Florence Ballard | Interview (1975) [Berry Gordy's Party]

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  • The founding member of The Supremes, Florence Ballard talks about signing the settlement(s) that allowed her to leave Motown and also names her lawyer.
    This is only a few minutes of 8 hours of interviews of Florence Ballard by author Peter Benjaminson who has written a new book on Flo released in 2008 entitled "The Lost Supreme: The Life of Dreamgirl Florence Ballard" which is heavily based on the interviews he recorded with her in 1975 only a few months before her untimely passing.
    Video cover art made by me.

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  • @annehamilton8190
    @annehamilton8190 11 років тому +45

    May you continue to rest in paradise, beautiful Ms. Florence Ballard.

    • @reealitychick
      @reealitychick 5 років тому +6

      I know Flo is in a place of good-- but how can one rest in peace when her babies that she left behind is struggling and the money THAT WOULD AND COULD BE A BIG HELP -- is owed to Flo and HER CHILDREN>>> ((estate))

  • @heartandsoul22
    @heartandsoul22 15 років тому +33

    Mary was there. She may have not given much since she didn't have much but In Flo's book, Flo said that Mary would always buy presents for the kids or whatever they needed. Mary also let Flo and her kids stay with her mother when she had no where to go. So Mary was there.

  • @TheeCoachg
    @TheeCoachg 7 років тому +49

    When you look at Marvin's story,the temptations,supremes and do many others...it just saddens me to see my ppl really get the first taste of fame and just be so driven to drugs,alcohol,heartbreak. All of them were so young and really were the first generation of commercially successful black artists...

    • @thankthelord4536
      @thankthelord4536 3 роки тому +2

      @Spanky Applegate we not talking about your ppl. This is OUR FIGHT. stay out of our yard.

    • @skip031890
      @skip031890 3 роки тому +2

      @@thankthelord4536 You're a racist.

    • @RVJEDI
      @RVJEDI 2 роки тому +1

      thanks the lord? not very Christian in your remarks. he said nothing wrong

  • @CherryBlossomskt
    @CherryBlossomskt 16 років тому +64

    It is a shame, diana really took advantage of the attention berry lavished on her. I wish she didn't use the power she had against mary and flo, that's the sad part.

    • @reealitychick
      @reealitychick 5 років тому +5

      isley---- yes--- that is what this whole shabang is about---- betrayal-- no trust-- backstabbing being cheated...... the truth--- and one had to die because of it..

    • @Vincent50
      @Vincent50 4 роки тому +6

      Isley Claymore sadly she was an insecure woman so if she did this to Flo and Mary u can only imagine how she was with her blood sisters. She was less attractive than her sisters and the skinny one.

    • @georginahawcroft8044
      @georginahawcroft8044 3 роки тому +13

      @@Vincent50 I agree florence ballard was far better looking and had a much better voice than Ross. Its criminal what her and Barry Gordy did to her 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡

    • @gracegreen1859
      @gracegreen1859 3 роки тому

      @@georginahawcroft8044 they weren't sisters. I think they meant her two real sisters.

    • @cravendubose8179
      @cravendubose8179 2 роки тому +6

      @@georginahawcroft8044 please tell me if Flo voice was so good why didn't she have a solo success?

  • @Vincent50
    @Vincent50 7 років тому +87

    To add, Mary asked Florence to come to Berry Gordy's party and folks never got the chance to see her since she was fired from the group. Flo hesitated but decided to go after Mary spoke with Berry's brother Fuller Gordy who also wanted to see Flo even though she was 7 months pregnant. Diana nor Berry didn't like the idea Mary brought Flo and that's when the crap started. This kind of tactic with Diana pulling on Flo's hair and never even talking to her after her dismissal, how would any of us feel if we were in Flo's shoes. Disrespect and again insulting tactics to this woman was uncalled for. May Florence Ballard RIP. Love you baby.

    • @DetroitLives313
      @DetroitLives313 6 років тому +22

      Don't forget that Diana had a hand in Florence's dismissal from the group. The group Florence started and named! Then Diana's boyfriend screwed Florence out of her earnings resulting in her raising her children on welfare while Diana sent hers to private boarding schools.................

    • @reealitychick
      @reealitychick 5 років тому +16

      @@DetroitLives313 Good observation for sure--- Flo came from poor beginnings and also was raped.. what bothers me is that Diana -- having known Flo went thru some very traumatic times -- kicked her when she was down-- That being - I really like Diana and her singing.. BUT I HAVE NO REPECT FOR WHAT SHE DID AND WHEN I LOOK AT THE TAPES AND KNOW--- I FEEL SO ASHAMED FOR HER--- DIANA '''YOU''' ARE LIVING A LIE!!!!!

    • @seeburgbob1
      @seeburgbob1 4 роки тому +15

      @@reealitychick I cannot stand Diana Ross or Berry Gordy because of the treatment that Florence got from the both of them. They will rot in hell for that.

    • @Tes7000
      @Tes7000 4 роки тому +9

      As was often the case between Florence and Diana, their interaction at that party might have been a misunderstanding. Perhaps Diana meant to playfully tug at Florence's hair, but Florence did not perceive her actions that way. And it just went downhill from there.
      Florence's instincts were right from the start. She should not have attended, especially if she had not communicated with Diana or Berry since her exit from the group.

    • @hollygab8188
      @hollygab8188 4 роки тому +3

      Flo was invited to a party at Gordy house by Mary and Fuller!??? She wasn't invited by Gordy! Come on. The year before she was getting drunk and starting fights with both other Supremes and Gordy. Yet she went to a party uninvited by the host that she had a bad relationship with? Get real. Why didn't Mary and Flo have a party and invite her there? This was so wrong. And then to be suprised by poor treatment? She was displaying poor manners for years when she was in the group because they wouldn't let her sing lead. She was already told Diana was leaving the group. Why didn't she just shut up and sing? So sick of all this Flo shit. SHE WAS A DRUNK!

  • @MajorMovieStar
    @MajorMovieStar 14 років тому +17

    Wow! She finally gets her say without anyone blackballing her. RIP Miss Ballard!

  • @theronedawson3236
    @theronedawson3236 6 років тому +21

    Now that was just down right ugly what Barry did to Flo at the party. Diana behavior was just shameful.

  • @californiagirl8547
    @californiagirl8547 8 років тому +33

    wow! florence went through some bullshit...

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  15 років тому +25

    Oh and what about DIANA.
    She clearly wasn't a FRIEND whether Flo tried to start something or not. Flo was very pregnant and it is highly unlikely she would be trying to get herself in any fights (plus she seemed to be having a decent time talking to people AND she was at Berry's place - Flo would have been on her best behaviour).
    If DIANA wanted the BEST for Flo, she would have ignored it and not said anything to Berry because she knew what Berry was like.

  • @DLFfitness1
    @DLFfitness1 3 роки тому +35

    When someone shows you who they are, believe them. Don’t keep coming back for more.

    • @sophisticatedmm3632
      @sophisticatedmm3632 3 роки тому +9

      Exactly I'm not going to subject myself to more insults, disrespect, or nasty attitudes once I see it.

    • @Jesus2theglory
      @Jesus2theglory 10 місяців тому +1

      Amen

  • @TheeCoachg
    @TheeCoachg 7 років тому +67

    We will NEVER see an accurate Motown portrayal of these mind games until Ross and Gordy die.

    • @SassyBratt1
      @SassyBratt1 6 років тому +7

      You mean "MOTOWN THE MUSICAL" ROTFLMAO!

    • @roberta.lofgrenjr.9182
      @roberta.lofgrenjr.9182 5 років тому +4

      @@SassyBratt1 I read your comment and I know what LMAO means but I don't know what ROTF means? Could you tell me if you read this post? Thanks,

    • @SassyBratt1
      @SassyBratt1 5 років тому +5

      ROLLING ON THE FLOOR....LAUGHING MY ASS OFF

    • @roberta.lofgrenjr.9182
      @roberta.lofgrenjr.9182 5 років тому +2

      @@SassyBratt1 Thank you. I had no idea what it meant. I knew what LMAO meant but not the other. Thanks again,

    • @SassyBratt1
      @SassyBratt1 5 років тому +3

      @Robert !. Lofgren Jr. Glad I could provide you with the answer to put it to rest for you. :-)

  • @davidrosemale3573
    @davidrosemale3573 3 роки тому +15

    A dam shame that Flo was disrespected and mistreated when she was the one who invented the name The Supremes. She grew up with Mary and Diana and Berry Gordy is a straight up jackass for what he did to Flo's life.

  • @rosettabosley5562
    @rosettabosley5562 4 роки тому +9

    Now! You all are finally getting the picture of Ross and Gordy. And, I Thank You.

  • @SassyBratt1
    @SassyBratt1 6 років тому +18

    Poor Florence! At least Mary had a conscience and stood by her. Diana was just acting like a skank power-tripping and shit disturbing. So pathetic! If I were Diana Ross's kids I would be asking her why she treated Florence so poorly. Terrible terrible!!!

  • @MiamiPush2theLimit
    @MiamiPush2theLimit 3 роки тому +9

    Diana pulled her hair and ran over and told Berry she was trying to start something. Berry threw out a 7 months pregnant woman. Evil, disgusting people.

  • @PMB827
    @PMB827 15 років тому +34

    Man, Berry Gordy just acted as if Diana was some kind of goddess who was the queen of all females. Florence and Mary could have had some solos... Diana had a small soft voice, Florence had the deep, rich, and strong but sweet voice, and Mary had a gentle and very sweet voice. Diana wasn't the only girl in the group. Am I right UA-cam?

    • @reealitychick
      @reealitychick 5 років тому +3

      hey pudgie--- right on!! that is why when they were doing --MOTOWN RETURNS TO THE APPOLLO'' pattie lebelle sang way over diana and got everyone hyped and singing-- she was magnificent-- and diana s voice could not be heard.. diana was like a background singer -- standing next to patti.. and the look on bg face was so funny.... now that is another one of the UNIVERSAL signs--- to diana-- karma at its bests.. what diana fought flo for-- and had her removed.. pattie labelle steps up and does it ... watch the tape...

    • @staecyvandeyar9162
      @staecyvandeyar9162 3 роки тому +1

      @Spanky Applegate
      BS read berry gordy book. When Diana went solo nobody bought tickets to her concert. Berry had to test hundred dollar bills in half and give it to people promising them that if they go to the concert they will get a whole hundred upon presenting the torn bill. U can buy a career. Anything shoved down the public's throat sells. Just like today it is the same damn five songs that keep getting rotated. Has nothing to do with talent . Have you ever heard of payola.

    • @staecyvandeyar9162
      @staecyvandeyar9162 3 роки тому +1

      @Spanky Applegate
      I didn't mean test I meant tear.

  • @Alvin4NY
    @Alvin4NY 14 років тому +10

    @Benny0Mag - Diana pulled the fall, (her wig-a piece of hair that attaches to your own hair) and Florence told her not to do it again. Diana then ran over to Berry, tattle-tale like, and Berry asked Florence to leave. (even though she was having a great time sitting and talking with Berry's brother Fuller..)

    • @reealitychick
      @reealitychick 5 років тому +4

      Alvin--- if you read the post of the other girl singers at Motown--- they all say that Diana was a pest and she would!!! go and run and tell BGordy everything on them>>>> and BGORdy -- being the small man that he is.... would react and tell them damage!!! A mature man would have ignored Diana and told her to settle her own battles...

    • @lawrencemalloy9673
      @lawrencemalloy9673 4 роки тому +1

      Because she knew Flo would kick her butt

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  15 років тому +28

    I NEVER said Flo should have been the MAIN LEAD singer of The Supremnes BUT she and Mary could SAAAANG and deserved at least one lead each on every album. Flo had a better voice and was more versatile than MANY that were out in her day and having hits. Flo could sing sweetly too to the point where she was making music reminiscent of Dionne Warwick's at times.
    Flo had charisma too - watch The Supremes sing I FEEL FINE (Flo is just as charasmatic as Diana there).

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  15 років тому +41

    OMG. I'm sorry but I have to disagree - I do think Flo made some bad decisions BUT other Motown acts have said Flo was fired unfairly.
    Flo was fired because she was seen as a threat. Berry had no time for someone in the group who wanted to be a solo artist except Diana - that's why he got Cindy as he could control her and she would be a "good girl".
    What I don't understand is why Berry had such hate for Flo =S - some have suspected Flo rejected him...

    • @georginahawcroft8044
      @georginahawcroft8044 3 роки тому +6

      Yes I've heard that too but good on Florence Ballard she didn't have to seduce men to get where she was before BG and DR did her wrong. And Motown owe it to her daughters to help them too. Florence Ballard didn't get much of BG anyway disgraceful

    • @tracywoodland904
      @tracywoodland904 2 роки тому +2

      Berry's EGO was the problem bcuz of who he was!

  • @JBomb517
    @JBomb517 4 роки тому +16

    You can't help but look at Florence when you watch them perform. She lit up the stage on her own. Yes, Mary and Diana are pretty, but Florence was the real beauty of the group. The best smile as well. I can see how she could have been taken as a threat. They should have given her something of her own to do THEN instead of kicking her out.

    • @chermainebigby5238
      @chermainebigby5238 Рік тому +2

      Very thick Great 👍

    • @pauliedidit
      @pauliedidit Рік тому

      😂

    • @malcolmmarshall5946
      @malcolmmarshall5946 Рік тому +1

      Florence was definitely eye-catching, and her sassy humour was another plus. She certainly had potential, possibly as an actress

    • @dannyboyd9462
      @dannyboyd9462 Рік тому +1

      Agreed. She deserved better than Motown. Just my opinion.

    • @pensiveczar2239
      @pensiveczar2239 2 місяці тому

      True. In every Supremes' performance featuring Flo, she captures and holds your attention. Yeah, you periodically glance at Diana for a moment, but then your gaze returns to Flo. That's the tragedy in all this. Flo possessed more innate talent and beauty than Diana; however, Diana's ambition and savvy in navigating the industry were unmatched. Aware of Flo's unique qualities, Diana and Berry did everything they could to stifle and break her down to prevent her from gaining recognition and opportunities.

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  15 років тому +28

    Well, Flo's lawyer foolishly allowed her to sign away her royalties as part of her release from Motown. If the lawyer was looking out for her best interest than instead of getting the one time settlement money her daughters would still get royalty cheques today, each time they release another Supremes compilation or feature a song in an advert

    • @roberta.lofgrenjr.9182
      @roberta.lofgrenjr.9182 5 років тому +2

      MeetTheSupremes, We know how many lawyers are right?

    • @Tes7000
      @Tes7000 4 роки тому +3

      I think the bigger problem was that Florence's lawyer stole the settlement Florence received from Motown. Florence very unwisely allowed the check to be given to her lawyer. After the settlement meeting, Florence and her husband got on a plane for Hawaii, leaving the check with the lawyer. When Florence returned, the lawyer had vanished.

    • @joshuamcdowell9745
      @joshuamcdowell9745 3 роки тому +5

      @@Tes7000 Florence sued her lawyer and won.

  • @Vincent50
    @Vincent50 15 років тому +41

    I read this in Mary's book. Flo was hated by Diana and Berry period. For Diana who haven't talked to Flo since she was let go, this was a ploy Berry put her up to. Insulting! Mary cried because she brought Flo to that party and it backfired. I guess she thought that Flo would be greeted nicely by Diana and Berry but she was further insulted. No wonder she went through her mental ups and downs while being in the group.

  • @TWTR4EVER
    @TWTR4EVER 13 років тому +11

    Diane Ross trampled THE SUPREMES to achieve her "solo career"

    • @reealitychick
      @reealitychick 5 років тому +2

      TWTR--- Diana was very young and Gordy did brainwash her into thinking she was THE ONE -- THE VOICE//$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ and how rich she was going to be... and that is the truth-- Gordy was 15 years older than these girls-- and he was dishonest . He now has over 400 million $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$.. what for??? he can't take it with him... and how many of the MOTOWN artists -- died broke>>>>because he cheated them out of their money? WE KNOW THIS BECAUSE THEY SPEAK TO THE PUBLIC ABOUT IT...

  • @heartandsoul22
    @heartandsoul22 15 років тому +12

    Berry and Diane played a part in it too. They wanted her out.

  • @maekae911
    @maekae911 4 роки тому +10

    I can't believe how rude this was. I don't think Florence would lie on tape about this when another Frmale artist said Diana did the same thing to her and Berry took Diana's.side. It seems like Diana just turned on her two best friends as soon as they became famous. She was invited into the group by them. Why would she go tell Berry and he jumped up to take her side. To him she was gold, but when she was offered a bigger and better Contract, she tossed him like a rag doll. She kept a connection for Child Support reasons.

  • @Rick-hx9fo
    @Rick-hx9fo 3 роки тому +18

    The final interviews Flo have in her words go hand in hand what Mary has written and said over the years. As talented as Diane is it was the late Flo And Mary who gave Diane her start by recruiting her. Gordy’s ego, infatuation of Diane and disrespect for the other two women is legendary. Karma tho...she ended up dumping him. SMH.

    • @lyndad5210
      @lyndad5210 2 роки тому +2

      They didn’t give Diana her start and they didn’t recruit Her. Paul Williams did.

    • @aintnothingliketheoldskool
      @aintnothingliketheoldskool Рік тому +1

      @@lyndad5210 exactly

    • @cravendubose8179
      @cravendubose8179 Рік тому +3

      Mary nor Flo gave DIANA nothing, DIANA helped put them on the map.

    • @malcolmmarshall5946
      @malcolmmarshall5946 Рік тому

      @EdTube1989 Actually Rob Cohen, Motown's Hollywood guru, ruined Diana's acting career, but yes, with Gordy's blessings. Hollywood talent scouts had recognized a potential for Lucille Ball/Carol Burnett type comedy in Diana and wanted her for some zany, goofball type comedy movies. Cohen rudely rebuffed them, saying that it was beneath Diana's dignity. Oops. Big mistake there. I think Diana had a natural gift for comedy.

    • @freddy8479
      @freddy8479 11 місяців тому

      @@malcolmmarshall5946
      Nope, we all know that Flo had that NATURAL COMEDIC GIFT, which would have ELEVATED her potential acting career, under the tutelage of THE GREAT LUCILLE BALL.

  • @legedaryone
    @legedaryone 15 років тому +24

    What you all fail to realize is that Berry was kinda obessed with Diana. He even admits it in his autobiography. Diana Ross was Berrry Gordy's gravy train and anyone who jepordized that was a huge problem. Even Diana's first husband became a casulty of Diana and Berrys relationship

  • @torch504
    @torch504 14 років тому +10

    the part i found funny was in mary book talking about this event....i laugh when she said " why she(diana) keep coming over here? If she come over here one more time i'ma kick her"..mary said diana got scared..lol

  • @tenamartinez9189
    @tenamartinez9189 3 роки тому +5

    This is so heart wrenching to hear I can only imagine how she felt we love u flo and mary

  • @Dakatari
    @Dakatari 3 роки тому +4

    Rest In Peace Beautiful Queen Florence Ballard

  • @heartandsoul22
    @heartandsoul22 15 років тому +17

    Yea it was Harvey who said Florence wouldn't be singing People. She was crushed and the whole Motown family was worried about it. In Mary's own words "How much more of the spotlight did Diane need?"

  • @Vincent50
    @Vincent50 15 років тому +4

    My fav Flo songs are too many to mention. Just hearing her singing her heart out was good enough for me. I enjoyed Mary too for it was a treat hearing them sing beside always Diana.

  • @rudieloraine
    @rudieloraine 13 років тому +7

    Berry created Motown, and we rejoice in that. But, he also threw A LOT of them under the bus. GREED. They suffered then and now because of their total committment to Motown and him, only to end up depressed, broke and dead. Kind of like working hard for someone and getting nothing in return. Sucks

  • @TWTR4EVER
    @TWTR4EVER 13 років тому +17

    @legedaryone Diane's Kennedy Center Award is a well deserved "political" reward as THE SUPREMES finally broke barriers in show business that many before only reached to!
    The Billboard Award again, THE SUPREMES hold all those records on sales and popularity, hers alone are adequate but not stellar!
    You can chose to jump in the bandwagon of her megalomania creation as most do but nonetheless she alone is not the catalyst of their success!
    She conned and manipulated her way into history!

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  15 років тому +13

    I didn't LOL - I don't even have the book. I have read some excerpts.
    One was about how at the Copa when Flo found out PEOPLE had been given to Diana, she got really upset and belted out PEOPLE acapella (the whole thing) in her dressing room and held the last note for ages - hailing loud applause from those who were around the dressing rooms LOL

    • @reealitychick
      @reealitychick 5 років тому +2

      WTG FLO----- AND WHO COULD BLAME HER---

  • @derrickrector1994
    @derrickrector1994 9 років тому +28

    Seems like Florence wasn't the one to be fucking around with.

    • @pensiveczar2239
      @pensiveczar2239 2 місяці тому

      Flo was Detroit. You could hear it in her tone; she'd get in that ass.

  • @SusanSingsSongs
    @SusanSingsSongs 15 років тому +19

    I believe a lot of instigating was going on..."she hates you, she;s jealous of you, she said this or that... and Florence was getting the sharp end of the stick because she consistently stood her ground. I am one of those people who always stands up for myself and I am constantly in trouble for it too LOL
    Florence was so beautiful and strong and I am so glad that I can still hear her through her solos and harmonies on record...so talented...thank you for sharing new friend:)

    • @cravendubose8179
      @cravendubose8179 2 роки тому +1

      Solos that never went nowhere, you're probably the only one that got one.

    • @aintnothingliketheoldskool
      @aintnothingliketheoldskool Рік тому

      ​​@@cravendubose8179why don't you be quiet you immature bully. And go back to being nasty and evil and cruel for a woman who will never give you the time of day or pay any attention to you.

  • @Vincent50
    @Vincent50 15 років тому +28

    I didn't mean to sound harsh or anything but I guess its because I love me some Flo Ballard and from a kid I was heart broken when she was let go from the group. It would be years before I'd hear anything about her and then she died, just like that. I know its an old story but she's a part of music history and I really enjoy listening to her work with the Supremes and her solo album.

  • @janetrobinson7143
    @janetrobinson7143 5 років тому +8

    I don't like the way that Berry and Diana treated Florence but the Bible says you reap what you sew

  • @TheInsaneBEAST1
    @TheInsaneBEAST1 Рік тому +3

    "And I'll never forget that for as long as I live"
    Sadly she passed a year after this interview

  • @cdubz265
    @cdubz265 Рік тому +3

    Flo had such a powerful and authoritative speaking voice like an Evangelist.

  • @TWTR4EVER
    @TWTR4EVER 13 років тому +9

    @legedaryone With THE SUPREMES, always!
    With Diane the backstabber, only the facts to bring her down a notch every time she over validates herself!
    "FOOLS GOLD"

  • @felicia0328
    @felicia0328 15 років тому +7

    it reminds me of the way Curtis treated Effie in Dreamgirls, after Deena was pushed out front. Their relationship was very loving and affectionate until he saw Deena as his ticket to success. It reminds me of certain Freudian defense mechanisms, like projection, distortion, and especially, displacement.

    • @mogamatyusufmartin9171
      @mogamatyusufmartin9171 9 місяців тому

      Dreams girl is based on their story it only ms Ballard had a happy ending like Jennifer Hudson's character

  • @hartzaire
    @hartzaire 12 років тому +8

    Diana Ross started it when she was pulling Florences Gown.

  • @rudieloraine
    @rudieloraine 13 років тому +5

    @Tgarland84 I think it's because she spoke up for herself. A lot of the artist just fell by the wayside and struggled without saying a word. It wasn't their faught, it was his greed for money.

  • @nkdillon3
    @nkdillon3 15 років тому +5

    People tend to forget that Flo had charisma too. Flo had the vocal ability to adapt her voice to whatever genre she needed to sing. Berry wasn't interested in that. He was only interested in Diana. Flo should have had at least one song every two albums. That would not have taken away the star power or lead singer image of Diana. Berry wanted her to have everything and he made sure of it. Unfortunately that was done at Flo and Mary's expense.

  • @Vincent50
    @Vincent50 15 років тому +5

    Whatever. Just like anything that has happened in history you'll hear the story over and over again. We're commenting for this is the first time any of us has heard Flo's side of the story regardless of how old it is.

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  15 років тому +4

    Well I guess it must be pretty bittersweet hearing those Supreme records and seeing those pictures...

  • @CIAJISABEAST
    @CIAJISABEAST 15 років тому +8

    If Flo whooped Diana's ass for pulling her fall then it wouldn't have been the first time she beat Diana's ass lol

    • @beautifulstranger7220
      @beautifulstranger7220 6 років тому +4

      TahjHope they fought in 1966 in a dress room after their performance. It took 3 people to get her off of Diana.

    • @JrG-gj7kb
      @JrG-gj7kb 5 років тому +1

      @@beautifulstranger7220 Where can I find this?

    • @roberta.lofgrenjr.9182
      @roberta.lofgrenjr.9182 5 років тому

      @@JrG-gj7kbI think Mary said it in her book "DREAMGIRLS MY LIFE AS A SUPREME".

    • @lawrencemalloy9673
      @lawrencemalloy9673 4 роки тому +1

      @@beautifulstranger7220 I knew it Flo could beat her butt and she was so pretty and BG and Diana knew that's why they was so jealous

    • @elijahmiddleton7870
      @elijahmiddleton7870 3 роки тому +1

      @@JrG-gj7kb it was on the Ed Sullivan show is 1966 during the my favorite things rehearsal Diana accidentally stepped on flo’s earring and flo thought she did it on purpose so they had a fight

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  15 років тому +9

    Please don't challenge me once more about the subject of Flo's children. Flo did NOT have sex with Berry - well we know for certain that she did n o t have his kids.
    HOWEVER, apparently Flo knew quite a bit of dirt on Berry and was writing an autobiography at the time of her death...

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  15 років тому +5

    I have thought that as well - Flo rejected him....

  • @DickyMoe1
    @DickyMoe1 14 років тому +10

    Hey,i remember posting about a year ago that Faith Evens would be a shoe in to play Flo in a movie.Alot of people agreed and posted similar things,Well,someone must have read it 'cause Miss Ballards daughters summond Miss Evans to the part.Looking forward to it.:^) Now,from past interviews let Miss Ballard tell her own story.Good job ladies & thank you....

    • @joshuamcdowell5782
      @joshuamcdowell5782 6 років тому +2

      Dicky Moe Grace Gealey from Empire could play her too

  • @juniebe4
    @juniebe4 9 років тому +12

    See it's hard for Black People to accept Fame, especially coming from humble beginning, So Flo should have went Ghetto on Diane ass, That was Childish for Diane to act that way, Flo is dead today, and she said as long as she live,she will never forget and today it's on tape,you tube, disc,whatever. To show you how we act stupid. and that's the past.

    • @SassyBratt1
      @SassyBratt1 6 років тому +3

      Yeah she should have went Tonya Harding commando on Ross and knocked her teeth out. LOL

  • @tinaine1
    @tinaine1 10 років тому +15

    This is sad. I feel very sorry for Flo and Mary however all of this is ancient history. Nothing can be done about it. All we can do is continue to enjoy and support The Supremes legacy which is the music.

    • @SassyBratt1
      @SassyBratt1 6 років тому +2

      I used to like them but now they make me sick. I'm going to run over my Supreme's Christmas album with my car.

    • @beautifulstranger7220
      @beautifulstranger7220 6 років тому

      SassyBratt1 why do they make you sick ?

    • @reealitychick
      @reealitychick 5 років тому +1

      @@SassyBratt1 --- take a read about the other girl groups in the 60's and many of them were such great singers and performers..BUT HAD GREEDY SHITTY MEN RUNNING THEIR SHOW--- PAYING THEM SO LITTLE AND CHEATING THEM OUT OF A FUTURE AND A SINGING LIFE.. I get so sick that I wish we could go back in time and BOOT THESE LOSERS back to a hell where they came from...lol There were such stupid people and they destroyed much...We as fans had no idea what troubles many went thru.. Live and learn..

    • @reealitychick
      @reealitychick 5 років тому +2

      @@SassyBratt1 I know --- BGordy set it up so that every time the Supreme s music is played '''HE GETS LOTS OF MONEY$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ --- none for Mary or Flo s estate ((her children)) but I heard Diana also gets some kickback . SMH......

    • @SassyBratt1
      @SassyBratt1 5 років тому +4

      @@beautifulstranger7220 Not Florence or Mary and Cindy. Diana and Gordy have destroyed the Supreme's legacy with their rotten dismissive behavior towards them, their relevance to Diana and her career and treated them like a mere fingernail on the end of an arm. Those 2 are shameless and every rumor made about them over the years as nasty is appearing more and more to be more truth than myth. Diana can hide herself behind her grandkids , get her own kids to pour on all kinds of B.S about what a normal and great mother she is but she is really exposing a lot of truth behind Mary's claims in her 1986 book as factual. Gordy is the enabler and provocateur of creating a monster and feeding it.

  • @te4888
    @te4888 13 років тому +37

    diana was dirty

    • @barb6868
      @barb6868 3 роки тому +9

      That’s why MJ wrote that song, Dirty Diana.

    • @schoolgyrl6
      @schoolgyrl6 3 роки тому +4

      @@barb6868 This comment here 👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾

  • @CIAJISABEAST
    @CIAJISABEAST 15 років тому +8

    diana was a gud singer but she was one of those ppl who u just wanted to smack the hell out of

  • @sierria64
    @sierria64 13 років тому +4

    i think diana would not care to remember ...

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  15 років тому +7

    Why would you do that to someone who you have shared so much with? At least Diana could have shown her the slightest bit of respect simply because she was carrying an innocent baby

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  15 років тому +4

    I totally agree. They ALL had much more than most out in their time. I think Mary is very underrated.
    - JLG (JonathanLGardner)

  • @pissedoff7771
    @pissedoff7771 12 років тому +8

    DAMN SOUNDS LIKE BERRY WAS BERNIE MADOFF BEFORE BERNIE MADOFF! lol

  • @ShaylaShay-gg8ks
    @ShaylaShay-gg8ks 5 місяців тому

    Ms. Florence was about that life i love her so much ❤️❤️❤️👑

  • @msrbsinger
    @msrbsinger 16 років тому +4

    Barry Gordy sounds like a sociopath. Heart and soul and when you said Evil, thats what that reminds me of, sociopathic behavior, no remorse, conscience. There's alot of them in the music business. Thats how they operate

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  15 років тому +8

    LMAO!
    I always thought it was a bit of an immature thing to do as a grown woman to another grown woman. Pulling on someone's hair is the kind of thing that little kids do =s

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  15 років тому +4

    You put it very well. Flo was mistreated by many. One person you missed was her lawyer.
    Thanks for watching and commenting praiseiam1 =)
    - JLG | JonathanLGardner

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  15 років тому +7

    However some fans have speculated that Berry liked Flo and apparently he took her to some club where this woman was doing things with a snake...and ermm...Flo wasn't very impressed...LOL

  • @sierria64
    @sierria64 7 років тому +18

    berry was a dirty mfo

    • @reealitychick
      @reealitychick 5 років тому +2

      @Keith Witcher GORDY HAS BAD KARMA-- FOR SURE --- I do not wish anyone to die-- nor to be in a horror hell-- but they don't listen and go their own self willed way.. Hearing this on how Gordy told Flo to leave was awful and unclassy--- BUT Diana cannot handle being unnoticed-- when Diana pulled her hair - she was just saying Hi-- but why should Flo acknowledged her since Diana got her fired -- never had spoke with her and she brought in another girl Cindy B in her place???? Flo probably gave her ''the look '' and said ''Don't do that again'' with no smile so Diana goes flying on her broom to Gordy >>> and voila Gordie has a child w/Diana--- and ect... and Flo is no longer bringing in any $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$-- so Ego-tistical--gods gift to music??? Gordy... being the Man that he is -- bullys Flo.. what a real coward...

    • @lawrencemalloy9673
      @lawrencemalloy9673 4 роки тому +1

      Yes

  • @knobylobjones
    @knobylobjones 13 років тому +4

    @MeetTheSupremes i love that book. i've re=read it five times. i wasn't even thought of when all this was happening. it's just a tragic story.

  • @Vincent50
    @Vincent50 7 років тому +30

    First of all, Diana ain't talked to Flo since she was fired from the group and she lived across the street from Flo so she didn't come up to Flo and say Hi, or how have you been or anything but to pull on Flo's hair was unprofessional and stupid. Diana Ross did a lot of ugly things and Berry Gordy knew he had an ally with him which is why she became the STAR she is today. She nor Berry want to look back at all their unsavory tactics they did to push to stardom but you know, it all comes back to haunt your ass evntually.

    • @yeracmitchell9971
      @yeracmitchell9971 6 років тому +3

      Right On Vincent!

    • @roberta.lofgrenjr.9182
      @roberta.lofgrenjr.9182 5 років тому +3

      Vincent50, When is it supposed to happen? I saw Diane on the Grammy awards last night and crooked Berry was sitting in the audience front row. Diane is 76 so Berry must be older. When is Karma coming to get these two snakes?

    • @roberta.lofgrenjr.9182
      @roberta.lofgrenjr.9182 5 років тому +1

      @@LisaLisaCJ Yes Diane did instigate the whole thing. It would be nice if Berry gave Flo's kids some money. He is filthy rich. After all, Flo helped make him very rich. Good day Lisa,

    • @reealitychick
      @reealitychick 5 років тому

      VINCENTE--- U R ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!!-- Their dreams were somewhat squashed and it did haunt them all along their pathway--- if you really watch and know what to look for-- you can see the great JUSTICE OF BALANCE''' doing its work.. For those who know -- it is plain out in everyones sight. Gordy - Ross -- did NOT get what they set out for.. and yes RIP Flo. I know that Patti LeBelle did a singing at the {{Motown Returns to the Appollo}} in a spiritual respect for Flo... ((another watch))

    • @reealitychick
      @reealitychick 5 років тому +1

      Vincent --50----- If you really look closely at the stages of Diana and Gordy s life---- the ass haunting was taking place--- signs-- symbols were put in place by other entertainers??? watch and see if you can find it... But yes Gordy and Diana never did reach the goal they were hoping for..

  • @jesiahbailey
    @jesiahbailey 15 років тому +2

    WOW MORE MORE MORE PLEASE

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  15 років тому +1

    Yes I always thought Mary was there too. Thanks for jogging my memory - I'm sure I read that on a site =)

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  15 років тому +4

    Oh yes quite a few - which are posted on UA-cam. Type Flo and Mary's names into wikipedia (seperately of course) and both their pages have a good list of songs they sang lead on as Supremes (in fact, I created the list on Flo's page and uploaded that beautiful picture of her).
    I hope I have helped.
    Thanks for commenting and watching ekocentric.
    - JLG | JonathanLGardner

  • @wallacewellons8757
    @wallacewellons8757 3 роки тому +1

    I KNOW WE MUST NOT FORGET THE PAST BUT WE MUST FORGIVE .THE HUMAN EMOTIONS AN REASONING

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  16 років тому +5

    Thanks for commenting.
    Please buy Peter Benjaminson's excellent book on Flo based on the 8 hours of interview he reocrded with Flo that these snippets come from.
    Have a wonderfully s u p r e m e day.

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  15 років тому +3

    Well Effie is based on Flo =)
    Thanks for commenting.
    - JLG | JonathanLGardner

  • @centerfold8
    @centerfold8 8 років тому +30

    Berry Gordy was classless to say that to a pregnant woman!!! " I will throw you out me foot! All Florence said was don't tug on my dress again! Smh Gordy was a bombaclout!

    • @DetroitLives313
      @DetroitLives313 8 років тому +12

      It was her hair that Diana Ross was pulling. "A fall" is a sixties hairstyle.

    • @SassyBratt1
      @SassyBratt1 6 років тому +5

      Was he part of the mafia or dealing with them? There's a book somewhere that suggested this.

    • @reealitychick
      @reealitychick 5 років тому +2

      @@DetroitLives313 ABSOLUTELY CORRECT I had one.. lol

    • @thankthelord4536
      @thankthelord4536 3 роки тому +2

      @@SassyBratt1 it was alleged he was a pimp.

    • @dddddadadad1796
      @dddddadadad1796 2 роки тому

      Lol classless? I swear the literal stupidity and ignorance I read from you people on these threads is mind blowing? Do any of y’all read at all? Have comprehension skills? Like. For real

  • @AlkalineInsides
    @AlkalineInsides Рік тому +3

    What’s a shame, is that Diana and Flo were mending things right before she died. Flo actually called Diana and they talked for a good minute. Flo was not able to handle her alcohol. She was a light weight according to Mary (and Diana). She was jealous and acting out. - on the flip side, I find it interesting that Diana herself had became a drunk during the late 90’s early 2000’s. If anyone doesn’t think Diana hasn’t received her karma, do think again. She truly got humbled during the late 90’s and early 2000’s… her husband had a baby with another woman. He then ends up dying on a ski trip. Diana’s brother in the 90’s was found murdered in a basement with his wife. That also had weight on Diana. She simply cracked. Diana is in a healthier state of mind these days and has faced her demons.

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  15 років тому +4

    No problem. These interviews come courtesy of Peter Benjaminson who wrote the latest (and arguably b e s t) book on Flo entitled "The Lost Supreme: The Life of Dreamgirl Florence Ballard".
    Thanks for commenting =)
    - JLG [JonathanLGardner]

  • @royalsoulness
    @royalsoulness 13 років тому +11

    If Diana was 'sympathic' towards Flo, she wouldn't have treated Flo the way she did b4 she left the group. I think Ross felt guilty & tried 2 help Flo out with money after the fact. Flo had her demons but Ross' behavior was horrendous. There really is no excuse 2 treat somebody whom u had a relationship with as teenagers like crap after becoming famous. However, I don't think it's fair 2 blame Ross 4 some of the things that Flo did after she was kicked out of the group. BG, that's another story.

    • @reealitychick
      @reealitychick 5 років тому +2

      Blame Ross????? she had a hand in it--- GROW UP-- Ross was jealous of Flo and you can see this in the videos.. many times Flo outsang Ross and that pissed Ross of to the end-- Ross was so revengfull and planned for Flo to get kicked out CINDY BIRDSONG---- for a whole year.. COME ON get reall!!!

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  16 років тому +2

    Berry fired Flo because he wanted to make Diana a star and he wanted to do it the easiest way possible - fire flo.
    Flo was ONLY a problem because Berry was such an arse to her and because she was pissed off about the treatment she got and how the group was going. Flo still LOVED what she did but Berry threw her over the edge, in fact they pissed eachother off to the point where Flo knew it was over.
    Both Berry and Flo are to blame. Berry treated many of his artists' terribly

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  15 років тому +5

    No he isn't.
    Flo NEVER had that kind of relationship with Berry.
    THAT part of the movie is FICTION. N O T everything in that movie is f a c t. The story is just BASED on the story of The Supremes.
    Flo NEVER had kids with Berry OR loved him

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  15 років тому +2

    Thanks ever so much for the insight =D
    I knew she said fall but I wasn't too sure on what it really was

  • @christineweeden7656
    @christineweeden7656 4 роки тому +3

    Yea I seen a video where all Flo's girls were getting kicked out on the streets.I think they deserve royalty checks from their mother she made the whole group up in the first place.She was done so wrong you would figure all the money Diane has wich I look at her in a different way now you figure she would help them out.Theres no excuse.If it wasnt for Flos sister dating her boyfriend who was looking for a girl group she wouldn't even exist and Flo was the original singer anyway.That Poor woman just couldn't catch a break but was always willing to help others from what I heard.Shes not even on this earth no more and she still is done wrong I dont care if they are grown they her children deserve what their mother worked for I bet Diana's kids never wanted for nothing.Now Flos kids lost their mother you figure these woman would always make sure they were good they could have taken them as their own or givin them money to go to good schools just made sure they had a good education. This breaks my heart and its wrong how could you know this is going on with daughters of a person you worked with all them yrs and not feel or want to help.Even Motown they owe them their mothers Royalties her voice is on the songs people all over the world still listen to.I pray these girls get what's owed to them so they don't have to worry or struggle.

  • @cristalbrown850
    @cristalbrown850 2 роки тому

    I will never forget u queen.continue to rest in power ❤️🙏🏿👉🏾💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  16 років тому +3

    Yes she was such a beautiful woman.
    Thanks for commenting.
    Have a wonderfully s u p r e m e day

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  16 років тому +1

    I think Diana is a great artist but I don't understand why she would go to Berry like that when she knew he didn't like Flo. Surely she could have thought "no I don't wanna cause any trouble, Flo is my girl"...

  • @roycobb8268
    @roycobb8268 Рік тому +1

    Wow, this is something else! This was a trip! The things that happened at Motown! I've been reading about Motown for some time now! I've been a singer, actor, composer, model, producer, etc myself. I just never made it big! Or got the opportunities that the Motown artists, and non- Motown artists got! I was inspired by mostly Motown. Although I've got inspiration from other singers on different record labels! Berry seemed to be able to make stars out of his music employees! But it seems like he wasn't such a nice boss to work under. I had visions of being at Motown! But Motown doesn't quite exist like it used to. I understand it's been sold, it something like that! Maybe it's best that I never got a that Motown label!

  • @88ritchie
    @88ritchie 13 років тому +5

    @rudielor
    Thank GOD brother u said the correct words on that one. I've noticed that since I was 9 and Im 22 now it's sad but also true, he brung alot of beauty into this world with music, but destroyed the lives of those who made it happen.

  • @pabankhead1
    @pabankhead1 15 років тому +3

    God knows all, and sees all.......There are other Artists involve in the Family Business too.....This man needs to underneath the jail forever........ That why he's desperately trying to keep it a "secret"

  • @rudieloraine
    @rudieloraine 15 років тому +2

    Why would you "jerk" or pull on someone's hair. that's not a smart thing to do.Hell did Diana want to embarrass her and pull it off. I would have gave them a damn good reason to put me out of there.

  • @timmy841212
    @timmy841212 15 років тому +1

    You Flo fans make sure to put a check mark on June 28 on your calendar because Flo's life story is chronicled on TV-One's "Unsung". Check your local listings. ^_^

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  14 років тому +1

    @vintagelinda1 Berry told Flo "You have to leave...you weren't invited anyway" then when she didn't go he said "I thought I told you to leave...but since you have it, I'll have you thrown out"

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  15 років тому +1

    I think she said "fall"
    Diana looked more like Lady Day. Flo's face was longer and a bit more pointed. Plus, Diana was more of a jazz singer than Flo was.
    Flo was a R&B/Soul singer (Buttered Popcorn, Hey Baby) who was more than capable of singing Pop like on one of her solo recordings EVERYTHING WONDERFUL -- also with training she could have even done opera or classical music

  • @Alvin4NY
    @Alvin4NY 14 років тому +5

    @DEMRNBBOYZ1 - Seriously!! Make it worth your while if their gonna throw your ass out, she coulda pushed Berry in the pool, too. I can just see Motown's finest, at this party, holding their collective breath when Berry confronted Flo...No one said a thing, but if she had clocked him and then gone after Diane, all of Detroit would of heard the commotion. Flo would have had a lot of support in the ass kicking of Diana Ross. "Sorry girl, you best behave now, Mary! Let's go..." ;-D

    • @reealitychick
      @reealitychick 5 років тому

      ALVIN---- FLO WAS 7 MONTHS PREGNANT--- IT WOUD HAVE BEEN HORRIBLE--- FLO COULD HAVE LOST HER BABIES,,, SHE WAS HAVING TWINS......

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  15 років тому +4

    LOL I don't agree with DetroitD60's comment but you really don't have to keep defending Diana

  • @AzzedineAliaFan
    @AzzedineAliaFan 15 років тому +3

    i'm saddened by Diana's antics, was it really necessary for her to instigate/stir up trouble??

    • @roberta.lofgrenjr.9182
      @roberta.lofgrenjr.9182 5 років тому +5

      AzzedineAliaFan, This was how Diane was during her run in the Supremes which drove Flo out of her mind. Diane was selfish, greedy and wanted everything for herself and the hell with Flo and Mary. She is 76 years old today and she is still like that.

  • @bcoombs1988
    @bcoombs1988 16 років тому +5

    Yes, Diana and Flo made up before Flo died. To me it seems Flo almost had a sort of feeling something unfortunate was headed her way; they say people can sometimes feel the tragedy of their destiny. But anyway, shortly before Flo died, she called Diana and they had a nice, heartfelt, "woman-to-woman" (as Flo called it) conversation on the phone, discussing motherhood and life. According to Diana, the call came out left-field, but she enjoyed the talk... but the next thing she knew, Flo was gone.

  • @AzzedineAliaFan
    @AzzedineAliaFan 15 років тому +1

    I AGREE!!

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  15 років тому +1

    Thanks so much for that info =) - being 15, I have been keen to know that for a lil while =)
    Thanks again.
    - JLG | JonathanLGardner

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  15 років тому +8

    Well actually Mary has a very powerful voice as well - she knows how to belt when she wants to (check my favourites for the video entitled One Night With You).
    I agree with you though, even if they thought Flo's deeper sound was a bit too heavy they could have used her beautiful soprano

  • @MeetTheSupremes
    @MeetTheSupremes  16 років тому +4

    It is dissapointing, you kind of wish it can't be but when you hear it from the woman herself then you really can't deny it =S =(
    Such a shame that had to happen.
    I had these intervews up months ago when I had my old account JonathanLGardner but youtube deleted that a few weeks ago =(