Alot man invest more time, money, sweet talk etc in a haram relationship to get end result, than in a marriage which is halal, and everything is available food, love, care etc without any effort
Yeah because majority of them don't see woman like that as wifey material or the mother of thier future children lol they are after one thing only.. once done they will throw her like a wetwipe.this is one of the widom Allah as given a woman a wali because majority of them are easily gullible and easy to manipulate and to impress but the ones who are raised and brought up well and are smart will know this.
@IStay-Anonymous you might be right, most women are not well nowadays. But what we men have to do is to try our best first presuming they are innocent. But after you try your best, yet she is not showing care and respect for you, then halas divorce her and marry another one. At the end of the day, you marry her for a reason. Or if you can, you can add another one on top of her, that way maybe she might give you respect and love. Jezaka Allah
Beauty of islam and hadiths is that if you remain open and approach with a clean heart you can pick up secondary messages/morals too. The main/core message in the sheikhs hadith is no doubt, men should have emotional intelligence and me mindful of a wifes feelings. But i also picked up on something so sweet, look at the level of respect our mother Aisha RAD has for our beloved prophet, when consumed by anger the furthest she would go is omitting his name in am oath. How beautiful it is when both parties have a high level of love and respect for each other.
yea so just backbite him in some random comment section online, i’m sure he’ll be very happy on the day of judgement when you gift him with your good deeds and you have no choice but to give them away because you couldn’t hold your tongue and wanted to backbite him 😂 have fun on that day
@@dezz238 Narrated Ibn 'Abbas: The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful." It was asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah?" (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He replied, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I have never received any good from you." (bukhari 29) sounds a lot like you rn. he provides for you, puts a roof over your head, satisfies most of your needs, and yet it’s still not enough. may allah protect pious and righteous men from women like you
As Salamu Alaykum Akhi JazakAllah Khair for your beautiful uploads Allahumma Barik But if I’m not tripping the thumbnail is AI generated and there’s a sahih Hadith indicating that imitating real beings is haram, so I’d suggest changing this for Allah’s pleasure.
Post-it notes on the bathroom mirror or fridge before you leave to work. Just draw a heart or something so she will be positively surprised when she sees it. As long as she is not materialistic she will be happy for the reason you thought of her. Or bring something sweet like ice cream, cakes etc for her to enjoy
Whatever you like. She just wants to see that you think of her. It sounds irritating but that's how they are. That's why the Sheikh mentioned a sweet message as an example.
Give her a an expensive dress which shed never buy and not the normals once in a while. Jewellery (ofc affordable) and small stuffs too. We women love jewellery and clothings mostly
Alot man invest more time, money, sweet talk etc in a haram relationship to get end result, than in a marriage which is halal, and everything is available food, love, care etc without any effort
Don't talk as if women are innocent
Yeah because majority of them don't see woman like that as wifey material or the mother of thier future children lol they are after one thing only.. once done they will throw her like a wetwipe.this is one of the widom Allah as given a woman a wali because majority of them are easily gullible and easy to manipulate and to impress but the ones who are raised and brought up well and are smart will know this.
@IStay-Anonymous you might be right, most women are not well nowadays.
But what we men have to do is to try our best first presuming they are innocent. But after you try your best, yet she is not showing care and respect for you, then halas divorce her and marry another one. At the end of the day, you marry her for a reason. Or if you can, you can add another one on top of her, that way maybe she might give you respect and love.
Jezaka Allah
Right. Even a small haraam is harmful and have bad consequences
It’s both sides unfortunately
Jazakumullah khayran sir
Beauty of islam and hadiths is that if you remain open and approach with a clean heart you can pick up secondary messages/morals too. The main/core message in the sheikhs hadith is no doubt, men should have emotional intelligence and me mindful of a wifes feelings. But i also picked up on something so sweet, look at the level of respect our mother Aisha RAD has for our beloved prophet, when consumed by anger the furthest she would go is omitting his name in am oath. How beautiful it is when both parties have a high level of love and respect for each other.
Four gifts , I hardly got one from my husband
😢
Same! In 32 years and counting, I have not received one that I didn’t have to beg many years for! 😢
yea so just backbite him in some random comment section online, i’m sure he’ll be very happy on the day of judgement when you gift him with your good deeds and you have no choice but to give them away because you couldn’t hold your tongue and wanted to backbite him
😂
have fun on that day
@@dezz238 Narrated Ibn 'Abbas:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful." It was asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah?" (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He replied, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I have never received any good from you."
(bukhari 29)
sounds a lot like you rn. he provides for you, puts a roof over your head, satisfies most of your needs, and yet it’s still not enough. may allah protect pious and righteous men from women like you
As Salamu Alaykum
Akhi JazakAllah Khair for your beautiful uploads Allahumma Barik
But if I’m not tripping the thumbnail is AI generated and there’s a sahih Hadith indicating that imitating real beings is haram, so I’d suggest changing this for Allah’s pleasure.
jazakAllah
What gift should we give to wife
whatever you know she would love
Mostly chocolates, flowers, jewellery and so many more things. Most women get happy with only her husband's gesture of considering her emotions.
Post-it notes on the bathroom mirror or fridge before you leave to work. Just draw a heart or something so she will be positively surprised when she sees it. As long as she is not materialistic she will be happy for the reason you thought of her. Or bring something sweet like ice cream, cakes etc for her to enjoy
Whatever you like. She just wants to see that you think of her. It sounds irritating but that's how they are. That's why the Sheikh mentioned a sweet message as an example.
Give her a an expensive dress which shed never buy and not the normals once in a while. Jewellery (ofc affordable) and small stuffs too. We women love jewellery and clothings mostly
Role model, say that to kinana