Because most people aren't really your friend. Most people will act like your friend or act pleasant as a part of their public facade to look and feel good about themselves. I have no time for awkward small-talk. I go to work to work, make money, and go home.
I like that ! I actually had bumper stickers made that read...Got Integrity ? Finally...a label that fits me...Sigma Male, translation...a man with integrity. Thank you Sesna.
"The aim of the wise is not to secure pleasure, but to avoid pain." - Aristotle "He who is unable to live in society, or who has no need because he is sufficient for himself, must be either a beast or a god" - Also Aristotle "In solitude, be a multitude to thyself" - Tibullus I always recommend reading the old thinkers from antiquity. The endless source of wisdom beats any meaningless blathering with people who's minds are consumed by societal BS.
@@johndoe480 Sometimes it is refilling the battery, to be able to spend time with someone who is only temporarily draining. Other times, it is cutting contact with another who only harms you, intentionally or not. Experience teaches which is which.
A sigma consistently values order, harmony, reason, personal space, and peace, in a society that is often loud, exploitative, ego driven and lacking emotional restraint.
I'm just glad to finally get a name. For something I have been struggling with, for 50 years. Thanks to all of you, who made this video. I hope this video will reach out to others like me. It feels good to finally breathe. Thanks again guys
Able to breath.... now you have a label that has been assigned to you? Appears to me that most of the qualities described in these presentations are simply men with an above average EQ.
What??? It feels good to be put in a box with label on it?? How odd. I'm me. If people don't like it... Tough shit. I'm certainly not looking for a label or a box.
I’ve been called a ‘loner’ all of my life, like it was a bad thing. I never knew what being a ‘stoic’ or a ‘sigma’ until much later in life and began to study more about psychology and learned more about myself along the way. I prefer to be alone in a dimly lit room with a book to read or a watch to tinker with over a loud, bright area with social interactions and stimulus overload. I have always been happy in my own company and very few ever make it to my inner sanctum beyond what I allow the outside world to see about my life. If someone crosses a boundary I go zero contact and don’t give in to drama or guilt.
You nailed it with that last sentence. It’s such a simple; but life changing tool in the value it has. We are wired to feel obligated to reciprocate and be genial no matter what, but once you figure out that nobody anywhere for any reason has the right to take away your peace, all you have to do is disengage and mean it. I think the concept is too frightening to implement for most people, but it works so well if you fully embrace it.
Tell your children and grand children you are never going to respect them, till they prove that they have earned it! Respect when given even in the face of disrespect, or ignorance of how to behave like a normal well rounded person is the very thing that teaches others that respect is one of the greatest super powers a person can have, it shows integrity and a strong scene of self worth that quietly demands mutual respect, this is what builds relationships with friends or family.
I've worked hard for 33 years (now 48) to take the time to understand and deal with my emotions through balance. I used to but no longer, because I had no backbone and let everyone walk all over me, drop what I do for anyone and allow anyone with emotional baggage that I've learned to ditch for myself. Does this mean I'm perfect? Heck no, it just means I can't allow another person who is emotionally weak, doesn't work to improve self into my personal circle because they are a threat. A person who has no impulse control on their emotions, often goes to extremes with thinking and has no sense of balance. Balance takes work and I do that work each day, I work hard to maintain myself so I can be there for others. I know mostly dramatics, users, ghosters and manipulators, people can't handle my kindness and compassion they treat me like I'm some one armed bandit they can keep jerking around. No more, I don't have to invite people into my life who are a threat because they don't try to be better people but expect everyone to bow to the BS. I'm not a sigma male, I don't like labels, but I am someone who cares about all life and prays for it every day on this entire earth. I don't care If no one replies to this comment or not I just wanted to share this with others. Peace everyone!
While no one can predict the future,Some can not see what's ahead for lack of knowledge, awareness or emotional courage,sigmas have already seen way ahead and are acutely aware of all possible outcomes and are constantly making steps in all directions to achieve various goals.meditation and determination IS our nature
I can't Stand Gossip !!! I am usually thinking about Something so I haven't got time for people who pretend they are better than me !!! I have no time for Anyone now. My 2 Dogs are my True Friends. Also I am 70 yrs old and my Life is in Order. So I don't want some Big Head telling Me what to do !!!
Same here. After my last relationship ended 13 years ago I didn't really have it in me to try again. The drama people bring disrupts my peace and happiness. I've tried through the years but people are into themselves. I make the most money I have made in my life now, though not wealthy I am above the average. Im looking at buying land, hopefully with an old farm house I can restore and become self sufficient so I don't have to work for anyone else again. Just me and my dogs on my land doing what I love to do. I can't wait to get there
Several years ago, at a gathering, a family member told me he wanted to tell me something. But I had to promise to not tell anyone else. I stopped him. I said, If I'm not supposed to tell anyone else, then I don't want to know what it is. He got indignant over that. He couldn't believe it. He was perplexed and didn't know how to handle my response. I completely shut him down. The end.
The reason I ignore people is they're no different from children except that they're bigger which allows them to carry more baggage. I got tired of trying to help people that don't really want my help as a friend but instead just want to complain while I listen. I have my wife of 17 years, two boys and a small collection of friends. Everything else is just static. If you really want a happy life, ignore the static.
I expect nothing from anyone. I return what others give me first. I know perfection is subjective. I seek a woman to be my partner, not my next problem. I don't say any of this lightly. I pray for a day we all seek peace.
Totally agree with you! I started doing what is called a mud check early in life and family will back stab you just as fast as friends! Set a course to stay independent and they can't touch you!
@@AlexLR The potential outcome of any given situation must be weighed between the pro's and con's...the objective is defined by a favorable decision, which usually are outweighed by the consequences
Ghosting/ Blocking-out All Negativity from Any/ALL mediums via ear-bugs and unplugged/silenced electronics including phones = essential survival / thriving tactics...
I don't care about being sigma, alpha, beta, jetta, gamma, foxtrot or any other group. I don't have to be in a group. I'm not "us vs. them." I don't like to identify with anyone. I am who I am and I pursue my professional and hobby projects and I simply don't have time for people, unless there is an obvious moment to help and in return I just want to... return home.
This describes me perfectly. I have 2 close friends and much prefer to be alone and do not like any drama in my life. I had 2 co-workers get married this summer and was not invited to either wedding. Did not have to buy a gift or go and interact with people i did not want to be around. I hike alone and golf when I want to. I will take the quiet peaceful lifestyle.
People have let me down . I used to trust them and believe they had my back. Not so much anymore. Women have tought me lessons . Believe in the power of one . Once again into the fray
Duh... of course I agree 😂😂😂😂... Been slammed so behind several videos.... my Sigma brthas... but I'm Back baby... THIS WORLD so freaking nuts... WE ARE needed... more than Ever... 😢
Absolutely spot on, describes me to a tee!!! Also its good to know there are many people out there who feel the same!! Spent years trying to accept myself but now at the age of 50 I've realised I am ok and not an oddball!!! Not giving a shit what people think is a big plus!!!
Hello, Ive been watching hunderds of vids on sigma, but yours are truly to the point. Several of the points you made are spot-on, keep them coming ;-) met vriendelijke groeten : John from the Netherlands
I definitely agree with a lot of the points although I also think there’s many variables that affect a few points as well when you consider people dealing with things like personality disorders, chemical imbalances, medications, depression and anxiety etc.
Best _Sigma Male_ vid yet! Quickly and emphatically gets to the main points of how sigmas deal with betrayal, narcissists in the workplace, and rudeness at social gatherings. Just walk away! Best revenge, and it gets their attention.
Never suffer fools, never show emotion, never loose a stare and never loose your temper. If only it was that easy, at times, it is hard not to respond.
All these sigma male videos really resonate with me. I never thought of myself as an alpha or a beta. Almost every point made in these videos are 100% how I think and feel. These points also sound like aspects of autism but like autism lite.
Ignoring someone is one thing. But once ignored by a Sigma, that person is never coming back into his life. That door is forever shut, never to be opened again.
This kind of freaked me out because it resonated with me in almost every aspect of my life. I’d like to clarify that we aren’t antisocial. We just prefer our social circles to be free of conflict.
YES...!!! PEACE (as in peace & quiet) Self Determination in our daily lives, and a LACK Of Constant Demands from 'Transactional Relationships' and and "Entitled" Users... 😊👍 -70SomethingSigmaGuy
I was told a few times as a child that everyone else is a figment of my imagination. NPCs in my Life Story. I don't communicate with NPCs. Except vendors.
@@sgtcaco these people are so corny, like the comment above this one "I totally agree, I’m too valuable to waste my energy & time!!!" too valuable? really? they sound just as bad as the women that say "i know my worth".
@@anotherland2462 yep. You are spot on. People with real integrity don’t talk, it’s their actions that speak. They are true role models. Not enough guys are smart enough to realise this.
Remarkable how rare a sigma male is suppose to be yet a lot of men seem to identify themselves as sigma males. A lion doesn't have to convince an antelope that it's a lion. A true sigma male wouldn't refer himself to be a sigma male or try to convince others that he is one. He just is.
This was enlightening. I thought I was gifted to be able to be on my own and not feel lonely. I thrive by myself. I don't like drama. It's ok to have an opinion, just don't try to change mine. I have a lot of friends, and I think its because I'm straight up, I speak my mind, but I speak truth, I don't BS. I'm playful, but ill let you know when its going too far. I don't know if I'm Sigma, but I am something.
This is so accurate as to how I have been my entire life. Learn something new everyday, it's only when you think your done learning that you become the most arrogant in life
I'm 40 yo, it is 100 percent about me, even if I never knew about this term (sigma). i call myself a looser and I'm pretty sure 90 percent of population call me that too. no need making being a looser a good trait.
indeed bro we may be losers in the eyes of the most people but we dont really care about what people say about us as long as we are at peace with ourselves!
I would consider myself a sigma personality. I don’t think I’m better than anybody else, but I also don’t need anything from anyone else to enrich my life, so I don’t really interact with anyone except when absolutely necessary. People often misinterpret this as arrogance, in my experience.
Video came out on my feed but so glad it did, it describes me to a tee, a lot of the time I don’t want to interact with others, especially at work and especially women who I basically ignore, 51 years old so more than used to being disrespected by the opposite sex so I cut them out of my life completely, they are mostly just materialistic and superficial now and not worth my time. I have friends, good friends who like me are honest genuine people. I spend a lot of my time in thought, constantly working on some plan or strategy, I have never felt alone even though I have pretty much spent my whole life alone.
I've lost track of the number of people who have charged me with each of these 'offences'. One thing I get a lot of, when I try to show someone something... 'Am I going to know what I'm looking at? Because when you talk, most of us don't know what you're talking about.'
as sigma male myself i tend to disappear a lot, i usually ignore people and mind my own business especially when im working because i value my time,peace and quiet.
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Wait are u a sigma male
Is there a correlation between sigmas and those with Aspergers?
We ignore people cause what makes them interesting?
Very good points!!! Well done!!!
Some of us value (demand) a drama free life.
Some of us are just massive autists
Amen to that. Top of my list.
There are ways to get it over with wrather than to just “ignore”. Have integrity and don’t be a pussy or you’ll get seen right through. 💯
that sounds very passive agressive
We ignore people because they are damned annoying
Lol. True
We see through the bull 💩 that comes with 99.9% of the human population. No time
We jus get a vibe and we have to protect ourselves tho!
and stupid
I’ve been driving a London taxi at night for thirty years, and I agree 😂
Because most people aren't really your friend. Most people will act like your friend or act pleasant as a part of their public facade to look and feel good about themselves. I have no time for awkward small-talk. I go to work to work, make money, and go home.
spoken out of my soul, sadly small talk skills seems to be required a lot in very different professions.
................and don't forget, you don't need a union to tell you how to vote, or what you need out of life!
Bingo!
well at least you talk to us on youtube, just please don,t look at me
I had two friends in my life, and the rest were nothing but convenient acquaintances. Both my friends are gone from this world.
I find that almost everyone I encounter is shallow and superficial. Especially todays woman...
True, not many honest nice friendly people left in the world there a rare species.
100% right!!!!!!
I completely agree with you
It is all about them!!
Sigma is another word for integrity!
I like that ! I actually had bumper stickers made that read...Got Integrity ? Finally...a label that fits me...Sigma Male, translation...a man with integrity. Thank you Sesna.
Amazing perspective, thank you
According to your definition of a sigma male, I am one. "I don't hate people, I just like it better when they're not around"- Charles Bukowski.
@TonyRedunzo
I enjoyed his novels and short stories. RIP skid row Hemingway.
"The aim of the wise is not to secure pleasure, but to avoid pain." - Aristotle
"He who is unable to live in society, or who has no need because he is sufficient for himself, must be either a beast or a god" - Also Aristotle
"In solitude, be a multitude to thyself" - Tibullus
I always recommend reading the old thinkers from antiquity. The endless source of wisdom beats any meaningless blathering with people who's minds are consumed by societal BS.
I agree
@@Tyrfingr Television has been our ruin.
@@hadmatter9240 That and those even more hellish cellphones.
Number 2
It is less about being actually alone and more about being away from people who are draining to see, to say the least.
Agreed not just that also people with no value,low iq,and just bad people with no goals
Battery
Aww 2w2w2q1 lol 3e look@@johndoe480
@@johndoe480 Sometimes it is refilling the battery, to be able to spend time with someone who is only temporarily draining. Other times, it is cutting contact with another who only harms you, intentionally or not. Experience teaches which is which.
@@johndoe480 always drained around others
Ghosting and silence my favorite
That is me... I'm a perfectionist in silencing/ ghosting anyone who gets on my nerves
Amen, specially when your "friend" don’t ask you but tell you and don’t take a no for an answer.
Yep. I can spend years proving my point and not miss out on a single thing.
We ignore most people, because most people aren't worth wasting a breath on them..
A sigma male with empathy and compassion is lethal. We issue karma all day long.
Agreed
A simga is just a healthy developed man.
exactly
im not special but sort of am because im not dumbed dumb, sick, or weak
100%, correct
An INTJ
Not many of those in society nowadays.
So is a Sigma
A sigma consistently values order, harmony, reason, personal space, and peace, in a society that is often loud, exploitative, ego driven and lacking emotional restraint.
Fantastic comment that should be all over the internet
Sigma is the man that uses the brain, doesn’t care about tik tok or the other things that put them out of their thinking
Crap like Tik Tok and video games are what I consider "Mental Masturbation", and nothing besides.
Most men used to be like this until social media pussified everybody.
They’ll ignore but cry out for attention as grown men with no sense of true integrity.
I don’t need a title, I take pride being humble, honest, sarcastic, animal loving, get sweaty and dirty do it myself guy. It got me a good life.
Exactly brother, I do the same thing but yet I get called an asshole all the time!
"It got me a good life"... ditto. Although, some will not know what you mean by a "good life".
Amen
Definitely. That's how I feel about life too. 😎
As the late, great Wayne Dyer, said, once you label me, you negate me, we are far more than the "arbitrary" terms others cook up.
I thought I had some personal quirks that needed fixing. I gave up and let me be me.
I prefer being alone, I need to be alone,
People make living on earth way worse than it has to be. Ignoring them solves most problems.
We observe the world .
This comment hits the mark👍
In growing disgust, but we don't scream it from the rooftops.
@@bakkerem1967 You got that right !!
Exactly 👍
I'm just glad to finally get a name. For something I have been struggling with, for 50 years. Thanks to all of you, who made this video. I hope this video will reach out to others like me. It feels good to finally breathe. Thanks again guys
👑
Able to breath.... now you have a label that has been assigned to you?
Appears to me that most of the qualities described in these presentations are simply men with an above average EQ.
All will be fine . Just be happy 👍
As the late, great Wayne Dyer said, once you label me, you negate me, we are far more than the "arbitrary" terms others cook up.
What???
It feels good to be put in a box with label on it??
How odd.
I'm me. If people don't like it... Tough shit. I'm certainly not looking for a label or a box.
Because we know ''PEOPLE SUCK!''
I can go days and weeks without people around . I was wondering why I’m like this ? I’m totally fine doing my own thing all day every day .
Most people thought I was standoffish and selfish. Now I know I'm a Sigma !
They think you are selfish because you don't let them suck the life out of you, they are narcissists.
@@Dennisrader-ff9gv lol
@@Dennisrader-ff9gv true
I like people watching, from a distance.
I’ve been called a ‘loner’ all of my life, like it was a bad thing. I never knew what being a ‘stoic’ or a ‘sigma’ until much later in life and began to study more about psychology and learned more about myself along the way. I prefer to be alone in a dimly lit room with a book to read or a watch to tinker with over a loud, bright area with social interactions and stimulus overload. I have always been happy in my own company and very few ever make it to my inner sanctum beyond what I allow the outside world to see about my life. If someone crosses a boundary I go zero contact and don’t give in to drama or guilt.
You nailed it with that last sentence.
It’s such a simple; but life changing tool in the value it has.
We are wired to feel obligated to reciprocate and be genial no matter what, but once you figure out that nobody anywhere for any reason has the right to take away your peace, all you have to do is disengage and mean it.
I think the concept is too frightening to implement for most people, but it works so well if you fully embrace it.
I say "fuck em".
If you burn your bridge...I won't acknowledge your existance...I've been that way, forever
Respect is earned.
Tell your children and grand children you are never going to respect them, till they prove that they have earned it! Respect when given even in the face of disrespect, or ignorance of how to behave like a normal well rounded person is the very thing that teaches others that respect is one of the greatest super powers a person can have, it shows integrity and a strong scene of self worth that quietly demands mutual respect, this is what builds relationships with friends or family.
Wrong! Respect should be freely given until proven unwarranted.
I've worked hard for 33 years (now 48) to take the time to understand and deal with my emotions through balance. I used to but no longer, because I had no backbone and let everyone walk all over me, drop what I do for anyone and allow anyone with emotional baggage that I've learned to ditch for myself. Does this mean I'm perfect? Heck no, it just means I can't allow another person who is emotionally weak, doesn't work to improve self into my personal circle because they are a threat. A person who has no impulse control on their emotions, often goes to extremes with thinking and has no sense of balance. Balance takes work and I do that work each day, I work hard to maintain myself so I can be there for others. I know mostly dramatics, users, ghosters and manipulators, people can't handle my kindness and compassion they treat me like I'm some one armed bandit they can keep jerking around. No more, I don't have to invite people into my life who are a threat because they don't try to be better people but expect everyone to bow to the BS. I'm not a sigma male, I don't like labels, but I am someone who cares about all life and prays for it every day on this entire earth. I don't care If no one replies to this comment or not I just wanted to share this with others. Peace everyone!
😂
While no one can predict the future,Some can not see what's ahead for lack of knowledge, awareness or emotional courage,sigmas have already seen way ahead and are acutely aware of all possible outcomes and are constantly making steps in all directions to achieve various goals.meditation and determination IS our nature
Praise Jesus Christ! HALLELUJAH AND AMEN!!!
I can't Stand Gossip !!! I am usually thinking about Something so I haven't got time for people who pretend they are better than me !!! I have no time for Anyone now. My 2 Dogs are my True Friends. Also I am 70 yrs old and my Life is in Order. So I don't want some Big Head telling Me what to do !!!
So can I. Don’t like people being gossip. Talking about us Sigma
Good for you. Too much narcissistic ego out there
Same here. After my last relationship ended 13 years ago I didn't really have it in me to try again. The drama people bring disrupts my peace and happiness. I've tried through the years but people are into themselves. I make the most money I have made in my life now, though not wealthy I am above the average. Im looking at buying land, hopefully with an old farm house I can restore and become self sufficient so I don't have to work for anyone else again. Just me and my dogs on my land doing what I love to do. I can't wait to get there
Several years ago, at a gathering, a family member told me he wanted to tell me something. But I had to promise to not tell anyone else. I stopped him. I said, If I'm not supposed to tell anyone else, then I don't want to know what it is. He got indignant over that. He couldn't believe it. He was perplexed and didn't know how to handle my response. I completely shut him down. The end.
The reason I ignore people is they're no different from children except that they're bigger which allows them to carry more baggage. I got tired of trying to help people that don't really want my help as a friend but instead just want to complain while I listen. I have my wife of 17 years, two boys and a small collection of friends. Everything else is just static. If you really want a happy life, ignore the static.
I expect nothing from anyone.
I return what others give me first.
I know perfection is subjective.
I seek a woman to be my partner, not my next problem.
I don't say any of this lightly.
I pray for a day we all seek peace.
A woman like this doesn’t exist.
I wish you well on your search though.
Peace and women are incompatible.
Don't have the energy to be around negativety it's anxiety and stressful being around people like that
It's gone so far that i strongly consider the cabin in the woods solution, with neighbors preferably being miles away.
I live in the woods by myself.
It’s the most quiet, peaceful existence you will ever know.
You won’t ever go back.
Most so-called friends, will betray you in the end. Better keep clear and keep distance! They also talk too much!
Totally agree with you!
I started doing what is called a mud check early in life and family will back stab you just as fast as friends!
Set a course to stay independent and they can't touch you!
Exactly
I've only had one friend who were the exact opposite who sadly passed away. The worst loss i ever felt.
@@Tyrfingr Yes, that hurts. I know. 👃
Most people are a liability, and a waste of time. Great video!
I am a Sigma and rule number 1 is don't waste time on unproductive or unfruitful activities.
Rules are for those who can't operate without guidance.
@@AndreAndre-yd5gw
Or can't think constructively for themselves
unproductive leisure time i just as important as being productive.
Sounds like something said by an egocentric person.
@@AlexLR
The potential outcome of any given situation must be weighed between the pro's and con's...the objective is defined by a favorable decision, which usually are outweighed by the consequences
NO WOMEN NO CRY
🔥 🔥 🔥
NO WOMEN NO CRY
Ghosting/ Blocking-out All Negativity from Any/ALL mediums via ear-bugs and unplugged/silenced electronics including phones = essential survival / thriving tactics...
I Concur...Why deal with the Unnecessary Drama...They'll Just Step Away from all the Nonsense.💯👍
finally,... its only taken me until now to realise I am not alone and am quite ok being this way... honestly had never heard of this term before..
yes bro same here.. it feels so good (heart warming) to read all these comments of like minded people around the world :D Peace
Yes I agree, it can be hard for sigmas in a shallow ego driven society!
Not can be, IS!
KEY... Be - VERY - Selective about Which People WE ALLOW to enter OUR Space
- And - How long WE ALLOW them to continue to interact with us. 🙂👍
Excellent video my friend thanks. Right on time as always 💯
Thank you! 👑
I agree with this. If anyone no matter how long the friendship if they mess with my purpose or path I simply disconnect
I don't care about being sigma, alpha, beta, jetta, gamma, foxtrot or any other group. I don't have to be in a group. I'm not "us vs. them." I don't like to identify with anyone. I am who I am and I pursue my professional and hobby projects and I simply don't have time for people, unless there is an obvious moment to help and in return I just want to... return home.
This describes me perfectly. I have 2 close friends and much prefer to be alone and do not like any drama in my life. I had 2 co-workers get married this summer and was not invited to either wedding. Did not have to buy a gift or go and interact with people i did not want to be around. I hike alone and golf when I want to. I will take the quiet peaceful lifestyle.
I totally agree, I’m too valuable to waste my energy & time!!!
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How are you valuable?
It really hurts people's ego when you cold-shoulder them especially those who are attractive. they will get very upset with you.
It's true silence is golden. Most folks just don't understand even we don't talk it's time to listen. If that makes sense
It's not easy being a sigma especially in these times we live in but I believe in the end sigmas will be the victors 😊
People have let me down . I used to trust them and believe they had my back. Not so much anymore. Women have tought me lessons . Believe in the power of one . Once again into the fray
Duh... of course I agree 😂😂😂😂... Been slammed so behind several videos.... my Sigma brthas... but I'm Back baby... THIS WORLD so freaking nuts... WE ARE needed... more than Ever... 😢
Absolutely spot on, describes me to a tee!!! Also its good to know there are many people out there who feel the same!! Spent years trying to accept myself but now at the age of 50 I've realised I am ok and not an oddball!!! Not giving a shit what people think is a big plus!!!
Hello, Ive been watching hunderds of vids on sigma, but yours are truly to the point. Several of the points you made are spot-on, keep them coming ;-) met vriendelijke groeten : John from the Netherlands
Thank you! Will do! :) 👑
Dealing with Others: Silence & Circumspection. Stay wary.
At 70 I've been alone most of my life and I like it I don't let people in easily
time alone is essential, you don't want to be talked at all the time.
I just like doing it myself. To have someone help me is nice but costs me my time to show them what to do.
I definitely agree with a lot of the points although I also think there’s many variables that affect a few points as well when you consider people dealing with things like personality disorders, chemical imbalances, medications, depression and anxiety etc.
Best _Sigma Male_ vid yet! Quickly and emphatically gets to the main points of how sigmas deal with betrayal, narcissists in the workplace, and rudeness at social gatherings. Just walk away! Best revenge, and it gets their attention.
Generally the world pushed you away first. Then acts shocked when you push it away back.
😂right
Great! I agree with all said behaviors. Thank u.
Never suffer fools, never show emotion, never loose a stare and never loose your temper.
If only it was that easy, at times, it is hard not to respond.
Sigma outsmarts Alpha and ignores Beta.
Ignoring people makes you an alpha because it shows that we don't care what people think about us. Also, people are exhausting.
All these sigma male videos really resonate with me. I never thought of myself as an alpha or a beta. Almost every point made in these videos are 100% how I think and feel. These points also sound like aspects of autism but like autism lite.
I think a sigma is just old school, every grandpa I know are sigmas, today’s world has create shallow monsters that have never been taught the basics.
Exactly, we ignore those who were incapable to understand things rationally.
Ignoring someone is one thing. But once ignored by a Sigma, that person is never coming back into his life. That door is forever shut, never to be opened again.
Perfect. I knew that I wasn’t like everyone else but I never had a name for it. Every single word is like my life’s story.
I think this mindset comes mainly from having a high level of perception in the first place and how you process all that information.
We read, we learn, we have peace. Some people dosent understand that.
A lot of "alphas" like coaches or youth leaders are just tryhards
This kind of freaked me out because it resonated with me in almost every aspect of my life. I’d like to clarify that we aren’t antisocial. We just prefer our social circles to be free of conflict.
YES...!!! PEACE (as in peace & quiet) Self Determination in our daily lives, and a LACK Of Constant Demands from 'Transactional Relationships' and and "Entitled" Users... 😊👍 -70SomethingSigmaGuy
Never had such concise explanation of a sigma male, through and through 100 percent correct
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I was told a few times as a child that everyone else is a figment of my imagination. NPCs in my Life Story. I don't communicate with NPCs. Except vendors.
I have ghosted people who were out of control emotionally shouting, ranting, cursing I walked away reflecting back it was the correct thing to do.
Because most people are simply put a waste of time. My peace of mind is of the utmost importance.
100% agree. I'm a Sigma.
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Bloody true. I’m Sigma. It’s matter of trust and interest
A sigma male would never say that. Lol
You have an ego.
@@sgtcaco these people are so corny, like the comment above this one "I totally agree, I’m too valuable to waste my energy & time!!!" too valuable? really? they sound just as bad as the women that say "i know my worth".
@@anotherland2462 yep. You are spot on. People with real integrity don’t talk, it’s their actions that speak. They are true role models. Not enough guys are smart enough to realise this.
Remarkable how rare a sigma male is suppose to be yet a lot of men seem to identify themselves as sigma males. A lion doesn't have to convince an antelope that it's a lion. A true sigma male wouldn't refer himself to be a sigma male or try to convince others that he is one. He just is.
Exactly, that's why I never watch all these awesome vids
You haven’t tried cocaine then lol
I like the knowledge you shared! I never even heard of a "Sigma Male", but I guess I'm one.
This was enlightening. I thought I was gifted to be able to be on my own and not feel lonely. I thrive by myself. I don't like drama. It's ok to have an opinion, just don't try to change mine. I have a lot of friends, and I think its because I'm straight up, I speak my mind, but I speak truth, I don't BS. I'm playful, but ill let you know when its going too far. I don't know if I'm Sigma, but I am something.
I don't see how people can be around people all the time....its like alot of static.
Everything said about Sigma is spot on. The concept of fundamental loneliness is right. I now better understand myself. Thanks
I'm more of the belief we are fundamentally alone, not fundamentally lonely.
Silence is key to peace. That's the main reason. Wisdom comes from those that enjoy silence the most. Remember this. It works for everyone every where
This is so accurate as to how I have been my entire life. Learn something new everyday, it's only when you think your done learning that you become the most arrogant in life
I'm 40 yo, it is 100 percent about me, even if I never knew about this term (sigma). i call myself a looser and I'm pretty sure 90 percent of population call me that too. no need making being a looser a good trait.
indeed bro we may be losers in the eyes of the most people but we dont really care about what people say about us as long as we are at peace with ourselves!
Experience in my early age turned me into what you would consider a sigma male. No time for games and drama.
This video describes me better than I can describe myself.
Man, you described this perfectly.....
Thank you for your videos. It does a lot to recognize yourself, to see you are not alone. Bless you
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I would consider myself a sigma personality. I don’t think I’m better than anybody else, but I also don’t need anything from anyone else to enrich my life, so I don’t really interact with anyone except when absolutely necessary. People often misinterpret this as arrogance, in my experience.
Video came out on my feed but so glad it did, it describes me to a tee, a lot of the time I don’t want to interact with others, especially at work and especially women who I basically ignore, 51 years old so more than used to being disrespected by the opposite sex so I cut them out of my life completely, they are mostly just materialistic and superficial now and not worth my time.
I have friends, good friends who like me are honest genuine people.
I spend a lot of my time in thought, constantly working on some plan or strategy, I have never felt alone even though I have pretty much spent my whole life alone.
That's me.............good analysis.......truth and courage and directness.......is DNA .....and ignoring someone is super powerful.
Every one of those points are dead on.
I’m old now and watching these I understand I’m completely rational. I knew I was of course, but now I realise I’m not alone.
I've lost track of the number of people who have charged me with each of these 'offences'.
One thing I get a lot of, when I try to show someone something... 'Am I going to know what I'm looking at? Because when you talk, most of us don't know what you're talking about.'
I've gotten that over the years, my normal response is "I refuse to dumb myself down for anyone". It sure pisses off the Alpha males!!!!
as sigma male myself i tend to disappear a lot, i usually ignore people and mind my own business especially when im working because i value my time,peace and quiet.
Wow learning new shit everyday, thanks for bringing this to light, i always thought i was a artist thing, but wow~~~