Raug Nyab Number 1 Muab Kiv 10/14/2021
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- Опубліковано 10 вер 2024
- She was very picking when it comes to finding the perfect daughter in law for her son. At the end , she found the so called perfect girl but little does she know, the perfect daughter in law have her own plan of action.
Always love all your nyabs the same. My niam pog is like that. She only love the youngest nyab. But the youngest nyab is the laziest. You will never know who will love you, so love all nyab equally.
OMG, same here! My youngest SIL is also the laziest. She’s been married to my husband’s youngest brother for 10+ years and barely do anything at family gatherings.
Niam tai Tim kj g txawj lhub me nyuam xwb o tu nyab zoo Li ca lo lhub sib Lua Maj pog lem aw
My mil prize nyab is her first nyab b/c she is well educated but in the end guess who she was calling to go buy food for her. 😒
@@nkauj00j the ones who are rich are more greedy. My husband and I have 6 kids all close together so I couldn’t work. My mother in law will not help babysit. I lived with mother in law for 10 years. The youngest brother married . We moved out. They live with her for 1 year they silently moved out. & yes she’s very lazy. Since then mother-in-law has been living alone. But yes, who buy her food me. Even I’m struggling myself. They are so rich they had a beautiful American wedding for her daughter. You know how much they spent. Along with a trip to the Bahamas!
But my mother in law told me before we moved out. She said out of her daughter in law I’m the meanest and laziest nyab. None of his 5 daughter-in-law wants to take her in. Guess who she will be living with? The meanest and laziest nyab.
To all the judgmental MIL: Keep your eyes on your daughters too. Raise them to be the perfect nyab like the ones that you want your sons to marry.
Agreed!
100% agreed!! Sad to say some mil’s don’t see the bad in their daughters only there dil’s.
Agreed!!
Ain’t that the truth!! The expectations of a great Nyab, however the family forgets that they have daughters that aren’t so great as Nyabs themselves.
I’m 💯 with you there!
She got a daughter in law just like herself. I don't feel bad for her.
Agreed.
Well said hihi
Nyuam qhuav phim. Cov niam pog coj lub siab phem lim hiam zoo li ntawv. Saib dej ua ntu saib neeg ua plu.
True, metal and metal.
Agree
Thank you for sharing your story. Glad you learned your lesson. May your dils continue to love you as you continue to love them.
That’s what this MIL deserves!! These kind of MIL needs to be get treated like that so they will realize to love those Nyab who does everything for them.
If you have no daughter of your own you should be more kind and nice to your daughter in law, so they will love you back. You are a bad example and bad mother in law. That's what you get for not treated your other nyab well. This is a great story
Auntie, never judge a book by its cover. The one you hate is the one that will love and take care of you. The one you love is the evil one. As a mother, you should love all equally. Shame on you.
Honestly, most MIL likes those evil nyabs. They think the nice nyabs are just dumb.
True. most mil alwase pick n choose.
I don’t understand why people are so overrated with people who have a degree. Having a degree doesn’t define who you are. It’s the person’s character that defines them.
It’s bcuz someone w degree they assume will make more money, buy bigger house, better car, n give their son a better life! OG parents want to show off to ppl! It’s all in their heads!! It’s all GREED n MONEY!
Agree these hmoob people
OMG!! This is one heck of a story. LoL...I'm glad this MIL admitted she was in the wrong on her part. 😁
She’s such an ignorant, small minded, controlling, narcissistic individual who thinks she’s right all the time, just soooo perfect, righteous, proper 🙄. I’m glad she learned her lesson but she’s still got a lot to learn, adapt. If I was her first 3 nyabs, I’m pretty sure they were so happy she didn’t care about them - freedom for the MIL! At least her eyes were open.
I've learned not to treat my future daughter in laws like how I was treated! And to answered your question, I don't think like you when I birthed my sons. I just needed a daughter in law who have a kind heart, long temper and get along with my family! And karma always have it's way back...she will grow old one day and she will reaps what she sows too!
Niam tais aw koj poob qab deb dhau lawm nej tiam ko tseem nyiam2 coj li xyoo 75..
These days we cannot rely on our kids to take care of us. They have different beliefs and priorities. It's sad and unavoidable.
This MIL is PERFECT. In her own eyes but such a controlling, narcissistic, unadapted individual who deserved what she got.
These days life is hard so parents have to get with the program and not expect too much from their children.
Yeah even my 50 year old sister says that. She told her grown kids to put her in-home care. It was quite sad but she and I agree. Her kids are older but she already knew. So my kids I wouldn’t rely on them.
As long as she learned from her own lessons and turned around to do what’s right. Not a lot of mother in laws will admit their wrong doing and apologize for their past mistakes.
Glad someone put you in check!
I'm glad you learned from your mistakes and treat your older nyab better
Xaiv2 taus paiv ces yog koj ntag laus tus niam siab nqaim. Uas neej tsis pom hmoov yuav tsum hlub yus cov mes nyuam cov nyab kom sib npaug os mog. Zoo siab you realized your mistakes and fixed what had done.
Cov niam pog es xaiv nyab hlub ces thaum kawg zoo li no tag.
Tus me niam tsev, los niam tais aw.. Tej thaum yuav tsum raug kiv li ko es yus lub hlwb thiaj yuav kiv los haum yus txhua tus nyabs.. hahah muab sau ua nyabs no vim coob tus nyabs LoL es yus thiaj paub kho yus lub siab tus kheej los haum txhua tus nyab tseem tus nyab tus nyab me thiab daj plaub hau daj liab los lub siab zoo os. Li cas los tom ntej no koj tus me nyab number 1 yuav tig hlub koj thiab ces thaum txog caij koj nce hauv toj koj yuav tsis tusiab lawm os nawb. Ua nyab ces kawg yeej yuav tau ua niam pog thiab es lwm hnub koj tus me nyab number1 yeej yuav kawm ib qhov lesson thiab os lod. Qhov kawg ces zoo siab cov nyab tseem hlub koj os nawb.
Luag twb hais tias be careful what you wish for it come true right hahaha! Yus mam kawm ntawm lawv txoj kev tsim yus
Mus xaiv tus nyab phem ib yam li Niam pog kiag tab tom hum kiag xwb
The Nyab isn’t wrong. What she said was right, the MIL has a nasty personality! Who would be able to live with a person that extra tho..
Karma is sure great. It's ok. Lesson learned. Reminds me of someone.
Koj yog ib Tus Niam Pog siab phem thiab Liam hiam thiaj mag Koj Tus Nyab #1 tsim.
No all your nyabs are good people. The point is… you cannot have 2 queens living under one roof. You get along with your nyabs bc they don’t live with you.
Zaj dab neeg no mas ua rau Kuv lub qhov ntswg khoob loj kawg vim kuv twb pom cov niag niam pog zoo li no los lawm. HMMM!…👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🤣🤣🤣🤣😂
Tu neeg siab dawb siab zoo thiaj li yog neeg txawj ntse....Tu neeg kawm txawj xwb tsis tau txhais hais tias yog neeg siab dawb siab zoo...Nws tsuas kawm lo khwv noj rau nws lub neej xwb...
Haha pov khawv kawg puas yog
Is this our family story!?!! Sound so much like it since my husband them has no sisters. 🙃 Thank you for sharing your story tus mi Niam pog. I’m glad you realize that it can be any nyab that will love or hate you. Wish my Mil can listen to this story so she can learn something from this bad behavior since she favor the oldest and the youngest sons & nyabs whereas my husband is the middle child (the forgotten child).
LOL. In our family, my middle BIL is the favorite son because he’s a pharmacist. He’s my in-laws’ pride and joy.
@@MissPeachie Lol. Ain’t that funny! In-laws!
LOL my mother learned her lesson. She’s like the rich son and rich nyab aren’t willing to give. The poor son and nyab always very giving and has always been the okay nyab.
Cov niam pog xaiv 2 nyab ces yog zaj no ntag. Wanted the perfect nyab, end with the perfect Dab😅😂😂
The elder said > Heevneeg muaj Heevneeg tsim. She chooses the right Nyab. Congratulations to Mother in law.
Tab sis Kuv Thov Qhua Koj tus Ua niam uas tseem paub txog yus tus kheej uas yeej coj tsis caj es tseem tawm los qhia pub rau lwm tus Kawm. Zoo kawg lawm nawb.
Hi Mab! I like your sense of humor. You are a great storyteller and I enjoy the stories that you put out!!! 😁
Great story. Thanks for sharing
Lesson learned for the mother-in-law.
Agree with that npam koj es thiab koj pom deb dua qub lawm. Glad you’ve realized your wrongdoing and turns around.
You got want you wanted so live with it..
This reminds me of someone I knew, who had an evil mother in-law who made her son divorced her and had him married someone that was the family’s ideal nyab. It turned out that the new nyab was just as evil as the mother in-law. The mother in-law ended up calling my associate on her death bed, apologizing to her. Anyways, it’s karma for the mother in the story! I’ve seen how this panned out so many times. Different people and different stories, but same karma and lessons!
I'm glad she admit that she was wrong. some niam pog she say when she hate someone she hate that person to the end
Muaj haiv neeg ua yeej muaj haiv neeg tsim raug siab tiag li o cov niam pog npem
That is why as a grandma you should not care too much or don't be too attach to the grandkids.
Niam qhuav ntxim xwb os.
tus tub mloog lus thaum kawg thiaj mus mloog tus nyab lus lawm 😄
Pog laus lau koj ces haus tshuaj ntxhuav nyiaj lau.
Your old way of thinking. You get what you choose. Respect, boundary is what you don't have.
Wow
Me Niam tais aw neeg heev yeej muaj haiv neeg tsim yus siab phem li cas rau lwm tus ces lwm tus yeej siab phem li ntawv rau yus os nawb es tsis txob tu siab os mog li no yus thiaj qhia tau yus tus kheej tias yuav tau hlub sawv saws kom sib npaug os mog
Yus kawm tau kev ua nyab lawm los yus yuav tau kawm kev ua niam pog thiab hos vim yus tsis txawj ua niam ces tej nyab los yuav tsis txawj ua nyab thiab mas.
Cov niam pog uas phem phem rau tej nyab es tsis hlub tsis nyiam. Tus nyab uas nws nyiam nyiam thiab hlub hlub yog tus nws nrog nyob tsis taus. Tus nws nyiam tsis yog tus uas hlub nws. Kuv muaj ib tug niam hlob nws ntxub ntxub nws tus nyab hlob nws txv kom tus nyab thiab tub hlob nkawv lub neej puas. Nws hlub hlub nws tus me nyab uas nws tau dawb tsis them nqi tshoob tabsi nws hos nrog tsis tau nws tus nyab dawb nyob. Cov niam pog phem ces ntxim tau tej tug nyab uas phem phem muab nws kiv li zag neej neeg no xwb ma thiaj li tab tom ntxim.
Nev...Hmoob lub neej NOJ NOJ NKHAWB thiab RUAM RUAM RUAM qauj los TSEEM ua RUAM TSAB ntse ces:
YOG nkaus tus pog LAUS uas 1 sij NCIV NCO thiab HAIS...HAIS...HAIS...HAIS...HAIS...lus QHUAB QHIA tej tub-nyab...luv QHOV NCAUJ ua ZOG KOOG...THAWD THA, THAWD THA thiab PLAWD pla...PLAWD PLA...NCAUJ pom SUAV KHAWD, TES-TAW TUAG ZAWD ces MAG CEM thiab MAG ntxiab kiag thiaj RIS SIAB HLO!
Good story
Judgmental mother in law like this woman and play favoritism for one daughter in law over the others she got what she deserved.
At least the MIL repent her sins. That's all that matter.
Ib co niam pog ces thaum nyab tseem tsis tau ntse ces muab hov2 ces thaum nyab ntse ces kawg niam pog poob tog xwb..tsis tau hnov nyab sab..hehe
Wow, I applaud your smart nyab for opening your eyes. Don’t be mad at her. Instead, thank her for making you a better person. It was God’s way of opening your tiny heart and narrow mind. Dang lady, you really do need Jesus!
Kaum, npam, rauqhov tsis hlub cov nyab hlob.
Raws li mloog koj piav koj tus nyab plaub hau liab ces koj yeej nkhaus txaus nkaus lawm thiab. Zoo heev tias zaum no koj paub tab zog rau koj tus nyab plaub hau liab lawm lauv. Muaj tus txawj phem ua ntej lawm los kuj tseem muaj tus txawj los daws tau qhov teeb meem rov tom qab thiab.
Koj yog ib tug tus niam pog controling, koj tus nyab yog koj tus tub savior. Koj tus nyab ntse cawm tau koj txojkev khoo koj tus tub... koj yuav tsum zoo siab tes koj tus nyab cawm tau nws tawm ntawm txoj kev siab phem ua koj qhia koj tus tub puag thaum nws tseem meme.... yog hais tias koj tsis hlub koj tus nyab lawm es hloov siab mus hlub cov uas koj ua phem2 rau. Nws qhia tau hais tias koj yeej tsis muaj kev hlub nyob rau hauv koj.... koj tsuas hlub luag kom koj tau kev dim pa xwb.... thaum twg koj hlub tau lawm txhua tus thaum ntawm koj thiaj muaj kev zoo siab... koj lub siab phem koj thiaj foom... txojkev foom yog txojkev phem qhia rau hais koj yeej phem... yog mus tsis raws koj lub siab ce koj txoj kev foom tseem yuam muaj ntxiv... koj tej nyiaj yuav tsis tau kom lawm txhua tus hlub koj.... ce lis hloov koj lub niag siab phemmm.. es hlub lawm thaum koj tseem muaj sia nyob es koj tej metub meyuam es kon thiaj li tau txojkev hlub tiag..
Lol!!!😂😂😂 That’s why be careful of what you wish for.
Hihihihi muaj heev niam pog yeej muaj heev nyab .all peaky OG mothers inlaw listen this story to change if you a peaky and only love the nyab you like to love and give gifts 🎁
Cas kuv niam pog tsis tau tus Nyab zoo li no ne
Tus niam pom no los yeej tsi zoo npaum twg thiab vim twb tsi hlub cov nyaj hlob thiab...cov tub ua mloog lus mas txhob cia2 siab nawb vim txog thaum tau poj niam lawm ces nws yuav mus mloog lus ib yam es cov niam pog yuav tsi muaj chaws nyob li no lo mas..tabsis txhob tus siab os tiam no yog tiam 21 lawm es thov cov niam pog txhob nkhau2 thiab..thiaj tsi nyuaj2 siab os..
Someone always gotta dislike and be hateful!
Love your channel sis!
Koj ces nyuam qhuav ntxim, luag tias haiv neeg muaj haiv neeg tsim na has. Koj tau kiag koj tus favorite nyab los tsim koj lawm tiag.
Lol…can’t stop laughing
Hello I’m a hated nyab bc I’m white hmong, go figure, wish someone gave me a heads up, I’d stick to my own kind!
Serves her right... heev neeg muaj heev neeg tsim. Hate spawns from uneducated
Zoo kawg qhov koj ntsaws2 tus nyab kawm ntawv siab2 ces ua twjywm qhov no qhov koj tshaws
She got forced to moved from her own house like her favorite daughter in law own her house! Haha wow!
That's what you deserve
How can you expect your daughter in law to love you the way you want to when FIRST you don't even respect or love her! You're the bad one, you're the one who's the problem. Glad you got what happened to you!! Gotta learn the hard way! 💯
Tus me niam tsev ua cas yuav ntsaw2 nyab txawj ntse kawm ntawvntawv siab yuav los hlub koj los so koj quav koj ua npau suav tseeb zog
tos koj tuaj qhia koj lub qe los koj yej phem dua hauv lub ntiaj teb no cov poj nyiam hmoob txhob muaj koj tus kheej piv rau peb cov poj niam hmoob nawj tos sawv tsis tuaj piav txog lawv tus kheej mas yeej tsis muaj leej twg phem npaum koj nawj
My mil only love my husband's older brothers wife she never love me but at the end she cheated on ny bil so now my mil love me most but I told my husband it's kinda too late now.
I can’t fridge in bedroom. When you’re at this point- MOVE OUT!!!!!!!
Wow, this woman’s son can’t even sugar coat his wife’s words lol that’s why these OG’s don’t go trying to control their kids lives
I honestly hate mother in law who is stubborn maybe is karma for her. I guess it teaches her a lesson. She act like she has never been a nyab before.
Xav paub koj lub tub yeeg zoo li cas?
Ces koj kuj yog ib tug niam pog nkaus thiab phem kawg li vim tus nyab twg los koj tsis nyiam li na
koj ces nyem qhuav haus xwb os pog laus aw.
I would love to hear the daughter in law’s side of the story too. I hope she hears this and we get the other side.
I have two sons, I don't think about that stuff. I only want my sons happy, doesn't matter who they choose. I'm a nyab, but will be a niam pog and I was judged and so I don't want that for my nyab. I will love them equally.
Yes you older generation expects too much and judge too much and too cruel that's why you deserve to be mistreated. Karma serves you good.
Haiv neeg muaj haiv neeg tsim...
It’s sad that majority of the in laws are like this. They “think” that the pretty, high educated woman are the better one. Oh, ya i forgot…those that come “in good/rich family” are supposedly be GREAT too. All you mother in law out there. Hope you guys learn from this story!!!! Because us nyab do get sad and disappointed too.
Nyab #1 gonna be npam-ed for sure. No matter how much you hate your mother in law, you should never talk to her like that, or assault her in any matter. She has her own kids, I suggest she start praying they won't treat her as such.
Xav hais tiag, heev heev li koj tus niampog ko es yuav tsis txawj quaj li no cas txog thaum kawg kuj muaj tus los ua haum haum koj thiab yom I don't feel sorry for you mother in-law
Heev neeg yeej muaj heev neeg tsim. Txaus koj kawg! Xav luag dhau! 🤣🤣
very cute coat!
Ho yau. .. peb cov ua niam ces yeej xav kom yus tej me nyuam ua ki yus hais xwb tab sis xav ntuj ces xu luaj nyuj xav luaj teb ces xav luaj zeb xwb tiag yeej up posite xwb tiag vuv ncaus txhib tu siab is mog...
laus ua tsis tau noj ..ce mus nyob tsev laus xwb mas hmoob ..aw
Cas nej tseem coj lis thaum xab maim thaum 1960 ntawm nas ..
hmoob..
Es. tseem pheej ..xav kom tub nyab rog koj nyob nas hmoob aw
Never live with the nyab you like. You will hate them and they will hate you. 😂
My in laws lived with all my sister in laws except the last two (me included). There’s a reason they still respect us two more.
nim khuav ntxim niam pog phem
By listening to your story, you are not a good mil. You need to give the young couple a space. They are not kids. They are adults and they can live their own life. Your job is to support them, but not telling them how to live and how to raise their own children.
By the sound of it, when the youngest dil was arguing back, it sound like this mil was controlling them. Of course any dil will not like that. She didn't tell us how she treats her youngest dil except that she loves her. But I'm sure it's a diff story from the youngest dil's side.
Karma served you right!! 🤣🤣💀
Why you want to control people. Just do you!
Want to ruin a relationship? Move in together.
Qhov ntawv ces koj txoj kev npam ntag ma niam pog
Niam tais awww- txhua2 leej niam yeej muaj cai xa leej twg tsim nyog ua yus tus Nyab tabsi kj ua ntau heev rau tus neeg nws twb tsi need kj txoj kev hlub os? Tab txawm kj twb nyiam2 nws los kj yuav tsum txhob ua ntau nawb. Txhob tusiab-tsi ntev no yuav muaj lawm tus Ua rau nws tseem yuav phem tshaj nws Ua rau kj nawb! Ntseeg karma yuav raws txog nws sai2
Cov laus los yeej txawj npam thiab. Tsis yog cov hluas xwb nawb.
Tu paub tab tu paub cai es ntse cuag li nplaig nab ces muab koj kiv ua nws koj ko taw tig nce ntuj kiag txaus koj yees tshaj plaws yom
Ntuj awsssss peb tej no qaug me nyuam es noj kav ywm xyaw nqaij xwb zoo lawm
Koj phem dhau lawm Koj tus nyab #1 qhia kiav cai rau koj xwb
Zag nuav tsi zoo li zag u lawm os niam tais aws pab koj tus siab kawg os txhob xaiv lawm txhob nkim yus tej nyiaj xwb
Cov nim pog phem siab lim hiam zoo li no nyuam qhua phim. Kuv tsis qhua nus li.
Luag hais tias heev neeg ces nws yuav muaj nws heev neeg Los lim los tsim los tshaus no ces yog koj ntag mas poj hmoob.
Cov niam pog coj phem phem li koj CES thiaj li ntsib xaus kiag ov.