Does Your Horse Like to be Petted?

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 44

  • @zed3063
    @zed3063 5 років тому +53

    Perfect ending 😂

  • @redstoneranger1404
    @redstoneranger1404 5 років тому +41

    I started to recognize and respect these subtle signs some time ago. I still cannot believe how much my new mindfulness improved the relationship between me and my horse. It might sound silly but showing that you CARE about the mental state of your horse can save you many hours in the roundpen.

    • @danw6014
      @danw6014 5 років тому +1

      Right on! From the mind through the body to the feet.

  • @cassieyoung461
    @cassieyoung461 5 років тому +14

    Love this. I was told my horse HATED grooming and petting, and would shake his skin if you touched him. So when I got him I made sure I was slow, and I would press into him so that I wasn’t “tickling” him. I use softer brushes on him and no try not to scrub him too hard with anything. I would also give him his grain and pet him so that touch wasn’t associated with work. Now he doesn’t shake his skin when I touch him, and he stands still to be groomed. I have recently found out that when he swings his head at me it’s because he wants attention before I continue 😂 then he will put his head forward when he is good and let me keep going.
    love how unique they are ❤️

  • @albundyrocks2115
    @albundyrocks2115 5 років тому +19

    I have 6 Tennessee Walking Horses and all but 1 love attention. They can be 20 acres out and when I whistle they all come running. I keep my stallion on 3 acres and he's the biggest baby of all

    • @gilliangirl1
      @gilliangirl1 5 років тому +4

      I work on a TWH farm and also own a TWH mare, and they all love people and love to be touched, groomed, or just spend time with the humans. It's just such a personable breed.

  • @mariegiven437
    @mariegiven437 5 років тому +8

    Great advice for beginners and everyone who doesn't realize this is so true! Marie Given

  • @theheritagehousesc
    @theheritagehousesc 4 роки тому +4

    Completely right. Some times they like to be touched some times they won’t. You can easily tell from the way they stand, their eyes and more. As humans we want to touch everything. It’s a need we feel deeply and we try to nurture everyone that way. Animals don’t have the same needs. Forcing them will result in an opposite outcome.

  • @linuxrant
    @linuxrant Рік тому +1

    4:36 a perfect ending note there :)

  • @susannemeches4551
    @susannemeches4551 5 років тому +8

    We have 3 horses and every is different. My horse love to be touched on her head. She loves to breath into my ear. The horse of my brother didn‘t like to be touched on the head but she loves to be touched on her back and on her neck. And the third horse in our group loves to be touched - whereever 🥰

  • @stagesixx
    @stagesixx 2 роки тому +3

    I don’t have a lot of experience with horses, but when I do, I treat it the same way as a dog or a cat. I hold out my hand slowly palm down fingers curled in a bit and let them accept me, or not. Cats can be a little more delicate to get on board and can take a little longer. I’ve found myself to be a pretty good cat whisperer.

  • @algypsy17
    @algypsy17 5 років тому +2

    What a very interesting topic ! Excellent video, and yes, I agree with all you say but must admit that I learned all these subtle signs over the last few years only by becoming a person who learned to interpretate even more slighter expressions and eager to listen to my horse(s) better and better. I know them so well now that we really communicate and they tell me where they like to be touched or scratched. Since I learned to respect their preferences they are like "hey this human understands me !" and I think it's a beautiful proove of trust that they tell me what they like because they know I will understand. They became more cuddly in general since they noticed that I understand what they like. Big improvement in our relationships and I must add that all three of them I know them so well now and each of them is totally different, they really have their own caracter. Fascinating and gratifying !

  • @ggymnast3
    @ggymnast3 5 років тому +1

    When they get sleepy and their face yeah is a great indicator whether they are stressed or calm and comfortable.
    Also if they are moving a lot like moving forward a bit moving back a bit; kind of on edge rather than staying in one place I see that as not liking to be touched/want you near them.
    When they love being petted I see them stick out their chin and kind of smile and move their head to one side like a dog would. 😃.
    Great video! I learned a lot!

  • @synthryder
    @synthryder 11 місяців тому

    Just became really interested in horses I have recently went to a field to take my dog for a walk and one horse approached me and was so friendly to my dog and me. I instantly felt a strong connection and was extremely impressed by the horses temperament.

  • @equestriandreamer5250
    @equestriandreamer5250 5 років тому +5

    Your videos really help us thank you! I subscribed 💕💕🐴

  • @Kelly_Ben
    @Kelly_Ben 4 роки тому +2

    My TB appy is a pocket horse, in that she loves to be around me, and often touching me in some way - standing with her forehead against the back of my arm, etc. For years I misunderstood this to mean she wanted pets. She actually hates and moves away from petting, scratches, etc, no matter the location or force, so I've finally stopped trying, and she's even more affectionate than before. Its so easy to assume ALL horses like scratches, like assuming ALL dogs love under the chin scratches...

  • @scubafan99
    @scubafan99 5 років тому +3

    Boy, is this spot on. I'm riding Cici, who does not like to be touched on her neck. She's also wearing a mask over her right eye because of glaucoma so, to keep her comfortable, my instructor and I constantly talk --to her or to ourselves -- to let her know where we are. She is a great horse to ride, so keenly responsive to even my slightest micro-move. She seems to have ESP. I will definitely keep your recommendations in mind when I ride next time. Thank you so much for enriching my riding experience. So awesome. Ken

  • @Orangethingy
    @Orangethingy 5 років тому +2

    Such a helpful video! I'm a beginner and I did wonder how horses communicate those signs.

  • @gimmeproof
    @gimmeproof 5 років тому +1

    I have a mare and a gelding - both pretty much walk off if they don't want you to bother them. :-) That said, my mare will actually lean into me or touch my face with hers when she wants that comfort (usually if she isn't feeling well or is nervous/scared or in a new environment). My gelding will walk over and nibble/'groom' me when he wants attention and love. It is important to mention I've had them both for 7 years and my mare took about a year to begin to really even start to bond with me. I try very hard to let them know I care, while letting them take the first steps to really bonding with me. Horses take a lot of patience and respect to have that true 'best friend' bond. Both actually come running to me when I go out to their pasture. Again - that took an investment in time and patience.

  • @suzimaynard2171
    @suzimaynard2171 4 роки тому

    Loved this and I am learning a lot from you too. How amazing was it that your horse came and touched you on cue!!!

    • @suzimaynard2171
      @suzimaynard2171 4 роки тому

      By the way, I subscribed so I don't miss anything.

  • @erinkelley4
    @erinkelley4 5 років тому

    Thank you! Excellent video on horsemanship.

  • @anthonygambitta6220
    @anthonygambitta6220 2 роки тому +1

    My Shetland pony is not too fond of petting, he rather be hand fed treats and hay. My mini horse indeed loves to be petted all day long. So different.

  • @reneebe2782
    @reneebe2782 4 роки тому +3

    I had no idea that a horse doesn't like to be petted. thank you for pointing this out. The horse I ride he hates petting, every time I try he is pushing me off with his head. I didn't understand this sign.

  • @katecrowley1858
    @katecrowley1858 5 років тому

    Love your videos. Great advice. Thank you.

  • @Soulseekingtrips
    @Soulseekingtrips 3 роки тому

    Great info

  • @Clevermoreunicorn
    @Clevermoreunicorn 5 років тому +1

    My horse did not like affection or petting when I got him. I’ve worked it into our routine before he gets turned out and now that he knows when affection will be happening, he’s far more comfortable with touching and petting.

  • @danw6014
    @danw6014 5 років тому +4

    Some people tend over do it. The other thing people do is pat or slap their horses. I have three horses. My Morgan is a social butterfly. She will seek you out to get a scratch. My thoroughbred, is very sensitive to bad feel. Often if I am looking for barn help I will see how she interacts with people who are interested in working. She likes a little attention but I don't over do it. Too much and she wants to leave. My quarter horse is indifferent. If I see she has an itch I will scratch her but otherwise I leave her alone.

  • @myBSlife
    @myBSlife 4 роки тому

    Wow, I didn't know that if a horse slightly pulls away it's head it doesn't want to be petted! I'm a small youtube and your newest subscriber let's support each other!

  • @stephaniephouotrides2435
    @stephaniephouotrides2435 5 років тому +3

    My Arab LOVED attention, my QH, not so much. When my QH wants attention, she comes to me. She's 34 and I've known/owned her for 20 years. She's a great saddle horse. I'm okay with her aloofness.

    • @MsDormy
      @MsDormy 5 років тому +3

      I'm so happy to hear you're still loving your quarter horse at such a good age - I lost my old Arab/Welsh cross last year, after 33 years of owning her. She was such a blessing to my life.

  • @platyadmirer
    @platyadmirer Рік тому

    I recently started volunteering with horses. I've petted some of them. Two of the mares when I pet them will shoot their head/neck straight up with ears forward. I think it's a surprised reaction? One of them has shoved me with her head when I petted her, which she typically has done before when she wants someone to hurry up so she can get to do what she wants (still establishing with her to not do that). They followed me afterwards so I think they're at least curious! But I'm curious what it means because I'm just guessing.

  • @EndureTemptation
    @EndureTemptation 2 роки тому +1

    She's just talking, I might as well have read this information as a text. When she mentions all the signs and clues - that is a good opportunity to present it visually. Otherwise, this is just a pretty cowgirl video.

  • @jeanclayton565
    @jeanclayton565 5 років тому +1

    My boy will walk off when he has enough. When I feed him he will take a bite then put his head to mine wanting some loving.

  • @kimberley1449
    @kimberley1449 5 років тому

    Does this also happen when a horse is eating. My granddaughter horse doesn't like being messed with then.

  • @julieklett6751
    @julieklett6751 4 роки тому

    I almost always take the time to allow my horse to "catch" me when I go to the paddock with his halter. It might take a little longer once in a while - a minute or three - but he eventually always approaches me and offers his head for the halter. I hope it makes him feel confident and respected, but you'd have to ask him. To me, it seems like time well spent. He doesn't ALWAYS like to be petted, but sometimes he's super cuddly, and he usually likes me to give him a good scratch on the withers or shoulder (sometimes he scratches my back in return). I think most horses prefer a rub or scratch to a slap, like you so often see.

  • @gayleclark1814
    @gayleclark1814 5 років тому

    👍🏻🤗

  • @nowfal4597
    @nowfal4597 4 роки тому

    I LIKE to pet horse ,and get good trainer like a daddy,

  • @kalakalachuchu
    @kalakalachuchu 4 роки тому

    Why am I watching this? Never encountered one before haha

  • @jeanclayton565
    @jeanclayton565 5 років тому

    When Charlie sees me he comes

  • @deborahsnowsill4740
    @deborahsnowsill4740 5 років тому

    First

  • @carissasantos9657
    @carissasantos9657 5 років тому +4

    Even if he doesn’t I’m doing it anyway