I tried "Swedish death cleaning" and it worked 😱 (my organizing secret!)
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- Опубліковано 11 січ 2021
- Hey, guys! A couple years ago I made a video where I "Swedish death" cleaned my husband Charlie's closet...and it actually worked! I fell in love with the method--it works with all your possessions, from big to little. Even your sentimental clutter. So come clean and declutter with me. I feel like we could all use that in 2021. My last video on how to organize your home using Dollar Tree products landed on the UA-cam trending page, and so many of you asked in the comments how to declutter and simplify your life to get organized. You said you felt overwhelmed, so I made this honest video about how I Swedish death cleaned my home to declutter and live more minimally. I wouldn't say I'm a minimalist, but living lighter has freed up so much more time to spend with family. Zero regrets! Thank you for letting me be so honest here and for watching!
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Thankyou!! Even though I’m far away half across the world in Australia your videos are amazing and inspire me to have ideas for my house 😁Thankyou for sharing your personal family memories it’s beautiful
Ofcourse you are most welcome
Thank you for letting us know about these donation places. I always donate to goodwill bc it’s easy but last time I went in there they were charging too much for stuff...it just didn’t seem right.
suggestion; you can also give away your beautiful items to someone on your channel, and I wish you lived next to me so I can have you over for some tea and help, hahaha, bless you and your family
Hello, thank you for this video and most of all for the encouragement & inspiration. Praying for God's blessing for you & your family. ♥️ from Australia
I remember hearing about a mom, who after being widowed, realized how much her son missed dad. So she took her husband's favorite suits and had them made into a quilt for her son to take to college with him. She told him that it would like being wrapped up in a warm hug from dad.
I did this for my 3 sons when they graduated high school. I kept certain baby outfits, there little school/bands/sport tshirts thru the years then there senior year had awesome quilts made for there graduation.
Great idea!
I am in the process of making quilts out of my grandma's clothes for my aunt, uncle and cousin. It's such a labor of love!
That’s so sweet!
That is called a Memory Quilt.
I had a hard time parting with my grandmother's china, but it had bounced around our family for years. I finally took it to a friend who runs a local tea room we like to eat at. We got a meal out of it, but even better is seeing it on people's table arounds the tea room and enjoying it. That would have made grandma's heart so happy!
that is so perfect, i think your grandmother would be proud. that is just such a touching story
How sad that not one family member, not one grandchild or great grandchild would want it!! I’d love to have something of my grandmother’s, if even just a cup and saucer
That is so sweeeeet. I hope more people see your comment and donate in a similar way so that the items can be used in an intimate way. Aw.
Very neat idea!
I have my Mom's and Grandmom's china!
I'm going to use those and throw out my junk!
What a beautiful idea!!! I have a lot of tea sets and tea pots I've collected over the years and wondered what to do with them. Thank you for this very nice idea! Perhaps I'll open a tea room business myself. :-)
I appreciate you and the work you do. I was raised by a single parent with clinical depression and was a hoarder. I realized I was continuing the lifestyle. I finally had a wake up call after my mother passed away and purchased my first home. Thank you for being you and being understanding of homes that have clutter. It's not always laziness. Thank you.
I like the fact that you mention how losing so many loved ones is a big reason people collect so much stuff, I can relate, it's like all you have left of them ...it's hard
I have so many things that belonged to loved ones and I don't think I'll ever be able to part with any it.
This one brought out lots of tears. I hold on to too many things and I can feel they are starting to wear me down. Thank you.
"Everything thing you own, owns a part of you." or something to that effect. Those words really got my attention! My things are wearing me down too! FREEDOM 2021!
Sameeeee
I understand, completely. 💜💜💜
Me too!! 😭😭
Me too!
I’ve heard you say “you are enough” countless times. For some reason today I really needed it. Thank you
Hugs🌷
❤️
Exactly the same here
Same here.
Me too! 😊😭
Bawling my eyes out! I recently lost my daughter. This video inspired me to start making a blanket out of her clothing. ❤️
My mother passed away several years ago and one of my daughters had a lady make a teddy bear out of a shirt that mother used to wear she liked it because he had sparkles on it and I keep it where I can see it everyday it's an alternative to a quilt or a blanket I think that is such a thoughtful and loving idea
So, so sorry for your loss.
I'm so sorry for your loss.May she Rest in Heavenly Peace.
Or make a decor pillow from her clothes ~ she would laugh from heaven. So for your loss , you will be re-united
MY CONDOLENCES ON YOUR SADNESS AND LOSS 😥😢💔😢😥... I LOST MY BEAUTIFUL KIND AND SUFFERING NIECE TO SUICIDE 💔💔💔, AND WISHING I HAD SOMETHING OF HER, BUT ONLY PICTURES OF HER GROWING UP , SHE WAS 38 😢😥💔😥😢
My husband died 10 years ago and I have had the hardest time letting go of his thing. Anything, even silly paper he wrote on just because he wrote on it. I have managed to let go of most of it, but I am still working through it. You sharing the story and letter from your great grandmother hit me right in the heart because I know I need to let go. I love the bear idea. I actually have a shirt of his that would make a really cool bear. And I collect bears, so I may go that route. Thank you for sharing :)
my husband dies three years ago and i have just sold the family home that he built 50 yrs ago. So i have downsized into a more manageable space and currently surrounded by boxes of treasures, his tools, the valentine day cards, my dad's war photos. but a pandemic doesn't help when charity shops are overcrowded, and lockdowns prevent us taking stuff out. Also much of the stuff he used for his work is archaic, computers have taken over, so stuff he treasured is probably landfill, as is the mountain of books, because people don't read any more. But i will, as i open boxes, make hard decisions, as i am not going to be doing dinner parties for 12 people any more. It's just the letting go of stuff family members have treasured, and i ended up as the keeper
@@janlumley304 I am so sorry for your loss. What you wrote here about Valentine Day cards, tools, and "boxes of treasures", etc, sounds like what I'll be going through if I outlive my husband.
While nothing can bring back the life you two had, I will pray for you that this new life will be equally happy, albeit different.
God Bless!
something that could be nice, to remember his writing, might be getting a tattoo in his writing. maybe something he always said to you or his favorite joke or something. I’ve found those to be the best pieces of art because then you can always carry it with you
@@janlumley304 As someone who struggles with letting go of the memory triggers, I took digital pictures of my kids art work K-12, mothers day and birthday cards, super tacky christmas tree ornaments that don't match my tree or my house but can't throw out because "awwww my first baby made this for me 20 years ago when he was 5 with his thumb prints...." etc and put them on my computer organized and burned to a flash drive. I got one of those digital picture frames so like on mothers day it will do a slide show of the cards over the years all day, a December one of the ornaments and reindeer hand antlers all month. (Your fathers war photos would be an awesome slide show for veterans and memorial day!) For me it helped making the decision to pitch or keep because now I can do both!
All I have left of my father is his signature on an old book I found while moving. I would have loved some other memento of him, but my mother was one of those tossing kind of people.
I lost my dad to cancer 17 years ago. His last Christmas he worked with his sister to have teddy bears made of his clothes for my Mom, my sister, and I. ❤️❤️❤️
I had my friend make my mom a pillow made out of a shirt that belonged to my grandfather.
When my mom passed away two years ago, we were left with a lot of "stuff." But everything was sentimental to me!! I'm finally starting to let go...and this video definitely helped.❤
So sorry about your Mama 😥 I lost mine 2 years ago also and I'm in the same place you are. May GOD bless you and your family. ♥️
I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️. Thank you for being here, I’m so glad to hear that 🤗
@@mistymcclanahan1138 Thank you Misty. God bless you and your family as well. I came to realize that letting go of her stuff doesn't mean I'm letting go of her memory. I'm sorry for your loss. A mom is irreplaceable. 😘❤
I also lost my mom about a year and a half ago. I've found it hard to let go of ANYTHING that has a tie to her, even clothes or toys she gave to my boys that they've outgrown. I'm getting better at it though. I think letting myself have a moment with the item, whatever it may be, to feel those feelings, cry, grieve, allows me to then look at it with practical eyes and makes it easier for me to let it go.
@@conservachick100 Thank you and they are definitely irreplaceable. I have such a hard time even getting rid of a piece of paper that she wrote on. But I know she wouldn't want me to live in clutter. It's just taking me awhile. 😥
When she held up that teddy bear and said her brother I started cryinggggg
Sorry for your loss Kathryn ♥️ thank you for keeping our spirits high May God always keep you smiling
I make bears, pillows and quilts for people out of their family members clothing. Its such a wonderful (and decluttering) way to preserve memories while not taking up space with boxes and bags of things you will never see.
Was not expecting to cry. This one struck a chord.
I am crying too. Great grandma did it.
@Jesse Lynn- This one really hit home for me as well. Sending hope and blessings to you this New Year ✌️❤️
Me too!! ❤️🥲
My Mothers' things are like that. I am committed to eliminating so much this year. I have many/most of my Mon's kitchen things/dishes/platers/pots/bakeware I am overwhelmed and sitting here bawling! Not easy to get rid of those but I know the memories will remain. But still.......😢😢😢
Exactly.... same here
there is nothing more satisfying than a fully clean/decluttered house !!
I wouldn’t know....yet. I’m still striving. Lol
im trying really i am.....
This video brought tears to my eyes as it brought me back to when I decided to sell my 2200 sq foot home that was chock full top to bottom (not in a hoardin way, but 16 years of collecting and accumulating). I read the "Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning," although I was just 55, and it changed my life. It took me about 5 months to do it (my Mom died in the middle of it), but I sold my home and kept just enough to furnish a place for one person. I now live in a 2 bedroom, 1 bath house (thankfully it has a walk-up attic for storage) that I keep very tidy (except my office, LOL). DOWNSIZING was the best thing I ever did! I can clean my house in an hour, and I also have peace of mind knowing I am not leaving a big mess for my relatives to clean up if I should go tomorrow.
A question that simultaneously hurts, helps, and frees, is when I ask myself, "Is this who I am, or is this a fantasy about myself?" We spend so much time telling other people who we are, we sometimes forget to be who we really are. When I let go of the things I feel guilty about not using more, it frees me to focus on the things I do enjoy using and doing.
Beautiful, clear question - what a gift! Thank you!
Great answer!
Love this!
Great final statement. Thank you mate🇦🇺👍🙂
I love when one sentence hits home and motivates you. "If it takes more than 5 mins to tidy a room, stuff needs to go".
That changed my whole believe system.. you mean I'm not supposed to be spending an hour cleaning my house everyday? An hour that I don't have and so I don't do it anyway.
It takes me more than 5 minutes to find my shoes under all the clutter.
One way that has always helped me to say "goodbye" is to take a photo or photos of the item. Super easy anymore because you can put those photos on a thumb drive. Takes little space. 😊
Great idea.
I did that, and I took those photos and turned them into a photo book from Snapfish or one of those companies. It was a really great way to be able to look through them, sometimes with other people, without having to sit at the computer.
@@angieemm nice.
Exactly what I was thinking specially for her grandmother's teacups .
Wisdom I learned: you will NEVER forget your great grandmother. the dish isn't her---she's in your heart.
Unless like me you have mental health issues that DO cause you to forget all about hugely important people for years at a time :( As well as legitimate short and medium term memory issues from ADHD and long covid. Sometimes there aren't any perfect solutions.
I never knew my grand mother - she lives through a bowl in my cupboard. lol true
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When I heard the name "Swedish Death Cleaning" I pictured something else. I thought you put on Swedish Death Metal music, and it made you clean faster before your brain melted.
:D lol I was a bit curious myself! But I watch this channel so I figured it was tame.
Lmbo 🤣
Great idea 😂
Damn that’s what I need. 😂
Haaaaaaa!
Love the teddy bear idea! I lost my big brother very unexpectedly in 2015 ... I have a box of his T-shirts... this is great idea!!!!
I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️ I hope you are able to have one made!
Lost both my parents this year so this sure struck a chord! 😭 Not sure I’m ready to let go of the clutter from them but when I am I’ll remember this video! Thanks
May they R I.P. 🙏
"Everything you own owns a part of you." This really hit home - I am inching toward making the Mental Shift that I know I need in order to commit to letting go of the stuff I have accumulated over the 18 years we have been in our old (1892) house raising our two children. Thank you for helping me by sharing your journey!
Thank you so much for your words "You are enough"...this words touch my heart.
I'm not a mom but as a tween-teen these help me a lot to declutter and clean my room because I share my room with my younger brother so we have so many toys and your videos really help. So Thank You!!!
Thanks for the replies! :D
Awww...proud of you!! Wish my daughter had that kind of motivation lol
@@meilanijesper9621 show her these videos. They always motivate me
@@jazmingomez2011 I sure will give it a try!!
That’s awesome!!
What a grown up tween you are! So proud of you! Starting good habits early is fantastic. And it will make it easier for you to make good choices later. Good job!
I had to declutter my parents' house after they died. So much stuff! I started doing my own after that so my son won't have so much to worry about after I'm gone. He's just going to toss it anyway so if I can donate it now where I want it to go, I figure that's a win.
While in the process of downsizing from a 3 bedroom house to a 1 bedroom apartment, I am making slow, steady progress. I like the way a smaller place makes it easier to organize things so that they can be found later. It took me a long time to understand why my Dad had so many duplicate items. Now, I know, that it is easier to buy a new flashlight or hammer, rather than find the one that is in the house somewhere. The minimalist concept is harder than I thought it would be since my hoarding tendency is an issue, though it is a milder version compared to my late father's.
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Just discovered this incredible woman!!! Her sincerity just shines through. So many “popular” UA-cam content makers are preachy, self-involved and not relatable. They may actually have some valuable tips for cleaning, declutteting, diet, weight loss, etc but their personality is a turnoff. This woman definitely brought me to tears. She seems so very kind and genuine and helpful. Thank you!! Time to “declutter” some of the channels i have subscribed to.
Exactly- feel same!
I agree with what you wrote. This is my first time seeing her video and now I am committed.
I remember when my sister passed away my brother in law had me remove all her xmas things from the house. I kept everything for about 2 years. I finally was able to part with some of her stuff when a couple of co workers were moving into their 1st houses. I think she will be pleased knowing she brought joy to kids just starting out. She lived xmas and it makes me feel like she is still spreading joy. I still have things that were hers but each year I am able to pass on a little more. Thank you.
🥰😭 That is beautiful.
Patricia Burr Merry Christmas
My mom, who is originally from Finland, has always done this. I remember as a kid hearing her tell my dad, "Don't hang onto stuff you don't want the kids to have to go through when we're dead." I used to think that was morbid, but now I get it. 🙄
OK, you made me cry talking about how you've kept so many things because they remind you of who you lost. Thanks for sharing that.
What about old pictures have tubs of them what kind I do with them don't want my kids to deal with all these am 78 neep help
"A better and more faithful reminder..." man oh man, I needed to hear this. My folks have passed 26 years ago, and we are now at the point of downsizing for retirement. Knowing I can't take all the sentimental things with me, especially those that belonged to my parents, and my kids when they were small, is torture. Your comment about finding a "faithful reminder" is so, so true. I think I can tackle those sentimental items a little easier now. Swedish Death Cleaning is an excellent book. Your video was great. Thanks for sharing. :)
Behind the couch organizing is brilliant!!
I almost spit my drink out when she moved the couch! LOL I love this channel so much. :)
Hello how are you doing today 💝
Ok so I’m crying over your great grandmother! I’m having a hard time with my mothers stuff, and I also don’t want to hold onto things anymore! I have a lot of health issues and if I have a few good hours I don’t want it to be for cleaning! Thank you this was meant to be seen with my eyes ❤️❤️. I’m 63 and want my good days/hours to belong to family and service 🙏🏻😘
Wow you are so amazing and how lucky your family is to have you 💖💯 and congratulations on being a grandmother! God bless you and wishing you the happiest days to come during this new year ✌️❤️
What a beautiful letter from your grandmother, so beautifully written.
The note had me in tears. And I’m so sorry you lost your brother . 😢 ❤️
Just remember that family member’s treasures were what they loved. If you don’t love them let them go so someone else can love them. You shouldn’t feel guilty about passing them on.
I wouldn't take a million dollars for my Grandmas china. But I love it.
You need to keep a few things to pass down to your great great grandchildren. I have pictures from my great great grandparents who lived in the 1860's. So glad my relatives didn't throw them away. It's nice to know where you came from.
In case you don't know Kathryn, the bowl from your great grandmother is Royal Copenhagen (look for the three waves underneath) in the pattern known in English as "Blue fluted" (musselmalet in Danish) - classical Danish porcelain. That particular style of bowl was produced between 1898 and 1923.
yes, I noticed that too, because I've got a beautiful plate, here in Frankfurt.
That bowl is so beautiful and unusual. Unfortunately, we don't make high quality bowls like that anymore.
@@3pumpkins170 Nobody wants them. You can't give them away. THAT'S why "we don't make them".
I live in Denmark and Royal Copenhagen porcelean is VERY EXPENSIVE and if hers is that old, it is collectors item and will fetch and boatload of Danish krona!!!
That bowl is special and very beautiful ❤️
When she said don't let anyone rush you do this on your own time I literally bawled, I lost my mom when I was four im 26 now and my dad I lost him just 6 months ago and I recently got most the things feom his house and it's just been so hard to look at or even go through and this video really made me feel better so Thank you so much maam
Thank you for sharing Kathryn! I lost my husband in July of 2019. My mom's cousin took some of his shirts, and made them into quilts, and pillows for my kids, his mom, and sister. What a precious gift!💕
My Mother is a first-generation Swedish-American. The "death cleaning" is real and she has done this for decades! She routinely cleaned out closets, drawers, rooms. She's been sorting pictures, labeling them, etc. all in a quest to make it easier for us when she's gone. As soon as we moved out and got our own apartments, etc. she presented us with a box of our school things putting the responsibility on us to save or toss. She is driven partly by genetics and partly by her experiences as the daughter and daughter-in-law of Depression era parents and grandparents. She and Dad spent months cleaning out their homes after they passed and much of what they found was rotten, unlabeled, broken or no longer used so it was tossed rather than repurposed or sold. I'm grateful for her fore thought.
I have no idea why I cried through this whole video. This year has been so overwhelming for me. I have lost three really close friends and my uncle as well as 7 other friends (I have never thought I would have so much loss in one year). My husband and I are recovering from Covid as as I try to keep my mind busy I look around our space and realize I have way too much stuff that I hold onto mostly for sentimental reasons. I would not want my family to have the burden of decluttering my stuff. Thank you for your sweet words of encouragement for us to deal with letting go of these things we never use but hold on to maybe because we are afraid of losing the last pieces we have of a loved one.
Sending good vibes to you and your husband. Sorry for your losses. Healing takes time. You are doing an amazing job. You are enough. Keeping you and your family in my prayers
I’m so sorry for your losses this year- be well and prayers for a full recovery for you and your husband
I'm so sorry you have had so many losses and such a trying year. Sending you love and peace and internet hugs ❤
@@ashleycunninghamfitness1181 thank you
@@MonkeyBunnyShop thank you
"Let that gift be a blessing to someone else"... I love that!!!
This was another great Video, much needed!!! I KNOW what I'm doing on weekends this month and next month!!
Hello how are you doing today 💝
Hi I’m Catherine, with” Do it on a dime” . I like the flow of this intro!
I have been watching for years but not doing! I feel inspired to tackle my reck of a 2160 sq ft home due to four years of my hubby being sick, caring for my 95 father at home of pneumonia, living with my healthy 96 year mother( I love her so much), driving four hour trip from home to mom.
Now I watch you and feel inspired.
Admitted minimalist here: My rule is if I haven't used it in 1yr., get rid of it. It works for old clothes, old Christmas ornaments, old shoes, etc.... and I chose one thing from someone dear to me that is now gone from this earth. I have my dad's shoe shining kit!
I'm a mother to 2 boys, who works fulltime at a Level 1 Trauma Hospital, going to school fulltime, and a Wife to a US Forest Service Hotshot who is gone 6 months a year. So I constantly feel exhausted and overwhelmed.
Whenever I can't get motivated on the weekends to clean and organize, I ALWAYS watch your videos. You are amazing, inspirational, and I love how humble you are!!! Thank you for being my motivation!!! ❤
God bless you for working in a hospital!
Wow you are such a heroine and inspiration.
This was a very touching video. I am over 70 now and have been slowly decluttering my house because I don't want to leave a huge mess for my children to deal with. It is hard. When I was a freshman in college our home burnt completely. I have next to nothing of the first 19 years of my life. Because of this it's very, very hard to let go but I am seriously working on it. I appreciate your feelings on this. It will definitely help me. Thank you!
BRAVO Jeanne! I'm 71, soon to be 72, and I've been decluttering for the past 10 years, things I've held on to for years because my sister would guilt me into it. My sister passed several years ago, and I'm now free to declutter without guilt. Just because someone gifted you something doesn't mean you have to keep it forever, use it, love it, then pass it on so someone else can love it.
I sympathize. I grew up poor, and it's taken me 45 years to gather what I have. Lots of garage and estate sales, thrift stores, hand-me-downs, etc. I'm retired now, and not in good health, so I no longer truly need much of what I own. But, the fear of not being able to replace something is deeply imbedded . . .
I know your pain ladies!
I bought the book so we will see...
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The grey area. How to handle it? (go to straight to 16:49)
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LOVED the section about your grandma's gifts to you and your thought process as you decided to keep that one item of hers that you would use every day, and by using it every day, it would truly remind you of her daily. This video was so helpful. Thank you!
I got tears when you ran across your letter it reminded me of the letter I recently found. While I was decluttering/organizing I ran across a letter from my Great Aunt to me when she sent me a card with a letter inside and money for high school graduation. She's passed away in 1990. I miss her so much, she was a very special woman.
I LOVE your channel. I lost my mom over Thanksgiving. I am having to go thru her precious home and generations of belongings. It was her "nest". Your words are helping me. ❤️
I'm so sorry for your loss. God bless you - He knows what a difficult time this is for you. Remember, even Jesus wept.
Just what I needed to help kick off my whole-house decluttering project!
Same!
THANK YOU SO SO MUCH!!!
I'm 55 and single and planning on moving into my "last" home, your video helped me see that its ok to declutter ( even sentimental) things!!!! God bless you and your family....you are enough.
Your Great Grandmother's gift to you is priceless. NEVER LET GO OF "FLOW BLUE!" NEVER!!!
I never in my life thought that I would cry watching a decluttering video. Must be all my pregnancy hormones, or something. I cried harder than I'd like to admit. 😞 Thank you for sharing this video with us. 💙
Congratulations on your baby, what a blessing! Sometimes it’s healing to let the tears fall ❤️
@@DoItOnaDime Thank you so much! Yes, it's weird to say but it definitely feels good to let yourself feel sad sometimes. Can't wait for your next video! 💕
It's not just the pregnancy hormones - lots of us cried! Congratulations on your upcoming addition! What a blessing from God!
Just a tip, might want to take a picture of your great-grandmother's dish if you are letting go of the rest of them. Since dishes have a tendency to break and if you are just keeping one... to hold onto the memory... I still have the decorative deerskin moccasins and a little bit of other beadwork made by my great grandmother. Those irreplaceable one-of-a-kind items are so precious! xo
That's what I was thinking! What if that one breaks and she gave the others away 😭
Reinforce it unbreakable with clear epoxy.
I would have kept the cups for future generations. And maybe included a picture and note about her. I cherish those things that have been handed down to me... There are so few. And not everything has to end up in the kitchen or dining room. Old Tupperware, so long. Items for the family either find function or make gifts for future generations.
@@elmogal4lyyyfe yes, I was thinking that too . 😢
I unlove things, making room for another “memory”. If I buy a new piece of clothing, an old piece of clothing is donated. I love your ideas.
The sentimental stuff is the hardest, but after I have spent a couple months cleaning out my aunt's home, I am absolutely motivated to unclutter my life, while still honoring the those I've lost with what they have given me.
Just wanted to clean my house, not cry my eyes out... GREAT VIDEO!
Seriously!!!!! lol
I made the mistake of watching this on my lunch break had to welcome students back with swollen red eyes!
You have NO IDEA how this touched me! Sometimes you feel so bad about yourself, not being able to complete the task! YOU have given me renewed Hope!! GOD BLESS YOU!❤️
I hear you.♥️
Great response. Touching, yet hilarious! One of her very best videos!
Great job! After reading about Swedish Death cleaning, I thought about all the stuff my son would go through, and decided I would not burden him with my stuff. So I'm decluttering like crazy.
Great idea! Too much on the kids
Thank you. I wish more parents would think like this.
Please make sure that it gets to people who need it, rather than a landfill.
that is exactly why I did it. Still doing more.I don't want to burden my son with more than necessary. keeping it simple.
This is great! And very encouraging. I spend a great deal of my time out in the desert as an astrophotographer and I do home decorating with my deep sky images. My home is also my studio, but despite my "space art" taking precedence, it's always good to do some deep cleaning to make way for creativity and sustainability. Thank you for this!
Thank you for your video and sharing all your things for it will help me with my hoarding I just lost my parents 2 years ago and brought everything home it seem like that I already have too much of my own and now I have even more and I didn't know where to start I get overwhelmed but watching your video will help me so much that I've even gone through counseling to try to figure out how to start and where to start thank you for sharing what you've gone through and yes I want somebody else to enjoy the wonderful things that I've had in my life I've been blessed now I would like to bless somebody else to enjoy thank you again💞😇💜😊
Before I attack my own clutter situation, Kathryn, there is one more thing to remember like with Great Grandma's dishes (or other items that belonged to a grandmother) .... I know you have sons, not daughters, but PLEASE Save something of GG's for each of your sons as a family heirloom. Also, before I got rid of the remainder of my mother's china tea cups, I gave one cup/saucer as Christmas gifts to each of my girl cousins. THEY LOVED having something that belonged to their Aunt Helen. Just wanted to toss this idea out there.
Your sensitivity is a such a beautiful thing and it truly inspires others. Decluttering is such a cleansing experience and I highly recommend it to every single person. Folks, don't feel like you to need to declutter everything in the same day . . . one thing at a time. May a list of what absolutely needs attention, prioritize your list, and then declutter one space at a time. All, Stay Strong, Be Well, Keep Safe, Declutter On!
Good advice! Thank you!
You made me cry! I just finished my house of 42 years of marriage. I still find things here and there. Heartstrings were pulled and even, broken but the excess is much less. Thanks for this. It re-enforced my efforts.
Oh my goodness! I'm thinking of all the things I've hung on to for different reasons that I need (and want) to remove from my home. I'm ready to get started.....ONE ROOM AT A TIME!!! That's the only way I'll be able to do it. First...the kitchen!
I lost my Mama 2 years ago and before she passed I lost my Dad and my Mom was a seamstress so we cut out square patterns and made a quilt from his shirts and now I'm trying to find someone help me with my Mama's clothes. I think the teddy 🐻 idea is really precious.
I"m sorry for your losses. A quilt is a wonderful idea and it's fantastic that your mom helped you with it. Now maybe you can have a teddy bear from your mom's clothes. You can curl up with your quilt and hold your bear. That would be really lovely. Maybe you can put some of her perfume onto the stuffing or on the outside of the bear so it smells like her. :)
@@thebudgetbee9694 Thank you. That is a very good idea to put her favorite perfume on there. She loved the vanilla bean from bath and body works. ♥️ I use to buy it for her every year and I actually still do that now and spray it around my home and all.
“This year, simple is the new happy” so true
Thank you for opening up with your grandmother and your brother’s memories. I always try to imagine someone really enjoying these items.
Awe, I love this. I originally looked up ways I could organize my room and bathroom. Somehow I'm just watching a bunch of your videos, but no regrets. You are so kind. Thank you for your encouraging words as well as your videos.
One of the best decluttering videos you’ve made. Everything you said made so much sense. My grandmother passed away a month ago and I want to hold on to everything she ever touched or anything that smells of her. It’s so hard to let go and this video really made me see things in a different way. Thank you
My mother passed recently. My dad and I are going through the exact same thing right now. He'll never watch this video, though. We're not in a time crunch to make decisions but if you have to clean out a house or something, I would imagine that's a bit of added pressure on you. I'm sorry.
Vivian, take whatever time you need. There is no time table for mourning except your own.
Why are you making me cry so early 😩💜
Literally just wanted to stop by and let you know you literally have helped me through some really hard times with my anxiety and my mindset when my bf was overseas and also when we had a miscarriage when he came back. So thankful for your channel. We love you! Your channel is what I watch in the morning when I’m getting ready for work and also when I’m anxiety prone. Can’t imagine how I would be without it! You make me feel like I’m not alone! 💜💜💜💜💜💜
One of the best "decluttering" motivation vlogs I've seen yet. We let go of over half our belongings in 2020, and I still watch videos like these for continued motivation....this is a process you have to maintain, and it does take effort over the long haul. Thanks for an awesome and sincere video!
This is a timely video for me. My mom passed almost 2 yrs ago and I want to keep EVERYTHING that was hers. I know in my head I can’t but my heart wants to hold on to her/ he things. A work in progress.........
Pictures on a thumb drive. Thank God for technology 🙂
My Mom died young( 41 years old)… and she was a magnificent seamstress who designed and sewed her own beautiful and extensive wardrobe. After she died, we kept her clothes hanging in a large, dry basement closet for three years. I remember looking at them and smelling each piece. Mom’s “fragrance” was still on them! Dad said that we would know when to get rid of them. God would give us a sign! As it turned out, Dad’s secretary had a needy sister-in-law who was beginning to work outside the home. Dad gave her all Mom’s gorgeous clothes...except for the ones that we daughters chose to keep for ourselves, of course. The lady was so tickled! She told Dad that she had a fashion show, trying everything on, for her family. We were delighted!
My Mother died 10 yrs ago and the hardest part of moving to another state was leaving her house and many of her things behind. My heart has never gotten over it esp as my Husband died shortly after. I would have kept everything if I could have. I really took this video to heart. I have to lighten my load even more.
What I did was saved mom's special meaningful items that I knew ment something to her. Not just clothes or furniture. So whatever she held dear that's what you keep. Of course thing that can be useful to you as well. The rest can be someone else's treasures. Sorry about the loss of your mom I know it's really hard to process. ❤️
What about framing the letter your grandmother gave you so you can see that everyday too? Put it in the kitchen near her bowl with a framed picture of her, a little Grandma Vinette? ❤
Excellent idea! -- and a photo of the bowl, for posterity. M, 01/18/2021
Nice!
Letter might fade.
@@vickielancaster7054 I am sure Kathryn has already made digital copies of such an important and cherished document. She can also put it in an acid free clear page protector so the original doesn't get damaged.
Absolutely!
I have a prayer my Granny said during the Depression for her family's necessities, hanging in my family room with directions written by my Grandad and Playbill of my Mom's when she saw Errol Flynn. All in the same frame!
I have to tell you... you are an earth angel. Not only are you teaching ppl how to bring divinity and peace into their homes, you are healing us too. Thank you so much for dedicating yourself to learning and mastering skills. Your videos are empowering and inspiring. I am going to now teach my daughters. Your channel is a blessing to me. Please keep it up!
“All these plates your mom gave to us for Christmas” lol THAT is why I have a clutter problem, I just feel so guilty getting rid of gifts. :(
I read somewhere that the purpose of the gift was to give that happy feeling when the gift giver gave it and in that sense it served its purpose. And that the giver of the gift wouldn't want you to feel negative when you are in your home and glance at their gift (ugh that clutter, ugh I can't give this away because it's a present). Those thoughts helped me to give away gifts. :)
@@massages_for_world_peace8909 I totally agree it helps me to remind myself I should give it away and let someone else enjoy it or be able to make better use of it.Peace ✌️have a great day!
Once a gift is gifted to you . You have the right to get rid of it anytime you want because its belong to you . No needs to feel guilty about it. Not like they cares about the gifts you gave to them. Lol.
Maybe this is an awful solution, but I don’t give gifts anymore. Then no one feels the need to reciprocate by giving me clutter. My family doesn’t exchange gifts at Christmas because we’re all adults who don’t want extra crap.
However, my friends and family have experiences together. For example, my holiday gift to everyone is cooking the meals.
I used to put them away and keep them for what I deemed to be an appropriate amount of time, before throwing them away. Now when I get gifts I put them all in a pile and just put away the things I actually want. I've told my family that my house is really small so there's no room for excess stuff so this has reduced a lot too
I struggle so badly with items that belonged to my parents and grandparents. It’s SO hard to let go of the guilt of getting rid of something that’s been in your family for so so long! 😩
Then just don't do it. It's really that simple. I mean, seriously, if the benefit of getting rid of the item is lessened because the guilt is eating you alive, what's the point of getting rid of it? Just to see if you can?
@@mb1496 I struggle with some things more than others which is why I don’t get rid of everything. It certainly doesn’t eat me alive. 😂
Take pictures of them to keep.
If the items are quality, heirloom, handmade, holds a specific memory like the dish she showed after finding her grandmother's letter, or is OF USE, then by all means keep. This concept helped me purge: these items were mass-produced things that my elders just happened to have purchased or received themselves as a gift. The items are not my elders.
I kept a lock up full of things from my Nana for 2 years before giving them away. Such a waste and still feel guilt but I didn’t need those things and they are not my Nana xxx
I'm a highly sensitive person too and when I declutter I ask myself if I have used the item in the last 6 months (in the last year for seasonal items) and I try not to keep "just in case" items that clutter my space. For me, gratitude really helps and knowing that the things I don't use much can bless someone else is something that makes decluttering much easier.
💜 your tender, encouraging words and sharing your sentimental heart. Ideas are great too! Thank you.
Love it! Once you have decluttered and created a space to breathe, you realize how much the stuff was choking you.
“That’s seen better days” 😂 I always say that when I declutter!!!
I did the "Swedish Death" cleaning about two years ago and got rid of so much. Thank you for the reminder that we all need a reboot every once in a while.
Thank you. My dad died a year ago. He was more than a grandad to my daughters and they miss him so much. The teddy bear inspired me, I still have his shirts and will make them a bear each then get rid of them. Dad was always saying after mum passed to get rid of her clothes because she's not coming back for them but it really is hard. Xx
Take pieces and make a lap quilt for you!🕊️🦋
You are just a ray of bright sunshine!! I can feel you’re lit from the inside. You inspire others. Thank you for your videos!
*Hi Kathryn‼️ Laminate that letter from your Great Grandma! Those are precious & sometimes all we have left of them. ♥️ Thanks for the “Swedish” video & Have a Great Day‼️😘*
I just found this channel and I'm OBSESSED!! I'm newly divorced, on an extreme budget and my ex moved to another state so he left all his clutter for me to deal with along with mine. I'm loving all of your videos :)
Perhaps you can sell the items at a low cost?
eBay his junk! ;) You've discovered one of the best channels on UA-cam! :)
Another great channel is Frugal Fit Mom! She will give you amazing ideas for saving money, shopping and cooking ... Boyh of these channels are my go to!!
Thank you for sharing this with us. It was a positive spin on decluttering instead of negativity about being cluttered. You were refreshing.
I am so glad I came across your channel. Whether I’m actively organizing something or not, I love watching your videos and learning, and taking in your kindness and warmth in your voice. Thank you for sharing yourself with us ❤
The teddy bear of shirts is one of the sweetest things I've ever seen.
Thank you for sharing the letter from your Great Grandmother, that was so sweet I cried with you. So true, as a hoarder, we can find so many reasons to hold on, and if it's sentimental forget about it! LOL thanks for helping me get some FREEDOM for myself.
Thank you! Loved the new concepts in why we clutter our lives with "things"".
You can tell what a wonderful person you are just by your videos and how you talk about others in your life. Thank you for all the great tips!
I was raised by a hoarder and now I'm battling that same instinct myself. This was an immense help. Thank you so much for this video. 😊
Raised by TWO hoarders and obsessed with anything promising organization.
I was praying that this video would really be the one that helped me learn how to just let it go.! It's also a good idea if you also take a picture of your good sentimental items that you cannot keep , I heard. Thank you very much for taking the time to do this for all of us! Of course it helps! Do you ever find yourself looking for something you got rid of just the week before? I do that LOL! I'm praying that doesn't happen ,again to me, either! So I will ask myself also, would I run back into grab this if the house were on fire?" Unfortunately, I was moving, this was before plastic bins so I had everything in cardboard boxes, and everything flooded. So I had no choice or choices! The next time that I moved, everything was in the car and I was driving down the highway when the car caught on fire and I had no idea because it was underneath. The two major destroyers... Water and fire. So ask yourself also if you had enough time to grab a few things, what do you think they would be? This was helpful thank you! Blessings to you! Thank you again!!! Because paperwork is the number one problem today due to junk mail, and sorting it! We all need to start with filing cabinets A through Z... It's a life changer! Thank you so much again! We all appreciate your time and effort! I can't wait to see what you have in store for us next! I stink at computers so I hope I don't miss it! God bless you!!!!❤️❤️❤️
You say the most wonderful things that a lot of people need to hear, Thanks for the inspiration ❤
My amazing mother passed away 15 years ago. My best friend. I was responsible for cleaning her clothes and jewelry from my parents house. Just recently, like a month ago, I started going through her things and bagging them up to take to Good Will. Don't understand why it has been so hard an painful. I appreciated this video and have watched it a few times. It is helping. Thank you...
Thank you for going through not just the physical decluttering, but also the emotional challenges that are a part of cleaning through these things. People on the outside just don't see the sentimental value to that item that only you will ever know.
Of course, the dog was thinking: “Don’t be decluttering the bone I buried in the sofa cushions. I am saving that!”
I was thinking the same thing! 🤣
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Lol 😂
That’s my dog for sure
Right! I so find random bones when cleaning... LOL
😭😭😭 when you showed us that letter and the bear. I've got a box full of family dishes I dont have the heart to ever part with but your video inspired me to actually use them.. one day.. baby steps lol
Yes, if you are going to keep them, I agree, use them! When we got married 29 years ago, my husband and I had very little. We never put our wedding gifts of crystal vases or bowls on the top shelf to use “someday”. We just used them every day right next to our plastic dishes from the discount store. The crystal bowl holding our fruit on our island is a wedding gift and I think of my friend who gave it to us every day. If something breaks I toss it without guilt because the item has been well used and well loved and I always think the giver would appreciate that. Think of it this way - if you gave a friend a mug and somehow learned that for 29 years they thought of you every single day when they used it, would you be hurt if it broke and they tossed it? I think most people would be touched that their friend was thinking of them every day. ❤️
This has got to be one of the best - if not the best - decluttering video I have ever seen. Inspiring and motivating. Thanks for sharing and never letting go of your great grandma.