Ashanti - Rain On Me (Extended Version)

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  • Опубліковано 23 гру 2009
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  • @lizzybethnj617
    @lizzybethnj617 Рік тому +893

    I was in an abusive relationship when I first saw this video and it was like my relationship . Thank you Ashanti for helping me realize I deserved better and left

    • @ShiningBright777
      @ShiningBright777 Рік тому +14

      lizzyliveslovely617, To God be the glory that rescued you from harm and danger in Jesus name!

    • @ShiningBright777
      @ShiningBright777 Рік тому +14

      Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.
      John 14:6

    • @crystalvouse6435
      @crystalvouse6435 Рік тому +13

      Yes jealousy is the worst

    • @sharonguerrero991
      @sharonguerrero991 Рік тому +1

      Same here

    • @prettyhair7684
      @prettyhair7684 Рік тому +2

      I pray you get out before it's too late 🙏

  • @_CourtneyD_
    @_CourtneyD_ 2 роки тому +1908

    My girl DEFINITELY deserves more credit than what she’s been getting!

    • @veef.moraless3020
      @veef.moraless3020 2 роки тому +13

      Most DEFINITELY 💐💯💯💯

    • @trinitymillan127
      @trinitymillan127 2 роки тому +8

      Pray She hasn't sold her Soul 🙏
      She got a Star in Hollywood Now.
      I Love her Voice

    • @jordanjuett2232
      @jordanjuett2232 2 роки тому +5

      Deffoo wish he blow with this 💯💯💯

    • @shanteli5970
      @shanteli5970 2 роки тому +15

      Yes girl! This is a classic. 💁🏾‍♀️Back when music videos were actually mini movies👩🏾‍💻. Timeless beauty she's definitely underrated 😭😩💃🏾👑.

    • @patremagilbert8787
      @patremagilbert8787 2 роки тому +2

      True

  • @thesweetestteas.4534
    @thesweetestteas.4534 Рік тому +98

    There's no peace when you're sleeping with the enemy

  • @mamahyena6796
    @mamahyena6796 2 роки тому +3097

    As an adult this hits different. Toxic love isn't love . Please get out. run.

  • @nicestuff8755
    @nicestuff8755 9 років тому +947

    who was the Director of this video? He needs to get credit for this master piece.

    • @GoddessBae
      @GoddessBae 8 років тому +180

      The G.O.A.T. Hype Williams

    • @feliperamsey5819
      @feliperamsey5819 8 років тому +110

      he did. they won a few awards for this video

    • @tonydalton8964
      @tonydalton8964 4 роки тому +6

      @@feliperamsey5819 whazz up.

    • @DidyerZarate
      @DidyerZarate 4 роки тому +11

      I know right! This and Only U #Inspiration!

    • @Theresa-g5e
      @Theresa-g5e 8 днів тому

      Nia long the actress y'all wrong look up she directed it 😂😂😂😂

  • @steevii
    @steevii 2 місяці тому +58

    This song hit different as a adult

  • @vmlone2992
    @vmlone2992 2 роки тому +278

    Ashanti was ACTING in her videos! Sis was giving DRAMA, Oscar worthy performances!

    • @ez-g3090
      @ez-g3090 2 роки тому

      Yup. Selling everybody a quick lie. Thank Hollywood and modern feminism.

    • @meyahalexis2568
      @meyahalexis2568 Рік тому +1

      Facts

    • @luhanseesyou162
      @luhanseesyou162 Рік тому

      She actually use to act lol it’s actually a movie she in when she a main character she like a baby mother tho I can’t remember the name of it tho lol

    • @cyse3
      @cyse3 Рік тому

      DRAMA!!!!!

    • @samantha8343
      @samantha8343 Рік тому

      YES

  • @MrJohnyleo
    @MrJohnyleo Рік тому +515

    This song made me stand up to my uncle that have being sexually abusing me since I was 7yrs old, the first time I heard this song when it came out then I sense the huge urge to stand up to him and fight him and I’m so glad I did…I still cry to the last part whenever I watch this video, Ashanti walking away and saying it’s over😩🙏.

    • @kimberlywilliams5067
      @kimberlywilliams5067 Рік тому +48

      I am praying for you. Please talk to someone and tell. I didn't. He went on to abuse more.

    • @meishaholmes4283
      @meishaholmes4283 Рік тому +17

      I'm so glad you're courageous 🙏🏾❤blessings !!!

    • @alexasdemby1915
      @alexasdemby1915 Рік тому +14

      God bless u love and I hope he gets what he deserves

    • @gigihall5558
      @gigihall5558 Рік тому +22

      Pray he is in jail. Why didn't anyone know. My daughter goes with no one, spends the night no where, just like my dad did with me and my sisters. My dad said you won't have that story..

    • @cecebornleader
      @cecebornleader Рік тому +1

      🥺😩🙏🏽

  • @RogerLord30
    @RogerLord30 10 років тому +846

    *FOR ALL MEN & WOMEN IN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP*
    *LET NO MAN/ WOMAN PUT THEIR HANDS ON YOU, OR PUT YOU DOWN*
    *THERE ALWAYS A WAAAAY OUT THE VIOLENCE*
    *DEDICATED TO MY HOMEGIRL BEAUTIFUL!!*
    😍😍😘😘

    • @jenniferharden6726
      @jenniferharden6726 2 роки тому +10

      Yes there is definitely always a way out I had 4 of my sisters go through this type of situation and it hurts my heart every day that one of them is no longer here with me 😞😔😢😞😔😢
      #WANETTEDOUGLAS

    • @SONESEY87
      @SONESEY87 2 роки тому

      i agree with you 100 its brayden you should tell that two my ex boyfriend then lol

    • @issa.p6398
      @issa.p6398 2 роки тому

      As a woman I am very thankful my ex got away

    • @lakrishahill3985
      @lakrishahill3985 2 роки тому

      Hopefully it ended well with your homegirl and I agree 100%

    • @mamawritesmn
      @mamawritesmn Рік тому +1

      @@jenniferharden6726 My exbf just pressed dv charges on me for scratches after he put 8 staples in my head. He has 10 DV charges, I have 0. I'm scared. I was defending myself. IDK what to do. I tried so hard. I did. I loved him. He was homeless. I tried to house him and feed him and he did this. :(

  • @diamondhunt2163
    @diamondhunt2163 8 років тому +1939

    Before Jay Z & Beyonce were who they are today, it was Ja Rule & Ashanti. Even though they weren't in a relationship. Murder Inc. was Cash Money/Young Money.

    • @domitrae1
      @domitrae1 8 років тому +63

      Sure Was #MurderINC

    • @maryuspandyra7359
      @maryuspandyra7359 4 роки тому +89

      This. Timbaland Aaliyah Magoo Missy. Pharrell Clipse Kelis. Ashanti Ja Rule Jlo Vita. These were real hip hop pioneering partnerships. Modern music fails in comparison

    • @kerandidavid2388
      @kerandidavid2388 3 роки тому +3

      I love Ashanti very much bcoz you've very nice voice,your styles infact have killed me. Ashanti;are you married and if not can you marry an African Man babe???

    • @shawnddavis2251
      @shawnddavis2251 2 роки тому +2

      Factz

    • @jessecobble2997
      @jessecobble2997 2 роки тому +17

      Child anyway

  • @exotic.ari20
    @exotic.ari20 Рік тому +257

    As an adult this message really hits home , someone will claim too love you but be JEALOUS and plot on you at the same time. Literally he started disrespecting and manipulating her for chasing her dreams. People be so mad when you get up and do something with you’re life as if they can’t do the same thing , but they won’t because their lazy and just expect something handed to them . Dealing with people like that is soooo Toxic istgggg just walk away it’s not worth it

  • @theebunieffect2564
    @theebunieffect2564 2 роки тому +67

    Men really be jealous over their womans success. crazy as hell.

    • @nycfinestsmith9993
      @nycfinestsmith9993 Місяць тому +2

      Facts! That's why you have to be careful of your ENERGY SPACE AD WHO U LET IN BETWEEN YR LEGS OKAY ❤❤❤❤

    • @keishav6630
      @keishav6630 22 дні тому

      Ego feeling less than because they aren't doing better than her.

    • @Coolingred954
      @Coolingred954 22 дні тому

      2025 we here Baby in my 80’s 90’s vibe right now

  • @alexisessome6412
    @alexisessome6412 8 років тому +579

    This was one of my favorite Ashanti songs. Man they don't make music like this anymore. So many memories

    • @ez-g3090
      @ez-g3090 2 роки тому +3

      Memories? How many bad boys abused you?

    • @ftwhardnz
      @ftwhardnz Рік тому +3

      Girls singers these days just sing bout twerking there string off.. Gutter asf

    • @ellontaecorbin
      @ellontaecorbin Рік тому +1

      You my favorite lady of all time lol 😂😂

    • @mubarekomer2512
      @mubarekomer2512 Рік тому +1

      @1luv

    • @mubarekomer2512
      @mubarekomer2512 Рік тому

      #1luv

  • @Jah42O
    @Jah42O 10 років тому +421

    Ashanti's best work .
    She killed this shit.

  • @askaboutit
    @askaboutit 2 роки тому +93

    This song is full of pain. God help victims of abuse in all its forms.

  • @BriBri9380
    @BriBri9380 2 роки тому +580

    I had this song on repeat forever back when it first came out. Hits different now that im 31. 🥰 It's because I understand where I never wanna be again. I can actually listen to this song and actually relate. It made me stronger letting go. ❤ Being friends after a break up is rare...but I'm one of the lucky ones.

    • @TLibra-bc4tu
      @TLibra-bc4tu 2 роки тому +11

      Right!! ❤️

    • @kandykanelane8166
      @kandykanelane8166 2 роки тому +7

      me too i just turned 37 12.20!!!

    • @candicesouthall4213
      @candicesouthall4213 2 роки тому +4

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @ybotteecorinncajucom335
      @ybotteecorinncajucom335 2 роки тому +10

      Same! I am 31 now too and recently got back to listening to Ashanti!!

    • @KYRAA30
      @KYRAA30 2 роки тому +6

      Right! I’m 31 too and I totally agree.

  • @Manuella.a.
    @Manuella.a. 9 років тому +370

    Ashanti at her best, R&B at its best

  • @blesstheyankees1
    @blesstheyankees1 8 років тому +268

    Hype Williams with a 5 minute "Belly". This vid is fiyah. Larenz played his part. Respect.

    • @mchan2141
      @mchan2141 2 роки тому +4

      Yeah Lorenz Tate i was trying to remember his name thnx

  • @rudedude_5047
    @rudedude_5047 3 місяці тому +60

    Who still lising to dis in 2024🔥🔥 such a classic 🔥

  • @nomfanelo_
    @nomfanelo_ 2 роки тому +446

    2021... still a hit. Back when videos had an actual storyline 💕💕

    • @shanteli5970
      @shanteli5970 2 роки тому +15

      Miss those days! 😭🙌🏾Now they all just have strippers or the same setup and little to no acting 😩.

    • @AseAleisha
      @AseAleisha Рік тому +1

      @@shanteli5970 probably cuz that all they can afford 😂 u know how much this set up with ashanti was with the fake rain too n they probably shot this in 2-3 days maybe

    • @RocStar24
      @RocStar24 4 місяці тому +1

      STILL LISTENING IN 2024

  • @rennexoxo
    @rennexoxo 9 років тому +313

    They don't make videos like this anymore songs either..MuRder INC.

  • @Multifacted_Brotha
    @Multifacted_Brotha 10 років тому +1127

    Ashanti at her best!! I think this was her best song and video she ever done!!

    • @donnawilliams3509
      @donnawilliams3509 6 років тому +19

      BROTHA Jeff this and the way that I love you song and video

    • @erokology
      @erokology 5 років тому +11

      BROTHA Jeff this is her best video but her best song is probably baby or breakup 2 makeup

    • @freeandblessed8500
      @freeandblessed8500 5 років тому +3

      Brotha Jeff you are in the comment section on many videos. That's a great thing. You're well known in these UA-cam streets.

    • @richiefox9612
      @richiefox9612 4 роки тому +3

      in general this is a master' amazing .

    • @cherrikisses87able
      @cherrikisses87able 4 роки тому +2

      It wasnt.. but I loved ashanti back then

  • @jabarimoore6754
    @jabarimoore6754 3 роки тому +138

    That moment where the instrumental played as she walked in the house. 🔥

  • @pockahantiss
    @pockahantiss 3 місяці тому +20

    💜💖🤍Congratulations on the baby/engagement Ashanti!💜💖🤍

    • @patricebrown
      @patricebrown 26 днів тому

      I heard about that too, I'm so happy for her.❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊

  • @brownsexylady40
    @brownsexylady40 10 років тому +159

    I pray I never fall for a man that has the mentality of hitting his woman is ok

  • @mslaurenza65
    @mslaurenza65 9 років тому +393

    That's an insecure man who needs to 'control' 'his' woman...I belong to no man other than my God...We choose what we are willing to settle with and for, I'm not willing to do ANYTHING for someone who's not willing to do ANYTHING for me. Peace

    • @mslaurenza65
      @mslaurenza65 8 років тому +2

      ***** kiss my ass

    • @mslaurenza65
      @mslaurenza65 8 років тому +2

      +El Diablo it wasn't an offer...n besides, im absolutely positive you couldn't handle this ass son.

    • @mslaurenza65
      @mslaurenza65 8 років тому +3

      Most boys don't cuz they cant....this is a real mans ass.

    • @mslaurenza65
      @mslaurenza65 8 років тому +1

      +El Diablo you wouldn't know a womans ass if it was sitting on ur face son

    • @mslaurenza65
      @mslaurenza65 8 років тому +3

      U got me fuccd up son, you're the misogynist insecure child who was offended by my original post, so move along lil one, go back inside, I hear yo mama callin, nothing to see here. Bye Felicia!!

  • @autoridetipper286
    @autoridetipper286 2 роки тому +203

    This will forever be a timeless song! Still go hard in 2022🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @SuperNatblessed
      @SuperNatblessed Рік тому +2

      I'm listening..6/9/2023!! I'm 37 now!! Will be 38.. 12/28.. Where my ♑🐐 at!!💯🔥🏳️🙌🏾

    • @jayneegadlen732
      @jayneegadlen732 Рік тому

      I'm here listening 7/1/23 @6:27am 😂

    • @virgoways2650
      @virgoways2650 8 місяців тому

      Facts! 2023

    • @DONDON007
      @DONDON007 6 місяців тому +1

      2024

  • @cookietaylor1869
    @cookietaylor1869 Рік тому +24

    This is what a man does when he wants to keep you on at a low level because he can't keep up. It happened to me, I'm glad I got out.

  • @gilliansco
    @gilliansco 9 років тому +437

    in this video. the man was just jealous of her success. so he was trying to bring her down. by beating her and using her. but towards the end, she came out on top. proved him wrong. that she is the better one. the thing is. this sort of thing happens in real life. that's why i love watching this video. the words is deep.

    • @diamondcanales7501gv
      @diamondcanales7501gv 2 роки тому +9

      Thought i was the only one that seen that wen i was so young watching this video on bet..

    • @kenyawalls2255
      @kenyawalls2255 2 роки тому +8

      Yes. But larenze is so fine

    • @veef.moraless3020
      @veef.moraless3020 2 роки тому +4

      @@kenyawalls2255 Yes he is😍😍😍😍❤

    • @vibezlogistics7453
      @vibezlogistics7453 2 роки тому +2

      Yeah well thug love is what their looking for so ..I've never heard of a nerd putting hands on a woman because she over cooked the chicken..like old people say u get what u ask for in life ..

    • @italkalotofshit
      @italkalotofshit 2 роки тому +1

      @@vibezlogistics7453 😂😂😂😂

  • @AdrianQuincy
    @AdrianQuincy 8 років тому +218

    This masterpiece

  • @KeyWorldProductions
    @KeyWorldProductions Рік тому +86

    Yo this video a Whole MOVIE! I am in SHOCK in 2022 at the depth and quality of the visuals and the message in this music video. So much conflict and suspense in contrast to the soft and soulful voice of Ashanti in her PRIME. Whoever directed this did an INCREDIBLE Job

    • @LuvG0ddess
      @LuvG0ddess Рік тому +1

      You had to be there lol

    • @KeyWorldProductions
      @KeyWorldProductions Рік тому

      @@LuvG0ddess you think i wasnt?

    • @ajf95
      @ajf95 Рік тому +1

      man I was just thinking the same thing. I just made a playlist of some of my favorite music videos that have story lines to them. That was so dope back then. That's why I really loved music videos. Now it's just people standing around in the videos lol R&B singers don't even have choreographed dances in their videos anymore.

  • @tashamack8701
    @tashamack8701 2 роки тому +141

    Ashanti is tha truth!!! Sis is a legend!!! She deserves all her flowers!!! I am still a fan of hers. I still jam to her all old jams💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

  • @brianafreeman275
    @brianafreeman275 10 років тому +142

    Those cups had him trippin.

  • @alliedoublev9114
    @alliedoublev9114 Рік тому +20

    The crazy thing is 20 years later Larenz Tate looks exactly the same! Love this song 💕

  • @soadfreak89ify
    @soadfreak89ify 6 місяців тому +22

    Damn her vocals+lyrics still give me chills after all these years. 👑

  • @desirehailey
    @desirehailey 2 місяці тому +16

    I don’t wanna be this woman the 2nd time around 😢

  • @dinas1825
    @dinas1825 8 років тому +255

    Ashanti always had good videos

  • @natayaqualls9923
    @natayaqualls9923 10 років тому +58

    I love how she said "it's over"...

  • @elliot2177
    @elliot2177 Рік тому +20

    No words besides the beginning, and brilliant acting...L.T. killed it..

  • @lourdesecheverria6209
    @lourdesecheverria6209 Рік тому +12

    Speak up women. Don't cover up for your friends, lover, husband, brother, father. Honesty and Truth is the way to stop this from happening.

  • @ES7l0ve2LV
    @ES7l0ve2LV 2 роки тому +63

    It's crazy how different this Song hits as an adult then when we first heard it as teens

  • @EricaYE6
    @EricaYE6 9 років тому +57

    4:57 Ashanti's so stunning with wet hair.

  • @JC_inc
    @JC_inc 2 роки тому +30

    This song is sampled from "The Look of Love" by Isaac Hayes, which also was used in a scene in the movie Dead Presidents, starring Lorenz Tate, who’s playing Ashanti’s love interest here.

  • @HOTRODRICO
    @HOTRODRICO 2 роки тому +98

    this beat has always been INSANE...the video and imagery is INSANE a TOTAL CLASSIC MASTERPIECE.... ASHANTI IS IMMORTAL xoxo

  • @PattieCakeeee
    @PattieCakeeee 10 років тому +108

    still one of the best videos ever !

  • @shamgod8104
    @shamgod8104 Рік тому +18

    Let's not forget Lorenz Tate ...great actor and person

  • @christinacunningham558
    @christinacunningham558 4 місяці тому +7

    This song /video hits different now that I’m much older. Seen so many toxics relationships . Pray you find the strength to leave.

  • @briancooper8707
    @briancooper8707 Рік тому +35

    Ashanti really spoke to my heart and my life when she sung this song and it's really motivated me and made me more fearless than ever to get out of hellish abusive relationships with family, boyfriends and others that have Done me wrong and never apologized for their wrong doings

  • @wameezy
    @wameezy 14 років тому +104

    This is one of the best Music videos and songs ever made in my opinion. Ashanti was at the top back then.

  • @aGwEENapple
    @aGwEENapple 13 років тому +43

    The way Larenz talked to Ashanti in this video was so creepy.
    This is my favorite version of this vid because the acting is so phenomenal.
    Larenz is a really, really, really great actor, but abusive relationships are not cool at all.

    • @2006g6gtp
      @2006g6gtp 4 роки тому

      But did u ever see that full 10 minute version tho!?!

  • @donnagolden6316
    @donnagolden6316 3 місяці тому +9

    Toxic love is worse than no love. Toxic breaks things that take years to fix.

  • @abrackens10
    @abrackens10 Рік тому +15

    One of my favorite videos. Larenz did that! I’m glad she showed this side of a toxic relationship. Sometimes your partner be your biggest hater!

  • @xoxoPrettyMelaninxoxo
    @xoxoPrettyMelaninxoxo 8 років тому +190

    That moment when she leaves him behind on the red carpet to "spread her wings" always gives me chills. Like, its about to go down. lol

    • @bravegirl6263
      @bravegirl6263 6 років тому +13

      Mochahontas_Slayz in the Red carpet scene She didn’t leave him behind the both supposed to walk but he looks around and gets overwhelmed with so many cameras so he he stayed back and she noticed so she looks at him and he just nods for her to go ahead without him. Then she squints at him to see his face and he looks all scared and she is dissapointed he can’t handle the presssure. So she squeezes her hand to calm her nerves because she knows he is a lame and it shakes her confidence in him.

    • @RaghibAbdulShakoor
      @RaghibAbdulShakoor 4 роки тому +3

      She is doing her thang, I would have been proud of her point blank !

    • @thomasinaglover5578
      @thomasinaglover5578 2 роки тому

      MBS@@bravegirl6263

    • @HarmonyandHope7
      @HarmonyandHope7 Рік тому +17

      No he’s not overwhelmed he was jealous of the attention & appreciation that she was receiving from everyone

    • @phenitagomes1292
      @phenitagomes1292 Рік тому +4

      She didn't live him. He left her out of jealousy.

  • @phenitagomes1292
    @phenitagomes1292 Рік тому +86

    This is art. Both Ashanti and the male actor did a great job acting. Filming and editing. Everything was on point. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @brittanihawkins4037
    @brittanihawkins4037 4 роки тому +31

    2020 WAS MY BREAKING POINT! I REALLY DIDN'T WANNA FACE SUCH A BROKEN HEART, BUT I HAD TO AN ORDER TO FIND MYSELF AGAIN... SO MANY NITES I HELD MY PILLOW TIGHT ASKING GOD TO TAKE THAT PAIN AWAY... I COULDN'T SLEEP EAT! UNTIL THAT MOMENT CAME I HAD NO OTHER CHOICE BUT TO LEAVE💔✨

    • @Luminousone_624
      @Luminousone_624 2 роки тому

      Amem sis same here 💙

    • @ez-g3090
      @ez-g3090 2 роки тому

      Let's see if you don't end up making the same "mistake" again chosing with your emotions instead of reality.

  • @ShiningBright777
    @ShiningBright777 Рік тому +10

    Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.
    John 14:6

  • @scottr8071
    @scottr8071 9 років тому +64

    Ashanti deserves some respect. Love her...

  • @Jerseymad93
    @Jerseymad93 Рік тому +32

    They don’t make music videos like this anymore, the acting, editing and cinematography was way beyond a music video, this was a movie

  • @marthasilva8960
    @marthasilva8960 Рік тому +23

    Heard this song my whole life but now as a full grown adult, it hits me hard!!! 😢😢😢 girl leave his punkass! You deserve better!!!!❤❤❤

  • @user-xr8ot7tb5m
    @user-xr8ot7tb5m 9 місяців тому +4

    toxic is just a irregular terminology for people who don’t know how to relate to each other or be friends first before they jump in bed and think having good sex is love and then get married prematurely, without any constellations of love

  • @daariesdoll89
    @daariesdoll89 9 років тому +53

    This song is deep...Damn I miss when music was good.

  • @divineintervention3961
    @divineintervention3961 9 місяців тому +5

    Love Ashanti and Larenz is aging like fine wine and a great actor!

  • @GirlGolden4
    @GirlGolden4 Рік тому +15

    I love the visuals at 2:55 where his face is distorted into what looks like a monster, The Devil, etc….and there’s an eerie light in his eyes in different parts of the video, almost like he’s fighting his inner demons, which seem to be dominating him…very well done video & song! 🙌🏽💯🎵
    I also wonder if this kind of relationship really happened to her?

  • @user-mr3ez1lp2z
    @user-mr3ez1lp2z 6 місяців тому +5

    Rain on me Lord please take this pain from me she ain't never lying about that part y'all on some serious stuff Man

  • @paigeviper244
    @paigeviper244 2 роки тому +13

    A calm woman… is a DANGEROUS woman!
    Remember that fellas!

  • @craxiecaramel
    @craxiecaramel 4 роки тому +20

    I truly understand the meaning of this song.i was 14 when this song came out. I wasn't even thinking about men. I will still always love him. My son's father. It's like I don't want to be with any one else. So foolish this thing called
    In my feelings this morning.

  • @user-ol4hr3zs7s
    @user-ol4hr3zs7s 3 місяці тому +6

    I wish my Aunt could have heard this. When i was 9 she was killed by her estranged EX 2 days before the hearing for the restraining order. He shot his own baby through the head and hitting her in the heart. Please dont wait.

  • @sarajelinek9821
    @sarajelinek9821 11 місяців тому +12

    I feel this to my core. Don’t look back and have any regrets, leave while you still can.

  • @Tanyashia1
    @Tanyashia1 9 років тому +46

    Boy do I remember that feeling.

  • @KirbyKirbz
    @KirbyKirbz 10 років тому +45

    This and The Way That I Love You are 2 of her most epic drama-themed videoes. I hope we get to see more on her new album....

  • @Decorum.n.Decisions
    @Decorum.n.Decisions Рік тому +12

    This song gives me chills as an adult. Thank God i made it out of my 20s. Amen. ❤️

  • @edelyncarreonhernandez5839
    @edelyncarreonhernandez5839 2 роки тому +27

    I'm lookin' in the mirror
    At this woman down and out
    She's internally dyin'
    I know this was not what love's about
    I don't wanna be this woman
    The second time around
    'Cause I'm wakin' up screamin', no longer believin'
    That I'm gonna be around
    And over and over I tried
    Yet over and over you lied
    And over and over I cried,
    And over and over I tried
    Yet over and over you lied
    And over and over I cried, yeah
    I don't know why
    Rain on me
    Lord, won't you take this pain from me
    I don't wanna live, I don't wanna breathe, tell ya just
    Rain on me
    Lord, won't you take this pain from me
    I don't wanna live, I don't wanna breathe
    See, I don't want to hug my pillow late at night no more
    I'm tossin' and turnin' and thinkin' 'bout burnin' down these walls
    I don't wanna fuel this fire no more, no more, no more
    See, I made up my mind 'cause I've wasted my time
    Ain't nothin' here to keep me warm
    And over and over I tried
    Yet over and over you lied
    And over and over I cried,
    And over and over I tried
    Yet over and over you lied
    And over and over I cried,
    I cried, I cried, I cried, I cried, I cried
    Rain on me
    Lord, won't you take this pain from me
    I don't wanna live, I don't wanna breathe, tell ya just
    Rain on me
    Lord, won't you take this pain from me
    I don't wanna live, I don't wanna breathe
    I'm so tired of the rain
    In my life
    And I'm so tired of the strain
    And now you're gonna lie
    'Cause sometimes I can't sleep at night and
    This here it just don't seem right and
    Sometimes I just wonder why I
    Almost let my life go by
    'Cause sometimes I can't sleep at night and
    This here it just don't seem right and
    Sometimes I just wonder why I
    Almost let my life go by
    Rain on me
    Lord, won't you take this pain from me
    I don't wanna live, I don't wanna breathe, tell ya just
    Rain on me
    Lord, won't you take this pain from me
    I don't wanna live, I don't wanna breathe
    Rain on me
    Lord, won't you take this pain from me
    I don't wanna live, I don't wanna breathe, tell ya just
    Rain on me
    Lord, won't you take this pain from me
    I don't wanna live, I don't wanna breathe

  • @ayamethompson9435
    @ayamethompson9435 8 років тому +153

    Y'all notice, she didn't leave him when he was physically abusing her, but when He cheat. That's how a lot of females are. He can do anything to her but just don't cheat

    • @th3azscorpio
      @th3azscorpio 7 років тому +28

      A lot of black women have messed up minds and priorities. The first time a man puts his hands on me is the last time. Imma get him locked up, and throw him out permanently. I was more shocked at the fact that she was the rich, successful one and she was letting him do all that shit to her.

    • @ayamethompson9435
      @ayamethompson9435 7 років тому +9

      True True. I don't understand. My mom was in one and so was one of her friends. My sister's father hit my mother and she hit him back, he never put his hands on her again and she stayed with him a couple more years. My mother friends, last time I heard of him hitting her, he knocked out 3 of her teethes. But when he burst some windows out, she went to the cops! I've never been, and I agree with you.
      I just don't understand, and with all that money she making, she could have anyone.

    • @th3azscorpio
      @th3azscorpio 7 років тому +15

      Ayame Thompson Some chicks priorities are just fucked up. That along with crippling low self esteem. That's why it's important to know your worth, and don't stand for bullshit. Draw the line and if he tries to step over it, swiftly let him know just where the fuck he stands. People can only get away with what you allow them to. There's absolutely no reason why a rich, successful woman should be dating gutter trash niggas. Lol what made me angry is that not only is he beating her ass, but he's also cheating? Oh hell no! His ass would get that Al Greene treatment so quick!

    • @DomCTBG
      @DomCTBG 5 років тому +9

      I like how you only put this universal phenomenon only on black women. Thanks Sis.

    • @xTatianaIshhMehhhx
      @xTatianaIshhMehhhx 5 років тому

      DomCTBG deadass

  • @GoddessBae
    @GoddessBae 8 років тому +38

    Larenz Yes Lawd

  • @jayderimson810
    @jayderimson810 Рік тому +6

    Man this WAS the video!! Tate KILT the acting role and Ashanti KILT this song! Damn where is the 2000s when you need them?lol

  • @solitaire3640
    @solitaire3640 4 місяці тому +4

    I love this song. Because as black women this song hits hard for black women who are successful! We fall in love with those real n.... Who are jealous of us! We succeed and they are hating and abusive! It's about leaving them and going on to succeed!!!! Truth is real?!!

  • @eveheart2876
    @eveheart2876 8 років тому +53

    Things are not always as it seems. That's what the video is portraying. Love the music and video

  • @Njoya676
    @Njoya676 2 роки тому +22

    It's 2021 and this was my childhood fave. Now I'm 32

  • @Theterminato2013
    @Theterminato2013 Рік тому +15

    My all time favorite song of Ashanti. It displays a powerful message of dealing with abusive relationships.

  • @alicereveira-fairbanks4225
    @alicereveira-fairbanks4225 3 місяці тому +1

    No woman deserve to be abused. This song reminded me that I finally realize to get out of a toxic marriage and save my life & kids life.

  • @EmzooH
    @EmzooH 10 років тому +25

    Miss that Ashanti !!!

  • @ruff1draft
    @ruff1draft Рік тому +13

    Always liked the production of this record.

  • @redbone0822
    @redbone0822 8 місяців тому +6

    The way larenz jumped over that sofa though😍😍

  • @LisaCPerry
    @LisaCPerry 8 років тому +33

    The best of Ashanti, this song took me through some tuff times. Love Larenz Tates!!

  • @woahscorpion202
    @woahscorpion202 8 років тому +30

    Ashanti is so underrated 😭.

  • @nayhow3831
    @nayhow3831 9 місяців тому +4

    Ashanti, Fantasia and Keyshia Coke hand my twenties locked up going through my toxic abusive marriage. These 3 ladies got me through some shiit for real

  • @oorr643
    @oorr643 6 місяців тому +2

    ❤ I love women r&b cause they songs always seem to come from the ❤ soul felt songs...fukn good music

  • @dazha22
    @dazha22 11 років тому +24

    LOVE ASHANTI!! This is one of my favorite songs... She need to come back out

  • @monirabegum3485
    @monirabegum3485 4 роки тому +27

    Thought provoking song and video. Love Ashanti always

  • @mrss.s.bee.3413
    @mrss.s.bee.3413 Рік тому +13

    I love Ashanti. Always have and always will. Really miss music like this. ❣️

  • @KaliyahBurton
    @KaliyahBurton Рік тому +6

    This song helped me thru all of my abusive relationships and I thank God for Ashanti making this song. It helped me find the strength to leave.

  • @Ilovechicago100
    @Ilovechicago100 9 років тому +40

    Maybach before it was popular with the rappers. Lol

  • @RozJa_Burns
    @RozJa_Burns 8 років тому +206

    he was jealous of her success

  • @sandraritah3346
    @sandraritah3346 2 роки тому +14

    Just WOW. The video clip, the emotions, the lyrics, the vocals... Just wow - strong message. Amazing

  • @brionazimmerman8030
    @brionazimmerman8030 3 місяці тому +2

    He’s too cute 😊

  • @shayb2970
    @shayb2970 7 років тому +8

    I don't live, I don't wanna breathe. LORD won't you take this pain from me.

  • @DabsDans
    @DabsDans 9 років тому +59

    This is definently One of her Best Videos!! It always put me in some kinda mood! Very Strong #Salute

  • @TsTanya
    @TsTanya Місяць тому +2

    This is Whitney Houston and Bobby Brown. She tried to tell us when she was alive how jealous he really was, having affairs and hitting her because she was more famous than him. Rest in peace, Whitney Houston, the Queen. 👑

  • @kingmontague1926
    @kingmontague1926 Рік тому +4

    say no to toxic love and domestic violence
    💔🐾

  • @victorlartey4828
    @victorlartey4828 10 років тому +20

    Ahhh we ain't never gonna get this no more