The Evolution of Shay 😍😤 Love & Hip Hop

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  • @GreenGeeky
    @GreenGeeky 3 роки тому +3496

    You don't get close to men by listening to them shit on their BM. That right there should've showed you who he was.

  • @flygrlcc
    @flygrlcc 3 роки тому +4958

    shay’s problem is she wants a man to love her before she can even love herself

    • @SuperSouthchick
      @SuperSouthchick 3 роки тому +317

      thats the problem with many people. Self love is the hardest love to achieve.

    • @rayjohns7819
      @rayjohns7819 3 роки тому +15

      🔥🔥🔥

    • @lauragalina1340
      @lauragalina1340 3 роки тому +19

      Well said

    • @temituoyoo
      @temituoyoo 3 роки тому +41

      For one ur pretty asf and two I agree with you 💯

    • @flygrlcc
      @flygrlcc 3 роки тому +18

      @@temituoyoo thank you girl🥺💕

  • @thedajirreyonlife5503
    @thedajirreyonlife5503 3 роки тому +5029

    This woman has been on TV for almost 15 years .. wow.. for men that didn't show her respect nor loyalty .

    • @Nofacenocase01
      @Nofacenocase01 3 роки тому +266

      Shame 😔 She needs to love and put all that energy into herself maybe she could get somewhere!

    • @22Nu219
      @22Nu219 3 роки тому +224

      she’s the definition of no self growth at alllll

    • @SwaggDaddie11896
      @SwaggDaddie11896 3 роки тому +22

      Absolutely

    • @jasminethompson7295
      @jasminethompson7295 3 роки тому +126

      It’s because she never had that same respect for herself

    • @defendrighteousness3425
      @defendrighteousness3425 3 роки тому +69

      She ain't the first nor last to get cheat on and what she is doing is the right thing once she keep it real to them fake dudes she on the right path. She don't need no man that ain't got morals nor respect plenty fish in the sea

  • @renaemarie6404
    @renaemarie6404 3 роки тому +308

    “Shay is my best friend” this is exactly why I don’t like that whole “best friend” bs

    • @frankielogan1863
      @frankielogan1863 3 роки тому +24

      Hello 👋🏽 🙄 if MFs don’t kill me with that shit. “Oh that’s my best friend” please knock it off. Lol I’m too grown to hear that Bs. That’s for kids and I don’t play games with people but only my kids.

    • @elenivega6506
      @elenivega6506 3 роки тому +33

      My ex just become official with his “best friend” and now I will never tolerate that bs again.. red flags for days 🚩🚩🚩🚩

  • @amberhumphrey2913
    @amberhumphrey2913 3 роки тому +435

    I love all the positivity y’all giving shay us women need to start being there for each other instead of tearing each other down

    • @luquenciaoniqueriley2960
      @luquenciaoniqueriley2960 3 роки тому +9

      Exactly

    • @MorganBF1
      @MorganBF1 2 роки тому +33

      All I see is people roasting her wigs lol

    • @crystala554
      @crystala554 2 роки тому

      Well she is ratchet

    • @superiorvessel8496
      @superiorvessel8496 2 роки тому +3

      🤐

    • @sopekookie7
      @sopekookie7 2 роки тому +14

      I actually really like her. She's never given me bad vibes and I'm usually always right when it comes to things like that. She just wants to be loved, she just looks for it in the wrong places and I understood her even more after seeing her on "Fix My Life"

  • @domodacutee1731
    @domodacutee1731 3 роки тому +5797

    Those hair styles went through some serious evolution...

  • @daisyb4614
    @daisyb4614 3 роки тому +3898

    On a positive note Shay has one of the best natural bodies on tv!!!!

    • @Cheeky.Cheeks
      @Cheeky.Cheeks 3 роки тому +144

      I think she’s had work done but more fit health than vanity.

    • @daisyb4614
      @daisyb4614 3 роки тому +307

      @@Cheeky.Cheeks she didn’t and you can check the receipts on that. She actually started working out and lost the thickness.

    • @fashionbeauty101llc2
      @fashionbeauty101llc2 3 роки тому +19

      Agreed ❤️

    • @Porkchopzngravy
      @Porkchopzngravy 3 роки тому +117

      Since Flavor of Love days at that

    • @chosentheempress
      @chosentheempress 3 роки тому +13

      I need that 😒🙏🏽

  • @kerizmarolle9710
    @kerizmarolle9710 3 роки тому +3092

    Shay’s problem was that she was too worried about hating and fighting Erica when scrappy was the problem that lied to both of em.. She’s crazy

    • @crissyredd9415
      @crissyredd9415 3 роки тому +38

      💯💯💯 Perfectly Said

    • @mscutie-rd3vn
      @mscutie-rd3vn 3 роки тому +111

      Erica got mad at shay first. When she saw the scene where shay was laughing with scrappy about Erica not knowing about their relationship.

    • @kerizmarolle9710
      @kerizmarolle9710 3 роки тому +138

      @@mscutie-rd3vn as she should ..who wouldn’t be???

    • @leratomaninjwa
      @leratomaninjwa 3 роки тому +17

      but don’t say she’s crazy.

    • @kerizmarolle9710
      @kerizmarolle9710 3 роки тому +52

      @@leratomaninjwa let me rephrase that then.she’s insecure and doesn’t have self value

  • @Shae_3
    @Shae_3 2 роки тому +265

    Shay is the epitome of a woman who never received genuine healthy love in childhood. She is used to being walked over, looked over, ignored. She developed a harden sense of self to be able to survive and deal with what she didn’t get but that hardness is a lie but she will continue to go through what she go through until she really address it. It’s good to see she closed that Scrappy chapter after he disrespected her on stage.
    Pleasure P can’t even act like he really got feelings for Shay or Gabby he look lost during that argument 😂

  • @gabrielleellison715
    @gabrielleellison715 2 роки тому +200

    Shay has spent her entire television career capping for men that never respected or claimed her. True "pick me" behavior.

  • @temituoyoo
    @temituoyoo 3 роки тому +3747

    Scrappy really played her I actually felt bad for her

    • @noirlily3413
      @noirlily3413 3 роки тому +127

      Lord knows I've been through the same...

    • @wavyblkqueen
      @wavyblkqueen 3 роки тому +166

      @@noirlily3413 same that’s why we don’t date men with kids anymore lol

    • @QueenSugar72
      @QueenSugar72 3 роки тому +202

      And he was so nonchalant about it

    • @user-pe4fm7yf1i
      @user-pe4fm7yf1i 3 роки тому +124

      Naahh she got what she deserved for dating a man in a relationship

    • @MsPleasure247
      @MsPleasure247 3 роки тому +239

      She knew he was in a relationship, remember they was friends first so she knew what she was getting herself into. She most likely was hoping that he would leave Erica for her.

  • @andreawilliams5912
    @andreawilliams5912 3 роки тому +951

    I never seen a special connection between them. All they ever talked about was Erica 🙄

    • @jaliyahn6548
      @jaliyahn6548 3 роки тому +93

      You mean all SHE did was talk about erica she liked scrappy but he was still in love with erica

    • @trent_king
      @trent_king 3 роки тому +104

      Yeah that was weird how he was talking to Shay about wanting to fight stevie over erica. Who sits and listens to that?

    • @eve9287
      @eve9287 3 роки тому +7

      Righttttt

    • @realbtch_t
      @realbtch_t 3 роки тому +5

      Right lol

    • @dcvirgo8707
      @dcvirgo8707 3 роки тому +43

      @@trent_king right scrappy sat in her face and said I love ericka i wanna be with her but we just not working out I would be like ✌🏼 shay was obviously scrappys rebound how you gonna sit there and listen to a dude talk about his ex and y’all are supposed to be building something

  • @neonrays28
    @neonrays28 3 роки тому +2236

    I hope shay one day finds peace and self esteem. She's an example of an unfulfilled woman, has the looks, but so empty inside she uses men to fill her up

    • @remirosee9199
      @remirosee9199 3 роки тому +73

      She Damaged. How she tryna fight Erica but Scrappy Was The Problem...

    • @neonrays28
      @neonrays28 3 роки тому +38

      @@remirosee9199 she's always fighting women. Wheb I saw her on iyanla it all made sense. Of course she doesn't know how to love other women.

    • @lightraes20
      @lightraes20 3 роки тому +22

      @@remirosee9199 Erica had more energy towards her than Scrappy. Shay always had more energy for Scrappy than Erica, as she should.

    • @neonrays28
      @neonrays28 3 роки тому +38

      @@lightraes20 the problem is shay is in repeated fights over guys. Putting all her energy towards a man that doesn't put any life into her.

    • @nikkinicole5435
      @nikkinicole5435 3 роки тому +21

      Not even the looks.

  • @KekeAlbert
    @KekeAlbert 2 роки тому +112

    I’m glad Shay hit Joy 😂😂😂 and Bobby was at the reunion shocked because he thought their attachment to Trina makes them untouchable 😂😂😂 Joy got touched…..hard to

  • @Agju
    @Agju 3 роки тому +149

    take a shot every time Scrappy says "at the end of the day" and "ya feel me?" lol

  • @darkJENNY
    @darkJENNY 3 роки тому +1721

    scrappy's favourite words are "ya feel me" and "at the end of the day" lmao

    • @sashagates7596
      @sashagates7596 3 роки тому +134

      And shiznaiee how ever tf you spell that lol

    • @daynelliekendall8494
      @daynelliekendall8494 3 роки тому +105

      And “shizzz na eeee” 😂😂😂😂

    • @sashagates7596
      @sashagates7596 3 роки тому +10

      @@daynelliekendall8494 hahaha thank you

    • @daynelliekendall8494
      @daynelliekendall8494 3 роки тому +7

      @@sashagates7596 welcome 😂😂

    • @liabee3122
      @liabee3122 3 роки тому +54

      EVERYBODY on love and hip hop says "at the end of the day". Rasheeda, Lyrica, Mimi, Safaree, its exhausting at this point.

  • @planetsoverpeople
    @planetsoverpeople 3 роки тому +2288

    Her third eye was definitely CLOSED lmaooooo

    • @lianaprescott7417
      @lianaprescott7417 3 роки тому +54

      Cryinn 😂

    • @gottalovebri
      @gottalovebri 3 роки тому +99

      😭😭😭😭 you annoying
      but it definitely was, thought she was doing something saying her little line

    • @MekhiTV
      @MekhiTV 3 роки тому +39

      Fake woke ass.

    • @nelleh.
      @nelleh. 3 роки тому +110

      if her third eye was really open she wouldn't even be speaking to him... like... please... lol

    • @Yoomaro
      @Yoomaro 3 роки тому +8

      LMAFOOOOO

  • @thetruesoulofanaquarius9302
    @thetruesoulofanaquarius9302 3 роки тому +886

    I like Shay and she is a cutie but I swear she wasted her best years on dudes who didn't care about her and definitely didn't luv her she is one of those women who seem to never learn from previous mistakes/relationships hopefully she will get the rite man in her life oneday

    • @tatianaweirdo9924
      @tatianaweirdo9924 3 роки тому +12

      Same👏🏽

    • @browngirlfeels7824
      @browngirlfeels7824 3 роки тому +7

      Literally

    • @mayuntakent6359
      @mayuntakent6359 3 роки тому +3

      Never be to voranable for a man make him Voranable instead

    • @maxwelllikethecoffee3850
      @maxwelllikethecoffee3850 3 роки тому +3

      @@mayuntakent6359 ummmm 🤨 what a real relationship make each other vulnerable but they are supposed to be there and support in bad times ..... me I’m not putting up with a man who cheats NO WAYYYYY !!!!

    • @PRINCESS2U_
      @PRINCESS2U_ 3 роки тому +1

      Yes and I honestly don’t think she problematic she seem like she don’t have a lot of ppl to defend her so she has no problem doing it for herself but I definitely agreed I wish she just focused on herself and set healthier boundaries and stop fighting ppl over dudes especially

  • @arayaday1774
    @arayaday1774 2 роки тому +315

    Shay’s loyalty was hardcore one of the things I really like about her

    • @jerushastclair215
      @jerushastclair215 2 роки тому +13

      Yes she's full 100

    • @mynotificationsareoff..goc358
      @mynotificationsareoff..goc358 Рік тому +21

      I used to feel that way but now watching it it just look more like stupidity.

    • @maggiebrooks2550
      @maggiebrooks2550 Рік тому +4

      I love Shays value of loyalty. I value the same thing and I just keep being disappointed and now I'm about done and been single now for 4 years. I'm just not interested anymore.

    • @leeg696
      @leeg696 11 місяців тому

      Well said

  • @selwaa.h
    @selwaa.h 3 роки тому +114

    She acts like she knows what’s between Erica and Scrappy but deep down he still loves Erica. He never wanted something serious with Shay from the get go !

    • @sassygreen5024
      @sassygreen5024 3 роки тому +6

      All she wanted to know if he was telling the truth... Clearly he was lying

    • @natashacutiepie6074
      @natashacutiepie6074 3 роки тому +7

      She thought she knew cause she believed what the man was saying. Can't believe women still believe what come out a man's mouth. 🤦🏽‍♀

  • @donovanchavis3186
    @donovanchavis3186 3 роки тому +924

    From what I understand Shay is the reason Scrappy and Erica got on LHH. Apparently Shay had a meeting with Mona and informed her that she was dealing with Scrappy. Then Mona met with Scrappy and he brung Erica and Momma Dee along so Mona casted all of them and didn’t let Shay and Erica know about each other. Mona also did the same thing with Mimi, Joseline and Stevie J. Chile Mona chaotic.

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 3 роки тому +122

      WELL, I guess she said it ain't her mess to tell lolol

    • @Valentina-un3yh
      @Valentina-un3yh 3 роки тому +138

      Joseline was the best thing she could do for the show

    • @QueenSugar72
      @QueenSugar72 3 роки тому +86

      Mona all about the 💰 and will do anything to get it. Smh

    • @drecember
      @drecember 3 роки тому +119

      And Shay wasn’t even a main cast member either season smh

    • @jpmackey1607
      @jpmackey1607 3 роки тому +20

      Messy Mona. 😬

  • @carolinesavva5376
    @carolinesavva5376 3 роки тому +635

    Shay is one of those chicks I can't help but like. She needs to value herself more though, Scrappy treated her like trash and she took it because she thought he was better than her . NO BABY GIRL NOBODY IS BETTER THAN YOU, LOVE YOURSELF

  • @syrenxo
    @syrenxo 3 роки тому +640

    Shay never had any true loyalty from any of those fake ass people & I hate that for her because she seems like a cool, passionate person. The ice cream throw & land was iconic tho.

    • @youmakemelaugh1797
      @youmakemelaugh1797 3 роки тому +24

      Too damn passionate on the edge of psycho like sit cho ass down somewhere always trying to throw hands!!
      can't take her nowhere.🤦🏿‍♀️

    • @dollydexter9473
      @dollydexter9473 3 роки тому +33

      @@youmakemelaugh1797 Lmao 😂😂😂
      I don’t think Shay is as bad as some women, especially when you compare her to someone like Sky from Black Ink, or Josseline Hernandez!! . Shay seems like a good person who’s really loyal to her friends, but has no luck with men..

    • @rtthomas3667
      @rtthomas3667 3 роки тому +28

      She has low self-esteem due to her mother favoring her brothers. The mom didn't think Shay was good enough. Now, Shay takes that into every relationship. She gives too much too soon and men don't respect that. They want women to set boundaries. They want women to tell them no to some things. They want us to have standards and respect ourselves.

    • @Art_thecl0wn
      @Art_thecl0wn 3 роки тому +8

      @@rtthomas3667 I agree with all of that and that she seems like a cool, passionate person as well. ☺️☺️☺️

    • @syrenxo
      @syrenxo 3 роки тому +2

      @@youmakemelaugh1797 lmao I agree her ass goes above and beyond sometimes trust I feel you lol

  • @scrillscrill1099
    @scrillscrill1099 3 роки тому +55

    Shay seemed giddy about Erica not knowing but It didn't bring him any closer to choosing her.

  • @VenishaButler
    @VenishaButler 2 роки тому +133

    Let me just say this to women: Stop going into
    these “situationships” with more questions than answers. You have the right to go into something being fully aware of what’s going on. Quit giving these dudes your body and your heart and finally asking for a relationship expecting it to be that. If you’re looking for a relationship put that out there in the beginning so you know whether you’re wasting your time or not. Speak up and don’t be scared. If he’s as great as you think he won’t play games with your heart and he will be on the same page. If a dude says, “Let’s just see where it goes” go the other way. He doesn’t want you, he just wants to play with you until what he wants come along. Stop wasting your time and your tears. Get with someone who wants what you want and no less. He won’t ever buy the cow if he’s getting the milk for free.

  • @sandradika6225
    @sandradika6225 3 роки тому +1419

    Scrapp really did her bad. He didn't even claim her at one point and he even popped the question at Ericka in front of her like man sheesh.. Luckily she bounced back 👍🏽

    • @leahpawlowski
      @leahpawlowski 3 роки тому +121

      Two many similarities between Scrappy and Stevie J
      They're both aggressive
      Cheaters and liars
      Will sleep with anything
      Proposed to someone else in front of someone they're sleeping with
      Never wrong
      It's sad I feel like Scrappy doesnt get any backlash because hes cute

    • @crissyredd9415
      @crissyredd9415 3 роки тому +15

      F**K Shay 😂😂😂

    • @laylor4360
      @laylor4360 3 роки тому +40

      @@leahpawlowski Agree but a scrap is not cute, I think it's because he's a man and no one wants to hold him accountable.

    • @tekiuroti8455
      @tekiuroti8455 3 роки тому +44

      He kept calling her his "homie" and "best friend"
      I'd really like to see her do well for herself

    • @roseaye3318
      @roseaye3318 3 роки тому +18

      @@crissyredd9415 Im sorry but I cant feel sorry for her...she had the same "friendship" with pleasure P from pretty Ricky and even Caesar from black ink.. Like girl bye

  • @jecoliasjems2529
    @jecoliasjems2529 3 роки тому +765

    Within the first three minutes he let her know not to equate herself to Erica when she said, “ Same for me?” And he hit her with the, “ It’s only been 2 weeks.” 😭😭

    • @faymelanin5063
      @faymelanin5063 3 роки тому +16

      💀😭😭😭😭😭🥺🥺

    • @MsMeeka-lr6uf
      @MsMeeka-lr6uf 3 роки тому +74

      He kept calling her his friend and she also referred to him as a friend then at the reunion she was like “I don’t have ... with my friends” but when she was having ... with him I assume she wasn’t saying that 🤷🏾‍♀️ she knew what she wanted she just thought she could get it the way she didn’t

    • @JayNit2
      @JayNit2 2 роки тому +2

      😂😂 he tried

    • @daniellehayes3798
      @daniellehayes3798 Рік тому

      ​@@MsMeeka-lr6uf no offense but can you not say the word, 'SEX'? Is there a reason why? I'm just legit curious baby girl, no beef, just curious for real

    • @daniellehayes3798
      @daniellehayes3798 Рік тому

      ​@@MsMeeka-lr6uf I use to do the same on the same word actually lol that's why I'm curious. IDK why but I felt like it was a dirty word for years. Lol. I finally broke out of feeling that way

  • @faithhandberry
    @faithhandberry 3 роки тому +751

    She was Scrappy rebound for both his engagements damnn🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @ladyindaroom
    @ladyindaroom 2 роки тому +110

    For Trina to check her cousin in such a real, but loving way for what happened to Shay, makes me respect Trina even more. It also shows she really loves her cousin, and considers Shay a true friend. Trina is a real one forever!
    I want Shay to stop always feeling like she has to always flip. She must really learn the power of holding her peace when necessary.
    I am a fan of Shay, and want to see her win win! If she does not, learn to control her temper, it’s gonna pull her down quick!

  • @itsmeshaurice
    @itsmeshaurice 3 роки тому +75

    Shay is the only women I know who became a star based off of chasing men who don’t want her 😂

  • @obee2
    @obee2 3 роки тому +964

    Scrappy really dribbled Shay in every way shape and form. 😭✋🏾

  • @chantayb86
    @chantayb86 3 роки тому +624

    Shay’s problem was focusing on being in with a man instead of focusing on her personal goals.

    • @nickeywilliams8514
      @nickeywilliams8514 3 роки тому +8

      Facts!

    • @chiquitaruff5703
      @chiquitaruff5703 3 роки тому +6

      @HoneyBee 2020 amen sista. I think we all have at one time or another.😑🤦‍♀️

    • @frankielogan1863
      @frankielogan1863 3 роки тому +3

      Oop 🤭

    • @TheEricknucklez18
      @TheEricknucklez18 3 роки тому +2

      In hindsight she was focusing on herself by doing the show

    • @stopthelightskinguilt.3775
      @stopthelightskinguilt.3775 3 роки тому +4

      It's not even that. You can hit every goal in life but if you have no self esteem as a woman then you will end up like her with and idiot man who keeps using you.

  • @katrinafrench1043
    @katrinafrench1043 3 роки тому +780

    There will be a day when Shay's body and soul won't even entertain the type of men she came across... I'm rooting for nothing but the best for her

    • @Goddamit157
      @Goddamit157 3 роки тому +10

      Same here man 💪🏽💪🏽👏👏👏

    • @ninanyomii1239
      @ninanyomii1239 3 роки тому +9

      This comment 🥰💪🏽

    • @stephanieshaw4695
      @stephanieshaw4695 2 роки тому +2

      Love this comment 💯

    • @jubilantsleep
      @jubilantsleep 2 роки тому +1

      Same. I didn’t like her on flavor of love very much but I see who she is better on this show. She’s cool peoples.

    • @Toywins
      @Toywins 2 роки тому +1

      Love this, speak life into her!!

  • @daonenothe2615
    @daonenothe2615 2 роки тому +35

    I loved how Trina checked Joy. She was very transparent and gave her the real.

  • @crystalbarnes1755
    @crystalbarnes1755 3 роки тому +88

    Shay deserves to be happy! I pray she gets to be happy, she’s sooooo loyal.

    • @UMewMew
      @UMewMew Рік тому +2

      She has a baby girl now she sounds really happy

  • @enhvisualz5808
    @enhvisualz5808 3 роки тому +508

    The fact that she didn’t want him to defend his baby mother regardless of they are together or not, speaks about her character. Ain’t no real man gonna allow any man to disrespect the mother of his kids if he truly has respect for her.

    • @truelife974
      @truelife974 2 роки тому +48

      It wasn't that she didn't want him to defended Erica, but she wanted him to know that it would mean something all together different for Erica if and when he did. And Shay was 100% correct. It said more about Erica putting him in a situation where violence occurred.

    • @pixiestxNyomouf
      @pixiestxNyomouf Рік тому +13

      Not what she said, reaching like crazy. She was fishing to see if he was dating his BM which she found out he lied about. Yall lying like carpet to hate her 😅

    • @emayan06
      @emayan06 Рік тому +1

      She never said don’t defend her. She said defend her cause she ya bm not because y’all together. You was not comprehending what she said

  • @Brownskinree
    @Brownskinree 3 роки тому +479

    Lmaoooo 🤣 after Shay ran down the list of all the things scrappy did .. he said that’s it 😭😭😭 men really ain’t shit .

  • @andreawilliams5912
    @andreawilliams5912 3 роки тому +740

    I don’t feel sorry for her. She seen all the signs, and ignored them lol

    • @jayminthomas936
      @jayminthomas936 3 роки тому +95

      There were red flags and her goofy ass said it was orange

    • @lexxtalkaboutit
      @lexxtalkaboutit 3 роки тому +71

      exactly he kept calling her "friend" and she thought cause they was fucking it was gone be more

    • @ciciad2010
      @ciciad2010 3 роки тому +13

      so it's her fault? damn.

    • @lexxtalkaboutit
      @lexxtalkaboutit 3 роки тому +58

      @@ciciad2010 who else fault it's gone be?

    • @2516562101
      @2516562101 3 роки тому +2

      THANK YOU

  • @LateshaRenee
    @LateshaRenee 2 роки тому +74

    "Scrappy I made some fruit"
    "If you _made_ the fruit, you'd be a flower" 😆

  • @kandita7
    @kandita7 3 роки тому +55

    VH1, please do a "at the end of the day" compilation. 😂

  • @nae7379
    @nae7379 3 роки тому +330

    Shay must learn to love herself more than these man
    Who don't give a damn about HER

    • @shawntaamanze7741
      @shawntaamanze7741 3 роки тому +8

      Shay so pretty, she need to stop letting dudes bring her down.

  • @Regina-tf6cp
    @Regina-tf6cp 3 роки тому +181

    Shay is yelling for her voice to be heard, she needs to love herself and God will provide the right man for her

  • @obee2
    @obee2 3 роки тому +431

    One thing about Shay, she defended herself to the end!!! 😂😭

    • @LovinMe60
      @LovinMe60 3 роки тому +10

      She sure did😭😭😭

  • @Fashionisme
    @Fashionisme 3 роки тому +48

    U can tell the chemistry wasn’t there on his part.he used her every time Erica and him argued.thats messed up.

    • @jwh648
      @jwh648 6 місяців тому

      Right .she should not have had sex until he was trust worthy..

  • @itzchichi
    @itzchichi 3 роки тому +404

    I wanna know what evolution? She still fighting for men and for no reason. Iyanla even felt that there is no change lol let’s thank UA-cam for the hope in her change

    • @GiGiChosen
      @GiGiChosen 3 роки тому +19

      Exactly

    • @elliehernandez9069
      @elliehernandez9069 3 роки тому +42

      “I wanna know what evolution?” I’m screaming 🤣

    • @YONCE8701
      @YONCE8701 3 роки тому +8

      True....she could have used that moment for the change needed. Her mother is a lot to blame but she could have listened and made more of an effort. For her own healing & like you said real "Evolution".😅

    • @eve9287
      @eve9287 3 роки тому +1

      Lol lol preachhhh

    • @bonafideaj1539
      @bonafideaj1539 3 роки тому +2

      Her hair, that’s all we mean lol

  • @GabriellaGodessa
    @GabriellaGodessa 3 роки тому +435

    I hope no one is laughing too hard at Shay's behaviour, sometimes a lot of us women take a man's potential rather than himself as is which can lead to heartbreak and 7s as a fool. I hope she's in a better position now for herself 💙

    • @dearjosieb
      @dearjosieb 3 роки тому +22

      Yup, we gotta stop calling women crazy because this type of stuff happens all the time especially in a time of vulnerability and low self esteem

    • @lovelyrithatsme7050
      @lovelyrithatsme7050 3 роки тому +8

      Right, we've all played the fool

    • @bre7931
      @bre7931 3 роки тому +12

      @@lovelyrithatsme7050 I never played the fool for a man. Sorry but there are many women out there who were never treated like this. Sorry for you though

    • @shayg9126
      @shayg9126 2 роки тому +1

      Yep been there and done with that ❤❤💚💙

    • @lachellebennett4375
      @lachellebennett4375 2 роки тому

      She is she's pregnant with a girl

  • @alexusjackson4033
    @alexusjackson4033 3 роки тому +333

    I got irritated everytime scrappy went to shay to f**k but kept bringing up his bm... EVERYTIME, he really made my girl a side chick trifling

    • @justmars4273
      @justmars4273 3 роки тому +64

      She allowed it 🤷🏽‍♀️ foolish

    • @amaranthaetienne5116
      @amaranthaetienne5116 3 роки тому +8

      @@justmars4273 you ain’t lie

    • @ThePinkPunk86
      @ThePinkPunk86 3 роки тому +32

      @@justmars4273 facts! She made herself a side chick! 😂😂

    • @justmars4273
      @justmars4273 3 роки тому +2

      @@amaranthaetienne5116 😂🗣they don’t hear me thoooo!

    • @justmars4273
      @justmars4273 3 роки тому +1

      @@ThePinkPunk86 exactly! Everybody mad at Scrap, when it’s Shay to blame

  • @Beauty777_
    @Beauty777_ 3 роки тому +33

    Shay was way too invested in their (erica & scrappy’s) relationship. If she had to keep asking every time she saw him she already knew what was up.

  • @ReginaThomas-fu8mp
    @ReginaThomas-fu8mp Рік тому +35

    I think blue was feeling Shay on the low he wanted a piece of shay😮

  • @94babyxo
    @94babyxo 3 роки тому +1410

    Should've been titled 'The Evolution of Shay's Wigs' 😭

    • @angelsalwayswithme1
      @angelsalwayswithme1 3 роки тому +83

      Not even evolution most her of wigs were horrible 😂😂💀

    • @aleahboone4323
      @aleahboone4323 3 роки тому +7

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Midnighttheebanditt
      @Midnighttheebanditt 3 роки тому +18

      I knew somebody was going to comment this lol

    • @dimitriadanzy7098
      @dimitriadanzy7098 3 роки тому +15

      sista girlllll you petty 🥴

    • @crissyredd9415
      @crissyredd9415 3 роки тому +33

      Especially on the LOVE & HIP HOP ATL REUNION 😂😂😂 Looking like Muffy from the show "Authur" lol🤣

  • @QBee240
    @QBee240 3 роки тому +652

    They had to put the blonde wig in the thumbnail....it’s like throwing salt in an open wound.

    • @Itsjustamainiii
      @Itsjustamainiii 3 роки тому +25

      💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

    • @lasupremapersonal615
      @lasupremapersonal615 3 роки тому +17

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @sydneyperry7925
      @sydneyperry7925 3 роки тому +33

      Vh1 so shady

    • @dulceruiz5785
      @dulceruiz5785 3 роки тому +23

      Lol that is the ugliest wig I've seen in my life fr😳😳😂😂🤣😭

    • @mrgla
      @mrgla 3 роки тому +31

      its hilarious how you can see her black sideburns under the blonde wig, im actually crying lmao!

  • @donovanchavis3186
    @donovanchavis3186 3 роки тому +266

    Dudes is crazy. If Shay did to Scrappy what he did to her he would still be bringing it up.

    • @DG-xo2dp
      @DG-xo2dp 3 роки тому +3

      That's true

    • @tanisha.r.thomas
      @tanisha.r.thomas 3 роки тому +15

      Girl.....they always be mad when you act as fu as the act....lol.

    • @yvonnem1911
      @yvonnem1911 3 роки тому

      @@tanisha.r.thomas that’s why we gotta do em dirrrrrty aka do things for yourself FIRST cause men always do.

  • @LoisJames102
    @LoisJames102 2 роки тому +65

    Shay is gorgeous and a loyal woman. Glad everything’s going well for her now.

  • @jetlerouge007xxo4
    @jetlerouge007xxo4 3 роки тому +63

    I just had an epiphany…. Shay is actually a sweet person who has unfortunately saw the good in the wrong people. As far as men, she dated them for potential which is always a big No no. Nobody is perfect, we’ve all had a moment or 2 that we’re not proud of. I hope she falls in love with herself and embraces her feminine side. I really think she’s a diamond in the rough. 💯🙏🏽💎💖

  • @Assassynator
    @Assassynator 3 роки тому +181

    "How dare you throw my mom's empanadas, and for what? For Pleasure? Ay, por favor..." 🤣🤣 that line tickled me so much lol

  • @andreawilliams5912
    @andreawilliams5912 3 роки тому +361

    That was not her place to discredit Pleasure P group members 🙄

    • @eve9287
      @eve9287 3 роки тому +4

      Nope

    • @Goddamit157
      @Goddamit157 3 роки тому +29

      Pleasure shouldnt have been chatting off to shay if he planned to reunite with pretty Ricky🤷‍♀️ & he made her look bad like say he wasnt gossiping like a lil bitch kmt

    • @removedfromthecorner6600
      @removedfromthecorner6600 3 роки тому +3

      In the apology the little guy said he came at her first and she was defending herself.

    • @Bam-st8sf
      @Bam-st8sf 3 роки тому +4

      I know she’s extra asf but I think they edit a lot out

    • @gioplease6848
      @gioplease6848 3 роки тому +6

      Maybe but at the same time her “man” could’ve defended her. The dudes kind of came at her first talking disrespectful.

  • @chriyeon
    @chriyeon 3 роки тому +223

    I don't really dislike Shay but using "Evolution" to describe her story is definitely a reach. 15 years and she's still acting extra over men and getting constantly played by them on TV, even through this entire video, so...

  • @Peresphone
    @Peresphone 2 роки тому +56

    Shay had an interview where she revealed that she got scrappy on the show..so thanks to her we have Erica and iconic Momma Dee in that order..I can see why Shay felt extra betrayed but Hopefully she’s doing better now

    • @truthtorpedo4068
      @truthtorpedo4068 Рік тому +6

      Scrappy is a BROKE and ungrateful bandit who used Shay for a reality TV cheque. She put money in his pockets and he never really told her thanks.

  • @Jtap_nyc
    @Jtap_nyc Рік тому +26

    Next to New York, Shay really milked the hell out of reality TV and made it work for her

    • @urcoolstepmom
      @urcoolstepmom 3 місяці тому

      running behind a man everytime

  • @natlovesfashion27
    @natlovesfashion27 3 роки тому +897

    I swear, Shay walks into the beauty supply store and asks for the worst fitting wigs they have and buys them out. LMAO!!!

  • @QueenSugar72
    @QueenSugar72 3 роки тому +134

    Notice how Pleasure stayed by the other chic side and didn't see about Shay?

  • @liabee3122
    @liabee3122 3 роки тому +589

    Scrappy to Shay: When l aint got nobody to talk to , l come holla at you...What?!?😂

    • @K_Allday
      @K_Allday 3 роки тому +82

      Riiiight, he is so rude😂😂😂😂

    • @melize7035
      @melize7035 3 роки тому +152

      The fact that Shay didn’t understand how fucked up that was 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @liabee3122
      @liabee3122 3 роки тому +53

      @@melize7035 right she just nodded 😂

    • @kiara198923
      @kiara198923 3 роки тому +36

      Ikr... In my eyes she should've picked up on that but I guess not.

    • @melissazaragoza5296
      @melissazaragoza5296 3 роки тому +44

      THAT SHIT HE SAID WAS FUCKED UP 😧 SHE WAS ALWAYS THE LAST RESORT SO EMBARRASSING!.

  • @naytrilli
    @naytrilli 8 місяців тому +5

    I love how Trina kept it real with joy without taking her side because their related💙

  • @sandnin1
    @sandnin1 3 роки тому +34

    I like Shay. I just do. She's just real and blunt with her feelings.

  • @truthspeaks281
    @truthspeaks281 3 роки тому +141

    When dude asked Pleasure where did you meet her at? The halfway house I lost it. I never caught that before. But why are you arguing with a man in front of your man? Your man didn't say poop. Mine would never.

    • @lateshiabrooks2180
      @lateshiabrooks2180 3 роки тому +1

      Lol

    • @cj8803
      @cj8803 3 роки тому +26

      Yeah he didn't stand up for her AT ALL. That would INFURIATE ME, because that's NOT COOL. Your man or woman should ALWAYS have your back.

  • @leelee3231
    @leelee3231 3 роки тому +192

    Sheesh you can tell these people have never held a regular job because they can’t even be around people they don’t like for 5 mins 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @isisdiamonique5481
      @isisdiamonique5481 3 роки тому +27

      I think the producers hype them up

    • @Missrere1984
      @Missrere1984 3 роки тому +14

      Right! I feel like even celebs need to have some sort of professionalism

    • @willnautical2774
      @willnautical2774 3 роки тому +2

      @@Missrere1984 the real ones do

    • @Mon26100
      @Mon26100 2 роки тому

      Lol... That comment just made me giggle 🤭 that shit is so TRUE!

  • @areiaaphrodite
    @areiaaphrodite 3 роки тому +156

    Scrappy had no right to be playing Erica and Shay like that. Scrappy hurt them both a lot and then got mad at them for being upset at him after he does trifling ass dirt. The audacity 😤

  • @DopeBoysofatlanta
    @DopeBoysofatlanta 2 роки тому +23

    She just want somebody to love and be around real friends that reciprocate the same energy she gives off!

  • @indigotarot2333
    @indigotarot2333 3 роки тому +18

    She cant ever let go of the past. That's something that holds you back.

  • @missfavour5760
    @missfavour5760 3 роки тому +198

    Shay was a fool, she put everyone before herself. She doesn’t know when to stop fighting (physically and emotional).

  • @marthal8862
    @marthal8862 3 роки тому +229

    Shay is GORGEOUS, just stunning.
    Sis just needs a therapist and she'll be straight!

    • @crissyredd9415
      @crissyredd9415 3 роки тому +9

      🤣🤣🤣 Gorgeous Where? ☠️

    • @isisdiamonique5481
      @isisdiamonique5481 3 роки тому +9

      Did you see her iyanla episode? It didn’t go well

    • @marthal8862
      @marthal8862 3 роки тому +17

      @@isisdiamonique5481 I did love, that's why I think she needs a licensed therapist behind closed doors.

    • @isisdiamonique5481
      @isisdiamonique5481 3 роки тому +4

      @@marthal8862 right

    • @BarbieDawl.__
      @BarbieDawl.__ 3 роки тому +20

      She’s beautiful anyone says otherwise is a hater

  • @jermaphobic8308
    @jermaphobic8308 3 роки тому +151

    “When I ain’t got nobody to talk to I come holla at you” is that supposed to be a good thing?

  • @akelly47
    @akelly47 2 роки тому +17

    Crazy! Blue gave her more than all the men who claim they love her.

  • @eleksienoir1576
    @eleksienoir1576 3 роки тому +58

    Shay is a good person. She is just fighting her own demons like the rest of us. She owns up when she is wrong and she craves love, unfortunately in wrong places. Therapy can help her. Wish her the best.

  • @shadaeChevelle4737
    @shadaeChevelle4737 3 роки тому +225

    I know a lot of women (including myself) that did a lot of b.s behind a man 😖💔 Hopefully she learned from her mistakes..I like Shay

  • @shyyshayyfamily8789
    @shyyshayyfamily8789 3 роки тому +23

    I love how Trina checked tf outta joy

  • @Funkyjunkmail
    @Funkyjunkmail 3 роки тому +34

    The best of Buckeey and her crunchy wig collection 😭😭

  • @mironicasantana9199
    @mironicasantana9199 3 роки тому +129

    Shay's evolution is fighting for men that don't really take her seriously, and play her 😒

  • @QBee240
    @QBee240 3 роки тому +428

    This is better titled....’The Struggle Love of Shay ‘’Buckeey’’ Johnson’

  • @raventoocute3006
    @raventoocute3006 3 роки тому +181

    Blue is shaped like one of those small fridges you see in hotel rooms 🤣

  • @PapaGilbert18
    @PapaGilbert18 3 роки тому +35

    Moral of the story.. if their words and their actions don’t match walk away from that dude. Shay should’ve put scrappy in the corner where he belonged and leave him alone.
    And don’t ever fight with a girl over a man. If she wants to keep him, fine, but you don’t have to.

  • @beezo4860
    @beezo4860 2 роки тому +15

    "Shoulda , woulda , coulda" - takes me out everytime 😂

  • @lucylou7375
    @lucylou7375 3 роки тому +74

    I dont like or dislike shay🤔, she was acting ridiculous when it came to scrappy, she's desperate it was obvious that he wasn't interested in a long term relationship. His action spoke very loudly.

    • @priscillamercadel4710
      @priscillamercadel4710 3 роки тому +2

      I feel sorry for her scrappy play the hell out her shay do you dam scrappy

  • @kalahhatfield4258
    @kalahhatfield4258 3 роки тому +286

    That wig in the thumbnail, y’all dead wrong!! 😂😂

    • @gr8fulone384
      @gr8fulone384 3 роки тому +4

      🥴🥴🥴😂😂😂

    • @Elena-no7ti
      @Elena-no7ti 3 роки тому +9

      Same thing I said lol

    • @neonrays28
      @neonrays28 3 роки тому +31

      That blonde wig. Such a tragedy.

    • @bellavita1323
      @bellavita1323 3 роки тому +13

      Is she blind though or delusional? There's no way she didn't see how them wigs be lookin

    • @bernardoalonso1
      @bernardoalonso1 3 роки тому +14

      Is the front suppose to be floating?

  • @xanthippeli
    @xanthippeli 3 роки тому +98

    She needs to love herself and find a soulmate to appreciate how beautiful and smart she is

  • @kiara198923
    @kiara198923 3 роки тому +16

    Say what you want but Shay has an amazing NATURAL body!!!!

  • @cocovanm4303
    @cocovanm4303 3 роки тому +23

    “How can we fix the issue”
    Shay: “With these hands” 😭

  • @jaygriffperiod85
    @jaygriffperiod85 3 роки тому +369

    They should have included her "Flavor of Love" run, since that was the start of everyone knowing her. Missed opportunity there.

    • @ericatheempress6698
      @ericatheempress6698 3 роки тому +91

      And it was a show that was on Vh1 too. Definitely a missed opportunity

    • @MsDecemberBlu
      @MsDecemberBlu 3 роки тому +44

      Facts!!! They could have added her time on charm school also

    • @travismikel4413
      @travismikel4413 3 роки тому +48

      I'm guessing they're only focused on the "Love & HipHop" era.. but that would have been cool if they included her vh1 career from the jump!

    • @nikkideevah
      @nikkideevah 3 роки тому +19

      But this is the Love & Hip Hop channel

    • @europianbob
      @europianbob 3 роки тому +6

      Do they own it? Maybe if they got the rights to show it.

  • @jakevienb3706
    @jakevienb3706 3 роки тому +599

    I like how Shay always stood up for herself

    • @BurgundyMist22
      @BurgundyMist22 3 роки тому +32

      There is a difference with standing up for yourself vs running ya mouth at all times... Shay runs her mouth and mainly ova dumb shit tbh and it causes her to be in so much drama. Even her brothers said she has a disrespectful mouth and that mouth will get her socked in the face by a dude that won't GAF about hitting a bitch. She will one day get stabbed for running her mouth. If she acts like an adult, she would be liked more.

    • @inphllps2416
      @inphllps2416 3 роки тому +27

      @@BurgundyMist22 she has some type of anger issues from childhood but one thing I like about her is she don’t let no one punk her

    • @BurgundyMist22
      @BurgundyMist22 3 роки тому +9

      @@inphllps2416 that's koo but that don't mean she's invincible, anybody can get touched... She need to control her mouth that's all

    • @inphllps2416
      @inphllps2416 3 роки тому +6

      @@BurgundyMist22 she needs to control her mouth

    • @BurgundyMist22
      @BurgundyMist22 3 роки тому +1

      @@inphllps2416 exactly

  • @GiGiChosen
    @GiGiChosen 3 роки тому +270

    “He’s mine.Biznayee” girl you crazy!

  • @pgotweet922
    @pgotweet922 3 роки тому +11

    23:22 🤣🤣🤣the friends acting like they don't know where pleasure is

  • @starrwilliams0127
    @starrwilliams0127 2 роки тому +14

    SHAY IS REALLY A GOOD PERSON AND LOYAL TO THE PEOPLE SHE LOVES IT WILL ALL COME BACK TO HER ONE DAY…… ☺️🙏🏽🤞🏽

    • @cela9852
      @cela9852 2 роки тому +2

      I highly doubt it. She really means well but she is clearly destructive as well. So much self growth is needed

  • @sjohnsonsj536
    @sjohnsonsj536 3 роки тому +59

    The whole time he kept talking about Erica in the beginning! Shay should've known he was still involved with that woman 🤦

  • @BRI-ut4zz
    @BRI-ut4zz 3 роки тому +73

    i love how trina wasn't bias in they're argument, and checked both of them.

  • @DukeSaragono
    @DukeSaragono 3 роки тому +107

    Poor Shay, she really got a good heart and constantly being cheated on. I really hope she finds a real dude that's into her and put her first.

  • @virgomoonchild79
    @virgomoonchild79 3 роки тому +12

    I like Shay and I wish her nothing but the best ❤❤

  • @Simplydeangelo
    @Simplydeangelo 2 роки тому +6

    Y’all 😂😂😂😂 THE THUMBNAIL (blonde wig on the LEFT) 🥴😭😭 vh1 know they Messy!

  • @najitobias
    @najitobias 3 роки тому +183

    I love me some Shay. She is so real and not scared to show herself, flaws and all. You have to appreciate that about her, no matter what you think of her. Straight up.

  • @jessicaibe970
    @jessicaibe970 3 роки тому +201

    Shay is so determined to speak her mind 🔥

    • @mirasqaud5791
      @mirasqaud5791 3 роки тому +14

      That’s just Libras they can’t not speak their minds

  • @thatgworl2504
    @thatgworl2504 3 роки тому +130

    I’ve been in a similar situation like this. Scrappy was still trying to get over Erica at the time and he was stringing Shay along. I really feel bad for her. I saw a lot of potential between them. Shay should’ve stick to basic friendship instead of sleeping with him. He didn’t have the space to commit to her. You live and you learn

    • @cj8803
      @cj8803 3 роки тому +4

      Yeah once she slept with him, she just opened her heart for heartbreak. She caught feelings for Scrappy and he just wanted sex from her.