As a 43yr old grown man who have all his basics together own my house, own my car money in the bank money in retirement great credit. I approve of this message!! Love Dorsey is speaking the Truth!
@@London2ATL you right its not nothing to brag on. Its just sad that a lot of men are not functioning adults. More like grown a$$ children depending on women to provide the basics, Its sad bra.
@@London2ATL do the math bro. Most men especially black men don’t have all that. I agree with you but at same time that’s not the average 43 year old mans standing in life.
Being honest I’m a 48 year old man who has never really lived on his own. Graduated high school…went to college…graduated….joined the military….got married….got out the military…got divorced…lived with a woman…got married…got divorced again…lived with a woman….this is the 1st time in my life I’m consciously choosing to be on my own…. I loved this video
@@m.lynette6648 I believe so too. It's nice not having to consider anyone else's feelings...I can just do what I want when I want. And it's so peaceful too.
@@menonamissionmc The peace is unmatched! There are some weekends that I just stay home, in the bed and order takeout with a bottle of wine. It's a great feeling when you don't have to compromise or consider someone else's feelings at home. We put up with so much outside the home, that peace helps us recharge
I'm a going back too college for the correct major,,,at 1st info tech,2 nursing,3rd veterinary doctor,,,,now a h.s gym instructor,,,I can admit t.v don't work in the real world,I just got a tattoo Short-term above my wrist as well a resume star on my left hand,,,,I'm starting too believe my neighbor friends that live with fam,,by them saying college isn't worth it,clams Institute takes your money,,,I can admit, I'm in or out the hotel for starters.
The fact I left my ex wife 10yrs ago, had to move in with my mom and get my shit together. Have my own car, crib, and cash plus I do right by my seed. I just wanna I thank God for allowing me to get it together and open the doors for me. This message is true. But I’ve left chicks houses with my shit in garbage bags cus I will not be disrespected
I’m 26. I can say I have my life 60% together. Got my own spot, two vehicles, a son, and a job that I love. Still pushing for more accomplishments. Sucks because it’s considered lame and corny now days.
I consider doing what you have to do based on your well-being, not others. Keep striving to be the best version for you, hell with anyone else, says. That's people projecting their short comings and failures onto you.🙏💪
I'm literally in this position but I'm emotionally intelligent, but I'm struggling with the basics. I love listening to your perspective. I finally understand something women want but don't look for. Women want and fall in love with potential. Nothing wrong with that but fall for applied potential, potential put to work. I get it.
Emotionally intelligent 🤔 wtf does that mean ? You shouldn't be dealing with your emotions at all if your a male that's why we have women so they do it for us while we stay focused on what needs to be done in life
"You rebel to feel in control", I aint gon lie that hit me. U probably the only woman i could really respect when it come to checking myself. Appreciate u foreal, been keeping it real ever since u been in this space. I only like to listen to content like this, all that hand holding and blaming the other side feel weak to me. We all gotta be checked, and real ones can take the checking and come back for more
13:48 "As a man thinketh, so is he." - It shows how, in his own thought-world, each man holds the key to every condition, good or bad, that enters into his life, and that, by working patiently and intelligently upon his thoughts, he may remake his life, and transform his circumstances.
She is so right this hit home 4 sho 💯 🤦🏿♂️ man to hear a black woman be so real and authentic with men and women I give this woman the upmost respect 💪🏿
man this was a great message i will admit i was moving mad dumb messin with women i was workin but wasnt going about doin things the right way look at her face fellas as she talk and youll feel what she really sayin
Like I tell my brother, "Folks will TRY to handle you even when you've got all your basics and your shit together. But they will DEFINITELY handle you when you don't have those things lined up." And nope, he hasn't caught tf on yet.
As a woman she motivated the hell out of me! I have a tendency of allowing my emotions to get in the way of aspiring towards improving myself and if that isn’t being worked on daily, consciously putting in the work to change that habit then that will inevitably affect all chances of ever building a good relationship. If we as a human race would just take the time to open are mind to learn and understand basic logic, we could accomplish so many great things together instead of tearing each other down. Having humility, patience and understanding that we’re all students in this classroom of life will take us far.
Nah this facts. And insecurities don't just stem from shit like how you look or how yo living situation is , it's also not trusting yoself to make decisions and shit along those lines. Nothing but facts.
“As a man thinketh he will do”amen 🙏🏿 . I use a white erase board that I purchased from target, I writer all my plans down for the week every Sunday after I meal prep. I haven’t missed a day of the gym since and I love looking back at everything I’ve accomplished at the end of each month. Nothing beat a failure but a try!!
Much respect Sis! You definitely on it . Your describing most of the dudes 34 and under today. I been telling young dudes this for years. They can’t stomach the truth coming from real men. They rather listen to a women. For the nurturing affect. There to sensitive and emotional to handle man energy.
this my first week into my career and i can say that im happy to be able to finally be within a good real job and build towards a good future now 🙏🏿🙏🏿 great video love this womans truth
Think positive , focus, , elevate your vibration and your energy will attract everything you desire.........like a moth to a flame....money ,success, respect, etc...
Love you speaking Truth, you are a true Sister, Bless you. This is the realest shit I ever heard, true facts!!! Basics and fundamentals so important!!!
Will be 30 years old next month and I’m a mental health professional seeking a masters degree to become therapist. The basics I need is more income and fixing my rental history. I made some mistakes but I’m 3 semesters from becoming a therapist. She’s right I valued my emotions and loyalty even when I was loyal to the wrong the things. It wasn’t until my ex died and I was left alone that I realized that I was always alone.
I'm walking to this electrician job that I just got hired for as a helper I'm 42 years old just starting to make some real money working on 95 this message it's for me
@ Love D … I just got done dirty by my kids mom .. But think God I had my own house and transportation or me an my kids would of been done ✅ .. Single father of 4 .. 2 on the outside of that .. It’s a humble experience to see what woman go through when we just up an leave y’all with those kids .. I get it now .. All men should experience it !!
Mane dis lady jus spoke my whole situation. parents school your kids especially your boys.this 1 women can change a person whole life forever just off knowledge.
Im over qualified to co sign this message. I have more than my basics in order. Alot of people eat off of me, because of me or with me. She is talking big, big facts. I may start using some of her lectures in my program. Alot of men could learn From this.
First off I gotta say I really appreciate your time and efforts in getting a message across to the fellas. I'm one of them that can handle constructive criticism you offer. Your efforts ain't in vain. ❤️ I feel I'm personally crawling out of emotional and financial holes that I let myself fall down in. I went from having a decent quality of life to shit ASAP. But I'm bouncing back harder than ever and part of the reason is because of me facing my demons head on and being open minded enough to understand how, where and why I fkd up. I'm blessed by the grace of God, to still have my own roof and money to take care of myself 1st before I can begin to show interest in or take care of anyone else. It's careful attention to priorities and knowing what's necessary to be where you want to be in life, simply put. We all got the same 24 hours and you are appreciated ❤️✊🏿🔥
WOW! WOW! WOW! Drop that science Sista! If a old brother wanna give u a hug at the QT it will be me. You are dropping those diamonds, hopefully they are hearing you! Keep up the good work!
Damn…Love you really just hit home with all this! Wow…I respect you so much and this is coming from a 33 year old man who is trying to get his self together and not being able to control my emotions is the reason why… Getting mad and walking away from jobs when I was younger …I mean I needed to hear this and I appreciate you so much🙏🏽
You the truth ma because I been all that you just said, so keep pushing that out. That entrepreneurship is definitely the truth. I'm striving for that too. By the way, love the natural look sis. Take care!!
Big facts sis 👏 u ain't said nothing that was flawed ..Gotta do 4 self and always stand on business as a Man that's what A Real Man does keep saying dis shit Queen cause our brothers need dis frfr I salute u Queen I see and hear ya loud and clear
I've seen plenty of Love Dorsey videos on here but could never find her channel until a few days ago. A lot of what she said in this video really hit home for me and honesty a lot of her other videos about watching out for certain people in your life and certain folks to not be around.
i am only 24 and U speaking nun but facts THINGS MENS NEED TO DO TO BE MAN 1. KNOWELEDGE OF SELF 2. SELF DISPLINE 3 . MASTERING YOUR SEXUAL ENERGY 333. ITS AWSOME TO SEE WOMAN LIKE U COMING BACK INTO GODDESS HOOD NUN BUT LOVE !!!!!!! KEEP PREACHING GODDESS !!!!!
Good morning Queen 👑 I know that you did this for the guys but I gotta tell you that both genders needed this wisdom 🎉 n yess if I would have had my basics together alot of shit in my life would b different but like you said get yo shit together and then the right people will be around
My son is 18 years old, and we support him while he's going to college. We don't press him to work because he can't handle school and work simultaneously. He struggled with school due to a mild learning disability but his desire to get a degree and succeed and stand on his own two feet is his main goal. We instilled in him that him going to school full-time is his job and it has helped him gain a work ethic when it comes to working hard and going for his goals. She is speaking facts because my son @ an early age realizes he has to have all his ducks in a row going out into this world in addition to having a relationship.
And everything you saying is facts the only reason someone would think its not is because they're insecurities 💯.sometimes you have to say Fuck how you feeling at the moment because that feeling only want to prevent growth.
As a 43yr old grown man who have all his basics together own my house, own my car money in the bank money in retirement great credit. I approve of this message!! Love Dorsey is speaking the Truth!
@Victor Johnson for a grown man these are basics.
Things are not what it seems my brothers!
Functioning adult. Nothing to brag on
@@London2ATL you right its not nothing to brag on. Its just sad that a lot of men are not functioning adults. More like grown a$$ children depending on women to provide the basics, Its sad bra.
@@London2ATL do the math bro. Most men especially black men don’t have all that. I agree with you but at same time that’s not the average 43 year old mans standing in life.
Being honest I’m a 48 year old man who has never really lived on his own. Graduated high school…went to college…graduated….joined the military….got married….got out the military…got divorced…lived with a woman…got married…got divorced again…lived with a woman….this is the 1st time in my life I’m consciously choosing to be on my own….
I loved this video
Whew! That's a lot. I don't think you really learn yourself until you live alone. It's an awesome feeling
@@m.lynette6648 I believe so too. It's nice not having to consider anyone else's feelings...I can just do what I want when I want. And it's so peaceful too.
@@menonamissionmc The peace is unmatched! There are some weekends that I just stay home, in the bed and order takeout with a bottle of wine. It's a great feeling when you don't have to compromise or consider someone else's feelings at home. We put up with so much outside the home, that peace helps us recharge
I'm a going back too college for the correct major,,,at 1st info tech,2 nursing,3rd veterinary doctor,,,,now a h.s gym instructor,,,I can admit t.v don't work in the real world,I just got a tattoo Short-term above my wrist as well a resume star on my left hand,,,,I'm starting too believe my neighbor friends that live with fam,,by them saying college isn't worth it,clams Institute takes your money,,,I can admit, I'm in or out the hotel for starters.
@@djm-e4damicakae.o979IT would’ve actually been a really profitable route but nursing is great too. Good luck with whatever you do :-)
She hit this shit spot on again!! This why I tell dudes stop moving in with women..build yourself..
2 is better than one
Definitely. If you ain't got it together, you are in a weak position and that's against your actual nature in relation to women.
Real shit it’s bout leverage in relationships because love don’t pay the bills and a person without leverage don’t have no authority or common ground.
You should Be more visible you Tha truth
As a man who’s basics are not where I want them to be yet.. You are ABSOLUTELY CORRECT IN EVERY LEVEL 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Yessir I'm in the same boat homie and she's definitely on point, but we got it tho bro stay up my guy 💪💯
Respect King👑🖤
Now get there
@@demarcusdfrett5139 absolutely 🙏🏿
You'll get there
PUT YOURSELF IN A POSITION TO WANT SOMEONE BUT NEVER NEED ANYONE
From a 79-year-old man, the sister is big facts
Going on 22 I needed to hear this trying to get my CDLs now so I can stand on my own 2 feet as a man 💯
Do it now bro next year u gone b straight
If you getting food stamps, go to unemployment office and you can get free cdl training. And it's a quick process because nobody is doing it
And you sho’ll better do it, young man! Go get your stuff!
Good luck bro make your cash
Appreciate the support guys
Everybody need a love Dorsey in their circle ⭕️ 🏆❤️🏆
The fact I left my ex wife 10yrs ago, had to move in with my mom and get my shit together. Have my own car, crib, and cash plus I do right by my seed. I just wanna I thank God for allowing me to get it together and open the doors for me. This message is true. But I’ve left chicks houses with my shit in garbage bags cus I will not be disrespected
I swear dorsey the hood spokeswoman!! Healing the minds that's been left behind
I’m 26. I can say I have my life 60% together. Got my own spot, two vehicles, a son, and a job that I love. Still pushing for more accomplishments. Sucks because it’s considered lame and corny now days.
I consider doing what you have to do based on your well-being, not others. Keep striving to be the best version for you, hell with anyone else, says. That's people projecting their short comings and failures onto you.🙏💪
I'm literally in this position but I'm emotionally intelligent, but I'm struggling with the basics. I love listening to your perspective. I finally understand something women want but don't look for. Women want and fall in love with potential. Nothing wrong with that but fall for applied potential, potential put to work. I get it.
Damn sista my basics is f'd off thank for bringing this to life👍🏿
Want?? We may settle for potential but want? Not at all.
Proof > Potential
Real shit
Emotionally intelligent 🤔 wtf does that mean ? You shouldn't be dealing with your emotions at all if your a male that's why we have women so they do it for us while we stay focused on what needs to be done in life
"You rebel to feel in control", I aint gon lie that hit me. U probably the only woman i could really respect when it come to checking myself. Appreciate u foreal, been keeping it real ever since u been in this space. I only like to listen to content like this, all that hand holding and blaming the other side feel weak to me. We all gotta be checked, and real ones can take the checking and come back for more
13:48 "As a man thinketh, so is he." - It shows how, in his own thought-world, each man holds the key to every condition, good or bad, that enters into his life, and that, by working patiently and intelligently upon his thoughts, he may remake his life, and transform his circumstances.
She is speaking 100% facts. No bullshit. Wise beyond her years.
She is so right this hit home 4 sho 💯 🤦🏿♂️ man to hear a black woman be so real and authentic with men and women I give this woman the upmost respect 💪🏿
Truth!!! If not you can expect to be disrespected and handle as a child. Man up fellas!
This my big sister ever if I'm older. I love Love! Where you been all my life!!!❤🎉🎉❤
man this was a great message i will admit i was moving mad dumb messin with women i was workin but wasnt going about doin things the right way look at her face fellas as she talk and youll feel what she really sayin
Like I tell my brother, "Folks will TRY to handle you even when you've got all your basics and your shit together. But they will DEFINITELY handle you when you don't have those things lined up." And nope, he hasn't caught tf on yet.
Love you big sis you been helping me through this divorce I appreciate you and wish you the best..love when you cuss me out 😂 makes the point stick
Im not sure why your content hasnt be featured on other channels, hate to admit some of the realest advice for Men is here.
As a woman she motivated the hell out of me! I have a tendency of allowing my emotions to get in the way of aspiring towards improving myself and if that isn’t being worked on daily, consciously putting in the work to change that habit then that will inevitably affect all chances of ever building a good relationship. If we as a human race would just take the time to open are mind to learn and understand basic logic, we could accomplish so many great things together instead of tearing each other down. Having humility, patience and understanding that we’re all students in this classroom of life will take us far.
Nah this facts. And insecurities don't just stem from shit like how you look or how yo living situation is , it's also not trusting yoself to make decisions and shit along those lines. Nothing but facts.
Dont know how I found this, but I know when and how to listen to wisdom. This was needed
😤I've lost track of how many friends I've seen get ran over just due to their living situation. Homeless and Depressed after every relationship.
One of the realist black queen has spoken If you got ears then listen
Not a lot of Smart, Strong and Beautiful young women like you in existence Miss Dorsey, Salute you Peace and Blessings 🙏.
*I KNEW that car was expensive you're sitting in!!!!!!!* I can tell by the seats. 😀
She ROASTED the DUDE that PUSHBACK on HER😆
New Corvette
You gotta keep feeding your self with true fact to actually change 💯 so fucking true
“As a man thinketh he will do”amen 🙏🏿 . I use a white erase board that I purchased from target, I writer all my plans down for the week every Sunday after I meal prep. I haven’t missed a day of the gym since and I love looking back at everything I’ve accomplished at the end of each month. Nothing beat a failure but a try!!
Much respect Sis! You definitely on it . Your describing most of the dudes 34 and under today. I been telling young dudes this for years. They can’t stomach the truth coming from real men. They rather listen to a women. For the nurturing affect. There to sensitive and emotional to handle man energy.
Embraced , The Blessings ✨🦁
Keep Feeding our People Queen ✨🌍💞
Trill talk yes 🙌🏾 ma’am prophetess ❤
Hiya, mediocre tutorials sent me! He!lo I am Rachel from Wales, keep talking sense for the young people to listen to!!! Good on ya sis!
I’m 22 with my first kid on the way , my bm 26 with a 5 year old. You been helping me a lot
This is such a smart woman man 💯❤️
this my first week into my career and i can say that im happy to be able to finally be within a good real job and build towards a good future now 🙏🏿🙏🏿 great video love this womans truth
Listening to you has changed my life for the better! Queen you don't miss! I love the fuck outta you for being who you are!
She definitely speaking truth and I accept it.
Think positive , focus, , elevate your vibration and your energy will attract everything you desire.........like a moth to a flame....money ,success, respect, etc...
Love you speaking Truth, you are a true Sister, Bless you. This is the realest shit I ever heard, true facts!!! Basics and fundamentals so important!!!
I was in BBBS and I think it definitely, drastically improved my life and the things that I expose myself to.
Preach!! Queen I'm witcha 100 percent love
Will be 30 years old next month and I’m a mental health professional seeking a masters degree to become therapist. The basics I need is more income and fixing my rental history. I made some mistakes but I’m 3 semesters from becoming a therapist. She’s right I valued my emotions and loyalty even when I was loyal to the wrong the things. It wasn’t until my ex died and I was left alone that I realized that I was always alone.
I needed this message it was a reality check!!! Thanks Love
I'm walking to this electrician job that I just got hired for as a helper I'm 42 years old just starting to make some real money working on 95 this message it's for me
@ Love D … I just got done dirty by my kids mom .. But think God I had my own house and transportation or me an my kids would of been done ✅ .. Single father of 4 .. 2 on the outside of that .. It’s a humble experience to see what woman go through when we just up an leave y’all with those kids .. I get it now .. All men should experience it !!
Mane dis lady jus spoke my whole situation. parents school your kids especially your boys.this 1 women can change a person whole life forever just off knowledge.
Keep on that Time. That's light.
As a red pill man who’s a 6 figure earner working corporate with my own business, baby girl is speaking federal fucking #facts
How has it been brother
red pill content and the messages they spew is literally the opposite of the advice she gives here
That’s natural beauty right there.. I want her..
Real facts. You should make a video about envy and jealousy in regards to friends and all that.
Pure unadulterated knowledge--wisdom and game..your words are inspiring to hear..
Needed to be checked today… I approve this message ✅
100% facts. It's a hard truth but it's the truth! Basics!
16:28 It's sad too many dudes are lost and without purpose for real.
18:59 ...Speak that wealth into existence 🙏🏾✨
Lol she hit 🎯 when she said they b hitting bars
We look up to you and we need to hear from you as well...
They can't fuck with you...😂
You good...
This woman right here…..💎💎💎💎💎💎
As a man just starting my thirties much love, respect, and appreciation for your energy and content. The reciprocation rather application is real.
Im over qualified to co sign this message. I have more than my basics in order. Alot of people eat off of me, because of me or with me. She is talking big, big facts. I may start using some of her lectures in my program. Alot of men could learn From this.
First off I gotta say I really appreciate your time and efforts in getting a message across to the fellas. I'm one of them that can handle constructive criticism you offer. Your efforts ain't in vain. ❤️ I feel I'm personally crawling out of emotional and financial holes that I let myself fall down in. I went from having a decent quality of life to shit ASAP. But I'm bouncing back harder than ever and part of the reason is because of me facing my demons head on and being open minded enough to understand how, where and why I fkd up. I'm blessed by the grace of God, to still have my own roof and money to take care of myself 1st before I can begin to show interest in or take care of anyone else. It's careful attention to priorities and knowing what's necessary to be where you want to be in life, simply put. We all got the same 24 hours and you are appreciated ❤️✊🏿🔥
Wow! Reading this like a mirror into my own life haha. We are truly blessed to appreciate this journey. You are a lion and a warrior. Thank you.
Man I went through this man. I’m tired of all that. Thank you for the message.
Whenever your at love dorsey I want you to know your helping save my life mentally emotionally psychologically and everything else.thank you
This lady has wisdom
This is the realist clip I’ve seen in a long time. I’ve watched this 3 times ❤
Queen talking REAL!
This lady is smart af!
I'm here because of my wife and my son. Thanks, Sis. I'm a fan🫶🏾
This is one of my favorite ones to watch
I keep going back to this video and see how much this was needed. Facts!!
You the truth. I been like you all my life . There are no real women and men for real the dating pool is putrid
You look fabulous with no makeup well-done!!
This is why I have my own EVERYTHING!!!💯💯💯💪
I just started watching your videos tonight, I ❤❤ your content Thank you .
Thanks for this knowledge sis imma past this video on to my big brother because he definitely needs to hear this.....
“You rebel to feel in control” facts
You got to keep feeding your self the real shit none stop everyday to make a change #Federal Facts
Damn I'm seriously love this woman...she be dropping straight gems !! fr fr
Whew Chile! You came with a message 🔥
💯 that’s real life love what you preaching I’m 19 and just learned something new you speaking real life then words really hit me love it 💙💯
I luv this girl!
One of your videos was sent to me for a insult and now this videos just confirmed what I been saying the whole time thank you
WOW! WOW! WOW! Drop that science Sista! If a old brother wanna give u a hug at the QT it will be me. You are dropping those diamonds, hopefully they are hearing you! Keep up the good work!
Damn…Love you really just hit home with all this!
Wow…I respect you so much and this is coming from a 33 year old man who is trying to get his self together and not being able to control my emotions is the reason why…
Getting mad and walking away from jobs when I was younger …I mean I needed to hear this and I appreciate you so much🙏🏽
Im in the same boat my dude .. just coming to the same realization .. grateful to now know better /begin to do better
@@christmasboy07 I wish you nothing but blessings on top of blessings🙏🏽
You the truth ma because I been all that you just said, so keep pushing that out. That entrepreneurship is definitely the truth. I'm striving for that too. By the way, love the natural look sis. Take care!!
Dorsey you really a gift!!
I swear she is showing nothing but love to everybody on this video!receive it!!!
Big facts sis 👏 u ain't said nothing that was flawed ..Gotta do 4 self and always stand on business as a Man that's what A Real Man does keep saying dis shit Queen cause our brothers need dis frfr I salute u Queen I see and hear ya loud and clear
I've seen plenty of Love Dorsey videos on here but could never find her channel until a few days ago.
A lot of what she said in this video really hit home for me and honesty a lot of her other videos about watching out for certain people in your life and certain folks to not be around.
💯that’s all I can say!!
I'm in love with this video
Mad love to you Dorsey. 💙💙💙💙
i am only 24 and U speaking nun but facts THINGS MENS NEED TO DO TO BE MAN 1. KNOWELEDGE OF SELF 2. SELF DISPLINE 3 . MASTERING YOUR SEXUAL ENERGY 333. ITS AWSOME TO SEE WOMAN LIKE U COMING BACK INTO GODDESS HOOD NUN BUT LOVE !!!!!!! KEEP PREACHING GODDESS !!!!!
Good morning Queen 👑 I know that you did this for the guys but I gotta tell you that both genders needed this wisdom 🎉 n yess if I would have had my basics together alot of shit in my life would b different but like you said get yo shit together and then the right people will be around
My son is 18 years old, and we support him while he's going to college. We don't press him to work because he can't handle school and work simultaneously. He struggled with school due to a mild learning disability but his desire to get a degree and succeed and stand on his own two feet is his main goal. We instilled in him that him going to school full-time is his job and it has helped him gain a work ethic when it comes to working hard and going for his goals. She is speaking facts because my son @ an early age realizes he has to have all his ducks in a row going out into this world in addition to having a relationship.
She spoke FACTS.
Damm🤦🏾♂️this so real I’m glad you’ve made this video
And everything you saying is facts the only reason someone would think its not is because they're insecurities 💯.sometimes you have to say Fuck how you feeling at the moment because that feeling only want to prevent growth.