She cheated on me..

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  • Опубліковано 26 вер 2024
  • Being cheated on is tough, and it's not really something that you can live to forget. I like to believe I became stronger from it, but I found myself trusting less and less people even my very own self. If you have any experiences, please share them below. You could truly help someone, even save someone's life.
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  • @destinee7326
    @destinee7326 7 років тому +706

    Being cheated on is the worst feeling. It made me feel like I wasn't enough.. so you had to go get with someone else.

    • @gracedean1203
      @gracedean1203 7 років тому +25

      You have always been enough, and always will be enough. xx

    • @scarletjonny4991
      @scarletjonny4991 7 років тому +2

      awwwww

    • @annipsy2185
      @annipsy2185 7 років тому +3

      RealDes yeah,i had to remind myself again and again that it wasnt my fault. i got over it but i now i have trust issues that i never had before. i cant even trust my best freind fully.

    • @fayegreen3735
      @fayegreen3735 7 років тому +2

      RealDes I know right 😔

    • @destinee7326
      @destinee7326 7 років тому +16

      Being cheated on.. it's the worst. But part of me is glad it happened. I learned that I am strong enough to get past a broken heart. The fact that I got out of a unhealthy relationship is good as well. Anyone who has gone through this, I know it sucks&it hurts.. but one day you'll be with the man/women who deserves your love & you'll be thankful that that awful thing lead to something beautiful.

  • @QueenEspeon96
    @QueenEspeon96 7 років тому +358

    it's really sad that loyalty is dead

    • @Ena48145
      @Ena48145 5 років тому +4

      I promise you it's not 💗❤

    •  4 роки тому +5

      @@Ena48145 loyalty isnt dead but faithfulness is dead

    • @AdolfShitler69420
      @AdolfShitler69420 4 роки тому +1

      Enigmaa O Man U hit it right on the head.

    • @KARTIKEYA007
      @KARTIKEYA007 4 роки тому +2

      @@Ena48145 loyalty is pretty much dead, it's easily proven

    • @bluebubble7232
      @bluebubble7232 3 роки тому

      @ agreed.

  • @oleiahfrancom7198
    @oleiahfrancom7198 7 років тому +868

    I've been cheated on after being in a relationship with someone for 4 years.... And honestly you explained in how I felt

    • @mystic3088
      @mystic3088 7 років тому +20

      Oleiah Francom I feel bad for you, hope you find another one who loves you😊

    • @nikitawillemsen3985
      @nikitawillemsen3985 7 років тому +19

      Oleiah Francom I'm really sorry for you... But see it in a positive way, you're one step closer to finding the one💖 You don't deserve this at all, because you're amazing just the way you are! Stay strong! One day you'll meet that person x

    • @annipsy2185
      @annipsy2185 7 років тому +12

      Oleiah Francom same, 4.5 years.

    • @emilycorn3863
      @emilycorn3863 7 років тому +6

      I always thought that if someone cheats on you for a long time, then it was time to let them go and forget about them BC they didn't think of what it would do to you if you find out. And they're not worth the sadness or hurt when you see them happy with someone. things might not look great right now, but know that it will get better. It just means that you haven't find the one yet. but you will and she or he will treat you better than your ex's ever did.

    • @eb183
      @eb183 7 років тому +3

      Oleiah Francom stay strong. At least you're not getting hurt no more. You deserve better my love x

  • @danellasastro1123
    @danellasastro1123 7 років тому +377

    im crying this angel deserve so much better than this :'((

  • @Leegreenn_
    @Leegreenn_ 7 років тому +344

    what goes through a person's head when they cheat😔

    • @artsycutie101
      @artsycutie101 7 років тому +3

      ahhh I SEE YOU EVERYWHERE OML

    • @Leegreenn_
      @Leegreenn_ 7 років тому +1

      Kiersten Moran 😂😂😂

    • @taweni7172
      @taweni7172 7 років тому +2

      girl me too😂😂

    • @hotpinkrosie
      @hotpinkrosie 6 років тому +20

      Lee Green that person who cheats is not actually in love with the person they where dating they got bored and wanted more and most of the time alcohol is in the system

    • @thegloriouspyrocheems2277
      @thegloriouspyrocheems2277 6 років тому +13

      Nothing but their own selfish end goal

  • @haileywasheree
    @haileywasheree 7 років тому +486

    Awwwwww poor Joey. Nobody deserves to be cheated on ever. I never understand why people cheat. If ur no longer interested don't go behind their backs to find another like just why? Like if u say u love someone but u cheat on them, that's not love

    • @chantelbrown7501
      @chantelbrown7501 7 років тому +4

      Yeah. Just say it to their face!

    • @irmamag8459
      @irmamag8459 7 років тому +5

      Haileyyy you took the comment right out of my mouth😂

    • @XxXnightgamerXxX
      @XxXnightgamerXxX 7 років тому

      Haileyyy its like it again I want you back Zoe brown. :(

    • @canadianpunisherz5813
      @canadianpunisherz5813 6 років тому +2

      The sad thing is in 13 and me girlfriend cheated on me😰

    • @AmdjAlmeleh
      @AmdjAlmeleh 6 років тому

      LittleMissHailey so true I was cheated on recently it really hurt since we were going so well for 9 months :(

  • @husnashaikjee4998
    @husnashaikjee4998 7 років тому +176

    I was cheated on by someone who said that he feared I'd cheat on him. I honestly thought he was the one and we'd get through anything. People can be so deceiving. So be careful and guard your heart. Just until you feel you can trust someone with everything

    • @sheetaljose3749
      @sheetaljose3749 7 років тому +2

      Husna Shaikjee That sucks :( Sorry to hear that. Maybe he cheated on you because he was insecure and he would rather cheat on you before the opposite happens?

    • @husnashaikjee4998
      @husnashaikjee4998 7 років тому

      I don't know about that. It might have been that he was missing me too much since he hadn't seen me for a few months. Idk. He most definitely was not an insecure type of person though

    • @sheetaljose3749
      @sheetaljose3749 7 років тому +2

      Husna Shaikjee Ohh okay, I've heard people cheating for that same reason. But at the end of the day, cheating is cheating. I'm sorry that you have to have trust issues with people because of this one person. Hope you can love again like you've never been hurt ❤️

    • @husnashaikjee4998
      @husnashaikjee4998 7 років тому

      Sheetal Jose Thank you. I really appreciate it :)

    • @wullfsaxon2634
      @wullfsaxon2634 6 років тому

      Haraam

  • @lunaeverwijn4901
    @lunaeverwijn4901 7 років тому +247

    Stay you Joey, stay beautiful❤️

  • @m.a.2204
    @m.a.2204 7 років тому +122

    this boy is someone special, he deserves to be happy

  • @karma7487
    @karma7487 3 роки тому +9

    "You were never there after your mistake" I exactly had the same feeling

  • @mariavictoriaulloa4549
    @mariavictoriaulloa4549 7 років тому +13

    "Don't tell me you love me when you are saying the same words to someone else "

  • @habibamohammed6365
    @habibamohammed6365 7 років тому +132

    I hate seeing you sad

  • @floweroflove1994
    @floweroflove1994 7 років тому +91

    That's exactly why I ignore man who are married/taken and are staring at me. I don't wanna be the person, who broke a relationship. It's immoral for me. And I couldn't live with it on my conscience. It's just unnecessary.

    • @bighuncho2897
      @bighuncho2897 7 років тому +2

      In your honest opinion my girlfriend cheated on me do u think we can have a everlasting relationship now or should I jst move on she still wants me n she says she loves me. It she not ready for a relationship right now

  • @LuLi.L.u.c.y
    @LuLi.L.u.c.y 7 років тому +98

    Joey, you are a strong beautiful person. Stay that way. Never change for anyone but for yourself❤️

    • @gamingonus26
      @gamingonus26 2 роки тому

      But everyone likes alpha guys 😭

  • @lkblondie8061
    @lkblondie8061 7 років тому +30

    it's a horrible thing when people break that commitment. I know you said this isn't a current thing, but I know what can happen when someone betrays you, and you feel like you can't trust people anymore. you're a very sweet person, much love.

  • @spicy7144
    @spicy7144 5 років тому +9

    When she says she loves you and calls you her baby... when you fall in love with her personality her looks.... when your thinking about spending everyday with her because she makes you smile and genuinely happy... it’s didnt hurt when I found out you where cheating on me since the beginning of our relationship... it just broke my heart and I don’t know how to live... you where my sunshine my everything... I guess you don’t know what you meant to me

  • @avashortino1301
    @avashortino1301 7 років тому +22

    Oh Joey. I'm so sorry. But you have to trust yourself because you're such a great person who deserves better

  • @mazerunner8846
    @mazerunner8846 7 років тому +71

    He has the worst relationships but the best advice for relationships

  • @moon-yu1bn
    @moon-yu1bn 7 років тому +64

    Be you, Be beautiful 😃

  • @hayleecarlson3384
    @hayleecarlson3384 7 років тому +16

    My ex cheated on me last month (march 22) and it was the most painful thing ever. I'm happy now that I've accepted it and I think this helped a lot.❤️

    • @antresia.9723
      @antresia.9723 2 роки тому

      Don't be to hard on yourself men the most mysterious creatures it wasn't hard to find out. The point is these things happens you just have to deal with it. from Batman Justice League Starcrossed lol. I love this episode

  • @VitahniVaughn
    @VitahniVaughn 4 роки тому +19

    "DONT TELL ME YOU LOVE ME WHEN YOU'RE SAYING THE SAME WORDS TO SOMEONE ELSE"
    I felt that deeply honestly

  • @abbyprest8777
    @abbyprest8777 7 років тому +13

    Know that your value will never change, no matter how many things you go through. You are such a mentally strong person and you handle the challenges you face with such confidence and maturity. You truly are inspiring.
    In my past I was placed in a very uncomfortable situation where I felt like I had no choice but to give up. Unfortunately, I did. Looking back at that I realize that I could have been stronger. I could have prevented the incident from happening. All the things that happen to you, happen for a reason and they all teach a important lesson. Yes, the incident scarred me both mentally and physically, but I'm glad it happened.

  • @emilycorn3863
    @emilycorn3863 7 років тому +222

    I was cheated in high school and the bad thing was it was with my best friend at the time. the relationship ended and I was angry for the longest time. I trust a lot of people growing up, but when that happened. it made me build up my walls and not trust guys. now years later, my ex best friend and I ran into each other and she was still with my ex. and I tried to fake a smile and be nice. and all of these hurt emotions came back. But as we were talking, I saw how happy they were together and that was something I wanted. That's all I want for anyone in this world, so I was happy for her to find the one for her. I understand now that maybe he wasn't the one for me, he was the one for her. So, it made me want to find the feelings that he made her feel over the years. But I'm still guard my heart and I don't know if I will truly trust someone completely ever again, but I'm working on it. And that's all I can say that I take from being cheated on, that I have to trust myself again before I can put that on someone. And me being happy again is a long road ahead. That I'm not going to stop liking or loving someone just BC I was cheated on and my heart broke. I'm not going to forget what happened BC it kind of shaped who I am now, so I'm just going to live one day at a time. And see where it leads me, I hope it's somewhere I am truly happy with a guy that truly loves me and ONLY ME. I will forgive that person but it will make me not forget it.

    • @blaze3kitty862
      @blaze3kitty862 7 років тому +4

      U r pretty and u will find the one. I promise

    • @michellewang6942
      @michellewang6942 7 років тому +1

      Emily Corn ugh relate to this a lot.. i wish he had just told me you know, but instead i get lame excuses and lies.. he keeps making up something else to justify what he did, and he's so deep into this mess he doesn't even realize he's telling a different story than before every single time.. at first it was how it would ruin the friendship if we'd try, then he wanted to go for it.. and then he just found another girl.. whom he had just met that day. not only did that hurt, it made me feel worthless.. and i've lost my best friend now. he can say he's still here all he want but he's not anymore, and that breaks my heart. he would do anything for pretty much anyone in the world, but not for me. he can barely have a normal conversation with me anymore even though i'm moving past what has happened, but i guess some things cant be fixed..

    • @emilycorn3863
      @emilycorn3863 7 років тому +1

      Michelle Wang I'm sorry that happened to you. I'm hope things get better for you. I just want people to be happy with someone. I wish that people didn't cheat or lie but it makes me see who that person really is and not worth my time or friendship. they lose me as a friend. I don't want that kind of person in my life. I wish them the best of luck in life and hope they find their happiness even when they break my heart. that they never will get me to trust them again. that I deserve someone better than them. that even if they break my heart and end up self harming that I know now that was the wrong thing to go through, that I should find someone who loves me for me. that I was enough for someone. I don't think I should be getting others my life story but maybe someone will read this and see how wrong it is to cheat and lie to someone or it makes them feel better about their life. and know that they're not the only one going through this. and I don't want anyone going this kind of thing alone.

    • @michellewang6942
      @michellewang6942 7 років тому +2

      Emily Corn yesss this really helped me tbh it made me feel like im not the only one who's experienced something like this. i normally never comment but i saw this and just couldn't help but say something. thing is i keep trusting him and stay friends w him and he keeps ripping out my heart and i cant.. i still want him to be happy and thats such an idiot move of me.. i even wanted him to date the girl he cheated with last year bc he fell for her and helped him pick out a bear for her that's just.. stupid i guess.. i want him to be happy and stuff bc i want to be a better person and infeel like i am, but what i dont understand is why he feels the need to keep ripping out my heart? he's currently dating my ex best friend as well like ouch..

    • @kelsielavender7744
      @kelsielavender7744 7 років тому +3

      Emily Corn my gosh you are so inspirational! If I was in your position and saw my ex with my best friend, the girl he cheated on me with, I would have gone crazy! You? You are so happy for them. Yes it still hurts you but equally, you're so mature about it all. You've realized that he wasn't the one for you and you've even gone as far to say that he's the one for her. I wish I could say the same for me. You're such an inspiration to me. Thank you so much for sharing this. If you ever need to talk then I'm here.

  • @laurenhoekstra6169
    @laurenhoekstra6169 7 років тому +27

    I absolutely love all your videos. You are so genuine and honest and don't care what others think of you and that's amazing!!! I'm so sorry you had to go through this, but thank you for sharing it with everyone

  • @silverstone9109
    @silverstone9109 6 років тому +18

    Hey bro. Its sucks. I just found out that the girl that i love..d. Os cheating on me.
    All those memories down the fucken drain man. I just feel weak, sad ..i feel empty from all the beautiful things she told me. This sucks man. Thank you for sharing bro. I feel like taking my life. I feel worthless....

  • @emmakoeleman9012
    @emmakoeleman9012 7 років тому +23

    This is so deep.Made me cry💕 ily💙

  • @S.P.E.T.S.N.A.Z
    @S.P.E.T.S.N.A.Z 4 роки тому +16

    *I was being cheated on since day one to January of 2020, 4 years of relationship ended after I caught her*

    • @c-will5582
      @c-will5582 3 роки тому +1

      Damn dude that's super unfortunate hope you're doing okay 🙏🏾

    • @wangseymonwangham4621
      @wangseymonwangham4621 3 роки тому

      Same thing happen with me

    • @befreeacademics
      @befreeacademics 3 роки тому

      Today i found that she is cheating kn me!!!
      Fu*@ .... Why girls do that????

  • @kevinramos9580
    @kevinramos9580 6 років тому +7

    “How you gonna say I love you to me when ur saying the same words to someone else” “you can even look me in my eyes and talk to me” - Damn the feels I get when I hear him saying this.

  • @magicmuso1173
    @magicmuso1173 7 років тому +35

    you are such an amazing beautiful person and I'm sorry you have had to go through this you inspire so many people with your videos please keep being you because you should not be anyone other then your amazing self please stay as you are because the world needs more people like you

    • @baneenali3586
      @baneenali3586 7 років тому +2

      wow that was really touching😍😔I love you and I love your videos

    • @baneenali3586
      @baneenali3586 7 років тому +1

      and I really felt sorry about you don't be mad fuck fake friends we don't need 'em 😆😊😣

  • @Mary-ir8ct
    @Mary-ir8ct 7 років тому +16

    You are such an amazing person Joey. I am just so proud of you for how you took this situation and learned from it and are helping others. She will regret this in the years to come because she lost a phenomenal man. Everything happens for a reason, I truly believe that. Love you Joey💛

  • @linoyayenow156
    @linoyayenow156 7 років тому +5

    you are such a special person, you deserve better.

  • @amrblox778
    @amrblox778 6 років тому +1

    This helps me alot....I've been cheated on 3 times and I've had depression since then.....6 years of depression and one video helps me... I hope no one goes through that situation .....thank you joey

  • @emilycorn3863
    @emilycorn3863 7 років тому +19

    I don't tell anyone about my past failed relationships and what I went through, but maybe someone reads my comments and learn from it or something. And I have to say if a guy doesn't like you anymore for you trying to be you, you should listen to Joey when he says stay you, stay beautiful BC hearing that makes my day BC I'm trying everyday since hearing that to be me and be beautiful and to not lose the faith in life as my aunt put it. So, I wish the best for everyone who reads my comments.

    • @husnashaikjee4998
      @husnashaikjee4998 7 років тому

      Emily Corn Please don't tell me you are suicidal. If you are: just know that you have a purpose in this world. Stick around and find out what it is. I bet it's beautiful. I've been through depression so I can imagine what you might be going through. Much love

    • @emilycorn3863
      @emilycorn3863 7 років тому +1

      Husna Shaikjee I did cut and hurt myself and I did have these thoughts of what do I have to live anymore. if it wasn't for me being there for my son, yeah I think I won't be here anymore. just BC I have been hurt too much from every relationship I try to have. 😢

    • @husnashaikjee4998
      @husnashaikjee4998 7 років тому

      Emily Corn I understand. But, really, I can see potential in you. You are a good person who deserves to be happy

    • @emilycorn3863
      @emilycorn3863 7 років тому

      Husna Shaikjee how do you know I'm a good person BC I'm starting to think that I don't know who I am anymore. 😢

    • @husnashaikjee4998
      @husnashaikjee4998 7 років тому +2

      Emily Corn And that's exactly how I know. You are lost but not a bad person. Also, if you don't know who you are: it's not good for you to be in a relationship. How can you love someone when you don't love yourself? The next person is bound to walk all over you because you will allow it because you think you deserve it: you don't

  • @bluebubble7232
    @bluebubble7232 3 роки тому +2

    Brother I can relate, just pick up your crown and just get new ones, I’m sure your strong inside

  • @emilycorn3863
    @emilycorn3863 7 років тому +13

    Joey I'm sorry this happened to you, but as I was going through the same thing, my momma said that people come and go but you'll be fine, that people who break your heart, make you a stronger, better person, that people will forever make you see that even though you have tried to love them but all they end up doing is make you not trust them again. you need to get up and put the pieces back together of your heart. And try again with someone new. for the longest time I didn't understand what my momma said there, but I think that's where my forgiving people comes from. and being so trusting comes from. yeah they break my heart and I can have just be harsh and mean and wish them dead, but when have these feelings towards that person, it makes you bittersweet. But it made me want to keep trying with new people, so I hope you find the one who makes you happy, who makes you trust again. right now, I'm in love with the idea of love. that I want to find the romance in my romance books. that we all should step out of the ashes like a Phoenix and become a better person from our past relationships and mistakes. I also want everyone to find the love they're looking for, even if it's not with me. Joey, I really want to thank for your videos, they always have something new to teach me about life. and it makes me think that maybe my life is still worth living, that maybe I should still be a fighter in this game of love and see what's out there for me. you have no idea how much your videos have helped me. I know that probably weird thing to say but it's how I'm feeling right now.

    • @husnashaikjee4998
      @husnashaikjee4998 7 років тому +1

      Emily Corn Totally understandable. Keep looking. Don't give up. The person that is meant to share your life with you is out there somewhere praying for the day when he gets to meet you. You deserve happiness and all that is good. But don't resent being single. Be happy! life could have been a lot worse: it's not. So. Be happy

    • @emilycorn3863
      @emilycorn3863 7 років тому +1

      Husna Shaikjee I mean right now I meet the sweetest guy but I want to trust him but idk. I don't ever like being single BC I like being in a relationship with someone ever if they break my heart, I believe in there being second chances. So I'm still going to love people and whatever journey life has for me.

    • @husnashaikjee4998
      @husnashaikjee4998 7 років тому +2

      Emily Corn I totally understand. I'm with you. But you deserve better than to get your heart broken a million times over

  • @marsklassen
    @marsklassen 7 років тому +2

    Joey, through this whole video, watching you slowly look as though a huge load was lifted off of your shoulders was so uplifting. Knowing it's okay to talk I'd something I've dealt with in many areas of my life. It'd hard but nothing worth it is ever easy.

  • @kirianawharepapa5645
    @kirianawharepapa5645 7 років тому +10

    its 4:00 in the morning and i just had to watch this😢😢 you're so relatable😣

    • @rwilhelm23
      @rwilhelm23 4 роки тому

      Kiriana Wharepapa 4:20 here mate..

  • @sabrinalarson5672
    @sabrinalarson5672 7 років тому +2

    I think a lot of us who have been cheated on tend to push those emotions and thoughts away and leave them in the past never dealing with them again. It impacts us greatly in ways we don't even realize and the way you talked about it will help a lot of us. For me personally I felt a sense of relief with your words. So thank you Joey for making this video and being real and genuine ❤

  • @tanvikittur7352
    @tanvikittur7352 4 роки тому +3

    5:58 That's true. The worst thing you can do is lead someone on and give them false hope. One bitter Truth is better than a thousand sweet lies.

  • @abhachaudhary9526
    @abhachaudhary9526 7 років тому +1

    It's absolutely unreal how well you explained what I've been feeling for the past couple months, something I haven't even been able to put into words myself to understand

  • @theartistix603
    @theartistix603 7 років тому +5

    This is so heart moving ❤. You did the right thing, you are so brave 🌸. Hope you are happy now more than ever 🌸❤

  • @meadowejoygross4577
    @meadowejoygross4577 7 років тому +1

    I am not going to say sorry because I am sure that you've heard that so many times already. I am also not going to say that I understand because I am sure that you've already heard that too. What I am going to say is that it's just another lesson that's been thrown your way. Life is a merry go round and there's obstacles in between. It's simply showing the world that you are better then that. That you can deal with any obstacle that gets thrown at you. So keep your head held high and don't give up! You deserved better anyway! :)

  • @alissacab3709
    @alissacab3709 7 років тому +3

    You are so sweet Joey💕 hope everything get better, you are one of the best person I ever known, you deserve more. Love you, we are here to support you.
    Wishing for the best from Mexico.

  • @josehasegawa1858
    @josehasegawa1858 3 роки тому +1

    Not worried about it, the best things is you realise that..!! Don’t need this people in your life..!! It suck now you deserve better not need that..!!

  • @50shadesofpsycho74
    @50shadesofpsycho74 7 років тому +3

    Awe...I feel for you. This was a great video, thank you for sharing your experience. I'm sure it will help many people. 💕

  • @StinZheng
    @StinZheng 4 роки тому +2

    we were in long distance relationship ,the most thing that i cant imagine is she was the one who worries about me ,but finally she cheats on me ,she said alot of reason about why she cheating and how bad i was ,i never betray her,why i deserve this

  • @kaleighfield4221
    @kaleighfield4221 7 років тому +3

    This was absolutely amazing! Thank you so much for sharing. These 6.50 minutes are exactly what I needed.

  • @BlackRose-ol5fs
    @BlackRose-ol5fs 7 років тому

    You're so sweet. You didn't deserve it. I'm sorry. And anyone out there who's going through the same thing I'm sorry.

  • @juliettedelfgou6651
    @juliettedelfgou6651 7 років тому +16

    why the fuck would you cheat on this beautiful human

  • @gracekorynta7678
    @gracekorynta7678 7 років тому +1

    "...it's if you're there after your mistake" this is gold! Joey, you have such a genuine heart

  • @malijade_3133
    @malijade_3133 7 років тому +7

    Personally I've never been cheated on, but I understand how it's impossible to believe somebody loves you anymore if there saying the exact same thing to somebody else X

  • @desiesurachman9795
    @desiesurachman9795 7 років тому +1

    i've been trough the same, you explained how i felt. i felt very stupid, i was mad at that time to know that i trusted him too much. he was my first bf, 4 years relationship and he broke it. cheated on me for 8 months. what i hate the most i can't trust anyone and i think negatively to all guys who wants to know me more. i'm thinking there is no love in this world. i'm afraid of being in love, never trust any guy who say he love me.
    at that time, i was thinking that i need to be a bad girl (no hearts, no feeling) i really want to be bad, but i can't because i know it's wrong.
    he asks me to come back and give him a chance, he said he will change. i will never trust him anymore.

  • @rocksgyan
    @rocksgyan 5 років тому +4

    Dude this helped me so much, I appreciate this thank youu!

  • @EZGaming36
    @EZGaming36 4 роки тому +1

    I just got cheated, my heart is broken and everything hurts. Love you for sharing this bro, thank you man thank you.

  • @ghaliafellati101
    @ghaliafellati101 7 років тому +13

    How could she cheat on such a beautiful person 😭

    • @luqiiahamat9149
      @luqiiahamat9149 4 роки тому

      beauty is not why u get in a relationship, it's how that person makes u feel when ur around.

  • @shubhangitripathi22
    @shubhangitripathi22 7 років тому

    its so upseting to know people are like that but it is so cozy to feel that there are people who understand what is going on inside you and its a bad thing to experience but when you know you're not alone in this it provides a faint hope and strength so thank you for that....you're a lovely person and you'll meet the right one soon...❤

  • @Oopsyperios
    @Oopsyperios 5 років тому +6

    My gf cheated and lied many times to me and it hurts so much so just by watching ur vid im tearing up it hurts so bad and even doe its prob for the best i just wish she was honest with me instead of telling me "you mean the world to me i love you so much more then anything im afraid of loosing you and so on" i was not perfect boyfriend after she lied to me for first time i lost trust in her somewhat but then shit keept happening more lies and stuff but i loved her so i closed my eyes in the end i found out about everything she did myself and she coudnt even be honest with me i wasnt perfect but i was loyal to her i gave my all "right now im in a slumber i cry i hurt while i know she is ok or atleast thats what she tells her friends she moved on " "her words i cryed for 1 night im done with it im fine now " how can ppl say i love you more then anything and forget you or even replace you for 1 day after breakup ??? P.S sorry for the long messege and its 2 years after this vid was posted but i just needet to share it it pains me and i wish i could just close my eyes for good also sorry form y English not my mother language :\ ! sorry u went thru something like that dude :\

    • @ares7701
      @ares7701 5 років тому +3

      Almost 100% the same thing happened to me.
      She kept saying "you are my world, I love you more than anything, you are my life, you have my soul".... I was not the greatest guy in the planet....but I never lied to her, never cheated on her, and I loved her so much. It hurts too much... but I will try to get over her....get over a girl who the next day after we broke up she said when I managed to speak to her ...and I said "I will always love you and be here for you but we shouldnt be together take care of yourself".
      She answered "Yeah , fuck off bye , I am over you"...... after one fucking night....I fell you dude....

  • @iloveeminem2244
    @iloveeminem2244 7 років тому

    I'm so sorry you have gone through it, it sucks being cheated on, it's one of the worst feelings

  • @magnifiquefille7927
    @magnifiquefille7927 7 років тому +4

    i hear you @joeykidney 😢,, it happened to me like so many times, but this time i aint gona let that happen to me anymore.. it sucks i hate myself for falling into this.. but im happy now im done thru this!! i feel free but i'll never forget what had happened to me.. n joey i guess it made us more stronger than ever each time they cheat us.. so i guess its even either way.. joey ur one beautiful soul dont let others take that advantage..🌈 shine like a rainbow.. #respect #kidneybeans #proud

  • @codythurstin9681
    @codythurstin9681 7 років тому +2

    Joey you hit my heart, you said the words i have been trying to find, thank you, as my tear flow i listen to you, thank you once again.

  • @minetoyours
    @minetoyours 7 років тому +5

    i'm so sorry Joey

  • @frederiquevansprang3007
    @frederiquevansprang3007 7 років тому +504

    omg first I thought Danielle!

    • @jujubeetm382
      @jujubeetm382 7 років тому +1

      Frederique Van Sprang RIGHT!! I was peed off!! in waited 5 whole minutes. calming myself down to watch this video

    • @anastasias2713
      @anastasias2713 7 років тому +1

      Frederique Van Sprang
      me too

    • @carmenbustorff813
      @carmenbustorff813 7 років тому +11

      Frederique Van Sprang i went to check their instagrams immediately

    • @chinonsoibe2384
      @chinonsoibe2384 7 років тому +2

      Carmen Bustorff saaame 😂😂😂

    • @Amanda-xd1jk
      @Amanda-xd1jk 7 років тому +1

      Frederique Van Sprang same😂😭

  • @ko1341
    @ko1341 Рік тому

    6:10 that hit different and felt too real... Currently going through the same situation and stumbled across your video. Whoever got cheated on, I feel your pain and I'm sorry. But this could be a lesson, so that we can learn from this to look into new and better relationships. And to the person who cheated, I sincerely hope my heart would be the last and the only heart you break. No one deserves to go through this much pain...

  • @themadys6804
    @themadys6804 7 років тому +10

    it's ok Joey

  • @BLACKisTAKINova2
    @BLACKisTAKINova2 6 років тому +1

    This felt really personal I can completely relate. It took me a couple of months to be able to trust anyone. The girl I was with was messing with my friend, and she led me on for 6 months. What really hurt is that so many of my “friends” and complete strangers knew about me being cheated on long before I ever found out.

  • @danaequevedo7401
    @danaequevedo7401 7 років тому +3

    It was her loss 🙄♥️ I love you ♥️

  • @amishamulloo2155
    @amishamulloo2155 7 років тому +2

    Got through this last month :')
    And I realised how grateful I am to all the people around me.

  • @simplyava6162
    @simplyava6162 7 років тому +3

    Joey,Stay you...you inspire me 💘

  • @noahmartinez5078
    @noahmartinez5078 6 років тому

    Damn man. You can be the most beautiful person, inside and out, and the person you trusted with so much can just hurt you. Being cheated on is not a big deal in the big spectrum of the world but, the damage it leaves is everlasting. You feel just dumb. You’re confused, especially when you thought you were doing everything right. You question everything. I just was recently cheated on like 3 months ago and it’s just now really hitting me. Affecting my friendships, relationships with myself and my family. I can’t look the woman in her eyes when she cries to me that she made a mistake. Cheating is such an intentional choice. To give your body to someone else’s, is so intentional. Everybody reading this, just keep your head up. Good people often get hurt the worst. But, that’s alright. It’s life. It’s all about how you pick up the pieces. Don’t hate people, just forgive and move on.

  • @bongani_trinity
    @bongani_trinity 4 роки тому +4

    I felt this deep
    Nice guys finish last
    Most people prefer assholes as partners if you you too loving you too boring they want a challenge every time

  • @shannyleediaz7007
    @shannyleediaz7007 7 років тому

    You made me cry bc who would ever cheat on you you're so honest and lovable with other people and treat people good.

  • @Pacif
    @Pacif 7 років тому +3

    Just got out of a “relationship” and she cheated on me also. I literally related to everything you said in this video.

  • @alterpunkkerl9641
    @alterpunkkerl9641 7 років тому

    Be sure YOU as a"Role model"?!? to many young people talking about feelings and how you get along with such a mass is honestly absolutely remarkable and you helping more out there than you can ever imagine.
    Stay who you are stay confident and best of luck to you!!!

  • @felicityhaden7993
    @felicityhaden7993 7 років тому +23

    Already know this video is gonna be sad 😭😭xx

  • @vitorkrepsky7259
    @vitorkrepsky7259 7 років тому

    just found out yesterday that my girlfriend cheated on me. feeling a pain greater than myself, and I couldn't relate more when you said you don't wish this happening to anyone, her included. first video I watch from you, but I can see you're a good hearted person.

  • @alaraemiddleton1601
    @alaraemiddleton1601 7 років тому +9

    I am 15 and starting my first real relationship( he is 18 ). He asked me to prom and I felt very happy! However many of my friends are telling me to stay away from him because he is a very flirtatious guy. On the same day he asked me to prom he was hugging all over his ex. What should I do?

    • @Fer0cityInDesire
      @Fer0cityInDesire 7 років тому +8

      Alarae Middleton Honestly there are many guys out there that will show an interest in you but have no loyalty, those ones are not worth wasting your time on. Wait for someone that looks solely at you and only has eyes for you, and most of the time, someone's reputation is a big indication of how they actually are. Save yourself the hurt, sure you could go to prom and have a good time, but don't invest too much into this guy or let him charm you if he's also doing that to other girls. You're worth more than that :-)

    • @projectsilence1443
      @projectsilence1443 7 років тому +2

      i would be cautious and if you guys are dating (not sure by your comment), i would prepare myself for him to flirt or "go after" other girls. idk if that'll help

    • @husnashaikjee4998
      @husnashaikjee4998 7 років тому +5

      Alarae Middleton the above ladies are right. Be careful. Don't love him hard or he will break you

    • @yagurllara3163
      @yagurllara3163 7 років тому +3

      Alarae Middleton be VERY careful!

    • @husnashaikjee4998
      @husnashaikjee4998 7 років тому +1

      Alarae Middleton If you wanna talk to me about it: you can....... just let me know

  • @ElenaRHunter
    @ElenaRHunter 7 років тому +2

    I have not been cheated on (not to my knowledge anyway) and you still brought me to tears. We love you Joey

  • @ivanadame7869
    @ivanadame7869 7 років тому +14

    I have cheated. More than once. On the same person… and it was the worst things I've ever done. I tried and still do try to convince myself that it was justified. But it wasn't. I messed up. He was busy and couldn't give me what I needed. Attention. And stupid as it is I had to go to someone else to get that attention. It could've been a friend or family. But no. It had to be someone I found sexually desirable. I don't know why I did this. But I do know that I think about it everyday. That it constantly kills me. It makes me feel like an awful person. He didn't deserve it. He is the best thing that happened to me. And he forgave me. He took me back. Twice for God's sake. And I still don't know how to stop. I will try. But I don't know how. The last thing I want to do is hurt him. And I will do everything in my power to make sure I don't. If you're reading this much and this far thank you. You're a great and caring person. I hope your life turns out wonderful

    • @cheylabazan2307
      @cheylabazan2307 7 років тому +15

      Ivan Adame get your head out of your ass and admit to yourself that you're not meant to be with this person if you can't have self control. This is just ludicrous.

    • @annaguenter1115
      @annaguenter1115 7 років тому +2

      I've cheated, once. it was unexpected. My now ex-boyfriend never found out but I couldn't be with him anymore bcuz all I thought of was the other guy, i felt so guilty, I couldn't even look at him. I had fallen in love with someone else. I am happy with that guy now but I'll never forget what I did, I still feel guilty about it

    • @TheLegend-if5rp
      @TheLegend-if5rp 6 років тому

      The responses to this comment are atrocious. Yes, what the original commenter has done is very wrong. But the first step to bettering yourself is to acknowledge your mistakes, and they've done that. Tell them to get professional help, give them advice. Calling them names will not make their urges go away; it's not helpful. My advice to you, original commenter, is to either take a break in your current relationship to better yourself, and if you succeed in doing so get back with them. If you do not, accept that in order to not hurt anyone else it's best to stay out of relationships until the problem is resolved.

    • @marcianusvalerius1992
      @marcianusvalerius1992 6 років тому +7

      Anna Guenter
      You‘re also gonna cheat on the new guy eventually. Once a cheater always a cheater. Feel bad for the new guy already, he doesn‘t know what‘s coming. You worthless pile of steaming shit.

  • @flxrcita
    @flxrcita 7 років тому

    you have nooo idea how much this helped me, i've been opening up about being cheated in the past and i'm really doing everything to let go of that fear of happening again because it is a big struggle i have and when you said that thing that you are glad this person cheated because is not the right person to be with and you probably would be stuck otherwise and this wow i've never thought about it that way and it made me feel better, thank you joey!

  • @zaynawahab2056
    @zaynawahab2056 7 років тому

    Man you are awesome. The bestest. Whoeva cheated on u was clearly blinded by somethin. They don't realize they lost a good person.You rock!

  • @lakshitaghallu8189
    @lakshitaghallu8189 7 років тому +1

    Thank you ❤. I feel way much better. I haven't been in a relationship with the boy who loves me but it's better to tell him that i have no feelings for him instead of giving him hope. Thank you joey 🌼❤

  • @pallavikhusar2186
    @pallavikhusar2186 7 років тому +1

    You shouldn't get low ,Joey! You're so amazing that any girl would fall for you!

  • @itsbeatrizl
    @itsbeatrizl 7 років тому

    This is so 😢 omg. No one deserves this. Dear everyone that's been cheated on: Stay strong, stay beautiful...

  • @ellisamontano5861
    @ellisamontano5861 7 років тому +1

    wow, you literally said how I feel about my past relationship. Thank you Joey for reminding us we're not alone. Keep Sharing ☺

  • @timharunedu
    @timharunedu 7 років тому

    Its okay... You got this alright.. No need to feel bad, to feel guilty. Everything is gonna fine. That girl will regret for what she've done to you. You already have us, your subcribers, support you no matter what ❤️

  • @mareshahcalibayan2237
    @mareshahcalibayan2237 7 років тому

    it seems that we are experiencing the same thing. You deserve to be happy. Someday, you'll find the right person. Just don't give up on love. Have a great day! 😊

  • @aohan5238
    @aohan5238 7 років тому

    I have no words to actually type right now. I- my brain is actually shutted by every word you that came out of your mouth. You're a very, very, very, very amazing person. I could never imagined something like that. It's amazing that you forgive the person. I really have no words at all. You are amazing. That's why people love you.

  • @rillaloiselle6874
    @rillaloiselle6874 7 років тому

    Thank you for being so open and honest. There are so many people that go through things like this all the time. And it is so hard to deal with. I hope you don't get any crap for posting this, because honestly it helps to know that your not alone. That someone else has been through it and lived. Its nice to know that even after something like that, you can be the bigger person, and help them back up when they fall, just as long as you don't give them too much more of yourself. Because once someone breaks you, nothings gonna stop them from doing it again. Trust me.

  • @_BhargavSandilya
    @_BhargavSandilya 4 роки тому

    Bro u got it absolutely correct.. I just went through something similar last year(2019)..well it's been really difficult, spent most of the time with her, gave her everything man, my time, my emotions, values everything.. I really really cared and loved her.. But then something just went through in her head,she came and suddenly there was this separation and now she doesn't even talk to me that way.. U said it correct.. She can't even look me in my eyes coz she knows did something horrible.. Yeah that's the hardest thing but now she is into someone else.. Well it really sucks but am still not over her after all i love her.. But i do fee sometimes like i got used for some things.. It feels more like my values and emotions had no value at all for her and i was just believing in something that could never come true.. Well it's been a year i still see her and then is time when i get the memories back and it just hurts a lot.. I m no doubt trying hard to stay positive but i feel quite alone now.. And after everything i had been through it has now become really difficult to trust people and again get involved in such a relationship and stuff.. And now i feel like i m never gonna be in love again and even if i end up with someone else, it just feels like there's always gonna be a doubt of the same thing happening again... So i don't really know what to do..i feel so broken

  • @agosborni5248
    @agosborni5248 7 років тому +1

    a lot of people learnt thanks to these videos, that's amazing ... love your content Joey

  • @anamahilaj3193
    @anamahilaj3193 7 років тому

    I've never been in a relationship before so I don't know how you are feeling right now but Joey and other people that have been cheated on, it's not your fault. I feel your pain. I know it hurts, I have friends who had been cheated on and I wish that to no one. But at the end it makes us stronger and you're right if some one cheats on you it opens your eyes, you realise they aren't the one for you. Just because he/she isn't the one for you doesn't mean you have to lose hope in love. Because one day you'll meet that one person you'll spend the rest of your life with, who will make you forget about all those broken hearts and you'll be happy! You guys are all one by one beautiful remember that! Sorry I am just such a hopeless romantic person. :)

  • @stevennguyen6110
    @stevennguyen6110 6 років тому

    It just happened. Mind set is exactly the same as yours. Cheers for being real

  • @beautyember
    @beautyember 7 років тому

    No one deserves to be cheated on! But I don't think it's about making up for your mistakes. I believe it's about being happy and enjoying all the great things you experience together. And eventually, yes you'll get hurt, but what you get back is something undescribingly beautiful...
    Love
    Love the message you spread!
    I am convinced that you help so many people and feel inspired to do the same thing.
    your sense of humour adds something as well. I mean why be serious if you can actually have fun.
    you're a sparkling personality, but I think you understand that by now lol.
    ❤❤❤

  • @HaleyEMuncy
    @HaleyEMuncy 7 років тому

    Thank you for posting this! I was cheated on for months and had no idea... it's nice to have a UA-camr out there that isn't afraid to say how it hurts when people go through getting cheated on, and how people are never the same emotionally after that

  • @tristanbunney4720
    @tristanbunney4720 Рік тому

    You helped me 6 years later. I’m sorry for your hurt brother

  • @alitalib4011
    @alitalib4011 6 років тому

    Your amazing bro. Don't ever put yourself down.

  • @mohamedzakariyahamza2035
    @mohamedzakariyahamza2035 3 роки тому +1

    Happy to know this..it happens..if it is early..u can move on..I m happy for bieng cheated by someone..taught a lesson..figured out my mistakes..I don't blame anyone

  • @louisel.8334
    @louisel.8334 7 років тому

    This is why i truly love your videos. When you are talking, it feels like you're takling to me in person - like we're the only people in the room, and that is a gift you have. So thank you for that!!!

  • @paigesplash7306
    @paigesplash7306 6 років тому

    Right now I want to just hug you and comfort you in my embrace. I am so happy that you helped her get back up. You may have gone through this but overall this has made you a better person and it changed you for the better.

  • @brookediaz9678
    @brookediaz9678 6 років тому

    I was dating someone for all of my high school, from freshman year to junior year. I truly thought we were going to get married. I was head over heels in love. I found out he cheated 4 times. My heart was broken. He did a lot of horrible things. I had trust issues before but now i am having a lot more issues trusting. 7months later and i am healing still and i wish him the best regardless of what he did. Thank you for sharing your story!!!! I relate to that a lot. He cant look at me either to say hi and that kills me after all that time. It went from being half of me to not even knowing who he is anymore.