It was so painful hearing this man saying he is quitting his entire family and starting over again😭

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  • @flavour0018
    @flavour0018  9 місяців тому +24

    Watch part 1 here
    ua-cam.com/video/x2_zTzVBQvk/v-deo.htmlsi=v_GmbEQODMNWL8g7

    • @ebbnazzilm.k3387
      @ebbnazzilm.k3387 9 місяців тому

      Stevo sometimes tufinyie like tujue tuko pamoja

    • @ElizabethMaina-l2x
      @ElizabethMaina-l2x 9 місяців тому

      BM why do U always start RECONCILIATION WITH THE FEMALES. IT'S THE MAN WHO LEADS, & MOST OF THE TIMES THEY E THE CAUSE OF ALL THE SHENANIGANS LIKE IN GHIS CASE.THIS IS A BIAS,UNFAIR,CORRECT IT PLS.
      WHILE ON IT THE COMMERCIALS R 2 MANY & SUPER ANNOYING.
      Gal pls DO U,LOVE URSELF 1st. "IF U CAN'T LOVE ME NOW DON'T LOVE ME LATER,WHEN MY LATER IS MUCH GREATER..."
      B@&&=R OFF DUDE,U GOT 💵💵 YET U WERE DOING BOYS,LET THEM MARRY U.
      " MUACHA MILA NI MTUMWA"
      HOWEVER NO DISRESPECT 4 THE BIOLOGICAL FATHER & CHEATING AIN'T AUTHORISED 4 THE MEN & FEMALE. WISDOM,CO-PARENT PEACEFULLY.

    • @noelowiti9326
      @noelowiti9326 Місяць тому +1

      part 3 iko wapi🤣

  • @sarahakango7237
    @sarahakango7237 9 місяців тому +319

    Please mama don't let those kids disrespect their dad. He's their father... his blood runs in their veins. He carries their blessings.

    • @estherwandia4378
      @estherwandia4378 9 місяців тому +11

      True,for that she is not doing well,that's there dad,

    • @davidkihara9890
      @davidkihara9890 9 місяців тому +11

      Blessings hutoka Kwa the father if at all he's alive .....

    • @paulkaranja9257
      @paulkaranja9257 9 місяців тому +12

      Too late. Her infidelity is also in the internet forever recorded.

    • @gladysnafula758
      @gladysnafula758 9 місяців тому +9

      Sio kukua na job kuthalau bwana mpaka watoto kijana utapata mke mwema pesa zitaisha Mungu ni nani

    • @josphatkiarie8594
      @josphatkiarie8594 9 місяців тому +15

      Just a matter of time n she will be humbled something is waiting on the other side

  • @estherwachira9152
    @estherwachira9152 9 місяців тому +155

    when I was not working my husband supported me 100%later God blessed me am working..... today I treat my love like no one's business He was there while I needed him most.he is one in a million 🙏

    • @beatricechepngeno7050
      @beatricechepngeno7050 9 місяців тому +1

      Amen.. happy to hear that

    • @ruthmwendwa4198
      @ruthmwendwa4198 9 місяців тому +3

      That's good of your man, you treat them how they treat you

    • @paulinewangila-cs6ys
      @paulinewangila-cs6ys 9 місяців тому

      ❤❤

    • @ericgathii1387
      @ericgathii1387 9 місяців тому +3

      Wonderful. Its been 3yrs now im supporting my wife she has no job. Hope she will turn out to be like u

    • @wambuinyaga9106
      @wambuinyaga9106 9 місяців тому

      ​@@ruthmwendwa4198Absolutely true

  • @Jenesm
    @Jenesm 9 місяців тому +193

    My dear sis,money is not everything..let's kids respect their dad he carries their blessings....NOTE THAT

    • @benardsnell6872
      @benardsnell6872 9 місяців тому +8

      She has money and she can even take them to Riara Group of Schools 👌One thing she's forgetting is that the world is watching..

    • @naomyachieng8444
      @naomyachieng8444 9 місяців тому +4

      Especially the blessings of a father.....

    • @Vixymush
      @Vixymush 9 місяців тому +8

      Maybe he's not the biological father, so stop all this and let the woman enjoy her life, the man broke his marriage and the woman ended it, period!

    • @benardsnell6872
      @benardsnell6872 9 місяців тому +3

      @@Vixymush That's why you got no husband... Period..!!

    • @WakinahNjue
      @WakinahNjue 9 місяців тому +3

      @@benardsnell6872 kwani having one is an achievement???

  • @iqtarab535
    @iqtarab535 9 місяців тому +94

    Whomever reading this One day God is going to lift us from grass to grace from nobody to somebody 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @blackylampard640
    @blackylampard640 9 місяців тому +166

    The worst thing this woman did is feeding her kids bad words against their father
    Her children will never even respect her too

  • @profabraham9017
    @profabraham9017 8 місяців тому +10

    Gone is the time when children were taught to respect and honor their fathers irregardless of parental differences. Father is the head of the family no matter what!

  • @paulngugim8915
    @paulngugim8915 9 місяців тому +13

    That lady thought she would be soothed akwende huko I stand with that man one day watamtafuta he was once a stepping stone in their family

  • @duncanmuoki194
    @duncanmuoki194 9 місяців тому +16

    Brotherhood is much proud of you bro 👏👏👏

  • @tonykodes2252
    @tonykodes2252 9 місяців тому +13

    That Man has done the best thing, You will pick up bro and flourish, life is not about money as much as it's necesary

    • @onpoint_000
      @onpoint_000 9 місяців тому

      Wewe kama hauna ni sawa😂

  • @Shaydomz
    @Shaydomz 9 місяців тому +13

    The gentleman ended it very wisely big-up bro you killed the show

  • @NancyMcute
    @NancyMcute 9 місяців тому +11

    Thank you very important for that decision of ending that union. The lady had already moved on long ago

  • @moryn041
    @moryn041 9 місяців тому +43

    I love the communication discipline between these two. No one interrupts the other!

    • @wanguimacharia5964
      @wanguimacharia5964 9 місяців тому +3

      Noticed this as well 😂😂😂😂

    • @javy_c1k
      @javy_c1k 9 місяців тому

      ​@@wanguimacharia5964hadi mimi nmenotice😂. Otherwise npitie mummy

    • @javy_c1k
      @javy_c1k 9 місяців тому

      Mory npitie plz

  • @keeneds
    @keeneds 9 місяців тому +5

    Great move Brother!...Walk away silently. Do not engage in any defence or offence. You have won the best thing PEACE!

  • @bbjallow48
    @bbjallow48 9 місяців тому +112

    No matter what sister, don't destroy the relationship between your children and their father or even telling them bad things about their father

    • @user-fz3dg2fr6bl
      @user-fz3dg2fr6bl 9 місяців тому +2

      Coz it's wrong

    • @millicentaseyo9128
      @millicentaseyo9128 9 місяців тому +4

      The woman is bad example to kids money come n go today's me tomorrow is you pride come before a fall

    • @erickimla8222
      @erickimla8222 9 місяців тому +2

      Very true

    • @nancymijide614
      @nancymijide614 9 місяців тому +1

      Money ooooh😢

    • @mamamalaika4413
      @mamamalaika4413 9 місяців тому +2

      Sure, he carries their blessings. Don’t let them carry their dad’s curse. Let the difference be between you and husband

  • @robertmudegu2415
    @robertmudegu2415 9 місяців тому +20

    When money speaks, truth is thrown out of the window 😊

  • @dakimnyaga
    @dakimnyaga 9 місяців тому +48

    Best decision you've done brother, pride can't take a human being anywhere, start over again

    • @millicentaseyo9128
      @millicentaseyo9128 9 місяців тому +2

      These woman will regret forever she thinks taking side chick to revenge your husband is the solution atajikuta n ukimwi au apigwe n bibi ya huyo doc so when a man cheat let God pay his wrongs but ukichukua in your hands utaishi single milele kupata bwana ni ngori let her ask first before you react 😅

    • @elainefuraha5119
      @elainefuraha5119 9 місяців тому +2

      ​@@millicentaseyo9128oohhhh,it can only happen to the lady and not the man...nonsense

    • @millicentaseyo9128
      @millicentaseyo9128 9 місяців тому +1

      @@elainefuraha5119 nonsense tena wee hujui it's happening out here kataliwa na bibi ndio utakua hujui so am talking from experience

    • @Mzalendo2295
      @Mzalendo2295 9 місяців тому +2

      Bold move 😉

    • @joycewanjiru5043
      @joycewanjiru5043 9 місяців тому

      ​@@elainefuraha5119💚

  • @anthonymile4422
    @anthonymile4422 9 місяців тому +23

    Never disrespect a man in front of his children, irrespective of your differences. They will need him in life.

  • @blackylampard640
    @blackylampard640 9 місяців тому +68

    Two wrongs don't make a right' you can divorce with your husband but don't make his children to hate him coz they need a dad who's there for them' a dad is a dad no matter what

    • @rahmaabdalla7643
      @rahmaabdalla7643 9 місяців тому

      Hiyo 50k salary ya nursing ndio imempea kiburi plus mwenye alimwambia achore tatoo. Wacha Afutwe ndio atajua kuna God in heaven.kazi kijana ndio alikupa 50k umepata kazi saa hii unamuona hana maana.

    • @rahmaabdalla7643
      @rahmaabdalla7643 9 місяців тому

      Hiyo 50k salary ya nursing ndio imempea kiburi plus mwenye alimwambia achore tatoo. Wacha Afutwe ndio atajua kuna God in heaven.kazi kijana ndio alikupa 50k umepata kazi saa hii unamuona hana maana.

    • @Moses-wp2cc
      @Moses-wp2cc 9 місяців тому

      Ladies ladies God is watching you

  • @Vikeke17
    @Vikeke17 9 місяців тому +25

    Most People Talk Negatively About ABSENT FATHERS ….But No One Talks About PRESENT DADS

    • @lynnetyalbert-sv7gs
      @lynnetyalbert-sv7gs 9 місяців тому

      He can be present physically but not financially emotionally

    • @Vikeke17
      @Vikeke17 9 місяців тому

      @@lynnetyalbert-sv7gs most women are men with money na kinawaramba bt non of you has learned anything….
      Most early pregnancies n ladies chasing men wenye pesa na badala muwe rich ladies….,u become single mothers

  • @linetmusa6203
    @linetmusa6203 9 місяців тому +59

    When i grow up, i want to be like this lady

    • @blackylampard640
      @blackylampard640 9 місяців тому +8

      To be a cheater and a narcissist

    • @abrahammasinde5282
      @abrahammasinde5282 9 місяців тому

      😊

    • @JM-dt7ul
      @JM-dt7ul 9 місяців тому +3

      Hehe I hope you grow up soon.

    • @benito5505
      @benito5505 9 місяців тому +4

      The lady is a cheater no dioloma nurse who earns more than 100k let her start paying the bills ataishiwa

    • @Vikeke17
      @Vikeke17 9 місяців тому +6

      You’re already full time single mom na side chick and how is ua body count behaving

  • @tuk_talk
    @tuk_talk 9 місяців тому +7

    Akishaonja nje hakunanga comeback, unless she cannot sustain herself, in this case, divorce is absolutely necessary

  • @wambumwash8510
    @wambumwash8510 9 місяців тому +25

    He laid his bed well well. Let him feel the pain. SOME MEN AKI

    • @Vikeke17
      @Vikeke17 9 місяців тому

      Single mom are raising men

    • @onpoint_000
      @onpoint_000 9 місяців тому

      Let him lie on it

  • @frangipanitwenty
    @frangipanitwenty 9 місяців тому +98

    After mistreating his wife when he was doing well financially, he is now playing victim 🚮🚮. Blame yourself. Your wife's heart hardened towards you because of your actions. Actions have consequences.
    Even as you go separate ways, make sure you assist in the children's upbringing.
    Men should style up, the days of mistreating women thinking they will never rise financially and shine are over!!

  • @tituskiragu1384
    @tituskiragu1384 9 місяців тому +11

    There is nothing can stop the man to shine again.He will rise again and marry a young beautiful working woman..who will love and honour him.He won't make the same mistake he did.He will have grateful family who will respect him.Man..walk and don't turn back.work hard..you are man.Get rich..be happy.watakuonea viu sasa.

  • @carolynkingothyo8896
    @carolynkingothyo8896 9 місяців тому +18

    I support you mama...go go go 💪.... I'm in school now doing clinical medicine and surgery....I Faced the same....nilisema nataka kwenda shule nikaambiwa MTU akiolewa na azae hawezi soma.... I'm in school courtesy of my parents... they sold land to send me to school and I was married to someone who we started from scratch..... when money started flowing I became trash to entire family

    • @iamkisaka846
      @iamkisaka846 9 місяців тому

      Woiyeee hugs mama,God will make a way for you ❤

    • @carolynkingothyo8896
      @carolynkingothyo8896 9 місяців тому

      Amen dear...God is faithful 🙏

    • @howeneuticus4800
      @howeneuticus4800 5 місяців тому +1

      I'm doing the same but learn to educate your children on importance to respect their father. Being a clinician does not mean money

    • @djlitofficial6650
      @djlitofficial6650 Місяць тому

      😂😂😂

  • @Fm-MornStar2014
    @Fm-MornStar2014 9 місяців тому +37

    PROVERBS 14:1-25:
    A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands.
    It doesn't matter, but revenge causes more damage than construction.

    • @gladyskemunto6152
      @gladyskemunto6152 9 місяців тому +12

      He broke his marriage.. she ended it.. we can’t use that verse to blackmail women into putting up with rubbish just to keep marriage

    • @everlynemutaye5464
      @everlynemutaye5464 9 місяців тому

      true

    • @Vixymush
      @Vixymush 9 місяців тому

      ​@@gladyskemunto6152tell them loudly!

    • @ruthmwendwa4198
      @ruthmwendwa4198 9 місяців тому

      So you die out of depression to protect the so called marriage ....

    • @Fm-MornStar2014
      @Fm-MornStar2014 9 місяців тому +2

      @@gladyskemunto6152 Are you supporting her take? Remember revenge is infinitive, through this consequently she's not seeking peace but calamities.
      If you know, you know!
      🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @mudakimmboga6024
    @mudakimmboga6024 9 місяців тому +37

    I support him.. The wife said there is no love anymore. So if it's not working, walk away... It's ok mama, don't turn the children against their father.. Fight your battles alone and leave the kids alone.... Move on mama don't be bitter... Bro, walk, if possible... RUUUUUUUN!

  • @stevethechosen9367
    @stevethechosen9367 9 місяців тому +4

    Wise man, you have made the right decision. Move on and learn from your mistakes.

  • @wathuthisnyarcute
    @wathuthisnyarcute 9 місяців тому +6

    This is what i always say always treat people how you would like to be treated!!Most husband's mistreat their wives when they have money,but when the time comes for revenge even satan sits down to take notes!!

  • @johnmuriithi4407
    @johnmuriithi4407 9 місяців тому +9

    Also i support him this relationship. Is like revengeance let his start a new life

  • @veronicahmuthoki1158
    @veronicahmuthoki1158 9 місяців тому +15

    Hapa hakuna ndoa..kila mtu aende kivyake..revenge ya bibi nayo ni kali sana wueeh!

  • @victormaina9343
    @victormaina9343 9 місяців тому +3

    Bro like i told you in first episode just walk in peace ✌️ and start a fresh but at least you've learnt a lesson... you're a gentleman!

  • @stevethechosen9367
    @stevethechosen9367 9 місяців тому +5

    This lady is on another level. she doesn't see the value of this man in her live. The earlier this man realizes he is a no body in this family the better. This lady is done with this man. when a woman is done with you you better run away. Its not late to start all over again.

  • @amoskipkirui7895
    @amoskipkirui7895 9 місяців тому +4

    I wish a good woman out there can see this guy take and treat him like a king just for this lady to know it’s not the only who has it all.bro let it go you still young man.

    • @syljro4330
      @syljro4330 8 місяців тому +1

      Wanawake watch on this don't take this nonsense

  • @Cindy20249
    @Cindy20249 9 місяців тому +82

    It's never late to start again don't sit down and wait for depression to kill you
    You can't change an adult

  • @vannessanaomi
    @vannessanaomi 9 місяців тому +9

    This is their life .both has spoken out their heart now the ball is on their side to forgive one another .or leave it and move on

  • @alexwasua7755
    @alexwasua7755 9 місяців тому +9

    You guys even your conversation is so mature. Among you no one we can say is so perfect. Many will advise you but I guess your solution is on your fingertips. Recollect yourselves, forgive & forget. To you mama, money can't buy happiness, what you've taught the children to treat their father like gabbage it's not good. To bro, if you messed it's okay, ask for forgiveness, she'll understand. All the best

  • @moraakelly1191
    @moraakelly1191 9 місяців тому +7

    never treat your spouse like trash when they are down and when they need you the most.....i feel the lady

  • @hazelochola8677
    @hazelochola8677 9 місяців тому +18

    Madam, you need to be a guest speaker in the next Women's Conference. I have learnt something from you. Women, be financially independent, always put yourself first, have strategic planning and finally execute all your plans.

    • @FelixWanyonyi-o6o
      @FelixWanyonyi-o6o 9 місяців тому +12

      Regrets comes after action and I have seen many like her

    • @blackylampard640
      @blackylampard640 9 місяців тому

      She's a cheater and a narcissist

    • @midenyoduncan4843
      @midenyoduncan4843 9 місяців тому +9

      she is sleeping in brothels trying to keep her job, it wont last long , my own sisters case was similar to this, she is now regretting, two wrongs ......... the lady is not indipendent, she is getting money from her cookie 🤣🤣🤣 you and i know how she got the job

    • @catherinenderitu8018
      @catherinenderitu8018 9 місяців тому +3

      I hope 5 years down the line she will be talking like this....things change.......weeeh...

    • @lucymbugua6849
      @lucymbugua6849 9 місяців тому

      ​@@catherinenderitu8018so she should have not gone to school to be treated like shit 😂😂😂😂😂 wuueh

  • @gladyshuegli3055
    @gladyshuegli3055 9 місяців тому +2

    BRAVOOOO GOOD GIRL, WELL DONE, WOMEN OUT THERE, A GOOD LESSON HERE.

  • @paulinanduku2748
    @paulinanduku2748 9 місяців тому +36

    Lesson learnt treat people well tables do turn around

    • @gitongahouse3245
      @gitongahouse3245 9 місяців тому

      women uses vocals to justify their promiscuity actions

    • @lucymbugua6849
      @lucymbugua6849 9 місяців тому

      Thankyou

    • @steveogi
      @steveogi 9 місяців тому

      And they turn again.

    • @user-pz6wf5cd6w
      @user-pz6wf5cd6w 9 місяців тому

      Huyu jamaa Ako na pesa bana na ni mtu anawork atatafuta bibi mwingne aendelee na maisha alaaa

  • @hazelochola8677
    @hazelochola8677 9 місяців тому +20

    Well done mama! You have a good calculated move. I support you.

  • @gladysrotich4505
    @gladysrotich4505 9 місяців тому +6

    A wise and virtuous woman builds her home! This woman has chosen money over future of the kids. Regrets loading.

    • @moureenkinyeki7880
      @moureenkinyeki7880 9 місяців тому

      You expect too much from women and less from men...if the tables turned around story ingekia hivyohivyo

  • @Car_enthusiastic254
    @Car_enthusiastic254 9 місяців тому +28

    The pride in this lady is on another level 😢

    • @samirkhantv2616
      @samirkhantv2616 9 місяців тому

      Eve my girl

    • @Vikeke17
      @Vikeke17 9 місяців тому +1

      Pride of money which made her mother of 2 boys with no husband bt she has achieved for body counts on the streets

    • @monicakariuki260
      @monicakariuki260 9 місяців тому

      Eve just SHUT UP .......😊

    • @antonynganga7868
      @antonynganga7868 9 місяців тому +4

      Money comes n goes,be very careful when you get it.

    • @assumptamuhia8826
      @assumptamuhia8826 9 місяців тому

      Ako na pride kaaa shit atatumiwa achapeee stupid woman

  • @ArapChumo23
    @ArapChumo23 9 місяців тому +5

    Either way, respect to the father of the kids is paramount. Pride comes before a fall.

  • @youngtalentkenya5605
    @youngtalentkenya5605 9 місяців тому +8

    With territorial spirits, you can cheat and easily justify your actions without fear or concern for what others think. When a man makes a firm decision to end or stop doing anything of value, something is protecting him from harm.

  • @EvansKiragu-m1u
    @EvansKiragu-m1u 9 місяців тому +32

    I was once a victim seeing my mom mistreating my dad and i was there defending my mum later did i know i will be a father i had to find my dad we talk and solve my problems with him its good to keep our siblings away from our fight

  • @iqtarab535
    @iqtarab535 9 місяців тому +21

    A lesson to learn to us husidharau mtu kama uko na uwezo wa pesa things turns around faster 🙄🥴😔😏

  • @gorbynjeri2855
    @gorbynjeri2855 9 місяців тому +6

    2 proud grown ups can't live together

  • @francisirungu3460
    @francisirungu3460 9 місяців тому +15

    Huyu mwanamke anafikiria ataolewa na jesus let her wait mchele iishe maji ataregret baadae

    • @cyprianfit
      @cyprianfit 9 місяців тому +1

      Ni kiburi tu juu amepata pesa

    • @janesaru9377
      @janesaru9377 9 місяців тому +2

      Unaachana na bwanako unaenda kua side chick kwa married man😂😂

  • @pamelagatwiri8170
    @pamelagatwiri8170 9 місяців тому +6

    He better be..but huyo mwanamke ajue pride comes b4 a fall..pole young man..all the best

    • @franciswanjie7042
      @franciswanjie7042 9 місяців тому

      This was never a genuine marriage. Hapa inakaa zile ndoa za "come we risk" or a game of flexing size of their balls to see who gets to win the boss challenge.

    • @ioicemauda4604
      @ioicemauda4604 9 місяців тому

      Amove on mm naona pia huyo mzee ako na doo juu alisema 3m ziko bank😢

  • @francisgitonga9437
    @francisgitonga9437 9 місяців тому +5

    Good...
    Now you are a gentleman..
    Wachana na hiyo ghasia..
    Malipo ni hapa duniani tu

  • @BowensVince
    @BowensVince 9 місяців тому +13

    It's okay bro you're not quiting you're trying a fresh you'll be okay

    • @totietoo6218
      @totietoo6218 9 місяців тому

      Unless he changes it won't be okay.

    • @BowensVince
      @BowensVince 9 місяців тому +2

      @@totietoo6218 whenever your children disrespect you don't stay there

    • @totietoo6218
      @totietoo6218 9 місяців тому

      Lakini kusema ukweli huwezi jaribu kuslap bibi yako mbele ya mtoto kijana. Ata akue mdogo aje they won't allow

  • @tonnyndundahse69
    @tonnyndundahse69 9 місяців тому +19

    Even if a man plays 1% role in the house if he leaves soon or later his absence will be felt

    • @Vikeke17
      @Vikeke17 9 місяців тому

      Chairman how far

    • @joankinyua6843
      @joankinyua6843 9 місяців тому +3

      It will depend only if his presence was felt

    • @Vikeke17
      @Vikeke17 9 місяців тому

      @@joankinyua6843 do women feel anything or they feel something wen they’ve run out of options

    • @winniemogoi4238
      @winniemogoi4238 9 місяців тому +1

      @tonnyndundahse69 hizi ni makelele za chura

    • @damaclineratemo6047
      @damaclineratemo6047 9 місяців тому +1

      Exactly 💯

  • @dennisogeto6623
    @dennisogeto6623 9 місяців тому +21

    This is a life lesson as much as the lady is right and the gentleman is wrong it's a life lesson

    • @adungafredrick5981
      @adungafredrick5981 9 місяців тому +5

      Right in doing what?

    • @Vikeke17
      @Vikeke17 9 місяців тому +4

      Simp which lesson educate sisi wajinga

    • @gitongahouse3245
      @gitongahouse3245 9 місяців тому +3

      bana dem alikuliwa ni doctor she is just shouting kawaida ya wanawake

    • @ruthmwendwa4198
      @ruthmwendwa4198 9 місяців тому

      ​@@gitongahouse3245Revenge is very necessary 🎉🎉 you can't treat someone like thrash bcoz they don't have money en expect them to keep the relationship....

    • @mystyjakanyango4079
      @mystyjakanyango4079 9 місяців тому +1

      Simp wewe. Utalia siku moja

  • @MrFrankpetro
    @MrFrankpetro 9 місяців тому +3

    All the best bro. Oa mwingine,akileta ufala tafuta mwingine tena.

  • @wilsonmwangi4012
    @wilsonmwangi4012 9 місяців тому +1

    Young Gentleman.that is life you will get the lady you deserve

  • @majormayco
    @majormayco 9 місяців тому +120

    To be honest, this man just laid a wrong foundation, and is now just reaping what he sowed. When he had money, he neglected his family; his family could go without food but he had money to spend on his friends and politics, and could miss going home for days without explaining to the wife where he is.
    Now the tables have turned; the wife has money and is busy with revenge. This is a completely dead marriage.

    • @faithogari3949
      @faithogari3949 9 місяців тому +17

      They never know what they take ppl thru when ladies don't have money..simuhurumii kapsa..that lady should have life too..

    • @lydiaupendo8260
      @lydiaupendo8260 9 місяців тому

      ​@@faithogari3949hata Mimi simuhurumii,anavuna alichopanda,nasimamia na mwanamke mwenzangu kwani Iko nn

    • @user-fz3dg2fr6bl
      @user-fz3dg2fr6bl 9 місяців тому +3

      It's tit for tat

    • @biancaR678
      @biancaR678 9 місяців тому +4

      Me am Soo happy for these woman.I understand where you coming from, enjoy girl and give your kids the best

    • @edinahopati7914
      @edinahopati7914 9 місяців тому

      ​@@faithogari3949 hakuna huruma kabisaa ajue kuman up

  • @owenomwanawayesu6961
    @owenomwanawayesu6961 9 місяців тому +1

    She’s said it well…what goes around comes around’’you have it but not even diamonds are forever woman’.

  • @rodgerswaswa2271
    @rodgerswaswa2271 9 місяців тому +22

    After 4 years stano bring back this woman on set, tunaielewa life

    • @joyceshapil3668
      @joyceshapil3668 9 місяців тому +1

      Stevo😂😂😂😂not stano

    • @babramairura3540
      @babramairura3540 9 місяців тому

      Ati stano 😂😂ni stevo

    • @phyllimusau6742
      @phyllimusau6742 9 місяців тому +1

      Tumerogwa na stano

    • @rachelphoebh4480
      @rachelphoebh4480 9 місяців тому +1

      Atakua ameomoka sana...she's focused

    • @TinTan-yl7qk
      @TinTan-yl7qk 9 місяців тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌FROM STANO TO STEVO ,FROM STEVO TO STANO THATS ME AM ADDICTED TO BOTH OF THEM 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

  • @antonykamutu1402
    @antonykamutu1402 9 місяців тому +8

    A DAD has the blessings of children, this lady will regret in future

  • @maryoswero6086
    @maryoswero6086 9 місяців тому +3

    I will always support the woman

  • @eunicekamene816
    @eunicekamene816 9 місяців тому +2

    But madam boss by the look i can tell umepatwa offgurd you was not expecting kuachwa 😂😂 ujue sasa all bills umeachwa na Dr hatakuja kukulipia your bills and am sure ako na wife BMS tuletee bibi ya Doc😅😅

  • @peterochieng-bd7pt
    @peterochieng-bd7pt 9 місяців тому +10

    Mwanamke akipata pesa zaidi ya mmewe,ataanza madharau obviously.

  • @mercykaranja5925
    @mercykaranja5925 9 місяців тому +1

    Yah I support you my brother..go go start all over, huyu hajui anachokifanya.

  • @margaretjepkoech4843
    @margaretjepkoech4843 9 місяців тому +11

    I was a house wife too, my husband didn't treat me well...i now have a well paying job. But i choose to keep my family, im so happy my kids too and my hubby

    • @ireneihuthia5294
      @ireneihuthia5294 9 місяців тому +1

      Akh she will one day regret she will need this man one day and it will be too late,,,,asijipige kifua

    • @elvistanui97
      @elvistanui97 9 місяців тому +1

      Bravo, wetu hawatuwaji but ensure she brought peace 😅👏👏👏

    • @Lampardo_martinho
      @Lampardo_martinho 9 місяців тому

      Kweli.. usilipishe ubaya kwa ubaya.... Lipisha ubaya kwa uzuri❤

  • @SheeMammy
    @SheeMammy 9 місяців тому +1

    This guys should just sit down and have a serious talk waeke kiburi kando,,,this woman is the one with the power to build and destroy her home,,,mammy aki think twice before it's too late

  • @Chrissy14
    @Chrissy14 9 місяців тому +3

    Couples should learn to handle their misunderstandings and not involve the kids.Kids should remain innocent and never feel or see the bad side of either one of the parent so that respect stands.They need blessings from both sides.

  • @hkay980
    @hkay980 9 місяців тому +1

    Let go brother..she is too vengeful & bossy to even love her.

  • @karreyhzuriah651
    @karreyhzuriah651 9 місяців тому +87

    I had blamed this lady. I am taking the blame back. She struggled, and made a decision not to experience the torture for the rest of her life. She went back to school. Us women don't have breaks when it comes to parenting. It's so overwhelming and draining

    • @JM-dt7ul
      @JM-dt7ul 9 місяців тому +6

      That was a good decision on her part. But were her reasons good? Was the education supposed to enhance her role as the woman of the house or provide an avenue for her to execute her revenge? From her explanation, it seems the man was wrong on multiple cases, kwanza to the point he let his friends think his wife is the house help. That is wrong. But, her doing the same thing he is accusing his husband of doing is also wrong. In most cases, doing things just because you can is not okay.

    • @paulkaranja9257
      @paulkaranja9257 9 місяців тому +11

      She still slept with another man, how does a mother explain that to her children, now that it's on the internet?

    • @gitongahouse3245
      @gitongahouse3245 9 місяців тому +1

      she just slept with the doctor, she needs to explain nothing all that she is doing ni reverse psychology

    • @ericmwaki1056
      @ericmwaki1056 9 місяців тому +5

      But it's the hubby who gave her 50k to enroll, he also transformed her family by also finding the sisiter a job. All in all the man may be impeferct but the lady is so arrogant and unwise. Poisoning the children against their father is like placing a curse upon them. A wise woman will not let the kids into their marital issues. The man has taken the best decision ever before things could get out of hand.

    • @gitongahouse3245
      @gitongahouse3245 9 місяців тому +3

      @@ericmwaki1056 in this world bro, everyone count only wrongs no one counts the rights and good things you did to them

  • @user-gz2bs7fj7y
    @user-gz2bs7fj7y 9 місяців тому +2

    Go girl i understand you perfectly,I've been there too, begging my husband even food for kids and he could ask me if he's an atm card😭

  • @lydiaupendo8260
    @lydiaupendo8260 9 місяців тому +31

    Pesa huisha bro,you treated your wife like trash when you had money,,vuna ulichopanda polepole😂😂,,,i still support the woman

    • @digitaltechnics4236
      @digitaltechnics4236 9 місяців тому

      Also advise the Lady KAZI NA PESA HUISHA the wife now treats the man like trash

    • @lydiaupendo8260
      @lydiaupendo8260 9 місяців тому

      @@digitaltechnics4236 yes but he started it,wife anamalizia

    • @conniekerubo8325
      @conniekerubo8325 9 місяців тому

      But watoto ndio wataumia baadaye juu shahii hakuna mwanaume atakulelea watoto wako ukiangalia single mum vile wanalia huyu kijana atapata mwanamme vizuri sana na waashe maisha

    • @lydiaupendo8260
      @lydiaupendo8260 9 місяців тому

      @@conniekerubo8325 it's true Kuna single moms wanateseka sana,but huyu amejiweza,n sometimes peace of mind is better than anything else

  • @Matarian1231
    @Matarian1231 9 місяців тому +2

    Treat people the way you'll want them to treat you when tables turn.
    That's just the law

  • @successalele6328
    @successalele6328 9 місяців тому +3

    Bro this is s lesson but dont look back there is no respect anymore ego and pride has take over no more love forgive forget move on ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @paulwaweru5489
    @paulwaweru5489 9 місяців тому +1

    I wish u all the best bro look for a lady who will respect u

  • @antonynganga7868
    @antonynganga7868 9 місяців тому +7

    I think that Guy has played smart,the Lady didn't expect it,he hit her straight ady akanyamaza,almost asking him not to leave.

  • @kelvinmwanzia5857
    @kelvinmwanzia5857 9 місяців тому +1

    It's very rare for me to comment in this platform but i can tell this man to run as far as you can...hauna bibi hapa,.free advice

  • @rodgerswaswa2271
    @rodgerswaswa2271 9 місяців тому +24

    Van someone tell this woman that money is not everything, and those with money can't say they have money, things can change

    • @Lilianmuriithi-nx3pv
      @Lilianmuriithi-nx3pv 9 місяців тому +4

      Tell that to the hubby who planted the seed of despice

    • @agnesmueni655
      @agnesmueni655 9 місяців тому +2

      Na kuandikwa sio kuzaliwa...

    • @user-ns3dg7lk2o
      @user-ns3dg7lk2o 9 місяців тому +1

      Tell that to the man he started the game

    • @rodgerswaswa2271
      @rodgerswaswa2271 9 місяців тому

      @@user-ns3dg7lk2o you just can't start mistreating a woman for nothing,

    • @kasainehassan9641
      @kasainehassan9641 9 місяців тому +1

      The guy is serving his sentence but hers is cooking

  • @creativelife254
    @creativelife254 9 місяців тому +2

    In all this revenge and justification the children will really suffer but they know better.

  • @johnyjoe2894
    @johnyjoe2894 9 місяців тому +14

    The only thing keeping many women in marriage is poverty......wakipata pesa wanasonga mbio mbio

    • @rachelphoebh4480
      @rachelphoebh4480 9 місяців тому

      Depends with how u treat someone wen u didn't have...again marrying your best friend

  • @estherb4826
    @estherb4826 9 місяців тому +2

    All in all mummy don't forget your kids blessings are with their father.

    • @rachelphoebh4480
      @rachelphoebh4480 9 місяців тому

      Which blessings ? Which father's who have no time with their kids...God gives blessings

    • @estherb4826
      @estherb4826 9 місяців тому

      The only commandment with a promise.

  • @gregkipkirui2331
    @gregkipkirui2331 9 місяців тому +3

    Rule number 1 never be too quick to help your inlaws. They are not your family.

  • @martinmurimi1116
    @martinmurimi1116 9 місяців тому +2

    Women even if you are a trillionaire and the father of your kids is a farmer in the village, never show them to disrespect him.He is the only one who can bless them

    • @benterowuor3427
      @benterowuor3427 9 місяців тому

      I wish the hubby would have supported her at least and shown some respect

    • @EveIvy-y1q
      @EveIvy-y1q 9 місяців тому

      Ati the only one who can bless them?
      Is God a joke to you?

  • @Mama-A
    @Mama-A 9 місяців тому +94

    When...tables turn...I hope they can eat what they served you when u were hungry

  • @BridgohKerry
    @BridgohKerry 9 місяців тому +1

    I wish i could be this quit when my partner talks 🤣🤣...siezi nyamanza manze😢.. I'll have to learn from this couple 😊

  • @gilbertomariba932
    @gilbertomariba932 9 місяців тому +4

    Why do some people marry?? This woman is a well destroying the life of the kids. We need forgiveness

  • @tabithandekere905
    @tabithandekere905 9 місяців тому

    Congrats mamaa for empowering yourself,much love❤

  • @charlesongoro4811
    @charlesongoro4811 9 місяців тому +12

    I've heard both sides.I can't judge anybody. May God guides you as a family

  • @cess6264
    @cess6264 9 місяців тому +2

    Going through almost a similar situation, he is supporting me financially but he is not there emotionally, i have been calling him n he can just hang up or just ignore me.. for him is just paying bills n nothing else he doesn't care about our feelings/emotions, i am empowering myself in silence.. i will leave him at some point

  • @Emily-xk4jc
    @Emily-xk4jc 9 місяців тому +7

    Mwanamke usipogogwa na Gari utangogwa na ukimwi😢

    • @dorcasdishon8043
      @dorcasdishon8043 9 місяців тому

      😂😂

    • @wyne8069
      @wyne8069 9 місяців тому

      Shindwe

    • @franciswanjie7042
      @franciswanjie7042 9 місяців тому

      Truth always hearts. Dr. Maende who's probably married is about to get a taste of his own karma.

  • @anthonymichweya5800
    @anthonymichweya5800 9 місяців тому +2

    Money doesn't change a person it shoes the true person

  • @selinamusita4450
    @selinamusita4450 9 місяців тому +5

    My question is, why do people walk together pretending to be okay 😢

  • @deborahsusan136
    @deborahsusan136 9 місяців тому +1

    What i know is that if a lady is tired of you no amout of talking will change her. This has gine down. Big man you really help. Folks to speak out

  • @shakazulu4802
    @shakazulu4802 9 місяців тому +74

    Bro, never regret her denying you conjugal rights for 6 months. It is believed you might have been protected from something far worse than your imagination.

    • @thevictoriknow
      @thevictoriknow 9 місяців тому +3

      Excellent-this is the comment i was looking out for

    • @moureenkinyeki7880
      @moureenkinyeki7880 9 місяців тому +3

      When a woman has disconnected herself even sex hutapata it has nothing to do with protection...sex for women is emotional men is physical

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 9 місяців тому

      And he was also denying her the same when she was a houselife, he was actually treating her like trash! This is a revenge game I believe

    • @owenomwanawayesu6961
      @owenomwanawayesu6961 9 місяців тому

      @@moureenkinyeki7880sex is spiritual….

    • @owenomwanawayesu6961
      @owenomwanawayesu6961 9 місяців тому +2

      @@bellaolum9768Two wrongs don’t make a right!

  • @samalvis4141
    @samalvis4141 9 місяців тому +2

    Thats a real man

  • @BETHWANJIRU-ut6ld
    @BETHWANJIRU-ut6ld 9 місяців тому +10

    This woman has encouraged me personally I also believe my time is coming

    • @Vikeke17
      @Vikeke17 9 місяців тому +1

      Is coming as single mom and mpango wakando kwa wababaz

    • @BETHWANJIRU-ut6ld
      @BETHWANJIRU-ut6ld 9 місяців тому

      That point of being a nobody and then being a somebody

  • @marylinebarasa1764
    @marylinebarasa1764 9 місяців тому +1

    Siste kumbuka hili alie kupandisha anaweza kushusha bro may God open doors for you na akupe mwanamke AmBAR atakuelewa

  • @mightythug213
    @mightythug213 9 місяців тому +8

    Women should understand that after they have a family, their market value depreciates
    The doctor will never marry her.
    She should humble herself.
    Money comes and goes.
    Life is a long long journey.
    She has a long way to go.
    Best decision for this man.

    • @HecProman
      @HecProman 9 місяців тому

      Safi Mkuu 😂😂😂

  • @Frank_Musa
    @Frank_Musa 8 місяців тому

    The reason he didn't want you to get learned has become a reality before his eyes.