I Divorced my American Husband AFAM | I have a big reason| Buhay Amerika with Angie
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- Опубліковано 19 жов 2024
- I tell you my story about why I ended my marriage. • How to Overcome Divorc... My opinion, my experience and was my struggle so don't judge.
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Filipino Mentality- judging her as she is telling her life story but her purpose is to spread awareness of narcissism, alcoholism and how she survived it. It’s not because she wants to announce to the world but there are so many of women hiding their true lives by pretending that they okay, narcissism is real and you will never understand it unless you experienced it like she did.
For those of you whose never lived outside the Philippines nor lived overseas esp United States, you can zip your mouth as you have no idea how it’s like to be in her shoes and many others whose experienced similar situations.
narcissism and alcohol is serious
issue.Mahirap ang buhay sa America
pag ang partner ay abusive and controlling.
Kailangan marunong lumaban sa ating
karapatan at tumayo sa dalawang paa. Anyway,
every situation is unique.It is nobody business.
Kaya nga saludo ako kay Angie..
It is your life and so you are under no obligation to explain your circumstances to anyone. However by doing so hopefully it will serve as a lesson or an inspiration to women who are in similar situation . Marriage is not a prison nor an ownership. Well done. Trying to be a martyr is a serious stupidity.
Right, it's your life, not theirs, so don't bother with what they say. We should respect and give some dignity to ourselves. There's always limitations in everything, and if it reaches the maximum, then yes, enough is enough.
Hindi lahat ng pinay na nag-aasawa ng american ay pinapalad. Once you enter marriage because of wanting to have a better life don't expect na you don't have to work. Learn how to work and earn your own money para kapag yung naging asawa niyo is may mga panget na ugali at hindi magclick ang marriage you can get out because you're independent woman. I am just so blessed to have met my husband, walang bisyo, hard working bahay at work lang cya at napaka loving.tulungan kami talaga hindi man ako buhay princessa pero pakiramdam ko nanalo ko sa lotto sa bait ng asawa ko at ng bienan ko.
yes po tama... new here po 😊
Very true sis, hindi talaga lahat nang pinay pinalad sa afam. Blessed na ako na kahit di mayaman afam ko di sobrang malaki sahod. Nagtutulungan kami sa lahat joint forces naman kahit sa gawaing bahay
Good decision sis! Finally, you have peace of mind. Plus, it’s for your own good and kids. You’re a strong woman. Please be careful, vlogging while driving is not safe!
tama masipag ang mga pinay although lapitin man tayo ng afam but we can live without them...
Tama yan na pinili mo ang peace of mind mo. I admire you. Ang tagal mo din palang nag tiis
I’m so proud of you sissy, stay strong and may God bless you ❤
Dont let people bring you down. You have to save yourself. Enough of the sinking ship syndrome. Kids cant be exposed to that. Just be the best person you can be. Blessings!
Please don’t drive while you’re explaining your life,no need to tell your business,be careful on the road❤️🙏
Proud lang Siya sa sarili niya 😊
Agree she can get a ticket if Police catch her very 😳 dangerous
Some people can talk while driving. She can talk while driving.
Buhay America, itong Lola na ito have been driving for 48 years and I can talk and drive. Only gotten 1 speeding ticket and no cell phones then.
If you have a blue tooth you’re fine.
She’s not holding the phone.
You’re a strong woman. We’re grown-up in a good educated family, you don’t expect that you’ll have this kind of living in the future, sometimes too much love it will damage your whole being as a person. Pain will make you stronger, you will direct yourself to the right direction because of experiences that you adhere. Intellectually helps you to be free (from pain and other ugly circumstances), thanks for sharing your video. God bless.
Smart woman, tama lang po ginawa nyo, always know your worth and being independent is a good thing. Kaya po natin mabuhay kahit walang lalaki sa buhay natin. Don't settle for less.
Whatever makes you feel better sis, follow your heart. Focus ka lang sa mga plans mo and instinct. You are the best friend of yourself. Kaya mo yan. Hayaan mo ang mga nanghuhusga. Good or bad, people will judge you. God bless and laban lang.
Ate okay lang mag vlog ka pero sana hindi ka nag drive during video. Nahahati ang attention mo pag nag drive. D bali sana kung ikaw lang masaktan wag yung masagasaan dahil sa pagiging reckless!
Agree 100%
Tama kakatakot pwd naman cya mag explain kapag nakapark na hindi ung nasa highway pa ipinagbabawal magamit ng cellphone kapag nagdrive lalo na sa highway..
Very risky yan my dear, blogging while driving. Driving takes 100% focus kc in a wink of an eye pde mo ma hit vehicles around you. Maybe stop n lang muna at yun pde k n mag blog.
Agree 👍🏽
omg, you are not a safe driver
Relate much and I feel you... you deserve a real peaceful life, goooo girlll ❤
tama po.. hello p6😊
@@Mharjs01234 hello din po. God bless 🤓😎😍
You did right and an amazing mom. Be strong always and choose to be happy at all times. Its time for you as well to take care of yourself and reward yourself. God bless you.
Thank you sis 😊
Tama lng ang ginawa mo Sis..
Good for you sis! I commend for your bravery! He doesn’t deserve you. Don’t mind the other comments and enjoy your freedom ❤️❤️❤️
No bad or good. It is just your principles and values don’t align, which suggests it might not be meant to work out. Despite his flaws, I hope his children will continue to respect him as their father and that you can co-parent with him effectively. Children are quite resilient, so stay strong mommy.
True,,nurse ang kapatid ko jan sa US,nag asawa ng American,sabi nya ang daming mga pinay na nag asawa ng kung sino sinong amerikano makapunta lang ng US,karamihan mga walamg alam na trabaho,d nakapag aral,halos lahat taga probinsya ng Visayas at Mindanao,ang dami ring hiniwalayan sila at nganga,wala silang alam na trabaho kaya ang bagsak balik Pinas sila..Kaya sabi ng kapatid ko pag nag asawa kau dapat may alam kayong trabaho,may degree kau na pwede ninyong iapply ng trabaho para hindi kau kawawa..Ang dami kasi umaasa lang sa asawang afam..
I agree sis. I am a member sa Filipino group na nag migrate dito. As silent member/reader daming humihingi ng advice. Mapa US or Canada or anong country kaman dapat marunong ka dumiskarti sa buhay lalo na sa panahon ngayon.
kaya mnsan my ngssabi dn sa mga kabayan natin n mga bisayanh babae social climber,cheap at easy to get guest what kung cnu ngssabi mostly mga kpwa natin pilipino as in mga pinoy hnd mga pinay hah
Dumating Ako dito sa america July 1993 nakapagtrabaho ako agad sa restaurant as food preparation dahil gusto ko agad makapagtrabaho high school graduated lang ako hanggang sa marami akong naging experience sa trabaho hanggang sa gumaganda na rin ng sahod ko kung may tinapos ka mas lalong makahanap ka agad ng mas magandang trabaho ngayon I'm retired .at may monthly akong natatanggap not to mention basta sapat lahat Mula ng dumating ako dito never na pumalya ako ng pagpadala ng pera sa magulang ko hanggang sa namatanay sila pinagpatuloy ko pa rin ang pagpapadala ko ng pera sa kapatid ko at pag may ikakasal ng bawat isa sa mga pamangkin ko $200 ang gift ko para walang selosan.. . Ang asawa ko nga pala American at isa lang Ang anak namin she's now 30 yrs old. Kaya nga lang Yung asawa ko namatay na ang tatay ng anak ko last Feb 2022. Masakit sa pagnawala nya Lalo na sa anak ko dahil daddy's sya Ang naging sakit nya ay cirrhosis liver alcoholic din Ang asawa ko . For me lang Living in America is a dream come true. Nag nagbbakasyun din ako madalas noon sa pinas kasama ang asawa ko nagiisang
Anak namin.
asawa ko at anak ko..
@@FilipinaMom3
Agree po ako dito. Sa sinasabi niyo po madam. Pag madiskarte Tayo at hard work. No need to hve husband kind of like that
Ginawa Nyo po lahat para sa Pamilya .saludo po ako sa pagka strong woman Nyo po
God blessed you po ingat kayo lagi
Hi Guys..Thank you for all the support ❤ . I will reach back tonight work mode muna tayo. I appreciate you all. Kgulat naman ❤
Pls dont drive and do videos its dangerous
I understand your situation ,good for you , Lasengero din Ang asawa Kaya in iwan ko din siya. Just like you inuwan ko din siya .at nag abroad din ako dito sa Canada . , niot only that he had A 3 children with different women. Good luck my Dear ,and God blessed
Depende Talaga Sa Asawa Kung Bakit Nag File Nang Divorce Between Husband And Wife.Pero Okey Lang Basta Hindi Nagsisi Kung Ano Ang Plano Mo At Kung Nakakatulong Ba Ito Sa Iyo.Oo Tama Ang Iba Na Swerte Kasi Andiyan Ka Sa Amerika Pero Ani Naman Ang Nasa Puso Mo. Laban Lang Sissy Sa Hamon Nang Buhay At Focus Ka Sa Mga Anak Mo.Ingat Ka Palagi And God Bless🙏🙏🙏
Yes you right you can make it without man as long you know how to work hard and you don't have to depend nobody I got you Sis.
Ate ..do not drive when u r using your phone. For your own safety.
Bawat tao ay may karapatang maging masaya. If you’re no longer happy sa relationship, you have to make a decision for yourself and for your child/children.
Very well said. I admired you n I know na yong love nawawala yon pag puros sakit sa puso. Don’t mind your basher, they don’t know how it feels. I can relied to you dahil I’m in the same situation before. Just keep on praying n god and mama Mary will help you.
Ang asawa ko mabait pera niya pera ko. Kung anong assets niya assets ko rin .Nong ikinasal na kami pinahinto ako ng trabajo Kaya ako ang palamonen. Hinde kami nagaaway nag uusap lang kami kong may misunderstanding . Ang advice ko sa mga babae, tingnan niyo mabuti and lalaki bago kayo pumatol. The best really are the educated ,good family backgrounds like Filipinos.
Swerte ka.
Pero maganda talaga na may work ka, para independent ka, empowered ka, and Alam mo ang self worth
To be honest po, you don't have to explain everything about your life,
I think it is about your love, na hindi na ganon , hindi na buo, Siguro, pagod ka na, for you.....too much na,
So, it is better na humiwalay ka na lang, I truly understand you,
Your husband has AN ALCOHOL ADDICTION, HINDI LANG BASTA ALCOHOLIC,
VERY WEAK ANG HUSBAND, PARA GUMALING....KAYA WALANG SILBI NA ANG LAHAT.
TAMA YAN, KUNG HINDI MO NA KAYA, GAWAN MO NG PARAAN, SAVE YOURSELF AND THE KIDS.
Thats your life. Do what you want. No need to explain to the public your decisions. You’re not stepping on anyone anyway😌
I don’t understand the reason why Ate needs to say it in public.1. What’s your purpose of telling all these? 2. Don’t know the consequences of your actions? 3. What are the benefits of airing these?
If you open your life to public be ready for the public to bash you and criticize you. I understand her situation I just don’t understand why she need to put it on public
I feel you ate alam ko mabuting ina ka at alam mo ang tama binigay mona lahat at chances di parin nag bago so move on .. God Bless you ate 🙏 kaya moyan💪
I feel you as a single mom. We Filipina is known sa pairing mahaba ang pasensya at maunawain at matiisin pero pag sagad na and the children are so affected by the situation sa relationship nyo ng partner mo that's a big story for us as a mother. You did the right decision madam. God bless you and your children.
Lahat po ng babae kayang mgsurvive without a man if gugustuhin tlaga. Its up to a woman if magtitiis sa buhay na sobrang hirap pra lng buo kayo, its not fair if ang hirap na po ng sitwasyon.
Agree sis..2020 when we lost our business na bankcrupt kmi. As in $0 kami but it's up to you kasi how to find ways to survive. Filipinos are known to be resourceful and hardworking at marunong tayo magtiis. If there's a will there's a way.
Your right and I agree with you dito sa america you have to be strong and independent marming mabuhay Incase sa divorce or ma widow.
Don’t listen to the basher. Listen to yourself and what is best for you and the children. He is going to be a bad example for the children.
Nakakatakot din ang emotional aspect ng mga afam, malakas ang instinct nila to hurt their love ones, minsan pa puede silang magcommit ng unimaginable things, you guys know what I mean.
yes kya maraming missing or deads na
Hi sis, you have an amazing story! Thanks for sharing. Filipinos, in general, are very resilient. Kahit saan, we will survive through perseverance and hard work! Best of luck to you and your kids! New friend here living in California for 32 years now! Take care! ❤❤❤
New senior subie here living alone awaiting to be petitioned in NY. (nurse single mother daughter). My only past time is to watch vlogs coz news is stressful for me. I also listen to siren story para rest ko yong eyes ko during siesta break.
Tama kabayan, kung di ka tinatrato ng maayos “why not” ako awa ng Dyos walang problema sa AFAM ko 10 1/2 years na kaming kasal.
Same mind set madam..... Mabuhay tayo kahit walang asawa hahaha .... Importante ang mgq bata kasama natin lalaki lang yan at di na uso ang maging martir prakyikal na tayo di ba .....
😂😂 akala ko ako lang ang ganito
Tama ka sis...laban lang tayo mga mommy.
It’s nobody’s place to comment on anyone’s life … it’s NOBODY’s BUSINESS!!! Ignore such toxic comments!
I stand by all Filipina women who are firm with their principles and standards! wag kayong palamang sa mga foreigners na yan...
Basta wala kang ginagawang masama, malinis ang konsensya mo, IPAGLABAN MO KATAPATAN MO.
Lesson learned tu sa mga gusto magka AFAM daming laman ng vlogs mo kahit im sure this is painful to you…ty for sharing..malaman..
Best decision dai good job be strong for your kids and take care always
Good woman...Afam afam kayo dyan, kahit anong lahi kung walang pag mamahal at respect it's not worth...bakit mag pa ka martyr ka... tama Yong mga anak mo. Hayaan mo yang mga judge diyan, your life is not their business..go go go love...I'll support you by watching your videos.
Iba ang experience mo Ate. Hindi lahat kagaya mo. Meron din mga masuwerte na na kapag Asawa ng AFAM na mababait at support ng Asawa. Kagaya nina Rona Singleton at Mary Cross. Salamat sa Diyos at mabait at Hindi madamot Asawa ko. Hindi ako nagtratrabaho since COVID kahit na nurse ako dito sa US kasi kaya niya akong buhayin. At least masipag ka at American Citizens ka na at kaya mong buhayin ang family mo. Bakit Hindi mo ba nalaman na alcoholic siya since nag da-date pa kayo. Sana kinilala mo munang ugali niya bago mo siya pinakasalan. Para may choice ka kung magtatagal kayo o hindi😀🙏
hanga ako saiyo, life is short enjoy mo na lang ang mga bata, pag naka punta ako Indiana i hope i can drive your way para ma meet kita. ingat and God Bless🙏🏼 Don't worry about the basher😊
Stay strong and Independent woman..
God bless
Matapang ka kaya nakayanan mo ang pagsubok. For me you did the right decision my friend.
First time ako Nanood sa vlog mo I can relate Sa Buhay mo Sometimes you did what you have to do The abused that I had to suffer YOU DONT HAVE TO LISTEN TO OTHER PEOPLES TO OTHER PEOPLE IT IS YOUR BUSINESS LIFE IS SHORT TO BE MESS ABLE RELATIONSHIP WITH ALCOHOL PEOPLE THEY ALWAYS BLAME SOMEONE ELSE YOU DOING THE RIGHT THING I AM PROUD OF YOU PINAY DIN AKO GOD BLESS YOU GOD IS WHITH YOU
Wala kayong violation dyan. Baka mamaya magka violation kayo ksi hnd kyo nka focus sa pag drive. Haha charot lng po!!
All the very best in your new life.God Bless
I feel you sister better be single mom❤❤❤❤❤
Greetings from Vancouver Canada 🇨🇦
It’s ok to share your story… but not while driving. I hope you don’t do that again. Focus on the road gurl, kasi na divide yung attention mo. Anyways, kudos for being a strong woman. Marami din me kilala dito sa US na nakakaawa ang sitwasyon sa asawa nila. Meron iba even left their home and became homeless 😢
Foreigner din ang asawa ko okay naman ang buhay ko ang buhay naming mag asawa masaya hindi lahat may ganyang problema kasi simply lang ako masaya na ako kong anong meron ako at feel ko ang pag mmahal ng asawa ko laging may surpresa sinamahan ko rin ng dasal sa ating panginoong dios kasi sya ang ating gabay saan man tayo naroroon🙏🙏🙏
Your story is great and helpful to others but you should vlog safely meaning not while driving. If you get into an accident you will put others in danger .
Hi sis, thanks for the concern. On the road po ang work ko 7 to 8hrs a day as a chemical rep so pag uwi ng bahay iba na ang priority ko..I'm extra careful po 😊
hi po 😊
Right decision . Twas a toxic relationship that affected your child for life.
Is good to know someone like you, very strong 💪 invidual.
Good job 👏
Thank you for sharing your story.
Nice you Are strong to carry All the problem.. Watching from Denmark..
You seem to be a very strong woman, I admire you.
Concentrate on your driving laluna nasa freeway ka… madidistract ka at maaksidente ka…
Wow, love your Vocabulary . I was shocked 😲 to see someone like you. You're very strong 💪 invidual. Hindi kailangan ng lalaki ( or asawa para mabuhay ) 😂😅😂
Anyway i am so proud sa iyo ( Ate ) thank you for sharing your story.
Cguro napaka swerti ko kasi kahit wala akong trabaho dito, pero buwan buwan , binibigyan niya ako ng pera, para may savings ako at current card ,para sa sarili gusto, at siya na bahala sa mga bills lahat . Kasiyahan niya makita familya niya nsa bahay,
Ganun talaga may sinuswirte at mayroon hinde..Kaya wag umasa sa afam ,mag trabaho para may sariling income.para just incase magkaroon ng problema sa buhay .hinde ka matatakot mag isa with financial galing sa husband. ..
I really admire you madam. Stay strong. Di na uso ang maging martyr. Iba sa kanila waley naman pera puro utang dyan sa US.
True po hindi porke sila ang nag petition titiisin na natin ang lahat lalo na kung hindi naman nag babago
Hugs to you❤I can relate......I got diagnosed with Anxiety dahil sa spouse ko.
Sorry to hear that... ❤️ hugs to you sis
Tama ka madam we can live without a man
Don't mine other people who judge you wrong. Take care ❤
Tompak.tama yong mga decision mo.I understand your point. Good luck. GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS
You are strong women hindi lahat nag asawa afam dito sa America maswerte God bless you
this is a real women brave and survival ❤
Hopefully my afam is not like your husband afam, sad Tk hear sis I feel you
Darling you right ,I am here too in USA , but I’m still working in hotel , darling maybe I’m lucky bcoz about my husband I don’t have problem thanks god godbless you
Nag subscribe npo Ako ma'am,Kase sobrang ko po kayong naintindihan at laban lang po,klangan maging mattag dahil may mga anak Tayo na Tayo ang pinagkuhanan nila ng lakas para lumaban din sa buhay nila ❤❤❤GOD BLESS US 🙏🌹❤️🔥
I believe you kabayan. Marami sa mga puti na ganyan. They have all the privilege in life but all of the privileges mostly are taken for granted.
Kabayan lakas at laban sa buhay dahil mayroon kang anak tibay lamang ang loob lahat pag subok, from Egypt
Bakit po lagi sinasabi na Buhay Princess wala naman talaga sa real life yan 😊
Sa Fairytale lang po nang yayari ang ganoon 😊
You need to work for your own. Ang mga mayayaman pinag trabahoan nila yan bago sila naging mayaman kasi po walang Shortcut. Never forget Where you came from always remind yourself Where you came from and where got to where you are today.
We’re in the same level pero he committed suicide I was able to stand on my own 2 feet napalaki ko ang 2 anak ko sa kanya ng maayos I was able to buy a 3 bedroom condo at fully paid na noong 2014 I still work 2 jobs just to keep me busy my 1 daughter is in Ontario at me family na siya my younger daughter is still living with me but has her own job na marami pa rin nakakagusto sa akin but no thanks I’ve had enough yes malungkot but we can’t have everything in life yung trabaho ko lang ang nagpapalibang sa akin 20:30
Omg sis..he was suicidal din
Tama yan ginawa mo, I’ve been here in America for over 40 years and I have friends married to an alcoholic grabe hirap nang asawa at mga anak it’s not healthy to be around with alcoholic person kasi pag gising instead of coffee pero sila alcohol agad. So huwag mo basahin Ang mga comments na galing sa isang ignorant people. Tama na Ang pag ka martyr for the sake of your children dapat ilayo mo na kahit sinong alcoholic.
hi mam new subs here, hindi talaga natin alam kung ano ang pweding mangyari satin pag nag asawa tayo ng isang AFAM dahil paswertihan lang talaga ang pag aasawa ng isang AFAM.
I admire you for being strong. Keep safe 🎉
Tama yan sis kong may tamang reason ka naman Mahirap yan ang lasingero
Great video.lesson to learn sa mga Pinay na nag hahangad ng afam.sending support and new friend po.god bless
marereach din ang goal na dumami ang subs❤
Ksys asawa ko na americano mas pinili na tumir dito sa Pilipinas para mabuhay kami at di ko na kailangan mag trabaho simple life lsng ksmi ni wala nga car pero masaya... Mabait lsng sya at faithful langit kami pumupunta ksmi ng US bakasyon lang
❤ silent viewer po from Toronto Canada .
Tama lang ginawa mo .bakit mo titiisin ang ganyan o sya kung hindi ka masaya.kaya mu naman tumayo sa sarili mo.
At least ikaw naka-survive ka pagkatapos mo makipaghiwalay and led an independent life. Kaya wag basta-basta pumatol sa tao na may bisyo sa alak, Babae, sugal, o sigarilyo para wala kang pagsisihan. Unless na lang kung mahal mo talaga sya.
True make your own division❤❤❤
Hi ma'am gusto kita KC totoo ka❤ingat po palage...God bless 😇
Done subcribe po ma'am ✅✅akala kasi nila pqg may afam asawa madali lang pareho lang sa filipino ang forienger .hindi lahat ng may afam ay blessed sa pagsasama .kahit kung ako sa sitwasyon mo bakit ako mag stay sa isang tao na walang direction sa buhay.Good luck and drive safely 💖💖💖
Ako rin divorce in America and it’s very difficult, dami rin galit na pinay bakit daw hiwalay ko ex ko eh nasa kanya na daw lahat..😢
They're not the one who's behind the doors sis..
Kaya ganyan...thanks for being in my Channel sis. ❤️
Same sken, khit konti ang subscribers eh happy n..
Npnsin ko, kadalasan n nag aasawa ng afam , yun afam lgi may prblma s ugali.Bbhra ang ok n afam.
Delikadong vlog ito nagdadrive naku diko magawa yan ,ingat kang po.
Kaya nga ! Ako ang kinakabahan kay Ate! Kasi dami pa naman mga high speed dyan! Next time po ate wag naman ngddrive ka! Safe drive po!Goodluck po as single!
She is mindful naman sa driving nya habang nag blog.
watching from Al
Khobar Kingdom of Saudi Arabia 🇸🇦
Good job kabayan ,yan ang matalino .done support
Excuse me po I never think about na pag dating ko dito sa US shopping Dito shopping don . Gusto ko nga uwi ng pinas . Once u get the green card pwede kan stay dito sa US hangan gusto mo kahit expired na gc mo pwede ka ngan uwi sa pinas but u can’t come back dito sa US
Agree 100 %.....why can 't she wait till she get home to vlog....
Just subscribe. Ibang pinay iba kasi mentality. Your awsome, kasi nareraise mo ang child mo alone.