they don't get it. Ignoring or cuasing because of this game we play, that's what I consider superficial. I know it's not their fault, I was only emphatic towards him because I went throgh something similar and others didn't. You are right it's technically not good or bad, it is just what is.
Wow man I relate with everything you said. Im in the exact same process fr
Most people have this deeply ingrained behavior of constantly believing in "survival of the fittest" and that life is about eating or being eaten. It takes a certain level of maturity - one that you can't expect from everyone - to overcome these primal instincts. I've always said that humans are half animal, half god, and we all have the potential to transcend our animalistic side or at least bring it into balance.
But it is entirely enough to bring this side into balance within yourself. And if life wills it, your own balance will have a positive impact on your surroundings. However, if you haven’t found that balance within yourself, you cannot expect anything to change externally.
Thank you 🙏 ❤
🦋🕊🙏
Great talk! 🕊️
Please make a video on how to face the fear of death of the loved ones... Plz I need it urgently. My mom's in critical condition and my mind is going crazy...
On Death .....
Everyone has to die; so die as your true nature. Why die as a body? Never forget your true nature. It may not be acceptable to many, but it is a fact... this body has nothing to do with you. If you must have an ambition have the highest, so that at least while dying, you will be the Absolute. Decide that now firmly, with certainty and conviction.
Giving up the body is a great festival. Death is generally considered to be a traumatic experience, but understand what happens. That which has been born, the knowledge 'I am' which is the same everywhere, but which has gotten itself limited by the body, again becomes unlimited. A speck of consciousness is given up.
Why the fear? How has this fear of death crept in? That which cannot die somehow became convinced that it was going to die. It is based on the concept that one is an individual who is born... all the fear arises from mere words told to you by someone. This is the bondage. It is like someone gives you a drink and then tells you, "I have put poison in that drink, and in six months you will die.? Immediately you become very frightened because you think that you will die. But then you meet a friend and he tells you not to worry. He says, "Here, drink this and there will be no death for you. First there is one concept which fills you full of fright, and then there is another concept which negates the first concept.
Like this you get involved with the flow of maya and there are concepts, ideas, creations... pain alternates with pleasure... but all of it is just ignorance and misery. It is only when you search for your Self that you become aware that it is all a fraud.
Be still in your beingness. Then even it will disappear and you will merge in Truth. All that needs to be done is to find out your real source and take up headquarters there. From the Absolute standpoint, your beingness is only ignorance. Nothing comes and nothing goes; it is a mirage. All there is is the Absolute, all there is is the Truth. The witness of the consciousness never comes into the realm of the consciousness.
When you pursue this spiritual path of understanding the Self, all your desires just drop off... even the primary desire... to be. When you stay put in the beingness for some time, that drops off. Then you are in the Absolute... there is no movement for you. You are minding the show. Consciousness extinguishes itself, knowingness disappears, and you, the Absolute remains. That is the moment of death.
When this life force leaves the body, it will not seek permission from anything. It came spontaneously and will leave spontaneously. That is all that happens in what is called death. Death is the culmination of the experience 'I am'. After the termination of the 'I amness' there is no experience of knowingness or not knowingness. What did you know prior to your birth? Similarly, after death this instrument is missing; without the body there is no experience.
Eternity has no birth and no death, but a temporary state has a beginning and an end. Even when the consciousness goes, you prevail - you always are - as the Absolute. As the consciousness you are everything that comes into manifestation. Whatever is, is you. But, when you fully understand the knowledge 'I am' and all its manifestations, then you will understand that, in truth, you are not that. You are the unlimited, which is not susceptible to the senses.
By limiting yourself to the body you have closed yourself to the unlimited potential which you really are. Treat the body like a visitor or a guest, which has come and which will go. You must know your position as a host very clearly while it is still here, and while it is here you must also know what your position will be after it leaves. In spirituality there is no question of doing... only observing and understanding.
But, if you try to understand spirituality through various concepts, like birth and rebirth, you will get caught up in them in a vicious cycle. And once you are caught up in them you are bound to have them. Out of concepts the forms are created.
Right now, think of that last moment when the body will go - at that time with what identity are you going to quit? When you become aware of your true nature, then at the end of your life you will not be prepared to give even one paisa to extend your life. You will have lost all love for this manifested world and you will not want even this consciousness for five minutes more. The vital breath leaves the body, the 'I amness' recedes and goes to the Absolute. That is the greatest moment, the moment of immortality. The 'I amness' was there, the movement was there, and now it is extinguished. Being alive is never as an individual, but simply being part of the spontaneous manifestation. Now that has subsided in death.
The ignorant one will struggle and get frightened at the moment of death; most reluctantly he will give up the consciousness to a concept he has come to call time. But the jnani gives up the beingness to his own true nature; for him it is the happiest of moments.
🌸Sri Nisargadatta maharaj.🌸
Dear One. Peace to You. May I suggest that you consider allowing what is. There Is No Death, your mother is leaving her body and moving on to the next chapter. Returning from which we come. A return to Love- Spirit❤ peace be with you
She’s gonna die. All of us gonna die some day
Eventually
You poor thing…stay close to her. My husband died recently and you don’t get to go back and do it over. I was so concerned with his medication and vital signs and I should have just stayed close and held him. Take it from one that did it. 💕🕊️
Truely, the comparisant is what hurts us… if you walk in a “rich man’s” shoe (in your mind the things he got compare to you), after seeing his sufferings, you are glad you’re not him.. I just go with ascendor notion thàt it’s already complete….. the chasing for enlightenment is insanity in itself… truely…
Would love to have a cup of tea with you bro, thanks for you're talks from the other side of the world!
That would be amazing
thank you brother
💛
Yeah Ascendor don’t take things personally, not even that music band singing in the background 🎶🎵😄
@@YeseniaRamos-yf3rx 😂
Can u plss explain me whether or not manifestation is a hurdle in the spiritual awakening, i mean many gurus claim that ,can u please explain relation of manifestation and spirituality
I believe that when there’s a will to manifest something, it often stems from a deep, subconscious belief that things as they are right now are not enough. This puts you in a state of lack, and by operating from this feeling of lack, you inevitably attract more lack into your life because you’re constantly living in the energy of 'not enough.' On the other hand, if you can recognize here and now that what you already have is enough, you shift into a state of abundance. And it’s from this feeling of abundance that even more abundance will naturally flow into your life. That’s how I see manifestation.
Thanks for your help, i really appreciate it ♥️♥️🧡🧡💜💜@@ascendor.ascendor
A video with background music 👍🙏😊
@mattusstiller37 I have this issue and what I noticed is that you are still acting out of narcissistic pride by comparing yourself to others even if you come out as inferior, not only superior. Comparison comes from conceit and selfishness, from comparison come ideas of inferiority and superiority or of being equal
Activity of ego
It's a survival strategy
@@ascendor.ascendor among teenagers?