How to Make Men Chase You
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
- In this video, we're going to show you how to make a man chase you. It's not as hard as you might think and it's definitely worth trying out!
With a little bit of creativity and effort, you can make a man chase you all you want - and have a blast doing it! In this video, we'll show you how to set the scene, put on a show and make sure that the man you want is chasing you all the way!
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“Make him feel like a king when he’s with you and make him feel forgotten when he’s without you “ that was all I needed to hear
Right!
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That's way too much work
That's crazy accurate
Thank you so much ❤
Men will chase when you’re doing your own things and paying no mind to them, TRUST ME. Let them fly 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Exactly x
Facts
100%
Amen.
Dudes chase regardless y'all should know that but the question is why y'all don't chase?
If you aren't attracted to them they will chase you to the ends of the earth 😅
That’s a fact
Facts!!!
This is a legitimate Fact. They’ll sit there and be friendzoned and wait and beg and be nice and Chase till the end of time
@@copiouscatevery time lol
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Coming from a woman who knew the game and is a newlywed with an amazing provider man….THIS IS ON THE MONEY!Omg I looove MJ 😂 I’m sending this to my girlies 🥰
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I’m taking notes sis ❤
Mines living in another state and he mairried
Boots, bags, bangles and businesses 🤣🤣😆… I love love love MJ. He’s simply hands down a forever vibe. ❤❤
Most definitely. My husband and I have been married for 21yrs and still going strong. Men love the chase
i am 54 years old, sinlge and living by best life ever. I really feel sorry for young women because men do not chase anymore. Hell most men dont even like women anymore. A man will chase another man way qucker than a woman. There is way too much porn out there. And the way men feel about women now a days is watered down because soooo many men are down low. Even the straight men want to try men just to see what all the fuss is about. So i am sooooooo glad that at this age i am content with being single.
Same here. 54 too.🫡
You are right
This is the comment i was looking for. Im 38 & I feel the same way, man dont chase woman anymore. After a couple dates & not getting what they want they just turn off & go away
😵💫 plus there are way too many diseases out there to even be concerned with their foolish behavior !!!!!
Your so spot on
Treat him like a king 👑 when ya’ll together and forgotten when ya’ll not LOL, yasssss this right here is bars😂
Dating ain’t like it use to be. Nowadays you can be sleeping with a killer or con man. This world has gotten too dangerous.
Ladies protect yourself"; continue to be a lady sweetie 🌹🌹🌹🎉💝🦋
agreed
Yes as MJ said if your on a date take your drink with you. We must always think of our safety 👍🏼
WHAT you just explained isnt new and has always been going on
@@samyljones3871 isn’t that how it work tho? There’s nothing new under the Sun but we still reiterate it. Just like what you said, this we already know.
Just do your thing- don't chase nor force. Sometimes just letting things be will have people gravitate to you more, at least that's been my experience.
That’s call the law of attraction and in a way manifestation 🤔 Wow I guess we all have super powers 😂🙏🏽
@@prettywoke6328 indeed we do
It really is true when you’re not looking and not desperate men will come flocking!
"Don't lay there like no dead piece of fish." 😂😂
When you love yourself, take care of yourself, just completely spoil and be head over heels for YOURSELF, everyone will want a piece of you. The problem is when you love yourself on this level, you just don’t want anyone anymore. take what you will from that, but, be nice to others 😅
This is true
Yea...partially true
Great point ❤❤❤
@@busybee2033what’s the other part that’s not true? Please assist 😊
The truth!
He said can you come to my house? I said HELL NO! I was not being manipulative. You don’t get my time, my loyalty, my attention, and last, and surely not least my body 2 seconds after you meet me ,make that man earn you.
"On your date show your shape"...this works! Keep it classy 😉
DAMN THIS WORKS! I took every step! He wants to get in engaged
When, DID You exercise these techniques? Cause my guy CHARMED me out my sacred kitty on our 1st date, thereafter Sent me Gmornin txts everymorning, linked up at the spot we've met at a few times thereafter, rainchecked me after we saw each other last SATURDAY, EXCUSED us seeing each other the other day (which he proposed) stating the cops pulled him over and took the longest... HAVEN'T HEARD from him since and don't wanna call him because I told him I'll hear from him when he call me in the video text I sent him...
You're right. I'm 60 and married and exes from 35 years ago still trying find me via social media. Lol I was that girl back in the day. I ghosted many. These men luv the chase especially after they had the gold and you disappear. 😂
He’s one billion percent RIGHT!
Evan a ‘street pharmacist’ knows in order to get anyone hooked, give them a VERY good sample of the product FIRST, then BACK OFF, you create an addiction. They will do anything to get to you, however, be careful using this tactic because it could backfire on you big-time ,you don’t want someone to become obsessed with you.
I would only use this on a guy that I really really liked ,and I wanted him to like me in return ,seriously still be careful !!
If it's eazzzzzy; it's sleeezzzzy! Men are chasers by nature. Give em a challenge. Don't show you're desperate. DESPERATE WOMEN attract pimps, players, whoremongers, and narcissists. MEN WILL TREAT YOU HOW THEY VIEW YOU. LADIES real men don't treat all women the same. The dream girl will get all of him. She's like the Bugatti out of all the cars. This particular woman is very supportive, career savvy, very intelligent, loyal, committed, wife material, and definitely the challenge. She definitely doesn't show the man his world doesn't revolve around him. Good quality men looooove that👊🏾💪🏾✌🏾
MJ definitely speaking facts. I use do this back in day. Im talking about taking care his sexual needs with your own twist to it. Taking full control over friendships. Making him feel appreciated. But at same time don’t be available when he wants you. Make him wait until you’re ready see him. Become his best friend go into friendship as not looking or wanting anything other then time. You will invest your time with him but the game is to gain trust from him. Once he feels that he can trust you. You’ll have him wrapped around your fingers tips. You can get anything out of him. Be extremely careful because these new age mens WILL TAKE YOU OUT GAME!! I will advise you be extremely careful.
Unfortunately this is my personality 😅 I see why I get texts from guys I'm not really interested in. They think I'm playing hard to get😂 lol I'm not playing 🤣
Going through this too! They be coming on strong but sense I'm not really attracted they be wanting my time alot..
17:07 "What's today, November 7th, I'm available after the 20th!" LOL. He either blocks you or clears his schedule.
Boots, Bags, Bangles, and Businesses …. period 💁🏽♀️😂
I love how you had to put jewelry on cuz you not a heathen 😂... my mom said always have your earrings on or you not dressed. ❤
Exactly!!
@@MJHarrisSpeaksHow to keep our power when we are already in a relationship and living together?
This behavior reminds me of how Robin Givens treated Eddie Murphy in Boomerang..he was obsessed with her because she made him chase her
Great example! My favorite movie
Let me tell you something, I got mad at my roommate and was hungry so I took my ass to WaWa and I’m sitting here listening to you and LMAO in the parking lot eating my BLT looking crazy. Whenever I am feeling upset or sad or want to feel like I had talked to a good friend without having to actually deal with a person, your videos and advice always come through at the right time. I’ve sent many of your videos to some of my close friends ❤
😂😂😂❤ love that for you
MJ I follow you from NEW ZEALAND. Just finished my nightshift at the hospital as a nurse and I have never laughed so hard! 😂 You have made my day ❤
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😂😂😂😂😂funny
Me too 😂
You are so on point!! I'm sweet but I'm also right about it!!!
Seriously. The way he is talking is so funny 😂
*The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.*
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Everything he is saying works. I do it on purpose, but not on purpose. I just know what to do without thinking about it.
WHAT'S TEA? Mine, ain't called me nor texted me... LAST TIME we saw each other was the 15th..
“Gays ain’t never broke” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ive been feeling heartbroken after a breakup, but really appreciated this vid which has boosted my mood😂.
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Can I just hire you to get this man for me? 😂❤
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This is spot on every time I pay no attention to he comes running well he will be chasing for the rest of his life cuz he was an asshole to me . This video came right on time !!!! ❤
Same, never again ❤
Chasing for the rest of his life is wild. I love it
Same let's make these men panic, he was busy for 4 days so I'm making him wait over a week so it will be over two weeks before he gets to see me (ladies we are the prize) they must chase us. Then I'm going to do exactly what MJ said be all feminine and cute thats easy as I'm soft in clothing and skin an only 4ft 10"(petite). Then he's not seeing me for over a week.. im goin to be busy 🙃 we must make them want to lock us down if he hasn't locked me down by then im ignoring him forever, and finding someone else to accidentally gaze at 😇 I'm older and I'm not wasting my precious time!
Same 😢
Lmaoooooooo!!!! Baby i love me some you!!! You said “some of y’all some hood niggas” 😂😂😂
It’s true! Lol😂
Queens MJ not lying they can't stay mad with positive feminine energy is around....so when he in his feelings get near him and pour it on!
Mj Harris for President. Thanks for getting us girls together. Your stuff works boo I promise you. ❤❤❤
MJ, I love the way you tell a story!😅
MJ I LOVE THE WAY YOU TELL A STORY ❤
I know right. 😅
MJ you know there are men out there using these same tactics on women!!!
This all literally sounds like what the man I was in a situationship with was doing lol but hes blocked now.
Yes a lot of these men out here want to be chased 😂and they are thinking they're the prize when the woman should be the prize, girl some of these men are something else nowadays😂
When he hung up the phone and his whole demeanor changed 😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂right
Yesss👏🏾👏🏾
I used to really care about the guys I was talking too- thinking this is how you get into a relationship. I guess treating men like good people makes them disinterested. I just had my glow up and going back into the dating scene- oh boi. Imma get my lick back💔
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Wait😂😂😂😂 the conversation with God has me in tears. We love you MJ
You should copyright "get in here, get in here, get in here." It's so iconic I can't 😊❤😊
The phone conversation had me rolling but I’m taking notes 😏
Yesssssss This is correct. I been getting stalked my whole life . Its toxic but it work .love it. You got me hollering 😂😂😂😂😂😂
He is like the male bestie we all wish to have ❤ I love his energy 🦋💞🌸🤩
Life is not a game and being in a relationship with someone where you’re always playing mind games is exhausting you can’t be yourself that is not life. It’s unhappiness! ❤
sad but true :(
Wys. 💯‼️👊🏽🥂
Exactly
I did this naturally because I was not with the shitz, and he stayed with it, consistent. On my way to getting married.
BIG FACTS! MJ knows what he’s talking about! In my younger days I naturally did these things. I had an unofficial bf (and treated him accordingly). When another man came along and officially locked me in and wanted to get married I was gone. So I got engaged, got pregnant, and things didn’t work out. Unofficial bf finds out and comes back. When he came back he did so with a new phone number, had removed his tattoo of his bm’s name, built a 5-bedroom house in another state, bought me a luxury car and had it sitting pretty on custom made rims, and begged to fly me and my newborn daughter “home to him” because he said “I’m lonely in this big house by myself with no wife and my kids don’t live with me full time.” Dude even bought a dog and literally had a white picket fence installed.
All that to say, do what MJ says and your life will change!
You lucked the heck up!!
Just turned 30 and I may not be ready for the dating game but I love these videos. Your role-playing is A1!😂😂
30 or 20! 30 is kinda old to be saying you not ready to date, that would be behind to me. 🤔
She said just turned 30 AND…, I don’t think she was citing her age as being unready to date. She can be at a circumstance in her life where she is unabated/unavailable to date, not necessarily because she is a particular age.
@@w.thomas306They said 30…why is that behind? I see why everyone is becoming obsessed with not wanting to even age gracefully. She’s 30 not in the retirement home 😂
I CANNOT with You!!! 😂😂😂😂..love how you shape the entire scenario
Man soon as I caught feelings I lost 😞 but after some time he came back. But then here I went again. But now I’m over it. I’m ready to spoil me 😂😂 and keep letting all the people in my life that spoil me, continue 😂
Lol, Once he says "Hey stranger know it's working. I love that!!!!😂😅
This girlie took notes! I must say i did this without knowing what the heck I was doing😂 When you good to them in everyway😝 & stroke that ego, you reel them in. We both are wearing masks at first so let the games begin. I ❤ you MJ🥰
Please do a video on how to keep the power in a relationship especially when living together. MJ you are awesome!!❤❤❤
yes, i'd love to learn about this too!!
@MJHarrisSpeaks
Me too this will be a must see video.
Same
Yesssss
"We rough, we roughty, we shaking tables!" MJ I cried in parts of this video. But you do be dropping gems.😂😂😂
You killed me with the opening line, y’all not even doing nothing, YALL NOT EVEN DOING NOTHING! Get in here, get in here, get in here!!!😂😂😂
MJ, you are the Mama and Bestie I never had!! Can we get more masterclasses please? 😍
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@MJHarrisSpeaks how do I contact you directly for coaching?
I didn't know that I NEEDED THIS until NOW!!!!! I am Laughing and taking notes!
LOL “Pastor gonna call me down to the alter behind this” lol
When I TELL YOU I’M SCREAMING AND BLUSHING. The eye contact!?!? Girl, I got goosebumps. This is BIBLE.
Lawd....the entertainment over here! 🤣🤣😂 Will be saving this video.... These men out here are ridiculous.
This is sooooooo true!! I used to do this but inadvertently because I just be in my own world and was not about to chase a man :…. I match that energy and have adhd so I’m always behind on things ( aka busy) or interested into a new thing so - basically having my own life … and the men used to and still go crazyyyy . So fuuunny, your storytelling hahahahah😂
As a daughter of a beautiful, amazingly beautiful shoulder, she even talk to anything about men. Because my mama I love her and she’s 85 years old he’s been a pick me girl.!!!!😢😢😢😢 it took 39 years to figure this bullshit out with men, still get stuck with being to nice. But at 59 and looking to meet my husband, I know MJ WILL HELP GUIDE ME. Listen and learn beloved.. ❤❤❤❤❤
Hahahaha..MJ is something else😂😂..but he 💯 % RIGHT!!!...
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I laughed throughout this in entire video because the accuracy!!!!! Gave me flashbacks. 😂💀 MJ you just reminded me of ME and honestly, I’m about to get back outside soon! 😬🤫😏
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I’m screaming with the sitting at the table and coming in the restaurant part😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂The way you hung the dang phone up at 11:49 was everything!
"Cinema Sh!+!"
Omg my face hurts from smiling!!! That was soooo good😂😂 Love you MJ!!❤❤❤
Everything MJ says is truth!
Lol, MJ, you are going to have all my car windows broken out and the headlights 😂😂😂
“Make him feel like a king when he’s with you and make him feel forgotten when he’s not.” GENIUS👏🏾👏🏾 you better tell it MJ💯
11:48 “get off the phone!” 😂😂😂😂😂
“What the F**k do you think this is?” 😭Had me laughing 😂😂😂😂
My man is manipulator too!! He knows all those stuff how can I get out of this loop😂😂
Gotta run this back during my workout tonight. MJ is dropping gems.
You’re the bestfriend I never knew I needed until now 😆🙌🏼
😂OMG this was so entertaining! You're my type of crazy, MJ! Thanks for the blueprint.
This one took me all the way out!! 😂😂😂😂 love you! ♓️ things! We definitely can play it up! Illusions.
You are funny, blink, you don’t want him to think you are crazy😂😂😂😂
You are GORGEOUS so obsessed with your videos 😍
When you go from in character to not in character is hilarious. You always put a smile on my face. Thank You!
😂 "Gays aint never broke" ☠️🙌🏾
I feel like when I watch MJ… it’s like talking to my girlfriends IRL! Haha
MJ is Effin Hilarious...😂😂😂😂😂. Best auntie ever❤❤❤❤❤
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How to make men chase just be available men naturally chase what they are attracted to if he's attracted he will if he's not he wont
Truth ❤
Omg he’s such a Good story teller lol he should do more of these.
This man knows too much!
For those in a relationship now, and don’t feel like their partner chases anymore, Should they still apply this to their relationship ?
Us in relationships are all waiting lol too🎉
On your date, show your shape!!! Got it babe ❤
Yes, but that can be dangerous. I know because a man I was dating it took me five years to get out of that relationship
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The plot twist at 10:58 is DANGEROUS. WHEW CHILEEEE 😂😂
I'll lock the garage.
You're so dramatic! BUT! I LOVE IT❤
Him doing the female voice, he sounds a bit like Beyonce🤣🤣🤣❤️
22:32 I literally CHOKED on my own spit 😂😂😂💖
This was the BEST video I have ever laid eyes on! Made me laugh and taught me a thing or 2 as well 😍 love it! 💕
MJ u killin me right now 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love your facial expressions, your personality. You are hilarious.
True i give them pain 😂
Yess I'm tooo old now.. we not for the streets no more..I'm with you MJ
MJ , U r all the way live with this 1 , every man that I had is still in my live , and I have the new breed of men chasing me today. 😊
When you said your big ass want the steak I screamed
I don’t know why the algorithm brought me this video, but I just subscribed. 😀
Where were you when I was single 😂❤ Happy Diwali...you're a firecracker!