I love how they made Lisa look so innocent in this scene. That’s how it is in real life. Somebody cheats, and they come back looking sad with a puppy face and tries to make you feel guilty. Glad Reuben didn’t fall for it!
She played her part perfectly. She wasn't remorseful. She just figured, I'm back so take me back. The end. And of course, he did the right thing by saying goodbye.
They did the same thing in "Forgetting Sarah Marshall". They made Sarah seem like she made a mistake, and that Peter did little things that made her unhappy without him realizing it. Like him not leaving his apartment.
Classic deflection. I had a friend who's wife cheated on him, fortunately no kids. I took him out drinking and he went into the whole " It's really my fault, I work too many hours." I punched him in the mouth and told him to leave her and act like a man and reminded him he worked "too much" because he provided very well for her ans she didn't work.
I kno! And after she’s had her lil fun with the scuba instructor, whom she banged on their honeymoon, suddenly she’s decided that she’s ready to spend her life with Ruben?? Ha guess again!
@ymarrero23 Sure. cheating on the honeymoon. That's a great start. Very forgivable. He should kick her to the curb. The difference is men are wired to bang many women. Women are wired to bang the alpha male. She has so little respect for him that she thinks she can have him back at a whims notice when she broke off the marriage before it really began. Princess mentality. Can't do no wrong.
@ymarrero23 Dunno. He said that he bought the house for them. Maybe it's in his name only. Legally he can the marriage annulled and probably get her name off the deed in court. There's no equity to split.
Most women just want security and companionship. Most aren't stupid, however not all of them understand that men want more than a pretty face. Men are used to living with their mothers (when they were kids), if you get a smart woman she will try emulate/replicate a lot of things that make you feel like you are back home (the good parts)...i.e. home cooked meal (if that's what you got), clean house (again if that's what you were used to), ect... and of course the physical stuff is a biological check box. Thoughtfulness is the key to everyone's heart. Best a man can do is find a rational woman that understands these things and the man to understand to do a thoughtful act every day or two to check her box as well. If you find a woman like that and you have that same thoughtful capacity, then you both are golden. The only other things to do is figure out how to budget money and remember to have a good sense of humor, because when you get up there in age this really is the glue that keeps you from breaking.
Literally the FIRST day of their honeymoon she bones someone else and then after she’s done with her lil fling she’s decides she’s ready to spend her life with the man she betrayed. Haaa!
@ALLY S It's a good thing that Reuben stood up to Lisa at the end of the movie when she asked if they should go out to dinner after his job is finished for the day where Reuben said "no" that he wasn't getting back together with her after she made love to Claude the scuba instructor on their honeymoon and said that he would be an idiot to get back together with her after that. At least at the end of the movie, Reuben saw Claude again and wasn't angry at him.
It's a funny premise. IRL if someone cheats on your on your honemoon, don't be surprised if they try to poison, hire a hitman, or push you off the cliff during a sunset. They might legit hate you.
I had twice the displeasure of finding out a GF cheated. I ended it right then and there. No fight etc. But please do not come back. Once the trust is gone there just is no future.
@freggo Plus, Reuben even told Lisa that if she changes her mind wanting to get back together with him, not to come back to him but she still came back.
@@brianpratts Well, that's hard to know because Lisa here is saying that she came back to Reuben because she got bored that Claude was talking only about scuba diving which of course he had no choice but to do it since it's probably his job on the island to teach scuba and certify people.
I remember the first time I saw this scene, I did not want him to get back together with her. She cheated on him to begin with and never even apologized for it, not even when she came back. She wanted him to take her back but it’s not that simple and he has a right to be with someone else. I’ve seen that happen before and truly, maybe we can forgive but we can’t forget.
She has a lot of nerve. She cheats, and when that doesn't work out, she comes back to him. Man or woman, both deserve fidelity. Cheating is disrespectful and hurtful to your relationship and your partner. Hence the secrecy and cover up. Cheating is not a mistake, it is a choice to be physically intimate with somebody else. Nothing excuses it. If you're unhappy or dissatisfied in your relationship/marriage, talk to your partner, work it out or leave. Ruben deserved better. He was a good guy.
If someone cheats on you, the relationship is over. Even if they try to apologize and make things right, don't take them back. Because it's only a matter of time until they do it again. Once a cheater, always a cheater
@@HaydenDavidson6 that's so stupid on so many levels, cheating is cheating, irrespective of gender. And once a cheater always a cheater. It just shows you can't be loyal with relationships.
@@draculadeep You understand that it's the female desire to secure One male, as high value as she can get. It's not the male's goal to only secure One female. That's where you're getting mixed up perhaps? Therefore, a male cheats by giving other females his Money.
She’s disgusting!!!!! literally betrayed him as soon as she had the chance to, not even a week into their marriage. She lucky he wasn’t the type to go nuts and start killing.
He probably did want to say that, I think he was just too blindsided to process his thoughts on the matter. Plus he was tired from dancing and Polly rushing off probably didn’t help him process any easier. So all he could think to do was ask her to leave so he could think in peace
She needs to understand that Reuben is a complicated guy, the sum of his traits make him who he is: he’s like if someone took rye bread, and added Swiss cheese, then corned beef, and topped it with Russian dressing. Individually, these things are not great, but the synergy that is achieved by combining them is fantastic.
Well he kinda did, just not in those words. He was too blindsided by her sudden appearance to process his thoughts, so having her leave was 100% the right move.
When she cheated, I was pissed as he was, and now to think about it, when she wanted him back, it was like he was reality vs her own fake reality. It doesn't add up.
I kno! She was the one who cheated on him she was the one who pretty much ended their marriage and yet she’s all surprised that he found somebody else instead of sitting around commiserating waiting for her to come back??? Haaa guess again!
You're so right! She had some sickening nerve! But I know a guy in my neighborhood who's wife cheated on him with another man and left him for the new guy for 7 years. They even got a baby together. But you know what? She came back and the husband was waiting for her all this time and he took her back. 😂😂😂 Hillarious!
It seems like Lisa broke Reuben's rule where he told her not to come back to him if she changes her mind wanting to get back together with him but, she still came back to him.
I thought it was funny how sandy said “what’d you thinks gonna happen Lisa’s gonna come waltzing through that door saying she made a mistake” and sure enough that’s what happened!
@@scartee13 I agree, that was funny. I remember Sandy telling Reuben that he sees a scared look on Lisa's face in the video which is probably why Sandy told Reuben that. Maybe Sandy told Reuben that because, it seems like Reuben still wanted to get back together with Lisa until he saw Polly making him feel he wants to move on as he told Lisa that he missed her at first but decided to move on as he talked about from 1:12-1:17.
@@212caboose That's right. I guess Lisa didn't care if Reuben said not to come back to him if she changes her mind because she must have felt that scuba is not a subject that Lisa enjoyed talking about since Claude as a scuba instructor kept talking about it to her and she has to expect that from Claude since Claude has a job on the beach as a scuba instructor giving people certifications after getting scuba instructions.
Isn't funny how your lunatic ex can always figure out when you're about to move on. And they don't even give af about you, just keeping the upper hand over you.
Once a cheater always a cheater, Rueben became a better person more confident because of Polly. I’m glad he stood up for himself and didn’t take Lisa back. If he had she would again get bored and cheat on him again.
@Beth Roney At least Reuben stood up to Lisa at the end when she asked him if they can go out to eat after his job is over for the day and he said that he won't get back together with her after making love to a scuba instructor on their honeymoon when they were married where he considered that as cheating on him.
@@bethroney2869 That's true that Lisa is very uncaring as Reuben's best friend Sandy noticed since he (Sandy) said that he saw a bad look on her face at the wedding on the video and told Reuben to enjoy a life of freedom being single. However, Lisa broke Reuben's rule saying that if she changes her mind, not to come back to him but she still came back after saying that she got bored hearing Claude talk about scuba all the time when of course Claude didn't have a choice since he has a job on the island teaching scuba and certifying people by going from people to people asking if they're interested.
@@afriendofbean Even surprised how Ruben's parents were happy to see her at Sandy play even if she cheated on their son with Claude even I would be so fuming and less forgiven towards Lisa and even to have her thrown out of the family for good
@@bethroney2869 Well, in the spot where Reuben stood up to Lisa that he will not be getting back with her calling himself a "fool" if he did, Reuben's father had a look on his face towards Lisa like he was saying "that's a good point, shame on you for cheating on Reuben." When Polly met Lisa for the first time, I was hoping that Polly would have shown and acted more interested as a girlfriend towards Reuben because when Lisa asked who she was Reuben said "this is my girlfriend Polly" with Polly saying "I'm not your girlfriend" but instead I was hoping she said "that's right, it's a shame what you did to him but I'm happy to be his girlfriend." Of course, I know Polly herself said that she wasn't the marrying type but she should have talked to Reuben about it privately. I can only hope that Reuben and Polly got married at the end since they took a trip together to the same Caribbean island telling Claude how they're working things step by step where I can only assume they got married when they went swimming towards the boat to go for scuba.
Even coming from her point of view you could never have a relationship with someone you betrayed that deeply...it would be a cloud constantly hanging over your head
Some nerve...me personally, I would have insisted that my girlfriend stay... and just said in a calm indifferent voice please leave,,this is not your place.
Oooh, stuff like this really grinds my gears. The audacity to come back to someone you freaking cheated on, and casting judgment. I’ve known women like this, and they are just the lowest of the low. Thankfully I haven’t had to deal with this personally, but a buddy of mine had one that showed up at his flat twice a year hoping he’d forgiven her by then.
Lisa was just mad and jealous that he moved on with polly. Once u cheat on someone u can't just say oh let's move into our house and expect things to fine.
Cheating is wrong, but to do it on your honeymoon is evil,heartless and beyond despicable. I mean there's just no words to describe how a someone could do that to somebody else. It's just beyond evil.
You cheated on your husband on the first day of your honeymoon. Then he caught you in the act. Then you decided to stay with the man you cheated on your husband with. Then once you get bored of him you try to go right back to your old life while you essentially ruined your husbands life. I would have walked into my apartment grabbed her bags threw them in the hallway said get out and continued my fun night with Polly.
@@quarf53206 It seems like Reuben saw Polly a few days after he left Lisa alone on the island with Claude and Reuben and Polly were hanging out together for a few weeks and then Reuben saw Lisa in his apartment room after a few weeks. Plus, it never showed Reuben going to the judge to arrange for a divorce to explain that his wife left him which means Reuben and Lisa were still together but Reuben kept his distance from her.
She is like u have gf? After she ran away with the scuba instructor… Is she insane? I would have gotten an annulment right away. Her response is she took him for granted, my goodness…
It was at that point....Ruben claimed his dignity.. and, like any good man should, asked the one who tried to take it from him...to leave his life...#bestpartofthemovie
I hate it when a cheater says, "I love you." No, if that had been true, you wouldn't have cheated. Cheaters are the most selfish people around, no matter how much they say they love you or that they're sorry, it doesn't change the fact they jumped in the sack because getting the Big O from someone else was more important than being faithful. It's a good scene and I like that Rueben shows her the door, literally. The time for talking was already over. She'd already proven she's a faithless, whimsical #$%^&* and frankly, doesn't deserve to be forgiven.
@@arjundutta5521 Thank you. It sure looked like Lisa woke up especially when Reuben and Polly walked in, Reuben was screaming loudly which woke up Lisa. I guess she must have had a tiring flight back home and was sleeping on the couch because of that.
Nope. I wouldn’t take her back at all. I believe in forgiveness and could probably give my wife a second chance if she cheated, but it would all depend on why. But if it happened on our honeymoon like with Lisa here? Yeah, no thanks. Get lost.
NEVER give them a second chance. They’ll get the idea that they can get away with it again if you do that and will subconsciously begin to punish you for your weakness.
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I love how they made Lisa look so innocent in this scene. That’s how it is in real life. Somebody cheats, and they come back looking sad with a puppy face and tries to make you feel guilty. Glad Reuben didn’t fall for it!
Yessenia Ayala I'm also glad that Reuben didn't fall for Lisa's act.
Cierto?👌
and it was a blessing in disguise
She played her part perfectly. She wasn't remorseful. She just figured, I'm back so take me back. The end. And of course, he did the right thing by saying goodbye.
They did the same thing in "Forgetting Sarah Marshall". They made Sarah seem like she made a mistake, and that Peter did little things that made her unhappy without him realizing it. Like him not leaving his apartment.
Its terrible how the mistake she admits to Reuben is that she chose a guy that eventually bored her. Not that she cheated and betrayed her husband.
I know that’s the worst part
Cheaters do that, unfortunately. They would rather blame other people for their actions rather than own up to what they’ve done
To add insult on their honey moon as well
She thought the grass was greener at the other side. Happens all the time with relationship too
Classic deflection. I had a friend who's wife cheated on him, fortunately no kids. I took him out drinking and he went into the whole " It's really my fault, I work too many hours." I punched him in the mouth and told him to leave her and act like a man and reminded him he worked "too much" because he provided very well for her ans she didn't work.
“Are you going to spend the rest of your life with her?”
Irrelevant whether he does or not, he’s not going to spend it with you 😂
I kno! And after she’s had her lil fun with the scuba instructor, whom she banged on their honeymoon, suddenly she’s decided that she’s ready to spend her life with Ruben?? Ha guess again!
@ymarrero23 Sure. cheating on the honeymoon. That's a great start. Very forgivable. He should kick her to the curb. The difference is men are wired to bang many women. Women are wired to bang the alpha male. She has so little respect for him that she thinks she can have him back at a whims notice when she broke off the marriage before it really began. Princess mentality. Can't do no wrong.
Lol yeah
@ymarrero23 Ok; purchasing the home is likely a mortage and there's likely little to no equity unless a huge down payment was required.
@ymarrero23 Dunno. He said that he bought the house for them. Maybe it's in his name only. Legally he can the marriage annulled and probably get her name off the deed in court. There's no equity to split.
The scary part, there are women like Lisa, disconnected from reality.
Most
Oh yeah my ex step fat mom is one of them
They are common.
Most women just want security and companionship. Most aren't stupid, however not all of them understand that men want more than a pretty face. Men are used to living with their mothers (when they were kids), if you get a smart woman she will try emulate/replicate a lot of things that make you feel like you are back home (the good parts)...i.e. home cooked meal (if that's what you got), clean house (again if that's what you were used to), ect... and of course the physical stuff is a biological check box.
Thoughtfulness is the key to everyone's heart.
Best a man can do is find a rational woman that understands these things and the man to understand to do a thoughtful act every day or two to check her box as well. If you find a woman like that and you have that same thoughtful capacity, then you both are golden. The only other things to do is figure out how to budget money and remember to have a good sense of humor, because when you get up there in age this really is the glue that keeps you from breaking.
Alot of em on tiktok
Nah. Bye Lisa. For you to cheat on Reuben RIGHT AFTER YOU MARRIED HIM, he is 100% in the right. He doesn’t need to take you back
her bags should have been removed from his room via the window, along with her.
Literally the FIRST day of their honeymoon she bones someone else and then after she’s done with her lil fling she’s decides she’s ready to spend her life with the man she betrayed. Haaa!
@ALLY S It's a good thing that Reuben stood up to Lisa at the end of the movie when she asked if they should go out to dinner after his job is finished for the day where Reuben said "no" that he wasn't getting back together with her after she made love to Claude the scuba instructor on their honeymoon and said that he would be an idiot to get back together with her after that. At least at the end of the movie, Reuben saw Claude again and wasn't angry at him.
It's a funny premise.
IRL if someone cheats on your on your honemoon, don't be surprised if they try to poison, hire a hitman, or push you off the cliff during a sunset.
They might legit hate you.
how could she do that to Leuban!!!??
Never in a lifetime marry a person that cheated on you while married or even dating. Best advice I ever got and this is the holy grail
How do not marry a person you already married?
@@initialcreation I think we all got the point.
Some people will never know if their partner has cheated or not
@@evafreeman3721 How does someone not know if they're cheating? Just sounds like a sorry excuse to cheat imo.
@@peartdahurt Ahh don't get so defensive lol. I meant if their partner cheats
“Let’s go move into our house.” They did a great job making this an infuriating scene.
Her AUDACITY!😂
I completely agree! That statement is pretty much a translation for “let’s sweep my infidelity under the rug” lol
What is worse and more infuriating is him being a big idiot for even considering going back with her.
She had some nerve coming back after what she did, and letting on as if she did nothing wrong
I said the same thing
@stryfetc1 He’s mom is a B#### she Probably did it to his father that’s why she said that and acts like that and Defense Lisa.
It happens that way.
Even worse. She only came back because she got board with the other guy. She literally told him he is the back up plan.
Y’all are so right and y’all make excellent points
I had twice the displeasure of finding out a GF cheated.
I ended it right then and there. No fight etc.
But please do not come back. Once the trust is gone there just is no future.
well said..
You’re so right
@freggo Plus, Reuben even told Lisa that if she changes her mind wanting to get back together with him, not to come back to him but she still came back.
@@afriendofbean She might’ve brainwashed him
@@brianpratts Well, that's hard to know because Lisa here is saying that she came back to Reuben because she got bored that Claude was talking only about scuba diving which of course he had no choice but to do it since it's probably his job on the island to teach scuba and certify people.
The audacity to ask Reuben about his future.
My thoughts exactly
She's hot though so he'd still consider it
@@nakkadu well he didn't consider it that's the point.
Totally. Cheeky mare
i wished so hard he would've answered: "that's none of your business anymore." that would've been perfect.
I remember the first time I saw this scene, I did not want him to get back together with her. She cheated on him to begin with and never even apologized for it, not even when she came back. She wanted him to take her back but it’s not that simple and he has a right to be with someone else. I’ve seen that happen before and truly, maybe we can forgive but we can’t forget.
She never wanted to marry him remember?
@@lm406but she did marry him and then almost immediately, cheated on him afterwards.
@@lm406 well, I guess it doesn’t say in the movie that she doesn’t want to marry him, but she ended up doing it regardless
They didn't get back togethor did they
She has a lot of nerve. She cheats, and when that doesn't work out, she comes back to him. Man or woman, both deserve fidelity. Cheating is disrespectful and hurtful to your relationship and your partner. Hence the secrecy and cover up. Cheating is not a mistake, it is a choice to be physically intimate with somebody else. Nothing excuses it. If you're unhappy or dissatisfied in your relationship/marriage, talk to your partner, work it out or leave. Ruben deserved better. He was a good guy.
I love how she said it was a mistake but it wasn't a mistake 2 weeks ago.
One of the funniest, most underrated comedies! I laugh non-stop every time I watch this movie.
Especially the basketball scene
That's crazy. Laughing non-stop.
@@danieldanieldadada well hey, what can I say? I have a sense of humour🤷♀️. Too bad so many today don’t….offended by everything.
Lisa's cheating on the honeymoon sealed the end of their marriage. Reuben deserves Polly. Lisa doesn't deserve him.
Exactly!
@@xs0528 i think Claude, does this with all the new tourist's.
Both Debra Messing AND Jennifer Aniston looked beautiful in this scene. Rachel and Grace- what a choice for Big Ben. He DID date Rachel on Friends.
Peter: "Okay, okay, here's one: if you were God, who would you strike down first?"
Joe: "Debra Messing. I find her insufferable."
@stryfetc1 Not at all. Debra (in this scene looked amazing), in the other earlier scenes when she was cheating, she looked like what you described.
Debra has a serious lack of cleavage.
Too bad Jennifer Aniston can't have kids. Its the biggest reason why Brad Pitt left her for Angelina Jolie.
@@raidernation2163…what? Why do you even care? What a weird thing to say about a total stranger
If someone cheats on you, the relationship is over. Even if they try to apologize and make things right, don't take them back. Because it's only a matter of time until they do it again. Once a cheater, always a cheater
Female cheating is over. A male cheating, it's fine as long as it's just a pump n Dump.
You live in a very sharply-defined, brightly lit moral precinct with a paradoxically dim view of the world.
@@HaydenDavidson6 no type of cheating is fine. Stay single if you can't be loyal
@@HaydenDavidson6 that's so stupid on so many levels, cheating is cheating, irrespective of gender. And once a cheater always a cheater. It just shows you can't be loyal with relationships.
@@draculadeep You understand that it's the female desire to secure One male, as high value as she can get. It's not the male's goal to only secure One female. That's where you're getting mixed up perhaps?
Therefore, a male cheats by giving other females his Money.
She’s disgusting!!!!! literally betrayed him as soon as she had the chance to, not even a week into their marriage. She lucky he wasn’t the type to go nuts and start killing.
Like his character in friends 😂
Her character should have been killed on screen
Dude not being in a relationship with a psychopath isn’t luck.
@@ran52475loser that's not a psychopath, the real psychopaths are the likes of you and the cheaters who think they even deserve to live
@@ran52475true.
I personally don’t believe he should even hesitate when Lisa the cheat wants him back. If I were him I would’ve just told her “nah Lisa! Goodbye”
He was shock by her audacity.
@@rc1982 I would've recovered fast and told her "OUT!"
He probably did want to say that, I think he was just too blindsided to process his thoughts on the matter. Plus he was tired from dancing and Polly rushing off probably didn’t help him process any easier. So all he could think to do was ask her to leave so he could think in peace
So many gems in this scene People only want to deal with you when it’s on their terms.
She needs to understand that Reuben is a complicated guy, the sum of his traits make him who he is: he’s like if someone took rye bread, and added Swiss cheese, then corned beef, and topped it with Russian dressing. Individually, these things are not great, but the synergy that is achieved by combining them is fantastic.
You good bro?
@@KnobCreekBandit mb he is hungry👻
Corned beef isn’t good on it’s own? What kind of irishman are you?
😂😂😂
OMG, I just got it Adam. You're a genius mate
Absolutely correct once a cheater always A cheater.
No she changed
@@jl1399changed her diapers. Shes immature and does not know what she wants.
"I will never ever hurt you again", bah Humbug, no second chances is my philosophy on partners, lol x
"I'm back. Who's this?"
What he should've said
"THIS is the door. Bye Bish 😎"
Honestly the nerve
Ya!
Well he kinda did, just not in those words. He was too blindsided by her sudden appearance to process his thoughts, so having her leave was 100% the right move.
“This is the door. And this is you leaving through it.”
One thing is to cheat, another is to cheat on a honeymoon. That's the worst thing ever.
Thats....better, actually. He could annul the marriage.
Right, straight out the gate.
There are too many of these Lisa’s in the world. They expect everything and hold themselves to 0 accountability.
When I was little kid, I use to love watching this movie. It’s a Ben Stiller classic
When she cheated, I was pissed as he was, and now to think about it, when she wanted him back, it was like he was reality vs her own fake reality. It doesn't add up.
Don’t look for happiness in the same place you lost it
The nerve of her to be shocked he had a girlfriend
I kno! She was the one who cheated on him she was the one who pretty much ended their marriage and yet she’s all surprised that he found somebody else instead of sitting around commiserating waiting for her to come back??? Haaa guess again!
You're so right! She had some sickening nerve! But I know a guy in my neighborhood who's wife cheated on him with another man and left him for the new guy for 7 years. They even got a baby together. But you know what? She came back and the husband was waiting for her all this time and he took her back. 😂😂😂 Hillarious!
The rest of my life with her?
Well she hasn't cheated on me so that puts her way ahead of you.
Oh wait that was me life.
It seems like Lisa broke Reuben's rule where he told her not to come back to him if she changes her mind wanting to get back together with him but, she still came back to him.
I thought it was funny how sandy said “what’d you thinks gonna happen Lisa’s gonna come waltzing through that door saying she made a mistake” and sure enough that’s what happened!
@@scartee13 I agree, that was funny. I remember Sandy telling Reuben that he sees a scared look on Lisa's face in the video which is probably why Sandy told Reuben that. Maybe Sandy told Reuben that because, it seems like Reuben still wanted to get back together with Lisa until he saw Polly making him feel he wants to move on as he told Lisa that he missed her at first but decided to move on as he talked about from 1:12-1:17.
Exactly- She can't follow the most simple rules. Reuben was WAY too nice.
@@212caboose That's right. I guess Lisa didn't care if Reuben said not to come back to him if she changes her mind because she must have felt that scuba is not a subject that Lisa enjoyed talking about since Claude as a scuba instructor kept talking about it to her and she has to expect that from Claude since Claude has a job on the beach as a scuba instructor giving people certifications after getting scuba instructions.
Some masterful acting in this scene.
I'm glad he stood his ground
Jennifer and Ben have great chemistry ⭐️🍼🧸
Lessons can be learned from this movie. People like this exists, so remember to always love yourself first.
Isn't funny how your lunatic ex can always figure out when you're about to move on. And they don't even give af about you, just keeping the upper hand over you.
I saw this in the movie theater and I still remember the reaction from everyone when this happened.
how bad was it?
Applause I hope.
Don't bother to tell us what exactly that reaction was or anything.
@@shimmeringchimps3842😂😂😂
"i'm back..."
"i don't think so!" was the correct answer!
And she has the audacity to have her shoes on the couch
Once a cheater always a cheater, Rueben became a better person more confident because of Polly. I’m glad he stood up for himself and didn’t take Lisa back. If he had she would again get bored and cheat on him again.
Absolutely! If she got bored with a hunk like that, she'll do it again. Perhaps the strippers at the bachelorette party wasn't enough. 😂😂😂
God I remember the first time I saw this scene. I was so young and I felt so revolted by it but I never understood why until later.
I've always wanted this movie. I may get it on Amazon or might stumble upon it at a thrift store. I love the casting choices for this film.
I'm just happy he stood by Polly, regardless of what their relationship was...😊
Ruben is so much better without you Lisa and he deserves to be happy with Polly
@Beth Roney At least Reuben stood up to Lisa at the end when she asked him if they can go out to eat after his job is over for the day and he said that he won't get back together with her after making love to a scuba instructor on their honeymoon when they were married where he considered that as cheating on him.
@@afriendofbean As he is so much better without Lisa as she's so heartless
@@bethroney2869 That's true that Lisa is very uncaring as Reuben's best friend Sandy noticed since he (Sandy) said that he saw a bad look on her face at the wedding on the video and told Reuben to enjoy a life of freedom being single. However, Lisa broke Reuben's rule saying that if she changes her mind, not to come back to him but she still came back after saying that she got bored hearing Claude talk about scuba all the time when of course Claude didn't have a choice since he has a job on the island teaching scuba and certifying people by going from people to people asking if they're interested.
@@afriendofbean Even surprised how Ruben's parents were happy to see her at Sandy play even if she cheated on their son with Claude even I would be so fuming and less forgiven towards Lisa and even to have her thrown out of the family for good
@@bethroney2869 Well, in the spot where Reuben stood up to Lisa that he will not be getting back with her calling himself a "fool" if he did, Reuben's father had a look on his face towards Lisa like he was saying "that's a good point, shame on you for cheating on Reuben." When Polly met Lisa for the first time, I was hoping that Polly would have shown and acted more interested as a girlfriend towards Reuben because when Lisa asked who she was Reuben said "this is my girlfriend Polly" with Polly saying "I'm not your girlfriend" but instead I was hoping she said "that's right, it's a shame what you did to him but I'm happy to be his girlfriend." Of course, I know Polly herself said that she wasn't the marrying type but she should have talked to Reuben about it privately. I can only hope that Reuben and Polly got married at the end since they took a trip together to the same Caribbean island telling Claude how they're working things step by step where I can only assume they got married when they went swimming towards the boat to go for scuba.
This feels like the most 90s crossover ever.
Cheating is not a mistake, it's a choice.
Even coming from her point of view you could never have a relationship with someone you betrayed that deeply...it would be a cloud constantly hanging over your head
So true
Some nerve...me personally, I would have insisted that my girlfriend stay... and just said in a calm indifferent voice please leave,,this is not your place.
1:08 All he talks about is scuba diving. Lmao
Oooh, stuff like this really grinds my gears. The audacity to come back to someone you freaking cheated on, and casting judgment. I’ve known women like this, and they are just the lowest of the low. Thankfully I haven’t had to deal with this personally, but a buddy of mine had one that showed up at his flat twice a year hoping he’d forgiven her by then.
Lisa was just mad and jealous that he moved on with polly. Once u cheat on someone u can't just say oh let's move into our house and expect things to fine.
He ain’t gonna spend the rest of his life with you that’s for sure 😂
Cheating is wrong, but to do it on your honeymoon is evil,heartless and beyond despicable. I mean there's just no words to describe how a someone could do that to somebody else. It's just beyond evil.
Ya I agree. It’s like a 100x worse on a honeymoon. Actually one thing might be worse….. the wedding night 😂😂😂
@@wesleyc8101 Or maybe cheating at the wedding reception while you're still in the wedding dress. I guess that would be worse.
Atta boy ...saw the movie, I'm with him.
Ben Stiller made fantastic Romantic comedies. Loved this movie and Something about Mary.
“all he ever talked about was scuba diving.”
“really??”
LMAO
I laughed at that too lol. It was like he wanted to say “I Told You So”
“Are you really gonna spend the rest of your life with her?”
My answer: Maybe not, but I’m not gonna spend it with you either.
"Are you going to spend you life with her?"
Me:- why are you so worried. Its not like you have any chance anymore.
You cheated on your husband on the first day of your honeymoon. Then he caught you in the act. Then you decided to stay with the man you cheated on your husband with. Then once you get bored of him you try to go right back to your old life while you essentially ruined your husbands life. I would have walked into my apartment grabbed her bags threw them in the hallway said get out and continued my fun night with Polly.
Jeniffer Aniston acting is A+++ class.
Cheaters always try to turn a violation of trust and love into a simple mistake like they threw away your shirt by accident.
She loves, she’s has a funny way of showing it.
Once a cheater, always a cheater.Its cause i can forgive, but the problem is I’ll never forget.
Always change the locks.😂😂😂
"I don't miss you, I miss what I thought we had"
the way she says “that Polly person” makes me cringe so hard. ugh the audacity.
Exactly. Her saying that influenced me to start using that term as of saying that so and so person.
It's funny when Lisa said to Reuben, "you have a girlfriend" at 0:26, it was like she was saying "did you arrange for us to be divorced?"
Or, “I didn’t expect you to find someone so quickly!”
Or
“I thought you’d still be missing me!?”
considering how soon it was into their marriage that she left him for claude couldnt he just got an annulment
@@quarf53206 It seems like Reuben saw Polly a few days after he left Lisa alone on the island with Claude and Reuben and Polly were hanging out together for a few weeks and then Reuben saw Lisa in his apartment room after a few weeks. Plus, it never showed Reuben going to the judge to arrange for a divorce to explain that his wife left him which means Reuben and Lisa were still together but Reuben kept his distance from her.
She is like u have gf? After she ran away with the scuba instructor… Is she insane? I would have gotten an annulment right away. Her response is she took him for granted, my goodness…
It was at that point....Ruben claimed his dignity.. and, like any good man should, asked the one who tried to take it from him...to leave his life...#bestpartofthemovie
Taking any ex back, tells her that it's ok for her to do it again and she will.
Imagine having Jennifer Aniston to make your horrible ex jealous!
I hate it when a cheater says, "I love you." No, if that had been true, you wouldn't have cheated. Cheaters are the most selfish people around, no matter how much they say they love you or that they're sorry, it doesn't change the fact they jumped in the sack because getting the Big O from someone else was more important than being faithful. It's a good scene and I like that Rueben shows her the door, literally. The time for talking was already over. She'd already proven she's a faithless, whimsical #$%^&* and frankly, doesn't deserve to be forgiven.
Job well done Ruben 👍🏾👏🏾👏🏾
He shouldn't of let polly leave, and kicked this girl out as soon as he saw her.
If she wants to talk, she can call and make a appointment...
When this happened to me I kept the girlfriend and divorced the wife. 43 years later I still am married to the girl friend.
LOVE OF MY LIFE
Lol the audacity to just show up unannounced and ambush him without so much as a phone call.
All I ever wanted to see is Debra messing and jennifer aniston in one frame. I don't know why 😂. But I am so happy today.
The sheer audacity of her to come back like nothing ever happened..
I do like that ultimately rueben has no issue with Claude, as he basically did him a favor.
And gentlemen, that's how a real man acts - he doesn't let a shameless & promiscuous wife walk all over him.
If I recall correctly, he did end up seriously considering taking her back.
That's how anyone with self-respect acts. A self-respecting person never lets anyone, man or woman, walk all over them.
@@alaron5698But he didn’t go through with it in the end and called her out on her bullshit.
@@alaron5698he’s only human, but the point is, he did NOT choke at the end
Facts ✍🏻Thank God not married with kids ⚠️💔
It sounds like Lisa was taking a nap and then when Reuben and Polly walked in, she woke up.
Smart observation brudda
@@arjundutta5521 Thank you. It sure looked like Lisa woke up especially when Reuben and Polly walked in, Reuben was screaming loudly which woke up Lisa. I guess she must have had a tiring flight back home and was sleeping on the couch because of that.
She was taking a nap you can see she was Waking up and when see saw both of them she was up already.
@@actionfigurescollectionssu7854 Yes that's right. She got woken up when Reuben and Polly walked in.
How considerate of her to not unpack. She probably knew he wasnt gonna let her come back lmao
Never allow someone to be your life, while only being their option.
I been hurt . it took me along time to get over it . I m single and I happy life is good . I don't need no more relationship I m done .
Nope. I wouldn’t take her back at all.
I believe in forgiveness and could probably give my wife a second chance if she cheated, but it would all depend on why. But if it happened on our honeymoon like with Lisa here? Yeah, no thanks. Get lost.
True
If a women cheats, she will do it again and deep down recent you for being a weak man and taking her back.
Simp lol if she cheats once she'll do it again
And you'd look like a fool
If you’re wife did it? Ultimate betrayal worse than if a gf did it to you
NEVER give them a second chance. They’ll get the idea that they can get away with it again if you do that and will subconsciously begin to punish you for your weakness.
Lmaoooo, she cheats and says "im back" 😂
It was at this moment, she realised, Reuben was not for scuba
I wished my friend would cut off her partner emotionally. He cheats on her twice and then still goes back to him.
Best move ever. Never forgive a cheating wife who suddenly came back because her bf turn out to be a failure
I was so proud of him when he did this
Never ever take back a girl or boy who cheated on their partner. Life will never be the same. There is lot of fish in the sea.
If they cheated once, they'll cheat again.
She said that she made a mistake but when she caught she really go to claude in 1week lol
2002. Jen and Ben were great ! Jen played it beautifully !
I think she can MAYBE ask to get coffee or something. But to show up with bags is crazy.
He has great & unappreciated range as an actor.
Good job
“She just doesn’t like the phrasing” 🏆 😂
Never marry anyone who has cheated, even if it wasn't on you. Cheaters don't deserve another person