What you said about overcompensating is really insightful actually. I understand that completely. It’s like this one thing that your parents didn’t like or agree with, but to overshadow that, you try to be perfect at literally everything else so that they focus on the success you have. It’s great that you recognized that. You have an interesting story for sure and I feel like this is how it happens for a lot of PKs and people who are involved in the church. I’m happy your mom has fully come around. I will pray that your dad some day gets to that point as well. But if not, I’m happy you know who you are and whose you are! Keep being you! Many blessings to you and Dorrie!
I'm doubled your age youngster, that's so many people's story. Mine has a lot more lines to it because of my age. I'm sure that's why I watch you and many other couples. A lot of us wish we had the freedoms you all have today🥺. Just like I say often, I love the 💘 💞💞🌈🌈
My “G”, it was the acceptance part for me. When me being a Lesbian hit the fan, it hit the fan baby. I got kicked out my senior in high and had it hard for a while.(I do mean hard) When you talked about acceptance, to this day at 38 I struggle with this issue. I told myself that this year I was going to be through with it. On this great Sunday morning, My God knew I must of needed to here this. This just lets me know that this is what I need to do and continue to do. I thank you sis for your testimony and your truth. God speaks his words through many forms... God bless you and your family.
Hello beautiful, i am also a lesbian. Just keep your head held high. God has your back and he knows your heart. My mother completely disowned me and so did my family. I had it hard just like you, trust me god hears you and your amazing, fabulous and can do anything you want. God bless you miss Shana. I love you and don't even know you. 💋😘
I have learned you cannot please other people because the more you try the more you fail. I let go of all toxic relationships. I wish you the best Brittney.
WOW! First, thank you for sharing your coming out experience. It took courage. I truly appreciate your Transparency. I'm a mother of adult children your age. I totally understand your parents position. Their job is to train you up according to the scriptures. They have imparted the imperishable word of God within you. They can't accept your lifestyle, but they will always love you as daughter. Your lifestyle will never change that. When i was growing up. My mother had 4 girls then my brother was born. Long atory short. My brother was gay from an early age (7 years old?). My father couldn't understand how his very young son could be gay so he tried to beat it out of him. It was a disaster. When my brother got older he ran way and we haven't seen him since. We've searched every state to find him with no success. We dont know if he is alive or dead to this day. I truly miss my brother everyday and i pray that he is alive and well. I also have some gay cousins as well who thank God didn't have to go through that experience. I agree with you Brittany. After your parents raise you. You are accountable to God for the choices you make. As a parent myself. I may not like all the choices/decisions my children make, but i will always love them and be there for them just like your mother. Ultimately they, like you, and all of the rest of us will have to answer to God for the life we've lived. Again, thank you do much for sharing your coming out story.
Wow..one of my brothers dad did the same thing to him.smh it messed up their relationship. I pray that this is the year you all locate your brother. I pray that he is safe and living his best life.🙏🏽👐🏾
Brittany I love your story. I felt like your mother then and now. I grew up just like your parents and thats what I taught my daughter. I thought her dad and I did something wrong. My daughter is probably your age. But I came to the realization I wanted my daughter to be happy !!! I loved my daughter and her significant other. Both are them are successful and doing well! It is nothing like a MOTHER'S LOVE !! Peace and Blessings!
Wow! You two are very strong. I was blessed enough to have family show me the ultimate support. Actually they were all like about time we were waiting on you lol, but to hear you two’s stories it just reminds me that everyone truly has their own journey. Happy that even with certain family, those were able to recognize your happiness is more important then their choices.
Reading the comments is blowing my mind. I’m not alone! IF only having these types of connections via UA-cam happened when I was also experiencing my liking of females. Being a preacher’s kid is tougher than anyone knows when your lifestyle doesn’t agree with your parent’s view, especially having a pastor as your dad. The spotlight is drawn to your every move (or so it feels like). Having God as the head of my life, I felt as though I was also letting Him down too. I feel inspired to share my story on my other UA-cam channel. This was very encouraging for myself seeing you share your coming out story. #FromOnePkToAnother 💙
You explained that very well sometimes you can make and please everybody and make them happy knowing that what you want you have to choose and make choices for your self out of life what makes you happy and comfortable love your coming out story!!😍
OMG, what a small world. I lived in Plano during that time and I know your dad. I use to workout at the Muehlenbeck Rec. and I also played and coached Club, HS & Collge basketball.
I can relate to this story so much. Always pleasing my parents end up me being a crowd pleaser. I am a working progress... great story. I guess your family has heal now since you talking now
Yo! I just want start off by saying I love you Brittany Vaughn! You are the truth. You are a true inspiration. I want to follow-up by saying I really love your parents and siblings. Keep living in your truth. Keeping taking it one day at a time.
Thanks for sharing your story. So sorry that you had to go through so many struggles. So amazing how you evolved over thr years and it's yo beautiful to watch how much you love Dorrie. Also wonderful to see how much your mother came around and really loves Dorrie too. Hope that one day your father will also learn to accept your relationship.
First and foremost thank you for living your truth. I appreciate you and Dorrie’s transparency. Lastly stand up OKC! I’m a faithful patron of Dorrie’s mother’s shop. I don’t know how I came across your channel but I’m loving it! Bless you both and keep up the great work! Oh and btw I’m proud to have you as my Soror🙌🏽
We appreciate you for sharing Brittany, your family raised a wonderful God fearing young lady. At the end of the day, the poured greatness into you and now you can flourish as an individual as a human. Keep inspiring sis, you and Dorrie inspire me to never settle💪🏾 Way to go! Respect to you, mom and dad🙏🏽
Your truth will set others free. Thank you for sharing ♥️ I just love y’all. What you said about overcompensating really hit home for me. 😩 this is more than just a “coming out” story. This was a blessing. I’m so appreciative for your transparency. Thank you 🙏🏾
Wow. Our coming out story is nearly identical. From everything to the love letter (and ring) and my mom calling me by my full name (in that TONE) the night she found out. However, my mom and dad made me quit the basketball team my senior year. Mom pulled me out of basketball practice and everything. 🤦🏽♀️ Fast forward 25 years later they have come a long way. Thank you so much for sharing. ♥️🧡💛💚💙💜
Brittany beautiful connecting with us all I can say to you thank you. You are all right with me. May God bless and Dorrie and my babies take them for a walk for me my friend.
Thank you for sharing Brittany! I can honestly say my story is slightly similar, however I do not have a relationship with my parents anymore. Everyday I struggle because I miss them and feel like i let them down, but now I’m going to look at it the way you have looked at it. You and your wife’s channel is so inspiring, I really enjoy and appreciate y’all’s videos! 😊
Thanks for sharing your story Brittney. “To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”❤️🤞🏾
🥰🥰 Been waiting for this video because I grew up in a Christian home with a preacher as a father and to this day my family still hasn’t accepted my relationship. I didn’t get the opportunity to come out I was called out by my older brother 😔.
i love this. so much of your story is similar to mine and it’s encouraging to know other people have gone through and are still going through the same situation as i am. thank you for sharing with us Brittney!
As a Christian, pk, and lesbian sometimes our parents say they are doing things bc of religion when its false. They are doing it bc of how things may look to the congregation or friends. The Bible describes love in great detail...1 Corinthians 13:1. If we loved unconditionally like Christ we wouldnt treat our children like that regardless. So parents please love the way the Bible directs us to...even when they don't do things u agree with...Christ didnt abandon u when u strayed so have that same grace for your children.
Thanks for sharing. My story is similar to yours. I was very athletic in high school and college. Made Jr. Olympics and traveled the world as well. Lots of alcalades, was achieved. Why, because I wanted my family to know that they did a great job in raising me. However, as you said, you love who you love, and no one can change that. God bless you and you family.
So generous of you to share this personal story. I really appreciate how genuine your channel is, and I love ‘riding’ with you guys. Much love and blessings 💕💗💕
I feel your story. Being from Arkansas also I can say it was difficult being gay. My family from a Christian stand point was not accepting but they loved me regardless. I agree, you have to live your truth. Over time family will accept you because they truly love you. God is love and loves all that He created. It is not up to us to decide whom another person should be or who they should be with. It’s just not our job. Our job is to live our lives being the best person we can be and to love all people as God loves us. Keep doing you. ❤️❤️❤️🌈
As a parent of a gay son I knew he was guy from a very young age..I have never stop loving him..he is still my baby boy..just want him to be happy..like you said God is the only person who can judge him..thank you
Hey girl enjoy listening to your vid you live your life in whatever makes you happy 😊 wish I could leave Little Rock just want something different but god bless you love you and your wife
Girl your parents did a bomb ass job w/ you . Idek you personally all I do is watch you guys & you seem like a awesome person Britt .. I’ve learned years ago that I can ONLY be me, but my people know quite frankly I don’t even care what anyone thinks no way you either here for this beautiful ride or not, I’m riding out regardless .. I love you guys 💜
This is amazing Brittney and I respect you, the way you told your story is heart felt. I like when you said you never seen gay me either but a knew women smelled good and they were pretty and had them pretty legs. It was something I was feeling. God 🙏 bless you babygirl 💕. You are special and Dorrie has a good wife. I'm so glad your happy 🤗.
I am a pk too. I am straight, but I had a gay friend in middle school. I talked to my dad about how people were bullying her in school. He told me that "even though the Bible says it is wrong it is also wrong to judge other people." It was surprising, but there are plenty of pastors who accept gay people. Sorry you went through all of that. Being a pk is constant pressure.
✋🏼High five to you! Standing ovation! I remember when I told my mom.. Good Lord, furniture was moving up in the heavens! She said, " God don't make no mistake," why me? I said, " well it's you or daddy genes that messed me up.." Yo Brittany, I received a beat down of my life that day... Lol.. But with time everything will past.. Just like you, now your parents pop up in videos and respect your marriage to Dorrie!!! Yes, God doesn't make mistakes, we not different but we have a special love for our own kind... Women are just beautiful!!! Kuddos to your parents, this is beautiful!
Your relationship with God is what that matters most, love is love and love is beautiful. Beautiful story to teach a lot for future keeps.
Your relationship with GOD is all that matters. 👏🏽💯💕
Brittney this is Beautiful. You said the most important thing....Your relationship with GOD!!!!! Blessings to you & Dorrie💙🙏🏽💙
Thank you so much!!
My sister stay strong your parents should be proud they have done a great job you are an amazing person.
What you said about overcompensating is really insightful actually. I understand that completely. It’s like this one thing that your parents didn’t like or agree with, but to overshadow that, you try to be perfect at literally everything else so that they focus on the success you have. It’s great that you recognized that. You have an interesting story for sure and I feel like this is how it happens for a lot of PKs and people who are involved in the church. I’m happy your mom has fully come around. I will pray that your dad some day gets to that point as well. But if not, I’m happy you know who you are and whose you are! Keep being you! Many blessings to you and Dorrie!
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I'm doubled your age youngster, that's so many people's story. Mine has a lot more lines to it because of my age. I'm sure that's why I watch you and many other couples. A lot of us wish we had the freedoms you all have today🥺. Just like I say often, I love the 💘 💞💞🌈🌈
My “G”, it was the acceptance part for me. When me being a Lesbian hit the fan, it hit the fan baby. I got kicked out my senior in high and had it hard for a while.(I do mean hard) When you talked about acceptance, to this day at 38 I struggle with this issue. I told myself that this year I was going to be through with it. On this great Sunday morning, My God knew I must of needed to here this. This just lets me know that this is what I need to do and continue to do. I thank you sis for your testimony and your truth. God speaks his words through many forms... God bless you and your family.
Hello beautiful, i am also a lesbian. Just keep your head held high. God has your back and he knows your heart. My mother completely disowned me and so did my family. I had it hard just like you, trust me god hears you and your amazing, fabulous and can do anything you want. God bless you miss Shana. I love you and don't even know you. 💋😘
I have learned you cannot please other people because the more you try the more you fail. I let go of all toxic relationships. I wish you the best Brittney.
WOW! First, thank you for sharing your coming out experience. It took courage. I truly appreciate your Transparency.
I'm a mother of adult children your age. I totally understand your parents position. Their job is to train you up according to the scriptures. They have imparted the imperishable word of God within you.
They can't accept your lifestyle, but they will always love you as daughter. Your lifestyle will never change that.
When i was growing up. My mother had 4 girls then my brother was born. Long atory short. My brother was gay from an early age (7 years old?). My father couldn't understand how his very young son could be gay so he tried to beat it out of him.
It was a disaster. When my brother got older he ran way and we haven't seen him since. We've searched every state to find him with no success. We dont know if he is alive or dead to this day. I truly miss my brother everyday and i pray that he is alive and well.
I also have some gay cousins as well who thank God didn't have to go through that experience.
I agree with you Brittany. After your parents raise you. You are accountable to God for the choices you make.
As a parent myself. I may not like all the choices/decisions my children make, but i will always love them and be there for them just like your mother.
Ultimately they, like you, and all of the rest of us will have to answer to God for the life we've lived.
Again, thank you do much for sharing your coming out story.
Praying for your family. May God allow you to meet your brother again.
@@themrs.hamptonshow1384 Thank you for your kind words.
Wow..one of my brothers dad did the same thing to him.smh it messed up their relationship. I pray that this is the year you all locate your brother. I pray that he is safe and living his best life.🙏🏽👐🏾
@@Divorcedbefore40 thank you for your kind words.
Brittany I love your story. I felt like your mother then and now. I grew up just like your parents and thats what I taught my daughter. I thought her dad and I did something wrong. My daughter is probably your age. But I came to the realization I wanted my daughter to be happy !!! I loved my daughter and her significant other. Both are them are successful and doing well! It is nothing like a MOTHER'S LOVE !! Peace and Blessings!
Brave girl. Bravo! 💪🏽🙏🏽
Love this Britt!! Stay true to yourself! That’s all that matters! ❤️❤️
I’m so proud of you! Thank you for sharing. You and Dorrie have truly been a blessing.
Wow! You two are very strong. I was blessed enough to have family show me the ultimate support. Actually they were all like about time we were waiting on you lol, but to hear you two’s stories it just reminds me that everyone truly has their own journey. Happy that even with certain family, those were able to recognize your happiness is more important then their choices.
Brittney and Dorrie i love watching your UA-cam videos I’m a huge fan
Reading the comments is blowing my mind. I’m not alone! IF only having these types of connections via UA-cam happened when I was also experiencing my liking of females. Being a preacher’s kid is tougher than anyone knows when your lifestyle doesn’t agree with your parent’s view, especially having a pastor as your dad. The spotlight is drawn to your every move (or so it feels like). Having God as the head of my life, I felt as though I was also letting Him down too. I feel inspired to share my story on my other UA-cam channel. This was very encouraging for myself seeing you share your coming out story. #FromOnePkToAnother 💙
You're very strong -willed despite the adversities, that i admire and respect you for. Brittney I appreciate you sharing your story👍🏽💯
You explained that very well sometimes you can make and please everybody and make them happy knowing that what you want you have to choose and make choices for your self out of life what makes you happy and comfortable love your coming out story!!😍
OMG, what a small world. I lived in Plano during that time and I know your dad. I use to workout at the Muehlenbeck Rec. and I also played and coached Club, HS & Collge basketball.
I can relate to this story so much. Always pleasing my parents end up me being a crowd pleaser. I am a working progress... great story. I guess your family has heal now since you talking now
Thank you for sharing. Appreciate you opening up to us. Your testimony will help somebody!
Thanx Britttney for sharing your experience with yo life style all luv frm South Africa 👍👌👏💞💝💃💃🙊🙊
Yo! I just want start off by saying I love you Brittany Vaughn! You are the truth. You are a true inspiration. I want to follow-up by saying I really love your parents and siblings. Keep living in your truth. Keeping taking it one day at a time.
Thanks for sharing your story. So sorry that you had to go through so many struggles.
So amazing how you evolved over thr years and it's yo beautiful to watch how much you love Dorrie.
Also wonderful to see how much your mother came around and really loves Dorrie too.
Hope that one day your father will also learn to accept your relationship.
Thank you for sharing Brittney! I admire your transparency and you living your truth.
I’ve been looking forward to this. Thanks for sharing your story! 💖
You are right. Love you for loving you and being yourself. I glad for you and Dorrie. Love the new intro
First and foremost thank you for living your truth. I appreciate you and Dorrie’s transparency. Lastly stand up OKC! I’m a faithful patron of Dorrie’s mother’s shop. I don’t know how I came across your channel but I’m loving it! Bless you both and keep up the great work! Oh and btw I’m proud to have you as my Soror🙌🏽
So proud of you for telling your story and thanks so much for sharing very powerful and true!!!! 🙏🙌👍😊God Bless...
We appreciate you for sharing Brittany, your family raised a wonderful God fearing young lady. At the end of the day, the poured greatness into you and now you can flourish as an individual as a human. Keep inspiring sis, you and Dorrie inspire me to never settle💪🏾
Way to go! Respect to you, mom and dad🙏🏽
I'm sending much love to you on what you have been through to get where you are today,I love and admire you and your wife.
Thank you for sharing this with us. Thank you for showing us a bit more of your heart. You are AWESOME! I thank God for your life!
My daughter, and my wife always say the intro song, when I watch you guys. It's so funny we love y'all have a blessed one❤❤❤❤
Thank you Brittney for your story. We love you and we gonna rock with you.
Bravo Brittney! Thanks for sharing. ❤
Enjoyed the story!! Happy New Year!
Great message. Be your authentic self💕💕💕💕💕
Your truth will set others free. Thank you for sharing ♥️ I just love y’all. What you said about overcompensating really hit home for me. 😩 this is more than just a “coming out” story. This was a blessing. I’m so appreciative for your transparency. Thank you 🙏🏾
Real talk Brittany much love💜keep God first at the end of the day.
Thanks for sharing your story I've learned so much by watching your channel. Brittney and Dorrie thank you for the authentic content.
Great video Brittany 😍 My favorite parts “just be yourself & it’s not your parent’s fault 🥰
Yes! Thank you!
*Moral of the story: Always be happy for you, don't be a pleaser to what makes you unhappy, coz everybody else who loves you, wants you to be happy☺✌*
Love you both! Appreciate you sharing yourself with us ❤️
Your story reminds me so much of my sister same situation as yours
Congratulations Brittney! Always remember this: Those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind!👩🏿🤝👩🏽
Wow. Our coming out story is nearly identical. From everything to the love letter (and ring) and my mom calling me by my full name (in that TONE) the night she found out. However, my mom and dad made me quit the basketball team my senior year. Mom pulled me out of basketball practice and everything. 🤦🏽♀️ Fast forward 25 years later they have come a long way. Thank you so much for sharing. ♥️🧡💛💚💙💜
I FELT this...thank you so much for sharing!!
Thank you for sharing Brittney ❤️
Brittany beautiful connecting with us all I can say to you thank you. You are all right with me. May God bless and Dorrie and my babies take them for a walk for me my friend.
Dope story
Thank you for sharing Brittany! I can honestly say my story is slightly similar, however I do not have a relationship with my parents anymore. Everyday I struggle because I miss them and feel like i let them down, but now I’m going to look at it the way you have looked at it. You and your wife’s channel is so inspiring, I really enjoy and appreciate y’all’s videos! 😊
This was so good! ❤️
finally...the long awaited day has come...
was really waiting for this.
#BritandDorriegang 💖💖
Thanks for sharing your story. Always interesting to hear.
Thank you for sharing ♥️
Dope Journey so far! Keep pushing fam!!!
Thank you! Will do!
well said brittney.love is love
Thanks for sharing your story Brittney. “To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”❤️🤞🏾
You are so welcome!
Your story will help someone that scary
Most important, live your truth of who you are. Never expect anybody, to know more about your life than you. Brittney thanks for sharing your story.
You are so welcome!
Do you think it’s ever too late to come out? I’m in my early 30s and I kind of told my mom and sister but not my dad.
Brittney you are so strong and I respect you!!💜
🥰🥰 Been waiting for this video because I grew up in a Christian home with a preacher as a father and to this day my family still hasn’t accepted my relationship. I didn’t get the opportunity to come out I was called out by my older brother 😔.
I Love your Story, I would say this is your coming in to your true safe Story 🙏🏽 loving who you Love is real.
i love this. so much of your story is similar to mine and it’s encouraging to know other people have gone through and are still going through the same situation as i am. thank you for sharing with us Brittney!
Brittney, your story was very encouraging and I hope that others may be inspired by your story!
As a Christian, pk, and lesbian sometimes our parents say they are doing things bc of religion when its false. They are doing it bc of how things may look to the congregation or friends. The Bible describes love in great detail...1 Corinthians 13:1. If we loved unconditionally like Christ we wouldnt treat our children like that regardless. So parents please love the way the Bible directs us to...even when they don't do things u agree with...Christ didnt abandon u when u strayed so have that same grace for your children.
Thanks for sharing. My story is similar to yours. I was very athletic in high school and college. Made Jr. Olympics and traveled the world as well. Lots of alcalades, was achieved. Why, because I wanted my family to know that they did a great job in raising me. However, as you said, you love who you love, and no one can change that. God bless you and you family.
Thank you Brittney for story time.❤❤❤
You are a great person I love watching your videos
I appreciate that!
Thank you for sharing your story 🖤
So generous of you to share this personal story. I really appreciate how genuine your channel is, and I love ‘riding’ with you guys. Much love and blessings 💕💗💕
Thank you so much!
Thanks for sharing. I hope you're relationship with your dad gets better. Take care and continue to do you.
I feel your story. Being from Arkansas also I can say it was difficult being gay. My family from a Christian stand point was not accepting but they loved me regardless. I agree, you have to live your truth. Over time family will accept you because they truly love you. God is love and loves all that He created. It is not up to us to decide whom another person should be or who they should be with. It’s just not our job. Our job is to live our lives being the best person we can be and to love all people as God loves us. Keep doing you. ❤️❤️❤️🌈
As a parent of a gay son I knew he was guy from a very young age..I have never stop loving him..he is still my baby boy..just want him to be happy..like you said God is the only person who can judge him..thank you
God bless you.I really like your story and great advice to myself open my eyes.Keep the faith my sister😎😎😎
I love the theme song 🎵.
😢 we love you Brittney 🌹
Hi fam 🙋🏽♀️,Thank you for sharing your story it was beautiful. Love always win 🌈
Thank you for sharing yourself with us❤️
Hey girl enjoy listening to your vid you live your life in whatever makes you happy 😊 wish I could leave Little Rock just want something different but god bless you love you and your wife
YOU ARE EVERYTHING !
Girl your parents did a bomb ass job w/ you . Idek you personally all I do is watch you guys & you seem like a awesome person Britt .. I’ve learned years ago that I can ONLY be me, but my people know quite frankly I don’t even care what anyone thinks no way you either here for this beautiful ride or not, I’m riding out regardless .. I love you guys 💜
Thanks for sharing your #Truth 🥰🥰😍🤗 Ju
Any time!
Love you, Britt. ❤️
I was looking forward to this one.
OK! waiting for this ever since Dorrie did hers. .... Happy New Year's 🌹
Happy Saturday Ladies🥰🥰🥰🥰
Enjoyed your coming out story.
Amen well said sister it’s all about you and God ❤️
This was amazing❤❤❤❤👍👍👍
I am a PK too. My parents did not know until I was getting married. It was hard for them. They have come around but the relationship is not the same.
This is amazing Brittney and I respect you, the way you told your story is heart felt. I like when you said you never seen gay me either but a knew women smelled good and they were pretty and had them pretty legs. It was something I was feeling. God 🙏 bless you babygirl 💕. You are special and Dorrie has a good wife. I'm so glad your happy 🤗.
I am a pk too. I am straight, but I had a gay friend in middle school. I talked to my dad about how people were bullying her in school. He told me that "even though the Bible says it is wrong it is also wrong to judge other people." It was surprising, but there are plenty of pastors who accept gay people. Sorry you went through all of that. Being a pk is constant pressure.
Your story is identical to mine
Yes . You have to get to a point that you do what makes YOU happy. Not your parents or anyone else.
✋🏼High five to you! Standing ovation! I remember when I told my mom.. Good Lord, furniture was moving up in the heavens! She said, " God don't make no mistake," why me? I said, " well it's you or daddy genes that messed me up.." Yo Brittany, I received a beat down of my life that day... Lol.. But with time everything will past.. Just like you, now your parents pop up in videos and respect your marriage to Dorrie!!! Yes, God doesn't make mistakes, we not different but we have a special love for our own kind... Women are just beautiful!!! Kuddos to your parents, this is beautiful!
Ima PK too and I totally get it!
Beautiful story❤️❤️
Love u guys
Thank you!!!!😍