I'm just over half way through and I just have to say thank you, Dr. Puder, for your consistent willingness and desire to engage in roleplays in so many of your psychotherapeutically focused episodes. It seriously enlivens the theoretical material and provides a very special opportunity for us viewers to witness the application of theory by some of its most esteemed practitioners and, in this case, progenitors. Truly awesome. Thanks again to you and your guests. Inspiring work.
This video actually allows someone to mentalize a narcissist beyond just them being self centered. A lot of the problems seem to come from a fear of rejection and fear of loss that causes them to obsess over themselves because they are worried about what others think. Kind of ironic that someone who comes off as self-centered is actually overly concerned with others perceptions. So what you see is their lack of empathy but what you don’t see is their longing to connect. so much more to say but that’s just some of my thoughts coming from someone who could definitely be diagnosed antisocial/narcissistic/BPD. Also greetings from Orlando :)
I’m working with a client with anti social traits currently, and it feels like my usual training is out the window. Lots of lying and the here and now feels inaccessible. Any progress made one session feels disowned the next week
It’s good you draw a distinction between pathological and the normalised narcissism of everyday life. At many work envts, if not required, often expected and frequently interpreted as motivation, antagonistic spirit etc. The average person is not psychologically literate enough to prevent it from becoming pathological. Thanks for bringing this conversation online. As always, informative in many ways.
Interesting stuff. I did groups with inmates serving long sentences and found it so difficult to focus them; the default was always, the system or the corrections officers made it impossible for them to make any progress in any sense. They were "screwed" and that was that.
The Harvard comment was brilliant. He acted a narcissistic response a little too realistically LOL
I'm just over half way through and I just have to say thank you, Dr. Puder, for your consistent willingness and desire to engage in roleplays in so many of your psychotherapeutically focused episodes. It seriously enlivens the theoretical material and provides a very special opportunity for us viewers to witness the application of theory by some of its most esteemed practitioners and, in this case, progenitors. Truly awesome. Thanks again to you and your guests. Inspiring work.
This video actually allows someone to mentalize a narcissist beyond just them being self centered.
A lot of the problems seem to come from a fear of rejection and fear of loss that causes them to obsess over themselves because they are worried about what others think. Kind of ironic that someone who comes off as self-centered is actually overly concerned with others perceptions. So what you see is their lack of empathy but what you don’t see is their longing to connect. so much more to say but that’s just some of my thoughts coming from someone who could definitely be diagnosed antisocial/narcissistic/BPD. Also greetings from Orlando :)
I’m working with a client with anti social traits currently, and it feels like my usual training is out the window. Lots of lying and the here and now feels inaccessible. Any progress made one session feels disowned the next week
Sure you're not my Therapist? 😂
It’s good you draw a distinction between pathological and the normalised narcissism of everyday life. At many work envts, if not required, often expected and frequently interpreted as motivation, antagonistic spirit etc. The average person is not psychologically literate enough to prevent it from becoming pathological.
Thanks for bringing this conversation online. As always, informative in many ways.
I love the role plays. They are my favorite part of watching these as a layperson
Interesting stuff. I did groups with inmates serving long sentences and found it so difficult to focus them; the default was always, the system or the corrections officers made it impossible for them to make any progress in any sense. They were "screwed" and that was that.
Great podcast! More please.
I hate being retired and not being able to put this knowledge into practice.
I wish you peaceful mornings and generative relationships