stop blaming yourself for all the horrible things that happened in your life

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  • @mxttthxw
    @mxttthxw  29 днів тому +34

    I hope everyone enjoyed the video. Stay positive yall

    • @Jeff-si8uv
      @Jeff-si8uv 28 днів тому +1

      ❤️😊😊😊

    • @Jeff-si8uv
      @Jeff-si8uv 28 днів тому +1

      PLEASE 🙏 NEVER SURRENDER

    • @Jeff-si8uv
      @Jeff-si8uv 28 днів тому +1

      You ARE LITERALLY LOVED ❤️😊

    • @Jeff-si8uv
      @Jeff-si8uv 28 днів тому +1

      PLEASE stand Safe

    • @Jeff-si8uv
      @Jeff-si8uv 28 днів тому +1

      Just relax 😊❤️

  • @MrMB040
    @MrMB040 27 днів тому +2

    I am here because lately I feel bad about the bad things that happened to me and the bad things I have done to other people. I am blaming myself for the wrong things I've said and done to people a very long time ago. I am glad for this video....thank you!!! 🙏

  • @fierymoth4330
    @fierymoth4330 28 днів тому +6

    The fact that I am living under the same sky as you makes me happy. Tysm Matthew for all the light and wisdom that you share to us everyday 💕

  • @msltchef22
    @msltchef22 27 днів тому +1

    Wow! YOU are so POWERFUL! I love you as a human and spirtual being Matthew!! It is no coincidence that I landed here and subscribed to your Channel! I feel so inspired and you have such a deep undrertsanding of the true meaning of Life! The things you say make total sense and is 100 % TRUE!!! Keep it up! I look forward to ever video! This crazy world needs more people like you!👍🤩

  • @MrMark2026
    @MrMark2026 28 днів тому +10

    The power of positivity is our main goal in this lifetime.

  • @tigre7739
    @tigre7739 27 днів тому +1

    Awesome Matthew! it's great spending time here listening to you share the realness of these things that we all feel, or have felt and experienced, maybe at the same times, or at different times. It gives a strong sense of comfort, support, togetherness, and positivity. Hope are enjoying your night.🤟

  • @sunboyjim693
    @sunboyjim693 28 днів тому +3

    I love that quote. You are truly amazing how you expressed this today and made my day. We just have to make the best of our life whether we are by ourselves or not. Laughter and humor are definitely the best medicine. So proud of you, Matthew!!! Thank you and stay happy and positive.❤

  • @Tysen1211
    @Tysen1211 27 днів тому +1

    Love the message bro .. Love it when you have positive and good days!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @DJ51011
    @DJ51011 28 днів тому +3

    I like to be alone a lot of the time, but not always. I find my tolerance for people goes down if I am alone too much because it is peaceful without the drama and BS people usually drag into my life. I think a 60 /40 split alone and then with people time is good. I am glad you can reflect on your past and yet move forward and are still forward thinking as well.

  • @DylanDallion
    @DylanDallion 28 днів тому +9

    ❤❤❤ Matthew it's her loss, really, your a beautiful soul! Your so sweet, so kind, and such a wonderful person! 😊😊😊

    • @user-lx3oi6xy2e
      @user-lx3oi6xy2e 28 днів тому +7

      He's too pure for this shite world

    • @DylanDallion
      @DylanDallion 28 днів тому +8

      @user-lx3oi6xy2e I absolutely agree with you, he is such a wonderful young man, if we had more young men like him this world would be a much better place to live! 👋😊

  • @tomthiesfeld5035
    @tomthiesfeld5035 28 днів тому +3

    I'm sorry about your relationship .your first love never really goes away. In 2025 I'm going to try to do things that I enjoy, and be more positive. I'm proud of the man that you became to be. Stay positive my man

  • @Justthtguy1
    @Justthtguy1 28 днів тому +12

    My favorite UA-camr/motivational speaker. I watch you when I need a pick-me-up

  • @BryanDoor
    @BryanDoor 28 днів тому +1

    Hey man seems to be a great positive motivation video. I love these kinds of videos. They say somewhere that when the tough starts coming and you are going through the s***, you just have to keep going. You will get through it and the life is brighter on the other side of it. Well if I saw you dying on the side of the road, I'd come help. Also when I see other things along the road I stop if no one else has not already. Significantly insignificant is a great Matthew term. We love you for being you Matthew, enjoy the rest of your night man. Stay Positive!

  • @edwardsofin3593
    @edwardsofin3593 28 днів тому +2

    Another Great Motivational Posting. Carry On sincerely CHEERS!

  • @PugDaddy-ze2gt
    @PugDaddy-ze2gt 27 днів тому +1

    I always pray for him, it just breaks my heart hearing his struggles🙏🏻

  • @tbecon
    @tbecon 28 днів тому +1

    Hi Matthew, awesome post, inspirational! You have learned a very hard lesson about life partners: We humans must search for our mate, someone for which we have a mutual connection. We must endure the trial and error search to find a match unless we just take the first person we stumble upon, not a good choice. We (you) deserve someone that shares that mutual connection, respect and love for each other. This applies to other aspects of our lives as well. The search is the journey and the prize is a life well lived with as many loves, including romantic, familial and friendships that we can build with a handful of those becoming enduring and special. You’re a sweet and kind person that will undoubtedly make many connections and you will occasionally get back as much as you have given. Seek out the best people and please don’t settle, the pain of loss and non-mutual relationships will be nothing compared to the joy of the special ones. ❤

  • @Fortodaystoryline
    @Fortodaystoryline 28 днів тому +2

    I enjoy watching your videos Matthew I watched you live from my smart tv last night unfortunately I am usually a sleep at that time so I didn’t stay awake for long I am glad you had wonderful Christmas and Santa got you what you wanted . You are an awesome young man Matthew you deserve all the good things that you get in life and something’s you don’t need to take seriously but you do need to take what goes on in yourself seriously stay strong God Bless you buddy have a wonderful day today my friend 😊❤

  • @randyneely209
    @randyneely209 28 днів тому +3

    Hey Matt, you should have your own little New Year's Eve bash live stream. Alot of us don't really do anything or go anywhere, so it would be fun...and different! 🥳

  • @timb2128
    @timb2128 28 днів тому +1

    I wouldn't step over you on the side of the road, bro! You are valued so much by your subscribers! We love you, dude!

  • @mikethorn70
    @mikethorn70 28 днів тому +3

    You're fighting an internal struggle, and winning, and surviving. You being the empath you are, are helping others around you. It makes you feel goid when you help others. Egen if its just a smile or a kind word, to let them know they have been seen they have been heard. And yes if you were along side the road, i would care, and if you vouldnt stand or walk on your own i would pick you up and carry you to safety. . . . Hope your day is awesome take care, be safe, remember . ... Love you my friend ♥️🤍💙🖤🤗🤟🧸🫶

  • @MarcoAntonio-ib7rs
    @MarcoAntonio-ib7rs 28 днів тому +2

    Matthew, you are special, very amazing and beautiful! Thank you so much! I love you! ❤

  • @rodscrivner7132
    @rodscrivner7132 27 днів тому +1

    Not Blaming myself is difficult. Because it is my fault. I made the choices that led to my demise. Life should have two one-time use buttons you can push when things go bad, one for pause and one for replay. Matthew, you have a great future ahead of you, whether you realize it now or not. A million Subs are only the start for you, sir. All the people you will help along the way will not just be their reward, but yours as well. Always be mindful that your words are powerful, and everyone is listening to every single one. Choose each one responsibly, and wisely.

  • @2000cnw
    @2000cnw 28 днів тому +2

    You are very in tune to everything around you always stay positive no matter what is thrown at you

  • @Jeff-si8uv
    @Jeff-si8uv 28 днів тому +4

    I’m SORRY 😢 YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL PERSON 😊

  • @Steinweg100
    @Steinweg100 28 днів тому +1

    Xmas is a bad time for me, I am almost sad as you are! I never show it. it would be selfish of me when my carer puts his heart and soul into everything so as to make it good for me, and, it is not difficult to respond with cordiality! No, I am aggrieved! I would not walk around your body on the roadside, I would kick into the gutter instead LOL! seriously, this is what I am like. We get by by philosophy and laughter! If I had not made you or your nana laugh in ten minutes of meeting, I would have to think of another way! Again you look so vital. I am certain that you are doing all the right things! Thank you for what you try to do. Thank you for your smile ! Happy Xmas :) I am really glad for you xxx

  • @Raven_Luna_Tick
    @Raven_Luna_Tick 28 днів тому +2

    “In the midst of winter, I found there was, within me, an invincible summer.
    And that makes me happy. For it says that no matter how hard the world pushes against me, within me, there’s something stronger - something better, pushing right back.” - Albert Camus Have a great day people. Love you Matthew 🖤

    • @mxttthxw
      @mxttthxw  28 днів тому

      You have a great day yourself my man 🖤

  • @ジェシーウォルター
    @ジェシーウォルター 28 днів тому +2

    Hi Matthew! Your videos help me so much. I love your positive vibe! You're awesome!

  • @bradcarltonslogoarchive9488
    @bradcarltonslogoarchive9488 28 днів тому +2

    HI MY BEST BROTHER!!!! I'M very PROUD of YOU!!!! I see progression!!!! I LOVE YOU BROTHER!!!! I'm very much thankful to be apart of your life and to be a BROTHER!!!! Anyway, LOVE YOU BROTHER!!!! I Am here for you as you already know!!!! As always!!!! Have a blessed day today!!!! God bless you!!!! Jesus loves you too!!!!Love you brother!!!! Very much!!!!

    • @mxttthxw
      @mxttthxw  28 днів тому +1

      You are absolutely amazing, I love you brother 🖤🖤🖤

    • @bradcarltonslogoarchive9488
      @bradcarltonslogoarchive9488 28 днів тому

      @mxttthxw LOVE YOU VERY MUCH BROTHER!!!! 🙏

  • @sharoncollins4214
    @sharoncollins4214 28 днів тому +1

    Thank you bubba. ❤ I'm so glad to be a part of ur life bubba ❤ take care of yourself!!!! God bless you all ♥

  • @LeonorWC
    @LeonorWC 28 днів тому +2

    Thankyou matthew. Take care
    You help alot ❤

  • @TimothyHyer-e4s
    @TimothyHyer-e4s 28 днів тому +3

    Life is like a library with endless books to read. You can choose to read one book or multiple books. Every book has a different story and a different ending. But that's the good thing about life. So many adventures. stories, and endings. If you don't like the book, you're reading you can put it down and start a new book. Enjoy life Matt and enjoy your books.

  • @baldbeardedbloke6887
    @baldbeardedbloke6887 27 днів тому +1

    Stay Positive Matt and keep evolving from matt to MATT.

  • @Dragonmoon1598
    @Dragonmoon1598 28 днів тому +2

    It's easy to accept ourselves. In the sense that we learn to appreciate what who we are and what we can offer (yes, it still takes work).
    The hard part is meeting someone who appreciates you as we'll and everything you have to offer (and what you don't). And you reciprocate that feeling towards them return.😁

  • @Elora-i1f
    @Elora-i1f 20 днів тому +2

    I'm sorry to say this but please go live I've been waiting all day❤

  • @yveshouel377
    @yveshouel377 28 днів тому +1

    Hi,Matthew,true,we mustn't judge or criticize anybody,'cause there's a whole"history"of a soul we 'll never read behind the mask..Thanks to share your thinking,Matt.❤❤

  • @AndressaLuizeSantosVieira
    @AndressaLuizeSantosVieira 27 днів тому +1

    Matthew tries to think of something good,you Don't need anyone,you are enough for yourself,you has a house,you can blocked uwanted familiar or friend or Any people of you life ,you a median person happy its a real happy❤❤❤

  • @noosamark
    @noosamark 24 дні тому +1

    Dear Matthew, I would not ever step over you Matt. Maek ❤

  • @reyjusuf
    @reyjusuf 28 днів тому +1

    Theres one event in my life that I still cant get over even though I've analyzed it thoroughly and logically there was nothing more I could've done. But still there's a nagging feeling that I should've done things differently or should've been better.

  • @adrianhempfing2042
    @adrianhempfing2042 27 днів тому +3

    7:21 can i have a matthew statue ? he so cute

  • @FredStoffel
    @FredStoffel 28 днів тому +2

    No truer words.thanks.

  • @cityguyusa
    @cityguyusa 28 днів тому +1

    That's why wars all over the world are done in our name. Because of money. Our money. Yet we have no say.

    • @user-lx3oi6xy2e
      @user-lx3oi6xy2e 28 днів тому

      We're always the pawns in the game of chess

  • @jimv2094
    @jimv2094 28 днів тому +1

    Hello my man, really nice video, you talk so deeply and so heart felt, your amazing my man, I love you ❤ XXX.

  • @night5091
    @night5091 28 днів тому +2

    Sooner everyone realizes we’re a mouse in a giant wheel. Better off people will be. Rinse/repeat! Move on from your ex. Before getting into another potential messy relationship. Work on what you want to do, where you want to be. All these relationships do is bring distractions/stress. The Mind can F with you with many ways. That’s what is making you unhappy, unsure, confused, feeling of being trapped. Or whatever. If you have your health, you’re doing ok. Money is important. Without it. Can bring a life of hardship. You’ll be fine man.

  • @kimsanchannel3920
    @kimsanchannel3920 28 днів тому +2

    Hello Matthew ✨️
    Thank you for being true to yourself, for cheering your thoughts, and visdom. To be Your
    Self in front of the world, by not having a script, is being genuine to yourself is admiral in this so often
    fake word, that's why so many of us watching Your videos, that make me proud of you. Being alone whit your self is just being alone is so true. In my case I am
    almost alone al the time, and i don't like it because im Overthinking about everything and
    that's is exhausting. Thank you for saying that not judge enyone, I've been judge by being me so many times and that hurts me. So for me matt, you are not insignificant. Matt, when I look at the moon 🌙 I often wonder if you looking at it too at same time . Bye the way if you were a statue i think you would look very beautiful 😍
    🫠 Kim 🌠

  • @BrandonBuras-cx3bp
    @BrandonBuras-cx3bp 28 днів тому +2

    Hey Matt hope you are feeling alright buddy ❤ happy new year. I know exactly what you are talking about the past few days for me has been really stressful. I honestly hate being alone my past boyfriend ended up dumping me and I always wonder why 😢was it my fault. I have always tried being nice to everyone I meet but somepeople just keeps on mistaking me being nice for being weak and nieve. Honestly sometimes I really have a hard time trusting people now cause I honestly end up getting hurt so many times. Hopefully 2025 will be better 🎉🙏 stay positive

  • @randyneely209
    @randyneely209 28 днів тому +2

    It's hard to see the good in some people, when you can't find it. 🤨

  • @johnconway4161
    @johnconway4161 28 днів тому +1

    Great video Matthew I hope you had a nice Christmas

  • @philhoward4466
    @philhoward4466 28 днів тому +3

    when i am alone, i go watch Matthew.

  • @ronniecincotti
    @ronniecincotti 27 днів тому +1

    I'm glad you went away these four walls close in more everyday and I'm dying inside and nobody knows it but me like a clown I put on a show the pain is real, even if nobody knows and I'm crying inside and knows it but me why did't I say the things I needed to say how could I let my angel get angel get away now my world it just a tumblin' down I can say it so clearly but you're no where around the nights are lonely, the days are so sad and I just keep thinkin' about the love that we had and I'm missing you and nobody knows it but me I carry a smile when i'm broken in two and I'm nobody without someone like you I'm tremblin' inside and nobody knows but Me yeah yeah o I like awake, it's a quarter past three I'm screamin' at night as if I thought you'd hear me yeah my heart is callin' you and nobody knows but me well how blue can I get you ask my heart but like a jigsaw puzzle it's been torn apart a million words couldn't say, just how I feel a million years from now you know, I'll be lovin' you still the nights are lonely the days are so sad and I just keep thinkin' about the love that we had and I'm missin' you and nobody knows it but me o yeah yeah woah woah mmm
    This is how I really feel inside of me so much I can't escape I really try everyday also keep on pushing and pushing but it is not enough!!!!

  • @KyleRoberts-hd8zn
    @KyleRoberts-hd8zn 27 днів тому +1

    Nice video 😊😊😊😊

  • @adrianhempfing2042
    @adrianhempfing2042 27 днів тому +1

    Idea 2 For 2025 , if not continuing college and instead of the navy - have you considered letting your youtube sponsor your flights, accommodation to travel around the world and do some travel vlogging on youtube ?
    Getting out there , a growth opportunity , seeing different cultures and places

  • @FabriceLEQUEUX
    @FabriceLEQUEUX 28 днів тому +2

    Hello matt in the various good words that you gave i remembered a sentence that your grandmother said you have to take care of the hay when the weather is good she is right and it is beautiful thank you matt for your good heart your friend matt ;;;;;;fabrice

  • @DylanDallion
    @DylanDallion 28 днів тому +1

    ❤❤❤ that would be me, having the worst time of my life, I'm not trying to be a Betty boohoo, I'm just speaking my truth. 😊

  • @tracycampbell4795
    @tracycampbell4795 28 днів тому +2

    Awesome video help lot people

  • @Comeback-k4y
    @Comeback-k4y 28 днів тому +3

    I think that matthew is a very skillful speaker. His speach has strength in itself. Maybe it is more impressive than any politician's words.🤣👍

  • @adrianhempfing2042
    @adrianhempfing2042 27 днів тому +1

    Idea 1 For 2025 , if not continuing college and instead of the navy - have you considered volunteering with the Peace Corp ?
    But I'm not sure if you need a college degree and it is a couple year commitment.
    Probably no money , no benefits like the navy but just an alternative to do good

  • @LesterDubois
    @LesterDubois 28 днів тому +1

    Awesome matthew proud of you❤😊

  • @roearchive6366
    @roearchive6366 28 днів тому +1

    If only there was the purest-of-hearts kind of king.
    If only he decreed that all his subjects would have to embrace one another's fears and trepidations.
    If only people's jobs were - waking up every morning seeking out a source for their happiness. They would get all the food in the world, all shelter they would need, all their needs would be met, if only they found a daily decadent adventure that would shine a hopeful ray of light on at least one more stranger.
    If only our bodily energy depended on actively employing all mental and emotional faculties of the mind and heart to send a jolt of joy and grace onto those around us. Strangers whose sole purpose on this land would be - rummaging through the clutter in their hectic minds, finding fodder for the lonely, for the weary, for the angry, for the love-starved.
    If only...

  • @ChristopherJackson-xx5de
    @ChristopherJackson-xx5de 28 днів тому +1

    Love you brother ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @justinbogan8072
    @justinbogan8072 28 днів тому +2

    God I love you 💕 ❤

  • @ggoooodd
    @ggoooodd 28 днів тому +4

    I love the positivity my friend! Here is $5 to rent "It's a Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood" here on UA-cam. Bless you.

    • @adrianhempfing2042
      @adrianhempfing2042 27 днів тому +1

      W dono . I haven't heard of - it's a beautiful day in the neighbourhood. What is it ?

    • @ggoooodd
      @ggoooodd 27 днів тому +2

      @@adrianhempfing2042 It's a wonderful movie. Hard to describe.

    • @mxttthxw
      @mxttthxw  27 днів тому +1

      thank you so much for this good sir. I hope you are enjoying yourself and have a very happy new year.🖤🖤

    • @adrianhempfing2042
      @adrianhempfing2042 27 днів тому

      @ggoooodd I saw the trailer it's a feel good bio pic.
      Looks much better than the other Tom Hanks film A man called otto. That was a hard watch about mental health problems.
      Hopefully Matthew can watch It's a beautiful day in the neighbourhood

  • @cityguyusa
    @cityguyusa 28 днів тому +2

    What do you want to see in that mirror? You're a good looking guy. You can be as significant or unsignificant as you want. I hope you're not worried about 6 pack abs and the silliness on all these social media sites. None of it's real.

    • @mxttthxw
      @mxttthxw  28 днів тому

      none of it

    • @cityguyusa
      @cityguyusa 24 дні тому

      @@mxttthxw I'm assuming that's a question because agreement wouldn't make much sense. Yeah, it's all photoshopped or filtered depending on how it's done. 6 pack abs are not something that's even desirable from a health or longevity perspective you don't want to have your body fat so low. Fat is storage for when times are lean and maybe food isn't available like it once was or currently is like could have happened duing COVID we say the beginnings or it. If you've heard about using water resevoirs as batteries what they do is pump water uphill into a higher resevoir when there's less strain on the grid and then release the water when they need more power and generate more energy. That's kind of how our bodies work. When we eat more than we need our bodies store it and conversely when we use more than we eat they convert that fat back to energy or so the story goes.

  • @HellHoKitty-s7d
    @HellHoKitty-s7d 28 днів тому +1

    If you could act, you would make an excellent spiderman. 💛💛

  • @Jeff-si8uv
    @Jeff-si8uv 28 днів тому +1

    YOU ARE GREAT 😊

  • @philhoward4466
    @philhoward4466 28 днів тому +1

    who should i blame for all the horrible things that happened in my life?

  • @liamwalsh2467
    @liamwalsh2467 28 днів тому +1

    Matthew please could you read more poetry you're very good at it. Please could you read my favourite poem The Darkling Thrush by Thomas Hardy . Alternatively something from your alter ego Holden Caulfield in Cather In the Rye . Thankyou

  • @janvanhouten2699
    @janvanhouten2699 28 днів тому +1

    you come from far but you seem a bit better in life. i understand that youtube can be intense all those problems of people. but i think you can handle it.

  • @LeonorWC
    @LeonorWC 28 днів тому +2

    By the way
    Do you ever want to try and make a vlog and show us a day in your life

    • @mxttthxw
      @mxttthxw  28 днів тому +2

      that would be awesome still getting a hang of things

  • @Raven_Luna_Tick
    @Raven_Luna_Tick 28 днів тому +1

    Capitalism sucks. Having money, the lack of money, wanting even more money, is the cause of most of the worlds problem. However there is one thing money can't buy, and that is Love. 💵🚫❤

  • @islandgirl7594
    @islandgirl7594 28 днів тому +2

    Hey Boss NTSY

  • @silkstrings316
    @silkstrings316 28 днів тому +1

    Hey boy😊😊

  • @samuelzayton316
    @samuelzayton316 28 днів тому +1

    Good idea.

  • @justbarry587
    @justbarry587 27 днів тому +1

    Matt ❤✌

  • @r4h4al
    @r4h4al 27 днів тому +1

    I've noticed that every insta message I send you've suddenly stopped replying to.

  • @mannya5951
    @mannya5951 27 днів тому +1

    Merry Christmas bro! December 26 which is "Boxing Day" in Canada (and other countries part of the Commonwealth) has always been Christmas celebration with my ex...every year on this day I feel sad.

  • @richardwade6256
    @richardwade6256 27 днів тому +1

    If you're ever lying on the side of the road, all 8000 plus of your subscribers will care. Many others too. We all care. I care.

  • @user-lx3oi6xy2e
    @user-lx3oi6xy2e 28 днів тому +1

    Happy boxing day!

  • @oto.Kielce
    @oto.Kielce 28 днів тому +1

    😍

  • @White_Voi.d----3
    @White_Voi.d----3 28 днів тому +1

    🤍🤍

  • @e.nowbodhi144
    @e.nowbodhi144 27 днів тому +1

    and start blaming Capitalism lolol