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  • Опубліковано 25 вер 2020
  • This week on Better Together, Nicole C. Mullen shares some of the things that she hopes to find in a future partner. Join the conversation as Laurie Crouch, Bianca Olthoff, Dianna Nepstad, and Heather Lindsey join Nicole C. Mullen to discuss how important it is to really know what you're looking for in a relationship, so that you can weed out anyone who doesn't fit that description.
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  • @Rosedaleb1
    @Rosedaleb1 3 роки тому +259

    What’s beautiful is being patient enough to let the other person finish their thought without interrupting.

    • @sunflowerpwr.8821
      @sunflowerpwr.8821 3 роки тому +22

      I have to work on that...but some people won't let you get a word in edgewise.

    • @reesespieces450
      @reesespieces450 3 роки тому

      Loool are you saying Nicole interuppted...?

    • @1obedience
      @1obedience 3 роки тому +9

      Lord help me in this area.

    • @Shavier777
      @Shavier777 3 роки тому +1

      Amen. 🙏🏾

    • @twolfe2021
      @twolfe2021 3 роки тому

      Yep

  • @JM-yf5rt
    @JM-yf5rt 3 роки тому +58

    Yes, Boaz showed favor towards Ruth first through his actions. Thus, Naomi knew he was interested in Ruth and instructed Ruth on how to let him know the interest was mutual and that he could take it to the other next level.

  • @md9710
    @md9710 3 роки тому +48

    Being single is beautiful. It gives you a chance to find yourself. And to find the right person. Being single for over 8 yrs now, I am happy with where I am in life. But I also found out how scary it is to date and not be able to find the right person, with that said. I am patient! I am in no hurry, even though I am in my 40’s.

    • @keneilwelefalebotlhale7382
      @keneilwelefalebotlhale7382 3 роки тому +9

      Being in your 40s means you're secure in yourself and you're 100% sure of what you want and that's a very good thing for both you and for your future husband.. I bid you all the best my beloved sister as you take heart and wait patiently.. The best part is that he will find you living your best life...

    • @len4831
      @len4831 3 роки тому +2

      May God answer your prayers! Amen!

    • @stephiekashosi866
      @stephiekashosi866 3 роки тому

      Better later than broken😄

  • @kingdomaffairs2373
    @kingdomaffairs2373 3 роки тому +140

    Aww love is beautiful..there’s hope for us single people! Someone you can do life with!

    • @marysupernova
      @marysupernova 3 роки тому +5

      Kingdom Affairs try doing life with the Holy Spirit first ma’am...then the someone will come...

    • @kingdomaffairs2373
      @kingdomaffairs2373 3 роки тому +1

      mary Supernova yup that’s what i am doing

    • @berthadixon6013
      @berthadixon6013 3 роки тому +13

      There is hope and while you are waiting enjoy your single life. I got married at 50+ and it was my first.😊

    • @kingdomaffairs2373
      @kingdomaffairs2373 3 роки тому +1

      Bertha Dixon wow that’s crazy..God blessed you hon wow that’s..whew

    • @elmyra.jackson
      @elmyra.jackson 3 роки тому +8

      It will happen for you dear,but please heed Auntie's words....marriage is not a cure and being single is not a curse! God bless you!💙

  • @eliceiam_
    @eliceiam_ 3 роки тому +198

    “I want to date and I want to be dated but I don’t want to date multiple people” thas it

    • @JustLovelyQ
      @JustLovelyQ 3 роки тому +1

      Periodttt 🗣

    • @cathykalanzi4609
      @cathykalanzi4609 3 роки тому +7

      I hated dating multiple men and God was faithful to me. He gave the second one that ever pursued me and we have been together 28 years now.

    • @sherrylldominique4990
      @sherrylldominique4990 3 роки тому +3

      Felt every bit of that!

    • @ThandekaDaLandlord
      @ThandekaDaLandlord 2 роки тому

      I just want to be married, a wife and be a mother.... ❤️❤️❤️

  • @beautydefined1601
    @beautydefined1601 3 роки тому +73

    Spot on! Since the man is the head of the household (as the Bible states) I see the man as the prophet of a family. A man will sense his future wife (his prophetic signal will go off) and seek her. In today's culture we are taught to go after what you want, but when you do things God's way you will get God's blessings.

    • @niceplayground
      @niceplayground 3 роки тому +4

      The patriarchy came after the fall (Gen 3:16) and I always cringe about that fact

    • @amremnant
      @amremnant 3 роки тому

      Confirmation. Thank you.

    • @ade-oluwaspov206
      @ade-oluwaspov206 3 роки тому +1

      @@niceplayground But Christ had redeemed us from the curse of the law.

    • @niceplayground
      @niceplayground 3 роки тому

      @@ade-oluwaspov206 if he did why did Paul encourage the patriarchy?

    • @ade-oluwaspov206
      @ade-oluwaspov206 3 роки тому

      @@niceplayground I don't think he encouraged patriarchy. But so we are clear, how do you think he encouraged patriarchy?

  • @ATJ2024
    @ATJ2024 3 роки тому +23

    I love her singing the song "I know my Redeemer Lives". You can play the song all day in your head after you hear it.

    • @micheleh5269
      @micheleh5269 3 роки тому +2

      Nicole also did an incredible video called The God Who Sees. Directed by Kathie Lee Gifford

    • @tierneemalinadeveaux4421
      @tierneemalinadeveaux4421 3 роки тому

      My favorite Nicole Mullen song is “Holy Captivated”. NOTHING else she has done can touch that song!

  • @teohproject
    @teohproject 3 роки тому +77

    I left a pretty normal comment here but got deleted. All I said is that as a society we value worth by company and as a church we many times value families or someone who has kids or was married a lot higher than folks who have never been married... so many young Christians get married because they have to in order to have sex and 50% of them end up in divorce just like the world.. Many times churches put a greater focus on families because there is a greater return for them than just one individual. That’s not necessarily wrong it’s just a world mindset at times... no one is perfect... a great movie is called “ Spinster”, hilarious but not religious so may offend religious people...So many of us want to get married but so many us including me don’t want to deal with the other’s person’s baggage which is problematic to not deal with including ours... A great quote from a great movie “ Some kind of Wonderful” with Lea Thompson, “I’d rather be alone for the right reasons than with someone for the wrong ones”... so true

    • @k.d.1520
      @k.d.1520 3 роки тому +1

      Love this comment i couldn’t agree more

    • @noirfit9721
      @noirfit9721 3 роки тому +6

      Yes, the church also looks down on divorced people. Someone I grew up with from my church jokingly told me I now wore the scarlet letter. I don’t see divorce as a bad thing when I know I did my best to save my marriages. I got married young, almost the same ages as both my exes. One was a cheater, the other was abusive. I’m happily single and awaiting my little love to enter the world.

    • @teohproject
      @teohproject 3 роки тому +6

      Blossom Blitz There is totally no offense on my part but no I don’t agree that I was “ right” or “ wrong”, it was just my comment, my observation. The church is Gods beloved and with or without a dude or kids I’m part of that. Marriage of course is beautiful but hard, the rain falls on the just and the unjust and I looked up the percentage of marriage and it said 50% of them end in divorce, that is Christian or nonChristian but perhaps my search engine is wrong, I’m not infallible whatever percentage is right or wrong, divorces in the church are still high but that doesn’t determine each couples outcome, God does. But the sex issue is a huge one because as a church we don’t talk about what happens when some hormones fade, when porn becomes an issue, when money, a mortgage, taking care of aging parents, kids college tuitionmounts and the young beautiful sexy feelings fade a bit... the weight of life can take a marriage out but going into with yes awesome sexy feelings is great but knowing that the ultimate partner who holds you and your spouse together is the one who make can a marriage work. The daughters of Zelophehad got God to change an Old Testament law and that was before they were married. Puah and Shiprah loved God before their own lives and god rewarded them with their own families. They weren’t feminists but they were alone with God for the right reasons than just married for the wrong reasons even though the cultural pressures were high for them to be married. Marriage is great but reality checks at points in relationships can be life and marriage savers! God bless and at the end of the day the only thing that matters is what God is leading you to do, my voice is only an opinion, only a thought but his word endures forever!

    • @Demetra321
      @Demetra321 3 роки тому +5

      Hi, Linda. I have been married for 20 years. That said, I agree, Linda with you. The church as a whole has turned marriage, a good thing, into the ultimate thing (an idol). The goal is a relationship with Christ, not marriage.

    • @teohproject
      @teohproject 3 роки тому +4

      Blossom Blitz Thanks for your comment. I’m not sure I meant to say anything knocking marriage but just pointing out some realities which you also addressed but if my comments did come across as knocking it then my apologies... perhaps Cece Winans can add something interesting and encouraging to couples about her own experience www.google.com/amp/s/mypraiseatl.com/1606392/cece-winans-shares-secrets-to-staying-in-her-marriage-after-wanting-to-give-up/amp/

  • @lanettaberry3373
    @lanettaberry3373 3 роки тому +123

    Exactly... someone to do life with!

    • @Maria-006.
      @Maria-006. 3 роки тому +2

      🙏🏻🙌🏻💯

    • @kaywinter5821
      @kaywinter5821 3 роки тому +2

      Yessss!!!!!!💜💜💜💜🤗🤗🤗

    • @marysupernova
      @marysupernova 3 роки тому +8

      Try doing life with the Holy Spirit first and you will get the someone after

    • @bornagain67
      @bornagain67 3 роки тому +2

      mary Supernova now am at that stage after looking my selfworth and satisfaction in a broken men! Then the holy spirit mature me enough to have intimacy with Him then i said none like u Lord 😁i didnt know a love like this was possible and now am in a real joy and contentment ! I know the Lord will send Godly men to do His kingdom with and life too! If not am ok, i have experianced that life without any other things is possible Even if sometimes seems like not ok BUT life without God is impossible and death! No meaning to it. I wasnt like this before, i was desprate for relationship with a men! Not anymore! Thank God i become to know God in this way and have relation with Him deep! Unless one experiance it , will not understand it. Oh come and test how the Lord is good 💕😊 u might believe in Him but not have this deep relation so first come close to God ,the rest it to add to it.

  • @mianaomipost9885
    @mianaomipost9885 3 роки тому +19

    Such beautiful and classy women! This type behavior and talk is so refreshing in the darkness of today’s world and worldly conversations!

  • @teachertiah
    @teachertiah 3 роки тому +44

    This was very uplifting and encouraging to me. I am getting older and sometimes begin to think that I should no longer desire to be married. But this encouraged me. It's ok for me to hold on to that desire. I will continue to wait on God's timing while I prepare myself. Blessings to all of you ladies!

    • @BetterTogetherTV
      @BetterTogetherTV  3 роки тому +6

      We are so happy to hear that this encouraged you! Thank you for watching. God bless you 💜

  • @MsTropicalRookie
    @MsTropicalRookie 3 роки тому +12

    I love that story about her parents. What she said I agree with. It would be nice to have that in life.

  • @LovelyPeach40
    @LovelyPeach40 3 роки тому +27

    That's me the park, walk on beach, thank you for this I'm 49 full of Hope

  • @storiiification
    @storiiification 3 роки тому +10

    I was just telling someone there is no singing voice like Nicole c mullen its just my favorite!! She sings so beautiful airy heavenly 😍

  • @Ironfurnaceroom
    @Ironfurnaceroom 3 роки тому +4

    I always enjoy listening to Nicole. She has gone through so many "mills" in life and has been ground down to fine flour, and together with the oil of the Holy Spirit, has been made, and is being made, into a wonderful person. I read her book, and man, I don't envy her life at all, and she STILL carries hope and love and peace in her heart. I love her new song "Dance like never before".... HOPE, man, HOPE! I praise the Lord for her and her testimony. Thanks for putting this up, Better Together TV!

  • @callenway8612
    @callenway8612 3 роки тому +3

    Nicole C. Mullen is my number 1 pandora channel I listen to. Every car ride is with her. I met her and love her!

  • @katietucker4772
    @katietucker4772 3 роки тому +4

    Wow I understand similar to me and my husband. I’m from Alabama he was a Washingtonian Anyway when he started to visit my home he wanted to go all the time. Anyway he wanted to go home for our May Day I didn’t but I wanted to give him what he wanted so we went home on our way back to DC we were in car accident he died we had the time of our life on that trip and God show me and him exactly what we had my God is still in control we should listen for His instruction and direction. Thanks for sharing Nicole 🙏🏾🙏🏻😇❤️

  • @Kristina-wd8iz
    @Kristina-wd8iz 3 роки тому +17

    I agree. I'm not fond of dating multiple people (men). That doesn't feel right. Holding one guys hand today and a different guys hand tomorrow 😖 I believe God never meant for man and woman to be alone and the right union will happen at the right time. Therefore, I believe there's a Boaz out their for every woman; a gentlemen with gentle-man ways. And like Ruth, let him pursue us ..ladies we're WORTH IT!

    • @keneilwelefalebotlhale7382
      @keneilwelefalebotlhale7382 3 роки тому

      @Kristina Nortez I am so sorry my beloved sister, but I come bearing BAD news.. There's Unfortunately not going to ever be a Boaz out there for every woman. There's men in jail,some on drugs, some gay,some broken and some taken. To top it all off, NIV Isaiah 4:1 says "IN THAT DAY,SEVEN WOMEN WILL TAKE HOLD OF ONE MAN AND SAY," WE WILL EAT OUR OWN FOOD AND PROVIDE OUR OWN CLOTHES;ONLY LET US BE CALLED BY YOUR NAME TO TAKE AWAY OUR DISGRACE"...other versions are a tad bit harsh but yeah,not every woman will be married. There's so few eligible men out there. I mean, you don't want to just get married for the sake of being married right? As I said,I'm sorry to have brought such heavy news:( all the best to you my beloved sister. May the Most High favour you with a good man suitable for you.. So be it..

    • @Kristina-wd8iz
      @Kristina-wd8iz 3 роки тому +9

      @@keneilwelefalebotlhale7382 No such thing as Unfortunately with My God. His timing is the right timing. For i have seen & can Testify.....how God has blessed my best friends with their Boaz, especially during a time when they too believed there were no good or available men out their. Now, they're married. (Says a lot for Unfortunately...hmm😳) He did it for them (my best friends), I know he'll do it for me & others that BELIEVE! I do agree not all woman will marry because that is also by choice. However, I do believe there is a Boaz out there for all. With our God ( the God I serve) all things are possible.
      God Bless.

    • @007jLoSoulGLo
      @007jLoSoulGLo 3 роки тому +1

      @@Kristina-wd8iz amen!! Well said!! 🙏🏾

    • @Kristina-wd8iz
      @Kristina-wd8iz 3 роки тому

      . lol lol lol..... awww shucks.... You're so sweet.😷

  • @thebabygiraffe4921
    @thebabygiraffe4921 3 роки тому +9

    I guess I am the exception to the rule. I first pursued my husband. We have been together for a total of 6 years. We have a great marriage.

    • @islandgirlxx3465
      @islandgirlxx3465 3 роки тому +2

      It could be that you are more comfortable in your Masculine energy than the Feminine. And it's nothing wrong with that. All people have both energies but one is more predominant than the other. Masculine energy is al about Doing, Pursueing. Feminine energy is about Being, Receiving. And in order for a relationship to work, both people has to have opposite energies. So as a woman if your predominant energy is the masculine than you would match better with a man whose predominant energy is the feminine.
      In my case my predominant energy is feminine. And I feel much happier and fullfilled in a relationship where the man operates with the masculine energy. Where he would lead me, pursue me etc. In the past I dated 2 men with more feminine energy and those relationships never worked out.

    • @thebabygiraffe4921
      @thebabygiraffe4921 3 роки тому

      @@islandgirlxx3465 very interesting. Thank you. My husband is far more of a nurturer than me by nature as well. And oh gosh, he calls me his creative tornado when it comes to “doing and pursuing”... I can’t be anything else.

  • @naturallygifted2002
    @naturallygifted2002 3 роки тому +11

    That’s so beautiful Nicole. That’s what I call unselfish, Godly, compromise
    L❤️VE. She loved till death do them apart.

  • @s.p.5213
    @s.p.5213 3 роки тому +12

    I reeeeally hope that there are countless stories of him being able to say he compromised and did what SHE wanted as well. Wayyyy too often, the narrative is the woman is so blessed, so godly, so blah blah blah for letting the male always have his way, which in turn causes her to eventually feel taken advantage of or unappreciated in the relationship. Lovely story but I like hearing balanced messages.

  • @utube0803
    @utube0803 3 роки тому +5

    Some of the loveliest things in life come in the ordinary, every day moments! Thank you for this beautiful and practical wisdom. You ladies are so adorable. God bless you!

    • @BetterTogetherTV
      @BetterTogetherTV  3 роки тому

      Amen! We are so happy to hear that you are enjoying our conversations! Thanks for watching 💜

    • @Ironfurnaceroom
      @Ironfurnaceroom 3 роки тому

      Life is like a painting, Aaaalllll the little strokes add up to make the painting, each stroke may look like nothing, but each one matters:) That picture has motivated me all my life, as well as Jesus saying that "every idle word will be accounted for" . So often it's them "ordinary moments" that turn into special memories, where only those "who were there" can have them as treasures...

  • @elmyra.jackson
    @elmyra.jackson 3 роки тому +25

    God's choice for me is what I prayed for!! He created me so He knows who is best for me!! Ladies put away YOUR list and trust God!!

  • @monaedawson4523
    @monaedawson4523 3 роки тому +5

    Absolutely, well stated. God bless your journey. Thank you for sharing about your parents💞🙏

  • @melissaramirez2310
    @melissaramirez2310 3 роки тому +7

    I love it. Someone to do life with...❤❤❤❤

  • @shalomchipepera6733
    @shalomchipepera6733 2 роки тому

    They all look so beautiful, radiant, literally glowing!

  • @N2147B
    @N2147B 3 роки тому

    I was seriously thinking about her last week and bam here she is.

  • @kathyhendry788
    @kathyhendry788 3 роки тому +5

    I been watching Laurie Crouch since my daughter was 2 she will be 30 next month

  • @DerekaNeshaye
    @DerekaNeshaye 3 роки тому +8

    Love this series 🥺

  • @virisilawati7748
    @virisilawati7748 3 роки тому

    A timely message for myself...to learn how to wait until you are persued....Learn to focus on God and your dreams...❤❤Love this fellowship so very much

  • @KimontheWeb
    @KimontheWeb 3 роки тому +4

    Praying for Nicole Mullen since it didn’t work out with her and Donnie McClurkin; looks like she’s moved on wonderfully praise God 🤗

  • @debbiebramwell
    @debbiebramwell 3 роки тому +1

    It's important to get to know people. You can't know you are interested until you do and you definitely can't follow that " feeling". Chemistry doesn't mean he is the right one for you.

  • @valeriethebeautifulsoultv4179
    @valeriethebeautifulsoultv4179 3 роки тому +1

    Wow😮 - Nicole that was a beautiful story. You have my sincere condolences 😢😞

  • @thegirlcode9453
    @thegirlcode9453 3 роки тому

    So loved this

  • @Carmz135
    @Carmz135 3 роки тому +3

    that's it! simple like that!! the preasure is crazy....

  • @shilpalm8383
    @shilpalm8383 3 роки тому +1

    Love listening to Ms Nicole 🙂

  • @cdg621
    @cdg621 3 роки тому +2

    It’s worth the wait

  • @upliftinggodspeoplewithnushie
    @upliftinggodspeoplewithnushie 3 роки тому

    I love this beautiful word of God 😀🙏🏽❤️

  • @Tanya-vw9xj
    @Tanya-vw9xj 3 роки тому +9

    Neither the man nor woman should chase each other. If each are serious about each other there's no problem for both individuals to pursue. It doesn't matter who notice who first. Sometimes God will position you and work out everything according to His will. You do not want to miss out on your blessings.

    • @beckymcgregory524
      @beckymcgregory524 3 роки тому

      Proverbs 18:23 Whoso find ethel a wife findeth a good thing, and obtained have favour of the Lord.

    • @misspriss2482
      @misspriss2482 3 роки тому +2

      Yeah, I don't see why either the man or woman can't initiate a conversation so that they can get to know one another. I'm too old to play games.

    • @Tanya-vw9xj
      @Tanya-vw9xj 3 роки тому

      Becky McGregory Amen. God works in many ways. There are examples in the bible where the women pursued. The Lord will position His people in any circumstances.

    • @Tanya-vw9xj
      @Tanya-vw9xj 3 роки тому +1

      Miss Priss I completely agree! No one has time to waste. Some people just stick to one context of the Word and run with it. I know plenty of married couples that was God ordained and the women pursued or initiated the move. God is not limited.

    • @Tanya-vw9xj
      @Tanya-vw9xj 3 роки тому

      Dee Cee you can do what you want and possibly miss out what God has for you if the process is not what you expected. Biblically speaking there are examples of women and men that have pursued. It’s not just one sided.

  • @LimaB30
    @LimaB30 3 роки тому +1

    Great advice

  • @saaamfdez
    @saaamfdez 3 роки тому +1

    Im so grateful that i found this channel. Thank you Lord!

    • @BetterTogetherTV
      @BetterTogetherTV  3 роки тому +1

      Welcome! We are so happy to have you here with us. 💜

  • @jtlake1034
    @jtlake1034 3 роки тому +1

    I’m a part of the #BetterTogether community! 💕

  • @CoachKarenOliver
    @CoachKarenOliver 3 роки тому

    So true love you ladies be Blessed ♥️👑

  • @audreywilliams6533
    @audreywilliams6533 3 роки тому +13

    Validation for looking for a man..I did not hear anyone say “WHAT EVER GOD HAS FOR ME”!

  • @queenep
    @queenep 3 роки тому +2

    Cincinnati!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lovenakesner242
    @lovenakesner242 3 роки тому

    Well said sister!

  • @kathyhendry788
    @kathyhendry788 3 роки тому

    Wow my sister and I just spoke of that very thing about life

  • @sahadalodee6079
    @sahadalodee6079 3 роки тому

    I can totally relate with this 🤣

  • @reesespieces450
    @reesespieces450 3 роки тому +8

    Either pursue me like a mf or i stays single! Periodddt! Lol. Proud of myself. I never used to think like this. Infact I was the complete opposite before and got into a lot of mess as a result lol 🙈

  • @basicinfo2022
    @basicinfo2022 3 роки тому +5

    Husband material is a masculine man who provides, protects and professes his love. He takes pride in doing those things. The egg doesn’t chase the sperm - the woman is in position of power to be impressed and choose the best man for her.

  • @christybaylor1798
    @christybaylor1798 3 роки тому

    I think of Annie F. Downs', "That Sounds Fun" book! She talks about going back to what was fun when you were young and doing those things again!

  • @1985tmc
    @1985tmc 3 роки тому +2

    Great talk ladies! I just want to say along with understanding a man pursues a woman, it's important for us as women to constantly seek God for discretion about what Spirit that man is pursuing us with and if it's the will of God to agree to a long term commitment as we spend more time with him or not. Heart and mind guarding is so crucial so we aren't distracted by what we want versus what God teaches us we need. I say this because God has told me to tell men no over the years and I may have had in my heart things I saw as good qualities in them but God knows that man's heart. Plus God's ways and thoughts are higher than ours! We just know what a man tells us but need to be in tuned with the Holy Spirit to hear what God is saying about His will even when it comes to that man and what things is okay to agree with as we deal with them.

    • @misspriss2482
      @misspriss2482 3 роки тому +3

      Sister, I was just about to make this comment. You hit the nail on the head. I also believe that a lot of Christian men and women are still single because they are so hung up on their lists that they are not open to God or His leading.

    • @1985tmc
      @1985tmc 3 роки тому

      Thanks! So deep! We have to read God's word to understand God's purpose for marriage which is to glorify Him. Lately, I have been pondering how we don't get the same outcome rebelling against God's call as we would obeying God's call so you're right. Galatians 6:8 says for he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting.

    • @ortandia4574
      @ortandia4574 Рік тому

      Absolutely! Because he may be a whole clown!

  • @glendamorrison5159
    @glendamorrison5159 3 роки тому

    Amen me to Nicole M. So perfect 🥰

  • @jesuschristsaves392
    @jesuschristsaves392 3 роки тому +124

    🙏💕😭“Dear Heavenly Father, I know that I have broken your laws and my sins have separated me from you. I am truly sorry, and now I want to turn away from my past sinful life toward you. Please forgive me, and help me avoid sinning again. I believe that your son, Jesus Christ died for my sins, was resurrected from the dead, is alive, and hears my prayer. I invite Jesus to become the Lord of my life, to rule and reign in my heart from this day forward. Please send your Holy Spirit to help me obey You, and to do Your will for the rest of my life. In Jesus' name I pray, Amen

  • @jennab313
    @jennab313 3 роки тому +1

    I agree that, deep down, women want to be pursued, courted, and chosen by that "special one" BUT a woman does NOT have to choose the first man that comes along. Nor does she have to choose ANYONE. But if she does, choose wisely, women --- choose a man with CHARACTER & INTEGRITY --- one who treats you and others with genuine compassion, dignity, and respect, who loves God, and who does the right thing even when no one is watching.
    Do not settle, women, for anything less than the absolute best that God has for you!!! And make sure your priorities are in line with God's. The good looks, the money, the material things all fade and then what remains if the one you've chosen is an empty soul that doesn't share your spiritual values?
    Choosing your spouse is a mutual thing and I believe God will put the desire in both peoples' hearts to choose each other. And both people should bathe their choice in much prayer. There are many men who "talk the talk but don't walk the walk" in order to snag a spouse but if you give it time before marrying, you will see a person's true colors and not make a mistake you may regret.

  • @MichelleHibbertJamaicangirl
    @MichelleHibbertJamaicangirl 3 роки тому

    I had the best of both world. Chase after and chosen

  • @christnme1106
    @christnme1106 3 роки тому +5

    Trust in GOD patiently & wait for Boaz. GOD WILL send him to you & he will pursue at the right time. GOD gives us the desire of our hearts, but still according to His Will for us.

  • @malrosee9450
    @malrosee9450 3 роки тому

    True

  • @ohyeah2269
    @ohyeah2269 3 роки тому

    Lovely

  • @veronicahndungu4353
    @veronicahndungu4353 3 роки тому +1

    Great

  • @samararoberts7596
    @samararoberts7596 2 роки тому

    I think it’s important to date at least 3 different people so you know what you like, and what you don’t like. When you’re dating, it’s collecting data, you’re interviewing. You shouldn’t dare saying “I’m looking for my husband.” Because you know that eventually he’s going to show up. I think it’s important to date different people first before going into a exclusive relationship. If you and that Guy and God says you’re meant to be, then go from there and drop the other people.

  • @dellareserolle5348
    @dellareserolle5348 3 роки тому

    Exactly ✝️❤😇💯🙏

  • @milachyc88
    @milachyc88 3 роки тому

    Oh wow what a coincidence: I live in Cincinnati ☺️

  • @antionettelawrence191
    @antionettelawrence191 Рік тому

    Amen

  • @sarahdandliker5899
    @sarahdandliker5899 3 роки тому

    I have always said don't pray for the kind of man you want. You may say what pray you become the kind of woman a man like that wants

  • @CellestTV
    @CellestTV 3 роки тому

    THIS WAS FROM A YEAR AGO AND THEY JUST POSTED IT!!!!!!

  • @julietoneill1268
    @julietoneill1268 3 роки тому +1

    Beautiful ❤️

  • @lianet777
    @lianet777 3 роки тому

    I wanna be chased after. When I was a teenager, I was always asking the boys out 🤣

  • @lakeishafoster2369
    @lakeishafoster2369 3 роки тому

    I want the chase

  • @osogoodgirl
    @osogoodgirl 3 роки тому +13

    Obviously I missed something cause the last thing I heard she was engaged to Donnie McClurkin?

    • @sunshinerobinson1123
      @sunshinerobinson1123 3 роки тому +4

      I said the same thing🤔I'm confused🤫

    • @SunkissedPeony
      @SunkissedPeony 3 роки тому +3

      Me too....not sure what Donnie is doing.

    • @nicolecmullenmusic
      @nicolecmullenmusic 3 роки тому +6

      We were never engaged...blessings to yall

    • @nonhlanhlaaishangwaxaxa4964
      @nonhlanhlaaishangwaxaxa4964 3 роки тому +1

      @@nicolecmullenmusic Sorry you had to answer that, Nicole.
      I feel bad for clicking to see the conversation (gossip) after I skipped two videos today talking about the supposed engagement.
      I think the videos came up because I watched videos of your songs and subscribed to your page two days ago as Cocoa Beat. So it's a genuine question for a lot of people.
      (switched accounts to comment so it's not some faceless anonymous account commenting on something sensitive.)
      God bless you. Thanks for sharing your faith. ❤️

    • @osogoodgirl
      @osogoodgirl 3 роки тому

      @@nicolecmullenmusic Ooooh! I didn't know. Thank you for the clarification!

  • @samararoberts7596
    @samararoberts7596 2 роки тому

    I think it’s important to date at least 3 different people so you know what you like, and what you don’t like. What you need, what you don’t need. When you’re dating, it’s collecting data, you’re interviewing. You shouldn’t date with the mindset of “I’m looking for my husband.” Because you know that eventually he’s going to show up. I think it’s important to date different people first before going into a exclusive relationship. If you and that Guy and God says you’re meant to be, then go from there and nicely drop the other people. I don’t believe on settling on the first thing that comes in front of me. I’m not about to go house hunting and settle on the first house, I would want to see other houses first💯.

  • @desireelbeniquez2571
    @desireelbeniquez2571 3 роки тому

    Today my neighbor threatened to punch me in the face. With all the injustice in this world all we need to think about is helping not threatening someone.

  • @darrellallen4409
    @darrellallen4409 3 роки тому +7

    Yes me 2 I WANT SOMEONE I CAN DO LIFE WITH!!!!

  • @thelifeofmrsdonna
    @thelifeofmrsdonna 3 роки тому

    Love this Show. Yes let the man chase you

  • @giseleyaya
    @giseleyaya 3 роки тому +2

    Amen sisters

  • @desireelbeniquez2571
    @desireelbeniquez2571 3 роки тому

    I'm opposite. I want to give my time to friends and family but not complicate my life with relationships at this time. I guess some to hang with who enjoys family vice versa.

  • @Okeflora.6480
    @Okeflora.6480 3 роки тому +6

    All along I have been thinking she was engaged to pastor Donnie Mcclurkin

  • @catherinedecker9100
    @catherinedecker9100 2 роки тому

    I love you Nicole, I totally agree! Hallejuah! Godly Man choose the Godly Woman!

  • @cristalroberts9962
    @cristalroberts9962 3 роки тому

    Yes yes I want someone to do life with

  • @jennaharmonn
    @jennaharmonn 3 роки тому

    This was so beautifully said, I want to direct my channel towards singleness and waiting for your boaz, and how to pray for your husband, so that when My boaz finds me our Story is a Living Testimony of how God works when you are in the field working just like Ruth🤍

  • @FineGirlNoPimple
    @FineGirlNoPimple 3 роки тому +1

    I've heard 2 thoughts from male youtubers regarding what attracts them to us.
    1. One declares a woman must work on her "brain, beauty and brand."
    2. The other shared that two things women can control are their weight and their attitude.
    Being physically appealing (bmi < 26) shows self love and discipline. And our attitude cannot be one of masculinity or negativity: being in control, stubborn, thinking you make better judgments/decisions, telling the man what to do, being constantly defensive- will make him not deal with you. Women also have to put themselves out to be noticed-not only found in church or the house- and once a man actually does take notice, make known through body language that you are indeed interested. Practice reciprocity and receive compliments graciously.
    Also, let us stop looking for men making six or seven figures if we're not making that amount. Let us stop thinking degrees are what attracts men to us. Men do not really value degrees like we do for them. The more we understand men and how different they are from us, the better off we will be in attracting & keeping a pursuer.

  • @Wake1234Up
    @Wake1234Up 3 роки тому +4

    This woman is so beautiful...I see goodness all over her.

  • @christandme1372
    @christandme1372 3 роки тому

    Perhaps they should rethink the setup for the chairs and the stage. I understand that they're wanting to make a nice circle but it's awkward for the camera or your guests to be looking into the circle.

  • @kathyrichardson8346
    @kathyrichardson8346 2 роки тому

    yes the man is the man and give he belongs to the kingdom of heaven, what a blessing, three cord with Jesus

  • @HIS_MVP
    @HIS_MVP 3 роки тому +2

    The last thing I heard is Nicole Mullen was engaged to Donny McClurkin .Did I miss something?

  • @courtstone
    @courtstone 3 роки тому +4

    What happened to Donnie McClurklin??

    • @charlenenorwood5930
      @charlenenorwood5930 3 роки тому +1

      That's what I want to know

    • @d_roi8689
      @d_roi8689 3 роки тому

      I don't think Donnie nor she are ready for each other's respective selves.

  • @tomislavmartic5129
    @tomislavmartic5129 3 роки тому +1

    Dear brothers and sisters i greet you in our Lord Jesus Christ
    Five years ago, I began to engage in faith. I started here in Croatia in the catholic church to visit mass and to read The Holy Scriptures. Very early on, I noticed that what is taught and practiced in the catholic church contradicts the Holy Scriptures and what Jesus taught us. In addition, some things in the Holy Bible were unclear to me and raised additional questions and doubts, such as:
    - If our God is the God of love and justice, why are we punished for the sins of Adam? Doesn't that contradict the principles of love and justice? An earthly father who is full of faults and weaknesses would not do such a thing, then how can we think such a thing about our Perfect Father?
    - How can a loving father throw his child forever in the hell? That also contradicts these principles. And besides, in 1 Timothy 2; 3 + 4: "For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Saviour; Who will have all men to be saved, and to come unto the knowledge of the truth."
    So, if this were really so, that in spite of His will, people will be brought forever to hell and not saved, this would mean that He can not enforce His will and thus He is not the omnipotent God, if we follow these doctrines believe.
    - Why does it say in some passages that Jesus is the Son of God, in others the Son of Man and in others that He and God are one?
    Although I kept going to the Catholic Mass, at home I no longer practiced the prayers of the catholic church, but started talking like a child to my Father (Matthew 6: 7 + 8 ). After a short while, I got the answer to everything. He guided me through a friend of my mother to the revelations of Bertha Dudde. Now I know that the Bible does not contradict itself. God can not contradict himself. The truth is not in the word, in the letter, but in the understanding, in the interpretation of it. Now I know that Jesus is God and our Father in heaven, and I understand all the processes and contexts, and through this I have come to know that He is the perfect Love and not the strict, punitive God. As he promised us in John 14; 21: "He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me: and he that loveth me shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him, and will manifest myself to him. "
    16; 12 + 13: "I have yet many things to say unto you, but ye cannot bear them now. Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but whatsoever he shall hear, that shall he speak: and he will shew you things to come. "
    16; 25: "These things have I spoken unto you in proverbs: but the time cometh, when I shall no more speak unto you in proverbs, but I shall shew you plainly of the Father. "
    In the revelations of Bertha Dudde, His promise was fulfilled, just as every other of His promises was and will be fulfilled, for He never quits (Titus 1: 2) because His word is truth (John 17; 17) and all that will happen is what He said has (Hebrews 10; 23, Ezekiel 12; 25:28, etc.)
    My loved brothers and sisters, I ask you not to blindly believe me, but as written in 1 Thessalonians chapter 5 verses 19-21: " Quench not the Spirit. Despise not prophesyings. Prove all things; hold fast that which is good. "
    Before you begin to look, go into prayer and ask our Father Jesus Christ for enlightenment to put you in your heart, whether that's really His word or not. Do not read with your mind or knowledge, but with your heart, for knowledge (knowledge, understanding) puffeth up, love (heart) edifieth (1 Corinthians 8: 1), for the letter killeth, but the spirit giveth life (2 Corinthians 3: 6).
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    "My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge…" Hosea 4; 6
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    • @marysupernova
      @marysupernova 3 роки тому

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  • @d_roi8689
    @d_roi8689 3 роки тому

    Pursue in this case is being wrongly used and misinterpreted. Even with the illustration of Ruth and Boaz, she DID pursue him. And if a woman introduces herself to a man out of attraction, there is the start of her own pursuit.

  • @yarisjandy5768
    @yarisjandy5768 3 роки тому

    I do not know if this video can help in the situations in LATAM but it can be confusing about the chasing and the others things they said.
    Just saying

  • @RachelLeynes
    @RachelLeynes 3 роки тому

    Wow - he chose her first

  • @BecomingIrresistible
    @BecomingIrresistible 3 роки тому +1

    AMEN! She said it well, "Are there some areas in my life that I could improve?"
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  • @BrookeLynn-sr6vy
    @BrookeLynn-sr6vy 3 роки тому +2

    Isn't she married now?

  • @jesuschristsaves392
    @jesuschristsaves392 3 роки тому +2

    The Gospel of salvation: 💜💕💜💖💞💜💕For what I received I passed on to you as of [first importance]: that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day according to the Scriptures, and that he appeared to Peter, and then to the Twelve. After that, he appeared to more than five hundred of the brothers and sisters at the same time,

  • @rasheedrasheed1974
    @rasheedrasheed1974 3 роки тому

    Are the chairs spinning??🤔

    • @Ironfurnaceroom
      @Ironfurnaceroom 3 роки тому

      That was trippy, wasn't it? Made me dizzy for a moment!

  • @kojacksgirl591
    @kojacksgirl591 3 роки тому +1

    I’ve always loved Laurie, but Heather Lindsey is not my favorite individual on marriage. I’ve always felt her marriage wasn’t real authentic. It felt fake and then all the allegations of mismanagement of ministry funds and the bullying

  • @omarrphillips9710
    @omarrphillips9710 3 роки тому

    King James Version
    One
    Deuteronomy 6:4
    Genesis 14:21
    And
    The king of Sodom said
    Unto Abram, Give me
    The persons, and take
    The goods to Thyself.
    22 And Abram said to the king of Sodom, I have lift up mine hand unto the Lord, the most high God, the possessor of Heaven
    And
    Earth,
    1 John 1:5
    God is Light
    Matthew 23:9
    One is Your Father
    Which is in Heaven
    Light
    Genesis 1:3
    Jerusalem
    Galatians 4:26
    The Mother of us
    All
    One
    Matthew 23:8
    All ye are Brethren
    One
    Job 31:15
    Leviticus 18:22
    Thou
    Shalt Not lie with
    Mankind, as with
    Womankind:
    it
    Is Abomination.
    Romans 1:26
    For
    This cause God gave
    Them up unto vile
    Affections: for even Their
    Women did change
    The natural use into
    That which is against
    Nature:
    Leviticus 18:24
    Defile not ye yourselves
    In any of these
    Things: for in all these
    The nations are defiled
    which I cast out Before
    You:
    Romans 1:27
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    Likewise also the men,
    Leaving the natural use
    Of the woman, burned in
    Their lust One toward
    Another; men with men
    Working that which is
    Unseemly, and receiving
    In themselves that recompence
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    John 20:22
    The Holy Ghost
    1 John 1:5
    God is Light
    Light
    Genesis 1:5
    Day
    Psalm 118:27
    God is The Lord
    1 John 5:7
    The Holy Ghost
    John 5:35
    Light
    Zechariah 14:9
    His name One
    Ecclesiastes 12:13-14
    Fear God
    Revelation 22:9
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  • @valeriemartens-schultz2999
    @valeriemartens-schultz2999 3 роки тому

    I thought Nicole was married already?

  • @lakeishafoster2369
    @lakeishafoster2369 3 роки тому

    I want someone that I can do life with too. I want to date and be dated by the one that God has for me.

  • @Nikkirael
    @Nikkirael 3 роки тому

    WHAT!!!!??? NICOLE AND DONNIE MCCLURKIN ARE NOT DATING DONNIE WHAT DID YOU DO!!!??😲

  • @EvangelistPrecious
    @EvangelistPrecious 3 роки тому

    coronavirus pandemic has brought upon some people all kind of hardship in their life, many people are faced job losses and are homeless including veterans this pandemic like earthquake have shaking our life, help neighbors in need. if you know they are struggling, starving , Matthew 23:35 I was hungry, and you fed me . I was thirsty, and you gave me a drink. = going to be NO second stimulus check I'M sorry [[]