Self Love is the Best Kind when you are Alone | The Vlog returns

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  • @fiona58743
    @fiona58743 17 днів тому +104

    Patricia - this is what we’re talking about! Your personality is BACK. Omg your loved ones clearly bring out the best in you. It’s been months since we’ve seen the version of you and it’s clear that the spark is back. so so happy to see you thriving again 🥹

  • @suziedeschene5069
    @suziedeschene5069 17 днів тому +184

    Patricia, we love you and that’s on period. We have been here through all your eras and we will be here for all to come. Wishing you the best with your family

  • @SuperMarbear
    @SuperMarbear 17 днів тому +65

    OMG!! Patricia!! Yess .....I am not going to lie I was worried about you after I saw all the feedback last week...but THANK YOU for coming back!! I am so impressed with how you handled the feedback and came back STRONG and REAL!! I am not sure what you did differently but energy doesn't lie and this felt real and genuine !!! No need to be super vulnerable until you are ready. This is good enough! Just you being authentically you!!Great job!!!! You are a fighter and i am super proud of you!!! Loved this vlog!!!

  • @orealjinalInteriors
    @orealjinalInteriors 17 днів тому +20

    One of the reasons why I have continued to follow your journey after so many many many many many many many many years is your humility. It shows when you were discussing being dressed “rich” yet you stopped and became instantly enamored with a shop that essentially no one knows about, but it traces back to your African roots🖤 your authenticity, and love for Christ truly does shine! Keep glowing and growing and being the salt of the earth👑🪴⚡️

  • @Nina_dollinista
    @Nina_dollinista 17 днів тому +36

    Video is the definition of black girl luxury that is so your lifestyle. Patricia don’t be ashamed of that. It’s awesome that your head designer you earned that 👏🏾

  • @ONEOFAKINDSISTAH
    @ONEOFAKINDSISTAH 17 днів тому +129

    Patricia I’ve loved seeing your journey from the early days. The comments/criticism on the last post were tough and as you continue to grow you’ll gain , lose and maintain followers.
    You’re equal parts relatable and inspirational. In that vein here’s some possible suggestions for the channel:
    - fashion hauls expensive and high street
    - books you’re reading
    - work/life balance tips
    - personal finance - tips at any stage of life
    - cooking (meal prep for the busy week)
    - jewellery accessory hauls
    - collaborations on fashion for example I saw a collab with Trini Woodall and Carla Rockson they are much older than you but the passion they had for clothes and fashion had me glued
    - places of interest UK/tourist spots abroad
    - motherhood - balancing it all
    - career /entrepreneurial tips
    - make up tips for beginners to advance
    These are just suggestions a lot of which you’ve done before and you might already have ready for future posts.
    The last thing I’d say is hopefully you’re not contracted to promoting Better Help or can get out of it. So much has come out about their harmful practices that promoting it to your viewers damages your brand.
    Hope you receive this comment with love. Wishing you, the family and this channel all the best.
    Side note: M&S bangs 🙂

    • @demigreen6495
      @demigreen6495 17 днів тому +3

      Love this 🎉

    • @suziedeschene5069
      @suziedeschene5069 17 днів тому +19

      @@ONEOFAKINDSISTAH while this comment is very valuable, we are sick and tired of seeing hauls of stuff. There are so many creators who do that. In this cost of living crisis the last thing we want us more hauls promoting overconsumption. There are so many things Patricia can add value to and hauls are just not one of them.

    • @ONEOFAKINDSISTAH
      @ONEOFAKINDSISTAH 17 днів тому +13

      @@suziedeschene5069 I don’t actually disagree with you. Some people like them and some people don’t. My suggestions are simply that suggestions. 🙂
      Taking into account the cost of living crisis I’ve seen ‘shopping from your own wardrobe’ remixing pieces to create new outfits of all styles.
      Collaborations with stores including thrift/vintage stores (I don’t think that’s on brand for Patricia unless she did the high end vintage shops). Or visiting regular stores and discussing how to put pieces together. That way it’s not overconsumption it’s fashion advice and those who want to buy know what’s in a particular store.
      I just thought given some of the comments on the previous post it’s easy for us as viewers to criticise but personally I prefer sharing solutions rather than complaints.

    • @jackiedelvalle
      @jackiedelvalle 17 днів тому +9

      ​@@suziedeschene5069"We" who???! On whose behalf are you presuming to speak? Not mine for sure! I don't mind hauls AT ALL. I watch them on various channels. I guess they suit my nosey spirit, but whatever, I love em, whether they're clothes, food, household stuff, whatever. It's escapism and a window into other lives. People have always loved that, economic crisis or no.

    • @NashvilleBraids
      @NashvilleBraids 17 днів тому +3

      @@suziedeschene5069 I don't mind a good haul here and there. I'm not asking for a full on shopping spree full of stuff, but maybe just knowing what's found to better her life (like that distilled water from amazon). and I would love to see what she's reading!

  • @michellegove
    @michellegove 17 днів тому +55

    I’m glad you took those comments in your stride Pat. But I find the nasty comments really put me off UA-cam and Instagram. It’s as if people are so fed up and miserable they just can’t help but try to demolish other people. It’s so tiring seeing people saying the most nasty things pretending it’s coming from a good place when it’s not. They’ve chased away so many great content creators with the nonsense too. 😢

    • @Chazzabox1
      @Chazzabox1 11 днів тому +2

      Can I dare ask what the comments were referring to. I haven’t seen her videos in months, not sure why I clicked on this one, just the way it goes sometimes. Patricia has always been inspirational but I also know people expect perfection according to them. Which is insane.

  • @BritHawkins
    @BritHawkins 17 днів тому +74

    Patricia - I've missed you in these UA-cam streets🤗

  • @Dnest10
    @Dnest10 17 днів тому +26

    There she is! All love all the time from us! We aren't going ANYWHERE! Continue to be authentically you because you are be-you-tiful

  • @LinusLarrabee
    @LinusLarrabee 17 днів тому +30

    There she is! Content creators go through ups and downs just like everyone else. True supporters will always be here. ♥️♥️♥️

    • @randomjan33
      @randomjan33 10 днів тому +1

      Exactly and tell it as it is only there personal opinion

  • @renee176
    @renee176 13 днів тому +8

    I'm from the States and I used to work in the UK. One of the things I miss about the UK is a high tea, It's a lovely experience. I also love M&S, so much good stuff to buy that you don't know what to choose.🤩

  • @tracymason2384
    @tracymason2384 17 днів тому +18

    Great Vlog Patricia! How lovely to have time just for you.. Love you girl xx

  • @risxu
    @risxu 17 днів тому +12

    Just by the first couple seconds I know this is going to be a good ass video!!! Yes, miss Patricia living your best life!! We love you for you and your personality!

  • @soilgrasswaterair
    @soilgrasswaterair 14 днів тому +6

    It’s never selfish to make time for yourself❤
    Taking time for yourself is also part of family life!

  • @tinachristine4573
    @tinachristine4573 17 днів тому +9

    I miss you so much when you don't post, it's ridiculous😢😢😮❤❤
    Also you gave me the confidence to level up and dress better and do nicer things for myself.

  • @sophiaolenka
    @sophiaolenka 17 днів тому +5

    Patricia you’re the only UA-camr I will wait and still be subscribed to no matter what. ❤
    Really missed this type of video 🫶🏻

  • @kendancast
    @kendancast 15 днів тому +5

    oh period, marks and spencer is my first stop when im in the uk!!! The british strawberries, the percy pigs....the chocolate cornflake crunch That's the spon con im here for.

  • @earaya
    @earaya 17 днів тому +10

    Great return of the vlog, Pat. I love your spirit and the intro❤

  • @brittaniglynnmagee
    @brittaniglynnmagee 17 днів тому +34

    First channel I ever subscribed to! My favorite UA-camr from the start. Love you so much Patricia!!! 💕

  • @charlenephillips7800
    @charlenephillips7800 17 днів тому +53

    Can we just appreciate how beautiful this woman is

  • @pixiebomb28
    @pixiebomb28 17 днів тому +7

    dude, me in my dressing gown watching you say "take off that dressing gown!" and immediately I was just like no! 🤣

  • @jackiedelvalle
    @jackiedelvalle 17 днів тому +9

    This was lovely, lighthearted and fun. Loved lunch with your cuzzzzzinnnn. We do a lot of family hangouts too. The folks who know and love you ❤

  • @eniolafujah
    @eniolafujah 16 днів тому +2

    I love you Patricia. You inspire me and I have learnt so much from you. The comments on the last posts we tough but you came back like a champ that you are.

  • @SoloCityTravels
    @SoloCityTravels 17 днів тому +5

    You work very hard, girl! If you want to mix designers and wear all of them at once you go ahead! The outfit was eating🥰

  • @RocknRollDina
    @RocknRollDina 11 днів тому +1

    our girl is back! This is the kind of content I like. You were so authentic. would love to hear about your tattoos or at least see them up close.

  • @nomalungelodlamini7122
    @nomalungelodlamini7122 17 днів тому +4

    Loved this so much. So glad you're back and hope you're okay

  • @MissKSA
    @MissKSA 17 днів тому +17

    She's back 🎉🎉🎊

  • @melshonestsoul2200
    @melshonestsoul2200 17 днів тому +9

    Happy to see you enjoying your free mummy time. ❤

  • @leora_in_london
    @leora_in_london 17 днів тому +2

    This is such a lovely vlog! Patricia - as much as we love to give you advice LOL, we all subscribed because of YOU! Stay authentic to yourself always

  • @LoveTeaSoul
    @LoveTeaSoul 15 днів тому +1

    Heyyyy, it's Patricia! I am reading through the comments and I have no idea what happened because I dip in and out of these youtube streets like you but whatever happened I'm glad you persisted because I'm thrilled to see you pop up in the feed! 💖

  • @mossfleur
    @mossfleur 17 днів тому +4

    So great to see you! You look amazing! 💜

  • @JijjysMaison
    @JijjysMaison 16 днів тому +3

    I totally agree, we need to spoil ourselves as often as possible, love ourselves. Not wait for other to do so. :D i am already planning in my head.....

  • @soilgrasswaterair
    @soilgrasswaterair 14 днів тому +3

    It’s lovely to see you again, Patricia!❤

  • @blessing5952
    @blessing5952 15 днів тому

    I absolutely LOVED this vlog and I haven’t been able to say that for a while. It’s sad as you can sense the change at times, but I’m so here for the growth. Well done. Welcome back and keep going

  • @blinkym21
    @blinkym21 17 днів тому +6

    The happiness that your videos bring though🥺… they always take me to an amazing space when UA-cam was so beautiful and exciting…. And also yes , yes , yes to M&S!

  • @chelsea.1234
    @chelsea.1234 17 днів тому +2

    ladurée is AMAZINGGG !!! i always go there when i visit paris. i also loveee having high tea in london, I literally have it every time i visit. now i want to try the high tea at ladurée 😍
    loved seeing you and your cousin! this vlog was definitely more old school pat, we love to see it ❤

  • @alphiaajesulas5063
    @alphiaajesulas5063 16 днів тому +2

    I didn't care how long i had to wait but i knew you be back. Woop woop. Welcome back !!!!!

  • @Brwniee95
    @Brwniee95 11 днів тому

    Literally your first few seconds of the video resonated so hard, I have legit been bed rotting for the last few days wheww, scrolling endlessly and I found myself currently at Chili’s. Treating myself to a solo date outside of my house. I need to get back on my solo date wave 💕

  • @deelot1
    @deelot1 17 днів тому +12

    Yes, M&S weekly grocery shop is pensioner and retirement goals lol

  • @please-wake-up-now
    @please-wake-up-now 17 днів тому

    Love seeing your self-love journey! 🌟 It's so important to take time for ourselves, especially when things get tough. Your vibe is just refreshing! Keep shining, Patricia! 💖

  • @stevensteven5144
    @stevensteven5144 17 днів тому +13

    Patricia live your life! I think if as long as you’re not covered in logos head to toe it’s fine. The older I get the more I appreciate quality.

  • @demigreen6495
    @demigreen6495 17 днів тому +10

    Love this ❤ love seeing you like this!! 🎉😊

  • @darkchocolat1214
    @darkchocolat1214 17 днів тому +6

    Cherries are my favorite summer fruit! 🍒

  • @BeverlyAma
    @BeverlyAma 17 днів тому +33

    Missed this style of vlogs 😊

  • @anashe
    @anashe 16 днів тому +1

    first vlog of yours I've watched and I loveddd it - your personality is so effortlessly entertaining :)

  • @ameenababirye4550
    @ameenababirye4550 17 днів тому +20

    I feel you on the water girl. When I’m in Africa my skin is glowing like the moon as soon as the crusty dusty British water touches my skin I look and feel like a the most driest raisin. - also I needed this reminder to get upppppp and out!

    • @graciouslyloved10
      @graciouslyloved10 17 днів тому +2

      The african water is soft water that's why❤❤

    • @cadeaumbabazi
      @cadeaumbabazi 17 днів тому

      Same to me esp. whn change weather biggest help is a skin barrier cream

  • @socialresearch9702
    @socialresearch9702 17 днів тому +7

    Am the first viewer, first to comment.. love u girl. Keep shining. ❤❤

  • @Christmas-gv4hv
    @Christmas-gv4hv 16 днів тому +2

    This is what was missing. Much preferred and actually enjoyed this one 👍

  • @Nelosuji
    @Nelosuji 17 днів тому +6

    Good to see you happy and about girl 😍😍

  • @khwezay
    @khwezay 15 днів тому +3

    Patricia, you’re pulling off the Pandora promo so effortlessly - you could have easily introduced the topic of Botox in the same way!

  • @kimdoughman5859
    @kimdoughman5859 17 днів тому +8

    Love that for you!❤

  • @tashoywynter9852
    @tashoywynter9852 15 днів тому +1

    Patricia, the Jamaican accent 😂😂 I’m yardie all the way. I’m going through a tough break up right now and that part has been amazing 😊. DAY 1 SUPPORTER HERE BRIT POP PRINCESS. love ya Patricia!!!

  • @tyeshabx2810
    @tyeshabx2810 17 днів тому +4

    Geez, put a eyebrow on is what I need to hear. 🥰 So glad I watched.

  • @tonifafa
    @tonifafa 17 днів тому +5

    those wings are ANEMIC. they looked raw.

  • @khanyapambo9197
    @khanyapambo9197 17 днів тому +10

    You look lovely, sis ❤

  • @happynesslifestyles3486
    @happynesslifestyles3486 14 днів тому +1

    Ohhhhhh I’ve missed this so so so much 😢😊😊😊 we love you Patricia

  • @Winceyy
    @Winceyy 17 днів тому +2

    Loovee this video & actually happy that you took the feedback in your stride, so many opinions can be 🥴😮‍💨 but anyway, go you! ✨

  • @pariscortez4190
    @pariscortez4190 17 днів тому +2

    those desserts looked amazing. what a beautiful life you live.

  • @MsBbyAngel
    @MsBbyAngel 17 днів тому

    Yaasss this is the type of content I love to see!😍 Welcome back❤ and I hope you never leave us again🥹

  • @sandrachuk
    @sandrachuk 17 днів тому +2

    I will always break out into songs, lol😂. You are so fun and funny. Love you❤

    • @chelsea.1234
      @chelsea.1234 17 днів тому

      i read this as she said it 😂😂

  • @lamaradjalo4753
    @lamaradjalo4753 17 днів тому +3

    Love love love every bit of this blog ❤

  • @margaretkirimania1220
    @margaretkirimania1220 23 години тому

    Pat please put the cherris on cold water with bio carbonate. Cherries grow up with alot of pesticides because its a delicate fruits...my neighbour grows them to sell from south of Italy, Puglia

  • @LuvokaziMajova
    @LuvokaziMajova 17 днів тому +8

    You are so happy❤

  • @chloeherbert7260
    @chloeherbert7260 17 днів тому +5

    The vibes are real

  • @deidreej
    @deidreej 13 днів тому

    Love that you took time for you! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🖤🖤🖤

  • @Missgorgeous-p3c
    @Missgorgeous-p3c 17 днів тому +16

    Self love is an inside job,it’s not distracting oneself with shopping or going to eat In restaurants,Self care is inner work,Praying,meditating,reading,reflecting
    We all different definitions.

    • @ngobassa
      @ngobassa 17 днів тому +16

      Why can't it be both (distraction and inner work)? As a working mom she probably has a lot on her plate. Distraction from time to time, can work wonders.

    • @michellegove
      @michellegove 17 днів тому +7

      Not everyone is religious or spiritual. Please LEARN and ACCEPT this! Self care is WHATEVER makes you feel good on the inside, whatever feeds your sense of purpose or self.

    • @KabeloEmilyNell
      @KabeloEmilyNell 16 днів тому

      She mentioned that at 3:28

    • @Simplelivingslowliving
      @Simplelivingslowliving 16 днів тому

      @@michellegovehumans are spiritual beings. Whoever isn’t feeding their spirit and soul (yes they’re different things) is going to find themselves empty. The emptiness of the soul and spirit is a dangerous thing. The things of this world cannot EVER fill the human void.

  • @brisacostera
    @brisacostera 8 днів тому

    "Put an eyebrow on."
    😂 Girrrrl, you funny.

  • @BeingAllisonx
    @BeingAllisonx 17 днів тому +7

    Missed your vlogs 🥰

  • @sandracrosschoir
    @sandracrosschoir 17 днів тому +9

    YOU KNOW WHAT??? `Hands up...I was one of the ones who claimed I was 'unsuscribin' in the last video...but you know what? Like all the other 'ones' who were also claiming they were 'unsubscribin', but was sneakin back every minute to watch the next video 😂😂. I also sneaked back! Not only to see how you 'recovered' from the last video, but also to see you arise from the ashes, the phoenix that I always knew you were.
    Patricia, I ADORE YOU!! Been watching you for years!! And yes, you truly are a STRONG woman.. Onwards and upward. Great fresh video....🥰

  • @francesshorton9627
    @francesshorton9627 16 днів тому

    The supergreen salad is my go to lunch when I don't take any packed lunch to work. Love the mint sauce!

  • @greytab7027
    @greytab7027 17 днів тому +3

    Now this vlog i like 😂 Going M&S tomorrow!

  • @purplepotion06
    @purplepotion06 15 днів тому

    'Put an eyebrow on ...and come on'....😂😂😂 Love it!

  • @marcusvision
    @marcusvision 17 днів тому +5

    M&S looks like whole foods but prices are even less than a small supermarket in Miami 😂....how much rent is in London??

  • @jenelle4707
    @jenelle4707 17 днів тому +2

    This was a great vlog! Thanks for sharing...love from Jamaica 🇯🇲 ❤

  • @breadandbutter5512
    @breadandbutter5512 16 днів тому

    I always love ur vlog especially Christmas countdown vlogs on a daily basis ❤

  • @lanreilori8193
    @lanreilori8193 14 днів тому +1

    You got the dji I love that camera,Victoria put me on❤❤

  • @khwezay
    @khwezay 15 днів тому +1

    Your whole outfit is designer but as long as you don’t have clashing branding on each piece - you’re good imo 👍

  • @LadyMul
    @LadyMul 17 днів тому +1

    Maybe consider buying that veg separately then steam it. I once bought that veg for a few pence on clearance and developed a taste for it but it’s much nicer less processed ❤

  • @belindamurone5516
    @belindamurone5516 12 днів тому

    My kids are away for the week too. And …… I’m dedicating the whole week to myself and self care as well ❤❤❤

  • @maurynmeijer1743
    @maurynmeijer1743 15 днів тому

    Why this video dey sweet me like this Patricia? thanks for taking us along, I especially enjoyed the tag -along. I love shopping and just hanging with a babe. i'm inspired and blessed for the possibility to buy luxury goods, we certainly need to flex on them everyday

  • @yayadrew
    @yayadrew 13 днів тому +4

    The fact that you took the comments from your last video as constructive criticism and not as a personal attack is so amazing 🤎. Also as long as you can afford your designer items, continue to dress “rich”. You have one life live it to the fullest 🤎.

  • @delindawilliams3935
    @delindawilliams3935 17 днів тому +1

    I love to see you cook.
    The food looks good. And you got a good amount of greens.💖💖👍🏽👍🏽

  • @xindigochildx
    @xindigochildx 7 днів тому

    Sending you so much love 🌸

  • @anastazialee7717
    @anastazialee7717 17 днів тому +11

    Love you Pat, but not washing fruits is how you end up with Hepatitis A, be careful❤

  • @happycutebox
    @happycutebox 12 днів тому

    The Pandora Jewellery looks so good on you ❤

  • @maxinemuhammad5979
    @maxinemuhammad5979 14 днів тому +1

    Love take care of you first then you can take care of others great vlog 😍😍😍🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿💯💯💯🫶🏿🫶🏿🫶🏿

  • @Winceyy
    @Winceyy 17 днів тому

    Haha the dead battery, this is me as well. It doesn’t phase me at allll most of the time (unless I’m bored on transport by myself) but generally, I’ll get back to everyone when I can & enjoy my own company✌🏾

  • @aktershah5810
    @aktershah5810 11 днів тому

    literally missed these vlogs

  • @LifestylewithJadesola
    @LifestylewithJadesola 17 днів тому +3

    Please what do you do in the shower? Do you avoid the water? I’m also struggling with reactions and what not it’s so stressful!

    • @nadiaborges.
      @nadiaborges. 17 днів тому +1

      Buy filters for shower

    • @LifestylewithJadesola
      @LifestylewithJadesola 17 днів тому +2

      @@nadiaborges. I have those already but I still have irritations similar to what she is saying. Which is why I’m asking what she does about that

    • @nadiaborges.
      @nadiaborges. 17 днів тому

      @@LifestylewithJadesola Then I don't know, have you tried more moisturised creme and lotion? Or maybe shower body oil

  • @lawandam1920
    @lawandam1920 17 днів тому +3

    Beautiful ladies!!!

  • @shakshiviyigo1813
    @shakshiviyigo1813 14 днів тому

    Now this is our girl ❤❤❤ love you pat

  • @Soev-i6q
    @Soev-i6q 15 днів тому +5

    Her cousin is a perfect sidekick for her vlogs. I hope she compensates her well.

    • @tessnjokie4847
      @tessnjokie4847 13 днів тому +4

      She's family and they're just having an amazing girl time. Not everything has to be monetized🙈

  • @ayandahlophe6601
    @ayandahlophe6601 17 днів тому

    I love your self awareness era.

  • @Love4Music7777
    @Love4Music7777 15 днів тому

    Baby girl is BACKKKKKK 😭💕

  • @AliseSloan
    @AliseSloan 17 днів тому +3

    0:24 What song is this?! Need it on my playlist. Welcome back beautiful!

    • @zaraaudu546
      @zaraaudu546 17 днів тому +3

      Masterpiece by Jazmine Sullivan

  • @shenafrancis4249
    @shenafrancis4249 16 днів тому

    I prefer this kind of videos its more relatable girlie

  • @KeaYang21
    @KeaYang21 2 дні тому

    Be that girl. I love that for you,enjoy the luxuries. ❤❤

  • @tashariecskb4354
    @tashariecskb4354 13 днів тому

    I heard you, leaving the house nooooew 😂❤❤❤❤

  • @shalesefranklin8278
    @shalesefranklin8278 День тому

    I’m moving to the UK because those grocery prices are too good!!

  • @teebynature
    @teebynature 15 днів тому +1

    Omg this is the Patricia bright i missed