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  • Опубліковано 15 сер 2024
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    CHAPTERS
    00:00 Accepting what is
    01:11 Question everything
    04:24 ⁠My biggest fear
    10:00. ⁠Living in gratitude
    11:34 Perspective is everything
    12:36 Quiet confidence
    13:45 Relationship with our parents
    15:29 We don’t own anything
    23:24 The number one thing
    25:57 ⁠Friendships
    29:27 ⁠Final reflections
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  • @Ursulabo
    @Ursulabo 2 місяці тому +13

    replacing “self-judgment” with “self-kindness” can greatly reduce anxiety. If you approach yourself more positively, you’ll feel better, think more clearly, and escape the thought traps. I have to remind me everyday❤

  • @athinahaadji
    @athinahaadji 2 місяці тому +12

    We will never figure things out fully and there’s so much beauty in that, we will never reach a point to say everything is fixed and the more we release to the Universal forces and release control we will feel lighter and happier 🦋

    • @xeniaadonts
      @xeniaadonts  Місяць тому +1

      So so true! Its a delicate dance between creating and letting go

  • @cathm652
    @cathm652 5 днів тому

    Omg yes - people who see you as a victim and a failure cos about 10years ago you were a bit like that and they still see you as that even though you have succeeded and are out of that now!!! You’re right 💕💕

  • @katharinag.5990
    @katharinag.5990 2 місяці тому +6

    THIS is gold! Thank you sooo so much for sharing your thoughts, you have no idea how much needed this was (for me at least). I am in a similar situation since last year and I really can take so much from this… the excuses I didn't notice, the fear of failing, the gratefulness! This is eye opening - Thank you from the bottom of my heart. 💓💓💓💓💓💓

    • @xeniaadonts
      @xeniaadonts  Місяць тому +1

      this means everything all my best to u! love u love u love u

  • @mjezquerra
    @mjezquerra 2 місяці тому +6

    Truly from the bottom of my ♥️ Thank you for uploading this and sharing your thoughts. You have no idea how much this resonates with me. Cant thank you enough, these words have made me think deeper about my life / things im going through and my next steps to take. So weird feeling like I know you without knowing you. Lots of love 🩵🦋🩵🦋🩵

    • @xeniaadonts
      @xeniaadonts  Місяць тому +1

      This means the world to me! Love u!

  • @nataliao8868
    @nataliao8868 2 місяці тому +8

    It’s so funny how life goes…the older you get.. the less you question everything… just accept and breathe 😀.. good luck on your journey….🤪🌸

    • @xeniaadonts
      @xeniaadonts  Місяць тому

      Hahaha- I can imagine you question less and you wonder more!

  • @manuelaperez1544
    @manuelaperez1544 2 місяці тому +5

    this is the best video I've seen of you thanks Xenia :)

  • @carlyh6913
    @carlyh6913 Місяць тому +5

    I’ve never understood how you could be friends with Tamara, you’re such a down to earth person ❤

    • @Mky890
      @Mky890 Місяць тому +1

      Chill Tattle ( no ) life bully

    • @carlyh6913
      @carlyh6913 Місяць тому +1

      @@Mky890So I’m tattling because I voiced my opinion? I actually used to watch Tamara a lot and she’s changed. So maybe I shouldn’t have said I can’t believe they were besties, because I liked their friendship before Tamara turned soulless. It’s like everything she used to stand for is gone and replaced with vanity. Maybe it’s the struggle to stay thin in the fickle fashion industry?? I don’t know but I’m sad I can’t watch them anymore

    • @Mky890
      @Mky890 Місяць тому

      @@carlyh6913 there is organized insane hstered on tattle life against tamara and your digital footprint matches tattle life user data. I am just letting you know that “forum” is about to end. ;)
      Xenia never mentioned Tamara. It’s the sick to the brain users of that forum that are spreading lies.

    • @Mky890
      @Mky890 Місяць тому +1

      @@carlyh6913 you edited your comment lol. but you and the rest of tattle life gang should know that your digital footprint is exposed. bullying and obsession with tamara and many many many other victims will soon be exposed. insane hate and toxic sick bullying is about to cost owners and users of that twisted site is over.

  • @athinahaadji
    @athinahaadji 2 місяці тому +7

    You speak to my soul Xenia. I love you ❤️

  • @smoothielover07
    @smoothielover07 2 місяці тому +6

    Love these talks, Xenia! I wish there was a way for us to all share our thoughts and actually discuss things 😊

  • @Luxefromclare
    @Luxefromclare Місяць тому +1

    I’m only 9mins in and I need to pause to say, everything you just said is what I literally told my sister just a few weeks ago, I’m so terrified of success but more so the giving all and failing. You worded this so well Xenia! Thank you for being so open with us, it is empowering to hear someone else say what I’m too feeling. Anyway I’ll watch the rest now 😂
    Your vids are honestly my favourite thing on YT, thank youuuuu, you are amazing! xxx

  • @kiran3034
    @kiran3034 2 місяці тому +5

    I like that talk ❤

  • @j__pei
    @j__pei Місяць тому +2

    so here for this talk, thank you for sharing!! I went through/am going through something so similar - being so rigid in your positions and then realizing that the world is not black and white. please continue to post more of these chats ❤✨

  • @Willemijndekock
    @Willemijndekock Місяць тому +2

    You should start a podcast , the way you speak is so inspiring and people need to hear your voice
    🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @cathm652
    @cathm652 5 днів тому

    Oh the dog is the prettiest!

  • @anajorga
    @anajorga Місяць тому

    I love this kind of content! I looove the way you’re evolving, you can see the obvious impact of the therapy on you! Not everyone evolves through therapy, but I think that you’re thriving. Took me much longer time to get where you are, I know this road. Also an Aquarius. Such a pleasure listening to you 👌🫶👏

  • @wendy7404
    @wendy7404 Місяць тому

    The need to please and be accepted is usually occur because of that "essence of life" - connection, we can be so desperate to connect with others sometimes, to a point where we lose who we truly are in the process! It is a very fine line that requires discernment. The most profound video from you Xenia, sending love 💫

  • @surferniki6975
    @surferniki6975 Місяць тому +1

    Ich muss wirklich sagen, dass ich froh bin dich auf UA-cam entdeckt zu haben, die Designerwelt ist nicht unbedingt mein Steckenpferd 😂 Du bist unglaublich erfrischend, hast grenzgeniale Zugänge, bist klüger als es dir gut tut, Style, NY & Bücherliebe runden es dann schön ab. Danke für die Bereicherung im Alltag, dein vernetztes Denken und gutes Herz. Du nutzt dein Potential, alleine dadurch, das du andere zum Nachdenken bringst und ich bin davon überzeugt, dass dein 🧗🏼 unaufhaltsam ist, auch wenn ich dir wünsche die Bodenhaftung nicht zu verlieren 😊

    • @xeniaadonts
      @xeniaadonts  Місяць тому +1

      ahhh mein liebster Kommentar haha ;D vielen dank für so liebe Worte!!!!!!!!

  • @Sina-hx6cc
    @Sina-hx6cc Місяць тому

    Alles was du sagst und beschreibst ist so deep. Ich finde wahnsinn wie du deine Gedanken fühlen und gleichzeitig aussprechen kannst. Für mich der schönste Begriff ist „quiet confidence“. Das beschreibt zu 100% wie ich sein und was ich für mich selbst erreichen möchte. Und während ich dir zugehört und alles aufgesaugt habe, habe ich gemerkt wie sehr ich deine früheren Blogs vermisst habe und wie schön ich es finde, dass du jetzt wieder bloggst und ich dich und deine facial expression sehen kann. So toll :)

  • @galinamyagkova3610
    @galinamyagkova3610 Місяць тому

    It is exactly what i m thinking now !! I m in shock i just attracted you in my life !! It is mean we are matching ! Such a pleaser,, become you are beautiful like a treasure))❤ Thank you for sharing your thoughts!!! I learn how to think in positive way, how to accept, appreciate and letting go!! Thank you so much for sharing your experience!!! It is a gift 🎁 ❤

  • @rebel.rising
    @rebel.rising Місяць тому

    I love this convo!! I think it is in the air, I was just doing a training on this with my mastermind!!! The theme of fear of success / failure and we're dismantling it to find our deepest truth and alignment!! eeeeeeeee so cool you are going through this too!!!

  • @ct8174
    @ct8174 Місяць тому

    This was such a beautiful video! Literally what I needed and so real, genuine, and honest. Thank you for sharing your journey with us - it's an incredible universe that we live in and so many wonderful gifts we receive each and every day. Continue to live your best life - we are joining you and loving every minute 🥰💖

  • @susanad
    @susanad 2 місяці тому +2

    Absolutely love these talks. Thank you 🤍

  • @peaceoflife8458
    @peaceoflife8458 2 місяці тому +2

    I love this so much! Thank you for sharing your experience with us. I'm so inspired by you. xx

  • @Lauraginte
    @Lauraginte Місяць тому +3

    Wow! This was so good, Xenia! Love you content latley. Keep posting!

  • @jasmeenk5740
    @jasmeenk5740 2 місяці тому +2

    I’ll be watching this video multiple times. ❤

  • @Asia.8
    @Asia.8 Місяць тому +1

    I love how mature you've become ❤ for the record, your jobs go beyond creativity:
    - Real Talk Vlogs 💪🏼 Strengthening us
    - Book Club Vlogs 📖📚🤯 Inspiring us
    - Travel Vlogs 🛩️🪐 Connect us
    Those are a few that come to my mind, sharing your life and experiences is just enough. Thank you for taking us along with you ❤ Just being yourself, you know that we love you ✨

    • @xeniaadonts
      @xeniaadonts  Місяць тому +1

      thank you for being so kind and empowering!!!!!

    • @Asia.8
      @Asia.8 Місяць тому

      ​@@xeniaadonts Thank you for sharing your Universe in this World ❤🪐✨🌹

  • @cathm652
    @cathm652 5 днів тому

    Those people are the 1s with the problems. They can’t admit their own failures - they want to be able to criticise others!,

  • @kaneezbhojani6128
    @kaneezbhojani6128 28 днів тому

    Dearest Xenia
    I fucking love this conversation
    This will he considered totally weitd but i mean this from the bottom of my heart ❤️
    Everything you said i resonate with every cell in my body.
    Fuxkin love you 😘
    If you ever want to come to the UK ans spend time in nature i would actually let you stay in my home 💞

  • @vanjas9629
    @vanjas9629 Місяць тому

    Aquarius too ❤️
    Going through changes for some years now. Love this ! You can’t create something new as long as you reacting to something old ❤

  • @MonySadek
    @MonySadek Місяць тому +2

    Thank you for your vlog Xenia. You have such a beautiful soul 😍

  • @SusannaJ-g1l
    @SusannaJ-g1l 26 днів тому

    The red dress comment said it all

  • @EnYQwEEn
    @EnYQwEEn 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you! 🙏🏼❤️

  • @ivanalopes2998
    @ivanalopes2998 Місяць тому +1

    Loved it!!! So raw and honest ❤

  • @gabrysiaolszanska8260
    @gabrysiaolszanska8260 17 днів тому

    oh I love that

  • @NaNi4
    @NaNi4 Місяць тому +1

    Bravo, great reflections👋

  • @AndreeaPopa
    @AndreeaPopa Місяць тому

    So valuable, thank you Xenia ❤️

  • @Hannahniice
    @Hannahniice Місяць тому

    I needed that so bad - thank you xenia 💛

  • @simple.dreamlife
    @simple.dreamlife 26 днів тому

    Xenia we need more of those videos! One of the beste videos ever

  • @artemiskarayianni
    @artemiskarayianni Місяць тому +1

    Great job! Bravo! ❤

  • @manamori6894
    @manamori6894 Місяць тому

    One of the best vlogs
    Thank you for sharing 🤍 love your energy and wisdom Xenia

  • @darcylexton
    @darcylexton Місяць тому

    it’s impossible not to love her

  • @Lenaparthena
    @Lenaparthena Місяць тому

    Wow thank you so much for this great great video - made my day 🤍✨sending love

  • @roshirahmati1603
    @roshirahmati1603 Місяць тому

    You have this beautiful innocence about you💜

  • @ViolinShy
    @ViolinShy Місяць тому

    Seriously xenia, this is the best video you've done ❤

  • @dariadidenko4380
    @dariadidenko4380 Місяць тому

    Xenia, thank you so much for sharing your thoughts, so helpful!

    Please share your lip makeup routine, I love your lipstick!

  • @dapsolita
    @dapsolita Місяць тому +1

    Roo's face when you knocked on wood😂❤

  • @IS-gk4jf
    @IS-gk4jf Місяць тому

    Thank you

  • @choupette_
    @choupette_ 10 днів тому

    How do you get quiet confidence in a career where you have to constantly video yourself and show yourself to people> Just asking. xx

  • @midsim1
    @midsim1 Місяць тому

    Just recently discovered your channel and who you are. Such good energy - I get what you’re saying here. Just out of curiosity - do you know of the Meyers’s-Briggs test is and what is your result? Xoxo

  • @ViolinShy
    @ViolinShy Місяць тому

    Now I get the current picture

  • @bwalyapongolati
    @bwalyapongolati Місяць тому +2

    The Disney princess syndrome 😅

  • @EricaNelson-zv2cd
    @EricaNelson-zv2cd 2 місяці тому

    The univesre changes itslef too

    • @xeniaadonts
      @xeniaadonts  Місяць тому

      I think the universe sticks to its laws ;D

  • @patriciarodriguez867
    @patriciarodriguez867 Місяць тому

    Omgosh are you speaking about me 👀

  • @LDSerpa
    @LDSerpa Місяць тому

    Love you love this content. Side note the frog in the boiling water thing is myth that's been busted to be not true 🙈. In Adam Grants Think Again book. Which I think you would enjoy.

  • @ioanacmp5055
    @ioanacmp5055 Місяць тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @N5555b
    @N5555b Місяць тому

    I loved the topics you talked about... but too many ads during the video, it really disturbs the viewing

  • @kaesebrotxD
    @kaesebrotxD 2 місяці тому +1

    First❤

  • @celvel2006
    @celvel2006 Місяць тому

    Xenia!!!! This is an incredible video. Love when you share your thoughts and feelings (and your iPhone noted a few days ago). Your energy and vibration is sooo high thanks for sharing it with the world! 🫶🏽

  • @dariadidenko4380
    @dariadidenko4380 Місяць тому

    Xenia, thank you so much for sharing your thoughts, so helpful!

    Please share your lip makeup routine, I love your lipstick!