Girl, I had a similar situation at work where I had to set a boundary with an older coworker who kept calling me "little girl." At first, I addressed it kindly, but when it happened again, I was firm. She gaslit me, pretending not to recall our prior conversation, and said, “I’m almost 60, and I wouldn’t mind.” I stood my ground and told her it’s unprofessional. She had an attitude for the longest, but I did not care because I refuse to allow someone to make me uncomfortable in a place where I spend majority of my time! I’ve been very proud of myself because I was once someone who was very meek and way too humble and my health used to suffer tremendously because of it. So cheers to us for demanding our respect! 🥂❤
I feel you in the beginning of the video. I don’t rest until those insects are gone. No one told them to invade my space. 😂 BTW, I’m so proud of you for standing up for yourself.
I'm glad you stood up for yourself!! At the beginning and end of the day you are the only person who can advocate for you in the way you need to be advocated for. Another takeaway I got from what you mentioned about this experience is the type of relationship you build with people because not only the boss's Boss had your back, but he is also ready to move you to a whole other location of your choice. I am proud of you because speaking up is not always easy, but you stood firm in your boundaries. I love what the lady said to you in your early 20s. I feel like moments like that are so needed between Women and young ladies. Congrats on hitting your milestone🎉💐
Honestly you have amazing genes, I mean the girlies are literally getting facelifts to have a face that looks youthful like yours, and others are drinking ozempic and the like to fit in with changing standards. Personally you’re someone I look up to because you love yourself regardless of if people tell you you’re gorgeous or they don’t and that’s inspirational.🌸🌸
Hey gworl! So proud of you for speaking up for yourself! The whole time I was yelling at the tv “Go to HR”!! Lol hoping everything works out in your favor! Also was cackling at the “IRON FIST” comment 😂 you’re hilarious!
Girl your videos are so fun to switch!! You said who’s gonna go to work?! Am I a dedicated employee 😂😂 I feel you on being slim/ not alot if curves and feeling like you don’t look grown. I have a young face too. Everyone tells me to embrace it and they say once I get pregnant the hips and curves will come!
Omg! I'm decently early!! I love having your videos on as I workout. I find you very calming and inspiring, Jacqueline. (I hope my English is not too bad😅)
Girl I started my year off with a lesson in setting boundaries and being my best advocate. I tried being patient in those situations and I finally said enough is enough, I had to speak up for myself to get the results that I wanted. I didn’t have to hoop and holla, but I stayed firm and got the things that I’ve been wanting/waiting for addressed after using my voice. I literally felt lighter and my spirit was calm again
Wow imagine something better coming from an unfortunately uncomfortable situation! Moving to a bigger market like Ca or NY could be the thing to propel you full time in the space! Fingers crossed however it turns out!
you have the seat belt in the lower position, raise it up, the closer the neck it sits the safer it is, if you have it too low then the risk is that it slides off your shoulder during an accident, and then it can hurt you instead
I've had an experience where i made him work and he literally said that he can't read me or tell if I liked him. At that time I asked him why he wasn't speaking to me anymore and he said that time he had pulled back and stopped making effort because of it (not being able to tell if I liked him or not because he can't read me) .
Took me forever and a day to figure out my 5 year plan. Having the outline makes the building process so much easier. I’ll try and make a video about it.
13:24 I hate that we as women are ignored when it comes to things like this, I hate to be called those terms as well it’s very uncomfortable. I’m glad you reported his ssa.
I been following you a long time. Did I miss something, you have a job? I've been in that situation where in a meeting the parent kept calling me (the teacher) she and her. I def had to respectfully put her in her place.
@@chillinwithcharity thank you! I’ve kept it pretty private but I want to be more open this year. And GIRL! When I was self employed, it was so hard for me to create consistently but I’ve learned that I tend to over think. What helps is going through my account and take screenshots of my fave post. And use that to create a content calendar and stick to it.
@@JacquelineJohnette thank you so much for that. Very helpful because I overthink too. Are you a virgo? lol. I have a lot of content in my phone over years that I didnt put into a vlog. Are you a virgo? Keep going queen, can't wait to see what comes from you. Also I like how you repeat clothes. Its sooooo authentic and real. Don't take it as shade b/c I LOVE your style. And would love to see a styling video 😊.
Nope lol especially since her and I have had the conversation. Plus this is my(our) safe space. I’m catching the girls up on the tea without bashing her
Girl, I had a similar situation at work where I had to set a boundary with an older coworker who kept calling me "little girl." At first, I addressed it kindly, but when it happened again, I was firm. She gaslit me, pretending not to recall our prior conversation, and said, “I’m almost 60, and I wouldn’t mind.” I stood my ground and told her it’s unprofessional. She had an attitude for the longest, but I did not care because I refuse to allow someone to make me uncomfortable in a place where I spend majority of my time! I’ve been very proud of myself because I was once someone who was very meek and way too humble and my health used to suffer tremendously because of it. So cheers to us for demanding our respect! 🥂❤
Yesss!!! Cheers to us for speaking up 🥂
Omg this older white guy use to call me girl at work.
Omg this older white guy use to call me girl at work.
I feel you in the beginning of the video. I don’t rest until those insects are gone. No one told them to invade my space. 😂
BTW, I’m so proud of you for standing up for yourself.
Right! It HAD to go lol
I'm glad you stood up for yourself!! At the beginning and end of the day you are the only person who can advocate for you in the way you need to be advocated for. Another takeaway I got from what you mentioned about this experience is the type of relationship you build with people because not only the boss's Boss had your back, but he is also ready to move you to a whole other location of your choice. I am proud of you because speaking up is not always easy, but you stood firm in your boundaries. I love what the lady said to you in your early 20s. I feel like moments like that are so needed between Women and young ladies. Congrats on hitting your milestone🎉💐
Yasss, let me get my snacks ready its an hour baby!
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Honestly you have amazing genes, I mean the girlies are literally getting facelifts to have a face that looks youthful like yours, and others are drinking ozempic and the like to fit in with changing standards. Personally you’re someone I look up to because you love yourself regardless of if people tell you you’re gorgeous or they don’t and that’s inspirational.🌸🌸
The hour long vlogs are everything!
Thank you! So glad you like them!
Hey gworl! So proud of you for speaking up for yourself! The whole time I was yelling at the tv “Go to HR”!! Lol hoping everything works out in your favor! Also was cackling at the “IRON FIST” comment 😂 you’re hilarious!
Girl, that iron had me in a headlock 🤣
Girl your videos are so fun to switch!! You said who’s gonna go to work?! Am I a dedicated employee 😂😂 I feel you on being slim/ not alot if curves and feeling like you don’t look grown. I have a young face too. Everyone tells me to embrace it and they say once I get pregnant the hips and curves will come!
👏🏾👏🏾 so glad that you decided to speak up and set that boundary!!
I’m glad you advocated for yourself! Sometimes you have to skip the chain of commands to have your voice heard! 👏
My show is on! ❤
Omg! I'm decently early!! I love having your videos on as I workout. I find you very calming and inspiring, Jacqueline. (I hope my English is not too bad😅)
Thank you! Your English is great!
Girl I started my year off with a lesson in setting boundaries and being my best advocate. I tried being patient in those situations and I finally said enough is enough, I had to speak up for myself to get the results that I wanted. I didn’t have to hoop and holla, but I stayed firm and got the things that I’ve been wanting/waiting for addressed after using my voice. I literally felt lighter and my spirit was calm again
I love this vlog!! It’s giving vlog and live vibes at the same time 🥳🫶🏾
I'm so glad you loved it!! ❤️
Great VLOG!! I'm so glad you advocated for yourself and hope things get better at your job!!💕And content creation on the east coast could be so fun!!☺
Wow imagine something better coming from an unfortunately uncomfortable situation! Moving to a bigger market like Ca or NY could be the thing to propel you full time in the space! Fingers crossed however it turns out!
Happy New Year girl! Love these vlogs🎉🎉🎉
Same to you sis! I'm so glad you're enjoying them!
B12 shots are amazing
I just imagine you being a NYC girlie idk🥹 like doing city girl vlogs in NewYork, living alone vlogs in NewYork😍😍
Listennnn!!! That would be a DREAM!
NY/NJ would be great for content creation.
"this is not NASCAR, fast car." 😂😂😂😂😂
42:06 Waitttt was that the Kim Possible ring tone? 😅
If you take iron in liquid form it tends to work better with your body - give it a go and see if that helps 🤎 taking iron will have your energy go 📈📈📈
See, that’s what I need. After working out consistently, I’ll be DRAINED. Thank you!
hi, what color do you have on your nails? I love the color
Hi Updated my description box with the information 🩷
Gorgeous! 💕
Thank you so much! ❤️
Were you able to get your car fixed ? ❤
Jacqueline: I have no romantic feelings for a man.
Also Jacqueline: I'm plotting on a man.
💀Get it girl!😂
😂😂😂😂 I stay scheming
@@JacquelineJohnette girrll. 💀😂 keep is in the loop!
you have the seat belt in the lower position, raise it up, the closer the neck it sits the safer it is, if
you have it too low then the risk is that it slides off your shoulder during an accident, and then it
can hurt you instead
OMG! Thank you!
Omg you singing LiAngelo's song😂
Literally STUCK in my head 😂
I've had an experience where i made him work and he literally said that he can't read me or tell if I liked him. At that time I asked him why he wasn't speaking to me anymore and he said that time he had pulled back and stopped making effort because of it (not being able to tell if I liked him or not because he can't read me) .
You have to travel to Namibia, Swakopmund as well.
Yeah, I need a 5 year plan for sure. I know where I want to be, just don't know how to get there.
Took me forever and a day to figure out my 5 year plan. Having the outline makes the building process so much easier. I’ll try and make a video about it.
@@JacquelineJohnette That would be amazing ♥
@@JacquelineJohnetteplease do make a video on this !
Dark outside dark intentions loll
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13:24 I hate that we as women are ignored when it comes to things like this, I hate to be called those terms as well it’s very uncomfortable. I’m glad you reported his ssa.
I am here earlyyyyy guuuurllll
Hey girl hey!
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Careful with that babe, you don't want to risk making yourself unreachable to the man that God has planned for you, lol.
The men that reached out to me wasn’t sent from God 😫. TRUST - when God sends my husband, I’ll be available 🙃
I been following you a long time. Did I miss something, you have a job?
I've been in that situation where in a meeting the parent kept calling me (the teacher) she and her. I def had to respectfully put her in her place.
I’ve always had a job lol. Hoping to go full time this year 🤞🏾
@@JacquelineJohnette I had no idea! I resigned from my job & have a hard time creating content consistently. Love seeing your growth .✨
@@chillinwithcharity thank you! I’ve kept it pretty private but I want to be more open this year. And GIRL! When I was self employed, it was so hard for me to create consistently but I’ve learned that I tend to over think. What helps is going through my account and take screenshots of my fave post. And use that to create a content calendar and stick to it.
@@JacquelineJohnette thank you so much for that. Very helpful because I overthink too. Are you a virgo? lol. I have a lot of content in my phone over years that I didnt put into a vlog. Are you a virgo?
Keep going queen, can't wait to see what comes from you. Also I like how you repeat clothes. Its sooooo authentic and real. Don't take it as shade b/c I LOVE your style. And would love to see a styling video 😊.
I’m curious if you aren’t worried about the person seeing this 😅
Nope lol especially since her and I have had the conversation. Plus this is my(our) safe space. I’m catching the girls up on the tea without bashing her