I'm QUITTING My Garden: 6 Ways To Beat GARDEN BURNOUT

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  • @TheMillennialGardener
    @TheMillennialGardener  Місяць тому +27

    If you enjoyed this video, please "Like" it and share it to help increase its reach! Thanks for watching🙂TIMESTAMPS for convenience:
    0:00 Why I Want To Quit Gardening Right Now
    3:28 Stopping Garden Burnout: Tip #1
    4:47 Stopping Garden Burnout: Tip #2
    6:01 Stopping Garden Burnout: Tip #3
    8:01 Stopping Garden Burnout: Tip #4
    10:23 Stopping Garden Burnout: Tip #5
    11:47 Stopping Garden Burnout: Tip #6
    15:22 Adventures With Dale

    • @willowbee6125
      @willowbee6125 Місяць тому

      I can't imagine how much it takes for you to not only record your videos but then to edit them and add your thought out description, links, and timestamps! I really appreciate your videos and have learned so much from them!

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  Місяць тому +3

      @@willowbee6125 it’s a lot. You have to love it. The best days are when the lawn services are working all morning, the camera overheats midday and can’t be used and it rains all afternoon 😂

    • @Beckham3l4od
      @Beckham3l4od Місяць тому

      😊​@@TheMillennialGardener

    • @cruz1742
      @cruz1742 Місяць тому

      The big reason is every year rain stop in June trough July.I’m done with garden this year..NO RAIN

    • @eviemaddox3038
      @eviemaddox3038 Місяць тому

      There is only a thumbs down option for this video. Is it just me?

  • @CeeSucg783
    @CeeSucg783 Місяць тому +14

    I can't tell you enough how much I appreciate you giving us gardening wisdom from all 4 dimensions of health (mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual). I did a bucket garden for my mom who is battling dementia. She will be able to sit in her rollator and pick veggies 😊
    Helping her navigate back to reality does a job on me mentally and emotionally, which physically drains me. If i didn't have my faith in Jesus and learn from kind, passionate people like yourself, (which feeds me spiritually), I would have given up before I started.
    You are a rare jewel, thanks again❣️

  • @letfreedomring4240
    @letfreedomring4240 Місяць тому +51

    I push through because we have to eat. I don’t trust anything from the grocery store anymore. SW Missouri. HOT and HUMID!

    • @davidprovance6609
      @davidprovance6609 Місяць тому +5

      I'm on the lake outside of Branson. Talk about humid. But my tomatoes are rocking as long as I keep them watered.

    • @letfreedomring4240
      @letfreedomring4240 Місяць тому +3

      @@davidprovance6609 we are pretty close. I live near Crane. Tomatoes here are sort of slow. But I got planted late so I’m sure they will be good. I use shade cloth.

    • @JERSEYTOMATO
      @JERSEYTOMATO Місяць тому

      NOT GIVING UP….

    • @forestgirl9233
      @forestgirl9233 Місяць тому +2

      The same here. I have been so sick and tired of gardening experiencing constant failures, battling with extreme climate and arid soil. Till I finally accepted what I have to work with and started to be more thankful for everything. And as you said, if we want to avoid food from the grocery store, there's no other way, let's keep doing this!

    • @JodiMontano
      @JodiMontano Місяць тому +1

      Galena near Abesville, SW Missouri. I am just starting to feel burnt out! I won't quit, but I sure feel like it. 🥵

  • @willwebber6496
    @willwebber6496 Місяць тому +23

    I much prefer my hour in the garden in the morning, before my work day kicks off. It's always cooler in the morning than the evening.

    • @kristineroehl9940
      @kristineroehl9940 Місяць тому +1

      Me too, I don’t think it matters if it’s morning or night as long as we spend the time taking care of our gardens. 😊

  • @diannplatt-roberts8692
    @diannplatt-roberts8692 Місяць тому +22

    I have found that early morning works best for me. Setting a clock works great.

    • @TexasNana2
      @TexasNana2 Місяць тому +3

      I also do my gardening in the morning. It's just too hot in the evenings. 😊

    • @gr8gardn
      @gr8gardn Місяць тому +1

      Totally agree! Very early morning is the coolest and there is no reflected heat from everything around me from 5:30 am to 7:30 am. It can still be quite humid early some days. Drip irrigation saves me and the garden. Mulch keeps weeds to a minimum.

    • @elikerr785
      @elikerr785 Місяць тому +1

      Me too. I have never been able to get up before dawn to work in my life, but after getting into gardening this year, it's forced me to get up and take advantage of the early mornings. I'm a first time gardener, and also a SoCal transplant in Southeast TN, so getting used to the weather while learning to garden is wild. But I'm up at 5 every morning to get as much work in as possible. I do take advantage of evenings when I'm feeling up to it and it's cooled off enough, but mostly it's prepping for the next mornings duties.

    • @melissa7233
      @melissa7233 Місяць тому +2

      I had to switch to morning gardening because the heat it too much for my health. It's way cooler in the morning in my hot, and humid part of the country. Plus I'm too busy taking care of my family in the evenings to get outside.

    • @tulipsmoran5197
      @tulipsmoran5197 Місяць тому +1

      Living at 2000ft elevation the heat from lower elevations rise up the side of the mountain meeting the "cooler" air condensing into 99% humidity from late evening through 9-10am when sun burns it off. So morning gardening in that humidity is brutal. Ordinarily our June weather is 70's with lots of sun and heat usually comes mid-July through August. This year we had wild weather none of which is conducive for gardening. But the hot sun at 1200-1400 lux can't be easily defeated with 50% shade cloth. I was tempted to buy 90% but at high heat photosynthesis doesn't take place any way.

  • @lindademerchant7627
    @lindademerchant7627 Місяць тому +23

    So far I am still gardening in my yard and for the PLAV ( polish League of American Vets) did over 3 hours of weeding and putting in new plants for them this morning in high heat and humidity but it was so worth it. Been keeping up with gardening chores at my yard too. I am 76

  • @geraldinesisk2702
    @geraldinesisk2702 Місяць тому +79

    It’s my gym, grounding, food, and therapy!

  • @BrokeFarmer
    @BrokeFarmer Місяць тому +35

    Garden burnout is definitely a thing, I Garden year round if nothing else but amending my beds

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  Місяць тому +10

      It is. But the alternative is worse. I'd rather be tired working in my garden than have no garden left to work in. These are the tough 45-60 days to push through. Then, it gets easier.

  • @alycewarr5332
    @alycewarr5332 Місяць тому +13

    I get sick in really hot temperatures and bright sun. No rain here for 2 months. I’m struggling to water and weeding daily but I know the harvest will be worth it.

  • @kathystandefer1680
    @kathystandefer1680 Місяць тому +9

    I am in the SE too. I just follow the shade in the morning, then again in the evening. Gardening is my therapy even if things get hot, Dry and out of hand.

  • @thedroughtproofgarden
    @thedroughtproofgarden Місяць тому +6

    For me, it’s not so much the actual gardening I’m burning out on, it’s processing tomatoes.
    I had the brilliant idea to plant 54 Rio Grande paste tomato plants this year. I’m beyond sick of processing them and the plants aren’t slowing down.
    I hate every second of canning tomatoes, but I know I’ll be happy I did come January.

    • @MahyenkiDyavol
      @MahyenkiDyavol Місяць тому +1

      You could try dehydrating then blending into tomato powder

  • @lorr.jones8887
    @lorr.jones8887 Місяць тому +17

    This year I set up a curtain type system in front of my tomatoes for the shade cloth. I strung the shade cloth on the line using tarp clips. What a game changer! It's so easy to slide it open and shut.
    I used to use an assortment of poles and clothes pins that was always a big hassle to handle.

  • @slycooper3938
    @slycooper3938 Місяць тому +14

    Pests are what make gardening a chore for me. The constant need to fight squash bugs, aphids and cabbage worms is freaking tiring when you have a full time job.
    Sometimes I want to just use heavy insecticides/pesticides so I don't have to fight these guys anymore everyday...

    • @omelettedufromage11
      @omelettedufromage11 Місяць тому +4

      Consider looking into a combo of BT and Spinosad to avoid heavy chemical pesticide usage and still see effectiveness

    • @eviemaddox3038
      @eviemaddox3038 Місяць тому

      I've got raccoons, squirrels, grass hoppers, have found one hornworm so far, and then there's my dog the tomato thief... oh yeah, and moles... I work a physical FT job and sometimes getting up to do the garden work is NOT what I want to be doing!

    • @LinLinLin11
      @LinLinLin11 Місяць тому

      I use wood vinegar (cuka kayu).. It's available in my country.. the primary benefit is it's like a plant vitamin.. whitefly and thrips leave my plants alone.. plants look good and healthy.. the smell is like burnt wood.. because it's made from the condensation of burnt wood.. the pest control I would say is a secondary benefit.. the smell and maybe taste is not good to the bugs.. they all left within 10 days after I started using it.. my chilli plants are doing well now..

  • @tulipsmoran5197
    @tulipsmoran5197 Місяць тому +5

    March here in TN was 70F days/50F nights all soft wood shrubs, bushes, fruit trees budded with some breaking blossom. Then suddenly 19F-22F for three days - I lost 12 rose bushes, rhododendrons, hydrangea and 30%+ loss of fruit tree structures. I have some fruit but it's paltry. April was much cooler than usual with heavy storms and May was nonstop rain 15.87" here on my weather station 19 days heavy rain, rainy/overcast and only FOUR sunny days. Then June temps soared into the 90's with subtropical humidty 70-80%. It's now 2nd week in July and the heat/humidity wave continues with near 100F temps for the next 10 days. Needless to say spring crops in poly tunnels were fine - I harvested 44# potatoes, broccoli and peas. Everything else in ground has either died of root rot or burned to a crisp. I'm not quitting gardening, although I've abandoned the summer plantings - only melons, cukes are growing and onions are coming ready. I refocused on my Christmas village, redesigning, buying more houses and not thinking about fighting insufferable heat. I don't plan to start fall garden for another 2-3 weeks as long as this heat persists. So platitudes and tips are find but reality is you cannot fight nature when a year like this happens.

  • @dentatusdentatus1592
    @dentatusdentatus1592 Місяць тому +8

    The biggest thing that discourages me from working in my yard garden in the summer is the mosquito population. When I wear shorts and a t-shirt I get attacked, and when I cover up, I'm roasting in the summer heat. 🤕🤕🤕

    • @noonespecial5517
      @noonespecial5517 Місяць тому +4

      Have you ever tried planting lemongrass and or citronella?
      We plant lemongrass and have American beauty berry growing wild which is said to help.

    • @valarieirons4447
      @valarieirons4447 Місяць тому +1

      Oh my yes! The bugs are rough... the various ants, the gnats that fly right to your eyes, deer and horse flys... I was covered up w light clothing yesterday and a nice big ole ant was inside my clothes circling my mid section!
      .. got lucky he wasn't a biter! I was wearing bug spray and still got a bite right in middle of my forehead.. hair slicked back yet still lil pieces start to fall so I'm battling hair and bugs.. N.GA foothills location. Originally from DE.
      Same zone but way longer summer weather in the SE.
      I am constantly amazed how ppl lived before AC etc ... brutal.

    • @eviemaddox3038
      @eviemaddox3038 Місяць тому

      If you garden when the sun goes down, they are most active then. So enjoy cooler temps with skeeters, or fry in the sun! Not even the skeeters are willing to get out in the sun LOL

    • @Hewalkswithme
      @Hewalkswithme Місяць тому

      We get yellow flies

    • @thall3827
      @thall3827 9 днів тому

      ​@@noonespecial5517 I am not at all asking this to be a snark, but DOES it work? So many SAY it is supposed to work, but I've never heard an actual success story.

  • @mintgreen292
    @mintgreen292 Місяць тому +13

    It's brutal here in Texas, super validating to know the burnout isn't just me. The dusk work had been crucial to not skipping days. Glad you dropped the drip depot affiliate link, I've had a cart full of stuff from them for a few months now.

    • @BirdieBlrrrd
      @BirdieBlrrrd Місяць тому +1

      I live in Georgetown and I’m dying every day out here lol. I feel your pain homie.

  • @wendyreynolds2261
    @wendyreynolds2261 Місяць тому +2

    Thanks for this! I was afraid I was just losing interest. Everything was going well until the extreme heat and our bean and cowpea pods became infested with bug larvae. We're pulling them out this weekend. Hopefully, we'll catch our second wind.

  • @AndreaJohnson-mz9kc
    @AndreaJohnson-mz9kc Місяць тому +13

    THANK YOU! Just in time for my overwhelming gardening situation, being recently disabled, I am sad that I don't have the ability to garden that I've always taken for granted. Yesterday morning when I went to take out the trash I suddenly realized that I never turned off the hose drip that I left the night before, only intending to drip for 20 minutes! I live in California and this Heat Wave that was supposed to come to an end last week seems to be projecting out into the future with no end in sight. I feel like it's just too much for me to deal with. I'm burned out & my garden is really suffering. Today's video gives me real hope & inspiration. Your simple way of explaining things helps calm me down & lets me see that I can do this! I JUST recently discovered your channel, so when I saw the title of today's video that you are QUITTING, I felt sad, but it looks like aren't really quitting your channel. Thank you!

    • @ABlueDahlia
      @ABlueDahlia Місяць тому +2

      Please do yourself a favor and order a water timer today! You don't have to get an expensive option. There are very effective cheap options. Wishing you well!

    • @Alottablooms
      @Alottablooms Місяць тому +1

      I am in the same boat, may God give us strength and protection to persist when our bodies say No

  • @utuberick1
    @utuberick1 Місяць тому +7

    Nooo… don’t quit…you are a national treasure. Fight on brother!

  • @deliathorja442
    @deliathorja442 Місяць тому +2

    After a disastrous year last year, this time i have such a nice garden that i feel like hitting the jackpot. It's extremely hot here too so when i get home from work, i don't even change but go and water everything. I started every seed this year so i am very happy about it.

  • @mindy-made-a-mess
    @mindy-made-a-mess Місяць тому +5

    Drip irrigation is a must. I've even put them on my hanging baskets. I don't have to worry if I go out of town, or get home late and can't water. No more dead plants from lack of water and my plants benefit from regular, precise watering. Plant things that require lots of water in the same bed, plants that require less water in another and adjust the amt of water on the zones. Shade cloth has changed my game already and this is my 1st season using them, all thanks to you!

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  Місяць тому +1

      Drip irrigation and shade cloth is a must! Major time-saver and water-saver!

  • @melissakarner6707
    @melissakarner6707 Місяць тому +4

    Dale is sooooo cute. His Dad is a great teacher too!

    • @veelash3505
      @veelash3505 Місяць тому

      I like the way he speaks clearly.

  • @tuffguytattoo1
    @tuffguytattoo1 Місяць тому +8

    The last 2wks have been 104 and above, so I'm up at 5am to water everything before 11am. First time gardening here

    • @anthonyperron6741
      @anthonyperron6741 Місяць тому +1

      That's how I beat the heat as well. By the end of the day and after dinner I don't feel like going out there. I get up early and work until it gets hot or until I finish what I need to do

  • @beachday4439
    @beachday4439 Місяць тому +2

    Sometimes downsizing really helps. It's a good thought to be able to grow tons of food. But focusing on a smaller garden can be just as fun. And you can buy well grown food from markets to fill the gaps and support others who grow for a living.

  • @mariacarter938
    @mariacarter938 Місяць тому +5

    I was starting to feel like that also. But realize with the heat fixin' to be 3 digits the garden needs us.

  • @ginp6077
    @ginp6077 Місяць тому +4

    The best time to work in the garden for me is early morning. Temps are still in the mid 80's with brutal humidity at dusk here, but by morning it has cooled off to the 70's and the neighbor's tree shades the garden until the sun gets up over top of it.

  • @lobodo988
    @lobodo988 Місяць тому +2

    Whew lad, I’m relieved that you’re not literally quitting, lol.
    Great video today. I can take the heat, it’s the MOSQUITOES that push me inside!

  • @scottroberts5492
    @scottroberts5492 Місяць тому +8

    The heat and humidly suck here in NC..lol Do to family issues my garden has been a life saver for me this year. Very grateful for the time I get to spent outside even in this heat, and I get to lose a few pounds..lol

  • @vesiletekas5927
    @vesiletekas5927 Місяць тому +50

    Well in London we want to give up gardening because of constant rain and cold…..we are wearing jumpers and even put heaters on in July 😂

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  Місяць тому +15

      It seems the rainy pattern is flipped this year. The rain is up north and we're dried out down south. Usually, it's the other way around this time of year.

    • @marykerr4381
      @marykerr4381 Місяць тому +4

      I’ve been watching Wimbledon. It’s been a challenging two weeks for sure. Keep the faith.

    • @kendexter
      @kendexter Місяць тому +3

      Same here in Northern Norway . But last summer was great .

    • @BrisLS1
      @BrisLS1 Місяць тому +1

      I would hate that. I had tons of strawberry plants, that became slug food during the rainy season, and those that survived become dry mulch in the Virginia sun. I am beginning to think, a green house is the way to go. Now I have rabbits eating my cantaloupe and watermelon plants. And mostly, just too much sun on my tomatoes and peppers with not enough rain either. The only thing that works week after week, for me, is cucumbers.

    • @thinkwy13
      @thinkwy13 Місяць тому +10

      @@BrisLS1installed shade cloth 5 weeks ago in Alabama. All my veggies love me!! It even helps distribute the rain more. During a downpour, it comes down softer.

  • @lexwritesthings
    @lexwritesthings Місяць тому +3

    I appreciate how you incorporate the idea of mental overwhelm from clutter. I absolutely struggle with that 😅 Also, that shade cloth is such a game changer. Thank you for continuing to bang that drum. I've tried it and now I'm a believer.

  • @LivingCastings
    @LivingCastings Місяць тому +6

    Summers are generally pretty bad in the SE but this year is especially rough.

  • @katiem9644
    @katiem9644 Місяць тому +28

    Garden burnout is real. It just cant be done 12 months out of the year without it turning into a chore, and I dont want my fun times to turn to drudgery. The first of July I pulled out all the plants in the garden beds except for a few peppers that still seem to be thriving. Picked off some suckers off the tomato plants and put them in water for fall planting. Cleaned out the beds, loaded them up with manure and grass clippings, and Im letting them sit until the end of August. Gardening is done for now, Im spending time in the pool, relaxing in the house, waiting for the fall to grow again. I guess its like wintertime in the north, only its heat in the summer. No matter how much you love a hobby, you need a break to keep it fresh. Now is my break.

    • @shake_shells11
      @shake_shells11 Місяць тому +5

      It’s for real! Especially if you have one or two acres of gardening chores to do in the 90F hot summer months. It’s overwhelming and soul crushing 😢

    • @t.chavis9220
      @t.chavis9220 Місяць тому +5

      This was the first thing I learned, the first year of gardening Texas!!!

    • @ch3xmix
      @ch3xmix Місяць тому +1

      How long do you keep your suckers in water for?

    • @katiem9644
      @katiem9644 Місяць тому

      @@ch3xmix Until theres a good mass of roots. Then Ill stick them in a pot until mid August or so.

    • @katiem9644
      @katiem9644 Місяць тому +1

      @@ch3xmix Until theres a good mass of roots. Then Ill stick them in a pot until mid August or so. I just stuck them in water 5 or 6 days ago and theres already roots growing on all of them.

  • @johnroehsler6440
    @johnroehsler6440 Місяць тому +9

    I am glad to see NC is getting rain the past few days

    • @milliealford8968
      @milliealford8968 Місяць тому +1

      This was my 5th week no rain in NC, well today I got a down poor. Thank you Lord!

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  Місяць тому +1

      It mostly missed us. We have less than an inch all July. I’m sure it’ll eventually come, but we are already through 1/3 of the rainy season.

    • @melodiedeguibert3394
      @melodiedeguibert3394 Місяць тому +1

      No rain in asheville.

  • @marcparrella1460
    @marcparrella1460 Місяць тому +2

    You make excellent videos. This on is right on! Great observations and advice.
    Thanks, Millenial!

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  Місяць тому

      Thank you! I’ve been doing this long enough to learn the ropes 😂 This time of year is tough, but it is the same pattern. You just have to push through it.

  • @sandysmith8567
    @sandysmith8567 Місяць тому +1

    Thanks so much for doing this video! With so many new gardeners, too, these words of encouragement are especially valuable. Long-time gardener here, but I'm learning so many things here. Thanks again!

  • @lindag9975
    @lindag9975 Місяць тому +5

    Excellent plan!
    Here in the Phoenix area, a lot of us keep our summer soil alive by planting cover crops. Black eyed peas are a popular cover crop. People who don't like them just cut them or turn them under when they are ready to plant something else in the fall.
    Because we get very high summer winds during the Monsoonal storms, all shade structures must be very secure. This year I used 5 gallon buckets I filled with 100 pounds of Quickcrete, and stuck in 6 foot metal trellises in each of the 4 buckets. Then I tied my 50% shade cloth to each trellis and secured the shade cloth underneath with heavy rope placed diagonally each way. I will likely leave the buckets and trellises in place and just remove the shade cloth in the fall. And I was able to do it myself.
    Wind resistant beach umbrellas have been very helpful for me as well, to block the afternoon sun. To further prevent wind damage, I buy the wide umbrella stands that can be filled with water so they very heavy. My umbrellas have survived several Monsoon Seasons without blowing over or into a neighbor's yard. Another trick that a woman can do without having to hire someone to build a fancy structure. And I just close and lock the umbrellas in the fall.

    • @TDAEON
      @TDAEON Місяць тому +2

      Miss those monsoons. Though i wasn't a gardener then, so would have a different perspective now, lol.
      Great tip to wind proof a shade strcture.

    • @maydanavabarnett5177
      @maydanavabarnett5177 Місяць тому +1

      The heat in Phoenix is no joke!

  • @lauracampos6183
    @lauracampos6183 Місяць тому +1

    I completely agree with all of your tips. I go out just before sunrise with a cup of coffee and my dog, and then again when the sun starts going down.

  • @tbboardhed2
    @tbboardhed2 Місяць тому +3

    I'm in San Antonio Texas and it is stupid hot, my plants are dieing but it's not all loss. I use June to let anything ripening up finish, then July I do garden maintenance (make repairs, top off with new compost ect). I have my transplants getting ready indoors. Zero intentions of giving up on my plants but rather not stressing over them. I'm looking forward to my fall garden.
    Also use this time to make my plans for my winter plants.
    SIDE NOTE: your asparagus ferns look AMAZING!!!!

  • @SannyAnnie
    @SannyAnnie Місяць тому +1

    Preach it, Brother! Drip irrigation changed my gardening life! I don't have the rain barrels that you have, but your raised bed instructions otherwise were spot on for me. Drip Depot is a fabulous resource.

  • @Sportsfan14grant
    @Sportsfan14grant Місяць тому +2

    I live in East Tennessee it reached 100 degrees today

  • @rockyusa2012
    @rockyusa2012 Місяць тому +2

    I just came in from the garden. You are right. Dusk is best to work outside. Good tip on using the tarp for the beds when not in use. I'm still trying to install drip irrigation.

  • @GrowingUpJersey
    @GrowingUpJersey Місяць тому +2

    For me, it's not the garden so much, it's the hours of processing the food every weekend that breaks me. Come September, I don't want to see another tomato until next year. I have no desire or time to nurture that tomato plant through the fall, trying to get the last of those greenies to ripen. In the compost they go!
    I retired this year, so I am hoping to pace the workload better and maybe it will be enjoyable again.

    • @patriciaterry5539
      @patriciaterry5539 Місяць тому

      Going into my third year of retirement and the surge of joy from gardening will come back.

    • @sandram5664
      @sandram5664 Місяць тому

      I’m with you on the processing! If my husband just liked processing so I could just do the gardening, it would be perfect!😊

  • @diananazaroff5266
    @diananazaroff5266 Місяць тому +2

    You've hit the nail on the head. Burnout is real. I struggle with it every. single. day.
    Got my first shade cloth delivered today. Will be covering my veg in the morning.
    I find mornings work better for me. I'm retired, so don't have to get ready for work (and yet, I still wake up at 6am every morning, smh, lol) and I find that the early morning coolness is much easier to contend with than evening heat (and humidity).
    I had knee replacement surgery first week of April and we started in on the 90+ weather in early June, so keeping the garden watered adequately is difficult and that's what I end up spending my one hour on each day. I tried hard to get a drip system started before surgery but ran out of time. I'll be installing it this winter. I live in GA and winter is my favorite time of year to spend in the garden. It's when I get most of my projects done.
    Thank you for bringing this up and making me feel less guilty that I HATE being outside right now.
    Oh, btw, thanks for the drip links. I'd rather get it all from one place than piece it out all over the place and I need the refresher on the parts needed.

  • @bethsands7665
    @bethsands7665 Місяць тому +3

    I love my garden and protect plants as best I can...the summer heat is brutal here in Manteca, Ca. It has been over 100 degrees now for, at least, 3 weeks. Yesterday was 113 and today is 110 !!!, poor plants. You are saying all the right things.I am excited about carrots, potatoes, broccoli , onions, garlic in the Fall ... OH MY. Next year, I will invest in shade-cloth !!! Yay for always staying ahead of the game in gleaned knowledge from year to year !! My Kale and Georgia greens are a trap for aphids....ugh. Nice clean-beds !!! You are correct in moving forward tasks, though I enjoy watering every 2 days as I must in the dead of Summer !! Nice running/gardening analogy !!

  • @imafan26
    @imafan26 Місяць тому +3

    Everything you said is so true. It isn't fun working in the sun and during the peak pest season as well.

  • @TheActiveLifeLived
    @TheActiveLifeLived Місяць тому +1

    I have a few passions that I cycle through when one becomes too dominant...just like seasons, we too have to shift focus and let certain particular interests rest and recover...

  • @patriciaterry5539
    @patriciaterry5539 Місяць тому +3

    Facts! Today is 113…this time I’m not fading! I have started my fall vegetables.

  • @shirleysuchdolski6042
    @shirleysuchdolski6042 Місяць тому +8

    I feel your pain...South Georgia here. I started more plants Anthony!

  • @Knicks8888
    @Knicks8888 Місяць тому +1

    I’m a big fan and have learned an insane amount from your channel. It would be cool to see more collabs with you and others like the one you recorded with James Prigioni!

  • @VOos6
    @VOos6 Місяць тому +2

    I'm a first year gardener in zone 10b and I got burned out in May when the pests/disease/heat killed off all of my plants.
    I've done only sweet potatoes this summer, but the "time off" from the the usual every day work has helped me reset and now I'm ready to start seeds for my peppers and tomatoes in about 2 weeks!

  • @tamaracross9
    @tamaracross9 Місяць тому +2

    I have a homestead with animals so ive learned to take care of the animals in the early morning and they garden in the late afternoon about a hour before dark. im in N.C but way up north by virgina and we havent had much rain until today and last night. Days it rain good i dont do anything in the evening but take a walk around it to see whats going on for the next 2 days . I have been taking it easy with the heat, besides that i struggle with depression and anxiety so i dont let the garden become overwhelming. Ny next move is to install drip. Have a cool day!

  • @missyk1477
    @missyk1477 Місяць тому

    Middle TN here! I was struggling with this due to the extreme heat and drought conditions. Then I saw the prices at the grocery store, and got motivated again!

  • @amyrea4451
    @amyrea4451 Місяць тому +2

    Thank you for the info Anthony, it’s disgusting in SW Florida right now all day every day, so this is perfect.
    And, Thanks for the motivation and the drip irrigation info as well!

  • @FosterFarmsOk
    @FosterFarmsOk Місяць тому +1

    I've been gardening in my greenhouse in the winter time and I also grow all my leafy greens under lights in the house which helps with winter seasonal depression. And I just shift all my gardening to late in the evening or early mornings when it gets this hot. I've got all my fall stuff started under lights in the house so I'm ready to go for fall.

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  Місяць тому +1

      That's what I try to do, as well. I started 72 onions and shallots today. I'm going to see if they'll grow in late summer into fall.

  • @annemcgirt5296
    @annemcgirt5296 Місяць тому

    I'm in your zone 8B NC and am eternally grateful to you for recommending shade cloth. About 45 minutes ago, the thermometer tipped in at 103.5 and I was checking on my chickens and taking them some fresh water and a treat of a refrigerated zucchini that I cut up and I have to go through the shade cloth zone and it was amazing how much better the air felt. I'm not going to tell you it felt like 70 or even 80 degrees but it didn't feel like upper 90s to 100s. My next plan is to extend the shade cloth over to the chicken pen to help my girls not be so stressed. My "garden" is about 70% raised beds, 25% grow bags and 5% in ground (lousy dirt) plants. I also have 4 Green Stalks that are on my patio. 85% of my "garden" is under shade cloths. I would like to get my Green Stalks under shade cloth as well. Thanks for your videos. I really appreciate them all!

  • @keyonnajames256
    @keyonnajames256 Місяць тому +1

    Today is 115 in Wilmington! Definitely why self watering systems are a must.

  • @mikeblackburn8121
    @mikeblackburn8121 Місяць тому +4

    Want to stay upbeat about your gardens? Go to the grocery and see the prices of what you would be buying if not growing.

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  Місяць тому

      For me, it's the taste more than the prices. Grocery store vegetables and fruits are so bland.

  • @lindabranch8294
    @lindabranch8294 Місяць тому

    I have learned that shade cloth helps so much. Just pent a few hours cleaning out some old beds and will continue to do so and get ready for the fall. I like fresh plants.

  • @lisachristiansen628
    @lisachristiansen628 Місяць тому +1

    Looking forward to your awning shade cloth system. My area is fairly temperate but we do get a few hot days (late June/early July had over two weeks long this year, which was earlier than normal). I don't know I want it up all summer though, so I was also thinking of a retractable system. I have two 20x30 garden plots, so it's not as simple as throwing something over a raised bed hoop frame (which I've done in years past for the most sensitive plants).

  • @melissapritchett2731
    @melissapritchett2731 Місяць тому +1

    I don’t want to quit but I would sure like some rain and heat relief!!

  • @SupremegreenlawncareLLC
    @SupremegreenlawncareLLC Місяць тому +1

    This is a very good video! I’m a new gardener and felt the “burnout!” So, this was very inspiring. 🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @Diasporicjourney
    @Diasporicjourney Місяць тому

    Thank you. New to gardening and I am definitely feeling this burnout in Central Florida area. It's so hot. There are SO many pets constantly invading my beds. I feel defeated. This gave me hope to continue. Thank you ❤

  • @alanaalkaline
    @alanaalkaline Місяць тому +1

    unfortunately it only gets down to 70 in the middle of the night rn where i am lmao, but i agree either get up at dawn or wait till dusk to do garden work in the midst of summer heatwaves

  • @JokerPhantomThief
    @JokerPhantomThief Місяць тому

    Cleaning up the garden does so much for your motivation. The garden space that my rented house has wasn't touched for at least four years. It's a lawn. I started cleaning it up and using starters last year, started with more plants this year but it's still insane. I just finished tilling the other, empty half and removing weeds around the closer plants. It's been a nightmare but it's finally cleared out and I am super excited to start using the rest of the garden next year. Still want to get out there and clean out all of the rocks that ended up in there though, so I can't cover it with a tarp quite yet

  • @angelsellsthe603
    @angelsellsthe603 Місяць тому

    This video came at the perfect time because I haven't been wanting to get outside to my garden here in NH. This summer has been nasty hot and humid and the bugs have made it so miserable to be outside. They bite me even with bug spray. I saw my first color on one of my tomatoes today so that helped get me in the mood to get back out there in the evenings.

  • @eddy8828
    @eddy8828 Місяць тому

    I find watering the plants manually the most pleasurable part of gardening. It is like feeding your guests, and the anticipation for the gratification from them. I guess there are benefits in drip watering that you may know better , however for small gardening folks I find watering by hand the best part of gardening even if it means lot of running around. Trust me on this. Love your channel like so many others. You are one of the greatest.

  • @ihuman7253
    @ihuman7253 Місяць тому

    I love your channel. I just discovered it this spring and I’m so glad I found someone who gardens like I do.❤❤

  • @adkerr67
    @adkerr67 Місяць тому +1

    I get only 1 growing season in zone 4. I plant perennials from seed this time of year. My fall gardening is transplanting perennial seedling and rearranging my perennial gardens. Mother Nature destroyed vegetable gardens, farm crops and homes last week in my area. My blooms are carrying my heart through the disappointment.

  • @pamelacooley6457
    @pamelacooley6457 Місяць тому

    Hot and humid here in Georgia 😂. I’m busy harvesting though….its a weedy mess but lots of veggies. Going to start seeds soon for my fall garden.I pick at night or early in the morning. I sit in the shade looking at my beautiful,messy garden ❤ that is providing me with joy and good food.

  • @JS-jl1yj
    @JS-jl1yj Місяць тому

    Thank you for this helpful and honest video. I live in Ontario, Canada, zone 5a. Our highs are 32C. Currently, I do all my harvesting and weeding after 6 pm. Picking red currants, blueberries and raspberries takes a LONG time. When I finally finish, it's already too dark to see the berries. Yesterday, just before heavy showers started, I dug out my garlic. I too failed to harvest all my lettuces in time. Last night I filled 2 garbage cans with bolted lettuce plants. I have a small garden, but it still takes a lot of time to take proper care of it.

  • @heidikienia9590
    @heidikienia9590 Місяць тому

    Thank you for talking about this! Excellent tips and suggestions. I'm looking forward to seeing your retractable shade cloth! Your channel has become my go to. I love checking in to see what you've got growing on in your beautiful gardens.

  • @AylaGrassrootGardens
    @AylaGrassrootGardens Місяць тому +1

    I've been trying to figure out how to do a retractable shade cloth, can't wait to see what you come up with! I continue to learn from your videos. I can imagine the motivation is really tricky to make these videos, garden, and work full time! I appreciate that you do it ❤

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  Місяць тому +1

      It is, but I love doing it. It's one of my top projects once it cools down.

  • @LesaSmith4
    @LesaSmith4 Місяць тому

    Perfect timing! I’m feeling burned out too. Thanks for the pick me up I’m planning a fall garden now.

  • @sandram5664
    @sandram5664 Місяць тому +1

    Thanks for another great video! I also clear beds when crops finish but I put in a quick cover crop to keep the soil microbes working. Something like buckwheat grows fast and then I chop and drop when ready to plant the fall crop.

  • @barbragil440
    @barbragil440 Місяць тому

    No rain in central VA, with 100 degree temperatures and feels like 107. Without rain, we have to be careful with our wells running dry. We’re selectively watering some plants and letting others dry. Looking forward to cooler weather.

  • @permit40
    @permit40 Місяць тому +2

    Much needed video. Thank you from Florida.

  • @cguidry1481
    @cguidry1481 Місяць тому +2

    I do mine before the sun comes up. 5:30ish central time.
    My fall seedlings are under grow lights in the bathroom.

  • @elikerr785
    @elikerr785 Місяць тому

    I felt like you made this video specifically for me! Perfect timing, and great info. I'm from Southern Cali where the weather is perfect all year, but now living in southeastern TN, just getting through the summer is a chore in and of itself. This is my first gardening endeavor as well. Thanks man.

  • @NancyPerryRE
    @NancyPerryRE Місяць тому

    Just so you know, in Mesa Az last night at 10:00 p.m. it FINALLY dropped out of the 100's. My gardening time is at 6 a.m. it was 90 degrees this morning but still ok and almost pleasant. (you acclimate) I WISH it dropped down to the 70's at night. That sounds so nice.

  • @kananda5975
    @kananda5975 Місяць тому

    I saw your thumbnail and I laughed because that's exactly how I feel at the moment! I have very similar weather and this year has been brutal. I am going to use shade cloth for next year (thanks for the amazon link). Great tips and motivation. Love the Dale Adventures. Thanks!

  • @carolexo7269
    @carolexo7269 Місяць тому

    You are SO wise. You're the first gardener that has talked about garden burnout. Thanks for the tips. Much appreciated!!!🇨🇦zone 3b

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  Місяць тому +1

      It's a real thing, for sure. But, it's a cycle, so it's predictable. We can prepare for it ahead of time.

  • @anthonycoffee7683
    @anthonycoffee7683 Місяць тому

    That’s my engineer gardener! I just have my shade cloth flipped back over itself. I’m going to replace it with a clear tarp for winter so it’s just clipped up on the back side of my trellis but my whole garden is 4 x 30 so it is pretty simple. I have to pull a lot this week and start more plants under the shade cloth for the rest of summer and fall but a better retraction setup would be better if I get around to it when I put up the “winter tarp” to close off the bulk of the cold.

  • @kittyfruitloop8264
    @kittyfruitloop8264 Місяць тому

    Thank you!!!! I so needed this exact gardening encouragement video!. NW GA here. I don't remember it being so dang hot and dry....
    ..
    ..

  • @davidhodgson977
    @davidhodgson977 Місяць тому

    That's a great idea, the retractable shade cloth.
    It never gets so cool in Thailand, but the early morning is best, the heat and humidity can be brutal, and it is a danger to health.

  • @shelbymarks1169
    @shelbymarks1169 Місяць тому

    Thank you for the words of encouragement. Burnout is so real right now. We are experiencing heat and drought here in East TN and it’s hard to get motivated to go outside everyday.

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  Місяць тому +1

      The good news about garden burnout is it's predictable. It's the same cycle year after year when the heat comes, so if you prepare for the inevitable, you can avoid a lot of it. Getting your shade cloth and drip irrigation installed in spring when it's pleasant is really helpful, and setting yourself up for an early morning or late evening garden routine can avoid the heat. Getting on a routine is really important to push through it.

    • @shelbymarks1169
      @shelbymarks1169 Місяць тому

      You motivated me this year to get shade cloth up and that has helped immensely! Looking forward to the Fall garden as I, too, really enjoy that time of year to garden.

  • @hpfishin927
    @hpfishin927 Місяць тому

    Retractable shade cloth seems like an awesome idea. You could consider running your cables at an angle so gravity pulls them down and then getting a cheap hand winch from harbor freight spooled with something as simple as paracord(not much payload weight/stress) and being able to run a guide line to pull it back in the winter and let it extend again in the summer.

  • @2010BHM
    @2010BHM Місяць тому +1

    Love your videos, but this one hit home and was downright poetic at times. I’ve stayed fired up by trying to introduce a new thing each year. 3 years ago, big rebuild of the garden. 2 years ago, got into dahlias. This past winter, thanks largely to you, figs!

  • @janinallentown8801
    @janinallentown8801 Місяць тому

    I've overdone it this year and the temps and lack of rain in SE PA have me looking for folks to adopt a lot of volunteer tomatoes that were potted up and thriving.

  • @cynthiamartinez5884
    @cynthiamartinez5884 Місяць тому

    Your point about drip irrigation allowing you more time to be productive in the garden is so true. I've been struggling with getting a full fall garden started because my summers were always spent only harvesting and watering. So I made sure to put in drip irrigation this spring and I now definitely notice a huge difference in my ability to prepare for the fall garden.

  • @alysiaritschel
    @alysiaritschel Місяць тому

    This is just what I needed to hear today. I grew up in South Florida and moved here to NC and have experienced seasonal depression for the first time. It's no fun! I'm starting my seeds today inside to commit to being outside when the weather is cooler and the days are shorter. Thanks for this excellent video and much needed reminder.

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  Місяць тому

      Oh boy, if you're getting SAD in NC, don't move to where I used to live in PA. It was absolutely horrible. There would be 3 week periods in the winter where you'd never see the sun and it wouldn't get above 42 degrees the entire time. Just weeks of gray, interlocking clouds, and it was dark by 4:45PM, so even if you got a rare day with sun, it was dark by the time you left work. Here on the NC coast, I don't really get SAD anymore, because the winters are pretty easy, especially if you garden through it. But the coast is a special micro-climate the rest of the state doesn't have. If you're used to South Florida winters, I can understand.

    • @alysiaritschel
      @alysiaritschel Місяць тому

      @@TheMillennialGardener That would be hard for sure! I'll take NC, but with some gardening. It's a beautiful state, just takes some getting used to..for me anyways ha!

  • @BackyardRevivalGarden
    @BackyardRevivalGarden Місяць тому

    For me personally, almost everything I plant in march has either been harvested or failed by may. I didn't get to eat my broccoli until mid-july hahaha. It's just a mix of my climate and garden location (light). I do tons of yard work most of the year. I try to do an hour a day like you say. That sun exposure is so good for your mental health.

  • @lauriebarkley9756
    @lauriebarkley9756 Місяць тому

    This is so funny this popped up. I walked into my garden this morning after being away for the weekend and there are so many bugs and things are starting to look shabby, and I was like thinking in my head I feel like quitting and now I see your show.

  • @willsolarski8550
    @willsolarski8550 Місяць тому

    Watching this video as I am literally installing my drip irrigation system-I feel it is going to be a game changer 😊

  • @sandiem5361
    @sandiem5361 Місяць тому

    Love your channel. Just an FYI. It's right around 109 degrees in Glendale AZ at 9 p.m. The only option is to get up at the crack of dawn, which I do for an hour.

  • @natasham.3423
    @natasham.3423 Місяць тому

    Thank you for this video! I was just getting tired of my garden and the thought of quitting crossed my mind. I had no idea there was a term for this. Glad it’s not just me. Thank you again for your wonderful and helpful videos.

    • @TheMillennialGardener
      @TheMillennialGardener  Місяць тому

      We all go through this every year. You’re definitely not alone. The key is to realize it’s a cycle. You’ll feel this way next year at the same time, but you can prepare for it so you know it’s coming.

  • @Juliesmimosa
    @Juliesmimosa Місяць тому +2

    I needed this video, thank you so much!

  • @user-oe2fx6iu7p
    @user-oe2fx6iu7p Місяць тому

    Thank you for your encouraging words

  • @EdimentalGardens
    @EdimentalGardens Місяць тому

    This is a helpful video. I really appreciate the references to mental health because that is a big part of gardening

  • @autumnwolfenbarger8012
    @autumnwolfenbarger8012 Місяць тому

    Thank you so much for this video! I appreciate your positivity, practical tips, and the hope and inspiration you give to keep going. 🙂 I keep threatening to quit gardening, but I’m going to implement some of your tips and see if that makes a difference. Also appreciate the reminder to get some seeds started indoors for fall garden. 🌱

  • @heatherdusek8003
    @heatherdusek8003 Місяць тому

    Your drip irrigation videos were a huge help for us! Your knowledge made the install easy! We are saving so much time & money. We appreciate your videos!