Right?? I'm glad someone else brought it up bc wtf? She was most likely SA'd and I'm guessing no one ever took her to therapy if she was still promiscuous ://
Was about to say that, also OP of the story never mentioned how old she was or her ex was but mentioned having to stop working so the sister could finish high school so she’s definitely older and by a few years it seems. Think OP might have to reconsider what really happened
1) They were at dad's house. She went to her mom's after. = Broken home 2) Dad was downstairs not paying attention at all, when a boy was over with his daughter/s. That piece of work was neglected and seeking ANYTHING to gain attention. And she learned early that putting out meant she could have a constant supply of boys/ man children. Not only did her family fail her, but society as well for churning out that quality of man in that supply.
Same. Haven't been cheated on but have had friends and family who have been. It absolutely disgusts me. If you aren't happy, say something. Don't go sleeping around on your partner. That is the lowest of lows as far as I am concerned. There is zero excuse for cheating. Its a choice, not an accident or a mental health symptom. Communication. Do it. Avoiding hard conversations is pathetic.
This. Even if you notice that you want to be with other people, too and still love your current partner, you can say that. Just talk to your partner and ask if they'd be ok with an open relationship. A surprisingly large amount of people is ok with that, as long as everyone stays honest and you make clear rules. And if that really doesn't work for both, just break up because neither of you will be happy in 50 years if you don't.
People cheat for all different reasons. There's no excuse but there's all sorts of reasons. Sometimes the reason is they lack principals. Sometimes people lack judgment & get into things without thinking. Some people are very self focused, they are the main character, other people don't matter as much. Sometimes people are even narcissistic & just don't care & will never care. Some people lack maturity & enjoy the rush. For some people it's a very toxic relationship where they are actually being abused but they don't know how to get out because getting away from an abuser can be hard, so they are looking for someone else to save them, or they just want to take back some control. Sometimes cheating is a form of self harm or self destruction, they know it's wrong, but the same as with substance addiction they keep doing it for some reason, possibly due to trauma, part of it might even be a desire to hate themselves even more. The reasons can be as individual as the people involved, so there's really not a one size fits all solution.
The absolute audacity of people to get mad at OP and his friends in story 6 for "not beleiving the woman" when it turned out she was lying about the a55ault... like, holy shít, women are capable of lying and this woman WAS ACTUALLY LYING, how is anyone in the wrong for VERIFYING an accusation?
Exactly the same thought. I’m a female and it surprises me everyday how people just blindly believe all females. Some of the worst, most conniving, deceitful, and manipulative people I know are other women. The number is staggering. If you’re a woman, you know exactly who comes to mind when you hear this, yet you’re expected to shout from the rooftops to believe all of us. Well I certainly don’t because I know too many who are terrible and have done things like that.
"buh-buh-buhlieve whamin!" lol youtube has shown poeple, oppresed or privileged will lie about assault. orion from the kwite drama or the dream gr00ming allegations. they were both proven false, orion even faked a ptsd diagnosis while the dream allegations went nowhere. dont believe an alleged victim blindly, dont defend the alleged bad person either. use youre brain and wait until both sides come out with a response before taking sides.
Dont love story 12 where he said that most, if not all, the times he did the thing with his wife it was when she was drunk out of her mind. That feels not great.
I (woman) was cleaning his pc (removing malwares etc with an app), when I found a sex chat app amongst all the files that needed to be checked. More investigations lead to uncovering his weird addiction to sexting and sending pics to other men online, even years before meeting me. To young bisexuals, do not enter a serious relationship if you haven't experienced life first and still need to figure out what you like. I hope he'll accept that part of himself instead of denying it like he was and won't "trap" a girl into marriage while still needing same sex excitement outside of the relationship.
My mom’s ex friend was cheating on her husband for a couple months when my mom finally told her husband/he found out(can’t remember exact details). Moms ex friend started basically going crazy and lied about everything, turned some of my moms friends against her, lied several times in court, and got custody of her kids unfortunately. Ex friends husband was super nice and deserved them way more than that crazy person.
I don't like to victim blame here but should have taken the hint from her first BF her sister stole. I mean unless she was just picking really bad guys through out her life maybe she is more sexually conservative than what her partners wanted, so they kept cheating on her for low hanging fruit.
I didn't think that you were harsh at all. You were right with all what you've said and thought. Hope the people who were cheated on, learn to know their own worth, set boundaries and let go of unhealthy relationships so that they can get strong and live a happy life with themselves and have great relationships.
Story 16 absolutely broke my heart. The husband sounds like the kind of husband I want to be one day, coming home after a 30 hour shift and still going and doing something extra for his wife… but then he found her in bed with another guy. I hope he’s doing better now
I was with my first husband for 19 years. He cheated several times, stole money, did drugs and I had enough. His constant abuse was enough to break me. I remarried and found out first hubby had borderline personality disorder. Our daughter I was raising, grew up and actively tried to ruin our lives before she was diagnosed with BPD. Luckily SHE decided to go no contact. Enjoying life with my second husband with the love of my life.
@@creaturwI don’t think having a threesome with 2 potheads is a way of “escaping”, it’s mentioned that she drunks regularly and had denied getting sober, so it’s wrong to assume he’s making her drink
overall i agree but i’d say this is a greyer area - he’s not forcing her to get drunk, but at the same time can she fully consent? not really, but maybe they’ve talked about this previously (some couples are fine w somnophilia, for example). but yeah i don’t LOVE that either.
@@creaturwwhile generally I agree, initiating sex with your wife while shes inebriated is wildly different than getting someone drunk to take advantage of them while they can't consent. Yes, technically both are situations where she's drunk, but you can't really tell me you fully believe that every instance of sex while drunk, even when married and with an established sex life, is rape
I'm so sorry that happened to you, that is heartbreaking and I hope you've got lovely people supporting you and can one day move on. your former friend and ex boyfriend are awful and you're way better off without them in your life as who needs liars, cheaters, and traitors around them? all the best to you, i hope things get better ❤
2:53 Sorry to break it to you, this was probably intentional. If the wife knew enough about PCs, she swapped the files and renamed it, and this is how she chose to tell her husband.
When I was in my 30's, an old friend of mine from high school came from work early. He walked in on his wife and best friend doing the nasty. He picked up his bf and threw him through the bedroom window. Good thing he lived in a one story house.
😂 I stayed & finished watching not because I am interested in this stuff, but for fun hearing the narrator's voice changing from a male voice to a female one, like in conversations. 😂
Am I missing something or did story 13 get mixed up at the end? They talk about "addiction" but there's no mention to substance use or anything. Unless the guy was addicted to sex I guess? I'm confused
i work night shift. one day i got off early to suprise my then, husband. i ended up being the suprised one... i found him in bed with a girl who was barley 18 (he was 31 and i was 27) his only reaction was "what the ---- are doing here" i ended up starting the process of divorce
They're married and she was conscious? Like yeah she's drunk, but in a situation where you're married and have an established sex life, idk it's way different to me than the scenario where you're getting someone drunk so that you can sleep with them once they're too far gone
Personal Story Got married in 2011 And while I'm not a perfect person, I get that I can be hard to deal with. Looking for a picture of our dog that I knew my wife had. Found pictures from a rendezvous she had with another man in the same hotel where we had our honeymoon not too far from our house. Stupidly stayed with her only to find out she was screwing around with another guy that could potentially be the father of my son. Suffice to say things got out of hand and by the end of 2017 we decided it was time to split. She made up some weird agreement saying that I would be out by April 1st from her family's home and when I did just that in the middle of a New York snowblind I got accused of abandoning my family. Moral of the story folks make sure you get mental exams not only on yourself but your spouse before you say I do. It may not always be needed but let's be real folks it's better to be safe than sorry.
An old friend of mine lost her fiancee very suddenly and tragically to a drug overdose. About a year later she told me that she had pretty much lost her sex drive after his death, but now it was returning. She said she really wasn't ready for a new relationship, but wanted a friend with benefits. I told her to go for it. Then she told me she wanted to be with a married man because she really didn't want any commitment. I tried to talk her out of it. I pointed out all the bad things that could happen to her, including getting beat up or shot. She ignored me. Then she said she wanted to be with a black man because she liked the way black and white people's skin moved when they did the deed. She is white. That was too much for me. We weren't friends after that. A couple of weeks later I saw a black man driving her car while she rode in the passenger seat.
If you get cheated on, that tells nothing about you, it’s not because of you, it’s always about the cheater, no matter what they may say. You are still as worthy and lovable as you were before. Dont get gaslighted into guilt that is not yours. If youre the cheater, you have low self-esteem and seek out even brief acceptance and validation, but cheating will never get you better self-esteem, quite the opposite, cheating can become a coping mechanism, a vicious cycle starts. Dont exchange short term joy for long term happiness, it’s just not worth it. Happiness cant come outside of you, learning to love yourself is really big part of it. Be a good person and do your best, that’s important.
I got a gut feeling one day when I was like 19 to get up and go across town. I got up got on the bus….low and behold I see my “boyfriend” with his ex pushing her kid in the stroller. 🤦🏾♀️😂 I sure did get off the bus and confront him. He didn’t talk just looked at me stupid. Smh.
ITS NOT AN ADDICTION ! It’s a choice and I speak from experience. I was a heavy drinker for decades because I preferred being a drunk to being mentally ill. One day fed up with my abusive functioning alcoholic boyfriend who would also snort Albion I said no more. Continued going to bars, softball games and alcohol was still in the house. Never even wanted to drink. It’s been years and I only have had one drink since then to placate my father who was. Serving a special bottle of wine.
I'm gonna go ahead and take that last story as,, she and her husband are actually both into it and she told him quickly after, and he is totally good with it bc they both find it exciting.
It's never by accident. He doesn't even try to hide it. Please share a computer and it's always there in his emails to easily find. Last night he left his phone and accidentally took mine and didn't even bother trying to come home to switch them. It was all right there an email account that he has given me his username and passwords to. I deserve so much better than this.
Whoa wait a minute.... people are calling him a jerk for not believing the woman who was proven a liar? And nobody is creeped out by how dystopian that is?
i think it was not believing immediatly, not after she was proven. its implied, although it is very disturbing. search up "kwite drama", its about a trans guy called orion who kwite, a big youtuber used to know accused him of being transphobic and r4ping him. this was later proven to all be bullshit. none of the story was true, but many people supported orion at first, and some apparantly still support him.
Could people please stop calling everybody who's a bad person a narcissist? Narcissist doesn't equal bad person or abuser. Narcissism is a diagnosis and often comes from extreme abuse. You're demonizing an already very demonized disorder by constantly conflating a diagnosis with "bad person". I say this as an abuse victim, btw.
@yasumi3258narcissist is a person diagnosed with that disorder. Having traits of narcissism doesn’t make you a narcissist. The diagnosis does. People started calling everyone narcissist because they think it means “it was all their fault, I didn’t do a single thing wrong”. And if you take that given definition, and apply it to the situations where it’s thrown around carelessly, you’ll see that it’s a perfect fit. It has no bearing on the medical term, and is more of a character attack, without any examples listed. You’ll never see any example of those traits you mentioned. Because it isn’t meant in that way, it’s more of a self defense.
@@Vaga-BardWhile I get the point you're going for, you're wrong. "Narcissist" refers to someone who thinks extremely highly of themselves, to an excessive and often unrealistic degree. Meaning, even when they do something wrong, its usually overly rationalized and hence more likely for them to not pay as big attention to other people's feelings on their actions. Narcissistic personality disorder comes from that word, not the other way around, it did not originally develop as a medical term.
She went through my phone and found out I did it with another girl, she also found out this second girl recorded a secret adult vid of me and her, my ex”s older brother was on the adult site and he found it :/, I still think I did nothing wrong, this was in early 10th grade aka October 2023
I was a bit surprised to see closely women on the channel, but it is Reddit and Red users are mostly men. I wouldn’t take a UA-cam video as an accurate representation of how many dudes cheat versus chicks.
Literally anyone who says a single bad word about a woman summons a woman who’s only goal in life is to find reasons to blame men. Every . Single . Time. Y’all just cannot accept criticism ever. You have to shift the blame anyway you can. This isn’t about men or women. Don’t need to run away. Just listen. That’s all.
@@Vaga-Bard exactly I think that most people realize that. But I noticed that gender politics is so huge on the Internet that huge chunk of women and men take people of their gender, doing bad things and being criticized for it as a representation of everyone. It’s ridiculous. It’s like everything on the Internet now needs to disclaimer that men/women also do it.
Story 6: Wait wait wait... she had absolutely _zero_ evidence that she was assaulted... in _his_ bed... only _after_ she was ostracized by their friend group, rather than _immediately_ upon having been found out (like you'd expect an _actual_ victim to do)... and commenters were complaining that OP didn't believe _her?!_ This is why False Accusers need to go to jail _every. single. time._ it can be proven that the accusations were false: without any punishment, liars have no reason _not_ to lie. With potential for punishment of lies, people would think "would they really risk jail time to lie about this?"
@@agelesssea7109 14% of lesbian relationships get devorced, but just 7% gay couples and something funny when i search for the statistic in English, its 13% fermals cheat and 20% male cheat, but when i search in my language its 33% of females cheat but just 27% of males and also females are mostly instantly in a new relationships cuz they often got a spare dude they had on hold but so far i only saw females cheating in my surroundings, but im also a male ( that never cheated but also had a cheating girlfriend in the past ) also seen statistics about it on the TV that says similar things a long while ago when i still used to watch TV but the biggest thing i learned about females is that they always blame it on they guy when they cheat, like "aww you didnt gave me enough attention so i sucked 100 dicks" also also females are thinking emotional and not rational, they dont think about the consequence most of the time so you think im referencing that from just one youtube video? do you think that i discovered that females exist just now? ... but time to watch some cheater compilations here on youtube, has been a while now aaaaand have a nice day anyway C:
i just wrote such a long text and then its just gone? -.- not writing it again but it was along the lines search in English for the statistic its 20% men and 13% female search in my language its 33% females and 27% man and when referring to lesbian couples 17% of them divorce but just 7% gay couple EDIT: lol its even in my comment history! i bet its some aprovement crap... may it will popup soon
You are one of the only ones left who dont reupload rampantly, please never change your ways
Yessssssss
he posts a lot, and that's normal.
Story 14: there's something going on if the sister was sexually active since 12.
Right? Like jfc
yup she needed therapy but the parents clearly failed her
Right?? I'm glad someone else brought it up bc wtf? She was most likely SA'd and I'm guessing no one ever took her to therapy if she was still promiscuous ://
Was about to say that, also OP of the story never mentioned how old she was or her ex was but mentioned having to stop working so the sister could finish high school so she’s definitely older and by a few years it seems. Think OP might have to reconsider what really happened
1) They were at dad's house. She went to her mom's after. = Broken home
2) Dad was downstairs not paying attention at all, when a boy was over with his daughter/s.
That piece of work was neglected and seeking ANYTHING to gain attention. And she learned early that putting out meant she could have a constant supply of boys/ man children. Not only did her family fail her, but society as well for churning out that quality of man in that supply.
Same. Haven't been cheated on but have had friends and family who have been. It absolutely disgusts me. If you aren't happy, say something. Don't go sleeping around on your partner. That is the lowest of lows as far as I am concerned. There is zero excuse for cheating. Its a choice, not an accident or a mental health symptom. Communication. Do it. Avoiding hard conversations is pathetic.
This. Even if you notice that you want to be with other people, too and still love your current partner, you can say that. Just talk to your partner and ask if they'd be ok with an open relationship. A surprisingly large amount of people is ok with that, as long as everyone stays honest and you make clear rules. And if that really doesn't work for both, just break up because neither of you will be happy in 50 years if you don't.
People cheat for all different reasons. There's no excuse but there's all sorts of reasons. Sometimes the reason is they lack principals. Sometimes people lack judgment & get into things without thinking. Some people are very self focused, they are the main character, other people don't matter as much. Sometimes people are even narcissistic & just don't care & will never care. Some people lack maturity & enjoy the rush. For some people it's a very toxic relationship where they are actually being abused but they don't know how to get out because getting away from an abuser can be hard, so they are looking for someone else to save them, or they just want to take back some control. Sometimes cheating is a form of self harm or self destruction, they know it's wrong, but the same as with substance addiction they keep doing it for some reason, possibly due to trauma, part of it might even be a desire to hate themselves even more. The reasons can be as individual as the people involved, so there's really not a one size fits all solution.
Lmfao you don’t have any idea if you’ve ever been cheated on🤣😹😭
OP from story 14 did not deserve all that shit, and the niece didn't and doesn't deserve to be neglected. Someone call CPS.
The absolute audacity of people to get mad at OP and his friends in story 6 for "not beleiving the woman" when it turned out she was lying about the a55ault... like, holy shít, women are capable of lying and this woman WAS ACTUALLY LYING, how is anyone in the wrong for VERIFYING an accusation?
Good to see sane people on this site on occasion
Exactly the same thought. I’m a female and it surprises me everyday how people just blindly believe all females. Some of the worst, most conniving, deceitful, and manipulative people I know are other women. The number is staggering. If you’re a woman, you know exactly who comes to mind when you hear this, yet you’re expected to shout from the rooftops to believe all of us. Well I certainly don’t because I know too many who are terrible and have done things like that.
"buh-buh-buhlieve whamin!" lol youtube has shown poeple, oppresed or privileged will lie about assault. orion from the kwite drama or the dream gr00ming allegations. they were both proven false, orion even faked a ptsd diagnosis while the dream allegations went nowhere. dont believe an alleged victim blindly, dont defend the alleged bad person either. use youre brain and wait until both sides come out with a response before taking sides.
Lying about being insulted is disgusting. Cheating is bad enough, but to lie about that.
Dont love story 12 where he said that most, if not all, the times he did the thing with his wife it was when she was drunk out of her mind. That feels not great.
Glad someone else noticed that.
@@horseluver4ever623I was also uncomfortable
agreed
That was probably her usual state. 🤷🏻♀️
@@amyd2203 Doesn’t make it ok
I (woman) was cleaning his pc (removing malwares etc with an app), when I found a sex chat app amongst all the files that needed to be checked. More investigations lead to uncovering his weird addiction to sexting and sending pics to other men online, even years before meeting me.
To young bisexuals, do not enter a serious relationship if you haven't experienced life first and still need to figure out what you like.
I hope he'll accept that part of himself instead of denying it like he was and won't "trap" a girl into marriage while still needing same sex excitement outside of the relationship.
My mom’s ex friend was cheating on her husband for a couple months when my mom finally told her husband/he found out(can’t remember exact details). Moms ex friend started basically going crazy and lied about everything, turned some of my moms friends against her, lied several times in court, and got custody of her kids unfortunately. Ex friends husband was super nice and deserved them way more than that crazy person.
Sorry when I says her husband I mean ex friends husband, not my moms
I can tell your mom had no man or genuine friends in her life shes a disgusting person who desperately wanted her friends husband
Story 14...it took WAY too long for OP to temove her sister from her life and it sounds like OP pick bad partners
Some people are just really unlucky. And some people, like me, are too forgiving.
Way too long but she is now at a good place with that witch out of her life.
I don't like to victim blame here but should have taken the hint from her first BF her sister stole. I mean unless she was just picking really bad guys through out her life maybe she is more sexually conservative than what her partners wanted, so they kept cheating on her for low hanging fruit.
I didn't think that you were harsh at all. You were right with all what you've said and thought. Hope the people who were cheated on, learn to know their own worth, set boundaries and let go of unhealthy relationships so that they can get strong and live a happy life with themselves and have great relationships.
At least the office guy had a slam dunk for a divorce - damn.
Story 16 absolutely broke my heart. The husband sounds like the kind of husband I want to be one day, coming home after a 30 hour shift and still going and doing something extra for his wife… but then he found her in bed with another guy. I hope he’s doing better now
Idc if that’s my sister! Bye bye! That’s not how a sister is suppose to act.
She belongs to the streets
I was with my first husband for 19 years. He cheated several times, stole money, did drugs and I had enough. His constant abuse was enough to break me. I remarried and found out first hubby had borderline personality disorder. Our daughter I was raising, grew up and actively tried to ruin our lives before she was diagnosed with BPD. Luckily SHE decided to go no contact. Enjoying life with my second husband with the love of my life.
8:39 That’s the most casual mention of marital rape I’ve ever heard.
Glad I'm not the only one who noticed. This is possibly the only time I'll accept cheating, he's abvsing her and she's trying to escape.
@@creaturwI don’t think having a threesome with 2 potheads is a way of “escaping”, it’s mentioned that she drunks regularly and had denied getting sober, so it’s wrong to assume he’s making her drink
@@victorhopewave I didn't say he's making her drink, but doing it with her while she's drunk is r-pe
overall i agree but i’d say this is a greyer area - he’s not forcing her to get drunk, but at the same time can she fully consent? not really, but maybe they’ve talked about this previously (some couples are fine w somnophilia, for example). but yeah i don’t LOVE that either.
@@creaturwwhile generally I agree, initiating sex with your wife while shes inebriated is wildly different than getting someone drunk to take advantage of them while they can't consent. Yes, technically both are situations where she's drunk, but you can't really tell me you fully believe that every instance of sex while drunk, even when married and with an established sex life, is rape
“Fair enough. Not fair enough! It’s stupid!”😂
Harshness is necessary at times.
"he kicked her out and continued playing [xbox]" 😂😂. I just picture the other dude still there, OP is like you wanna join? ranked leagues?
My best friend slept with my last boyfriend. Still messed up to this day. I don’t talk to them anymore though.
I'm so sorry that happened to you, that is heartbreaking and I hope you've got lovely people supporting you and can one day move on.
your former friend and ex boyfriend are awful and you're way better off without them in your life as who needs liars, cheaters, and traitors around them?
all the best to you, i hope things get better ❤
YAAAY! Seriously, I am a huge undersparked fan. I love your content!!!
He dose have some pretty damn good/ Bengal videos
2:53 Sorry to break it to you, this was probably intentional. If the wife knew enough about PCs, she swapped the files and renamed it, and this is how she chose to tell her husband.
when your partner says chick fil a called her in for work but its sunday
I feel the same way. I hate cheating as well. I’ve never cheated but I’m still single as a Pringle. Idek why. 🤷🏻♀️.
When I was in my 30's, an old friend of mine from high school came from work early. He walked in on his wife and best friend doing the nasty. He picked up his bf and threw him through the bedroom window. Good thing he lived in a one story house.
Yo start playing defense at this point. Your sister is like 8-0 on your relationships.
13:30 SHE SPIT ON THEM LMAOOOO
i love your content so much! keep it up 🤗
😂 I stayed & finished watching not because I am interested in this stuff, but for fun hearing the narrator's voice changing from a male voice to a female one, like in conversations. 😂
15:00 should have had a restraining order on your younger sister and niece. Go no contact.
The sister, yes. But the niece should've been taken away after the first time she got assaulted.
Hey man. Whats that snowboard my game you’re playing?
Please tell me.
What game is this?
Am I missing something or did story 13 get mixed up at the end? They talk about "addiction" but there's no mention to substance use or anything. Unless the guy was addicted to sex I guess? I'm confused
She lied about being assaulted, but the guy is an asshole for not believing her at first?😂 western women are gems. 😂😂😂
i work night shift. one day i got off early to suprise my then, husband. i ended up being the suprised one... i found him in bed with a girl who was barley 18 (he was 31 and i was 27) his only reaction was "what the ---- are doing here" i ended up starting the process of divorce
People are living real life Jerry Springer shows.
Story 12: Is definitely sexual assault/rape if he has sex with her when she’s drunk
Agreed she was drunk at the time and was vulnerable to anything.
I doubt that. She was probably always drunk as a way of life.
@@amyd2203 I’m sorry but even if being drunk is her default you’re not supposed to do it anyway.
@@amyd2203 That…that’s worse. You do realize how that’s worse…right?
They're married and she was conscious? Like yeah she's drunk, but in a situation where you're married and have an established sex life, idk it's way different to me than the scenario where you're getting someone drunk so that you can sleep with them once they're too far gone
Personal Story
Got married in 2011
And while I'm not a perfect person, I get that I can be hard to deal with. Looking for a picture of our dog that I knew my wife had. Found pictures from a rendezvous she had with another man in the same hotel where we had our honeymoon not too far from our house.
Stupidly stayed with her only to find out she was screwing around with another guy that could potentially be the father of my son.
Suffice to say things got out of hand and by the end of 2017 we decided it was time to split. She made up some weird agreement saying that I would be out by April 1st from her family's home and when I did just that in the middle of a New York snowblind I got accused of abandoning my family.
Moral of the story folks make sure you get mental exams not only on yourself but your spouse before you say I do.
It may not always be needed but let's be real folks it's better to be safe than sorry.
Addiction is a disease yes, but made my choice when it comes to trying a substance that the world has taught you is addictive .
An old friend of mine lost her fiancee very suddenly and tragically to a drug overdose. About a year later she told me that she had pretty much lost her sex drive after his death, but now it was returning. She said she really wasn't ready for a new relationship, but wanted a friend with benefits. I told her to go for it. Then she told me she wanted to be with a married man because she really didn't want any commitment. I tried to talk her out of it. I pointed out all the bad things that could happen to her, including getting beat up or shot. She ignored me. Then she said she wanted to be with a black man because she liked the way black and white people's skin moved when they did the deed. She is white. That was too much for me. We weren't friends after that. A couple of weeks later I saw a black man driving her car while she rode in the passenger seat.
OP from story 14 is a doormat. She should learn to say no and cut contact with her sister.
If you get cheated on, that tells nothing about you, it’s not because of you, it’s always about the cheater, no matter what they may say. You are still as worthy and lovable as you were before. Dont get gaslighted into guilt that is not yours. If youre the cheater, you have low self-esteem and seek out even brief acceptance and validation, but cheating will never get you better self-esteem, quite the opposite, cheating can become a coping mechanism, a vicious cycle starts. Dont exchange short term joy for long term happiness, it’s just not worth it. Happiness cant come outside of you, learning to love yourself is really big part of it. Be a good person and do your best, that’s important.
@20:10 Actually.....I have relatives who've been in the military so, infidelity is sadly very common on both sides of the equation.
@8:40 I really hope they have some agreement, because if not that's literally assault..
Question: Why do cheaters take photos & videos of themselves in the act?
I got a gut feeling one day when I was like 19 to get up and go across town. I got up got on the bus….low and behold I see my “boyfriend” with his ex pushing her kid in the stroller. 🤦🏾♀️😂 I sure did get off the bus and confront him. He didn’t talk just looked at me stupid. Smh.
Story 4...what an awful way to find out your spouse cheated 😢
ITS NOT AN ADDICTION ! It’s a choice and I speak from experience. I was a heavy drinker for decades because I preferred being a drunk to being mentally ill. One day fed up with my abusive functioning alcoholic boyfriend who would also snort Albion I said no more. Continued going to bars, softball games and alcohol was still in the house. Never even wanted to drink. It’s been years and I only have had one drink since then to placate my father who was. Serving a special bottle of wine.
I'm gonna go ahead and take that last story as,, she and her husband are actually both into it and she told him quickly after, and he is totally good with it bc they both find it exciting.
13:00 - that’s like 27 emails a day. So at least one an hour for four years.
Hi good ppl this’ll be sad lol😊 story 4 oof 😥
It's never by accident. He doesn't even try to hide it. Please share a computer and it's always there in his emails to easily find. Last night he left his phone and accidentally took mine and didn't even bother trying to come home to switch them. It was all right there an email account that he has given me his username and passwords to. I deserve so much better than this.
The show wasn't the same after Betty and Rue left. Side note, it's a shame Vicki and Carol never guested on The Golden Girls.
Damn this comp is more than 4 years old for sure.
Whats a pos? Like in the context of her pos boss?
4:47 covid stories?
Cheating "on" accident? "BY" accident. Even that's ambiguous in that phrase, but at least it's actual english.
The "on accident" refers to catching them, not the cheating.
Whoa wait a minute.... people are calling him a jerk for not believing the woman who was proven a liar? And nobody is creeped out by how dystopian that is?
i think it was not believing immediatly, not after she was proven. its implied, although it is very disturbing. search up "kwite drama", its about a trans guy called orion who kwite, a big youtuber used to know accused him of being transphobic and r4ping him. this was later proven to all be bullshit. none of the story was true, but many people supported orion at first, and some apparantly still support him.
What game is that?
Story 15: hell yeah, brother
cheating on accident? like, "sorry girl, but i accidentally slipped on a banana peal and fell on a d of your uncle"?
How many ads do you need
By accident, it’s by accident.
I have to stop watching these man, makes me feel like shit
Pov : youre wondering why there are so many spam comments here
Nah bro 6:39 guy is crazy
With that title I just want to know... Did they fall on each other??😂😂😂😂
Uh oh I just accidentally fucked this guy that just causally fell from the drawer
Not my fault
It refers to finding them on accident.
Story 1 is rough….
Brother should have spoken to his sister first.
Could people please stop calling everybody who's a bad person a narcissist? Narcissist doesn't equal bad person or abuser. Narcissism is a diagnosis and often comes from extreme abuse. You're demonizing an already very demonized disorder by constantly conflating a diagnosis with "bad person". I say this as an abuse victim, btw.
@yasumi3258narcissist is a person diagnosed with that disorder. Having traits of narcissism doesn’t make you a narcissist. The diagnosis does.
People started calling everyone narcissist because they think it means “it was all their fault, I didn’t do a single thing wrong”.
And if you take that given definition, and apply it to the situations where it’s thrown around carelessly, you’ll see that it’s a perfect fit. It has no bearing on the medical term, and is more of a character attack, without any examples listed. You’ll never see any example of those traits you mentioned. Because it isn’t meant in that way, it’s more of a self defense.
@@Vaga-BardWhile I get the point you're going for, you're wrong. "Narcissist" refers to someone who thinks extremely highly of themselves, to an excessive and often unrealistic degree. Meaning, even when they do something wrong, its usually overly rationalized and hence more likely for them to not pay as big attention to other people's feelings on their actions. Narcissistic personality disorder comes from that word, not the other way around, it did not originally develop as a medical term.
Story 14 damn 😟
This kind of thing makes me wonder why people don't just try polyamory
Ēww
😅 wow.
She went through my phone and found out I did it with another girl, she also found out this second girl recorded a secret adult vid of me and her, my ex”s older brother was on the adult site and he found it :/, I still think I did nothing wrong, this was in early 10th grade aka October 2023
Ēww
Hope I can dig deep on how many men can do infidelity too!
I was a bit surprised to see closely women on the channel, but it is Reddit and Red users are mostly men. I wouldn’t take a UA-cam video as an accurate representation of how many dudes cheat versus chicks.
Literally anyone who says a single bad word about a woman summons a woman who’s only goal in life is to find reasons to blame men.
Every . Single . Time.
Y’all just cannot accept criticism ever. You have to shift the blame anyway you can.
This isn’t about men or women. Don’t need to run away. Just listen. That’s all.
@@Vaga-Bard exactly I think that most people realize that. But I noticed that gender politics is so huge on the Internet that huge chunk of women and men take people of their gender, doing bad things and being criticized for it as a representation of everyone. It’s ridiculous. It’s like everything on the Internet now needs to disclaimer that men/women also do it.
@Vaga-Bard Lmao sounds like you are describing your own fellas. Mên can never take criticism and your reply is one of the prove of that.
Helloooo
Story 6:
Wait wait wait... she had absolutely _zero_ evidence that she was assaulted... in _his_ bed... only _after_ she was ostracized by their friend group, rather than _immediately_ upon having been found out (like you'd expect an _actual_ victim to do)... and commenters were complaining that OP didn't believe _her?!_
This is why False Accusers need to go to jail _every. single. time._ it can be proven that the accusations were false: without any punishment, liars have no reason _not_ to lie. With potential for punishment of lies, people would think "would they really risk jail time to lie about this?"
so mostly woman cheat
Very bad take away, I think it’s more accurate to say that mostly men on are reddit, and most men are straight.
If you would like a statistic on gender’s relation to cheating, please do not refer to a youtube video with very few cases.
So you take a handful of stories, including ones where the man cheats, and that's what you take away??? What the fuck?????
@@agelesssea7109 14% of lesbian relationships get devorced, but just 7% gay couples
and something funny when i search for the statistic in English, its 13% fermals cheat and 20% male cheat, but when i search in my language its 33% of females cheat but just 27% of males
and also females are mostly instantly in a new relationships cuz they often got a spare dude they had on hold
but so far i only saw females cheating in my surroundings, but im also a male ( that never cheated but also had a cheating girlfriend in the past )
also seen statistics about it on the TV that says similar things a long while ago when i still used to watch TV
but the biggest thing i learned about females is that they always blame it on they guy when they cheat, like "aww you didnt gave me enough attention so i sucked 100 dicks"
also also females are thinking emotional and not rational, they dont think about the consequence most of the time
so you think im referencing that from just one youtube video? do you think that i discovered that females exist just now?
... but time to watch some cheater compilations here on youtube, has been a while now
aaaaand have a nice day anyway C:
i just wrote such a long text and then its just gone? -.-
not writing it again but it was along the lines
search in English for the statistic its 20% men and 13% female
search in my language its 33% females and 27% man
and when referring to lesbian couples 17% of them divorce but just 7% gay couple
EDIT: lol its even in my comment history! i bet its some aprovement crap... may it will popup soon